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Dating: Mixed signals

Most of us have been subjected to the mixed signals of dating. You get a green light, then you get a red one. Things get red hot, then suddenly they turn cold. What gives?!

A friend of mine is dating a guy who only kicks up his efforts when she acts as if she is not interested in him. She will ignore his calls and text messages for a few days and put him on the back burner. That is when he kicks it into high gear and pursues her more. Their most romantic dates usually occur after she decides he is out of her life.

Perhaps it is about having a challenge; maybe he is dating multiple people and wants to keep her in the mix. Do you think that mixed signals is really just a sign that someone is being played?

What do you do when the person you are seeing starts to get a little flaky and inconsistent? If you really like them, do you try to be a little patient or can mixed signals be the deal breaker?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

273 comments Add your comment

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
3:56 pm

LOLOLOLOL…..ass contamination…..LOL

I know some thinks it’s mean but that dude came with an agenda. Poking to see who will bite.

“I know this is a place for dating but I don’t think I landed in the right spot. Ya’ll don’t talk about doing other men do ya’ll?” That’s how he read while creeping into the blog. And don’t get me wrong, you wanna hang out, hang out but keep it real and come shooting straight.

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:00 pm

BF and disco, y’all are cracking me up! “hmph! I wish I would go sit under the stairs!”

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:04 pm

Jake said chitterlings, that’s what I thought it was…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:05 pm

Wait chitlins that’s how they’re pronounced.

SlimNu

November 22nd, 2011
4:05 pm

society has forced them to marry

Is this society bully person any relation to Suge Knight? :lol:

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 22nd, 2011
4:07 pm

ABM, all jokes aside, I don’t care what kinda sin you are into, it aint like homosex is a Felony Sin, and everything else is a misdeameanor, its all Sin. You wrong as hell for sleepin with them married dudes and Celisea is correct, you know this, wit cho nasty azz!!!!

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 22nd, 2011
4:09 pm

BF…yeah man, you how our people chop and screw words together…

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:10 pm

Alrighty now, Jake.

One dish down a few more to go (lol).

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
4:12 pm

Exactly Jake. Wrong is wrong is wrong. My issue is wanting to “guilt” someone into listening when you yourself know it’s wrong. It’s not judgemental. That’s why I made the case of saying if any one of us…man or woman….came on here what’s the different? Actually it’s gotten soft in here because a person coming talking about indiscretions didn’t make it past a page without getting slammed say 5 more pages.

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
4:12 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:15 pm

disco;
It’s a special place did I mention the city skyline view. Dennis Haysburg say it best “Are You In Good Hands”? That’s where you’ll be, not you personally. Well I want you to be (in good hands) I know it wouldn’t be with me.

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:16 pm

What’d you make, Leggs?

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:17 pm

BF, first day on the new legs? You seem a little unsteady on your feet…. LOL :lol:

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:18 pm

Yams are done and got my pot likka started with smoked turkey necks for my collards. Have to take breaks from ripping the collards.

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:19 pm

Ummmm, watch how you say that, ITL (lololol)….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:21 pm

Leggs:

I hear you got good some ole stuff, smelling up the neighborhood. I’m feeling this ass scent in here…….LOL

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:23 pm

@BF ~ do you mean you’re NOT feeling the ass scent (LOLOL)….my house does smell good. Aww the smell of vanilla, nutmeg and Karo syrup….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:23 pm

Now my senses are gone, meant I’m not feeling the ass scent in here…..LOL

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:23 pm

@BF ~ ummmm, you need to watch how you say that too (LOLOLOL)…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:25 pm

Light:

Instigating, I got thrown off by the scent. Wolves do that sometimes you know……LOL

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 22nd, 2011
4:29 pm

(Jake gets back to blog office and there is BF)

J: What up BF, how it hanging
BF: Shhhhhhhhhsh, man don’t say that!!!!
J: What, what the hell you talkin bout
BF: He is here
J: Who?
BF: Him over there.
J: So I can’t say how is it hangin, (as Jake says the last word, he see ABM eye twinkle as he turns to go to the copier)
J: WTF, what the hell is that he got on
BF: There called azz chaps
J: I QUIT!!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:30 pm

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:31 pm

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
4:32 pm

Oh naaaw, where is ABM? He was ready and all angry and name calling at me….a woman, but he’s not made one retort towards the men. Oh okay I see.

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:33 pm

BF, you and your wolf alter ego are too funny!

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:35 pm

Leggs, you saying pot likka reminds me….on Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives the other night, there was this guy who made greens and served them with pot liquor gravy. It looked SO GOOD!

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:35 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:36 pm

Celisea:
Don’t worry we got your back, no pun intended. Jake putting is putting it out there.

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 22nd, 2011
4:38 pm

I’m just havin a little fun Celisea, don’t start nothin…!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:38 pm

How in the world do you type the same thing twice, like I do. Laughing too hard……..LOL

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:44 pm

I’m glad it picked up in here! :)

Hey, where did disco go?

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:46 pm

She said she wasn’t going under the stairwell w/o security. She’s on the run…

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
4:51 pm

LOLOL…Blackfoote and Jake…I’m just glad ya’ll are saying it because when I go honest or direct I get the feeling folks are clutching their pearls…lol

Preciate ya’ll

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:51 pm

Hilarious!! We’ve got a blog fugitive!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:52 pm

Leggs I have a nice warm spot for you. Couldn’t resist to say “Are You In Good Hands”?

Celisea

November 22nd, 2011
4:52 pm

And really it’s slows things down when it’s ALLLL KUMBAYA. Sometimes we need to light a fire. Not talking about ABM per se…..

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:54 pm

Hey Leggs….when you go back to cooking, make disco a pie with a file in it! ROFL!!!! :lol: :lol:

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:54 pm

@BF ~ awwwwww, thank you. Am I in good hands….you tell me??

Jake a.k.a. SPJ, TWB

November 22nd, 2011
4:54 pm

ITL,..ole Sweetness went missing didn’t he, but honestly I am scared of them UTB’s,(Up The Butters), I have had my Prostate checked, any man who willfully and knowingly allows this as a practice is a sick individual..

On that note, fellas, get checked, I want you to feel uncomfortable and violated like I did, but besides that, no need to die from a treatable condition…be prepared to reconcile that you have just had a medical exam, its a very weird situation.

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:55 pm

Oh my goodness, good one, ITL!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
4:55 pm

In my case good paws, when the ears are down and the tail is wagging that means I’m happy.

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:56 pm

Jake, are you doing the “Mo”vember thing?

Sniffer!

November 22nd, 2011
4:56 pm

In a secure location

:roll: ————– :roll:

Mellow peeks,his azz housed in a steel tank for extra security

whispers: is the Azz bandit still here?

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
4:58 pm

Awww….look at BF, Leggs. His tail is wagging…tell him to roll over so you can scratch his belly! ;)

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
4:59 pm

Whew, we went out like gang busters with Celisea/Jake leading the pack.

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
5:00 pm

Ummm, if he rolls over, “how it’s hanging” will take on a new meaning (lol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
5:01 pm

Jake:
Had it done back in July during a physical exam, man the docs need to get together and ban that practice. Last year my regular doc was out of the office and his female assistant had to do it. I was uncomfortable double time, getting plugged by a woman. I said to myself this aint right even though it’s for my own health.

Into the Light

November 22nd, 2011
5:02 pm

Well, you won’t have to ask, that’s for sure! :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 22nd, 2011
5:04 pm

Y’all aint right either…….LOL

Leggs

November 22nd, 2011
5:04 pm

You have a point there, ITL.