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Leave bad moves in 2011

Not much time left in 2011 and if I had my way, there are a few things I would like to see stay in the past. Let’s just say, if I could impose dating resolutions on other people, I could come up with a laundry list of offenses that need to stop:

Unsolicited dirty texts and pictures I know it is tempting to send a picture of your package but it is a risky move. Make sure the recipient has an actual interest in seeing you naked or hearing you talk dirty.

Tardiness. It is tacky when you keep your date waiting. Some things are unforeseeable, but constantly showing up late with no explanation is rude.

Cell phone fixation. If you can’t bring yourself to put your phone away for two hours, you are probably going to look like a teenager. Turn the ringer off and update your Facebook post-date.

Lying to get laid If you are telling lies, pretending to have feelings, or faking a relationship just to get laid, you are the epitome of lame. Don’t do it – especially not with an emotionally unstable person.

What things would you like to see retired in 2011? If you could suggest dating resolutions for people, what would they be?

P.S. Any exciting plans for New Year’s Eve?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

165 comments Add your comment

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:21 am

Morning, all!

It sure is good to be home. :)

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
8:37 am

Well, I see someone finally decided to open the damn doors round here. I hate to admit it but I think I was beginning to go through withdrawal :shock:

ITL – Morning, and I’m jealous…shole wish I was still in the bed right now. Lately, I’ve been feeling so tired and I can’t seem to catch up. I woke up at 3:30 this morning realizing I had fell asleep on the couch and the beau had left my azz down there :roll:

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:44 am

Morning Lovelies

Ahhhh, home sweet home!

Let’s just say, if I could impose dating resolutions on other people, I could come up with a laundry list of offenses that need to stop

This right is says a mouth full. If only we could invoke the dos and dont’s, the you are too old for that, and the you ought to be ashamed of yourself….that would just about cure dating of the nasties (i.e. folks). The lying to get laid should come with an automatic shutoff after a certain age…lol

Seriously, I would like to see lying, lying, ill intents and lying retired. I think a whole gang of stuff falls under 4 things.

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:44 am

here not is…too early for boo boos

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:56 am

@Slim: I’m at work today. I meant it’s good to be back home at MIA. :)

I hope The Beau at least covered you up! :lol:

Morning, Cel! Did you see the note I taped to the door?

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:57 am

Hey there ITL! Which door? Home or the hideout? I didn’t go to the hideout today, I came home :)

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
8:59 am

We should extend Rodney an invitation to hang out here. Although, I’d venture to say he’s been exposed to our brand of crazy.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:59 am

I left a note on the door of Ho’ville, just in case anyone went there first. :)

Advice'preciated( Athens )

December 30th, 2011
9:01 am

Before 2011 comes to an end, I would like to do something and not sure how,

We both went to the same school and we have been great friends ever since. I am not sure if she likes me or know that I like her, nontheless, I do. She is single and invited me to celebrate NY at her place.

My question is should I break the news for her ? if so, how without risking our long time friendship.

Thanks everyone and I will report back,

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:04 am

Gotcha ITL…hopefully others will get the memo if they go to Ho’ville first.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:08 am

Shoot, I bet Leggs is still in her jammies watching GMA and hasn’t even thought of us yet! :)

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:09 am

ITL – Oh okay, well yes it does feel good to be home lol I was covered up but not sure if he had anything to do with it. I go upstairs and this fool is KNOCKED out. You know you’re tired when you don’t take the stuff off the bed but you just pile it up on the side you won’t be sleeping on. :lol:

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:12 am

LOL@Slim. I’ve done that. Pillow shams and throw pillows in a pile on one side, me knocked out on the other! :)

I’ve been so tired lately, I started taking my B-12 vitamins again. And vitamin D. It seems to help a bit.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:17 am

Advice – You have asked for advice w/o even really stating the issue. How about you provide some more details and we’ll be sure to chime in…

ITL – It must be something going on because everyone I know seems to be having some issues with energy/being tired or not being able to sleep that well lately. I think I definitely need to get me some vitamins as you suggested. The other day I was at the gym and I just didn’t have any juice in me at all. I ended up calling it a day. lol

As far as the topic goes, I would like to see folks leading others on when they know they don’t have any of the same intentions as the person they are dating, left in 2011.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:18 am

Good Morning All,

WE BACK!!!! BooYah!!!

