Can women really handle no strings?

thewindwhistler

November 29th, 2011
6:38 am

that is a great question. I really like it. women can handle casual sex oover a period of time without becoming emotionally involved. They think of sex as therapeutic, like taking their vitamins or working out at the health club. In fact, I see them practicing some of the movements that they use during sex, “the pelvic tilt” is a favorite. Then there is the” inner thigh strengthener”you get the idea it is all part of tthe workout routine. I think one of them went through the routine for me, i fell off the “spinning” cycle watching.

I don't think so...

November 29th, 2011
6:43 am

Wishful thinking….
I don’t think so.

TJ

November 29th, 2011
6:49 am

I think it depends on the mindset and age of the woman. I know some women that have handled it in the past, but later got to a point in their life where they wanted more than just sex. Not necessarily from those they were involved with at that time. They just felt it was time to settled down.

I also know some women that may not be getting everything they need at home and have those “maintenance men” NSA relationships on the side. So to answer your question, I think women can deal with it…

USMC

November 29th, 2011
6:50 am

Bad Idea for men and women.

It only works for Prostitutes (male and female).

braddock

November 29th, 2011
7:02 am

If the woman doesn’t want the relationship baggage and finds a good sex match, then why not? If she becomes emotional she can always opt out and find a traditional match.

Older women, yes, younger ones, not so much

November 29th, 2011
7:07 am

From my experience, (Im a man) NSA results when that’s all the 2 parties agree to work toward. The physical just becomes the most convenient thing for both sides to do and they make no efforts toward anything else. I have NEVER heard of a man wanting more out of NSA. I think if he wanted that, he would treat the woman differently up front. It only has become NSA in my past if the woman was “good” at something during the process. I have been used by an older woman before who had a son my age. I would cook her dinner and she wouldnt eat anything. I made her a cake for her birthday and she took it home to her kids to eat. Women can do it too, but I think they are more likely to catch “convenient” feelings for the person closest to them. Men are always on the lookout for the next big thing. Its a catch and release policy when the need arises.

Dude

November 29th, 2011
7:17 am

I think woman are actually more apt at this then men are. So if it works for them, go for it, just don’t pretend that it may be something more, and let the other party know they are being used purely for sex.

Foxy

November 29th, 2011
7:44 am

No
GM Kids!

karma

November 29th, 2011
7:54 am

I agree with Dude. let her know up front, most are attached becasue the were led to believe they were more than a bed buddy. thats all we want guys, to know where we stand and we still come around then yes casual sex is ok

KK

November 29th, 2011
8:05 am

I think women can DEFINITELY handle it. As long as both know that it is NSA .. casual sex is the best! There’s no guess work for either party and you know where you stand. I think older women handle best. Most older women have alot of “life” under their belts and know more of what they are looking for .. or not looking for. Being a older woman, NSA works best for me. I’m very confident and not looking for a long term relationship. I do believe you have to know who you are and believe in yourself to pull it off.

All the way from the "303"

November 29th, 2011
8:22 am

Morning Kiddies……

Generally speaking NO!!! There are alot of ladies that try, or wish on some level that they can, but ……… Nawwwww….its not a regular part of their social programming…..

DreamsMaterialize

November 29th, 2011
8:37 am

Do you believe that women can handle casual sex?
Morning Women CAN do whatever they WANT to do. I think they just generally don’t WANT to have casual sex.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
8:37 am

Morning.

I absolutely believe women can handle no strings attached sex. When the woman goes in purely for sexual relief, she’s glad when the guy puts his clothes on and leaves. Many women can handle this and many can’t. All depends on what the woman wants.

Not all men control the relationship and the direction it takes. A lot of women have the reins in their hands. D..k on speed dial, then do the quick step out the door. Again, it works for some.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
9:08 am

Ummmm, is it something I said…..where did the folk go?

MsMarriedUp

November 29th, 2011
9:11 am

From what I know single women more often struggle with this…that is in as far as being a little more demanding of a particular person’s time, than a married women. Generally, married women are rarely lonely, at least not those who do the NSA’s.

And please!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not saying it is right for a married woman to do this, HOWEVER, just as men probably would attest to if they are being honest, sometimes we get bored in (somewhat??) committed relationships, or start getting on each other’s nerves, and so a little extra side activity allows us to come home with a better perspective and attitude.

That said, not ALL married women are like this, or participate in NSA’s, just as there are some single ladies who find NSA relationships better for them.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
9:19 am

What up Blog Fam!

It’s been my experience that women can do whatever they WANT to do so long as they do not believe another women is getting more than they are from you.

For Real: Hey what up cutbuddy?

Cutbuddy: Nothing much cutbuddy, you coming thru tonight?

For Real: As many times as I can!

Cutbuddy: You are sooo crazy. What time?

For Real: When I finish this dinner and concert.

Cutbuddy: DINNER AND FUGGIN CONCERT!!!! OH HELL NAW!!! WHO DO YOU THINK I AM!!!

For Real: Cut… Buddy????

Cutbuddy: CLICK!!!

For Real

November 29th, 2011
9:21 am

that should read “is not” getting more…

Audra

November 29th, 2011
9:25 am

I could and did when I was younger. Now, approaching 40, not so much. It’s just not worth the trouble/risk. I’d rather wait for someone I actually like.

disco

November 29th, 2011
9:33 am

good morning guys. I think I already put my two cents in on this topic as I am one of those emotionally detached types anyway. I’ve been able to make a jumpoff do what it do. if anything my control issues kick in meaning he’ll have to be my jumpoff. I can’t be his. but at the end of the day the deed is still done.

audra – the bigger problem I come across isn’t finding guys I like as people but finding guys that I think are just plain sexy enough to want to get with NSA. I know that sounds shallow but it is what it is. looking good and looking good for your age are two different things.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
9:35 am

Morning lovelies,

Interesting topic….I think we’ve touched on this a couple of times in the last week or so. What I think? By design no. I think women think they can until…….. I have to agree with For Real. That’s sort of what I was thinking when I read the other posts. Yeah, it’s all good until you find out about the other women doing the FWB or NSA or until you find out other women are getting what you’re getting (as it relates to sex) and then some. But of course I’m looking out of my own window. So to answer in word? No. I don’t think women can.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
9:42 am

So I wonder then, for women that say they can. What if he says okay I’m feeling you and I want more? Would you do it? Or would you hold with you’re just using him?

For Real

November 29th, 2011
9:43 am

Audra: So you can have sex with someone you don’t like? Interesting….

Well Blog Fam what do you think?

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
9:45 am

“…he’ll have to be my jumpoff. I can’t be his. but at the end of the day the deed is still done.”

Pretty much. I will call when I’m in need, you can’t call me when you’re in need (lol)…

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
9:47 am

But is there such a thing as a man being a jumpoff? Is it possible that he’s like, ummm okay if you say so?

For Real

November 29th, 2011
9:49 am

“…he’ll have to be my jumpoff. I can’t be his. but at the end of the day the deed is still done.” – Wow!!! Now that’s some mental gymnastics right there.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
9:50 am

Celisea: I think the definition of jumpoff needs to be restated.

GracieL

November 29th, 2011
9:50 am

Yes. Particularly when there is sexual chemistry, but the other conditions are not conducive to coupledom. Geography, jobs, schedules, personal goals…. there are many factors necessary for a successful LTR that are not necessary for a satisfying romp. An occasional romp can be helpful when getting over one relationship, before one is ready to delve into another. When one half of the casual sex equation starts to want more, though, it becomes necessary to either back off or take it to the next level.

Celisea,

That’s a good question at 9:42. If he wants to segue into relationship mode, and I’m not feeling him that way, then I’m straight with him — in a nice, encouraging sort of way: tell him how handsome, sexy, and wonderful he is, and talk about what it is he wants in a relationship, and encourage him to find a like-minded woman with whom he has more in common.

Mike P

November 29th, 2011
9:51 am

My Two Cents for the day…

NO!!! Women cannot handle NSA, those that believe they can are merely fooling themselves…
Even If the woman kept her emotions in check (with the man she’s NSA with), the fact is she “receiving” D from non-committal man, would have repercussion in her overall self-value and mental attitude about herself, towards other women, and especially from other men. Of which real men don’t put up with. So even if she has convinced herself that she’s cool with it. It still shows up as issues she’ll have to deal with; whether she realizes, recognizes, and accepts this fact or not.

