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Leave bad moves in 2011

Not much time left in 2011 and if I had my way, there are a few things I would like to see stay in the past. Let’s just say, if I could impose dating resolutions on other people, I could come up with a laundry list of offenses that need to stop:

Unsolicited dirty texts and pictures I know it is tempting to send a picture of your package but it is a risky move. Make sure the recipient has an actual interest in seeing you naked or hearing you talk dirty.

Tardiness. It is tacky when you keep your date waiting. Some things are unforeseeable, but constantly showing up late with no explanation is rude.

Cell phone fixation. If you can’t bring yourself to put your phone away for two hours, you are probably going to look like a teenager. Turn the ringer off and update your Facebook post-date.

Lying to get laid If you are telling lies, pretending to have feelings, or faking a relationship just to get laid, you are the epitome of lame. Don’t do it – especially not with an emotionally unstable person.

What things would you like to see retired in 2011? If you could suggest dating resolutions for people, what would they be?

P.S. Any exciting plans for New Year’s Eve?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

165 comments Add your comment

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:21 am

Morning, all!

It sure is good to be home. :)

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
8:37 am

Well, I see someone finally decided to open the damn doors round here. I hate to admit it but I think I was beginning to go through withdrawal :shock:

ITL – Morning, and I’m jealous…shole wish I was still in the bed right now. Lately, I’ve been feeling so tired and I can’t seem to catch up. I woke up at 3:30 this morning realizing I had fell asleep on the couch and the beau had left my azz down there :roll:

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:44 am

Morning Lovelies

Ahhhh, home sweet home!

Let’s just say, if I could impose dating resolutions on other people, I could come up with a laundry list of offenses that need to stop

This right is says a mouth full. If only we could invoke the dos and dont’s, the you are too old for that, and the you ought to be ashamed of yourself….that would just about cure dating of the nasties (i.e. folks). The lying to get laid should come with an automatic shutoff after a certain age…lol

Seriously, I would like to see lying, lying, ill intents and lying retired. I think a whole gang of stuff falls under 4 things.

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:44 am

here not is…too early for boo boos

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:56 am

@Slim: I’m at work today. I meant it’s good to be back home at MIA. :)

I hope The Beau at least covered you up! :lol:

Morning, Cel! Did you see the note I taped to the door?

Celisea

December 30th, 2011
8:57 am

Hey there ITL! Which door? Home or the hideout? I didn’t go to the hideout today, I came home :)

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
8:59 am

We should extend Rodney an invitation to hang out here. Although, I’d venture to say he’s been exposed to our brand of crazy.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
8:59 am

I left a note on the door of Ho’ville, just in case anyone went there first. :)

Advice'preciated( Athens )

December 30th, 2011
9:01 am

Before 2011 comes to an end, I would like to do something and not sure how,

We both went to the same school and we have been great friends ever since. I am not sure if she likes me or know that I like her, nontheless, I do. She is single and invited me to celebrate NY at her place.

My question is should I break the news for her ? if so, how without risking our long time friendship.

Thanks everyone and I will report back,

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:04 am

Gotcha ITL…hopefully others will get the memo if they go to Ho’ville first.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:08 am

Shoot, I bet Leggs is still in her jammies watching GMA and hasn’t even thought of us yet! :)

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:09 am

ITL – Oh okay, well yes it does feel good to be home lol I was covered up but not sure if he had anything to do with it. I go upstairs and this fool is KNOCKED out. You know you’re tired when you don’t take the stuff off the bed but you just pile it up on the side you won’t be sleeping on. :lol:

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:12 am

LOL@Slim. I’ve done that. Pillow shams and throw pillows in a pile on one side, me knocked out on the other! :)

I’ve been so tired lately, I started taking my B-12 vitamins again. And vitamin D. It seems to help a bit.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:17 am

Advice – You have asked for advice w/o even really stating the issue. How about you provide some more details and we’ll be sure to chime in…

ITL – It must be something going on because everyone I know seems to be having some issues with energy/being tired or not being able to sleep that well lately. I think I definitely need to get me some vitamins as you suggested. The other day I was at the gym and I just didn’t have any juice in me at all. I ended up calling it a day. lol

As far as the topic goes, I would like to see folks leading others on when they know they don’t have any of the same intentions as the person they are dating, left in 2011.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:18 am

Good Morning All,

WE BACK!!!! BooYah!!!

I am just going to agree with Wisey’s Resolutions..nothing really I can think to add..except folks would be better off it they just learn to be themselves ..if you love you..someone else will too.

Hey Wisey..uh Rodney Ho promised us doughnuts every morning..

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:19 am

Off topic:

Speaking of WordFeud yesterday. Started a new game with someone and please tell my why did we have a 5 – 68 game going on before they bowed? They just beat me to it. Oh, the 5 points came from “yo”…yeah that’s the only word they could think of out of 7 tiles. They took a pass on their other turn.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:22 am

Ok, just so i’ll know. Are you taking over Rodney’s blog whenever we’re locked out of here? I call myself checking other blogs but was not able to find one where the comments were open.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:29 am

Slim:
Yeah, we Occupied the Ho for 2 days. I don’t have an e-mail addy for you, so I couldn’t let you know where we were…. :(

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:36 am

ITL – Do you have Leggs’ email addy?