I am just going to agree with Wisey’s Resolutions..nothing really I can think to add..except folks would be better off it they just learn to be themselves ..if you love you..someone else will too.

Hey Wisey..uh Rodney Ho promised us doughnuts every morning..

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:19 am

Off topic:

Speaking of WordFeud yesterday. Started a new game with someone and please tell my why did we have a 5 – 68 game going on before they bowed? They just beat me to it. Oh, the 5 points came from “yo”…yeah that’s the only word they could think of out of 7 tiles. They took a pass on their other turn.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:22 am

Ok, just so i’ll know. Are you taking over Rodney’s blog whenever we’re locked out of here? I call myself checking other blogs but was not able to find one where the comments were open.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:29 am

Slim:
Yeah, we Occupied the Ho for 2 days. I don’t have an e-mail addy for you, so I couldn’t let you know where we were…. :(

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:36 am

ITL – Do you have Leggs’ email addy?

Advice'preciated( Athens )

December 30th, 2011
9:36 am

SlimNu:

Details are:
I don’t know if she is interested in me for relationship
I don’t know if she knows I am interested in her
I do know I want to be more than friends with her
I do know she is single
She invited me at her place for New years eve party

The issue is whether to tell her I like her and ask her out and risk the long time friendship or not ? If so, how should I do it ? I just want to do it without any awkward situation, if possible anyway.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:39 am

@Slim: I do, but it’s the work one and she’s on vacay. :(

Mine is intothelight25@yahoo.com.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:41 am

Advice – How long have you all been friends and if you don’t mind, i’m curious, what age range are you two in? ;-) Also, has she ever acted as if she may have ever had interest in you?

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:42 am

Advice: My gut instinct is that a NYE party is probably not the time or place that you want to tell her this. The conversation already has the potential to be awkward, I wouldn’t add a party (drinking?) element.

I also would think long and hard as to whether telling her is worth losing the friendship, because that could happen.

Has she shown any interest in you, other than as a friend?

KaiserSoze

December 30th, 2011
9:44 am

My advice – tell her how you feel, but do so in as innocuous a manner as possible. She’ll either tell you that she feels the same way or that she doesn’t. If she does, then great, if not, then let it go. You’ll never create feelings in someone that simply aren’t there. Me – I’d simply state that over the years my friendship for her has grown and I believe there is a good chance we could have a deeper (romantic) relationship together, and just gauge her reaction then tailor your next statement to that. The only thing worse than rejection, to me, would be never having taken the chance to begin with and always wondering “what if”.

In short, go for it, you have nothing to lose. If she is truly a friend then she’ll let you down easy (assuming there isn’t that spark) and you can continue to be friends as long as you don’t make it awkward and try to pursue her in that manner.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:52 am

In case I don’t catch you all at the end of the day..cause I am out of here at noon..(early day) Happy New Year!!! You are one crazy bunch of coconuts.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:52 am

You could always go on that MTV show FriendZone lol kidding

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:54 am

I’m thinking about unplugging early too and taking the laptop home. No point in sitting here all day. Unless it gets crazy I might have to scoot early.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

Dang! Y’all leaving me? :( I’m here until 4:30.

Happy New Year, Blog Familia

Leggs

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

So good be home!!!

@ITL ~ yes ma’am still have my pjs on.

@SlimNu ~ what’s brewing?? Email is sharmyk@gmail.com

Never understood sending of pics of packages and boobs and honey pots. The outcome can be catastrophic, much like WeinerGate.

Lying to get laid has never worked for me. If your head is on your shoulders securely, you can see through those lies.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

ITL – mail call ;-)

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:59 am

@Celisea..I am in the best mood..its Friday..got a few quarters in my pocket..and I am leaving early. I have been dancing since early this morning.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:00 am

Leggs – I was just going to have you give ITL my email addy. I just didn’t want to post it on here. But we have gotten it together now, thanks ;-)

ITL – I’m here until 3 today.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:01 am

Kym – I’m there with you this morning. I ain’t got quarters but I can make do with a couple of nickles. I’m happy none the less!

