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Can women really handle no strings?

There is an ongoing debate whether women can’t handle strictly physical relationships. Some believe that women can do it – but not for extended periods of time. Others believe that women “convince” themselves that it is fine with them, while secretly holding out for a real romance to bud.

Let’s take a little totally unscientific poll here:

Do you believe that women can handle casual sex? In your experience, is it a good idea or bad idea?

Are there circumstances that casual sex with no strings attached recommended?

For the record, I believe it is completely possible to be involved with someone and not be emotionally attached. But enough about me. What do you think?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

334 comments Add your comment

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

The word “cocky” got through….

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

celisea – I’d have to imagine that there are some character differences between a rich ho and a poor one. i know of women turning cheap ($5/$10) tricks from bus stops. you have to hope/imagine thatthe higher up the ho scale you go that you are getting something different for your money.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm

I believe the C-words will post as well. I recall someone throwing bobbycock around at one time or another.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:45 pm

That is fabulous, kimmie! Enjoy your family.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
2:46 pm

I would think the major difference in a poor ho and a rich ho might, I said might, be hygiene and nice teef (lol).

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:46 pm

“Friends are forever! Everything else is a bonus.” ~Herman Cain

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:47 pm

my sis disco brings it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! whew lawd LOL!

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:49 pm

Try Hermie the Clown C!

kimmie

November 29th, 2011
2:49 pm

Thanks Lady & Leggs, I’m excited. And leave it to my family to find a way to gamble – Friday night we’re getting the kids together at one of my cousins house while the adults hit some nearby casino!

I will try not to compare it to Vegas! Gonna be hard though!LOL!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:52 pm

disco – I guess a better bang (pun intended) for your buck ey? lol

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:53 pm

Lady – Try Hermie the Clown

Okay you took me there today with this comment….LOLOLOLOLOL

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
2:54 pm

Leggs that’s what I’m thinking cause banging is banging and so is stroking

cba

November 29th, 2011
2:54 pm

I remembered years ago, I heard Jamie Foxx give an interview after his first big screen movie,” On any given Sunday”. He said he was getting a better grade p$$y being a movie star vs a tv star.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:55 pm

Leggs – I would guess that the presentation looks better and it gives you (the john) a false sense of better “quality/caliber/cleaner” type ho when she has a bit more money to keep things up. lol

disco

November 29th, 2011
2:57 pm

see – celisea and leggs – y’all are thinking like women (and women who don’t charge at that). imagine, if you can, that you are the one coming out of pocket. hypothetically you pay one chick $20 for a BJ and then some other high end chick gets $250 for the same task. you mean to tell me that you don’t have higher expectations for your money? now, I don’t know the difference or if there really is a difference but it just seems like to me there some be some kind of difference. I’m done. I’m about to confuse myself.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
2:58 pm

He said he was getting a better grade p$$y being a movie star vs a tv star.

:shock: If I had to read between the lines, I’d say he can now bone chicks who would normally be considered “out of his league” now that he’s more famous lol I mean that bball player Eric Snow is not the best looking thang in the world and he was getting his fair share of pddy…So I guess money helps motivate a prettier chick to deal with a less attractive guy

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
2:59 pm

And he is not a stupid man on paper but when he open his mouth lawd take the wheel! smh C

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:00 pm

But in the end, ain’t it still ass? I mean don’t it take all the same efforts? Right?

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:01 pm

I would think too that you’re a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:02 pm

@Lady ~ Michael Baisden just called him Herman The Clown.

Lady~

November 29th, 2011
3:03 pm

lol i like Hermie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:05 pm

Good Afternoon All,

Now how did I miss this topic?? Ohh I know..these jokers got me playing catch up on a week’s worth of work.. How ya’ll doing?!!!

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

character differences between a rich ho and a poor one.

I would say the commonality in any ho rich or poor would be the lack of character. So see, now much difference…lol

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

@Celisea ~ I too wondered the many ways one can thrust and gyrate. I don’t know any ho’s, but the ones I see on the show Cops are bust down…ok, ok, those are prostitutes.

:lol: @disco ~ now, that your same statement with twin sisters. One’s a rich ho and the other’s a po ho. Give both of them the same makeover where they both look like a rich ho. Does the stroke gets better simply because the po ho now looks like a rich ho….nope, it’s all a mind game.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

not…not now

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:07 pm

@Celisea ~ you and I are on the same page (3:00).

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:08 pm

Yeppers Leggs, that’s what I’m thinking. Unless some of the men want to chime in, I really can’t define the difference in the class of ho’s

cba

November 29th, 2011
3:09 pm

Slim I guess after he won that oscar, the sky is the limit now LOL
Eric comes across all quiet and innocent. I think he’s divorced now and have a baby by another lady.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

Yeah and two straight up women who never hoe’d a day in their lives giving commentary on the life of a ho…..now, that’s Rich!

