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Is your date boring?

Have you ever been out on a date and it was a complete snorefest? Did you find yourself zoning out or your mind wandering off somewhere else? Is it a bad sign that your date is a boring person?

I don’t know how much “excitement” a person should bring to your life -but I definitely would not want to be someone who I found boring. I was watching Downton Abbey last night and one of the characters said: “A woman can’t love a man if she thinks he is boring” and I agree..for the most part.

While I don’t want boring and dull – I don’t know if I would mesh well with the wrong kind of excitement. I’m pretty tame, so exciting to me would be a guy who likes to trekked across the world and experience interesting things. Or someone who wants to change the world and contribute something positive. I’m a “reasonable” square that way, I guess?

What sort of exciting things would you like to see in a potential match?

Do you think you are boring? Is your conversation a little flat? What do you do to avoid that?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

264 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

January 5th, 2012
4:50 pm

I consider myself a strong Man

not strong Black man

Leggs

January 5th, 2012
4:52 pm

@ITL if you look up, you see me right about your 4:47.

Ok, Ex.

Celisea

January 5th, 2012
4:52 pm

I consider myself a strong black woman….I’m a black woman. If I was any other race I would have said that. But I’m not so I can’t. I’m black.

Leggs

January 5th, 2012
4:53 pm

Too funny, ITL. I now see your other post. My snooze comes on twice, then I’ll get out the bed. I’m not one to open my eyes at 6:00 and jump right out the bed.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 5th, 2012
4:55 pm

Y’all is tripping

Like Randy, I stay in hotels (Hilton FTW – Diamond since ‘08), and if I didn’t go to sleep with the TV on, I wouldn’t sleep.

The walls are paper thin, people above/below/next to you have no concept of how much they weigh noise they make – it’s just horrible.

I brought those habits home a while ago, so if the TV isn’t on [sleep mode] I literally can’t fall asleep, unless there is a massive amount of alcohol involved.

Exiled!

January 5th, 2012
4:56 pm

Cel?

so u wldnt have said ’strong white woman?’

Why?

why black woman but not white woman?

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 5th, 2012
4:56 pm

Oh, and dam y’all light sleepers; y’all do the most moving/kicking waking even the heaviest sleepers.

Leggs

January 5th, 2012
5:03 pm

I too stay in many hotel rooms and my complaint is the dang thermostat. The Hilton has the best pillows and bathrobes, but I’ve never been bothered by the noise of others.

Leggs

January 5th, 2012
5:03 pm

@Cel is Ex asking you what I think he’s asking you (lol)?

Celisea

January 5th, 2012
5:04 pm

Leggs – I don’t know but I’m not going there with him…lol

Celisea

January 5th, 2012
5:05 pm

He’s being funny

Celisea

January 5th, 2012
5:07 pm

I’m out…night night

Into the Light

January 5th, 2012
5:08 pm

All this talk about hotels has me thinking about vacation…..

Leggs

January 5th, 2012
5:10 pm

Ummmm, talk of hotels doesn’t put me in the mind of vacationing (LOL)….