Ladies, if you desire standards from the men you’re with, you have to BE the standard.

Good Morning all

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
9:53 am

Me too For Real…me too…lol

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
9:55 am

Gracie – Sooo, okay let’s say you opt to take a pass. Do you think though maybe there will come a time where you (not you) played and played and played and when you want to settle down, you played out? You don’t think you spend years regretting what could have been an opportunity? That’s not to say everything we take a pass on was the one that got away but I’m just wondering. It just seems a wasteful thing to do….

PLEASE NO ONE…DON’T GET OFFENDED. I’m just tossing ideas and thoughts.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:00 am

4Real – Nice skit…I was thinking that’s pretty much how it goes. It’s all good until another rabbit has the gun

disco

November 29th, 2011
10:05 am

Leggs – sounds like you understand exactly what I meant. I’m way past the stage where a guy can be thinking he can just call me up when he’s feeling some kind of way. I don’t even respond to that.

celisea – it’s very possible for the guy to be the jumpoff. and some guys really aren’t as okay with it as they might let on.

mike p – lots of women are empowered by their sexuality and have a strong enough sense of self to handle the repercussions, if any. some women really do enjoy their single way of living and really aren’t pressed to have a man all up in their space full time. who’d have thunk it?

GracieL

November 29th, 2011
10:05 am

Celisea,

Also a good question, and I see no reason to be offended. I can only speak from my own experience. I think Diva had it right in the second sentence. Casual sex is not something I could do for an extended period of time. (Uh… wouldn’t that be a relationship, albeit a one-sided dysfunctional one?) There have been times, in my search for Mr. Right, when I’ve met men who weren’t Mr. Right, but whose company and affection I enjoyed in a “friends with benefits” kind of way, especially when we were young and in transitional stages of our lives. (Sure, it’s embarrassing to admit, but we’re all anonymous here!) It’s not that I don’t have any “standards” or don’t want or believe in love. BUT…. some (not all) people have strong libidos and crave that physical attention, and frankly, if they’ve been out of a relationship for 6 months or a year, may well be inclined to “scratch the itch” before finding new, monogamous, committed deal with someone else.

The key, as with ALL types of relationships, is R.E.S.P.E.C.T. I’m nobody’s late-night booty call, jumping when the phone rings, nor do I treat anyone else that way. But it is possible for people to like each other without being a couple, and to be cool with the occasional expression of that… liking, amid their busy lives.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
10:06 am

For Real now fondling Slim’s rabbit

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
10:08 am

Doubt a man looks at it as he being the jumpoff. If he’s free when he receives the call, probably looks at it like “Oh boy, I’m in like flint right now and jump in his truck for the quick driveby.

Even If the woman kept her emotions in check (with the man she’s NSA with), the fact is she “receiving” D from non-committal man, would have repercussion in her overall self-value and mental attitude about herself, towards other women, and especially from other men.

I doubt that MikeP…when a woman goes in with NSA, she’s already made it up in her mind that’s what she wants. It doesn’t devalue her in the slightest. Probably nothing she wants to do for the long haul, but presently, doubt her mental attitude about herself is negative. There are women who are better at this than men are.

Audra

November 29th, 2011
10:08 am

disco – true, when I said “like” I meant “want to sleep with AND like as a person!” LOL. A lot of dudes are nice, interesting, whatever, but unfortunately a lot of ‘em don’t get me going. Some guy who’s fat, out of shape, can’t dress himself, or has no style does not get my attention. Yes, it’s shallow, but they look at us like that…it’s reality.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
10:11 am

“I’m nobody’s late-night booty call” – Calling BS. You have absoluetly no control over what another person thinks about you. If I think you are my booty call, then guess what, you are my booty call and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

GracieL

November 29th, 2011
10:17 am

For Real,

You’re funny! First, I’m going to give you some props for your 9:19. I have actually had an eerily similar conversation. Haha! And you’re right, I can’t control what somebody thinks of me, but I can control whether I answer the phone past 10 p.m., or whether I agree to the request. TRUST me when I tell you I have no problem saying, “No thanks” and not concerning myself one whit what a man thinks about me for doing so. Just because there was a connection once or thrice does not mean it’s ever a given that it will happen again.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:17 am

I gotcha Gracie…understood.

Disco – Oh I’m sure plenty of men don’t let on to how they really feel sometimes. I wish some would, that would be refreshing

For Real – Imma have to agree again on our 10:11…that’s what I was trying to say. He’s not going to say outloud what he thinks but is it possible in his mind he’s saying ole good is good for a good time…and that’s all. How do you know he’s not thinking that? Would it matter? Maybe not.

Honestly ladies – Can you say you wouldn’t have a problem knowing a dude is doing you and some other ladies all in one week or during the same time? Would you not be upset if you found out that he was pulling out all the stops for someone else and just hitting you up in between?

Okay, I’m probably just too dang sensitive. I take this sort of stuff seriously. I got a REAL problem not being an only….knowingly.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
10:18 am

You might make the booty call, but it doesn’t mean you’ll get the booty.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
10:21 am

No doubt, you can’t control how a person views you. But, you can control whether you give into “their” perceptions.

Robert

November 29th, 2011
10:22 am

“Do you believe that women can handle casual sex?”

I date women between the ages of 30-50 and it depends on where she is in her life. For example women between the ages of 30-35 can not handle casual sex because they are planning for marriage and a family and are looking for a committed relationship. Women in this age group lack maturity and are emotionally insecure. They feel they need a man. Women between the ages of 40-50 (cougars) are better suited emotionally and prefer younger men (35-40) for “casual sex”.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:24 am

O/T Anyone out there have t-mobile phone service? My internet isn’t working at all on my phone and was wondering if it was a system wide issue right now or just me. I tried calling the support line but it says they cannot answer any calls at this time. WTH!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:27 am

Slim – I have T-mobile…I’m up and running

disco

November 29th, 2011
10:28 am

For Real – for some reason your post read as forceful. were you thinking forcefully when you typed it?

gracie – thanks. you saved me from fully responding to for real. we are thinking along the same lines.

celisea – dang. I’m not saying you’re too sensitive but you did take the scenario to a whole new level. still I’ll respond from my perspective (mine only people – not speaking for the masses). if I’m in it NSA it was my decision to be in it NSA. I keep it at what it is which means eliminating all of the niceties of dating or pretending the guy is my man. he’s not my man and I know it. consequently, if he’s spending time with someone else then that’s between him and that someone else. I’m doing me (and him – ha ha). still, I wouldn’t want him stepping to me worrying about what I’m doing. that’s not the nature of our “situationship”.

leggs – you funny.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:29 am

C – Well I have no idea what’s going on…it was working fine earlier this morn. Maybe it’s just folks on the southside or something. Sucks!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:30 am

disco – Naw, I didn’t think you was saying that…lol I’mmmmm saying I’m probably too dang sensitive

So you call it a situationship huh? I like that term. We should add that like they added bootylicious.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:30 am

Slim – Take your battery out and reset it. See if that works.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
10:31 am

I have T-mobile and all’s well here…

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:32 am

I’ve done that twice already…finally on hold waiting to get support. So we’ll see.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
10:33 am

GracieL: For the record a booty call do not have time stamp but they do have a shelf life (i.e.”TRUST me when I tell you I have no problem saying, “No thanks”). However, if a booty call is done correctly, there will always be a residual itch left in your booty call that she will one day need to scratch. (insert fast talking legal disclaimer)

GracieL

November 29th, 2011
10:35 am

Celisea: “Honestly ladies – Can you say you wouldn’t have a problem knowing a dude is doing you and some other ladies all in one week or during the same time? Would you not be upset if you found out that he was pulling out all the stops for someone else and just hitting you up in between?”

Honestly, yes I have experienced this. Had a BF who was a serious sociopath, playing me and other women at the same time. I insisted on condoms (always a good idea!) but he’d sometimes work his way around that (at 5 a.m while I was still asleep… geez!) The problem was that he WAS playing us all — talking the love talk, pretending to be smitten, always referencing things he planned for our future together, telling me he’d always be there for me. And there was something about him I just…. loved, in spite of everything, because he’d reappear over the years with a convincing story that his last marriage was a mistake and he really loves me, yadda yadda. He’s evil, and has a massive trail of broken hearts in his wake. If a man just wants to be casual, he should be up front about that. It’s the 21st century; it’s not like there are no women wanting a NSA good time. Some people (like the evil one) get their jollies from building people up to tear them down. Cutting deep is how they amuse themselves. Not cool.

