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Dating: Should you stay or go?

Sometimes you know the exact moment that your relationship is over. It’s possible that is the point where you realize the only thing you two have is good sex. I won’t pretend that good sex will make you hang on a lot longer than you should, it happens. A lot.

The question then becomes how long will it take before the relationship with great sex is not satisfying all the other needs? Do you think it is wrong to stay in a relationship when the only thing you enjoy about it is the sex and little else?

I think most people would agree that bad sex is a deal breaker, but should it be a deal breaker when the sex is great but the relationship is not?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

311 comments Add your comment

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

Leggs – Speaking of AIDs, I read somewhere that they are trying to make it mandatory that porn stars all strap up from now on. (not that you are a porn watcher or anything, but it just made me think of that) Mr. Gunns always looks like he needs to loosen up a bit. I’d like to see him cut up and let his hair down. “Make it work” lol

Purp – Some folks see putting their mouth on someone else wilderness to be a bit more ‘dirty’, intimate, fluid exchanging highway. I guess if you were to use a dental dim that it would be synonymous with wearing a condom.

Back in the day folks would be embarrased to let anyone else know they did the oral thang. Now folks profess their like for it any and everywhere.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

I come from under the stairwell and fall into the pitts…….LOL My life is just wonderful.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:35 pm

@Disco!

If Disco doesn’t come back with a good response to Purp’s 2:24,ima starting to prep the tape measure so we get her cooter digits,width and depth!

Annual MIA statistics project!

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

Would you be offended if a man covered your vigina with a dental dam?

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

@Swiss that’s what imtalkbout!

Hey u run some SQL,I need a class

Maybe Dreams too

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:38 pm

Hey Ex I’mma have to back you up on that.

cba

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Leggs~ he also gave her a hug.
Did you hear about someone in SW ATL won 71mil on mega millions.
That’s about three years for Romney.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Purple – I’m supporting your 2:24

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:39 pm

Fion?

that’s for Slim or the MiA house? 2:38?

well Slim firstv then errbody else. :lol:

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:40 pm

Slim or anyone.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

The part about not birthing 7 times a day…lol

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Tongue lashings!! YAY!! :)

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
2:43 pm

Yall are really tripping today.
Its not the chicks you expect it from (hood-rats, scrippas, neighbor-hood fun girls etc) that surprise you. Its the ones that catch you off guard. The reserved chick waiting on a good man attending church 2x a week that surprise me. Don’t be fooled by the conversation on here daily but its some serious licking and sticking going on.

I’ll go further to say that its a two way street. For the chicks that don’t give dome it’s a regular average chick thats great at it and your dude will eventually come across her. For you dudes that think only slangin is holding it down. Well its a dude out there that don’t mind getting the sticky face and yor chick will eventually cross paths with him. IJS

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
2:44 pm

Do they make dental dams that will fit that CT? :lol: (j/k Slim — you know of luvs you and your CT) :lol:

Me.lo — Well, I’m no DBA, but I know enough SQL to function as a software developer. So depending on the level of depth you need, I might be able to help you out.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

WD…….LOL

Preach it brother, there is a sermon going on in this house.

disco

January 25th, 2012
2:48 pm

purple – well I know one of my grandmothers has 12 children and the other has10. neither of my grandfathers bailed out. now I agree that the cooch can get high mileage but I don’t know if I’m buying into the whole it’s stretched out so much that old boy can’t feel anything (and if he can’t i still put the blame on him). nope. can’t go for that one.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
2:49 pm

I find it hard to believe that a person has only experience ho-ing with church women. I see hoes on a regular and they ain’t church women. Too it depends on what you call church women. Folks showing up and doing everything they ain’t big enough to do ain’t really church folks. Church women hitting the clubs ain’t church folks. Church women that never have a change in venue, scenery, behavior, company, environment and just attend on Sundays….ain’t church women. Maybe we should get that cleared up.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:50 pm

Willie D, just last night at 2am I got a text that read “are you up? I’m feelin some kinda way” I asked who is this. It was a woman from down south that I pleased 2 years ago. Yeah she got a good sticking and lashing and wanted some more over two years later. It was good for the ego, had to delete those msgs really quick. I saved the picture that was sent with it though. LMAO

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:51 pm

Me.lo – Aye Swiss, WTH was in that code?

Swiss – Why you ask.