Advice'preciated( Athens )

December 30th, 2011
9:36 am

SlimNu:

Details are:
I don’t know if she is interested in me for relationship
I don’t know if she knows I am interested in her
I do know I want to be more than friends with her
I do know she is single
She invited me at her place for New years eve party

The issue is whether to tell her I like her and ask her out and risk the long time friendship or not ? If so, how should I do it ? I just want to do it without any awkward situation, if possible anyway.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:39 am

@Slim: I do, but it’s the work one and she’s on vacay. :(

Mine is intothelight25@yahoo.com.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:41 am

Advice – How long have you all been friends and if you don’t mind, i’m curious, what age range are you two in? ;-) Also, has she ever acted as if she may have ever had interest in you?

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:42 am

Advice: My gut instinct is that a NYE party is probably not the time or place that you want to tell her this. The conversation already has the potential to be awkward, I wouldn’t add a party (drinking?) element.

I also would think long and hard as to whether telling her is worth losing the friendship, because that could happen.

Has she shown any interest in you, other than as a friend?

KaiserSoze

December 30th, 2011
9:44 am

My advice – tell her how you feel, but do so in as innocuous a manner as possible. She’ll either tell you that she feels the same way or that she doesn’t. If she does, then great, if not, then let it go. You’ll never create feelings in someone that simply aren’t there. Me – I’d simply state that over the years my friendship for her has grown and I believe there is a good chance we could have a deeper (romantic) relationship together, and just gauge her reaction then tailor your next statement to that. The only thing worse than rejection, to me, would be never having taken the chance to begin with and always wondering “what if”.

In short, go for it, you have nothing to lose. If she is truly a friend then she’ll let you down easy (assuming there isn’t that spark) and you can continue to be friends as long as you don’t make it awkward and try to pursue her in that manner.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:52 am

In case I don’t catch you all at the end of the day..cause I am out of here at noon..(early day) Happy New Year!!! You are one crazy bunch of coconuts.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:52 am

You could always go on that MTV show FriendZone lol kidding

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
9:54 am

I’m thinking about unplugging early too and taking the laptop home. No point in sitting here all day. Unless it gets crazy I might have to scoot early.

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

Dang! Y’all leaving me? :( I’m here until 4:30.

Happy New Year, Blog Familia

Leggs

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

So good be home!!!

@ITL ~ yes ma’am still have my pjs on.

@SlimNu ~ what’s brewing?? Email is sharmyk@gmail.com

Never understood sending of pics of packages and boobs and honey pots. The outcome can be catastrophic, much like WeinerGate.

Lying to get laid has never worked for me. If your head is on your shoulders securely, you can see through those lies.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
9:58 am

ITL – mail call ;-)

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
9:59 am

@Celisea..I am in the best mood..its Friday..got a few quarters in my pocket..and I am leaving early. I have been dancing since early this morning.

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:00 am

Leggs – I was just going to have you give ITL my email addy. I just didn’t want to post it on here. But we have gotten it together now, thanks ;-)

ITL – I’m here until 3 today.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:01 am

Kym – I’m there with you this morning. I ain’t got quarters but I can make do with a couple of nickles. I’m happy none the less!

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:02 am

I’ll probably be here. I know the minute I walk away all hell might break loose…lol It’s just hard putting out fires from my bedside or at the kitchen table.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
10:06 am

Do you know we cause a bit of a stir over on the Ho Blogs..some joker was calling us out for Occupying the Ho..I had a good mind to hang out just for GP..

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:13 am

Awww sucks, and here I thought an invitation was coming my way. :wink:

SlimNu

December 30th, 2011
10:16 am

Leggs – Nah, no invitations as of yet ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupyied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
10:17 am

Morning Ladies: Lying to get laid

Now that’s teenage stuff, grown folks have no business entertaining this concept. Especially to an unstable indivdual that might strike back.

TenderRoni

December 30th, 2011
10:19 am

Hi Everyone,
Hope everyone has a Happy & Prosperous New Year!

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:19 am

There’s a couple of salty folks over there. One even said don’t come back. Yikes!!

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:20 am

“…an unstable individual that might strike back.” This is funny. All I think of is either the male or female deciding to give him only to be met with a cloud of funk…I’m cracking up. Then the consenting party turns into a stalker…

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:21 am

I’m going back to remind them, RHo, extended an invitation to us to camp there.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

Leggs/Blackfoote – I’m not perpetuating violence but deservedly so. Who does that being an adult. If you want something, by now everybody should have figured you stand better chances coming straight. Whether it’s getting laid, getting time, getting money (IJS)…whatever. I think most folks can just appreciate honesty. Even if you’re shut down, respect for honesty will get you that much.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

Oh, I gave my appreciation this morning :)

Into the Light

December 30th, 2011
10:23 am

@Slim: Didn’t get anything…. :(

Oh, we got a mention in Ho’ville? I gotta check this out.

Kym-Off the Ho....

December 30th, 2011
10:28 am

There are some bitter..bitter Ho’s over in Ho’ville…ya’ll leave them be..they might come over here..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote Occupyied The Ho Untill She Let Me Go

December 30th, 2011
10:28 am

Advice:

New Years party is not the time present your feelings emotionally. It’s easy to get caught up when you might see other’s hugging and kissing at the midnight hour, but hold firm and give it a shot at a later time. If she’s the host of the party she will too busy to deal with your feelings at that time. And that would be really awkward for her.

Celisea....no longer occupying the Ho

December 30th, 2011
10:30 am

How old is Advice That’s my question.

Into the Light - A "Ho" No Mo

December 30th, 2011
10:33 am

BF, do you have your badge, just in case some the Bitter Hos try to invade?

Leggs - will miss OTH

December 30th, 2011
10:34 am

@Kym ~ I think our “troll” population will increase.