GamePlan

November 29th, 2011
10:36 am

Good topic. Like someone said earlier, I think women can do NSA until they find out there is another chick in the mix. Not proud of it, but I was the married man who was bored, and had NSA with another married woman. She was cool with the arrangement until she found out that she wasn’t the only one in the mix.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:38 am

Gracie – That situationship doesn’t sound like it was an agreed upon NSA or FWB for you….sounds like it was for him though. If I’m mistaken and it was a NSA for you as well, shouldn’t you be void of any ill feelings? I mean in situationships it’s anything goes…whatever works or floats your boat. Now if it wasn’t a situationship for you then yes he was dead wrong and you’re all the better for getting away from him.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:39 am

Now if it wasn’t a situationship for you I meant “for him”

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
10:41 am

Morning beautiful people!

Can women handle NSA? It depends. She must be honest with herself about what she wants and doesn’t want, though, to be happy.

There is nothing wrong with not being able to handle it or being just fine with it. Others don’t have the right to sit back and judge. It’s your life.

I do know that dudes catch feelings more than they care to admit. Many of THEM can’t handle NSA.

Personally it was never for me because I’m wired like a typical woman – my heart is tied to the physical act. And yes, the knowledge that he’s getting with others as well as me would not work.

I tried something casual once, on the rebound. I felt completely empty. It was a feeling I never want to experience again.

So naw, not for me, but to each her own.

i'm swiss™

November 29th, 2011
10:42 am

Slim — This is going to sound like a stupid question, but just in case: Does your phone also have wifi? And if so, are you currently connected to a wifi network? (i.e. maybe you’re on a bad wifi network rather than Sprint’s data network)

mark

November 29th, 2011
10:42 am

Hell a lot of these emotional dudes can handle no strings sex. as for me in my experience, once a woman gets some of this SWEETMEAT once or Twice she’s done!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:42 am

And really to what GamePlan just said, is it really NSA if you’re good with it only under the assumption that it’s just you and ya’ll ain’t made it official? Is it REEEEALLY NSA if you get mad finding out about another?

For Real

November 29th, 2011
10:43 am

T-Mobile: Thank you for calling T-Mobile. May I have your account number or cellphone?

Slim: My cell nimba is Fo Oh Fo – Sevem Two Ninnne – Fordie-Eight-Hundit

T-Mobile: Hold please while I pull up your account. Okay I have it now. I see you are experiencing issues with the internet.

Slim: Yeah! Da enna-net down.

T-Mobile: Yes maam please hold.

Slim: Thank you.

T-Mobile: Thank you for holding, this T-Mobile technical department and we have diagnosed your problem.

Slim: Okay.What wrong wit my phone?

T-Mobile: PAY YO FUGGIN BILL!!!!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:44 am

Kimmie – I agree. I think the average man that’s “feeling” a woman don’t want her with other men.

disco

November 29th, 2011
10:44 am

gracie – dang. did you call the man evil? to me it just sounds like he was the typical no good, trifling player type but evil? that’s deep.

celisea – do you have a word-a-day calendar because you put that in your rotation immediately. ha ha.

Robert

November 29th, 2011
10:44 am

@Leggs – “D..k on speed dial, then do the quick step out the door.”

I like your style. Call me.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:45 am

Global outage for Blackberry’s —> WACK

GracieL

November 29th, 2011
10:46 am

Celisea,

No, it was not an understood NSA agreement for me. He’d always come to me with some sad story, playing vulnerable, seeking my warmth and compassion, which he knew I’d give because he knew I loved him and that’s how I am. There were always nice dinners out, and helpful man-tasks around the house, phone calls just to hear my voice. He was/is a for-real playah. The phone call from another woman (who got my # from his phone bill) to compare notes was eye opening. He also brags to his friends about how many women have threatened him with legal actions and/or want him dead. Sadistic sociopaths are not that uncommon, actually. He’s a textbook case, and now that I understand what’s going on, I am finally free of him.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:47 am

disco – Nope…it’s just fitting for folks talking NSA…situationship. I can think of other words but that wouldn’t be very nice…ha ha ha

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
10:49 am

For Real – If that wasn’t funny I would’ve kicked yo ass.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
10:50 am

I have come to realize that this is something that is specific to each person and depends upon their mindset at the time of said undertaking.

For me, as I came to know myself better and have definite ideas about what I wanted in my life and in my relationships, it became something that I had zero interest in even attempting.

GamePlan

November 29th, 2011
10:50 am

@Celisea. That’s what tripped me out. If it’s NSA, then what does it matter if you are not the only one. What we have should be only confined to the physical act and what goes on outside of that shouldn’t be a concern of yours.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
10:51 am

Thanks for the hearty laugh, ForReal!!!

For Real

November 29th, 2011
10:52 am

I think we all agree if a person has feelings for another person they do not wish for that to other people and being male or female is no requirement for that…. My question Kimmie is where you raised or taught to tie your emotions to your cudda cat? “You” because you made the statement but “you” as it pertains to women in general.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:53 am

GracieL – Good riddance to bad rubbish You’re all the better.

Exactly GamePlan

Robert

November 29th, 2011
10:53 am

@MsMarriedUp – “Generally, married women are rarely lonely, at least not those who do the NSA’s.”

We live in hard times and married and single people are feeling the results of a bad situation (jobs, homes, kids, etc.). I have married female friends who before the hard times had a great life, but know are finding it difficult to maintain a household. Most married women have jobs and are the bread winners in their family. Their husbands can not find jobs and are putting a burden on the family. Some women will use this as an excuse to have “casual sex” with a man who can help her financially. Would you “by any means neccessary” ?

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
10:55 am

Robert – You shole do have a lot of statistics and stuff on women and what we do based on age brackets, incomes and sitations…lol

disco

November 29th, 2011
10:55 am

well here’s an off topic for the ladies. those of you who wear body shapers do you find yourself strutting a little bit? I just caught myself switching, yes switching – something I don’t ordinarily do and a word I haven’t heard or used in forever – to the copy machine. go figure.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
10:55 am

Women take different approaches for every situation. I think a sensitive woman would have a hard time with no strings where as a hardened woman would find comfort for a short period of time. I’ve been tested and tried and after time passed she gave in and wanted more from me. The problem was my mindset hadn’t changed, and that was the only way I could see her. She isn’t wrong for wanting what she want, it’s when you plant that in a man’s head you’ve taken yourself out of any equation for long term committement. Seem after a while she didn’t like I had other opportunities, now it’s I can’t have neither can she have.

Great Morning:

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
11:05 am

You said it, BF, once you plant that in a man’s head you’ve taken yourself out any other equation….DING, DING, DING!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
11:06 am

I don’t do bodyshapers. Although, I up 10 pounds…booo….got on the scale yesterday. I guess it’s back to the gym for real for me. I actually went this weekend…they moved and I couldn’t get in.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
11:06 am

Gracie: Looka here Otis, I know you are lying cause I just spokedit to Calamine and she told me everythang!!!

Otis: Awwww come now Gracie. Memba I told you about Calamine and how she is a special need person that work wit in a voluntary capacity?

Gracie: You volunteer??? Ohhhhh Ody-Wody how could I ever doubt you?

Otis: Well I’m just a man that does what he can do when I can do what I do and I would like to have sex um I mean make love you to now.

Gracie: You betcha and I will even do that little thing you like for me to do to you.

Otis: Awww yeah that’s what I’m talking about. Um one more thing, do you mind if Calamine watch?

Gracie: WTF?

Otis: I promise she will only spank my azz just 3 times.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
11:07 am

4 Real – I think it was something that came natural, but I guess how I was raised contributed to it. I mean, my parents tried to instill moral values and self-respect. Respect for my body. I didn’t rush into sex and I had to have feelings for a man to go there with him. By the time that mindset was established within me, casual just couldn’t work.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
11:08 am

I didn’t rush into sex and I had to have feelings for a man to go there with him. By the time that mindset was established within me, casual just couldn’t work.

