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Dating: Should you stay or go?

Sometimes you know the exact moment that your relationship is over. It’s possible that is the point where you realize the only thing you two have is good sex. I won’t pretend that good sex will make you hang on a lot longer than you should, it happens. A lot.

The question then becomes how long will it take before the relationship with great sex is not satisfying all the other needs? Do you think it is wrong to stay in a relationship when the only thing you enjoy about it is the sex and little else?

I think most people would agree that bad sex is a deal breaker, but should it be a deal breaker when the sex is great but the relationship is not?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

311 comments Add your comment

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
7:41 am

Morning,

Diva you gotta ask? lol

I have been here. I can’t take the credit for repeating something like this but um yeah (hand raised)……guilty. I think my run with the kid’s dad was the run of everything gone wrong, done wrong and just plain stupid. I don’t think there’s one area (at some point) where we were civil yet we managed to have more than sex…lol We humped, screwed, tango’d, was sexed up….need I go on? But definitely a deal breaker. I’m a big girl now. If we can’t play nice we won’t play in any other areas. DEAL BREAKER

Foxy

January 25th, 2012
8:31 am

Foxy thinks Good Sex too soon and Bad Sex too long will kill any relationship!

GM Kids!

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
8:34 am

Good morning!

Do you think it is wrong to stay in a relationship when the only thing you enjoy about it is the sex and little else? – Most definitely. Why block your blessing to meet someone new because you’re lying on your back in an otherwise unfilled relationship?

Mr. Unknown

January 25th, 2012
8:35 am

Yeah, basically friends with benefits. Do you think it is wrong to stay in a relationship when the only thing you enjoy about it is the sex and little else? Yes, most people (me) found themselves holding on long enough until they are ready to start dating the new interest.

Good Morning.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
8:46 am

If you’re comfortable with the “transition” status, then you know what it is. However, if you’re in it because you’re afraid of letting go, or being alone, than you’re doing yourself a major disservice.

Kym

January 25th, 2012
8:50 am

Good Morning All,

Been there..done that….and that..and that..got an Oscar. Yes it is wrong, because you are cheating yourself out of happiness and wasting your own time..trying to hang on to the good diggity..not worth it.

LL411

January 25th, 2012
8:51 am

A relationship without compromise were both parties needs are not being met outside the bedroom is a no go. I’m guilty of hanging on too long, but not anymore. I don’t know of a specific timeframe for leaving, but we all know when we’ve had enough.

My moving on came one evening sitting across from him watching him talk on the phone… I thought to myself this is the last time I’ll see him… we’d been together quite awhile, and it was sadding, but that was all the closure I needed.

Nine months later, he’s still calling (not taking calls), and texting (not returning) wanting to know what he did that was so bad… I’m so done that rehashing past conversations, grievances, etc. it’s not worth putting any energy into anymore.

LL411

January 25th, 2012
8:53 am

Blocked blessings.. not anymore. Started off 2012 on the good foot, I’m gud!

disco

January 25th, 2012
9:06 am

hey y’all. I’m operating on little sleep and so slightly “funky” this morning. as such I’ll say that – me, myself, personally – I’m out. won’t be wasting anyone’s time. on the flip side – some of these relationships (granted I’m on the outside looking in) are raggedy because they involve raggedy people. I figure the dating pool is complicated enough without the raggedy couples breaking up and adding more raggedy to the dating pool. as far as I’m concerned they can stay together and drag it out as long as they want to and then tack on an extra month for good measure.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
9:19 am

Mr Unknown – I didn’t think the premise of Diva’s post was FWB. I thought she was speaking in the realm being in a relationship where nothing else is common or jives but sex. Although FWB can fit the profile of nothing in common but sex.

kimmie

January 25th, 2012
9:33 am

Morning All!

I must say, in reading the topic the first thing I thought about was FWB. That’s really this type of situation is and actually calling it FWB is giving it more credit than it’s worth. You probably aren’t even F – friends if nothing else is being fulfilled. The mistake is calling it a “relationship”. Is it wrong to stay? As long as both of you understand what’s going on, who’s to say it’s wrong? If one is not getting anything out of it but the physical and the other is thinking they are in a full-blown relationship that’s moving forward, then Houston we have a problem. If one or both of you want something more substantial, well you are grown. When you get tired of pretending and get serious about going after what you “supposedly” want, then you’ll do something about it and quit the whining.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
9:47 am

The end result is the same but there’s a difference in going in knowing nothing but smashing versus coming to and ending up doing nothing but smashing. For relationships, if nothing else there’s a history. My ex and I didn’t evolve to that point until a few years had passed and that thing had run it’s course.

Mr. Unknown

January 25th, 2012
9:48 am

Its surprising to read some of the comments, or interesting should I say. @ Celisea FWB falls under this category, I think every relationship should start with some sort of ground level friendship. Just because the love is gone doesn’t mean the friendship is out the window. But as Kimmie stated you have to both be on the same page.

Some people need a patch to quit smoking, some people quit cold turkey. I say to each his own.

kimmie

January 25th, 2012
9:57 am

Celisea, what you are describing and I guess what the topic is describing, is the demise of a lot of relationships then. The 2 involved grow apart and all they have left is the physical. They probably always had a good physical relationship. Bottom line, you still have to communicate with each other about where your heads are. Would it be wrong to stay if the sex was bad but you get along great and like the companionship. Is it wrong to stay if you’re only getting fulfilled financially? Does each and every aspect of the relationship have to be on point for it to be deemed “right” to stay?

Maybe I’m just looking at it all too simplistically, but the topic just isn’t that deep. When 2 grown folks get tired of going thru the motions, they do something about it. As long as everyone’s eyes are open, who’s to say what’s wrong with staying?

Audra

January 25th, 2012
9:58 am

I know when it’s over when there isn’t any more sex, or at least not good sex! I am different, I guess. If the emotional isn’t there for me, then the physical can’t be either. So if I have no desire to get it on, it’s over. :)

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
9:58 am

I agree the end result is the same. I just think there’s nothing to be said or had or done if you go in knowing what it is. I think the premise of today’s post is speaking to coming to a realization that you’re just wasting your time. Folks just smashing with nothing else intended set that expectation….lol

Mr. Unknown

January 25th, 2012
10:00 am

My class is finally over, Hasta luego good people. Now off to work… Boooo!!

SlimNu

January 25th, 2012
10:01 am

Good morning,

Holding on to a situation merely hanging by a sex string is only prolonging the inevitable. After each climax is reached, the issues will still remain and you’re left still feeling unfulfilled.

Who sponsored breakfast today, I’m starving?

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
10:04 am

I just thought Diva was asking is it a deal breaker if you all you’ve come to is smashing with nothing else really left. I for one need the physically but even more so, I need an emotional connection. FWB don’t have deal breakers…..I would think.

Okay….done here. I was just trying to spark some harmless debate :)

kimmie

January 25th, 2012
10:07 am

Celisea – Yeah, it is a dealbreaker, I guess it’s just a matter of “when”!LOL!!

