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Best city to find a date?

Thank you Atlanta! You have topped another list of best cities to find a date. This means that if you are dateless in Atlanta – it’s you with the problem! Just kidding – sort of.

Atlanta has been consistently named as one of the best places to land a date. According to the Daily Beast, we have the single people (with jobs!), money to invest in dating costs, and enough mentally and physically healthy people that are out on the dating scene.

This is all encouraging news, of course. You are in the right place to find a date. You only need to put some effort into actually finding a date. Staying home every night is not going to cut it! Just because the city is teeming with single people ready to mingle, does not mean they are going to show up on your doorstep!

What do you think of Atlanta’s ranking as #1 city to find a date? Would you agree? Have you tried dating in other cities?

If Atlanta is the best place to find a date, I wonder what city would be ideal to find a date that is interested in marrying one day? Would we still be the best city? Is Atlanta a great city to be in a relationship and/or married?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

445 comments Add your comment

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
7:50 am

Happy New Year MIA!!!!! ;)

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
8:02 am

Brrrrrrr Shiver me timbers!

I really don’t know why they come out with these pointless “Best City” articles. I mean, who goes out and conducts actual research to see where you’re most likely to find a date. You can find a date ANYWHERE, it really just depends on you as a person, where you socialize, and whether you let the fact that you’re bat-azz crazy show from jump street. I don’t think the problem many face has anything to do with finding a date but more so along the lines of finding an actual MATE. Maybe this chill in the air has be a bit on edge, so I’ll dismiss myself to drink my cup of joe and try to warm up a bit. Check back in a few.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
8:10 am

Wow Seattle made the list! I just did a tweet that this year I want to visit Seattle, DC, and Chicago……interesting -back to skim the article some more!

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
8:11 am

Being alone in the ATL is a choice. If you have a job, most of your teeth, and a car (new or used), you can get a date. Now turning that date into a lasting relationship is another question. I strongly suspect that because there are so many more “trains leaving the station”, that we may subconsciously think that each person is disposable…and consequently don’t put in the effort necessary to make a relationship work. A couple of bumps in the road and we are ready to move on. i don’t see this in other places I visit. In most of the English towns, every woman over 25 that any one would actually want is usually married with kids.

One other comment, marriage is harder than it used to be to get to, but one reason is that divorce is so acceptable and easy. A major reason a lot of us guys don’t get married is because we don’t want to get divorced…again. A lot of women I know leave a marrriage not because of adultery, but because they wake up one morning and don’t think they are HAPPY…and it must be the man’s fault somehow. The problem with that is that happiness has to come from within, not from someone else. And yes it works both ways.

So is marriage harder, yep, not a t-shirt most men relish…especially if we already have one.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
8:21 am

Morning (said sounding congested)…..

I’m working from home today…I’m sick….ugh….hope I don’t have pnuemonia….got my phone forwarded to home….hope no one bothers me today….uggggh…..I know, I’m whining like a baby…..I’m headed out for coffee (not that sick huh…lol).

On topic: I HAVE NOTHING :)

My coworker called while I was typing to ask “what’s ailing you gal?” Dontcha just love it! Okay I’m done for now.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
8:24 am

Good Morning All,

Uhh SlimNu..you took my speech..so I am going to have to agree with your statement. Dating is possible..finding the lasting companionship is the challenge. I agree Wisey..no one is going to come to your door..(I know I tried that) and so alas I..we..you have to put myself out there to be seen.

P.S. For those who recommended the Bert Show..thanks I have the app and I am enjoying the show.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
8:29 am

While ATL is the easiest place to find a date, I suspect that New York would have to be one of the hardest. There, you have coworkers, bars, and dayum small living arrangements, often/usually with roomates. Now that would be tough. I’d starve relationally in NY.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
8:34 am

Randy I was thinking the same thing! Good Post!

Kym

January 4th, 2012
8:40 am

Okay..they reviewed Census data for folks over the age of 15?? I am not sure if kids should count in Dating data that is to be taken seriously but ok..

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
8:50 am

Absoluteeley!!!!!!! Lol

Yes yes yes!

Bur To keep the date,He’ll Naw!

Lubie Tupp

January 4th, 2012
8:52 am

We’ll see. I’ve moved here from Tybee Island to experience the dating scene. Course, that wasn’t the only reason. My favorite chicken dish at the local cafe began to oddly start tasting like cat.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
8:53 am

Morning.

SlimNu and Kym said it all.

@Celisea ~ going out for coffee while being under the weather = addicted (LOL). Never understood the power of coffee (J/K).

“I strongly suspect that because there are so many more “trains leaving the station”, that we may subconsciously think that each person is disposable…and consequently don’t put in the effort necessary to make a relationship work. A couple of bumps in the road and we are ready to move on.

@Randyt ~ Yes sir…you nailed it!

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
8:54 am

Good morning, all!

I’m gonna co-sign Kym, who co-signed Slim. (Hey, I made a rhyme! I’m poet and I didn’t know it!)

(waving at Randy) Welcome back!

cranky

January 4th, 2012
8:55 am

Best who what?
Oh doorstep schmorstep. This statistic cannot possibly be taking into account the over-40 population. Just try to find a straight, dateable ATL man in his 40s or 50s.
Seriously, go.
I’ll wait.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
8:56 am

(Totally off topic, but the gal in the ad for MaxClarity on the right side of this blog is HOTTTTT!…alas, too young by many years, oh well. I once called a female plaastic surgeon I saw on a billboard in Scottsboro, AL to ask her out (a dare of course), so I do at least try…plus all the other women in Jackson County AL were seriously “underpretty”…she was happily marrried but nice about it ;-) .

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
8:56 am

Most times, depending on where one lives, will hinder one’s dating choices. Sometimes, you have to travel a good 30+ miles just to mingle with the crowd you want to be around. Laziness doesn’t help (lol).

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
8:58 am

Hi ITL. Sidebar, Dayum I hate the Big Ten…that hurt me and I’m not a GA fan even, but am an SEC homer thru and thru.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
8:59 am

yep leggs @ your 8:56 that is why I will stick with a metro area…….I couldn’t imagine moving backs to a rural area single……….lol

disco

January 4th, 2012
9:01 am

good morning guys. yeah those best cities articles are a crock. heck, a black enterprise article is part of how I ended up living in the city I’m in now. not all of the reason, but part of it. still, I always run up on nice eye candy and good time guys when I’m in Atlanta. of course, I’m usually in vacation/party mode when I’m in Atlanta. it might be different if I lived there.

randy – really? you called a number on a billboard? dare or not, I like it. closest I’ve come to something like that is calling up a barber to see if he was single. (I have nerve but didn’t have the nerve to ask in a crowded mainly Spanish speaking barbershop. I could take the rejection but don’t know how comfortable I’d have been with being talked about and not knowing it).

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:03 am

@ Leggs re: “a good 30+ miles” I wondered after reading ‘Cranky’s’ post if one has to reflect on ITP vs. OTP in this calculation. I can assure “Cranky” that the burbs are full of ‘over 40 straight guys’ that are single and straight and dateable. Not sure about ITP though.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:05 am

Yup disco, I kept seeing this doll on the billboard and thought what do I have to lose. Turns out her husband was a dentist and they worked in the same office. Nothing ventured, nothing gained ;-)

Kym

January 4th, 2012
9:08 am

Well I know I have to come intown to meet folks..I live OTP and the only way I will meet anyone is at the Wally World, Kroger or gas pump..not saying it can’t happen..but the chances are pretty slim.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
9:09 am

Leggs – Yes ma’am….serious addiction to coffee…lol

disco

January 4th, 2012
9:12 am

randy – and you made her day to boot. married or not, I’m sure she got a kick out of it. probably telling her friends that some guy called her talking about he saw her picture on the billboard.

speaking of meeting folks. background – my friends always say I’m too picky and too judgmental and have my hang-ups. yeah. sure. whatever. so I mentioned on here the little guy I met at blockbuster right before christmas. I wasn’t feeling him because he was short but I let it ride and gave him my number. he pulled out his phone to take my number and it was a cricket phone. I made mental note of that as well because for me it’s not a good sign. anyway, he called Christmas eve and again on new year’s day. I decide to call him yesterday and invite him someplace. how come the phone number was disconnected? I laughed, shook my head and deleted the number.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:16 am

Kym’s comment makes me wonder if the problem is the number, or the lack of suitable venues. When I first came to ATL, I found tons of opportunities thru the hiking clubs, the church singles groups, and the good old standby, Match.com. The only problems with the church singles groups was that it was a “safe” environment, and hard to get out of the Friendship Zone. other than that, it was like a bufffet…and still is for me. That makes it harder because of trying to decide on an “entree” (figuratively speaking…sort of).

That said, sometimes the loneliest place is a big crowd. You have to be proactive and you have to put yourself out there…they don’t come knocking on your door (sadly, because I am basically lazy and would prefer that they did).

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
9:19 am

disco – Thanks for that laugh. Not the cricket phone….lololol

There are some reaaaal characters walking around

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
9:22 am

@Celisea ~ I had a neighbor ring my bell asking if I had coffee. We both knew I didn’t drink coffee, but she said she had to ask in the hopes I had some for company….ummmm, no!

Yes, Randyt, that was real cool. I like boldness and that’s right up there…nothing ventured, nothing gain!

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:22 am

good point Randy. Guess my train of thought was entertainment but you said a mouthful >>>That said, sometimes the loneliest place is a big crowd.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:25 am

I had an extensive convo about Houston recently and almost looked @ the person strange with his idea that it is really happening there….Low and behold it made the list………..I still feel Dallas over Houston lol smh

I need to visit both!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
9:25 am

Leggs – That’s funny because my neighbor directly in front of me will brew a cup for me (she’s a drinker of course) if I’m in dire need. Sometimes I’ll do a Starbucks run, her treat if I bring her back and cup after the early service on the first Sunday of every month. Sometimes I’ll treat her. But yeah, she’s my backup if I get the shakes. Surprisingly I don’t have a cup EVERY morning. About 6 days out of the week though I’m getting a cup. Usually if it’s REALLY good, I only want one cup. No two or three and not drinking all day.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:26 am

That’s funny disco LOL. I’ve seen some really prettty ladies in Blockbuster, but they usually had their kids or husbands with them and looked in a hurry.

Re Kym’s comment, I still have on my Bucket list to try to hook up (not literally there, but start an introduction) in the produce section of Publix. I may wander around the one down the street at lunch. Just one of those, “before I die” things I need to do

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:27 am

Dallas made the list too….I know many of these articles are skewed but I like the line up they have……not even trying to move but I think traveling more to view outside of Atlanta other metro areas is an added bonus that could help……….

disco

January 4th, 2012
9:31 am

celisea – one guy (who didn’t stand a chance to begin with but I offered to take his number as part of my exit strategy) had a cricket phone. he was real with his though. asked me to wait a few days before calling him because his phone would be off for a minute.

lady – I LOVE dallas and Austin. Houston, not so much.

randy – years ago I met a guy in a grocery store. talk game was cool but I noticed all kinds of kiddie foods in his cart. I didn’t say anything. he called restricted and had to cut calls short but never let on his situation. finally, I did the dmv check and next time he called I casually asked who so and so was (his wife). he was at a loss for words but finally came clean. I never told him how I found out about her though.