This is me alllll the way.

disco

November 29th, 2011
11:13 am

celisea – a friend of mine stopped allowing her kids to trick or treat because she claims she once gained 5 pounds over a weekend snacking on candy. I thought that was hilarious but I don’t have the up/down weight issues. I’m always tickled that some women have several sizes of clothes in their closet. guess I’ll knock on wood. here’s to 10 forever. (before someone attacks, I’m a size 10, not tooting my own horn and saying I’m a 10).

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
11:14 am

And being up 10 pounds, I’m back to eating fruit (ugh) and no sweets. I did good this weekend. I went to the store twice to get something sweet but opted to do otherwise. So I bought fruit and groceries only…no junk food. I had a few fries over the weekend but that was all.

M. (pronouced M dot)

November 29th, 2011
11:14 am

I think its possible for women to go the casual route but only for so long…eventually she is either going to:

1. Want something more
2. Get with the next guy.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
11:16 am

I know that it would work for a small percentage of women for a short time. Sooner rather than later, the clock circle’s back to midnight and I’ve seen some of the hardest women crack that said they never would or could. Then it’s a emotional roller coaster ride that both would want to soon forget.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
11:16 am

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November 29th, 2011
11:16 am

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Celisea

November 29th, 2011
11:17 am

disco – i didn’t realize it was up to 10. i don’t feel any heavier and the clothes fit the same. i don’t really have weight issues. i’m not a string bean but i can pretty much eat what i want without massive weight coming on. i will say though if i lose myself to junk junk junk, that’s when the fluctuation start. If I lay off, it comes right off.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
11:20 am

heyyyyyy it’s against the law to give out pant and dress sizes without stating your height.

A size 10 and you are 6′5″ is totally different than a size 10 at 5′6″

Fion

November 29th, 2011
11:24 am

……..cricket, cricket, cricket!

disco

November 29th, 2011
11:25 am

for real – I’ve already advertised that I’m short. still, out of curiosity – what’s the fine?

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
11:25 am

I wonder what’s going to happen with the 8yr boy who was thrown out of a window & choked by his mom that apparently snapped to the pressures of life. She also stabbed her 4year old to death. That’s just so crazy to me…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
11:27 am

Leggs:

I’ll pass that along to a friend, that held the same position at another place. You know where.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
11:29 am

My sister said (the house is across the street from was my SIL’s home a few years back), the word was already put out by that mother that her power was turned off and that if she couldn’t come up with moneh for having it restored and money to buy food she would kill her kids and then herself. Not sure how true that is but that’s what my sister told me last night.

abc

November 29th, 2011
11:30 am

No strings would indicate no repeat performances also, right? No strings is no strings. No expectations, no return — just bam bam, seeya. Pretty tawdry. I had pretty much given up being like that by the time I was 21, people that persist in that sort of thing have some kind of problem or something, in my opinion. Hey, more power to ‘em. Just don’t have kids.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
11:33 am

I would think the whole NSA scenario would get old eventually for anyone, male or female. Especially if that’s the extent of all your relationships. I would think anyone would want something more substantial, even if you don’t want to get married.

But that’s my assumption.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
11:34 am

4 Real – U crazy!LOL!

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
11:35 am

I realize one doesn’t really know what they will do until they’re actually faced with a dilemna, but if I’m going to snap, I don’t think I’ll snap on my child. Again, she should have stabbed herself to death.

disco

November 29th, 2011
11:39 am

no strings for life? an interesting concept. heck, I know a few married folks who might actually live by that mantra. married but if you didn’t know it, you wouldn’t know it. I agree though – no strings forever might be an issue. no strings to get you through a dry spell – nothing wrong with that.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
11:40 am

NSA can definitely have repeat performances.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
11:41 am

Most of the people that I have encountered who say that they do not want to get married still want to have a stable person in their lives.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
11:45 am

disco chica you are funny!!!! Howdy MIA~

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
11:46 am

Leggs – Yeah, that was so crazy…But goes to show, you just never know the mental state of others.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
11:49 am

The older i get, the less I believe either sex can handle a totally physical relationship…or frankly any other LTR kind of relationship. Simply put, there are two bodies, and two minds, and two emotional makeups that have to be on the same plane and at the same time. Difficult balancing act.

As I have said many times, IMHO there is no such thing as free sex. It always has a price tag, whether physical, emotional, or financial. Feel free to disagree, but that is my experience anyway.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
11:50 am

ScooL: San the marriage, I don’t believe you can find one stable person that wants an unstable person period. Well perhaps for a booty call cause ain’t nothing like that crazy cudda-cat.

For Real now remembering crazy cudda-cat from Jamaica trying to put a curse on his hammer.

Fion

November 29th, 2011
11:52 am

@ disco
I hear ya
As we cruise the hwy of love there’s nothing wrong with pulling over for a roadside fill up. You may even have a flat and need to pull out the spare. You could blow a head gasket and even need to take it to the shop for extended maintenance. Bottom line u need what u need and u need to get it in.
Requirements change as life changes.

For Real

November 29th, 2011
11:56 am

Slim: I do not understand these “kill you and then myself” people. If you are such a coward and can’t face the life you made, then go ahead and kill yourself but why kill everybody?

In the words of the famous race horse that broke his leg during a race – “No need for that, I got three other legs I’ll be fine”

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
11:59 am

I’m not caapable of addressing the NSA issue from personal experience…but it would seem to me that for it to work, both need to be getting equal amounts of “booty on the side” or problems or jealousy issues might surface if one is doing abundantly well and one is in a dry spell..

As Rodney Dangerfield once said, “I get no respect from my wife. We have this pact where we always smoke after sex. I’ve been carrying around the same pack since 1978. My wife’s up to three packs a day”.

disco

November 29th, 2011
12:01 pm

randy – I agree. it all costs folks just need to make sure they can afford the piece they are trying to get.

fion – heck yeah we better get it in while the getting is good. over the weekend some friends and I discussed not knowing that the last time you got some was going to be the last time you got some. particularly we were talking about the end of relationships but also simply aging out of the sex game. think the little old 90 year old widow lady who hasn’t had any in 10-15-20 years.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:02 pm

Breaking News from ABCNEWS.com:

Herman Cain Reassessing Whether He Will Remain in GOP Race [11:39 a.m. ET] = DUH!!!

Fion

November 29th, 2011
12:05 pm

@Randyt
There’s no disgrace in that at all. It’s a wise man that knows his limitations.

Purple Reign

November 29th, 2011
12:06 pm

Some women can, some women can’t

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
12:06 pm

Leggs – I was watching a news show last night about him. The reporters all agreed he really does not want to be Prez or even VP. He just wants to sell his book and make money speaking. He had no idea he was going to blow up like he did and all his past dug out of the closet & affecting his family. My husband has been saying that all along.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
12:07 pm

Leggs – last night when they were reporting the “shocking” 13 year affair, my thought was “At this point, there is nothing shocking about any sexual allegation that involves Uncle Ruckus.”

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:10 pm

Cute, SexyC!

You hear about someone from the media using her cell phone to call Cain and he immediately answered. He vehemently denies having “sex with that woman” (although he didn’t use those words (lol).

To hear his wife say “he would never lie to me, he couldn’t look me straight in the eyes and lie” simply shows how gullible she is. All men and women can look another in the eyes and lie especially if you’re a politician! As BMW would say, Come On, Son!!!

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
12:12 pm

Good mornifternoon!

On topic:

A woman can— until she feels she’s being used like a condom…

When All is said,done and wiped,its the woman that defaults to a ‘victim’ status even when it started off as consentual and Agreed!

That’s the Conundrum.

Now I need some..who is game..No feelings?

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:14 pm

Haa haa haa, my boss just came out of his office with his IPAD to tell me about CNN’s breaking news. Told him I alread received mine from abcnews (lol).

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
12:14 pm

“When All is said,done and wiped,its the woman that defaults to a ‘victim’ status even when it started off as consentual and Agreed!”

Very True!!!

Fion

November 29th, 2011
12:15 pm

@Leggs
“simply shows how gullible she is”

easy now. eeeeeeesay!!!!!

