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Ex files: Reunite or never go back?

I know this coupled up holiday can sometimes have an effect on you. You see red hearts and romance reminders everywhere you look. You can’t make a trip to the grocery store or even the gas station!

These kind of reminders that you are single can make you feel vulnerable, lonely, and a little “randy”. This is when you may consider checking back in with those exes. Or you may even hear from your ex out of the blue. It’s usually the exes that are no good for us but we never truly get out of our systems. Yeah, that one.

What do you do? Is it ever a good idea to reunite with an ex? Is this the time of year to do it?

Have you ever looked up a former flame to offer a little “solace” from a sad Valentine’s Day?

Do you ever feel that you have unfinished business with someone from your past? Would you reunite or decide to never go back?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

232 comments Add your comment

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:36 pm

ex – stop being cheap. there’s some out there for every price point.

Purple

February 10th, 2012
12:40 pm

Leggs, thank you. You are correct. I musth have hit a nerve with CKM. ohhh I was called an “idoit”

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
12:41 pm

Disco?

I doubt it..I would want some j-lo,Opprah,Dianne Sawyer type coochay eve day regular price. U can’t get that if u go on the street to find it. U go on the net instead u might be lucky to get a high prized target looking for working class D… But even if I do,she won’t walk arm in arm with me in public!

disco

February 10th, 2012
12:56 pm

since that is indeed what purple meant I must say I’m way out of rotation. I just envisioned myself trying to double dutch. you know that little lean/bounce you do before you jump in the ropes? I’m out of rotation and so I’m just leaning and bouncing but I can’t seem to get in. dang.

i'm swiss

February 10th, 2012
1:03 pm

Me.lo — You might want to re-think pining for Oprah’s cooch:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t302MbYcQUQ

:lol:

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:12 pm

Swiss..I will open that link at home. Hope it’s good.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:17 pm

It’s corny, Ex (lol).

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:19 pm

Swiss,I opened it but I have no sound on my desk top…read the comments.
saw the Liverpol accent comment..what a coicidence.
I hope it is a good omen for me as we have a massive game with the manu scums tmrw morning on ESP live!

Blogsville pray for meto win please! I apologize to you for everything(I have to if I can count on ur prayers)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:21 pm

You only have to if the apology is sincere…doesn’t sound since to me (LOLOLOL).

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:21 pm

doesn’t sound sincere…

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:31 pm

poppin back in! whew lawd!

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:31 pm

Leggs catch me up please ma’am lol

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:34 pm

Lady?

the only news really is that the price of cooch had shot up astronomically(during ur absence) but now it has stabilized again.

I think u got some to do with it one way or the other! :lol:

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:36 pm

DEAD EX!!!!! I just hollered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOL!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:40 pm

Nothing to catch up on. Ex is looking for prayers to help him win in an event. He’s still talking about his favorite topic…coochie.

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:41 pm

I see chuckle!

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:43 pm

My bad..I quit

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:46 pm

gon be cold this weekend whatchu got planned Lady,Leggs

By the way u shake off the bug Leggs?

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:47 pm

nothing Ex my twin niece and nephew are turning 5~ its a celebration! :)

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:50 pm

Bug is still in me. Worming itself out slowly. Hopefully by weekend I’ll be 100%.

Supposed to go to a 50th b-day party tomorrow, but don’t think that would be a smart thing to do. No plans other than chores.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:54 pm

Nice Lady! It’s a kids party don’t make it a grwon folks party by uall jiving and shacking, debauchery style! :lol: black people! :lol:

Leggs 50th party? Where is that at.. U have a comp invite I would luv to be there…same age folks..

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
1:55 pm

LOLOLOL U so right dude! its all about the kids! its @ the skating rink midday so that is going to work out straight! ha! ;)

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:56 pm

I wonder where SlimNu’s colored and tatted slim butt is at? :lol:

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:56 pm

You can be there if you bring Queen with you!!!!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
1:57 pm

@Ex ~ curious, why are you ending your sentences with “at?”