Yeah, it would have to be more, much more for me too. But I’ve been there, prolonging the inevitable, even when the physical was not there, go figure!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
10:09 am

Kimmie – I know right……closet full of tshirts….lol

Kym

January 25th, 2012
10:14 am

Well if the question is if now in my present state of mind..would it be a deal breaker then the answer is yes..now if you asked Kym from ten years ago..heck even two years ago..she would say..hmm it don’t bother me so much..Growth is a strange thang.

disco

January 25th, 2012
10:16 am

and let’s not forget the ability of some folks to get all their needs met by different folks. so they’ve got the one that they sleep with, the one that they hang out with, the one that they get money from, the one that “insert need here”.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
10:18 am

Quite unfournate, they found the body of Ms. Stacey English.

disco

January 25th, 2012
10:18 am

kym –what’s the opposite of growth? would it be shrinkage? then we’d be saying shrinkage is a strange thing and then someone would open up a whole new can of worms. still, folks do grow and folks do revert back. I need a word. kimmie – I still use validation. maybe you can come up with a word here.

kimmie

January 25th, 2012
10:24 am

disco – opposite of growth? Invalidation!

definition of Invalidation – your relationship is now invalid, cause it’s not going anywhere or fulfilling a need.

:)

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
10:30 am

How do u get a man to hump u,smell his breath,flip over etc But u don’t want him no more?

do u even get wet when he fingers u down there,if u aren’t interested in him any more?

Unless he just goes for the jagular :lol: seeing it’s a favorite? :lol:

@disco..opposite if growth? in the context of the topic,it’s soft.

don’t mind me..back to j o b

Kym

January 25th, 2012
10:33 am

I do believe today is a Wish Day…cause I just had a flash forward..I wish a MF would try to choke me doing sex..He gonna leave there carry his jewels in his pocket..

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
10:35 am

Mmello – We are still human

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
10:40 am

just kidding Celisea,men do worse actually

just for the sake of a u… u…..u…. nutt! :lol:

I’m gone for real

disco

January 25th, 2012
10:44 am

kimmie – I don’t think invalidation works for me. considering I use validation as the code word for getting some, invalidation would simply mean not getting any. not what I was looking for.

kym – don’t sleep on the choking.

kimmie

January 25th, 2012
10:46 am

SlimNu

January 25th, 2012
10:47 am

Leggs – did they say the cause of death?

Kym

January 25th, 2012
10:50 am

@disco..I have control issues..I know me in heat and out of heat..and I am not giving up the need for fresh air..I don’t care how big of a O it gets..joker put his hands on my throat..one of us is going to jail and the other is going to hell..and I don’t like it too be too hot..soooo..

disco

January 25th, 2012
11:03 am

jail and hell. enough said.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
11:08 am

@SlimNu ~ found her body “wedged” under a tree, but cause is still a mystery. My question is did someone put her body there or did a tree fall on her???

@disco/Kym ~ no joker is choking me. How do you get the “safe” word out??

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
11:11 am

but should it be a deal breaker when the sex is great but the relationship is not? IMO yes, bc most times for me we were on two different pages and its a waste of time, energy, and stress. I have learned you can’t make a FWB an exclusive relationship. it is dead weight.

If two adults can swing with it and remain on the same page I salute them~ ;)

Kym

January 25th, 2012
11:13 am

@Leggs..I would guess there is no safe word…the face turning colors like a stobe light and your eyes bugging out are the code..

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:18 am

MMeello – I know…lol

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
11:24 am

Exclusive FWB!

@Lady….come On Now! :lol:

humping u and only u…but no talking when on the streets.

I used to have that one (exclusive j o b fwb) at a prior j o b actually.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:30 am

I always feel the FWB is skewed. IMO so many men work tirelessly for ass and just handed it via a FWB channel makes me not want to do it cause it’s just too dang easy. Then again maybe folks wanting to just get off shouldn’t be complicated….lol

Just saying in the age of laying for ass, shenanigans for ass, FWB plays too much to a person’s favor that’s lazy any.

Okay what am I talking about here? Mmeelloo made me go there.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
11:31 am

Hey Lady!

@Kym ~ you’re right, but I’ll never find out!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:33 am

lying for ass not laying….maybe I have “getting laid” on the brain…lol

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
11:34 am

Hey Leggs!!!!!!

LOL that is my point Ex its either or and I wanted more so it never became nothing but I hear ya! too funny!

Fion

January 25th, 2012
11:35 am

@Celisea
So, since you are there, exactly who are you saving it for???

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
11:35 am

C very correct sis!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:44 am

Fion – You know, I have to be honest….I’m not of the “saving” it mindset. Really I’m not. You’re right..saving for what. I just don’t hand it out. So, if I’m in a relationship and we’re feeling it, let’s make it happen. I just can’t do thing IMO that comes off as foolish. I think if I wasn’t such a sissy and caught feelings easily I might would have a whole different mindset.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
11:44 am

What do you think of State of the Union Speech last night?

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
11:45 am

Morning, all! Happy Hump Day.

jail and hell. enough said.

That made me LOL.

In the past I’ve let a bad relationship linger, but I can’t see me doing that again. ITL’s Life Lesson #303: Life is too short to allow yourself to remain in an unhappy situation. Happiness is a ship, and you are the captain – leave the past in your wake and sail on to your happy tomorrow.

disco

January 25th, 2012
11:45 am

re: saving it. my mother said once that it’s not like you’ll ever run out of it.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:45 am

Hello Lady!!

abc

January 25th, 2012
11:46 am

Personally, all the mojo has to be flowing before I’m into sex — why would you want to have sex with someone you didn’t like that much? So, you’d stick around someone just to get laid?! That’s pretty nuts.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
11:48 am

@Celisea
Cool. I read your 11:30 post with laying in it and it through me for a second. I didn’t see your correction until after I typed my post.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
11:50 am

Sorry, jumped the gun, it’s not even noon yet.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
11:51 am

threw you…

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
11:51 am

Gotcha Fion

Abc – Yep

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
11:54 am

LOL@disco’s 11:45

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
12:07 pm

@Leggs…I listened to Obams thru out the address and it was really good especially when ge concluded it.

Listening to him I think he’s gon have a landslide!

Celisea/Lady I think at some point,especially when u get to 40+ u don’t wanna get booed up just for the record. It looks rather pathetic. If not desperate..look at Demi or Aretha thing.
Now a lady ought to have an Opprah/Steadman type deal..not booed,going steady and getting some. Every person(woman) deserves Dick..whether legit/church type or other,D is D. It’s only natural! Why be miserable?

At least have a friend that u can have a 2 way relationship with and u two define it

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
12:08 pm

He concluded it

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
12:13 pm

LOL Ex I am not there yet….I am almost to an exclusive relationship currently so I wanna enjoy a successful relationship before I have to deal with another FWB if that makes sense. I truly get your point though……

Purple

January 25th, 2012
12:14 pm

I have to be into a person before I have sex with them and if two people care enough about each other bad sex can be groomed into great sex. But sex has never been a reason for me to stay in a relationship…not as long as I have two hands to get me through the lonely nights.

