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Dating: Should you stay or go?

Sometimes you know the exact moment that your relationship is over. It’s possible that is the point where you realize the only thing you two have is good sex. I won’t pretend that good sex will make you hang on a lot longer than you should, it happens. A lot.

The question then becomes how long will it take before the relationship with great sex is not satisfying all the other needs? Do you think it is wrong to stay in a relationship when the only thing you enjoy about it is the sex and little else?

I think most people would agree that bad sex is a deal breaker, but should it be a deal breaker when the sex is great but the relationship is not?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

311 comments Add your comment

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:34 pm

Yep, on purpose.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:36 pm

I don’t believe her being celibate for that long. I remember seeing a youtube video of her deep throating a banana a few years ago

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:36 pm

:shock: Are you serious???

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:37 pm

A real banana or a banana with hair?

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:38 pm

A real banana it was from that show called the surreal life or something.

SALT-N-PEPA star SANDRA ‘PEPA’ DENTON gave her co-stars on US reality show THE SURREAL LIFE a thrill, when she swallowed a whole large banana.

The PUSH IT hitmaker, who appears in the latest season of the show alongside JANICE DICKINSON, CAPRICE, OMAROSA MANIGAULT-STALLWORTH, fallen baseball star JOSE CANSECO and PINK’s boyfriend CAREY HART, was riding in a van when she decided to show her talents.

Initially, the Jamaican rapper innocently explained, “I’m only eating a banana… I’m just trying to see it if I can eat the banana in one time.”

She successfully pushed the whole fruit into her throat as her co-stars screamed in unison, before spitting it back out.

Stunned blonde beauty Caprice says, “Oh my God! She’s gonna be asked out on so many dates. You have no idea!”

http://www.contactmusic.com/news-article/pepa-stuns-with-banana-devouring-skills

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:39 pm

My mistake, her celibacy went on for four years.

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
1:40 pm

I won’t even view that, would probaby make me gag and bring my lunch to the surface.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:41 pm

Dang, Gina!! :shock:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
1:44 pm

I wonder if her celibacy included ‘oral transactions & heavy petty’ as well or if she had a green light for everything other than penetration

Fion

January 25th, 2012
1:45 pm

Exactly how does one stumble on to the fact that they can really sallow a banana? Things that make you go “hum”!!!!

Sexy (my name is not Kizzy) Cool

January 25th, 2012
1:47 pm

The incident where I actually found out that he could not read was over a week ago. In the interim, I have had several conversations with my manager and HR at corporate to see what can reasonably be done as it is evident that he has had some sort of assistance in the past.

The concession that we made would be that we would bring him back into the office and that I would direct him on how to complete the form. When he arrived at my office today, even with my instruction, he could not fill in the forms. This was with me saying to him, “Put your height here.” He wrote in 150. When I directed him to put “Male or Female.” He asks, “W or B?”

Whatdahell?!?!?

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
1:52 pm

@Slim?

In ‘heavy petty’ mode,what typical happens?

So if ur cooter is licked,u celibate still?

trifling I tell u!! :lol:

How can u profess celibate when infact u were up side down, butt nekkid,,ur toes getting curled? :lol:

Who is strong enough to be greased but stops just short? :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
1:54 pm

Leggs there is no video on that link it’s just the story.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
1:55 pm

Scool?

So are u a Mentally Retarded Specialist?

:lol: :lol:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
1:56 pm

@Ex: you might be surprised what some folks will do to hold on to the “celibate” title. Same for virginity. A friend of mine dated this girl who told him it was really important to her that she remain a virgin, so they could only have anal sex.

Talk about arguing semantics! Sheesh!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:00 pm

Exiled – I meant to say heavy petting, not petty. That includes, dry humping, touching, rubbing, kissing etc. I was not including ‘cooter licking’ into heavy petting.

As far as your question: So if ur cooter is licked,u celibate still?, Why not ask your fellow bloggers and see what they say…Does getting an earmuffilectomy mean you are no longer celibate???

And Ex, you’re wrong for the Retarded Specialist question. To the corner you go or either sit under the stairs with BF for a few, your choice

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:00 pm

@ITL
I’ve told the story here before. I knew a chick that was virgin at 26yrs old, but she’d blown damn near very dude between here and Kansas.

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:01 pm

ITL – WOW, that seems like a far stretch!!!!!! She jumped from the orchestra pit to the balconey in one swoop. :shock:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

Dang, Fion! Did you tell her “Try not to s#ck any d#ck in the parking lot???”

(It’s a Clerks reference, for the non-Kevin Smith fans in the crowd)

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

ITL?

that’s lying to oneself really..so did ur friend just hit there(poop chute) as directed. ..in the hope ofcourse that she wld change her mind? :lol:

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:02 pm

In some cultures women are considered virgins if their vagina is not penetrated. So anal and oral is okay. I don’t understand that but it’s not for me to.

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:03 pm

Shoot, Slim, she had a backstage pass!! (really no pun intended, but it made me giggle when I re-read it)

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:03 pm

@PR ~ cool. I got the story, she can swallow a banana…nothng more to read about it.