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:16 pm

“When All is said,done and wiped,its the woman that defaults to a ‘victim’ status ~ wrong, the person who accepted the phone call/request is the victim.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:18 pm

@Fion ~ perhaps too harsh on her, but meaning, a woman who says her man could never lie and look her straight in the eyes is in fairyland…

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
12:20 pm

“All men and women can look another in the eyes and lie’

Not all, Leggs. I can’t. I’ve gotten caught at every dayum thing I ever tried, so my face would give me away in a heartbeat…except in a high stakes poker game. Even then, not stoic, but exactly the opposite. There you lie in word and expression in every way to get an advantage. “If you aren’t there to tear the other’s heart out and eat it, then get out of the game”.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
12:20 pm

When you rise up, that can’t be the thing you’re thinking about. Whether it be I want to do this or I can’t do this it has to be everybody on the same page. I opt out my energy level isn’t there for that anymore, slow and a sure thing works for me and people that can work it and have no feelings about it don’t stop til you get enough.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:22 pm

Never said he would get away with the lie, but he tried, just like you admit.

GoldPig

November 29th, 2011
12:24 pm

No they can’t. It’s a genetic flaw.

Fion

November 29th, 2011
12:29 pm

@Leggs
Not that you were harsh, but no need to hold her anymore accountable than anyone else.There are men and women living lies everyday.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
12:29 pm

I never tried to be be unfaithful and lie in my marriage. Never did. She would have known before I did. Hellz if five women were walking toward us in the mall, she would know before I did which one I was going to focus on. I’d get busted every dayum time.

As for lying period, my mom would beat my azzzz if she even thought I was lying (sometimes I got my azzz beat when I wasn’t lying). then early in my dating career, I had the misfortune of always dating intuitive women. They would know I was stepping out before the night was over…even when i went to another town. Learned before I was married not to even bother trying.

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
12:30 pm

Nope Leggs!

a guy and chic will be cool fugging until until dude meets girl at a function,another curry buddy in tow….

Curry budy -1 ‘ but how come u ain’t told me u fudging somebody else’

Dude

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
12:31 pm

Cut buddy

NSA sister number one

November 29th, 2011
12:36 pm

I have a jumpoff that i call when I am in need, he gets mad at me when he finds out that I am dealing with other men, so the question is can a man handle a NSA. So far the two I am dealing with can’t number one: always making smart comments and sending me crazy text number two: if i catch you (several occasions) its not gonna be pretty. Had number one on Tuesday and Number 2 last nite and im sure they are both doing the same thing except I am open and honest about my expectations and NSA…

i'm swiss™

November 29th, 2011
12:36 pm

Me.lo — curry buddy == some seriously spicy fuggin’

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
12:39 pm

swiss i screamed lmbao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! smh curry buddy!

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
12:43 pm

@Fion ~ of course, men and women both lie. I’m holding all accountable if they believe EVERTHING a person says. Now, I feel that statement is harsh, but true.

disco

November 29th, 2011
12:43 pm

randy – poor thing. it almost seems like you are at a disadvantage in life if you can’t get a decent lie in every now and again.

i'm swiss™

November 29th, 2011
12:44 pm

Lady — Yeah, talk about having that fiyah booty…

disco

November 29th, 2011
12:44 pm

of course – I’m banking on that fact being the lie.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
12:45 pm

swiss – I thought he meant he traded didn’t curry spices with someone else

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
12:48 pm

Swiss u funny!

I was laughing at yesterday’s blog bout how u closed the blog with ur d on Leggs mouth

That was funeeeey!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
12:48 pm

smh swiss lol

i'm swiss™

November 29th, 2011
12:51 pm

“I was laughing at yesterday’s blog bout how u closed the blog with ur d on Leggs mouth”

Me.lo — Yeah, now that was my kind of E.O.D.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
12:53 pm

different, not didn’t

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
12:55 pm

There was a dude looking at me and the lady I was looking at, then back at me to see what I was going to do. He wanted to make sure I didn’t get her attention he went up to her then she looked at me then he looked at me I knew at that moment he didn’t want me to make any contact with her. Yeah guys get nervous jitters when they think they’ve been out manuevered. The lady walked away from him and he kept trying to talk to her while lookig at me. WTF.

Purple Reign

November 29th, 2011
12:57 pm

Blackfoote, wow. He was insecure.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:02 pm

What’s up Purple? Yep we got some dudes out here like that. You know what we call them CB’s cockblockers.

Beatrix Kiddo

November 29th, 2011
1:06 pm

NSA#1 is going to mess around and catch an STD if she don’t calm that cudda-cat down.

Beatrix Kiddo

November 29th, 2011
1:08 pm

And so are her partners.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 29th, 2011
1:11 pm

Thank you disco. I save them for poker and do it very well then because that is a “play” and the audience is your opponent. As for the rest of the time, it is easier to be truthful than to try to explain a lie you are caught in…and most lies are eventually caught.

TRUTH

November 29th, 2011
1:13 pm

Sure. They can. Only if they get to change the person into what they were looking for in the first place. Just sayin’….

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
1:13 pm

@Me.lo ~ I hadn’t seen that closing yesterday, of course you would like that!

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
1:16 pm

@BF ~ that post made me laugh. Heck, when he got out of his seat is when you should have realized he didn’t want you to move in on her. And, the look on her face while looking at you probably said “dude, I saw you looking at me, why you let this joker approach first???”

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
1:19 pm

@Leggs.. Lol
@Swiss

I knew u had a mouthful Leggs and but couldn’t talk nor retort per yr usual …

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
1:19 pm

Dr. Murray got the 4 years.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:20 pm

RandyT:

Lies on top of lies, then used as alibi’s. The truth can hurt it also can level itself to ease the pain. Lies you’re stuck with them and nowhere to go except to the next one. Makes me think of H. Cain I don’t feel nothing for him.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:26 pm

Leggs:

Goes to show there are guys for what ever reason do not want to see another guy upstage him. Yep I got the discontent look from her, I could literally read her mind without a word spoken. I kept on my way and she did to shaking her head.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
1:28 pm

Why didn’t you step to her since you were also watching her? Did you lose interest because other guy was about to pounce??

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
1:28 pm

Random: It’s so funny to see even the manliest of men turn back into 5 year olds when they’re sick.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
1:29 pm

Methinks H.Cain will do what Newt did – withdraw from the spotlight, wait until a suitable amount of time has passed and folks have become forgiving and then throw his hat back into the NEXT race.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:32 pm

Ouch! Murray got 4, he’ll be out in a year. He should have been more contrite he may have got some sympathy from the prosecution.

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
1:34 pm

Cain’s ho was evicted from an apartment in Dekalb county as recently as last month. Had he paid up,she would have kept quiet. But u can’t mess with a person already on straws. They will hang on anything.

Now George Steph and Robin might pay up and bring her on the show for a chat..

Ka Ching !

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:41 pm

Leggs:

I look at women most times when I’m out and keep my nose to myself. It is stupid when dudes come out like that it gives the feeling of a child in a toy store.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
1:43 pm

Sniffer – I was wondering why ole girl would have any need to come out after dealing with him the last 13yrs. So he cut her off and thats why she’s throwing herself out of the closet of skeletons lol

Fion

November 29th, 2011
1:46 pm

O/T speaking of toy store, i just cam from the grocery store and saw a young girl (over21)
with daisydukes on and her left azz cheek out. Giving me the Gas fasce cause I’m lookin’
go figure.

Fion

November 29th, 2011
1:46 pm

meant Gas face

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
1:47 pm

Yeah Slim

Cain forgot or is lame to the game…

A side piece is like a vampire u keeping feeding it even when u don’t really need a lay

Is he a millionaire?

His choice of low down women is deplorable… typical of Republicans and their views on women

There are many uppity and educated women who are thirsty

Shame on Cain

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:47 pm

Slim I don’t get it either……..smh 13 years. walk away

i'm swiss™

November 29th, 2011
1:48 pm

Fion — With her booty all hanging out, you’re lucky she gave you the gas face and not just the plain ol’ gas.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:49 pm

Sniffer! you don’t hold back sir! wow!

Fion

November 29th, 2011
1:50 pm

@Swiss
it’s every bit of 42 degrees. Lady Please!!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:50 pm

Leggs:

You’re right I don’t know about others, but I can say if an interest is being spoken to I let mine go. That’s not to say I wont show back up, if they’re clicking then it’s a wrap. Can not be a CB’er.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
1:51 pm

I just don’t understand the whole “need” to let folks know when really how and in what way will folks benefit from know. I’m not getting the rationale behind that. Just move on and be done with it. Make your penitence to God and move on. She had motives or a vendetta.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:52 pm

yep C!!!!!!!!!!!