Ladies may not ever run out of it but you might want to save it so that it does not lose it “snapback” factor. LOL!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
12:16 pm

Mmeello – I agree. It’s just silly to me to be wasteful (of your goods)….lol

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
12:17 pm

LOL C!

Hey Purple!

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
12:18 pm

@Ex ~ as soon as he concluded his speech the backlash was immediate!

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
12:18 pm

Afternnon All –
On topic – when you start asking the question should I stay or go it is officially a wrap. The problem is most of the time after a few heartbreaks (women esp) have an escape plan from the jump. Instead of living in the moment they are looking for the deal breaker. JMO

New Discussion – Now for me personally, Sex is Sex. A means to an end. If you wanna keep me then you gotta get me Mentally with or without the sex. My Krptonite is the connections I have fully clothed and they have been more satisfying than any nut. Sex really is just a quickie in the grand scheme of things. My Mental is a Tantric experience.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
12:26 pm

WillieD – I agree

I agree too on the snapback factor…lol I’m not feeling like I want to be the abyss…just a big ole black whole. Nothing to do with “saving” it per se. Friction is a much needed thing. I don’t want a dude have to do the hoola hoop motion just to feel the walls. I’m just saying. Not trying to be fresh.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
12:26 pm

My Krptonite is the connections I have fully clothed and they have been more satisfying…

Now that’s hot!

Purple

January 25th, 2012
12:28 pm

Lady, hello how are you? :)

Celisea, LOL

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
12:31 pm

Purple – :) You feel me

Purple

January 25th, 2012
12:32 pm

It’s tight…I feel you! ;)

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
12:36 pm

I hope none of u adult ladies have a nose rings

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
12:37 pm

Great comeback, PR!

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
12:41 pm

Careful there PR..C might be a lil stiff there

she ain’t felt in a minute :lol:

and gently please…work with her..

Purple

January 25th, 2012
12:47 pm

Leggs, LOL I am waiting on Celisea to put me in my place…pun intended.

Exiled, you are wild!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
12:55 pm

PR and Exiled – Both of ya’ll to the corner…

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
12:55 pm

I’m at a loss for words. I know I know, don’t take much…lol Honestly I wasn’t trying to be fresh.

SexyCool

January 25th, 2012
12:59 pm

Today’s great fun – an applicant who can’t read. When directed to complete some forms, he started saying that his eyes were giving him some problems and asked if he could take the forms with him. I told him that the forms had to be completed in the office and that he could return when his eyes were no longer bothering him.

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

January 25th, 2012
1:01 pm

As to the topic, after experiencing Hump-Hump-Come and the NonExistent Member, Um….yeah…no, I’ll pass on ever having those experiences ever again in life.

Back to grinding…

Jill

January 25th, 2012
1:02 pm

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
12:26 pm
My Krptonite is the connections I have fully clothed and they have been more satisfying…

Now that’s hot!

I agree!

Before I got married, I put myself in a stay position. All for the D. Just simply dickamatized. It was beautiful for a minute, until I realized outside of the bedroom and fully clothed I didn’t like him very much. I think he felt the same way about me in the end :lol: Live, Learn and Do Better.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:09 pm

I nominate “dickmatized” as word of the day. Do I have a second?

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:11 pm

Yall are all crazy…Do you all begin to freak out a little when the frequency of sex starts to slope on a decline? Or do you chuck it up to just the flow of a long term relationship?

Anyone hear Salt & Peppa on the Tom Joyner morning show? Peppa said she was at one time holding out on sex for a meaningful relationship. But she said she was not going to do it again because once she finally got physical with the guy that it was WACK. Said it was like those new mini-chicken nuggets at Mcdonalds :shock:

cba

January 25th, 2012
1:12 pm

SC~ please say the person was an immigrant and didn’t speak/read english.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:18 pm

*****PSA******

Please don’t ever be too busy to take the time to tell and those you care about how you feel.

RIP Officer Gail Thomas

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:18 pm

^tell and show

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
1:19 pm

ITL its been a gloomy week with bad news and deaths………good post 1:18 :)

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:20 pm

I recently found out my 74 year old granny only made it to 3rd grade, and even she can read & write. I guess there are still some folks out there that got passed along through the system.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:21 pm

Peppa has probably lost all of her elasticity…good thing she has a big mouth.

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

January 25th, 2012
1:21 pm

An immigrant who barely speaks and has a very limited understanding of the English language. I kept having to ask him the same question in two or three different forms to get an answer.

I’m trying to figure out how this individual has been able to be employed at several different companies on this campus for nearly 12 years.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:24 pm

Purp – Maybe she lost it at first but then she was celibate for some years, so I heard. As far as experiencing that wack weenie, I’m sure it’s probably back to slinky status now. lol

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:24 pm

An immigrant from where?

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

January 25th, 2012
1:25 pm

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:26 pm

Slim which on is is Peppa? The tall one or the short one?

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:29 pm

@Lady: Stories like that really hurt. It’s tough to imagine how it would be to get that phone call. I guess we never think that we might say “goodbye” in the morning, and those be the final words we tell the ones we love.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:29 pm

Peppa is the tall one that acts the craziest and is always sort of borderline raunchy. Salt is all the way PG-13 now, into church and family mainly.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:29 pm

@SexyC ~ wow, what a chance to take when applying for a job.

@ITL ~ I’ll second….

Jill

January 25th, 2012
1:30 pm

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:21 pm
Peppa has probably lost all of her elasticity…good thing she has a big mouth.

LOL! :lol:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:31 pm

I believe Pepa said she was celibate for 6 or 7 years.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:32 pm

On purpose????

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
1:32 pm

There was a Hatian and Afrikaan selected for the jury

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

I think by grace folks get along and move along when educationally they are not equipped with those essential basic tools needed for performing jobs and tasks. I ain’t talking about trifling folks. I’m talking about folks where a way was made or opened when all odds went against.

That’s just me though.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

Yep, on purpose.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:36 pm

I don’t believe her being celibate for that long. I remember seeing a youtube video of her deep throating a banana a few years ago

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:36 pm

:shock: Are you serious???

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:37 pm

A real banana or a banana with hair?

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:38 pm

A real banana it was from that show called the surreal life or something.

SALT-N-PEPA star SANDRA ‘PEPA’ DENTON gave her co-stars on US reality show THE SURREAL LIFE a thrill, when she swallowed a whole large banana.

The PUSH IT hitmaker, who appears in the latest season of the show alongside JANICE DICKINSON, CAPRICE, OMAROSA MANIGAULT-STALLWORTH, fallen baseball star JOSE CANSECO and PINK’s boyfriend CAREY HART, was riding in a van when she decided to show her talents.