Here’s another story: http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/television/crass-answer-schlong-shocks-family-feud-contestants-article-1.1011314

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:05 pm

@Ex – I believe that is exactly what he did.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:05 pm

@ Purp
I hear ya, but man oh man could that girl perform on the “mike”.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:06 pm

Fion, lol well that’s not a bad thing per se

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

Any person involved in the smuggling of a pickle into a butt is just gross. Well that’s my opinion.

cba

January 25th, 2012
2:08 pm

I will never forget the press conference: finger pointing……I DID NOT have sex with that woman.
So Mr president, explain the the stain on her dress :shock:

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

Leggs, the pic with that article is priceless. I would have had the same reaction. Good grief – I can’t believe they even put that on the answer board.

Speaking of celibacy, Tim Gunn from Project Runway says he’s been celibate for 29 years. YEARS, I said, 29 YEARS.

disco

January 25th, 2012
2:11 pm

re: snapback factor. come on – if chicks can rebound from high birth weight babies how much stretching do you really think the average man is going to cause? heck, even the bigger than average man isn’t as big as the smaller than average baby. my theory is that if a fellow is swimming in it he’s likely short to begin with.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:12 pm

@Purp
Hold on, some women actually like that.

Just Sayin’

Into the Light

January 25th, 2012
2:14 pm

And I respect their right to like it, Fion, but for me, that runway is reserved for departures only.

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

So Purp,u tell me when u in the throes of joy,u don’t lick Julia’s hyway from cooter to backcooter and back? I mean comeon !

Its not like she ain’t clean..she took a shower!
folks please tell the truf nothing but the truf here..

Now licking a new chic even the first time..I don’t know how u guys can muster that courage?

I would need to be high in liqor! :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:15 pm

ITL – If he claims to have been celibate for 29yrs, he must mean that was the last time he has penetrated a female. But he’s probably been bent over 100 times since then :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:18 pm

if chicks can rebound from high birth weight babies how much stretching do you really think the average man is going to cause?

disco – Some guys have that GONZO so it may cause a bit more ‘damage’ or stretching that just a mere long schlong may cause. lolololol It’s no different than driving on a windy ass road. They don’t put those caution signs up for nuttin’

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:19 pm

@Mello
Dude that ain’t ya everyday lickin’. There’s an orderly process to lickin’ ya know. We got to build up to that type of Freakdom.

Lady~

January 25th, 2012
2:21 pm

O_o lol Fion and Ex!

Exiled!

January 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Fion!

I withdraw that cmoment!

I dont want MIA women to declare a fatwa(prohibited immigrant) on me! :lol:

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:22 pm

Now licking a new chic even the first time..I don’t know how u guys can muster that courage?

Exiled – You would be surprised at how fast dudes like to licky licky new cookies.

How long do you blog fellows like to wait before you take a trip downtown to Cooterville?? Hmmmm?

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:23 pm

@cba ~ what I remember most from Clinton is the footage the always show of him in the crowd greeting his constituents and there’s Monica glowingly looking at him . I remember saying to my gf, “that look in her eyes is one of lust.” Then, the story broke.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:24 pm

Ex there is a difference between licking and sticking.

disco, i dont care what you say a cooch can have to many miles on it and lose it’s shape. A baby is an isolated experience that does happen or 7 times a week.

Fion, just not my cup of tea.

Fion

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

@Slim
“You would be surprised at how fast dudes like to licky licky new cookies.”

Now, that’s just plain nasty!!!

JustMe - Slim

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

Slim if I know her well enough to have sex I know her well enough to do any and everything sexual. I don’t understand the give sex but don’ do oral until I know you better crap

i'm swiss

January 25th, 2012
2:26 pm

“Its not like she ain’t clean..she took a shower!
folks please tell the truf nothing but the truf here..”

Me.lo — You want the truf? YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUF!!!! :lol: Maaaaan…. For Mrs. Swiss (and only Mrs. Swiss), her “hyway” gets licked front to back and back again, all around, under, over, all up in there… :lol:

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:27 pm

“I don’t see nothing wrong”(R. Kelly)
with a sexual only relationship I know it’s taboo. Happens more than we realize, if you find out you’re in one, you hung on too long.

What A Day Howdy Y’all:

Leggs

January 25th, 2012
2:27 pm

@JustMe ~ I read that article at Gunn and took from it that his ego was shattered to the point of no return. Along with the AIDS epidemic he just backed off from sex and haven’t even been bent over. Probably back then he was a very sensitive gay man and has developed his semi-tough skin through trial and error.

Purple

January 25th, 2012
2:31 pm

Every woman that I have ever slept with has recieved a proper tongue lashing.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:32 pm

disco:

Ouch is all I can say.

Blackfoote: Thrown Back Under The Stairwell

January 25th, 2012
2:34 pm

LOL…..@Purple

Most women deserve a tongue lashiing every now and then.