Amia

January 4th, 2012
9:31 am

GM all. I have lived in four of those cities. I am from Seattle. There you have the navy, army, and airforce bases. Whenever you have those in close driving distance, you can get a date! Relationship, totally different. I lived in Denver when I was 22-24. Loved it. Of course had dates and fun one’s too! Denver is a fantastic place. I lived in Orlando for five years. Dating was ok. I must say I have had the hardest time here though. I know it’s me though. I am early thirties and have less tolerance for dates I know are going nowhere. In my twenties I was just having fun and lots of it. I have dated here but have been very selective. I am re-evaluating my approach for 2012 for sure.

MsMarriedUp

January 4th, 2012
9:32 am

Oooh…maybe I shouldn’t be saying this since I am married and all… but I did happen to notice (for the ladies) TEXAS and NEW YORK, NEW YORK being the hot spots!!!

Good Lord the men out there!!! Whew… and I’m talking in 2011. It’s just 2012, but as of last year and for as long as I can remember those two places you can’t miss. Europe is nice too, but haven’t been in a while…

As for the men…this shouldn’t be a difficult guess by the every news channel that’s reporting on where the women are. Apparently everywhere!

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:36 am

see Disco we are >>>>here<<<<!

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:37 am

Old news now, but when I first came to the ATL 12 years ago, a lady told me this about ATL. Where were the good looking, succesful, sensative, single men…the answer was, they already have boyfriends. Turned out she had a point ;-)

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:39 am

MsMarriedUp my hearts longs for Harlem (love Renaissance) lol

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:39 am

“successful” not “succesful”,,, sorry.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:40 am

Sorry disco about the guy in the store. Guys like that give the rest of us bad names.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
9:40 am

What is a “cricket” phone???

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:40 am

lol Randy not nice lol too funny…..I never felt the competition was fierce with the gay community being here. I respect their lifestyle and stay out their la lol

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:41 am

*lane* that is

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:42 am

(I wish they would add a spell check in to this blog, I hit send too soon).

disco

January 4th, 2012
9:46 am

leggs – cricket is touted as “affordable pre-paid wireless” but affordable or not most folks I know with cricket phones seem to never be able to keep them on. most actually just use the things for texting because they can never talk. to me, a grown man with a cricket phone is bad sign.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:46 am

some browsers have spell check…I am just not at my usual spot today ugh….lol

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
9:49 am

I don’t know Leggs but I thought “cheesey” as in Tracphone

Kym

January 4th, 2012
9:50 am

@RandyT but see down my way..there are mostly married up folks shopping with the wife and kiddies if the guys are single..then I don’t notice them.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
9:51 am

@ MsMarriedUp…New York has beautiful women everywhere, but I have to believe that dating there is as competitive as the professional world. I’m not sure I could ever do well in the dating world there. Also, one still has to adapt to that culture of personal space. They don’t like for you to look straight at them, so the approach is tough unless they are wearing their “I’m available” look..

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
9:52 am

Yeah I was thinking tracphone like in Metro. I think Metro has upped their game since they first came on the scene?

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
9:54 am

There was a story on GMA this morning of an 18 y.o. new mom (baby 3 months old), husband passed on Christmas where she killed a dude for breaking in on her. They played the 911 tape and she was calm as ever. She told the dispatcher that there was someone coming in on her and asked if she could shoot him. The dispatcher told her not until he actually entered but that she couldn’t “recommend” anything to her. She went and got her guns and sure enough, one foot into her house she killed that joker. Come to find out, one of the men had been stalking her (I think that’s what the story said). It was two men and one had a nine inch knife (they named what kind…can’t remember). I so proud of her. No telling what they would have done to her and that sweet baby. He was soooo cute. Those jokers knew she was there alone. The other dude turned himself in.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
9:55 am

Well what about this events and adventures thing they keep flashing on Q100?

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
9:57 am

There are a lot of beautiful women here, but what gets to me is when men don’t believe that an attractive, single woman isn’t dating someone. They automatically think they’re lying in that someone HAS to be lurking behind the curtains. I called one person out saying it’s not nice to tell someone they’re lying right off the bat. There’s probably someone lurking in every single person’s life waiting to open that curtain, but just because someone is lurking doesn’t mean the woman is dating them. Hell, some of us don’t even know there’s someone lurking. Well, that may not be true (lol).

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
9:58 am

Thanks, Randy. It was a disappointment, for sure, but hey – a 10-win season is something to be proud of!

@Kym: A friend of mine at work joined. She’s had a lot of fun, and met some cool folks.

@disco: Do you have your dream interpretation book handy? I had a humdinger last night! :shock:

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
9:59 am

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
10:02 am

@Celisea ~ I saw that and noticed how calm she was. She asked if it was within her right to shoot him and blasted his behind. They were callous knowing she just lost her husband and was home alone (or so they thought). She had the company of her shotgun (or whatever it was she used). Good for her!!!!

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:03 am

@ Leggs, I remember reading an interview with a top model once who said she never got asked out. Men just automatically assumed that since she could have any guy she wanted, that she wasn’t available. That was an eye opener for me. What was that model several years ago who was in Grady for so long after some average dude asked her out and then wrecked his car reaching for his cell phone. She almost died. I remember thinking dayum, he is a nobody and she went out with him? If I had known that, then I would have asked her out.

M. (pronouced M dot)

January 4th, 2012
10:04 am

Good day everybody and happy new year!

If Atlanta is the best place to find a date, I wonder what city would be ideal to find a date that is interested in marrying one day? Would we still be the best city? Is Atlanta a great city to be in a relationship and/or married?

I think this list should be changed to the fact that Atlanta is a good place to CASUALLY date. The reason I say casually is that most people in Atlanta live through a fantasy in dating i.e., they want what they see on tv and if you are not that, you are just thrown into a rolodex and get called up as a backup plan if someone cancels on them.

Also, I have been here for 6 years almost and my theory is that Atlanta is a seasonal relationship city. People want to be in relationships from the fall until around the spring then they are probably tired of who they have been with and are seeking a new relationship, so they use the summer to hit the relationship campaign trail and find someone new to date for the fall…thus continuing the cycle.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
10:04 am

Cricket phone?
I was about to ask the sane question Disco! Lol

You have good skills,I must say…

A woman should be able to detect those things,like,if a dude got a ride or not..before accepting a date.

Unless ofcourse she also doesn’t have a ride!

Lol

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
10:04 am

disco

January 4th, 2012
10:06 am

ITL – I’m not home and that’s where my dream books are. try dreammoods.com. they have a dream dictionary where you can look up key words.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:07 am

Leggs – That’s what I was thinking. Just cruel. No doubt was going to do something heinous. A grieving widow with a brand new baby. I don’t advocate killing but I’m glad she did. She said she knew it was her/baby or them.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
10:09 am

Not sure why men feel all pretty women are dating. Never got that. Should we feel that all ugly men aren’t dating? Not a fair assessment. Not sure, but seems like they’re getting their fair share of puddy (even if it’s from fat, unkempt women). Sorry, I digress….

@ITL ~ I had a humdinger of a dream last night…it was about a table that people lived in for centuries that morphed into anything you needed from it. Different generations lived in this table carved out of big oak tree that was able to provide you with anything you wanted. Weird to say the least….I think I went to bed too early (9:45).

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:10 am

@ Mdot Could be. I tend to hide from Thanksgiving until after New Years. Had most of my serious relationships end in December so I am superstitious. Don’t like being kicked to the curb so someone can start the New Year fresh anymore, LOL. Been there done that…

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
10:10 am

Good morning!

Nothing to add to the topic

Disco – Got a dream for ya, but give you a little background first. We had a small wedding in Vegas and the plan was to have a reception dinner back home here in the ATL later in the summer. That never materialized. Summer got away from us and we spent money on other things.

Well last night I dreamed that we had finally planned that dinner and sent out invites to about 100 people. I went out to run some errands and when I came back and drove pass the venue where we were having the dinner, people were lined up early to get in and everyone had brought a few people with them, their entire families in some cases! There was about double the amount we invited. I panicked because I knew I did not have enough food to feed all those people. I went home to get dressed for the dinner, but could not get myself ready fast enough to get there on time.

What can all this mean?

Audra

January 4th, 2012
10:11 am

Yep, Atlanta is a good place to find a date, and I say this coming from the Midwest, where it is absolutely terrible. I have also been unsuccessful in the long-term relationship endeavor, but I haven’t been at it for long. I do think that if you want a date you have to 1) get off your azz – go do something! and 2) be willing to put yourself out there, go on dates just for the sake of having fun. How else will you find out what you do and don’t like, and WHOM you do and don’t like?

disco

January 4th, 2012
10:12 am

ex – yeah I joked that those fellas might want to get a little Verizon/sprint/att sticker to put over that cricket logo. heck even sharpie it out and if they don’t want to go through all that trouble then quit putting their phones all on display. that’s a pet peeve of mine anyway. folks (men and women) be flossing with their phones like they used to floss with beepers back in the day. that cricket logo is putting all your business in the street.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:13 am

@ Leggs, weird dreams must be going around. I dreamed about my transition lover from twelve years ago…woke up pizzed off ;-) …again.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:14 am

Imma have to cosign the cricket phone thing. I look at stuff like that too. It might seem shallow but IMO it’s indicative of what’s going on…OR NOT I get turned off easily but that sort of thing.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
10:16 am

@Leggs: That was a weird dream. Let’s look it up on dreammoods.

I dreamed that I was riding in a car, talking to family and friends. The only problem is that all the folks in the car (except me, of course) are deceased. Kinda gave me the shivers….

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
10:20 am

Cel!

no,don’t get turned off like that but it just means he ain’t in ya league! Lol

it’s like a short short,thick,rickety dude trying to holla at a tall chic. Lol

Kym

January 4th, 2012
10:20 am

@disco…somedays I think will we ever ever ever get out of high school? Flossing with your phone….You know what..I would love for suppose to be grown tail men or women, for that matter… to just once instead of playacting at being so fly..to try playing acting at just being adults. To quote from the book of Prince..”Act your age..not your shoe size.

Sorry slight Vent.

M. (pronouced M dot)

January 4th, 2012
10:21 am

@Randyt

LOL yup a lot of people hide because they don’t want to date along with the stress of the holidays. I know some guys that get real serious about dating right around February 15th lol

Kym

January 4th, 2012
10:23 am

@ITL..okay call me weird but I always look at the visit from the dead as a good thing. Like they are trying to warn or pass on some wisdom to me. Lately I haven’t had any dreams..or maybe I am not really remembering them.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:23 am

Mark Wahlburg has a new movie coming out January 13th…I’m there front and center. I love anything he plays in…

Why are all the talks shows (so it seems) only focused on weight loss and the anti-aging process?? That’s all I’ve heard today and all of December.