Initially, the Jamaican rapper innocently explained, “I’m only eating a banana… I’m just trying to see it if I can eat the banana in one time.”

She successfully pushed the whole fruit into her throat as her co-stars screamed in unison, before spitting it back out.

Stunned blonde beauty Caprice says, “Oh my God! She’s gonna be asked out on so many dates. You have no idea!”

http://www.contactmusic.com/news-article/pepa-stuns-with-banana-devouring-skills

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:39 pm

My mistake, her celibacy went on for four years.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:40 pm

I won’t even view that, would probaby make me gag and bring my lunch to the surface.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:41 pm

Dang, Gina!! :shock:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:44 pm

I wonder if her celibacy included ‘oral transactions & heavy petty’ as well or if she had a green light for everything other than penetration

Fion

January 25th, 2012
1:45 pm

Exactly how does one stumble on to the fact that they can really sallow a banana? Things that make you go “hum”!!!!

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

January 25th, 2012
1:47 pm

The incident where I actually found out that he could not read was over a week ago. In the interim, I have had several conversations with my manager and HR at corporate to see what can reasonably be done as it is evident that he has had some sort of assistance in the past.

The concession that we made would be that we would bring him back into the office and that I would direct him on how to complete the form. When he arrived at my office today, even with my instruction, he could not fill in the forms. This was with me saying to him, “Put your height here.” He wrote in 150. When I directed him to put “Male or Female.” He asks, “W or B?”

Whatdahell?!?!?

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
1:52 pm

@Slim?

In ‘heavy petty’ mode,what typical happens?

So if ur cooter is licked,u celibate still?

trifling I tell u!! :lol:

How can u profess celibate when infact u were up side down, butt nekkid,,ur toes getting curled? :lol:

Who is strong enough to be greased but stops just short? :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:54 pm

Leggs there is no video on that link it’s just the story.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
1:55 pm

Scool?

So are u a Mentally Retarded Specialist?

:lol: :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:56 pm

@Ex: you might be surprised what some folks will do to hold on to the “celibate” title. Same for virginity. A friend of mine dated this girl who told him it was really important to her that she remain a virgin, so they could only have anal sex.

Talk about arguing semantics! Sheesh!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:00 pm

Exiled – I meant to say heavy petting, not petty. That includes, dry humping, touching, rubbing, kissing etc. I was not including ‘cooter licking’ into heavy petting.

As far as your question: So if ur cooter is licked,u celibate still?, Why not ask your fellow bloggers and see what they say…Does getting an earmuffilectomy mean you are no longer celibate???

And Ex, you’re wrong for the Retarded Specialist question. To the corner you go or either sit under the stairs with BF for a few, your choice

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:00 pm

@ITL
I’ve told the story here before. I knew a chick that was virgin at 26yrs old, but she’d blown damn near very dude between here and Kansas.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:01 pm

ITL – WOW, that seems like a far stretch!!!!!! She jumped from the orchestra pit to the balconey in one swoop. :shock:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

Dang, Fion! Did you tell her “Try not to s#ck any d#ck in the parking lot???”

(It’s a Clerks reference, for the non-Kevin Smith fans in the crowd)

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

ITL?

that’s lying to oneself really..so did ur friend just hit there(poop chute) as directed. ..in the hope ofcourse that she wld change her mind? :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

In some cultures women are considered virgins if their vagina is not penetrated. So anal and oral is okay. I don’t understand that but it’s not for me to.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:03 pm

Shoot, Slim, she had a backstage pass!! (really no pun intended, but it made me giggle when I re-read it)

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:03 pm

@PR ~ cool. I got the story, she can swallow a banana…nothng more to read about it.

Here’s another story: http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/television/crass-answer-schlong-shocks-family-feud-contestants-article-1.1011314

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:05 pm

@Ex – I believe that is exactly what he did.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:05 pm

@ Purp
I hear ya, but man oh man could that girl perform on the “mike”.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:06 pm

Fion, lol well that’s not a bad thing per se

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

Any person involved in the smuggling of a pickle into a butt is just gross. Well that’s my opinion.

cba

January 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

I will never forget the press conference: finger pointing……I DID NOT have sex with that woman.
So Mr president, explain the the stain on her dress :shock:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

Leggs, the pic with that article is priceless. I would have had the same reaction. Good grief – I can’t believe they even put that on the answer board.

Speaking of celibacy, Tim Gunn from Project Runway says he’s been celibate for 29 years. YEARS, I said, 29 YEARS.

disco

January 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

re: snapback factor. come on – if chicks can rebound from high birth weight babies how much stretching do you really think the average man is going to cause? heck, even the bigger than average man isn’t as big as the smaller than average baby. my theory is that if a fellow is swimming in it he’s likely short to begin with.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:12 pm

@Purp
Hold on, some women actually like that.

Just Sayin’

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:14 pm

And I respect their right to like it, Fion, but for me, that runway is reserved for departures only.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

So Purp,u tell me when u in the throes of joy,u don’t lick Julia’s hyway from cooter to backcooter and back? I mean comeon !

Its not like she ain’t clean..she took a shower!
folks please tell the truf nothing but the truf here..

Now licking a new chic even the first time..I don’t know how u guys can muster that courage?

I would need to be high in liqor! :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

ITL – If he claims to have been celibate for 29yrs, he must mean that was the last time he has penetrated a female. But he’s probably been bent over 100 times since then :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:18 pm

if chicks can rebound from high birth weight babies how much stretching do you really think the average man is going to cause?

disco – Some guys have that GONZO so it may cause a bit more ‘damage’ or stretching that just a mere long schlong may cause. lolololol It’s no different than driving on a windy ass road. They don’t put those caution signs up for nuttin’

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:19 pm

@Mello
Dude that ain’t ya everyday lickin’. There’s an orderly process to lickin’ ya know. We got to build up to that type of Freakdom.

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
2:21 pm

O_o lol Fion and Ex!

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Fion!

I withdraw that cmoment!

I dont want MIA women to declare a fatwa(prohibited immigrant) on me! :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Now licking a new chic even the first time..I don’t know how u guys can muster that courage?

Exiled – You would be surprised at how fast dudes like to licky licky new cookies.

How long do you blog fellows like to wait before you take a trip downtown to Cooterville?? Hmmmm?

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:23 pm

@cba ~ what I remember most from Clinton is the footage the always show of him in the crowd greeting his constituents and there’s Monica glowingly looking at him . I remember saying to my gf, “that look in her eyes is one of lust.” Then, the story broke.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:24 pm

Ex there is a difference between licking and sticking.

disco, i dont care what you say a cooch can have to many miles on it and lose it’s shape. A baby is an isolated experience that does happen or 7 times a week.

Fion, just not my cup of tea.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

@Slim
“You would be surprised at how fast dudes like to licky licky new cookies.”

Now, that’s just plain nasty!!!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

Slim if I know her well enough to have sex I know her well enough to do any and everything sexual. I don’t understand the give sex but don’ do oral until I know you better crap

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

“Its not like she ain’t clean..she took a shower!
folks please tell the truf nothing but the truf here..”

