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Dating: The lies we tell

Have you ever been excited over a potential romance, started to feel hopeful, and later discovered they were less then truthful about who they are? The lies we tell only come back to haunt us, so why do we lie so much!?

What should you do if you catch the person you are dating in a lie? Not a huge, disturbing lie – but something small, insignificant? Is that a sign of a bigger problem with truth telling?

I know a lot of guys think lying is a part of relationships. They believe in order to keep the peace, it’s better to leave things out, conceal the truth. It’s a simpler way of dealing with the complicated part of dating and relationships.

How much truth can we handle in dating? Is lying a necessary evil that we all have to contend with just so we can hook up?

Happy Monday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

231 comments Add your comment

SexyCool

November 21st, 2011
4:03 pm

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:03 pm

Riiiiiiiight. You get felt up and you want to further to understand??? Afternoon follies I’m thinking.

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:04 pm

Okay let me repeat:

Fion,were her hands full?…

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:04 pm

@Leggs
if I told you the homes were $800lk you wouldn’t believe me.
@sassy
judging from how Ol’ Girl was all on me, I’d say absolutely.

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:05 pm

LOL@Celisea.

Fion: Um, yeah….I wasn’t attracted to her at all….I just wanted to know why she was grabbin’ my stuff. Which, by the way is _______________

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:05 pm

talk to understand

LMBO…..LOLOLOLOL

You still clubbing?

SlimNu

November 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

Fion – Sooooooooo, um….what was your response? You failed to tell how the story actually ended :lol:

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

Yeah I have some ocean front property in Arizona.

Sniffer!

November 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

@disco?

some females here do that…the kid fundraiser stuff..I don’t,I personally let the Queen handle it.

I am not good at solicitations like that.

Queen once did something like that for my daughter’s girl Scott thing and had boxes and boxes if cookies to hand over to folks at her job….

Can’t do it…

Besides being a pain the azz,I don’t like being solicited for money like that(white collar panhandling)

Why do these institutions do/promote stuff like that?

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:07 pm

judging from how Ol’ Girl was all on me, I’d say absolutely.

bob and weave, Fion, bob and weave….

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:07 pm

Got laid? Mr Big Stuff?

Sniffer!

November 21st, 2011
4:09 pm

Girl scout

Of cookies

@Fion?

Did u let her proceed?

(or that’s confidential?) :lol:

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:10 pm

judging from how Ol’ Girl was all on me, I’d say absolutely

Dude I don’t care about her…you know if you’re walking with a big stick(thanx Pres. Roosevelt) or not. ;-)

This weather is…..

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:10 pm

I’ve said here before, I have a dominate personality and enjoy sexually submissive women.
I enjoy tying women up, light B&D.
We also have talked here about throwing stuff out into the universe. Well in addition to tossing my salad she wanted to tie me up.

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

Keep dancing, Fion baby, keep dancin’….. :)

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

Listen, I have 1-rule. I can’t do you if you are bigger than me.

I’m 6′1 218lbs. She was bigger than me.

disco

November 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

sniffer – and I’ll be generous and say I understand the powers that be overlooking the school fundraisers since it’s all about the little kiddies but I really don’t understand why they allow employees to moonlight on the job. after all, mary kay, avon, thirty one, pampered chef and all these others are straight up side hustles.

fion – this chick surely wasn’t shy. you sure you weren’t at one of those private clubs?

Leggs

November 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

@Fion ~ if you told me, I would believe you. Like I said, classless is everywhere. The fact you were intrigued to go further is funny too.

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

A bigger stick than yours??????

Sniffer!

November 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

@Fion

that doesn’t mean she wasn’t open to compromise

or are u just trying to throw us off….

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

Sassy, pour us a drink, girl….we’re gonna be here awhile. Do you have any Firefly over there, or do I need to make a likka run?

SexyCool

November 21st, 2011
4:14 pm

This was great comic relief. Needed that. The afternoon was dragging.

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:15 pm

@ITL
I’m packing enough to make you lose for voice and have you saying daddy by sunrise.

Leggs

November 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

@disco ~ you’re right, straight up side hustles. What amazes me is the no solicitation rules at work for the employees, but when someone like my boss has his church’s fundraiser, the executives all come out of their offices and buy something. Double standard at it’s best….

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

Heeeeyyyyy, Fion…..How YOU doin’?? ;)

LOL :lol: :lol:

Celisea

November 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

I was jusy thinking he should have done the kick off comment..lol we’da got to the topic eventually.

disco

November 21st, 2011
4:17 pm

I never understood the calling a man daddy thing. do guys really get a kick out of that? are chicks really saying it? I’m curious. now I can get with calling out “papi”. that just works but daddy.