I’m just posting randoms….ohhh, now “The Doctors” are talking about “why is it white” and we’re heading towards the vagina…brb

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:25 am

MMeello – LOL..I agree

Okay The Doctors have moved on to talk about semen. If your semen is white you have more sperm cells. If it’s more clearer, you have less.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
10:26 am

Light – I have dreams about family bbq’s and outings where the people are deceased all the time!! Strangly though, I often find comfort in them. In the dreams, I’m in the kitchen cooking with my mom or clowning with my younger brother or uncles or grandfather, who are all gone. But in the dreams we are always having fun.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:27 am

They’re doing “white” things…

Now it’s the white tongue, breast milk and white noise…

Carrie

January 4th, 2012
10:28 am

Yes, you can date very well in Atlanta but actually finding a mate is HARD! Where are those cities? I’m just afraid after soooooooooooo many dating experiences, I just might need dating Re-hab to actually be able to eventually identify and settle down with one person….don’t judge me.

/

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
10:29 am

lol Carrie…..

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
10:31 am

@Kym and Kimmie: I like what you said. I’m going to look at it that way!

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:35 am

Carrie, that doesn’t make you the exception, it makes you the rule. One of the problems with dating is that if one has to have all the questions answered correctly before committing, then guess what… Not easy. Throw in the fact that seldom are two people at the same place at the same time in a relationship and again the “meal” becomes over or under cooked. Timing and a willingness to take the plunge are key…and frankly I seem to have neither most of the time LOL.

So, welcome to the club. ;-)

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:36 am

Ice: for manscaping (per the doctor), shaving, removing splinters (also sterilize) numb the area with a bit of ice…another tip from The Dctors

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:37 am

So we have decided that dreaming of dead people is good, but what about dead relationships, LOL?

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:39 am

Throw in the fact that seldom are two people at the same place at the same time in a relationship and again the “meal” becomes over or under cooked.

Good point. I’m finding more and more, older men (say late 30s early 40s) are the main ones not wanting to commit. Most want to go out and hang out and get intimate but many like the “option” of several women. I don’t think venues and cities are the issues. It’s always the people. People do want they REALLY want to and what they don’t want to do, no matter what they say their actions will state otherwise. I say live life and dont’ lose any sleep over it. Can’t make folks be where they don’t want to be.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
10:39 am

@kimmie ~ your dreams speaks smack of disrespect to me. Your moving slow to get ready is because you are pissed with people thinking they can ignore your wishes and thinking you’ll sweetly continue to oblige them. You’re trying to say “no more walking over me,” but I know that’s not really the case. You want to not even show up for your own dinner celebration but you already paid.

Also, you moving slowly could be your way of formulating a plan on how you can tell the people who came uninvited to eat for the plate of the person who brought them.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:40 am

Peppermint foot baths with condensed milk…you can also add menthol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
10:41 am

@Celisea ~ EVERY time I see Mark Walberg I know the movie is going to be excellent. Who would have thunk he would have turned into such a dynamic actor after coming from that boy group (lol).

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:42 am

Coming up next: White foods to avoid

Y Carrington

January 4th, 2012
10:42 am

You are kidding right! Now that is a joke if there ever was one. LOL

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:43 am

Leggs – I cannot think of one single movie he’s been in that I saw that I did not like. Yes ma’am a very good actor. I’m going to be there front and center when this next movies comes out. That’s what next week?

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
10:44 am

Y Carrington – Welcome!

You’ll find here….”to each his own”

Carrie

January 4th, 2012
10:44 am

@Randy – I just don’t want all of this dating to leave me twisted and unable to know whats real. I think if we don’t change it up or a least fall back for a moment of reflection we can become twisted dating victims with a series of misadventures rather than people who have actually grown by those experinces and can translate them into something more meaningful eventually.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
10:48 am

C Good Post 10:39!

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:51 am

Good point Carrie. I know some people who never get over the rejections instead of learning from them. I mourn for a day or two (usually with several glasses of Maker’s ark, my oldest friend :-) then I back off and reflect on what I could have done better or different. I don’t waste my time trying to blame the other because if it is not right for one it is not right for either. No matter how good or how painful, I value all for what I learned…and try to remember the good. The ones I pity are the ones who think that they are failures or victims and won’t let it go, because that just gets in the way of the good and the learning…and potential success the next time around.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:52 am

Maker’s Mark…sorry.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
10:52 am

Kimmie?!

I think ur dream is a joyful dream!

Anywhere where there is food and lots of people(no chaos) gotta be a good thing,never mind you were worried that the food won’t be enough.

You are a giver(food) and it comes thru in your dream.

Off topic: I hate good folks,smart,witty, nice etc but with ,spanking clean but Cold, no activity kitchens! Lol

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
10:53 am

Leggs – I think your 10:39 is right on the money!

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
10:54 am

@Randyt ~ nice post in that you’re learning, moving on, no longer engaging in bitterness. If that’s the case, why were you pissed after dreaming about your transistion lover 12 years ago (lol)….I had to mess with you on that one.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
10:54 am

No Leggs! U off on Kimmie’s dream

Carrie

January 4th, 2012
10:54 am

The ones I pity are the ones who think that they are failures or victims and won’t let it go, because that just gets in the way of the good and the learning…and potential success the next time around.

@Randy – Touche’

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
10:57 am

Exiled – That’s another way to look at it too, though that’s where the problem may lie. Folks know most times they can depend on me, especially for a meal. They are not always considerate of me & my time though! I can be a bit of a softie and folks take advantage of that! :)

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
10:58 am

LOL @ Exiled. I was at a Christmas party once given by a really well to do divorced anaesthesiologist. Gorgeous multimillion dollar home, beautiful, spotless… I went to the refrigerator (guessing three or four thousand at least) and all that was in it was some bottled water. other than some strategically placed pictures of his children (who apparently lived with his ex), there was not a single sign of a “home” rather than a “showcase”. I felt sorry for him.

disco

January 4th, 2012
10:59 am

celisea/leggs – a few days ago (after watching four brothers yet again) I commented that mark wahlberg will make you forget he’s a white boy. I’m at a loss as to why he isn’t my white boy crush.

exiled – makes me think of martin Lawrence in you so crazy when he said he comes in the door and sniffs and doesn’t smell anything cooking.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:00 am

@Ex ~ if you read kimmie’s post, no way there was joy in that dream (lol). BTW, the doubling of people in and of itself speaks Chaos!

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:01 am

No Ex, you’re off (lol)

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:01 am

White foods to avoid:

Whipping cream
seasonings (salt, sugar)
pasta
bread
dressings

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:01 am

LOL @ Leggs…okay you got me ;-) As the name of the cabin cruiser I saw once said “Damfino”.

While we are playing with each other, how is “you know who”?

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:03 am

@ Leggs and just so you know, ya Meany, I got pizzed because there was another guy…last time it was her ex-husband. Heard from her awhile back, gone blonde, stopped dating, and looked good. Tempting, but nope…

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:04 am

Annnnnnnnnnnnnnnd I’m turning from The View….too much talking at one time.

dyslexicbunny

January 4th, 2012
11:04 am

Whole wheat pasta bad too? And ranch dressing is so tasty – goes great with hot wings.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
11:04 am

@Cel

Everything in moderation…

Too much of (just about) anything is hazardous to your health.

I cut back on the sugar/salt intake and lost 15 (easy) pounds.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:08 am

You have me cracking up, Randyt. I’m not mean (not really) :lol:

“You know who” seems to be ok. I sense he’s going through some things. I don’t want to press the envelope since he’s not forthcoming. But trying to read between the lines tells me he’s going through something.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:10 am

dyslexicbunny – They only mentioned the white pasta as being bad for you. I only eat whole wheat pasta when I’m cooking. Not bad at all.

Exactly Dan. I don’t do away with everything altogether. Some things I think you need…if only a smidgen of it.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
11:12 am

@Cel: You could watch The Price is Right. Snoop was on there on Monday, and dang if he didn’t help them win nearly every game. I think it’s celebrity week….

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:13 am

@ Dan, i mayhave found some of the pounds you lost. Since you probably don’t want them back, i will keep them and take care of them. Hopefully i can pass them on to someone else down the road.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:17 am

Hey ITL – I say him on there…”D O double g”….lol What’s up with the two ponytails though?? Ain’t he ’bout 50?? Shouldn’t he take those down now? I was thinking for that last (black) chick that made it to the stage he might would hook her up in a video.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:18 am

Cold cut artist is Angela Winbush (4) 741-1075…tix to see Joyful Noise and Mike Epps comedy stint.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
11:22 am

LOL @ Cel. He really was good, though. He helped that lady win over $12K in Plinko. I looked it up, and today’s celeb is Neil Patrick Harris, tomorrow is Chris Daughtry, and Friday is Heidi Klum! I’m going to have to DVR it.

So now y’all know..I LOVE The Price is Right. #don’t judge me

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:24 am

Okay after I plug in some financials I’m going to watch a movie take a nap

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:27 am

ITL – I was passing that channel and stopped because he was on there…I watched the entire show. I just want the ponytails gone. I guess that’s his trademark…lol

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
11:28 am

I love Snoop, ponytails & all!!

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
11:28 am

I dont’ know what it is about him, but I find him fascinating. I’m not attracted to him, but I am drawn to watching him, even if it’s The Price is Right or the guest appearance he did on Monk. (shrug) Go figure…

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
11:30 am

I don’t know how uall concluded on yesterday’s no s e x for a whoooole year topic but anybody here confess to rounding off 2011 without getting some…not even self induced mechanical f o r nication??

We would need a blog Round of Applause and a toast!

anything I missed?! Lol

take a stab Celisea,anyone! Lol

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
11:31 am

Light – I’m not attracted either. I just get a vibe from him that he’s a cool, fun, down-to-earth person.

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:33 am

Heidi Klum on Friday…

I first saw her years ago in an Esquire layout I almost thought, move over Christie B. i still think she is the best of the VS gals…never thought a lady wearing “angel wings” and a thong could look so good. Defintiely a religious moment.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:33 am

I always thought he was talented…just too much of a weed head though

disco

January 4th, 2012
11:34 am

ITL – funny you mentioned monk. I saw the most hilarious episode the other day. monk’s insurance changed and he had to go to group therapy instead of private sessions. he commented in group that his assistant did whatever and a guy in group attacked him saying at least he had an assistant. imagine how hard life is for folks out in the world that are assistant-less.

I’ve got a friend who LOVES snoop. I like him as an artist but I’d never pick snoop in a game of “who can hit it”.

ex – I’ll bite. I’ll raise my hand because I’m not a liar (not because I’m proud of it). still, I’m working on it, I’m working on it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
11:35 am

The little A has a lot to offer for dating and that’s it. The A is more a party city than a romantic one, once in while a match is made for couples willing to go extra in their relationship. Single and unattached men find it hard to settle when there are waves of beautiful women moving here, we are like grizzly bears on a river bank waiting for salmon to jump in our mouth little effort great reward. I know this is chauvanistic I was born here, what else can I say. I’ll stop right there.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:35 am

ICE CUBE AKA Dough Boy..is one of my gangsta rapper crushes..Right up there with DJ Khaled..my son I only like them cause they are fluffy. LOL

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
11:35 am

How bout u Lady?!

Blog hall of fame nominations for 2011!

I’m cracking up!

Lol lol

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:36 am

MMeello – I don’t qualify…surprised?