Me.lo — You want the truf? YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUF!!!! :lol: Maaaaan…. For Mrs. Swiss (and only Mrs. Swiss), her “hyway” gets licked front to back and back again, all around, under, over, all up in there… :lol:

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:27 pm

“I don’t see nothing wrong”(R. Kelly)
with a sexual only relationship I know it’s taboo. Happens more than we realize, if you find out you’re in one, you hung on too long.

What A Day Howdy Y’all:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:27 pm

@JustMe ~ I read that article at Gunn and took from it that his ego was shattered to the point of no return. Along with the AIDS epidemic he just backed off from sex and haven’t even been bent over. Probably back then he was a very sensitive gay man and has developed his semi-tough skin through trial and error.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:31 pm

Every woman that I have ever slept with has recieved a proper tongue lashing.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:32 pm

disco:

Ouch is all I can say.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

LOL…..@Purple

Most women deserve a tongue lashiing every now and then.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

Leggs – Speaking of AIDs, I read somewhere that they are trying to make it mandatory that porn stars all strap up from now on. (not that you are a porn watcher or anything, but it just made me think of that) Mr. Gunns always looks like he needs to loosen up a bit. I’d like to see him cut up and let his hair down. “Make it work” lol

Purp – Some folks see putting their mouth on someone else wilderness to be a bit more ‘dirty’, intimate, fluid exchanging highway. I guess if you were to use a dental dim that it would be synonymous with wearing a condom.

Back in the day folks would be embarrased to let anyone else know they did the oral thang. Now folks profess their like for it any and everywhere.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

I come from under the stairwell and fall into the pitts…….LOL My life is just wonderful.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

@Disco!

If Disco doesn’t come back with a good response to Purp’s 2:24,ima starting to prep the tape measure so we get her cooter digits,width and depth!

Annual MIA statistics project!

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

Would you be offended if a man covered your vigina with a dental dam?

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

@Swiss that’s what imtalkbout!

Hey u run some SQL,I need a class

Maybe Dreams too

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

Hey Ex I’mma have to back you up on that.

cba

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Leggs~ he also gave her a hug.
Did you hear about someone in SW ATL won 71mil on mega millions.
That’s about three years for Romney.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Purple – I’m supporting your 2:24

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Fion?

that’s for Slim or the MiA house? 2:38?

well Slim firstv then errbody else. :lol:

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:40 pm

Slim or anyone.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

The part about not birthing 7 times a day…lol

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Tongue lashings!! YAY!! :)

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Yall are really tripping today.
Its not the chicks you expect it from (hood-rats, scrippas, neighbor-hood fun girls etc) that surprise you. Its the ones that catch you off guard. The reserved chick waiting on a good man attending church 2x a week that surprise me. Don’t be fooled by the conversation on here daily but its some serious licking and sticking going on.

I’ll go further to say that its a two way street. For the chicks that don’t give dome it’s a regular average chick thats great at it and your dude will eventually come across her. For you dudes that think only slangin is holding it down. Well its a dude out there that don’t mind getting the sticky face and yor chick will eventually cross paths with him. IJS

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
2:44 pm

Do they make dental dams that will fit that CT? :lol: (j/k Slim — you know of luvs you and your CT) :lol:

Me.lo — Well, I’m no DBA, but I know enough SQL to function as a software developer. So depending on the level of depth you need, I might be able to help you out.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

WD…….LOL

Preach it brother, there is a sermon going on in this house.

disco

January 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

purple – well I know one of my grandmothers has 12 children and the other has10. neither of my grandfathers bailed out. now I agree that the cooch can get high mileage but I don’t know if I’m buying into the whole it’s stretched out so much that old boy can’t feel anything (and if he can’t i still put the blame on him). nope. can’t go for that one.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:49 pm

I find it hard to believe that a person has only experience ho-ing with church women. I see hoes on a regular and they ain’t church women. Too it depends on what you call church women. Folks showing up and doing everything they ain’t big enough to do ain’t really church folks. Church women hitting the clubs ain’t church folks. Church women that never have a change in venue, scenery, behavior, company, environment and just attend on Sundays….ain’t church women. Maybe we should get that cleared up.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:50 pm

Willie D, just last night at 2am I got a text that read “are you up? I’m feelin some kinda way” I asked who is this. It was a woman from down south that I pleased 2 years ago. Yeah she got a good sticking and lashing and wanted some more over two years later. It was good for the ego, had to delete those msgs really quick. I saved the picture that was sent with it though. LMAO

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:51 pm

Me.lo – Aye Swiss, WTH was in that code?

Swiss – Why you ask.

Me.lo- I just ran that script and cut off the lights from
Ivan Allen Blvd. to Pharr Rd.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:54 pm

Man what’s wrong T. O. dude say he went throught 80 mil and is broke and all his posse done left him.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

@ BF
A fool and his money will soon part.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

Why didn’t he have learned a thing or two from Hammer.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

disco ask a man who has slept with a woman before and after she has had a child there is a difference. Also everyman has had a whore experience at somepoint and ask him how that cooch felt in relation to a non whore. Or ask a guy who slept with a women as they were both teenagers and then hooked back up with said woman as an adult. There is a difference.

Imagine a rubber band, you can stretch it around something large occasionally and then take it off and it will still snap back to form but if you sit there and just play with that rubber band and keep streyching it over and over eventually it will not snapback to it’s original form.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

(waving) Hey Swiss!! Where were you when I needed backup on the Clerks reference?? :)

LOL@Purp’s analogy (and also humming Rubberband Man)

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

Fion:

4 kids with 4 different women will help him part with it a lot faster.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:59 pm

disco, you must have a high mileage cooch and now having a moment of clairity. It’s okay just pour some vinegar in the tub when you bathe. LOL

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
3:01 pm

Purp – Rubber Band, man I hear you. BUT I will say this, A chick can eat everyday of her life but that mouth gon still be hot. hahahaha

Fion

January 25th, 2012
3:02 pm

@BF
If it’s true, cause this is him saying it. Ya know ya boy loves attention. I wouldn’t shed notta tear.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:03 pm

Guys, you ever wonder if your member shrinks over time? lol

Fion

January 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

@Celisea
I agree with Willie D’s overall theme, “don’t be surprised’. It may not be what it seems to be.

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

I won’t comment on my mileage but I remember once many many years ago right around the start of my “hot-tail” days a guy told me that I would “probably drown one these young boys but I couldn’t drown him”. I know – not a cute statement but I always remembered it. I recently asked him if he recalled saying that to me. he says he doesn’t remember. still – my point is even if it loosens up a bit I can’t get on board with the possibility of it just being wide open and bottomless. almost seems physically impossible.