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:02 am

I’ll probably be here. I know the minute I walk away all hell might break loose…lol It’s just hard putting out fires from my bedside or at the kitchen table.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
10:06 am

Do you know we cause a bit of a stir over on the Ho Blogs..some joker was calling us out for Occupying the Ho..I had a good mind to hang out just for GP..

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:13 am

Awww sucks, and here I thought an invitation was coming my way. :wink:

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:16 am

Leggs – Nah, no invitations as of yet ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupyied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
10:17 am

Morning Ladies: Lying to get laid

Now that’s teenage stuff, grown folks have no business entertaining this concept. Especially to an unstable indivdual that might strike back.

TenderRoni

December 30th, 2011
10:19 am

Hi Everyone,
Hope everyone has a Happy & Prosperous New Year!

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:19 am

There’s a couple of salty folks over there. One even said don’t come back. Yikes!!

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:20 am

“…an unstable individual that might strike back.” This is funny. All I think of is either the male or female deciding to give him only to be met with a cloud of funk…I’m cracking up. Then the consenting party turns into a stalker…

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:21 am

I’m going back to remind them, RHo, extended an invitation to us to camp there.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

Leggs/Blackfoote – I’m not perpetuating violence but deservedly so. Who does that being an adult. If you want something, by now everybody should have figured you stand better chances coming straight. Whether it’s getting laid, getting time, getting money (IJS)…whatever. I think most folks can just appreciate honesty. Even if you’re shut down, respect for honesty will get you that much.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

Oh, I gave my appreciation this morning :)

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

@Slim: Didn’t get anything…. :(

Oh, we got a mention in Ho’ville? I gotta check this out.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
10:28 am

There are some bitter..bitter Ho’s over in Ho’ville…ya’ll leave them be..they might come over here..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupyied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
10:28 am

Advice:

New Years party is not the time present your feelings emotionally. It’s easy to get caught up when you might see other’s hugging and kissing at the midnight hour, but hold firm and give it a shot at a later time. If she’s the host of the party she will too busy to deal with your feelings at that time. And that would be really awkward for her.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:30 am

How old is Advice That’s my question.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
10:33 am

BF, do you have your badge, just in case some the Bitter Hos try to invade?

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:34 am

@Kym ~ I think our “troll” population will increase.

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:35 am

A “Ho” No Mo = FUNNY!

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:35 am

Which Ho’ville blog were you all on?

ITL – I will resend. Not sure what happened.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:37 am

Rodney Ho – Radio Talk & TV…there are several entries posted in one day. The ones where there’s a ton of comments (by comparison to the others) would be us.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
10:38 am

I’m excited – we’re going to The Dump at lunch today.

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:41 am

@ITL ~ that doesn’t sound very appetizing (LOL).

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:42 am

C – I gotcha, thanks….I see he actually chimes in over there. I remember when Wise used to pop in with us errrry now and then. Now it’s almost as if she just pops in a video game and let’s us entertain ourselves while she cascades around town.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:42 am

I thought that was a Furniture Store. No?

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:45 am

Yep Slim, I think the first day he was like ummmm what’s up and who are ya’ll and why are ya’ll here. It was funny too because we found a blog where there had been no entries (i.e. empty room). We explained that we needed a place to get out fix because we’d been temporarily shut down. He was cool as ever about it. Even with us NOT REALLY contributing to his topic. He all but said cop a squat and stay a while :)

A really good sport about us invading his spot.

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:45 am

Oops, you didn’t say you were going there FOR lunch (lol).

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:47 am

We only had a boob to visit one day and complain. I’d say we got through it unscathed. I thought we would get bombarded by his regulars for invading but nope. Good thing too, none of our regular boobs trolls knew we were there. So no crazy posts.

