Can women really handle no strings?
There is an ongoing debate whether women can’t handle strictly physical relationships. Some believe that women can do it – but not for extended periods of time. Others believe that women “convince” themselves that it is fine with them, while secretly holding out for a real romance to bud.
Let’s take a little totally unscientific poll here:
Do you believe that women can handle casual sex? In your experience, is it a good idea or bad idea?
Are there circumstances that casual sex with no strings attached recommended?
For the record, I believe it is completely possible to be involved with someone and not be emotionally attached. But enough about me. What do you think?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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334 comments Add your comment
Leggs
November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm
Wearing daisydukes in 42 degree weather….that isht ain’t cute!
Cain is a pimp but wearing a better suit. He pimped himself to her for 13 years because she needed financial assistance. Bet his wife didn’t know anything about him financially helping another for 13 freaking years.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 29th, 2011
2:11 pm
LOL
His picture in the dictionary.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:12 pm
Let’s not lay the onus of keeping good on her. He’s the biggest ho of them all.
Sniffer!
November 29th, 2011
2:12 pm
@Fion
and what millionaire fcks with a broke azz ho?
Cain is bringing the game into disrepute!
SlimNu
November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm
My thing is, you know what type of things you’ve done in your past. You should also know that, when running for office, folks are going to pull up so much dirt on you they could build another Wall of China. So if you know you have Closets, on Closets, on Closets full of bones, then sit cho ass down somewhere. They are going to pull up stuff you probably forgot about and when you read about it, will question what the heyal you were thinking when you did that.
Walking around town all your life acting like David Allen Grier’s dirtydeacon, ” I rebuke you satan!” then you might wanna pass on running for office.
If you’re married but have two different families in different states and 5 kids outside of your marriage, you may wanna sit cho ass down!
If you’ve been ‘horsing around’ in the shower with little boys, then you may wanna sit cho ass down…
If you are on the sex offenders list in 40 of the states, you may wanna sit cho ass down…
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm
Lady – She’s getting her 15 minutes just like errbody else! She wants to get paid.
As for him, oh well.
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:13 pm
Kimmie don’t get me started there………..chuckle
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:14 pm
so sad Kimmie! it is ugly!
Fion
November 29th, 2011
2:14 pm
When you in the game, know your role and play your position. When the director yells “CUT”
that’s it, flim over. Everybody wants a part in the flim, but everybody can’t get on the screen.
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:15 pm
Fion gets the first flag on the play!!!! He warmed up too quick! LMBAO!!!!!!! * Time out! LOL
Leggs
November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm
@Celisea ~ can’t believe you beat me to using “onus” (lololol).
Fion
November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm
@Exiled
“Cain is bringing the game into disrepute”
True, True.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm
But how are you with a woman all of your life 25 or 30 years of marriage and she NOT know? I’m not buying. How are you with her and she not recognize ho tendencies? Like when she defended him saying he was respectful to all women. I dunno, he strikes me as one of those men where once he’s done he’s only good for talking sh!t.
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm
I can’t stop laughing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:16 pm
Leggs – LOLOL…that was the perfect moment
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:20 pm
Lady – Politics is ugly and it still blows my mind when folks act like a deer caught in headlights when the ugliness rears its head. Heck, I worked behind the scenes years ago on a city council campaign and it was enough to let me know I wanted nothing to do with politics. All the backstabbing and such, and that was small potatoes compared to a national campaign.
Robert
November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm
@NSA Sister #1 – “always making smart comments and sending me crazy text”
I hate to see men sending text messages and acting like women. Boys, cowards and immature men send text messages. Be a man and pick-up the phone and call her. She just might give you some NSA time.
cba
November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm
I’ve never been a Cain supporter even before his run for president. I’ve heard enough from him on his radio show. Having said that, isn’t “Slick Willy’s” transgressions, before and while president just as bad?? The fact that Newt is now a Catholic; will that give him a pass? John McCain cheated on his first wife and most of us boomers have read about JFK’s rotation.
Unfortunately, some men with status, power and money have many temptations to over come.
I’m not going to even mention the name of a former Atl mayor.
The bottom line, Cain had ZERO chance from the beginning. I just hope his wife wasn’t totally caught off guard. My gut tells me she wasn’t.