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
3:06 pm

Howdy, ITL. You know, I’ve never actually watched “Clerks.” I know, I know, I’ll hand over my Caucasian Card… :lol:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:08 pm

@cba ~ as I typed that I was picturing I thought there was a hug and how it just seemed more affectionate than normal (on her part). The body language spoke volumes to me then. Thanks, I thought so.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

All I know a virginand the tightness there ain’t the same as a chick that’s had a gang of schlongs and schling dents. Abyss I call it.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

LOL@Swiss. It’s eminently quotable. Especially the aforementioned scene, when Dominick finds out his girlfriend has sung on 36 mikes, 37 counting him.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

I see you’re still talking about lint lickers….

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

Sorry for typos….that one was from my phone

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

Abyss I call it.

I just say make sure you know where you left your keys. Hello – oh – oh – oh….

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:12 pm

I just thought of the episode of girlfriends where lynn called joan an “ooh ahh” girl meaning she couldn’t handle big willie. guess some chicks can take the d and some chicks really can’t. or, in the alternative, some guys can hit bottom and some guys can’t.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:14 pm

Leggs: Wait, a cunning linguist is a lint licker??? LOL. I never heard it called that.

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

“Leggs: Wait, a cunning linguist is a lint licker?”

ITL — Well, I guess that depends on whose pdussy is being licked… :shock: :lol:

cba

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

BF~ the article said TO didn’t live a lavish lifestyle per some athletes but he had bad financial advise.
He burnt too many bridges when he was on top. Said one of the baby’s mama was a “hit it and quit” and he hasn’t seen the baby. I guess he didn’t get the wrap it up memo.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

Hell the kitchen sink, a shoe, the baby’s rattle, a left arm….if that ain’t a black hole.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

Willie D, well the tongue is the strongets muscle in the body.

Hey disco why do you think they invented kegel balls? LOL

Celisea, yep!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

disco – Speaking of oohh ahhh girl, dudes claim they want the tighty when it comes to cooter but if they happen to get the ooh ahhh girl they are frustrated. Both sides of the neck talking I suppose.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:19 pm

LOL@Swiss, but “ew” on the visual. Just ew.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:20 pm

Celisea, I am cracking up over here. Anything else? A radiator? An alligator? LOL :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:21 pm

Purp – I never could wrap my head around how putting two sizable silver balls in your abyss is going to make the entrance any tighter. Maybe I’m missing something

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

ITl….If you fall in your own abyss…lol

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

I wonder if gay men use kegel balls.

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

purp – I stick by my stance. chicks constantly trying to “tighten up” have men with little salt shaker peters.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:24 pm

So do backdoorways start to stretch out and lose elasticity as well over time? I never thought about that…

Robert

January 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

“should it be a deal breaker when the sex is great but the relationship is not?”

No, it should not be a deal breaker. Great sex is hard to find for a man or woman in today’s world. Women have commented on this site they need to have an emotional attachment in order for them to be satisfied with the relationship. As a man I need to feel my woman’s passion (hugs, kisses, soft whispers in my ear, etc.). Her passion for me enhances my desire to fulfill all her sexual desires. I would rather have great sex with lots of passion which will fuel my desire to change the things in our relationship that need work. Relationships are a “work in progress” and always need help. You are lucky if you find a great lover full of passion and desire for you only.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

disco, you dont have to prove a point to me. I’m fit for war.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

@ITL ~ I was making reference to the Orbit Gum commercial. I always think of that when she’s talking woof by calling her a lint licker.

But if you really broke that phrase down, guess the woman really did have cooties if there’s lint all over it.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:25 pm

Awwww! It’s so cute! I didn’t know those came in Fun Size. :shock:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:26 pm

disco, maybe all you have had is little peters and that is why you still have your virgin shape. LOL

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
3:27 pm

“So do backdoorways start to stretch out and lose elasticity as well over time? I never thought about that…”

Slim — You don’t watch much p0rn, do you? :lol: Uh, to answer your question: YES. :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:28 pm

Hit send too soon….

Awwww! It’s so cute! I didn’t know those came in Fun Size.

(a friend said that to a guy once…i’m guessing it didn’t help his, um, growth potential)

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
3:28 pm

Disco – alrighty then. I think i just about have you figured out.

No Crying – check
Don’t pay for grown daughter bills – check
Cuss you out every now and then – check
Tell you Bish shut up – check
Baseball Bat size schlong – dayummit man, Next

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:31 pm

just the opposite. I got broke in on the king size bars which is why I have zero tolerance for the minis or the fun sizes as ITL put it.

willie d – all except for the name calling. them’s fighting words. yeah, I’m a little rough around the edges. speaking of old boy with the grown daughter. he called the day we were talking about folks crying on here. talking about he had a dream where we ran into each other in a restaurant and we both starting crying. i asked him if that was his way of trying to say he missed me.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:35 pm

@disco ~ surprised you didn’t say “you sure you were dreaming about ME cuz I don’t cry!”

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:36 pm

Okay, so we’ve got:

mini (bite size), fun size, regular, king size, sports team fundraiser size….

Did I miss any?

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:36 pm

Guess the woman really did have cooties if there’s lint all over it.

Leggs – Or she could’ve made a mistake and washed her undies with the towels. Lint ERRRRywhere lol That reminds me of a time I stayed at a friends house and used a bath towel. Apparently, whoever did the laundry washed the towels with the bath mats and there was lint EVERYWHErE on EVERYTHING. I almost felt like I needed to take another bath or either wipe my body off using a dryer sheet

Jill

January 25th, 2012
3:37 pm

If you stick to one dingaling for 16 years, does that mean your paradise stays the same size? Or does it stretch from being used for 16 years?

:lol:

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
3:39 pm

Disco – ok, how about baby shut up? Is Buddy with the daughter one of them 80/20 situations? everything was good except that right.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:41 pm

ITL – The best bar is the Mr. Good Bar. It’s not necessarily over-sized but it packs the right amount of punch to quinch that hunger :oops:

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:42 pm

leggs – he’s most definitely far more sensitive than I am. I’ve joked about it for years. heck, he was probably crying alone in the dream but tossed me in the mix so it wouldn’t seem so bad. as it is, the breakup was around October. he calls maybe 2-3 times a month to “check on me”. he always says that I can call him because after all we’re still friends. I’ve called only once and that was to ask him to come change an outside light bulb that I couldn’t reach. yeah. I called him out on missing me.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

oops meant quench

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:44 pm

I wonder if every woman thinks that her first wang is a big wang since you know it’s her first wang and she does not have a standard wang reference.

Ok let me shut up I am turning into Meeellloooo talking about wangs. LOL

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:45 pm

LOL@Slim….co-workers now looking at me like I’m cwazy!

2-3 times a month, disco?? I’d say he’s still got it bad.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:45 pm

Fellas how do you tell a woman she is no good in bed? Answer is you don;t LOL

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:46 pm

well how about this question purple. I’ve heard it discussed before. as a guy do you think certain women (i.e. certain body types/height/weight or certain ethnic groups) are better built to take more or less than other women?