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:47 am

:lol: yeah, it’s the furniture store. Just playing on the words The Dump” as a place to eat.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:48 am

The Dump must serve lunch or something or ITL is furniture shopping on her lunch break. Can you check out beds for me? Let me know if you see anything decent.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:48 am

Never mind ITL…lol

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:49 am

I have a craving for something good to eat but I have no earthly idea what that ’something good’ is. I hate when that happens.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:52 am

Avril Lavigne’s new song is growing on me

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
10:52 am

I am going for BBQ for lunch..Has anyone else here tried eating off the different food trucks around town? Tex Tacos..is the truth and they sell these lime french fries. Okay let me stop..

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
10:53 am

The Dump is a furniture store, and they are having a big tent sale today and tomorrow – up to 80% off. We’re going to check it out on our lunch break. I’ll report back any good finds.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
10:54 am

Shhhh, keep it down about the BBQ, Kym. You’re making me hungry, and I don’t have time to eat – there’s shopping to be done!

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
10:58 am

Enter your comments here

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
10:58 am

LOL…….@Light A Ho No Mo Tooooo Funnie

Yep I still got my badge, let me know when to flash it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:02 am

Y’all making me have to leave my office, gotta go outside and let it out………LOL

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:07 am

All this “Ho-ing” and Mmelloo ain’t been summoned??? That’s the real test if you’re authentic. Almost like the ouiji thingy that happens…lol I kid I kid.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
11:07 am

Some gumbo would be nice. *sigh*

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:09 am

I’m not hungry right now. I had a smokie link and coffee sort of late. I brought tangerines and chips (in case I decided to do a sandwich). Right now though, not hungry. I will be about 3ish or so.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
11:12 am

Ya’ll got me making my grocery list.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:17 am

I’m sitting here going through my mind what I need to get from the store. Not sure if I want to do greens again. May opt for cabbage (but it’s not the veggie representing money in 2012).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:22 am

Leggs/Kym don’t forget the blackeyed peas.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:23 am

Well heck…..

fresh fruit, half gallon of OJ, paper towels, Scott tissue, Diet Coke and Coke (one 2 liter of each), chicken (small pieces please…breasts and wings), bacon, eggs, frozen okra, red/green/yellow peppers, rice, sweet and sour sauce (found on the Asian foods aisle) for the kid for frying wings, gallon of 1% milk, Publix brand fries, frozen broccoli, Kraft shredded sharp cheddar (for grits), Oh, bag of cut up collards and smoked neckbones for seasoning. One more, box of Kellogs Frosted Flakes

Any takers?

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:23 am

Oh….flounder and a bag of corn meal

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:24 am

Hell I done forgot what the peas suppose to represent. All I know is eat ‘em.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:24 am

I NEVER eat traditional NY’s dinner

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:25 am

I HATE black eyed peas

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
11:26 am

Black-eyed peas are for luck, greens are for money. I eat both and LOVE ‘em.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
11:27 am

LOL@Cel and your grocery list. I was telling my mom the other day that sometimes I’d give anything if Webvan had made a go of it. *sigh*

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:27 am

BEPs would sit and sit and sit on my plate as a kid…ugh

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:27 am

LOL…..@Cely:

I found something you don’t like, your kryptonite.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:28 am

ITL – I tried to keep it light. That will get me through Tuesday.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
11:28 am

Wait! Hold the presses. I know I’m skimming, trying to catch up, but did I see that BF is planning to flash us??? Dang, BF….I didn’t know Frisky Friday was back. :lol:

@Slim: mmmmm, gumbo. :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:29 am

Thanks Light I wouldn’t have never figured that out, I knew they meant something.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:30 am

Got the blackeyed peas…have to get some smoked turkey necks and a roast to wound out my dinner.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:30 am

Blackfoote – LOL I know right. My mama would give me like 2 spoonfuls and I tell you that would have me sitting for hours…lol And when I had my kid and dished some God awful dish, I could only reminisce…lol Of course not too many veggies she don’t like.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:30 am

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:32 am

@Celisea ~ I stopped buying frozen broccoli about 2 years ago. Get the fresh broccoli from Aldi’s or other stores. Tastes so much better.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:33 am

Leggs – I just prefer frozen. Too I don’t like Aldi Stores. I pretty much only do Publix and Krogers every blue moon or if I’m passing one and need to stop.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:34 am