Mayne you are a riot for real

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:36 am

Snoop…weed, surely not ;-) Okay Cheech and Chong may still edge him out.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:36 am

@RandyT you keep mention blonds..some how I keep thinking of you with a Naomi Judd type..sorry.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:37 am

I look at Snoop Dog the same way I look at LLCoolJ. Both stuck with their h.s. sweethearts because they both wanted someone who could identify with their type of upbringing and appreciate where they came from to where they landed. However, I’m not saying either one hasn’t committed adultry along the way.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
11:37 am

Disco!

Ain’t that something!

I believe u!!

Daaamn! (lol) :lol:

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:39 am

Meelloo – Are going down much easier these days?

I like Ice Cube too…I think though I came to like him better during his “making movies” days rather than rapping days

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:43 am

Ashley not Naomi. I sometimes watch Kentucky basketball games just to see if she is in the crowd. I’d ask her out in a heartbeat if she would stay single long enough ;-)

Randyt (aka, dayum what a time to get a cold, rather get a new t-shirt).

January 4th, 2012
11:44 am

@ Kym, although for the record, the transition lady had red hair when I knew her LOL.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:45 am

@RandyT..I like Ashley..she is extremely smart..and a great actress.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:46 am

I LOVE the Judds…or I did back in their hayday.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:47 am

@Leggs..WOBBLE BABY WOBBLE BABY WOBBLE BABY WOBBLE..GET IN THA!!!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:47 am

Alright folks…nap time

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:48 am

Yeah Yeah….

Now that I know what the heck I’m doing (LOLOL)….

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
11:48 am

It’s a WIP Celisea!

not a natural for me,I won’t lie..

I associate mt mouth with food intake and I’m a hygienist(clean freak when it comes to food,kitchen,utensil placement etc) so getting something into my mouth like that….ummm..

let the d handle that….

But I also realize,it puts her on a plateau of pleaaaaaasure

So I try……

So for u folks(ladies),its a requirement..u expect it ad a default right?

I think the American guys have no issue with it right?

If Ared’s college tales are to be believed! Lol :lol:

(do it with no hands) lol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:50 am

@Kym ~ you know I had a blast (lol).

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:52 am

A requirement, not necessarily, but an added bonus (most definitely). I wouldn’t dismiss a guy if he didn’t engage. HOWEVER, don’t expect me to engage when you down. Something like that is a two-way street!

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:52 am

when you don’t…

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:53 am

@Leggs.. me too..my back was hurting….next time I know..be naked if I want attention.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
11:54 am

Mmeello – I associate mt mouth with food intake and I’m a hygienist(clean freak when it comes to food,kitchen,utensil placement etc) so getting something into my mouth like that….ummm..

Then you’re a fake and a fraud and not the true freak you profess to be or project…lol

Kym

January 4th, 2012
11:54 am

Shh,..got a secret but dont say nothing..I am kind of liking little T.I. shhh..

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
11:56 am

Dang! Blog monster ate my post!

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
11:57 am

U funny Celisea!

Ummm…fraud.. Lol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
11:58 am

@Kym ~ we can dress like the “girls” at the other table, but look at what they “pulled!” Let’s keep doing what we’re doing (lol). We’re good….

After hearing T.I. speak at a press conference I was impressed. But, the boy is too skinny for me!

Kym

January 4th, 2012
12:07 pm

@Leggs..I like his music..but otherwise..it would be like walking around with a little brother.

OUCH ! i bumped my head

January 4th, 2012
12:08 pm

@Leggs from yesterday No arrest. No doors slammed. Just a off color joke I heard from a co-worker

OUCH ! i bumped my head

January 4th, 2012
12:10 pm

I have a warped sense of humor Sorry If i offended you =(

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
12:14 pm

Had to go back to yesterday’s blog to refresh my memory, OUCH.

@Albert ~ able-bodied has nothing to do with a properly “functioning” body. Able-bodied is being able to do what it takes to get the job done.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
12:18 pm

@OUCH ~ I wasn’t offended. My retort was also a joke. I was visualizing you touching folk just because they were within reach and someone slapping you.

OUCH ! i bumped my head

January 4th, 2012
12:27 pm

The jest of the blog was “Only you know how you really like it”
Maybe thats how I got that bump on my head Hmmmm

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
12:33 pm

OK, its midday……what’s good?!?

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
12:33 pm

Talking about brotherly love….

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/young-brother-eats-cocaine-older-sibling-butt-dies-overdose-cops-article-1.994731

Well, I did eat two rolled joints (may have been one) out of a friend’s mouth while sitting in the back of a police car after she couldn’t eat any more of it. Ummmm, knew I wouldn’t die from the quantity….

anonymousella

January 4th, 2012
12:34 pm

to bring it back on topic:

oh boy. they’re looking at raw numbers of single folks, with no mentions of the quality of the pool.

well if “number of options” is what you’re looking for, i guess that’s accurate. but throw some parameters around that (i.e.: job, education, income, common interests, common values, number of children and baby mamas/daddys), and … well, now y’all know why i married a cali boy and moved west.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
12:37 pm

How’s the west coast living anonymousella?!?

IDGAF

January 4th, 2012
12:39 pm

I find that some people are just itching to be in a relationship to seek stability, find their place in life or complete them. If they need someone else to that for them, then they are sad.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
12:42 pm

hmmmmm IDGAF so the women in the 40s and 50s are perceived as sad?!? wasn’t that the way of life….but i know we are in 2012 and I get your point…

IDGAF

January 4th, 2012
12:49 pm

Lady, Thank You for understanding where Im coming from. After reading my post, it did seem like I was degrading a group of people, my apologies. Thank You again. Second it’s not just women, some men are like that as well. Sometimes worse

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
12:55 pm

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
1:07 pm

After reading the below story, I thought of two things: (1) what a nice story to tell the kids later on in life and (2) he must not have been attractive enough. I understand the law, but if she was interested she would have been flattered and not disgusted.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/woman-sues-stops-speeding-fast-tracks-home-date-article-1.1000719

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:07 pm

off topic! aretha and chaka are coming to concert in the spring here! ;)

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
1:09 pm

No disrespect, but that’s a whole lot of screaming….

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
1:16 pm

@Leggs

Shole would’ve been, and if she had any since, she’da got out of that (and other) tickets too..

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:17 pm

lol lol good screaming Ms Leggs! ;)

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:21 pm

@ ITL…the blog nazi ate two of mine.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
1:22 pm

I agree Dan!

:lol: @Lady. Chaka’s screeching back in the day could only have turned into wobbly screeching now. Oh boy…

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:23 pm

wow leggs……..it may be but I will support her reinvention….. . ;)

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:28 pm

@ IDGAF and lady, I’d have to think about whether I agree. I do know that the older a woman becomes, the more “security” becomes a major desire. That said, most of the women I date want the whole package, security, chemistry, looks, comfort… I find myself thinking that is a tall order to fill…and sometimes “male financial security” might be misread if one looks just at car and home, and doesn’t exam the whole portfolio. When I was dating the “Flake”, she told me about the stalker she dated. he had a nice Infiniti SUV (leased), a fancy apartment (but still an apartment), and a whole lot of smoke and mirrors.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
1:29 pm

Aretha is getting married..I think that is so cute.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:30 pm

me too Kym! ;)

Randy I hear you!

question

January 4th, 2012
1:32 pm

I am happily married to a womderful lady..

But who wants to go out on a date with me?

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
1:34 pm

Kym – You betta back up off my thug crush T.I.!!! :lol:

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
1:34 pm

@Lady ~ just the facts….(lol). Yeah, I’m happy for The Queen.

@Randyt ~ seems like quite a few of the men in my age category have big guts and need the blue pill…both unappealing.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:35 pm

I hear you Leggs! :)

E Harmony keeps matching me with fat chicks

January 4th, 2012
1:35 pm

I disagree…..Atlanta is a horrible dating city….Unless you like fat chicks.

Islander

January 4th, 2012
1:36 pm

Atlanta is a great dating city, never had a problem when I lived there. If you are having a problem dating in Atlanta, don’t move to Savannah. I have never lived somewhere where an attractive guy with a great personality, advanced degree, and a great career could have such a hard time finding women to date. If you are not military or of the old money crowd, the women of Savannah won’t give you the time of day. Oh how I wish I was in Atlanta again!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:38 pm

@ lady a Texas expression…”all hat, and no cattle”

“Description of a person that is all talk and no substance; full of big talk but lacking action; a person who cannot back up his/her words; a fake; a pretender”.

That is what some women find when they look deeper…and a good idea to look deeper.

@question …we seem to have a slight conflict here ;-)

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
1:39 pm

@? ~ Have you thought about asking your wife out!

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:39 pm

yes sir! I certainly agree with the Texas expression! Thanks for that!

Britney E.

January 4th, 2012
1:41 pm

I think Atlanta is a wonderful place to date and marry. If you are a woman, you just have to learn to play the game and not give it up too soon. And ladies, make sure you pay for your OWN dinner and movie ticket sometimes so he won’t be expecting tail by the end of the night! And for males and females, don’t waste your time if someone shows the slightest hint of being crazy. Pay attention to the red flags and move on. There are so many cultures here, Atlanta is a fun place to live, date, marry and work. Good luck to everyone looking for someone special. Don’t give up!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:42 pm

@ Leggs…sometimes medical conditions can cause the need for the blue pill. Diabetics in particular. Age takes its toll. Now fat stomachs, I understand that dilemma and agree (and gazing down and thinking I better hit the gym tonight, Leggs just called me out”) LOL.

THE INFAMOUS DK

January 4th, 2012
1:42 pm

Atlanta is a great city for frappin and bumpin uglies.. Relationships.. I dont know.. Most are more concerned with your Financial situation than your chracter. And that goes for men and women.. The we look good on paper releationship is what I like to call it.

question

January 4th, 2012
1:43 pm

@Leggs..

I will do that and you know what.. It will be the best data ever..

THE INFAMOUS DK

January 4th, 2012
1:46 pm

Afternoon erybody!!!!

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
1:47 pm

Funniest.isht.all.day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFmqMe0pQ5A&sns=fb

old lady reminds me of my mom silly arse

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
1:47 pm

E – Um…don’t you put in the body type preference you’re looking for?

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:48 pm

@ Britney…good post. One problem is that sometimes “crazy” surfaces later, lol. To paraphrase “The Sixth Sense”:

I see crazy people. They are everywhere. They don’t know they are crazy. They walk around just like normal people. And some of them…I’ve dated.

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
1:49 pm

@Randyt – yeah I realize medical conditions usually calls for the blue pill. Sometimes as a result because he didn’t take care of himself. And, I’m not referring to genetics. I’ve seen men be a glutton at the dinner table/buffet with no regard to their health, but they want a nice spry young thing on their arms….go figure.

@? ~ go for it, you can do it and rekindle dem embers that haven’t died out….you’d be surprised.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
1:50 pm

Not sure if it’s been mentioned here before or not but have you guys heard about the couple that have been married for like 70yrs. The hubby found out his wife had an affair like 40+yrs ago and now he’s filing for divorce?

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:50 pm

lol Randy do you own a DSM IV?!? just asking lol you crack me up with your stories lol everyone can relate to a page in that good book of crazy! lol I just want to consult and assess crazy although I shouldn’t be using that word bc it irks me but its funny in this context lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
1:50 pm

Leggs 1:34:

No blue pills here, no knock on men that need them.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
1:51 pm

@kimmie..I just like his music..but if I was in a fight I wouldn’t put it pass little man to blast somebody.