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
1:52 pm

Lady

She has more to gain than lose

Why walk away?

she got nothing to lose

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
1:53 pm

Hey Lady, how are you?

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
1:54 pm

Cain is just nasty. Outright. He was all over the place.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:54 pm

you right sir after breaking down her rent need paying! cut throat it is!

hey C I am good always good to read ya!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:55 pm

Fion:

42 degrees and daisy dukes not a good match outside the house. Imagine giving you the angry look cause you gave her a look for wearing dukes at 42 dgrees……….LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
1:57 pm

Does Cain represent the classic dirty old man?

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:57 pm

C and his wife! her interview still plays in my head……….its ugly but Sniffer! said this before when you run for POTUS be ready. Who is guiding Cain?!? The Tea Party?!? ijs

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
1:58 pm

Same here Lady

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
1:58 pm

Naw…he represents the classic ho.

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
1:59 pm

It’s funny isn’t it

Wise Diva asks if a woman can handle a FWB

and Cain’s ho gives us the answer! Same day!

aint that incredible ladies…

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
1:59 pm

and that is the thing Blackfoote he is no different than the flirting deacon that has affairs all the time but the national and world eye is a different playing field……………. I feel Washington will eat Cain up. Politically. he has demonstrated he is a businessman but eh politically and all of them are just as dirty in a since he just isn’t ready….IMHO

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:00 pm

Blackfoote – Does Cain represent the classic dirty old man?

Yep, absolutely. Like I said yesterday, say what they will about Obama but they ain’t been able to rattle nothing about his personal life. Some trumped up bogus stuff about a birth certicate. Yeah and that was reaching.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:00 pm

Sniffer! I thought the same thoughts! swear I did! LMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:01 pm

classic ho.

LOLOLOL Classic due to age and classic cause he fits the model. He’s classically ho’ed

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:03 pm

He’s just too stupid and seeminly take nothing seriously. Oh yeah, we’re seeing the brow lines now but really it’s all a game to his ignorant azz. That’s why you have to be careful when you’re young, never know what’s gonna shake loose in your latter years.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:03 pm

Oh wait…he’s still ho’ing

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
2:03 pm

I view that chick as little more than a prostitute, because I promise you that she wasn’t around 13 years JUST for some dizzle.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
2:04 pm

LOL

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:06 pm

Good answer, BF!

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:06 pm

What I tell yall yesterday? Look up Dirty Old Man in the dictionary. Whose picture will you see? LOL!!

What some don’t get also about Cain & his popularity is that all of his missteps early in the campaign endeared him to some because he was a Washington outsider, not a career politician. His arrogance appealed to some.

Now he’s just stank.

Fion

November 29th, 2011
2:06 pm

@Exiled
I want to correct you. Having mastered in Whoeology, let me further explain. There are Pro Whoe’s, Whoe’s and Broke azz whoe’s.
She is the 3rd of the three. You gotta keep those distinctions in accordance.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:06 pm

they traveled, did business trips, personal ones, a outside relationship….call it what you may but when the money flowed we didn’t know her name or face……….hell can he sue her?!? gheesh……..smh I don’t get it…….when it is over let laying dag lay where they may. KIM!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:07 pm

DOG that is! ok

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:08 pm

Fion I hollered! yall are off the chain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
2:08 pm

Most (99%) politicians are corrupt,including sexually

Same as businessmen(corporate executives)

It just doesn’t make headlines

It’s an open secret.

Like saying most college athletes coast, academically

If u don’t know u got major sight issues

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:10 pm

Lady – Sue her for what? She’s got phone records of him calling her from his personal cell, over 60 calls. He was a willing participant in whatever.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:10 pm

I know kimmie I am being funny I just feel she need to go sit down. that is all

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm

Sniffer! I agree but that clown delivery sucks~ smh

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm

Lady – Plus, the GOP is supposed to be all about “family values”.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm

Wearing daisydukes in 42 degree weather….that isht ain’t cute!

Cain is a pimp but wearing a better suit. He pimped himself to her for 13 years because she needed financial assistance. Bet his wife didn’t know anything about him financially helping another for 13 freaking years.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm

LOL

His picture in the dictionary.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:12 pm

Let’s not lay the onus of keeping good on her. He’s the biggest ho of them all.

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
2:12 pm

@Fion

and what millionaire fcks with a broke azz ho?

Cain is bringing the game into disrepute!

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm

My thing is, you know what type of things you’ve done in your past. You should also know that, when running for office, folks are going to pull up so much dirt on you they could build another Wall of China. So if you know you have Closets, on Closets, on Closets full of bones, then sit cho ass down somewhere. They are going to pull up stuff you probably forgot about and when you read about it, will question what the heyal you were thinking when you did that.

Walking around town all your life acting like David Allen Grier’s dirtydeacon, ” I rebuke you satan!” then you might wanna pass on running for office.

If you’re married but have two different families in different states and 5 kids outside of your marriage, you may wanna sit cho ass down!

If you’ve been ‘horsing around’ in the shower with little boys, then you may wanna sit cho ass down…

If you are on the sex offenders list in 40 of the states, you may wanna sit cho ass down…

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm

Lady – She’s getting her 15 minutes just like errbody else! She wants to get paid.

As for him, oh well.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm

Kimmie don’t get me started there………..chuckle

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:14 pm

so sad Kimmie! it is ugly!

Fion

November 29th, 2011
2:14 pm

When you in the game, know your role and play your position. When the director yells “CUT”
that’s it, flim over. Everybody wants a part in the flim, but everybody can’t get on the screen.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:15 pm

Fion gets the first flag on the play!!!! He warmed up too quick! LMBAO!!!!!!! * Time out! LOL

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm

@Celisea ~ can’t believe you beat me to using “onus” (lololol).

Fion

November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm

@Exiled
“Cain is bringing the game into disrepute”

True, True.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm

But how are you with a woman all of your life 25 or 30 years of marriage and she NOT know? I’m not buying. How are you with her and she not recognize ho tendencies? Like when she defended him saying he was respectful to all women. I dunno, he strikes me as one of those men where once he’s done he’s only good for talking sh!t.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm

I can’t stop laughing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm

Leggs – LOLOL…that was the perfect moment

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:20 pm

Lady – Politics is ugly and it still blows my mind when folks act like a deer caught in headlights when the ugliness rears its head. Heck, I worked behind the scenes years ago on a city council campaign and it was enough to let me know I wanted nothing to do with politics. All the backstabbing and such, and that was small potatoes compared to a national campaign.

Robert

November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm

@NSA Sister #1 – “always making smart comments and sending me crazy text”

I hate to see men sending text messages and acting like women. Boys, cowards and immature men send text messages. Be a man and pick-up the phone and call her. She just might give you some NSA time.

cba

November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm

I’ve never been a Cain supporter even before his run for president. I’ve heard enough from him on his radio show. Having said that, isn’t “Slick Willy’s” transgressions, before and while president just as bad?? The fact that Newt is now a Catholic; will that give him a pass? John McCain cheated on his first wife and most of us boomers have read about JFK’s rotation.
Unfortunately, some men with status, power and money have many temptations to over come.
I’m not going to even mention the name of a former Atl mayor.
The bottom line, Cain had ZERO chance from the beginning. I just hope his wife wasn’t totally caught off guard. My gut tells me she wasn’t.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm

Celisea – I am SO not buying it either! They’ve been married for 42 years.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:22 pm

He ain’t even got a solid platform. Just hoping on the bus (cause blacks folks are getting in on it now…that’s his attitude to me), riding around the country and playing matters down by singing and grinning all over the palce. Yeah, he ain’t singing now.

Fion

November 29th, 2011
2:23 pm

Listen, get up off Cain’s wife. It’s whooooole lot of women eatin’ lies everyday all day.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:24 pm

cba – They all are garden tools, but that’s for their wives to deal with.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:24 pm

Exactly Kimmie

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:25 pm

Kimmie I remember calling myself wanting to attend American University in DC and working with PA in the DC area……..whew chile just think about if I would have perused that and over 10 years what unethical situations would have crossed……..I know it is everywhere but DC is a special kind of flare~

I wasn’t around for the Atl politics of Bill Campbell and before but I could imagine it was thick here too!