It reminds me of the “IS” guy…

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:58 pm

Ok give me the info Leggs

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
1:59 pm

To fit in Leggs! Lol

i'm swiss

February 10th, 2012
2:01 pm

Me.lo — I’ll give you the back-story on that link: Oprah’s vajay-jay and @sshole are upset because Oprah is so busy with her career that she is neglecting them. So they mount a plan to disgrace Oprah so that she will lose her show & thus have more time to devote to her vajay-jay (Minge) and @asshole (Gary). :lol: Unfortunately, the plan goes horribly wrong and ends up in a hostage situation. That’s where the clip picks up. :lol:

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:06 pm

Swiss..I’m not listening to u! see 1:19 and the 1:40 reprimand and 1:43 confession

So I am on a( bad word here) :arrow: $&@(/& fasting until after the 7:40 am game tmrw then I re-assess,win or draw!

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:08 pm

@Ex ~ info on my work computer. Not even show if I’m going. If I’ll go, I’ll let Queen know (lol).

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:09 pm

nor SURE….

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:18 pm

I see the medication is kicking in….

Meant NOT SURE….

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
2:29 pm

where did everyone go?!? early friday out?!? lol

kimmie - the original :)

February 10th, 2012
2:43 pm

Just got back from a little shopping, for myself and others. Got baby girl a solar system kit for her school project. Got myself some snazzy nail polish & eyeshadow and some nice-smelling body creme. Subway for lunch.

Whatchall doin?

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
2:46 pm

Will this day ever end?!?!? Then again…not in too much of a hurry…have to go straight from job A to job B and probably won’t get home until after midnight…

Lady~

February 10th, 2012
2:47 pm

my work is done here! Thanks again Bluzgirl! ;) Enjoy your weekend MIA Crew!!! peace out~

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:48 pm

How many dudes in here can tell if a female is giving u or gave u the,’I see U look’ (with a show of hands fellas)

I think I saw a hubby silently showing and flexing his sharp elbows to me coz of the wife.. :lol:

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
2:50 pm

@Ex ~ you probably didn’t see what you thought. A lot of hubby won’t necessarily flex, they’ll step to you and shut you down with the quickness (lololol).

LL411

February 10th, 2012
2:55 pm

>>>>>were never real “friends” to begin with.

My ex-longterm cannot understand why I don’t want to be friends… Fool you had the #1 spot and you blew it. May I’d think differently if you hadn’t said or did or didn’t do somethings that made me realize you really didn’t like me all that much.

I’ll say it again… I value quality over quanity every time, some just don’t get it.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
2:55 pm

Maybe…….
I didn’t do none other than look(I happened to be facing that direction,kinda sideways to them)

Bluzgirl

February 10th, 2012
3:15 pm

Looks like the blog has died for the day. Have a good weekend everyone…

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
3:22 pm

Everyone have a great weekend. Get your candy, flowers and dinner dates lined up. Just remember who you asked out and don’t mix locations up (lolol). I’d bet lots of people will be cold busted this V-day.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
3:27 pm

Leggs?

Re 3:22

The best playas will promise All the bench warmers(individually ofcourse) that he is picking
them up at 8:00 pm tonite for dinner….meanwhile he’s out at that time with First lady or first lady for the day.

That makes the coast Very Clear!

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:36 pm

Okay…let me skim to catch up

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:47 pm

Okay not sure what happened to my post…I’ll say it again…

Nothing much happening, yesterday was Friday’s eve and happening…draining today of it’s blog juice…lol

Newbies, watchers, l@rkers…pay these folks no mind. Take it with a grain of salt or not at all. Better yet, don’t put out there stuff folks are gonna pounce on.

Aha! I said “L@RKER” and my post went missing.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
3:48 pm

Because we all know for fun if nothing else this place can be called “if she did it, she’s a ho” central…no matter what “it” is. If you breath, you caused the demise of something…lol Brush it aside and keep blogging and living.

Leggs

February 10th, 2012
3:59 pm

I agree, Ex. To get picked up by 8:00, and you’re not a couple, he probably spent the day with someone special, hoping you would be his midnight snack. It could go either way. He got the FWB out of the way during the day to spend time with the special one at night.

Exiled!

February 10th, 2012
4:00 pm

Cel?
So u saying be a Ho but keep it on the low low?

‘if she did it she’s a ho’
:lol:

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:08 pm

MMeelloo – What I’m saying is what I said.

Celisea

February 10th, 2012
4:09 pm

Take it, like it, lick it, lump it…or don’t :)