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

Wait are we talking about Herman(Big Pimping) Cain?? She came out because the checks stopped coming..The rent is too d*** high!!

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
3:10 pm

fronting All the way..

@Slim ..if I had to read tween the lines :roll:

@Celisea youre a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results :roll:

Fronting ladies :lol:

So presentation,status of the person,full set of teeth etc all that don’t matter for u ladies

It’s All about the Dick and its size?

Sniffer!

November 29th, 2011
3:13 pm

that weave ladies makes u look different from the next chic

I raise my hand in salute!!

By the time I get down there my mind is playing tricks on me!

Presentation makes the nutt run fast!!!!

SexyCool

November 29th, 2011
3:14 pm

“I would think too that you’re a sucker if a $20 vs a $250 bj yield the same results.” Actually, she (or they) are the SUCKers and they all end in a come or a go.

disco

November 29th, 2011
3:15 pm

celisea – I have a cousin who is fond of saying “it’s not the size of the bootie, it’s the duty of the cootie”. it might all be the same in theory but…

leggs – even if it’s mind game I’m suspecting the one with the game can charge more than the one with no game. OR maybe she’s not charging more she’s just getting way more work. her marketing skills might outweigh her product.

I know the things we talk about on here. still, I remember adele givens on def comedy jam said “you can call me a ho but you can’t call me broke”. classic.

hey kym.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:15 pm

Mmeello – So presentation,status of the person,full set of teeth etc all that don’t matter for u ladies

OMGosh…I’m rolling. Dude stop. That was way too funny. So you’re particular as to whether or not she’s got teeth?

No honey, no fronting here. I can’t define a whore because I knows (yes knows) nothing about that lifestyle. I saying I ain’t been fast but I’m just saying.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:19 pm

SexyC – I framed it to him because the $20 performer don’t know there’s a chick doing the same deed at a price of $230 more than her. I’m thinking the dude is the sucker because he’s gonna pick which giver he wants.

Mmeello – So a better weave yield better results??

Ya’ll are crazy…lol

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:21 pm

I guess presentation is everything.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:24 pm

Presentation helps get the clothes off and the panties/boxers on the floor….

CHELLE

November 29th, 2011
3:32 pm

Yes women can, especially when it’s on our terms. When I decided to go back to school, I realized I didn’t have time for anything else, but my studies. But, for some reason I noticed that at that point, men wanted to be in a relationship with me. Was it because I laid down the law. Huh.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:41 pm

I want a snack :cry:

Kym

November 29th, 2011
3:45 pm

Hey there disco..you holding it down..My cousin always said coochie is the downfall of mankind.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:49 pm

@Celisea ~ I just walked around looking for a cookie or two…found a minature snickers.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
3:51 pm

@disco ~ no doubt the one with the game can charge more, but bet they both think the have game AND, the one who truly believes they have game really has no game at all!

I know a chick who swears her coochie is made out of gold, but from what guys have told me, she’s too hollow, nothing to grip on to….I laugh every time I remember this.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:54 pm

Leggs – I’m going to be a good girl and hold out. I have a bag of fruit on the table at home that I bought at Publix. I’m going to cook pork chops, okra and corn on the cobb for dinner. I will eat a piece of fruit if I’m still needing a snack. Some of this craving is habit.

Celisea

November 29th, 2011
3:55 pm

disco

November 29th, 2011
3:55 pm

lol – some guy told you she was hollow? did you at least give her the benefit of the doubt and ask him if he was small? I had a party last year on my bday and during the course of the party someone spilled some food on the floor. among the food items was a little gherkin pickle. guy being helpful picked the pickle up but the way he did it made everyone laugh and crack jokes that he must be small. it was hilarious.

SlimNu

November 29th, 2011
3:57 pm

I just walked around looking for a cookie or two…found a minature snickers

Leggs – you sound like me when I discovered a mini twix in my bag of condiments. SCORE! lol

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:01 pm

@Celisea ~ I’m making white turkey and sausage chiili tonight. Got recipe from one of Publix’s cooking demonstrations. It was delicious, and since I’m not too keen on white meat (no offense swiss lololol), this recipe will take care of my leftovers.

@SlimNu ~ yes indeed…SCORE!! That tiny snickers was all I needed. Because they’re so small, one doesn’t feel guilty when having one or two blue moon.

Leggs

November 29th, 2011
4:03 pm

every blue moon….

woodrow

November 29th, 2011
4:04 pm

No. They cannot handle it. At some point they want to get paid. I don’t blame them. That’s reality. People always look for the payoff. There must be a payoff.