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:47 pm

I’ll take the right size please :)

Purple(The Right Size)

January 25th, 2012
3:49 pm

disco, I used to think that but as I increased my experience I found that not to be true.

Hey Celisea I changed my name a little.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:51 pm

@PR ~ I think my first was a big one, an ugly one, a painful one, and a horrible experience!

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:56 pm

Leggs wow. I don’t think guys are that terrified the first time. Unless she is to tight…that stuff hurts.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:58 pm

I’m not sure why but Michael Jackson’s song “Dirty Diana” seems to come to mind with the current topic. Have yall ever read the lyrics to that song?

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:59 pm

Leggs – I can’t say I have ever heard a great 1st time story coming from a female..

PR – Aren’t you dudes nervous the very first time, or are you too busy acting like you’re a pro to dwell on the fact you have no idea what you’re doing?

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:00 pm

Oooh, good question, Slim. I hope all the guys will answer that one.

(ITL sitting in the corner, notebook and pen at the ready)

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:01 pm

Neither have I, JustMe! One the hymen is broke, we have entered the twlight zone of Dating 101.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:03 pm

Some womens’ hymens don’t even break the first time doing the do.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:03 pm

Slim my first time I was very nervous. I did not want to be to rough or hurt her and I wanted to make sure that I pleased her. I was more nervous about doing a good job…until I got a few inches in her then it was all about me and it was fun

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:05 pm

Another thing I’ve often wondered…TMI alert…um, I wonder if the use of tampons effect the looseness or elasticity of the va jayjay walls…being that the material sort of swells? I only asked because I recall waaaaaay back in the day some chicks in the bathroom at middle school talking about it.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
4:05 pm

Purple – :) You’re bad

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:06 pm

Well, it is Hump Day Wednesday!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:08 pm

until I got a few inches in her then it was all about me and it was fun

:lol: At least you’re honest but dang, it only took a few inches to change your game plan? lololol I wish at least once that I could see how it felt to you guys to do the do because I swear sommma yall act like it’s crack

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:09 pm

Leggs – We’ll be humped out by Friday ;-)

disco

January 25th, 2012
4:09 pm

slim – a few inches whatever. what woman hasn’t heard some variation of the line “just let me put it in a little bit”

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:12 pm

Last man out this evening, please mop up!

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:13 pm

“I wish at least once that I could see how it felt to you guys to do the do because I swear sommma yall act like it’s crack”

Crack, vajayjay…. it all feels about the same, really. Well, depending on the vajayjay. And the crack. :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:13 pm

or “just for a minute” Mmmm-hmmmm

Jill

January 25th, 2012
4:14 pm

First time was a awful mess. He was happy though. I always say I should have waited. Because I found out after he dumped me that he wasn’t good at all. The next dude made me stalk him and had me moaning in my sleep :lol:

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:14 pm

Just the tip. Just for a second. I promise…. :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:14 pm

Oh we planned on having sex I was a virgin she wasn’t. I just never had done it before. I knew she was experienced and I didnt want to be the guy who got picked on for not performing well but once i got in a little bit and felt heaven for my first time I went to town…I swole her up!

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:17 pm

She kept asking me to tell her when I was going to climax…so when I started to she pushed me off rolled me over took the condom off and then had a meal. So my first time was a great ending. The bad thing about that was that I thought all women were supposed to do that at the end. I learned otherwise.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:18 pm

I think that is where “give an inch..take a mile” comes from

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:19 pm

Purple — Ah, nothing like a chick that can stick the dismount. :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:20 pm

Swiss, that woman taught me the ways of the Jedi! I love her, wherever she is!

Jill

January 25th, 2012
4:22 pm

The bad thing about that was that I thought all women were supposed to do that at the end. I learned otherwise.

:lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:22 pm

I’ve said just two pumps, I promise…well maybe 3. Then if they give in, you count about 4 to 5 pumps as ONE. :lol: :evil: :oops:

so when I started to she pushed me off rolled me over took the condom off and then had a meal :shock: :shock: Boy oh boy did she set a precedence.

Purp – So when the next chick came around, please tell me you didn’t ask her about ‘having a meal’??

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
4:23 pm

First time I was nervous and scared as heyal. Fortunately for me I had a few dome jobs before so i knew the outcome. Chick wasn’t a first timer so she was more a coach than a emotional cheerleader. At first it was 30 seconds of trying to be careful and get it right. Then I paid attention and went for all i knew dayum everything else. 3 minutes flat and I smiled like I won the championship. But I’ll tell you that was kids play compared to that first dome piece. Thats a whole nother conversation.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:26 pm

Slim I didn’t ask the next chick I just jumped up and fed her!

Willie, thie first dome…I think I was paralyzed and had an anuerism from joy!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:28 pm

WD – Strangely enough it seems you fellas are privy to the dome-jobs at a rather young age. I’ve heard many a tales from guy friends that said mainly older chicks ’spoke into their mics’…one instance was the babysitter…another was the best friend of their mother while they were young boys (11-12yrs old) Shocking at the amount of older women that want to get to the center of a little boys tootsie roll pop

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:29 pm

Purp – The song, “Feed me Seymour” comes to mind from Little Shop of Horrors :lol:

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
4:31 pm

Purp/Swiss – Man you talk about the finish and dismount. I went from just finishing (under 18) to aiming (18-25) to appreciating the technique (grown azz man).

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:31 pm

“…another was the best friend of their mother while they were young boys (11-12yrs old) Shocking….”

Beyond shocking, DISGUSTING!

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:31 pm

“…another was the best friend of their mother while they were young boys (11-12yrs old) Shocking….”

Beyond shocking, DISGUSTING!

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:31 pm

Interesting…..

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:35 pm

Leggs – My thoughts exactly…I’m sure they are bloggers here that had experiences like that.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:35 pm

But I’ll tell you that was kids play compared to that first dome piece

What is it with men and the dome??? I mean, I know it must feel good and all, but men talk about it like it’s the holy grail, better than the puddy tat.

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
4:36 pm

Leggs – All i’ll say is my moms friends and my friends moms were all upstanding ladies of virtue. They would never do a thing as disgusting as that. Shame on those who do.

Slim – I literally have no words that can describe it to you.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:37 pm

@Leggs: it is beyond disgusting – it’s a CRIME. And why it still gets the wink wink, nudge nudge is beyond me….

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:38 pm

there not they grammar all off today. I’m rhet ta go!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:40 pm

WD – Was your 4:36 sarcastically written? :???:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:40 pm

@JustMe ~ well, I’m here nodding at my desk. I am sleepy…

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:41 pm

“What is it with men and the dome??? I mean, I know it must feel good and all, but men talk about it like it’s the holy grail, better than the puddy tat”

It all depends on the level of commitment of the giver. I think it’s more about the visual & the fact that it shows a level of… uh… engagement that is hard not to appreciate. :lol:

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:44 pm

” well, I’m here nodding at my desk. I am sleepy…”

Leggs — Better be careful having your head nodding up & down with all this dome talk going on. Somebody might try to sneak a w@ng under you on a down-nod… :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:45 pm

So given a choice, Swiss, would you take BJ or the Bear (if it had to be either/or and you could not have both).