On Line Dating for Dummies

January 4th, 2012
1:51 pm

1) Everyone lies or exaggerates about one or more things.

2) Beware of those who only post photos from the neck up. They are concealing how damn fat they are.

3) Beware of those who post more than 5 – 7 photos. They think way too much of themselves.

4) WTF is the deal of posting photos of your pets? We do not want to date your pets. Stop posting those photos…It\’s creepy

5) Same as above, except photos of your children. Are you trying to appeal to the pedophile in us?

6) Stop with the over used cliche\’. We all love walks on the beach. Woo us with something different and unique.

7) don\’t be too wordy. See number 3 above. It may indicate you think too much of yourself.

8) If you state you are always so busy, then what makes us think you will make time for dating?

9) Be totally honest. It\’s better to get rejected before the first date, then to get dumped later on.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:53 pm

wow Bloomingdale’s is closing! I remember the day it opened! my lil lady was a baby and her outfit came from there! wow

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
1:54 pm

Big guts, I see them on younger guys more than I do on older ones.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
1:54 pm

O/T..who was the Grimm fan in here? I am trying to get into this tv show but I think it is something I have to follow from the start.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
1:57 pm

I like #9! #truestory

On Line Dating for Dummies

January 4th, 2012
1:57 pm

More:

Revealing photos –

Guys, most women don\’t want to see you shirtless in front of a Harley or Corvette. It reeks of inseccurity.

Ladies…..Same as above in bikinis or mega cleavage tops. You are asking for trouble as most guys see that as an invite for first date sex.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
1:59 pm

@OLDforD Yup. Spot on.

@ lady…lol, no I don’t have one but am an observant, avid student of psychological disorders…especially with bosses and girlfriends ;-) I have a one picture/cartoon blowup of a Dilbert cartoon on my office wall. Dilbert is basically ignoring his pointy haired boss. and saying, “I respectfully decline the invitation to participate in your delusion”. I kind of look at life and DSM that way ;-)

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:00 pm

@SlimNu ~ yeah he’s 97 and she’s 96. He can’t get past her infidelity all those decades ago. The divorce is going to kill both of them.

@BF ~ not knocking those that need it, just knocking those that didn’t help themselves so they wouldn’t need it. Nevamind….NEXT

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:00 pm

Slim – I heard about that. The man is 99 and the lady is 96. They’ve been married over 70 years. He found some old love letters from 60 years ago that she wrote to the other dude!!

He needs to sit his old butt down. I doubt if he’s been a complete angel all those 70-plus years himself.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
2:00 pm

There is something very heartning about sitting in a bank office in North Georgia listening to Cee-lo “cufk you”….

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:01 pm

@BF ~ why you letting me know you don’t need no blue pill (lol).

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:01 pm

I hear you Randy! #funny lol

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
2:01 pm

Regardless Kimmie

Why you got old love letters that long?

I’m saying, if they haven’t turned to dust by now, why is you keeping them?

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:02 pm

Ummm, Online Dating for Dummies, why are you posting your dos and don’ts here? Shouldn’t you post these things on your page/profile or whatever place they have for preferences on the dating site? I think most of us are good here.

wing is the thing

January 4th, 2012
2:02 pm

Hmm, – just wondering how they determine the city to be the best..Does the city make the eye contact, say something good, ask the question, response smartly, read the body language, etc? I’d think it is only up to you, and the other half. Not necessarily equally 50/50. Just saying…

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:03 pm

@OLDforD re: Ladies…..Same as above in bikinis or mega cleavage tops. You are asking for trouble as most guys see that as an invite for first date sex.

Well, yeah. Now I’m confused ;-) Did that mean something else?

On Line Dating for Dummies

January 4th, 2012
2:03 pm

And more photo advice –

Background of photos. Be aware of what\’s in the background. Messy and clutter is a turn off

Also, who else is in your photo? Numerous photos of you in a bar with numerous people holding bottles of cheap beer suggest you are a party animal when you may not be one.

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:04 pm

@On Line ~ I agree. Why are there 18 pics and some are of the ocean outside your vacation hotel window, your pet, your bathroom, your bedroom, etc. Sheesh.

And, I’ve heard about face pics only may be hiding someone’s size (lol).

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:05 pm

Old dude just mad his wifey got her freaky on some years ago…lol

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:05 pm

That would be so crazy to go thru all those years together to have to spend tthe last period of it dealing with a broken heart. I can see the devastation of finding out your loving ‘faithful’ wife actuall got some D on the side, after all that time. I can’t see him or her functioning that well having to now learn to live ’single’ again. That’s CRAZY!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:07 pm

Maybe old dude is thinking this is a good excuse to go knocking on some doors at the old folks home. maybe he has been wanting some strange for 50 or so years himself.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:07 pm

LOL

I happened on your statement, consensus is older men need them when I have seen more younger buying and trying to sell them. The part where it’s undesirable to you made me have to stick up for the guys who don’t use them.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:10 pm

Me either…I would think after all this time to let bygones be bygones. I don’t want to accuse him but I’m sure there are things on both sides that should just be forgiven and let go.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:10 pm

I read that story and I was really puzzled Leggs! lol wow.

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:10 pm

No matter how you slice it, Randyt, Old Dude is going to die either trying to get some or simply from a broken heart.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:10 pm

Dan – I agree, why keep them? And I’m guessing they are a little deeper than “Roses are red, violets are blue…”. Maybe he felt she’s always been pining for someone else all these years and this is the evidence.

Maybe the dude in the letters are her real true love and that’s why she could not part with them. Po thang didn’t know how to play the game! Destroy the evidence!

In any case, it’s sad.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:11 pm

Regarding the blue pill, there are only two kinds of guys that use it…those that have and those that will, lol.

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:12 pm

@BF ~ no need to stick up for something you can’t prove…I kid hon, I kid…

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:12 pm

What Blog Fam!

Happy New Years!!!

For Real is officially hooked on Girl with the Dragon Tatoo. I watched all 3 this weekend. In subtext at that!!!

On topic: I have never been in a city that could not find a date. I had to cross my eyes several times but hell at least I was on a date.

Ladies don’t listen to Dummy, show as much cleavage as you want. Hell sans the bra!!!

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:12 pm

Sorry for typos, I’m mobile and outiside so my fangas are a bit stiff lol

Speaking of which, Where da hellz is For Real?

cba

January 4th, 2012
2:13 pm

If you’re that old and have been married that long, it should be some law against getting a divorce lol

BlackVoices is reporting that Nick Cannon is in the hospital with kidney failure. They even have a picture of him and Mariah in his hospital bed…..why??

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:13 pm

I betcha old dude has always been controlling! Thought he had wifey under control and on a short leash. It’s probably killing him that she might have had the last laugh all along.

He really ought to let it go.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:14 pm

awww that is say news cba! their twins are adorable!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:14 pm

@ Kym, i was into Grimms. You talking about “Once Upon a Time”? Hard to follow but good show. Brought back some childhood memories for me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:15 pm

I’m imagining having to say wait for 30 to an hour so the pill can start working. I can’t see it, but it happens and they sometimes don’t work.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:15 pm

“maybe he has been wanting some strange for 50 or so years himself.”

Randy – at this point, I’m sure his own weenie is something ’strange’ to him :lol:

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:15 pm

Awwww dayum!!! Come on Cel and Kimmie…. Why can’t yall just agree very old girl is wrong and the man is justified in wanting a divorce?

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:15 pm

At the ripe old age of 96, she probably forgot all about where she hid those letters.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:17 pm

What up Slim Goodie!!! You want me to show you a trick to warming up your fanga real quick?

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:18 pm

@cba ~ yeah he has mild kidney failure. They on the list for the worst baby names in 2011.

@SlimNu ~ girl, what made you call on ForReal at the same time he popped in all willy nilly? No talk on his whereabouts, etc. but here you come coughing him right up (lol)…

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:18 pm

meant sad cba

disco

January 4th, 2012
2:18 pm

leggs – a whole lot of screaming. that’s funny.

kimmie/kym – TI as a thug crush. he may do thug type things but he still looks soft. now 50 cent (not the I lost a lot of weight for a movie 50) got that thug appeal for sure.

Brittney – re expecting tail. made me think of DL Hughley talking about when the bill collectors call and ask when they can expect payment he replies that you can expect it whenever you want to. when will you get it is the real question.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:19 pm

Hey For Real, I’m leaning towards Kimmie’s theory…that’s probably the one true love she couldn’t have and went ahead and indulged in that moment in time…lol Old cat is mad as heck now…first for going all this time being none the wiser and then to know she had a thing for somebody else but stayed with him out of whatever it is that made her stay…lol He just need to LET IT GO and gone over into the sunset with her.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
2:20 pm

So now u have to imagine he got some himself to make it look good on her part?

that’s reaching!

a broken heart is a broken heart,never mind his age or how li g they been together.

If she’s keeping luv letters that old,the side flame did some to her heart!

Women don’t hold onto to stuff unless they were emotionally touched or have an agenda.

The D must have been good.

Leggs`

January 4th, 2012
2:20 pm

“I’m imagining having to say wait for 30 to an hour so the pill can start working. I can’t see it, but it happens and they sometimes don’t work.” – Mental turnoff. Not referring to someone I’ve been in a relationship with, but a newbie wanting to hang tighter with me. UUGGGH!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:20 pm

OUCH!…….LOL

I’ve been shot from behind by friendly fire, someone hurry and pull the arrow out my back.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:20 pm

I see you got my call telepathically lol. I’m missing one of the finger parts to my glove. Any idea what happened to it? :???:

Kym

January 4th, 2012
2:20 pm

After 60 years if you still holding a grudge..I mean what is the point..old dude found the letters and it all came back to him or was he in the war or something..aint no fool like a old fool.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:23 pm

@Ex ~ you sound like the guy from yesterday. It probably wasn’t about the “D.” Apparently his essence consisted of more than just sex for her to keep those letters.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:24 pm

She just need to cozy up and ask honey bunny to forgive her and let bygones be bygones. I bet if he was younger he’d be out to do get back. That option has expired as well. Heck yeah he’s salty…he can’t even pay her back. I’d give him the divorce if that’s what he wants

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:25 pm

Leggs that 2:12 how about watching where you aiming or was I your target all along.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:27 pm

Let me pull the arrow out…LOL

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:27 pm

Leggs: I have be hiding in Slim’s CT. Well…. I really I was lost but I met some cool peeps there tho.

Cel: First of all why theorize when we know Big Momma is lying cheatin dog? Second, if Kimmie’s theory is correct that mean Big Momma been lying to really ole boy for 70 years.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:28 pm

LOL…..Cely

Give dude some credit, he still got a memory. No way I can see him getting a divorce who’s gonna take care of him and her.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:29 pm

Leggs: Ain’t no woman keeping letter from a minute man.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:29 pm

Old Dude story reminds me of “The Bridges of Madison County”. Women (and men) sometimes find passion, but to follow it, they have to give up comfort and/or security. I often thought that was why my “transition lover” went back to her ex-husband. She did confide in me years later that that was a total waste of the next three years of her life. Women are complicated. Just an observation.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:29 pm

Maybe they were some real serious letters that’s making it hard to forgive her. I bet old dude read them all. Not to mention, back then, letter writing was the shiznit! When is the last time yall wrote a damn letter lol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:30 pm

Now, how can we say she’s been lying. He didn’t know anything about those letters and possibly not about him so we don’t know if he’s been interrogating her over the years. Even you guys have omitted that omission is not the same as lying…now look at cha.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:30 pm

For Real – What’s shakin, buddy?!! Ready for Archer? I gave my sis the season 1 dvd for Christmas.