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:25 pm

y’all are still a trip. kimmie – you are so right. all these closet indiscretion chicks will be doing the talk show circuit and writing books and they’ll be doing it superfast before the next scandal (be it politician/businessman/athlete) comes to light. I’m surprised no babies have surfaced (or did I miss that)?

Robert – amen on the grown men and text message comment.

celisea – singing and grinning? is that something like shucking and jiving?

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:26 pm

Yeah but Slick Willie was at least smart and knew how to fake contrition.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm

disco – For Cain, it’s “all of the above” lol

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm

Checking something – dis rep utable.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm

Yep – dis rep utable is on the list of banned words…(lol)

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:28 pm

Lady – DC is just on a national level. Politics is buck wild everywhere, from DC to Mayberry.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:30 pm

Back in the day no one wanted to be known for being a homewrecker, a h0, or s kank. Nowawadays, that’s the new path to find success.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:31 pm

skank

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:32 pm

Just testing…wow this blog has really grown up…skank, whore, ass

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:33 pm

Wonder if we’ve been able to type those words all along and just didn’t realize.

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

skeezer

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

MMeello – I think your original blog name and a couple of other “real” words are all that’s banned.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

trick

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

Kimmie part of my soul yearns for DC smh! LOL

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

Cel – we’ve always been able to type ass. (lol)

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm

C STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #dead LOL

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:36 pm

Hey SexyC – I think I was the only one that didn’t get the memo. I was typing azz for a long time

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:36 pm

Lady…just testing…lol

cba

November 29th, 2011
2:38 pm

Celisea, it didn’t hurt that SW had/has much charisma. I didn’t know a single female, including my mom, aunts, wife and even my 11 or 12 yr daughter, that didn’t like them some Bill

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:38 pm

@Celisea ~ yes ma’am, it was the perfect moment!

“I did not have an affair, and until I see and hear exactly … what accusations are going to be made, let’s move on,” Cain said on CNN. – While reading this, I immediately thought of the frown and indignation on Judge Mathis’ face when one of the parties says something like this. Oh no, we will not move on. You’re not going to sweep this under the rug so quickly….lolol. The judge would say something like that.

Back to regularly scheduled programming…

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:39 pm

Meello – and what millionaire fcks with a broke azz ho?

Are there different qualities and classes in rich ho versus poor ho?

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:39 pm

Lady – Ironic, I am going to DC this Friday! I have a lot of family there and will be attending my aunt’s 90th birthday party. She is the last my father’s 8 siblings alive. She is 90 but looks and gets around like someone at least 20 years younger. It should be a beautiful and fun affair!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:40 pm

Leggs hold tight I have another for you!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:41 pm

Enjoy your family sis!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have fun and what a blessing 90 years!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:41 pm

cba – You’re right. He was very charismatic and at least he tried to be humble with his. Ya’ll might shoot me for this but and I don’t mean for to sound the way it might read. I’m not excusing him but at least act sorry if you’re caught. Don’t try to act all cocky, you’re not in a position to do that.

Candy Cain here only places me in the mind of Mr. T. He’s not willing to take any responsibility. Don’t lay blame on the other party. If it goes down, it’s both people.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:42 pm

He places me in the mind of Mr. T with his voice and how he reacts when being accused…that’s all I meant there.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

The word “cocky” got through….

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

celisea – I’d have to imagine that there are some character differences between a rich ho and a poor one. i know of women turning cheap ($5/$10) tricks from bus stops. you have to hope/imagine thatthe higher up the ho scale you go that you are getting something different for your money.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

I believe the C-words will post as well. I recall someone throwing bobbycock around at one time or another.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:45 pm

That is fabulous, kimmie! Enjoy your family.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:46 pm

I would think the major difference in a poor ho and a rich ho might, I said might, be hygiene and nice teef (lol).

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:46 pm

“Friends are forever! Everything else is a bonus.” ~Herman Cain

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:47 pm

my sis disco brings it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! whew lawd LOL!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:49 pm

Try Hermie the Clown C!

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:49 pm

Thanks Lady & Leggs, I’m excited. And leave it to my family to find a way to gamble – Friday night we’re getting the kids together at one of my cousins house while the adults hit some nearby casino!

I will try not to compare it to Vegas! Gonna be hard though!LOL!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:52 pm

disco – I guess a better bang (pun intended) for your buck ey? lol

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:53 pm

Lady – Try Hermie the Clown

Okay you took me there today with this comment….LOLOLOLOLOL

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:54 pm

Leggs that’s what I’m thinking cause banging is banging and so is stroking

cba

November 29th, 2011
2:54 pm

I remembered years ago, I heard Jamie Foxx give an interview after his first big screen movie,” On any given Sunday”. He said he was getting a better grade p$$y being a movie star vs a tv star.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:55 pm

Leggs – I would guess that the presentation looks better and it gives you (the john) a false sense of better “quality/caliber/cleaner” type ho when she has a bit more money to keep things up. lol

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:57 pm

see – celisea and leggs – y’all are thinking like women (and women who don’t charge at that). imagine, if you can, that you are the one coming out of pocket. hypothetically you pay one chick $20 for a BJ and then some other high end chick gets $250 for the same task. you mean to tell me that you don’t have higher expectations for your money? now, I don’t know the difference or if there really is a difference but it just seems like to me there some be some kind of difference. I’m done. I’m about to confuse myself.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:58 pm

He said he was getting a better grade p$$y being a movie star vs a tv star.

If I had to read between the lines, I’d say he can now bone chicks who would normally be considered “out of his league” now that he’s more famous lol I mean that bball player Eric Snow is not the best looking thang in the world and he was getting his fair share of pddy…So I guess money helps motivate a prettier chick to deal with a less attractive guy

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:59 pm

And he is not a stupid man on paper but when he open his mouth lawd take the wheel! smh C

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:00 pm

But in the end, ain’t it still ass? I mean don’t it take all the same efforts? Right?

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:01 pm

I would think too that you’re a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:02 pm

@Lady ~ Michael Baisden just called him Herman The Clown.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
3:03 pm

lol i like Hermie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:05 pm

Good Afternoon All,

Now how did I miss this topic?? Ohh I know..these jokers got me playing catch up on a week’s worth of work.. How ya’ll doing?!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

character differences between a rich ho and a poor one.

I would say the commonality in any ho rich or poor would be the lack of character. So see, now much difference…lol

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

@Celisea ~ I too wondered the many ways one can thrust and gyrate. I don’t know any ho’s, but the ones I see on the show Cops are bust down…ok, ok, those are prostitutes.

@disco ~ now, that your same statement with twin sisters. One’s a rich ho and the other’s a po ho. Give both of them the same makeover where they both look like a rich ho. Does the stroke gets better simply because the po ho now looks like a rich ho….nope, it’s all a mind game.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

not…not now

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:07 pm

@Celisea ~ you and I are on the same page (3:00).

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:08 pm

Yeppers Leggs, that’s what I’m thinking. Unless some of the men want to chime in, I really can’t define the difference in the class of ho’s

cba

November 29th, 2011
3:09 pm

Slim I guess after he won that oscar, the sky is the limit now LOL
Eric comes across all quiet and innocent. I think he’s divorced now and have a baby by another lady.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

Yeah and two straight up women who never hoe’d a day in their lives giving commentary on the life of a ho…..now, that’s Rich!

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

Wait are we talking about Herman(Big Pimping) Cain?? She came out because the checks stopped coming..The rent is too d*** high!!

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

fronting All the way..

@Slim ..if I had to read tween the lines

@Celisea youre a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results

Fronting ladies

So presentation,status of the person,full set of teeth etc all that don’t matter for u ladies

It’s All about the Dick and its size?

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
3:13 pm

that weave ladies makes u look different from the next chic

I raise my hand in salute!!

By the time I get down there my mind is playing tricks on me!

Presentation makes the nutt run fast!!!!

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
3:14 pm

“I would think too that you’re a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results.” Actually, she (or they) are the SUCKers and they all end in a come or a go.

disco

November 29th, 2011
3:15 pm

celisea – I have a cousin who is fond of saying “it’s not the size of the bootie, it’s the duty of the cootie”. it might all be the same in theory but…

leggs – even if it’s mind game I’m suspecting the one with the game can charge more than the one with no game. OR maybe she’s not charging more she’s just getting way more work. her marketing skills might outweigh her product.