My ex’s mother would put some dry blackeyed peas in the pockets of his jacket saying they would be him luck and money…well, as usual the woman was completely off her rocker.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:35 am

Light somebody’s got to do it and since Purple aint here it’s on me this time…….LOL

Leggs sho want to know how your dinner wounds up…….LOL

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:35 am

I do fresh veggies if it’s green beans, collards, etc. I only do frozen peas, broccoli, and okra (for frying). If I’m doing boiled okra it’s fresh.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:37 am

“they would be him luck and money”

Leggs are you having a splash of something with your jammies on this morning…..LOL

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:38 am

Aldi’s is very good. I haven’t bought anything from there I didn’t like. Well, their cream of mushroom soup is pathetic.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:40 am

LOL I walked in the one located Smyrna and walked back out :?:

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:41 am

The stuff (for me) was questionable…but not knocking it. I’m sure at some point some of this stuff is all processed at the same place.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:44 am

@BF ~ all my dinners are delicious. Truly. Menu is roast, yellow rice and gravy, blackeyed peas, yams, collards or cabbage and maybe mac n cheese.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:45 am

Meant they would BRING him luck and money….

Typing sprawled out on the couch is conducive to more typos than what I usually have (lol).

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
11:47 am

@Celisea ~ no doubt we aren’t familiar with the brand name, but the product is the same if not better than our household name brands…trust. I have had just about everything in the store (minus the frozen processed items).

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
11:51 am

Gotcha Leggs

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
11:59 am

Those dinners mentioned sounds great. Wonder do you put ham hocks in the cabbage or the peas?

cba

December 30th, 2011
12:12 pm

Don’t forget a side order of hog jowls for those dried black-eyed peas :lol:

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
12:19 pm

I like cut up okra in my black-eyed peas.

Leggs – Are you doing your roast in a crockpot or oven?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:27 pm

Whats happening cba, hope you and the wife had a great holiday.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:31 pm

Oh No, say it aint so. Woman uses her teen daughter to still chitlins from Kroger store. Then her friend uses her 2 and 6 year old nieces (what) to steal 12 lip sticks balms from a pharmacy.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
12:31 pm

Yes Blackfoote, it’s so. Nothing surprises me anymore.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
12:32 pm

Alright now…I’m ready to go. I’m getting work done…for real :)

cba

December 30th, 2011
12:35 pm

BF~ all good on this end, thanks for asking. Went to visit relatives in central GA, good to go back to the patch from which we came.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:36 pm

Just Wow, I need to stop being so naive. Folks are one upping against each other to see who can do the most stupidest crimes.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:40 pm

Slim1:

My favorite way is to start in the oven for outside crispness and flavor then drop it in the crock pot for tenderness.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
12:45 pm

Roast? Crockpot cooked in Lipton Onion Soup Mix.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
12:49 pm

I saw that hog jowls. A lady at my church that passed years ago cooked that just about every Sunday. She would sell dinner plates after church. Every plate had turkey necks and rice, fried chicken, hog jowls, collards or turnips, onions and cucumbers in vinegar (in a baggie), beets, 1 piece of corn bread, 1 biscuit and a slice of cake = $5.00…no lie. Those rectangular plates with several dented sections for different foods. My bother and I (I was about 14/15) would split a plate :) This was EVERY sunday. There would be a line of cars on her street after church. She’d scoot out early from church so she could start fixing plates….ahhhh yeah, the good ole days.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
12:51 pm

I wonder what happened to all our trolls that was hitting the blog EVERY morning venting and ranting and whining. Maybe Santa filled their stockings with babes.

cba

December 30th, 2011
12:56 pm

Celisea~ now that’s a serious plate of soooooooooul food and for 5 bucks…….long lost days

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:57 pm

Cely that Lipton soup mix sounds good, I’ve always used a beef or chicken broth I’ll try that mix next time out.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
12:59 pm

Those were the days to get that much food for 5 bucks.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
1:00 pm

I would prefer to do the crockpot but Mister doesn’t have one so I’ll have to do it in the oven. WACK