I’m not saying she wasn’t wrong. Heck, she might have been a straight-up garden tool all these years and it was the last straw for old dude. He can go on & get the divorce. Maybe they’ll get better SS checks individually. A lot of older folk shack & don’t get married for that very reason.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:30 pm

For Real – Lying cheating dog? She found her true love and a moment in time where she needed to seize the moment. Soooo, she took it, knowing the married dude at home was not the dude on the side….

Hush up, men do it all the time :) Can you hear “Endless Love” playing in the background? LOLOLOL

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:31 pm

@ForReal ~ All I saying is she didn’t keep those letters simply BECAUSE OF the D!!!! Please believe!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:32 pm

Thanks Leggs feels good now. I wasn’t bad was I?

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:32 pm

even you guys have admitted that omission is not the same as lying…

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:33 pm

@BF ~ no, I was the one being bad (lol).

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:34 pm

I’m with Slim…she pouring all those emotions and residuals (ur rum) in a letter? Heck yeah that was her true love. Old dude probably thinking about all that… They were young (or had some youth left) too?

Blackfoote – That’s my point. At this age what we gonna do with a divorce? Just sit on down and stay together and ride it out.

Really I’m kidding. If she’s wrong she’s wrong. He’s heartbroken more than anything.

John the CPA

January 4th, 2012
2:35 pm

I’ve lived in Atlanta for only a short time and I had a difficult time dating. I’ve dated 6 or 7 different ladies and all of them are so self-absorbed that it’s just sad. None of them have any goals or ambitions other than marrying, having children, and living the good life. It makes me miss the accomplished, cultured ladies I dated in Boston.

You can do better, Atlanta.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:35 pm

Back then, folks didn’t get divorced like they do now. A lot of people stayed in unhappy marriages out of duty and divorce was looked down on. Just cause a couple has been married for upteen years don’t mean they are happy.

Dude just rolling with the times!

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:36 pm

For Real – I thought I missed you but after that post, I hereby summon you back to where you came from…NO, not there! Wherever you were before that

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:37 pm

“… marrying, having children, and living the good life” Sounds like you’re dating 20+ – 35.

UnReal

January 4th, 2012
2:38 pm

Find a date in Atlanta is easy.. find a straight date in Atlanta is harder.. and turning that date into a lasting relationship…to marriage is damn near impossible..

I was blessed… I found a straight, good looking man, who values manogamy and ME in Atlanta.. BUT good LORD it wasn’t easy..

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:38 pm

wow lol that was funny!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:38 pm

LOL……@Cely,Leggs

Leggs I should change feels good to better, that entire sentence is loaded.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:39 pm

John – What’s wrong with wanting to marry and have a family? Are you saying you just want to be a perpetual dater and not marry? That’s cool. Just find someone that’s on the same page.

Why don’t you leave Atlanta and go back to Boston? You said you miss the ladies up there. The question is – do they miss you?

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:39 pm

CPA – um if you’ve dated 6 to 7 women here and they all turned out the same way, could it be your selection skills are a bit off? There is some similarity between all of them and that’s You. Just a thought though ;)

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
2:39 pm

True or old love, whether she forgot ‘em or not, she should’ve burned ‘em when she got ‘em.

You married, why are keeping letters?

If the roles were reversed, y’all would be advocating taking his walker on his way out the do….stop playin

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
2:39 pm

I need to find a link to this story….

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:40 pm

Kimmie: Yes I am ready for Archie. How did you sis like the dvd. My new obsession is Girl with the Dragon Tatoo and no I’m not talking about the one in the theaters now. Netflix has it and it’s on On Demand. You will have to read but I promise you it’s the ish!!

For Real now slapping Celisea with some Vicks Vipor Rub!!!

Leggs: No but she wouldn’t have kept those letter if it would have been a 1 minute D please believe!!!

For Real now showing Leggs the difference between 1 minute D and the other D.

Leggs: Naw For Real I ain’t buying that she kept those letter because of the D.

For Real: I’m telling you she would not keep those letter if it was a 1 minute D.

Leggs: Trust me, it’s more to it than just the D.

For Real: Okay allow me to demonstrate the difference between a 1 minute D and the other D. Lets start with the 1 minute D first and then after my nap I’ll show you the othe D.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:40 pm

I think not Dan……….lol

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:41 pm

None of them have any goals or ambitions other than marrying, having children, and living the good life

Marrying, having children and wanting to live the good life are not goals? What else is there outside of staying single for ever and never having children and making more money that what one makes already? Did I miss something here? I would think anything more that could be added would be included with “living the good life”

Not being funny just asking and wondering about some things people say.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:41 pm

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:42 pm

Dayum BF, scoring right on the blog!!! now if Leggs does say it was really good, then my hat is off to you, even without a blue pill.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:42 pm

I agree C. thought I was missing something…lol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:43 pm

@Dan ~ if the roles were reversed I would be saying the same thing…they’re too old to divorce…ride off into the sunset together.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
2:44 pm

They old and u know old folks(white) hold hands a Lot

them BAM!!!!!

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:44 pm

And what’s wrong with the ‘Good life’? Would you prefer a woman who wants to live a bad life? Boy times have changed if we now seek out chicks with low self-esteem :lol: just messin with ya. (Sounds like the comedian Coorey Holcomb)

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:44 pm

Cute ForReal, real cute!

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:44 pm

@ 66 I would just plan a trip seriously…

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:45 pm

Slim: You do realize that “summon” means a call to cum… I mean come.

For Real now smoothing down his baby hair and he winks at Slim in an El Debarge manner.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:45 pm

Dan – They are both in their 90’s – if they are still able to get around, they need each other. I can understand a broken heart. But at this point, it seems it would be more trouble than it’s worth.

Yeah, she should have disposed of the letters. That’s why I think it was something very deep.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:45 pm

ijs Slim there will be an honest struggle within the good life bc everyday ain’t pretty but still the quality good life is attainable I think ;)

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:46 pm

@Randyt ~ you have me laughing because although I said I was being bad, he apologize for having a loaded statement. Think my statement went over the embankment and crashed….too funny!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:46 pm

Dan – Just admit it…for once a woman did what men ALWAYS do and the roles are reversed. If she’s wrong she’s wrong but c’mon who gets a divorce at dang near 100 years old? By now they should have have so many ups and downs and forgiveness that he should be able to move on past it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:46 pm

LOL……@RandyT

Leggs started this, I was merely trying to help hold down the fort.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:47 pm

For Real – She just got them in the mail, so has not had a chance to watch. But I told her about the show and she’s excited. We have a similiar sense of humor! :lol:

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
2:48 pm

@kimmie ~ I’m with you, it was something very deep (not talking about her sugar walls)!!!!

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:48 pm

The “Good Life” does not have to involve marriage or children.

Kym

January 4th, 2012
2:48 pm

I wonder how the kids of the old couple feel..or if they even have kids..damn shame..you gonna be able to say you come from a broken home at 60-70 years old.

Hey For Real!! What up??

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:50 pm

Lady – Now that I think about it, me thinks it’s probably the same person that’s come on daily now with something way to the left. Maybe they just want or need attention.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:51 pm

Celisea: Why don’t you just admit woman ALWAYS do that?

Dr: Who is the baby father?

Chick: The Dude with the burnt beard.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:51 pm

For Real – You are right. John can be perfectly happy single and childless. Just find someone on the same page.

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:51 pm

something C! smh lol

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:51 pm

For Real – You have a point there but by seeing that demonstration you gave Leggs on the 1 minute D, you don’t need anyone’s help getting there…And get them dusty cobbwebbs off your head, that’s not baby hair! Lol

disco

January 4th, 2012
2:52 pm

whew. y’all are cutting up this afternoon. the good life is way relative. just last night my son (who headed home today) commented that eating fresh baked cookies with a glass of cold milk was the good life. glad I know his aspirations are greater than just milk and cookies.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:52 pm

I don’t think the good life necessarily have to include children either but having children, getting married and living well are the things that most folks end up doing. I guess I don’t understand what else there is. Living well mean to me whatever path you took where you’re satisfied…kids or not, married or not…

Lady~

January 4th, 2012
2:53 pm

lol too funny! disco! it is what it is sistah!

peace out folks! ;)

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:53 pm

disco – Nothing wrong with enjoying the simple pleasures! We all need to stop and smell the roses sometimes and just enjoy!! LOL!!!

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
2:53 pm

Yes her sugar walls Leggs!

They are still reveberating from the luv treatment.

Like For Real says,a minute man leaves no lasting impressions.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:53 pm

yep…”there is”

For Real

January 4th, 2012
2:54 pm

Kimmie: Did you get her hooked on Breaking Bad too?

What up Kym. I got a story for you.
http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/12/21/us-vatican-porno-idUSTRE7BK1JW20111221

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

Hey Cely:

The way y’all rallied he didn’t have a chance. Kimmie bounced him hard off the court, and Slim1 closed the door behind him…….LOL

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

Kym – I can’t recall how many kids they have but I remember hearing they have about 12 grandkids

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

blog nazi got me again.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

Like For Real says,a minute man leaves no lasting impressions.

Exiled – And that’s probably what’s killing old dude! And the only way he can stick it to her is to put her back out there at 96!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:55 pm

So John the CPA what else are you looking for? Then you said 6 or 7 (I think)women. IMO with them all having a common thread but yet none satisfying you….

I think that’s our daily troll(er), inciting an off the wall conversation. Just like the question what would you do if you woke up without a vagina

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:56 pm

For Real – Breaking Bad will be next!!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
2:58 pm

Blackfoote – Honestly if she’s wrong she’s wrong. I was just honing in on how rarely is the shoe on the other foot…lol I take no pleasure in someone ending up heartbroken…especially that old.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
2:58 pm

@Cel

Any man beyond the age of 18 would’ve known to throw those away – or hide ‘em in a safe deposit box or hole in the backyard – something other than keeping them.

@Kimmie

I’m saying, we 90, why not tell me at, say, 75.

@Leggs/Lady

Stop playing

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
2:58 pm

“what would you do if you woke up without a vagina”

I must have missed that one (although I think I would get more concerned if I woke up with one).

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
2:58 pm

Kimmie..he’s doing it to spite her..

He may have been the bread winner(looking at their ages) and she was a home maker..

Old type dude with John Mccain/George Bush Snr type old school values

Now this!

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
2:59 pm

For Real – Did you check out Homeland? It’s almost up there with Breaking Bad, in my opinion. This was the 1st season and it’s been renewed for another. If you haven’t checked it out, I highly reccommend it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
2:59 pm

Look at Cely, you want to do some more damage….LOL

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
2:59 pm

My point whether it was his indiscretion or hers, they are old as hell. I’d hate to be the attorney’s trying to separate their property, assests etc after 70+ years! That alone will take at least 3 yrs lol

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:00 pm

@BF ~ boy you have me cracking up….you sly devil…I gotcha!!!