I know the things we talk about on here. still, I remember adele givens on def comedy jam said “you can call me a ho but you can’t call me broke”. classic.

hey kym.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:15 pm

Mmeello – So presentation,status of the person,full set of teeth etc all that don’t matter for u ladies

OMGosh…I’m rolling. Dude stop. That was way too funny. So you’re particular as to whether or not she’s got teeth?

No honey, no fronting here. I can’t define a whore because I knows (yes knows) nothing about that lifestyle. I saying I ain’t been fast but I’m just saying.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:19 pm

SexyC – I framed it to him because the $20 performer don’t know there’s a chick doing the same deed at a price of $230 more than her. I’m thinking the dude is the sucker because he’s gonna pick which giver he wants.

Mmeello – So a better weave yield better results??

Ya’ll are crazy…lol

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:21 pm

I guess presentation is everything.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:24 pm

Presentation helps get the clothes off and the panties/boxers on the floor….

CHELLE

November 29th, 2011
3:32 pm

Yes women can, especially when it’s on our terms. When I decided to go back to school, I realized I didn’t have time for anything else, but my studies. But, for some reason I noticed that at that point, men wanted to be in a relationship with me. Was it because I laid down the law. Huh.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:41 pm

I want a snack

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:45 pm

Hey there disco..you holding it down..My cousin always said coochie is the downfall of mankind.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:49 pm

@Celisea ~ I just walked around looking for a cookie or two…found a minature snickers.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:51 pm

@disco ~ no doubt the one with the game can charge more, but bet they both think the have game AND, the one who truly believes they have game really has no game at all!

I know a chick who swears her coochie is made out of gold, but from what guys have told me, she’s too hollow, nothing to grip on to….I laugh every time I remember this.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:54 pm

Leggs – I’m going to be a good girl and hold out. I have a bag of fruit on the table at home that I bought at Publix. I’m going to cook pork chops, okra and corn on the cobb for dinner. I will eat a piece of fruit if I’m still needing a snack. Some of this craving is habit.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:55 pm

from Publix

disco

November 29th, 2011
3:55 pm

lol – some guy told you she was hollow? did you at least give her the benefit of the doubt and ask him if he was small? I had a party last year on my bday and during the course of the party someone spilled some food on the floor. among the food items was a little gherkin pickle. guy being helpful picked the pickle up but the way he did it made everyone laugh and crack jokes that he must be small. it was hilarious.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
3:57 pm

I just walked around looking for a cookie or two…found a minature snickers

Leggs – you sound like me when I discovered a mini twix in my bag of condiments. SCORE! lol

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:01 pm

@Celisea ~ I’m making white turkey and sausage chiili tonight. Got recipe from one of Publix’s cooking demonstrations. It was delicious, and since I’m not too keen on white meat (no offense swiss lololol), this recipe will take care of my leftovers.

@SlimNu ~ yes indeed…SCORE!! That tiny snickers was all I needed. Because they’re so small, one doesn’t feel guilty when having one or two blue moon.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:03 pm

every blue moon….

woodrow

November 29th, 2011
4:04 pm

No. They cannot handle it. At some point they want to get paid. I don’t blame them. That’s reality. People always look for the payoff. There must be a payoff.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:07 pm

Leggs – I’m making white turkey and sausage chiili tonight.

Is that really good? I’ve heard a bit about this here of late?

I LOVE white meat. I rarely eat dark meat.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:07 pm

Oh and I’m one of those folks that will eat samples at Publix

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:09 pm

@Celisea ~ I must admit I was so surprised when I stopped at the counter at Publix. That chili was outstanding. I’ll email the recipe to you.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:10 pm

Cool…send it to me…thanks!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:14 pm

Got it Leggs….thanks a bunch!!!

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
4:14 pm

I always see folks gathered around the demonstration table at Publix but never took the time check it out. So I may have to do that one day soon. Always looking for something new to try

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 29th, 2011
4:15 pm

Sweet Peeda hasn’t found one that was to hollow yet…..what up good people?

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 29th, 2011
4:15 pm

too

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:15 pm

Anybody hear Miley Cyrus talking about being a weed head at her 19th birthday? Seems she was caught on camera saying “you know you smoke too much weed when your friends give you (blank) for your birthday” I couldn’t catch what the blank was.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:17 pm

Slim – Check it out. I think maybe once I’ve tried a sample that I just didn’t like but they have good pretty good recipes. I think Channel 46 features those Apron Recipes.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
4:17 pm

Ohhhh, can you send it to me too Leggs?

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:17 pm

Y W…

I usually get to the counter when the last plate has been given out. Was glad to taste this dish.

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
4:18 pm

70 minute

Liverpool 2 Chelsea 0

I can’t wait to have the remote in my hand and my butt in the couch tonite

Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:18 pm

I sent it, SlimNu.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
4:20 pm

I’ve tasted some really good stuff in Publix. They were passing out this sausage lasagna dish one day with salad and a chocolate cream pie for dessert. You got a good sized portion of it all too.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 29th, 2011
4:21 pm

as for the topic, which at this time of day, ya’ll are way past…the NSA approach is naturally more suited for Men , but a woman who has experienced some good, bad, maybe some ugly…could easily switch her mentality to this approach, until that there is some consistentcy…If you continue to beat it for more than 3 months…Its a relationship, maybe twisted a bit, but you will not walk away without any questions…impossible!!! And I dont care what you ladies say on this one, tried it too many times…

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:28 pm

My kid is the one that’s got me eating the samples. I use to wait for her to take one but she started bringing one for me as well. Soooo, when I’m there and they’re cooking, I stop buy. Yep every sample is served with some sort of sample desert…mmmmm, yum

Jake – I putting on vest while saying this….THAT WAS THE GENERAL CONCENSUS. But we hear the sisters that say they can. We ain’t knocking ‘em.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:29 pm

I’m

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
4:30 pm

Leggs – I never thought about YW lolol…I have to admit (probably because it’s almost 5) but I sat for 2 seconds to think about what it meant Slim’s “blonde moment”

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
4:31 pm

If you don’t get attached, he ain’t doing something right.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:32 pm

Too cute, SlimNu. Of course, I got it from my child…

just a thought...

November 29th, 2011
4:32 pm

Slick Willie Clinton waved “little Willie” at every skirt that passed by, yet he made and stayed in office. The media has come down on HC a lot harder than they ever came down on any Dem doing the same things.

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
4:38 pm

I just read on one blog “Cain seems to have been playing “hide the pepperoni” quite a bit.”

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:44 pm

just a thought – He ain’t even made it in yet…at least get in so you can get kicked out. Slick Willie has him beat hands down. At least he recognized when he was in trouble…he was in trouble. Hermie the Cain is walking around singing and playing it off as if….if he says it enough it will go away.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:48 pm

Then too…Slick Willie was able to make things happen as it relates to state of the country.

I’m afraid for all of us if Hermie the Cain get in office…I’m serious.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
4:50 pm

by

Chris

November 29th, 2011
4:51 pm

Women aren’t built emotionally for that so therefore they can’t handle it. Some convince themselves they can do what a man can and it not be harmful but women can’t. It’s not politically correct to say but it’s true.

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
4:51 pm

JAT – the media has pretty much given Newt a pass for the same kind of questionable behavior. Not to mention the fact that Newt owes Freddie Mac MILLIONS……

At least, Ruckus ain’t messin’ with the white folks’ money, just their wimmen…(that always reminds me of the line from Blazing Saddles – “Where da white wimmen at?” Well, apparently, they are all in Ruckus’ bed. lol)

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:53 pm

Naw, Tiger still had the most….

O/T ~ loving Tyrese’s new song.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:56 pm

Nevamind, we’re talking about those in the political arena…

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
4:57 pm

Yall have a good one…hollers

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:59 pm

Nite!!!

Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity.

PEACE!

Boston

November 29th, 2011
10:32 pm

Sex without love is an empty experience – period.

Chaun

November 30th, 2011
10:24 am

Yes, Yes, and Yes again. I think that women can have a relationship and not have an emotional attachment. For a men to think otherwise is really foolish. There is no one size fit all for either sex. Just because you are a guy does not mean that you automatically can turn off your emotions. I have met a number of guys who can’t.

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