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:17 pm

@Leggs / disco
Listen, as a Man you don’t get your equipment pulled everyday. You damn right I had to follow this up.

i'm swiss™

November 21st, 2011
4:17 pm

I thought proper etiquette when propositioning someone for a tossed salad was to at least offer them some toilet wine first…? At least that’s how it went down on Oz:lol:

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:18 pm

@ITL
tooooooo funny. U R crazy.

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:18 pm

Sassy, pour us a drink, girl….we’re gonna be here awhile

Coming right up ITL….Imma have a Cosmo myself.

I have a dominate personality and enjoy sexually submissive women

:shock:

So is it the same way EVERY time?…you NEVER like for the woman to take charge…get up on that horse and ride off into the sunset… PLEASE explain “sexually submissive”(my fingers almost couln’t type those words)…for real

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:19 pm

sidebar to Swiss: Everytime I see “Mayhem” commercials, I think, “Ryan O’ Reilley!”

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:20 pm

@Exiled
once she started talking ’bout tying me up, all I could see was me chained to a headboard until next month.

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:21 pm

I’m packing enough to make you lose for voice and have you saying daddy by sunrise.

I’m calling you daddy…daddy. Can you be my daddy…daddy. Come and make it rain down on meeeeee

Sniffer!

November 21st, 2011
4:22 pm

Big chics are very h r n y Fion…they don’t get enough of it I suppose

but doing one bigger than u carries risk..they all carry a risk coz oif their size

but some have real tight spots…unlike the popular ones…

@disco…yes we get called daddy etc but whatever u call us,as long as it’s an expression of ur feeling it..nothing wrong.

U are hard disco so u don’t understand

Do u enjoy s e x?

SexyCool

November 21st, 2011
4:23 pm

“…all I could see was me chained to a headboard until next month.”

Sounds like Misery. Before you know it, she would have broken your ankles with a sledgehammer.

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:23 pm

Ouch! I cringed when I read your post, SCool!

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:23 pm

@Sassy
of course she can. As a man this plays into the woman feelings of wanting to be protected and in some cases dominated.

Sniffer!

November 21st, 2011
4:24 pm

I can understand ur apprehension

unless she wanted to be tied herself Right?

@Fion? :lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2011
4:25 pm

Leggs – Your 4:16 —> ain’t dat the troof!! They will even throw in a bake sale that has nothing to do with company business but more so a personal favor of someone that is in the “IN” crowd. It’s not about who ya know but who ya blow hehehehehe

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:26 pm

@ Exiled
yeah, I peeped that. She was sportin’ a full set of at least 44D’s.

i'm swiss™

November 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

“unless she wanted to be tied herself Right?”

If they were both tied up, seems like it’d be a pretty slow night…

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

Fion let me reiterate: So is it the same way EVERY time?…you NEVER like for the woman to take charge…get up on that horse and ride off into the sunset…

I have a strong personality as well and no I don’t want to always be in control but there are times when I know I’ve got the reigns…

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

of course she can. As a man this plays into the woman feelings of wanting to be protected and in some cases dominated.

Whatchoo talkin’ bout, Willis?

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:28 pm

didn’t mean to bold all of it…

Into the Light

November 21st, 2011
4:29 pm

If they were both tied up, seems like it’d be a pretty slow night…

Swissie, that’s when they have oral sex….tied up on opposite sides of the bed and say, “F__ YOU!” , “No, F___ YOU!” to each other all night. :lol:

disco

November 21st, 2011
4:29 pm

I’ve had a guy say something crazy like “you miss daddy don’t you” or “come over here and sit next to daddy” and I bust out laughing every time. that whole daddy thing is lost on me.

SexyCool

November 21st, 2011
4:29 pm

“..wanting to be protected and in some cases dominated.”

Well, er, um…hmphf….alrighty then……

Let me get home……to Big Daddy.
(lmao)

Fion

November 21st, 2011
4:36 pm

@Sassy
That is my natural state. I don’t have a script. I go where the moment takes me. If she moves that way I can respond in like kind if that is what she needs at that moment.

Sassy Me...Black Koffy no Sugar no Cream ;-)

November 21st, 2011
4:39 pm

if that is what she needs at that moment.

At that moment…what if she likes it more than you care to acquiesce to… do you still oblige?