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
1:01 pm

cba – Let me tell you, that was in the 80s so that was cheap. She was a little old lady. That’s how she paid her bills and stuff. She made a killing. Some of the older folk/”saints” would give her a little something extra. Talk about good eating. Every had cornbread so sweet it’s like cake almost? LOL

Blackfoote – Yeah, try it. I wouldn’t eat roast until a friend of mine mom let me try hers. I was busy saying “I don’t like roast” so she said the next time she cooked roast she would bring me some. Delish. I put potatoes in mine. Not carrots though. She did potatoes and carrots in hers.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
1:03 pm

Ever not every

Yessiree Blackfoote…good eating. If you got a plate by yourself you was bound to have leftovers. I’m serious. All of that one one plate. Food running over. She ALWAYS cooked like that though.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
1:17 pm

O/T Okay, I feel sort of bad but a coworker’s smell is offending me right now. I know she stays in a sort of old house in the woods but I think the smell of her house (like a stale, mildewy, old folks attic smell) mixed in with the scent of her cigarette smoking has me feeling queasy. It wasn’t that bad this morning but for whatever reason it got strong after she came back from lunch. I lit a candle at my desk but it is not helping at the moment. I think i’m going to be sick bleh :cry:

cba

December 30th, 2011
1:18 pm

Celisea~ my wife brought home some food from work yesterday and I mentioned you and how you don’t eat anyone food from work. The lady is from Grenada and she cooked rice, plantains and wings. I said do you trust this lady’s cooking because my wife has only been on this job since Aug.
I ate a fork full of rice and one wing.
I texted my wife around 9:30 and she said she was leaving work at noon because she was sick.
I said, OH, she said she got through the night and stuff was flowing from both ends . No, I didn’t hear a thing.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
1:23 pm

cba – ewwwwwww I hope everything came out alright lol

cba

December 30th, 2011
1:26 pm

She hasn’t made it home yet. Fortunately, she works at a hospital.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
1:31 pm

cba – Oh man, that’s awful. See that’s why you can’t be too careful. Had she not eaten it, we would know for certain if she was sick it wasn’t from someone else’s cooking. Man that’s bad. Too, sometime I believe people that have pets and other habits, sometimes their bodies become immune but if you’re body is not accustom to certain germs and stuff, you’re are sure to feel the effects. Tell her I hope she’s better soon.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
1:54 pm

Went and purchased my food items. I use smoked turkey necks in my greens and blackeyed peas. Most times I do my roast in the oven, if I happen upon a touch piece of meat (very rare), I will then drop in crockpot. Did it that way twice. Will have to try the lipton mix.

@cba ~ she found out the hard, painful way that you can’t eat anybody’s food from work. How you doing?

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
1:57 pm

@SlimNu ~ because my hair caught on fire at work, candles are not allowed at work. I am now in the Administrative Manual. We were able to have bday candles on the cakes, but because of me, not anymore. It’s a running joke at work.

Voyeur

December 30th, 2011
2:06 pm

I just stumbled into this blog. Trying somehting new. What have I stumbled into?

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:10 pm

I’m glad to see y’all are still here!

I make roasts in the oven and the crockpot – just depends what kind of mood I’m in. My grandma always cooked them on the stove and they were fork tender and delicious!

Kym on the road.

December 30th, 2011
2:10 pm

Leggs I sent a link to your email. Would you please share with the rest of the class? Thank you.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:11 pm

You stumbled into fun. Most days insightful dialogue, some days pure d cutting up, other days wanting to punch someone lights out, but we go in neutral corners, lick our wounds and start over. That’s the gist of this site.

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:14 pm

What makes a vibrator holy? Christian, Jewish, & Muslim entrepreneurs aunch ‘religious’ #sex toy shops thebea.st/v5bfg9

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:15 pm

Kym on the road.

December 30th, 2011
2:17 pm

Thanks I thought that was the silliest thin I read today. Kosher and Muslim Vibrators. Only in America

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
2:23 pm

I tell you hitting “refresh” can bring all sort of surprises. Voyeur? Vibrators. Hey it’s Friday and anything goes…lol

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
2:24 pm

And how about a manager covering for my manager said “Ooops almost forgot, ya’ll got the greenlight to shut it all the way down at 3:00″ Of course I got a client again (from yesterday) with wire issues so I’m lugging the laptop home…great

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
2:26 pm

Leggs – Were you trying to blow out some candles when your hair caught on fire?