“And the only way he can stick it to her is to put her back out there at 96!” – Please stop. I am cracking up. Getting back in the game at 96. Bet she’ll pull faster than some of us youngins….whew, I have to leave my desk…..

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:01 pm

According to the article, this isn’t their first separation. They hit a rocky patch about 10 years ago, and he went to live with their son.

Where is Purple??? Since this took place in Italy, I want to hear an Italian man’s perspective.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:02 pm

For Real unbuttoning his shirt slightly revealing his curly chest hair to Slim while singing.

Love me in a special way
What more can I say?
Love me now

John the CPA

January 4th, 2012
3:02 pm

Kimmie,
I left Boston to work for KPMG in their Atlanta office. I’m not saying that’s there is anything wrong with having children. But it just seems that the ladies here in Atlanta have less ambition than what I’ve seen in other areas of the country.

I’ve talked to some of my new co-workers here in Atlanta about their families and most of them tell me that their wives do not work outside the home. Why not? Is it a southern thing? In the Boston office it seemed that after a female co-worker had a baby she took a brief sabatical and came back to work. But here in Atlanta there seem to be few women with children working in our office. And I heard endless stories about women who “left to start a family” and haven’t been seen since. The attitude women have regarding work and career seems to be a little different here.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:03 pm

@ Leggs, I’ve seen men that women wouldn’t touch, but I’ve never seen a woman who couldn’t find some desperate guy to “fill in the gap”. She’ll get lucky before he does, I guarantee it. Even at 96.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:03 pm

Ewww, For Real. Now I’m really regretting that taco I had for lunch.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:04 pm

If he/she ended up having to pay alimony, that would be a world record for the shortest alimony time frame —>ok, to the corner I go

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:04 pm

Dan – From what I heard, she didn’t tell him anything. He found out by finding the letters. After all this time, she might have even forgot she had them.

In packing to move right before I got married, I ran across 2 old letters from a past boyfriend. One was the “Dear Jane” letter and the other was the one begging me back!LOL!! I admit I thought I had thrown them away. There are no lingering feelings at all and reading back, they were actually a bit funny. But in the trash they went!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
3:06 pm

LOL……@Y’all cutting up.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:07 pm

(BF with big smile on his face. Got lucky right on the blog. He IS the man).

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:08 pm

Dan – I agree. If you have evidence from or on another and you’re going to stay put, get rid of it.

Blackfoote – Nooooo, never.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
3:09 pm

I’m saying,

If they 90+ he may have heard about the blue pills and needed an excuse…

Still

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:09 pm

@John ~ the South doesn’t necessarily work the same way the North does…although many of the men and women here are transplants. It seems like once a person gets a whiff of this southern air, stay at home moms are more frequent than what we are used to seeing. There are many here, but if the household can stay afloat on one income, why not. What I don’t understand is why not go for the two paychecks….I’m greedy that way.

Married over 40 with kids

January 4th, 2012
3:09 pm

Its very hard for a married man in Atlanta to go out and have fun. Too many single ladies looking for a date…I just want to dance, talk, have some drinks and then go home to the wife. Single ladies stop going out with 5 and 6 lady friends at a table its a turn off to my single buddies.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:11 pm

@Randyt ~ isn’t that what I said (she’ll get lucky even at 96)???

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:11 pm

I think you mean trollS, Cel.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:11 pm

Slim to For Real: Come here you sexy thang you! Lemme rub you down wit summa dis hot oil

FR: for real babe?! Aww sookie sookie now. It was my silky baby herrr that gotcha isn’t it.

S: Come on n relax booo. Lay back and take that rayon shirt off.

(Slim now starts slapping substance on FR’s chest)

FR: now dis is what I’m tombout girl…sniff sniff….um baby ga, what oil iz you using? It smellz kinda skrong?

S: oh don’t mind dat baby…itz summa dat fancy stuff I picked up

FR: bbbbbut baby its kinda bvurnin. Iz it sposed ta be burnin?!

S: dat jus mean itz werrkin babe

(FR jumps up to see bottle has the words Super Strength Nair’ written on it)

FR: NoooooOoo! Not my chess herrrr!!!!

Kym

January 4th, 2012
3:12 pm

Maybe we should have a troll alarm…

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:13 pm

Yup Leggs. You said it. Dude may be setting himself up for some more misery when she hits the party circuit at the retirement home.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

January 4th, 2012
3:13 pm

RandyT forgot to mention that 8:11 this morning was on the point. No one could have said it any better. Y’all have good evening folks.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:13 pm

ITL – I think it’s the same person.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:14 pm

Ain’t that some fraggle naggle BS, a married man telling single women what not to do to attract his single friends, that’s Rich!

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:14 pm

John – In the circles I run in, woman are said to be too career-driven. And a lot of working mothers are single and don’t have the option to stay home. In more conservative and wealthy settings, more traditional values are respected. Most of the families I know of cannot afford to have a stay-at-home parent. If the family finances dictate it and it’s what the couple wants, I think it’s a beautiful thing.

If you can’t find a career-oriented woman here, I don’t know what to tell you. Could be you are running in the wrong circles.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:14 pm

aka “Viagra Falls Home for the Elderly Who Are Young at Heart”

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
3:14 pm

U think oral sex was popular by the time the 96 was growing up…and in his teens?

I’m sure if not, he’s really pining for that..

Hope his heart is still strong enough to enjoy with Viagra

If his retirement benefits are good he will catch a young obliging chic soon

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:15 pm

Kimmie: No I haven’t checked out Homeland. I will try it this weekend but I got one more part of the GWDT before I can move to something new.

John: It’s not just southern chicks. All chicks have that desire. All chick want to be able to say “I don’t need this ish, my man has two jobs!”

For Real while gentlly combing thru his chest hair, stares deeply into ITL’s eye and espouse remnants of a great love poet.

Way down in the jungle deep,

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:15 pm

Did y’all remember to send our new “friends” the Welcome to MIA gift basket? They’ll probably want to use that BoneFish gift card tonight.

disco

January 4th, 2012
3:17 pm

well – one plus in the old guy’s favor is that men generally die off sooner which means the numbers might be in his favor at the nursing home.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
3:17 pm

John?

drop the CPA tagline..if that’s how u roll no wonder All u do is sponsor dinner dates.

Atlanta women will fleece u for a while before u wake Up!

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:19 pm

I just hope For Real’s chest hairs ain’t cuccubugs…

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:23 pm

C – well you can’t expect much…He’s been growing them since birth :lol:

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:23 pm

MMeello – Women can’t fleece you unless you let them. If you don’t lead with taglines, wallets and what nots, folks won’t know you got it going on like that. Stop blaming women

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:25 pm

Slim – LOL I would warn ITL to stand clear. The mention of “chest hairs” should be delved into before a woman gets all giddy….lol Chest hairs can be sexy or provoke gagging…just alllll depends…lol

most infidelity city maybe

January 4th, 2012
3:26 pm

we all know that…enjoy the dates and move on

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:26 pm

Well, I’m sure Mr CPA writes all those dates off on his taxes lol

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:26 pm

For Real not wanting to forget his baby girl Celisea, ease his shirt to the left revealing his nipple ring while singing

Come. Closer.
Feel what U’ve been dyin’ 4
Don’t be afraid, baby
Touch it and explode

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:28 pm

@ Celisea, I 100% agree with your comment about tag lines and wallets, etc. People need to accept responsibility for the outcomes that they, in most instances, created. Look first in the mirror.

KJ

January 4th, 2012
3:28 pm

Not taking into account ethnicity, orientation, or BMI, Atlanta may very well be the best dating city.

However, for straight white men, it is simply godawful.

White women in this city who are reasonably attractive/fit have a huge advantage, and most of them know it and wield it like a sledgehammer.

Sadly, I have actually considered moving out of the country to increase my odds. It’s gotten that bad.

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
3:29 pm

For Real – Make them hairs lay down now. I can’t do chest cuccabugs..lol

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
3:29 pm

Cel..well,he is John the CPA so

I’m sending All thirsty and Sexxy Atlanta heifers to KPMG Atlanta office to meet John

Bonefish reservations done!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:31 pm

Now chest hair…just going to have to live with it. After that Brazilian waxed my back and I was in the most pain I’ve ever felt almost, nevermore. After awhile, I ran out of curse words and just laid ther and whispered “fck” over and over til she ran out of that dayum tape or whatever it was.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:33 pm

I’ve talked to some of my new co-workers here in Atlanta about their families and most of them tell me that their wives do not work outside the home. Why not?

John – Why not? Because your male co-workers wouldn’t have it any other way. Their wives could not stay at home if they didn’t agree to it. That’s the expectation in those circles.

Your posts just seem to be a put-down. She is less cultured or accomplished if she chooses to be a stay-at-home mother. Most of the few “soccer moms” I know have advanced degrees, talents and skills. Many work from home also.

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
3:34 pm

Waxed ur back Randyt?

didn’t she soothe u while u lay on ur back after that?

:lol: :lol:

Kym

January 4th, 2012
3:35 pm

Translation of KJ’s post..I am a white guy..who looks like Bill Gates..but doesn’t have his money..I am already set up on two Russian bride sites and one Korean because I want that exotic flavor.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:35 pm

That was my gut wrenching last of the day :arrow: “.After awhile, I ran out of curse words and just laid ther and whispered “fck” over and over til she ran out of that dayum tape or whatever it was.”

Poor baby…

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:36 pm

gut wrenching LAUGH……

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:36 pm

For Real goes full monty revealing his glorious baby smooth chest hair to Slim while singing

I used to think about immature things
you know like do you love me, do you want me, are you gonna
call me like you said you would, is this really your real phone number
But you know I’m a man now baby a grown man and I came a long way
and experience taught me one thing… taught me to hold on to my love

Exiled!

January 4th, 2012
3:37 pm

Nice one Kym! 3:25

boy this blog

cracking up! Lol

Adam Lambert

January 4th, 2012
3:40 pm

cranky, so you must be in your 40s or 50s. What happened to get yourself all alone? It/he/they were your choices, sweet cakes. Don’t go whining about not being able to find anybody. you had your chance.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:40 pm

Out of all the couple I know with kids (white and black) only one wife is a stay at home mom. Everyone else works.

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:41 pm

LoL @ Kym. Cruel but funny. Like I said before, I find ATL a buffet…and I am a single white guy. It isn’t that hard, I’m telling you. Does one get rejected sometimes? Yes. Does one have his hopes shot down occasionaly? Yes. But it is a nuimbers game, just like any sales job. You keep swinging until you connect.

Tom

January 4th, 2012
3:41 pm

Might be the best city for a date, but its the worst for a committed relationship.

KJ

January 4th, 2012
3:42 pm

Thanks for illustrating my point Kym. FTR, I am tall, athletic build, with almost all of my hair.

But keep it up; maybe if enough guys like me leave, and enough women (sic) like you stay, they can rename this place Insufferablekuntville in a few years.

Duh

January 4th, 2012
3:42 pm

This list isn’t brain surgery. Take large college towns, add metropolitan areas. Voila, easier dating environment.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:44 pm

(sending out the special signal)

Alright, tribe, a troll has insulted one of our own. Let’s roll….

