Sometimes the quest for knowledge and information can backfire on you. That’s a nice way of saying being nosy can be detrimental to your relationships! Looking through phones or digging through personal property to find out something you feel entitled to know means you have a snooping problem.
I think snooping on the person you are dating is a symptom of trust issues. When you feel compelled to snoop instead of asking for information and accepting it as truth, you probably should ask yourself some honest questions. Why don’t you believe them? What have they done to make you think they are not telling the truth?
I am not a fan of snooping. Perhaps I am too lazy to do all that work just to find out something I probably already know. I don’t know how I would handle a snooping problem. What would you do if you were sabotaging your relationships?
Have you ever dated someone who violated your personal space and went through your things? What did you do?
What do you think is an acceptable amount of snooping and what crosses the line?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog