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Lingerie a risky gift?

That so called “romantic holiday” that is less than a week away has some people all in a tizzy. When you are in the “casual dating” stage, things may be a little confusing on which way to go. What do you do when you aren’t exclusive, but definitely more than just friends, and headed toward romance?

One reader wants to know if he should purchase lingerie for a woman he has feelings for and wants to let her know. I don’t think lingerie is a good gift idea for someone you are just dating. It can be a risky option since it sort of screams “I want to see you in it for about 30 seconds” – which may be the point, but is it the right time?

Are their certain gifts that you should definitely steer clear from just to be safe?

Have you ever given or received lingerie or sexy items as a gift from someone you were seeing? How did you/they react?

What is the sexiest thing someone has ever given you?

A guy once gave me a porn video. Seriously, he literally gift wrapped the thing! I’m no prude (by any stretch of the imagination) but that did not win me over.

Here is a tip for you: Never give porn to someone you actually want to impress. You’re welcome.

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Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:05 pm

I’m still sitting here so Imma answer you. She’s white. There’s a picture on his desk along with 4 kids. But I ain’t jokie jokie about nothing. I don’t play with this kind of thing with office workers, especially married ones. Can you imagine something popping off? I can be a handful if I’m EVER ticked off. I don’t think he could handle me…lol

Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:07 pm

I see shoes again to the right off the screen!!!

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:08 pm

I see dead people….

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:09 pm

Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:09 pm

LOL….stooop Leggs

He’s coming to me now

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:11 pm

How’s his body language? Is there a “glint” in his eyes? lol

Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:17 pm

I stood up so he wouldn’t walk all the way over. We’re talking business right now…lol I can’t believe I’m posting a play by play. He stopped to grab his phone.

Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:18 pm

I’m gonna scoot on out and head to the RR, so he won’t walk all the way over.

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:19 pm

Whats an RR? Oh, nevamind…

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:22 pm

Hope he’s not lurking waiting for you to come out of RR.

Celisea

February 9th, 2012
6:26 pm

Naaah, he’s on the phone with the ballplayer. Actually if it wasn’t for him the ballplayer wouldn’t have hit his goals this year. But no, it was just business.

Alright, I’m gonna scoot where he’s on the phone. Night Leggs!!

I did see the shoes again…lol

Leggs

February 9th, 2012
6:27 pm

Good nite, Celisea…leave the pills home tomorrow!