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:45 pm

For Real -

You!

I Call Your Name!

:lol:

I love that song, but I crack up and recite that beginning paragraph every time I hear it!! The kids are starting to learn the words of it now and crack up when it comes on!!

Married over 40 with kids

January 4th, 2012
3:45 pm

Just keeping it real Leggs, but I guess you got it all planned out.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:46 pm

Good call Kym… I’m telling if everyone dating in their lanes this country would be a much happier place.

PSA: Hollywood is lying to you! No you cannot get a super model for a wife!

Kym I don’t know if you are a PE fan but here you go.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6MlwT1lBk0

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:47 pm

Slim – Me too, I only know one SAHM. Most folks not balling like that!

Kym

January 4th, 2012
3:47 pm

@RandyT..I wasn’t trying to be cruel..but it is just so silly to keep blaming others for what you know to do. I know there is a good guy somewhere who hopefully is not short..and that I would match up with eventually..but if I never leave my house then how is he gonna find me. Kiss some frogs, toads, eventually you land a prince..or a well dress toad just depends.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:48 pm

I am tall, athletic build, with almost all of my hair.

ALMOST is the KEY word!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Kym

January 4th, 2012
3:49 pm

And another Bitter Bernard bites the dust. Hey don’t let the door hit you on the tail on the way out of town..and we won’t be leaving the light on for you.

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:50 pm

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
3:50 pm

@ KJ…don’t get too angry. This blog can be brutal sometimes. As I’ve said before on here, keep reassessing and reevaluating your dates. Stand outside and look at it like you were watching it on TV. Ask the questions to yourself, conversation one-sided maybe, reaching too high?, wrong type of lady?…

I always dissect my dates (not dissect the lady), I mean do a blow by blow objectively of what expectations did not occur and why. I truly try to be totally objective from everything from bad breath to wrong choice of wine. Then I go out with that list in my mind the next time. In the Army artillery they called it bracketing. Keep getting closer until ready to fire for effect.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
3:50 pm

Alright, tribe, a troll has insulted one of our own.Let’s roll….

First I’ll be polite and say “Happy New Year” blog familia.

Now let me re-read so I come correct…

disco

January 4th, 2012
3:51 pm

slim/kimmie – several of my friends are stay at home moms or (even better) stay at home wives without stay at home children. one friend was a stay home mom to 3 got divorced and remarried and got to be a stay at home again (without adding new kids). told her she oughtta write a how to book.

KJ

January 4th, 2012
3:53 pm

Lol, “almost” means like 90%. Sorry for not being perfect.

Apologies for injecting some reality into the mix; I’ll leave you relationship experts to your circlejerk.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:54 pm

Wow, KJ. Bitter much?

Kym

January 4th, 2012
3:54 pm

@RandyT..”You can’t save a brother that don’t want to be saved..” he wants to whine and moan about how the women don’t want him. Maybe that combover is not working for him. Hairclub for men does wonders..

disco

January 4th, 2012
3:54 pm

kimmie – almost is the key word. girl, you been gut-checking folks on here all day. I wonder how many adults truly know what their faults are (dating or otherwise). seems like by a certain age you ought to know what’s wrong with you even if you have no desire to change it.

Robert

January 4th, 2012
3:54 pm

“What do you think of Atlanta’s ranking as #1 city to find a date? Would you agree? Have you tried dating in other cities? ”

Washington, D.C. is the best place in the USA for Black men and women to find a date, and less discrimination looking for a job (no good-ole-boy network). ATL is not even close. That is a fact.

For Real

January 4th, 2012
3:55 pm

“told her she oughtta write a how to book.” – That will be one short book.

page 1 – Shut up!

page 2 – Give it up!

page 3 – Cook it up!

page 4 – See page 1

Theeeee End!

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
3:55 pm

disco – Hey, I’m not mad at them! Most folks I know just have to work! Shoot, if I could I’d stay at home in a heartbeat! It’s plenty stuff I can do at home to keep occupied & raise the younguns!! I got the skills, the degrees, don’t have nothing to prove to nobody!! If I get a chance to get out of this rat-race, I am GONE!!!

SlimNu

January 4th, 2012
3:56 pm

Disco – I think I’d lose my mind being a SAHM.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:57 pm

LOL@the informercial for that one.

KJ: I used to be bitter….going on to blogs and insulting people I didn’t even know….the bitterness got so bad that I was alone all the time. But then, I found the Hair Club for Men,,,,, WOW! My life is so much better now. I’m still alone, because I’m a jerk. But I’m a jerk with all my hair!

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:58 pm

Ummm, how many knew Randyt was white (LOL)???

Hold up, what you have against Kym, KJ?

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
3:58 pm

Sadly, I have actually considered moving out of the country to increase my odds. It’s gotten that bad.

Geeze for some reason a visual of Quasimodo with a mean hunchback comes to mind….in a country of millions…you can’t find ONE….tsk..tsk..tsk. Sucks to you quasi..

I am tall, athletic build, with almost all of my hair.

ALMOST is the KEY word

Cosign Kimmie….so he’s balding and has self esteem issues maybe.

Moist Manginas are such a turn off….

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
3:59 pm

@Married ~ I have nothing planned out, but I don’t sit at a table with 5-6 women.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
3:59 pm

Sucks to *be* you…

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
3:59 pm

Leggs, are there any manties left in the blog closet???

disco

January 4th, 2012
4:00 pm

for real – whatever. there’s far too many working mothers out there for that to be a short book. and not working for fulfillment either. working because if you don’t work, you don’t eat.

slim – I’m not really feeling the stay at home mom thing but I’m down for being a stay at home wife. that’s got my name written all over it. like kimmie said, I’ve got nothing else to prove out here in this work a day world.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
4:00 pm

I am trying my best to keep my laughter inside my cubicle!! :lol:

For Real

January 4th, 2012
4:00 pm

MLB ALERT!!! I REPEAT MLB ALERT!!!!

MLB ASSEMBLE, ASSEMBLE, ASSEMBLE, BLE, BLE…….

Kym

January 4th, 2012
4:01 pm

LOL..ya’ll are some fools…LOL

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:02 pm

@Kym…like i said in a post before, look first in the mirror. Like in math, what is the common denominator? I never saw much use in blaming the ladies (although they do seem mostly unstable LOL). Just not productive to blame the ladies. A total waste of time.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

January 4th, 2012
4:02 pm

@KJ

Question: was it Boston – drunkiest city in America – that got you laid or what it your talk game (charisma)?

See where I’m going with this….

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:03 pm

No need for manties…just take the clubs off the top shelf and whack a troll….

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:03 pm

are there any manties left in the blog closet???

A small would fit best probably….

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
4:04 pm

although they do seem mostly unstable

ITL throwing her Chick-fil-A cup at Randy’s head.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
4:05 pm

LOL@Whack-A-Troll…. I used to love that game (with the moles).

disco

January 4th, 2012
4:05 pm

randyt is white? I thought he was just light skinned…. j/k

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:05 pm

“Ummm, how many knew Randyt was white (LOL)???” Uhoh, what gave it away. Must have been the affinity toward blondes…no wait that was Tiger, lol. Actually I’m part redskin, ;-)

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:06 pm

just take the clubs off the top shelf and whack a troll….

and then put the extra small pink manties on his head and wald away….

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:06 pm

and white…

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
4:07 pm

Randyt – You got some indian in you?

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:08 pm

Now ITL, you know tsat there has to be a link between estrogen and instability. Admit it!!!

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
4:09 pm

Randyt – You & Demi hooked up yet? You better get to it, man, before someone comes & scoops her up. Or after KJ leaves the country! LOL!!!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:09 pm

2 Kimmie, yup two full blooded great-grandmothers. Granny Broadfoot cheated like hell at cards too.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:09 pm

@Randyt ~ what gave it away was you saying you’re “a single white guy” LOL

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:10 pm

At least you’ve been more respectful here than 1999 ever could….give me Five on The Black Hand Side (LOL)….Right On!

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:11 pm

You are right about Demi, I need to get started. If you snooze you lose.

kimmie

January 4th, 2012
4:11 pm

Randyt – I ain’t mad at Granny! :lol:

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:12 pm

Well, I came in early so now (because of you Leggs) I have to go to the gym. Night y’all.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:13 pm

You & Demi hooked up yet? You better get to it, man

No not right now…Demi just admitted she has issues and I know Randy doesn’t want to play Captain Save A H@#…well she’s hell-a-rich so he just might.

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:14 pm

It’s all good, Randyt. Which I can convinced others as quickly as I’ve convinced you (lol).

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:17 pm

@ Sassy, uhhh, yeah I might. Little head has fewer brains (or maybe the blood supply gets constricted), lol.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
4:18 pm

I’m not going to the gym tonight. I’m getting my cardio via Whack-a-Troll. LOL

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:18 pm

Wish I can…

Dang, every time you guys throw out Demi I immediately think of DemiGod! Please elaborate going forward.

Into the Light

January 4th, 2012
4:19 pm

Now ITL, you know tsat there has to be a link between estrogen and instability. Admit it!!!

ITL now throwing empty soup bowl at Randyt.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:20 pm

Okay Randy…tread lightly grasshopper :lol:

Randyt (aka need some new t-shirts)

January 4th, 2012
4:21 pm

@ ITL in best Jack Nicholson imitation, “You can’t handle the truth!!!”. Now running for the door. Night y’all.

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:21 pm

every time you guys throw out Demi I immediately think of DemiGod

:shock:

Okay Leggs, point made…point taken. I’m sure Demi would feel the same..

Celisea

January 4th, 2012
4:28 pm

I’ve been on a call but it seems like I missed some funnies…let me go back and read

Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)

January 4th, 2012
4:45 pm

Have a good evening y’all!!!!!!!!!

Leggs

January 4th, 2012
4:53 pm

Married over 40 with kids

January 4th, 2012
4:56 pm

Great glad to hear that Leggs. Real men talk to each other about real stuff. Trust me what real man like to go out and to see 5 or more women dancing with themselves on the floor. Damn we did not that in the late 80’s.

Mark Kerry

January 4th, 2012
5:26 pm

Agree with “Married over 40 with kids” @ 3:09 pm comment.

Married over 40 with kids

January 4th, 2012
5:55 pm

Correction to 4:56 comment.

Great glad to hear that Leggs. Real men talk to each other about real stuff. Real man do not like to go out and see 5 or more women dancing with themselves on the floor. Damn we did not that in the late 80’s.

atlantato seattle2015

January 4th, 2012
6:31 pm

Atlanta overated and always have been..why anyone still moves here amazes me!!!datin is easier here ??your kidding??fake,phoney,pretentious,folks in Atlanta??you betcha!!and its gotten worse!!cant wait to leave Atlanta and its crime,racism, humidty,poor planning,awful traffic for absolutly beautiful, SEATTLE and,inteligent people,and above all stunning beauty in the Seattle metro area and mild summers

Always asking the wrong question!

January 4th, 2012
6:52 pm

Finding women is never a problem. It’s getting rid of them that’s tough. IMO the easiest city to pawn your bad date off on someone else is Fairbanks.

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January 4th, 2012
8:36 pm

There r a few sad lonely off keel people hanging around these parts