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:28 pm

@ITL ~ how was The Dump?

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:31 pm

Leggs: I got busy with a project and didn’t get to go. My co-worker still went, though, and she said most of the stuff was still overpriced. :(

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:32 pm

I keep hoping they’ll let us go early, but so far, no announcement… Pooh!

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:35 pm

No, I was in the mail room fixing myself a plate of food. There were two really tall beautiful white candles on the table. I had spritz in my hair and poof. BUT, more importantly, why did they have those lit candles in the mail room with all that paper. I had about 1/2 inch of hair left. The coke and lemonade they threw on me probably did damage as well (lol). Company paid for treatments for quite some time.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:35 pm

Y’all know next year when our regulars get back, they’re gonna be wondering what the hell do they mean with all this Ho stuff. This week to me has flown by, have had to leave my desk several times, tears of laughter have fallen it’s been a blast.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:37 pm

LOL…..@Leggs

Coke and lemonade what did that taste like?……LOL

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:38 pm

Dang, Leggs! I thought you meant you had singed your hair. I didn’t know you had a 5-alarm blaze going on. I’m glad you weren’t seriously injured.

It has been fun, BF! I think I’ll take the “Ho” subtitle off the moniker; I don’t want to give anyone the wrong idea! :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:41 pm

Coke got a new flavor out, Clemonade.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:44 pm

LOL……@Light

Yours still bring the tears up, I haven’t caught my breath yet.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:45 pm

LOL@Clemonade!!! Don’t forget, it’s to be served “warm” :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:45 pm

Leggs you need to have some stock in that new Coke flavor.

cba

December 30th, 2011
2:46 pm

So Leggs you had a MJ & Pepsi moment……we glad you survived :-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:47 pm

LOL…….at served warm.
With candles in the backdrop!

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
2:48 pm

Leggs – OMG!!!!!! I’m thinking a little quick burn of the hair, not an all out Pepsi Commercial MJ Situation. Dang!!!

BF – You’re wrong for that Clemonade :lol:

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
2:49 pm

WOOHOO!!! We just got the word to shut it down at 3, so I am now in wrap-up mode.

Y’all be sweet, and have a safe and happy new year! Muah!

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:50 pm

:lol: :lol: you definitely can say that, cba. I got hit in the head so much I had a headache. To this day, I believe a few that were in the mail room that didn’t like me took a punch at my head under the guise of helping to put out the fire (lol). I’ll never know…but I do believe!

Leggs - Had fun OTH...

December 30th, 2011
2:53 pm

Glad you guys are able to shut down at 3:00.

HAPPY NEW YEAR…2012 IS GOING TO BE FANTASTIC FULL OF WARMTH AND LOVE!!!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
2:56 pm

Hey everybody it’s been wonderful I’m gonna follow Light out of here. Please don’t drive drunk, have a blessed New Year and HAPPY NEW YEAR! 2012

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
2:57 pm

Happy New Year to you all!

Be safe!

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
3:00 pm

HAPPY NEW YEAR YALL! See you guys next year ;-)

LL411

December 30th, 2011
4:39 pm

New Year’s Resolution… When dating… Hear it, believe it, add nothing to it and taking nothing away from it. It is what it is. Like Jill Scott says Grown Woman… making decisions and choices.

Happy New Year Everyone

ES

December 31st, 2011
2:53 pm

Guys, if a girl does not want to risque photos before you have EVEN gone out, don’t judge her. . .be patient and she might share some freakiness with you once you gets to know you and trust you.

get over yourselves

December 31st, 2011
3:41 pm

how about better moderating??? If you could keep this from being a meet-n-greet it might be worth reading. BORING!

ForReal

December 31st, 2011
3:53 pm

Maybe you guys could start a FB group or something. As it is, it seems to be a closed clique rather than an open blog. Perhaps Diva doesn’t “check in” because your comments have nothing to do
with the topic.