Me.lo- I just ran that script and cut off the lights from
Ivan Allen Blvd. to Pharr Rd.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:54 pm

Man what’s wrong T. O. dude say he went throught 80 mil and is broke and all his posse done left him.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

@ BF
A fool and his money will soon part.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

Why didn’t he have learned a thing or two from Hammer.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:56 pm

disco ask a man who has slept with a woman before and after she has had a child there is a difference. Also everyman has had a whore experience at somepoint and ask him how that cooch felt in relation to a non whore. Or ask a guy who slept with a women as they were both teenagers and then hooked back up with said woman as an adult. There is a difference.

Imagine a rubber band, you can stretch it around something large occasionally and then take it off and it will still snap back to form but if you sit there and just play with that rubber band and keep streyching it over and over eventually it will not snapback to it’s original form.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

(waving) Hey Swiss!! Where were you when I needed backup on the Clerks reference?? :)

LOL@Purp’s analogy (and also humming Rubberband Man)

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:58 pm

Fion:

4 kids with 4 different women will help him part with it a lot faster.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:59 pm

disco, you must have a high mileage cooch and now having a moment of clairity. It’s okay just pour some vinegar in the tub when you bathe. LOL

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2012
3:01 pm

Purp – Rubber Band, man I hear you. BUT I will say this, A chick can eat everyday of her life but that mouth gon still be hot. hahahaha

Fion

January 25th, 2012
3:02 pm

@BF
If it’s true, cause this is him saying it. Ya know ya boy loves attention. I wouldn’t shed notta tear.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:03 pm

Guys, you ever wonder if your member shrinks over time? lol

Fion

January 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

@Celisea
I agree with Willie D’s overall theme, “don’t be surprised’. It may not be what it seems to be.

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:05 pm

I won’t comment on my mileage but I remember once many many years ago right around the start of my “hot-tail” days a guy told me that I would “probably drown one these young boys but I couldn’t drown him”. I know – not a cute statement but I always remembered it. I recently asked him if he recalled saying that to me. he says he doesn’t remember. still – my point is even if it loosens up a bit I can’t get on board with the possibility of it just being wide open and bottomless. almost seems physically impossible.

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
3:06 pm

Howdy, ITL. You know, I’ve never actually watched “Clerks.” I know, I know, I’ll hand over my Caucasian Card… :lol:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:08 pm

@cba ~ as I typed that I was picturing I thought there was a hug and how it just seemed more affectionate than normal (on her part). The body language spoke volumes to me then. Thanks, I thought so.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

All I know a virginand the tightness there ain’t the same as a chick that’s had a gang of schlongs and schling dents. Abyss I call it.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:10 pm

LOL@Swiss. It’s eminently quotable. Especially the aforementioned scene, when Dominick finds out his girlfriend has sung on 36 mikes, 37 counting him.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

I see you’re still talking about lint lickers….

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

Sorry for typos….that one was from my phone

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:11 pm

Abyss I call it.

I just say make sure you know where you left your keys. Hello – oh – oh – oh….

disco

January 25th, 2012
3:12 pm

I just thought of the episode of girlfriends where lynn called joan an “ooh ahh” girl meaning she couldn’t handle big willie. guess some chicks can take the d and some chicks really can’t. or, in the alternative, some guys can hit bottom and some guys can’t.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:14 pm

Leggs: Wait, a cunning linguist is a lint licker??? LOL. I never heard it called that.

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
3:16 pm

“Leggs: Wait, a cunning linguist is a lint licker?”

ITL — Well, I guess that depends on whose pdussy is being licked… :shock: :lol:

cba

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

BF~ the article said TO didn’t live a lavish lifestyle per some athletes but he had bad financial advise.
He burnt too many bridges when he was on top. Said one of the baby’s mama was a “hit it and quit” and he hasn’t seen the baby. I guess he didn’t get the wrap it up memo.

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

Hell the kitchen sink, a shoe, the baby’s rattle, a left arm….if that ain’t a black hole.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:17 pm

Willie D, well the tongue is the strongets muscle in the body.

Hey disco why do you think they invented kegel balls? LOL

Celisea, yep!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:18 pm

disco – Speaking of oohh ahhh girl, dudes claim they want the tighty when it comes to cooter but if they happen to get the ooh ahhh girl they are frustrated. Both sides of the neck talking I suppose.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:19 pm

LOL@Swiss, but “ew” on the visual. Just ew.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
3:20 pm

Celisea, I am cracking up over here. Anything else? A radiator? An alligator? LOL :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
3:21 pm

Purp – I never could wrap my head around how putting two sizable silver balls in your abyss is going to make the entrance any tighter. Maybe I’m missing something

Celisea

January 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

ITl….If you fall in your own abyss…lol

Purple

January 25th, 2012
3:22 pm

I wonder if gay men use kegel balls.