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:46 pm

@swiss ~ I remember a few years back a lady asked how does she know if she’s doing a good job talking to the mike. I told her her degree of commitment to the relationship will show in her degree of long she can work the mike.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
4:46 pm

swiss – :lol: You’s a nut (no pun intended)

Well with all the back stabbing going on at the job, we’ve coined a new acronym: TAB – Triflin’ Azz Bytches :roll:

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
4:48 pm

Slim – yes, I don’t want to turn this into a Nancy Grace column. So yeah Everything was on the up and up.

Swiss – you just spoke nothing but the truth. Its 3 kind of women in my book. Those that dont (boooooooooooooo). Those that do only because they think its a part of sex (pat on the back and forehead kiss). Then we have the true bonafide winners that just love to do it (bells ringing, fireworks exploding, ima keep this bish) types.

ITL – I know you asked Swiss but my answer is Dome. Of course I’d love the package deal upgrade but one or the other gimme the dome 9 out of 10 times your honor.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:49 pm

@swiss ~ I promise I was thinking something along those lines re: nodding!

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:51 pm

“Swiss, would you take BJ or the Bear”

ITL — I’m going to say this very clearly: I would never, ever f@#k a bear.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:51 pm

@WillieD ~ that opens another can of worms. Now, when dating you have to find that woman who likes Dome as much as you like to receive it. Better yet, likes to get on that dome more than she likes to be serviced…you be hard press to find that (lol).

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:53 pm

Really, WD?? May I ask why???

The fact that men feel this way is so interesting to me, because on the flip side, I can tell you that even if you are the most cunning linguist on the planet and fluent in 12 languages, at some point, I’m still gonna need you to swing the bat (if I’m gonna score a homerun). Maybe it’s just me….

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
4:54 pm

Swiss, you are too much. :lol: Seriously, though….downstairs or upstairs???

Purple

January 25th, 2012
4:55 pm

Friends older sister gave me my first dome I was 14.

Thing is yeah it’s a crime but when it’s an older female to younger male we are not calling the cops we are calling for round two. LOL

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
4:56 pm

How old was the older sister?

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
4:59 pm

Leggs – There you go talking about relationships again. I cant speak for the next dude but I’ll tell you a chick is not gonna give better dome just because she loves you. She might eventually get better or work at it cause she loves you but if a chick don’t like to give it; a ring, a benz, and a house on the hill aint gon change that.

ITl – I really cant give you a answer that you will understand. You obviously fall under category #2 (not that there is anything wrong with that) . Ask your BFF Becky, maybe she can enlighten you.

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
4:59 pm

Upstairs? What’s happening upstairs?

If you’re asking whether I’d take a BJ or a bareback ride — in general, I’d take the bareback ride. Now, there is 1 exception, and that’s my first. She wasn’t that great a lay, in hindsight, but GOT D@MN could that girl suck a d!ck. And I mean she enjoyed her work, too… :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
5:01 pm

Well I’ve heard some guys don’t too much care for it..dome that is

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:03 pm

Oh, ok….if you say so. I believe how you feel about that person ups the anty on how you service that person!!!!

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
5:03 pm

“Well I’ve heard some guys don’t too much care for it..dome that is”

Slim — That’s what we tell chicks who fall into category #2. :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
5:04 pm

Actually, WD, I’d put myself in category #3. What I’m saying is that while I enjoy receiving oral, I prefer intercourse. It seems that men are the opposite, and I’m trying to understand why.

Ahhhh, so we have one for the dome, one for the ride. Purple, Fion, y’all gonna vote?

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:08 pm

I love them both and they go hand in hand or she doesn’t get to play. I like a nice balanced woman. had some who had great dome but sorry cooch…some with great cooch but sorry dome.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:08 pm

Something about hearing her gag while her eyes start to water turns me on for some reason…all that is left is to pinch her nose!

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
5:11 pm

Leggs – you are consistent if nothing else. But i’ll say this, every chick knows how to ride a bicycle. How many chicks go bicycling. Catch my drift?

IZTL – ding ding ding we have a winner. dayum I just may start watching a few more UGA games now. hahaha

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
5:11 pm

Frankly I like intercourse better because I feeling all of that….closeness, the intimacy all it. I like the going dow because it’s more intense. I don’t too much about giving. You gotta be Mr Freaking Wonderful relationship wise to get that. Sorry :(

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
5:11 pm

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:11 pm

oral with no cooch to follow frustrates me

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:12 pm

Nope, all chicks don’t know how to ride a bicycle….catch my drift (lololol).

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:13 pm

Oral is like a microwave. Intercourse is like an oven. Microwaves will get the job done but nothing is better than a slow baked meal. Capisci? (Kapeesh)

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:13 pm

@PR ~ I was thinking that (your 5:11) when we started talking about celibacy and if dry humping oral fell under that umbrella. How you going to go downstairs and then not put the key in the door???

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
5:14 pm

Again…on my phone. For some reason the site aint right on my computer

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
5:14 pm

LOL@Willie D!

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:14 pm

Celisea did you just say you liked to be gone dwon on but does not like to go down on your partner?

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:14 pm

dry humping AND oral…

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
5:15 pm

oral with no wang to follow frustrates me

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:15 pm

Why you questioning her, PR….did you question your counterpart, Ex, when he said the same thing (LOLOL).

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
5:17 pm

Leggs – yes they all know how to ride a bike. Some of yall just dont like to falling off and scuffing ya knees.
Different strokes for different folks. My lucky azz married a 3 while I’m a 2.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:18 pm

Leggs cuz I have no interest in Ex. LOL

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:19 pm

If all women know how to ride a bike, are you saying all men know how to f…k?

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:19 pm

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
5:21 pm

@Leggs: As long as you mean the general mechanics of “insert tab D into slot C” then yeah, they probably do. Just don’t add “well” to the end of your question, bc then the answer is a resounding NO!

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
5:22 pm

Purple- Ut uh…you didn’t read that..lol For a relationship I’m willing to do and go the whole nine. I know I slack behind I’m sure some good givers. I receive it all day though. You be surprised…..

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:24 pm

Ok, gotcha ITL. Don’t know what WillieD is talking about, but I understand you. :wink:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
5:26 pm

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
5:27 pm

Leggs -yep some are just better at it than others. Its the same as a dude just humping to get a nut VS the dude that pays attention and services you. Same thing with grabbing the mic. I can pay attention and service you very well. That don’ mean i love you. But to grab the mic and perform well you gotta have that certain genosaqua (sp). Same thing you just being difficult but i know you at least a 2.5. hahaha

Purple

January 25th, 2012
5:35 pm

SlimNu

January 25th, 2012
5:44 pm

Yall STILL up in this camp while I wait on my brown stewed chicken to get ready lol