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:21 pm
Celisea – I am SO not buying it either! They’ve been married for 42 years.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:22 pm
He ain’t even got a solid platform. Just hoping on the bus (cause blacks folks are getting in on it now…that’s his attitude to me), riding around the country and playing matters down by singing and grinning all over the palce. Yeah, he ain’t singing now.
Fion
November 29th, 2011
2:23 pm
Listen, get up off Cain’s wife. It’s whooooole lot of women eatin’ lies everyday all day.
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:24 pm
cba – They all are garden tools, but that’s for their wives to deal with.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:24 pm
Exactly Kimmie
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:25 pm
Kimmie I remember calling myself wanting to attend American University in DC and working with PA in the DC area……..whew chile just think about if I would have perused that and over 10 years what unethical situations would have crossed……..I know it is everywhere but DC is a special kind of flare~
I wasn’t around for the Atl politics of Bill Campbell and before but I could imagine it was thick here too!
disco
November 29th, 2011
2:25 pm
y’all are still a trip. kimmie – you are so right. all these closet indiscretion chicks will be doing the talk show circuit and writing books and they’ll be doing it superfast before the next scandal (be it politician/businessman/athlete) comes to light. I’m surprised no babies have surfaced (or did I miss that)?
Robert – amen on the grown men and text message comment.
celisea – singing and grinning? is that something like shucking and jiving?
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:26 pm
Yeah but Slick Willie was at least smart and knew how to fake contrition.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm
disco – For Cain, it’s “all of the above” lol
SexyCool
November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm
Checking something – dis rep utable.
SexyCool
November 29th, 2011
2:27 pm
Yep – dis rep utable is on the list of banned words…(lol)
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:28 pm
Lady – DC is just on a national level. Politics is buck wild everywhere, from DC to Mayberry.
SlimNu
November 29th, 2011
2:30 pm
Back in the day no one wanted to be known for being a homewrecker, a h0, or s kank. Nowawadays, that’s the new path to find success.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:31 pm
skank
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:32 pm
Just testing…wow this blog has really grown up…skank, whore, ass
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:33 pm
Wonder if we’ve been able to type those words all along and just didn’t realize.
disco
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
skeezer
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
MMeello – I think your original blog name and a couple of other “real” words are all that’s banned.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
trick
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
Kimmie part of my soul yearns for DC smh! LOL
SexyCool
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
Cel – we’ve always been able to type ass. (lol)
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:35 pm
C STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #dead LOL
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:36 pm
Hey SexyC – I think I was the only one that didn’t get the memo. I was typing azz for a long time
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:36 pm
Lady…just testing…lol
cba
November 29th, 2011
2:38 pm
Celisea, it didn’t hurt that SW had/has much charisma. I didn’t know a single female, including my mom, aunts, wife and even my 11 or 12 yr daughter, that didn’t like them some Bill
Leggs
November 29th, 2011
2:38 pm
@Celisea ~ yes ma’am, it was the perfect moment!
“I did not have an affair, and until I see and hear exactly … what accusations are going to be made, let’s move on,” Cain said on CNN. – While reading this, I immediately thought of the frown and indignation on Judge Mathis’ face when one of the parties says something like this. Oh no, we will not move on. You’re not going to sweep this under the rug so quickly….lolol. The judge would say something like that.
Back to regularly scheduled programming…
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:39 pm
Meello – and what millionaire fcks with a broke azz ho?
Are there different qualities and classes in rich ho versus poor ho?
kimmie
November 29th, 2011
2:39 pm
Lady – Ironic, I am going to DC this Friday! I have a lot of family there and will be attending my aunt’s 90th birthday party. She is the last my father’s 8 siblings alive. She is 90 but looks and gets around like someone at least 20 years younger. It should be a beautiful and fun affair!
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:40 pm
Leggs hold tight I have another for you!
Lady~
November 29th, 2011
2:41 pm
Enjoy your family sis!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have fun and what a blessing 90 years!
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:41 pm
cba – You’re right. He was very charismatic and at least he tried to be humble with his. Ya’ll might shoot me for this but and I don’t mean for to sound the way it might read. I’m not excusing him but at least act sorry if you’re caught. Don’t try to act all cocky, you’re not in a position to do that.
Candy Cain here only places me in the mind of Mr. T. He’s not willing to take any responsibility. Don’t lay blame on the other party. If it goes down, it’s both people.
Celisea
November 29th, 2011
2:42 pm
He places me in the mind of Mr. T with his voice and how he reacts when being accused…that’s all I meant there.