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May I have your attention, please?

Sometimes the dating scene can be like sliding doors. We are constantly passing one another, rarely slowing down long enough to connect. What does it take to get the attention of someone you like? How do you get the “right” kind of attention?

When you don’t have a lot of confidence, it isn’t always easy to get the attention of someone you are interested in. If you are shy, especially a shy woman, it’s particularly difficult to stand out from the crowd. What get a man’s attention?

Ladies, what turns your head and get’s you interested?

When was the last time someone got your attention and made you take notice? What did they say or do to make you perk up?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

248 comments Add your comment

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
12:44 pm

“but why deny the connection by turning away”

Good point, Lady. Since you said that, yes, I was staring at your booty & I’m not ashamed to say it. :lol:

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:44 pm

sir you know you have seen or been approached by lady monsters….lol

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:45 pm

smh @ that silly swiss and I absolutely believe every word you just typed LOL *screaming*

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 18th, 2011
12:49 pm

I would like to know that as well could be they already have enough dating issues and don’t wont to get more of the same.

Into the Light

November 18th, 2011
12:49 pm

(waving) Hey Swiss!!!

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:51 pm

could be…….i respect that

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
12:52 pm

Mmm mmm… see that, I like the way your cheeks tighten up when you laugh out loud, Lady:lol:

ITL — GO DAWGS! It’s my birthday this weekend & all I want is an SEC East Championship for my DAWGS!!!! :-D

Leggs

November 18th, 2011
12:52 pm

but why deny the connection by turning away”

There isn’t a connection just yet. It’s one sided…..he saw something he thought he might like. She didn’t get a chance cuz he turned his head (lol)…

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:54 pm

dead leggs lol funny

SlimNu

November 18th, 2011
12:55 pm

I like to catch men trying to be what they consider discreet as they attempt to scope out a females, hind quarters. It’s crazy funny. That head may start out in the opposite direction but them eyes might as well be IN her booty. Even Ray Charles could see yall looking hard at the booboobootay! :lol:

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:58 pm

Happy Birthday Week Swiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! & Only for you GOOOOO DAWGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <—–A 1st for me! lol

Leggs

November 18th, 2011
12:59 pm

Happy Birthday, swiss! Enjoy as I know you will.

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
12:59 pm

*Weekend* that is I know you and Mrs Swiss will hold it down!!!!!!! just let my sc state bulldog breathe a bit lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 18th, 2011
12:59 pm

Y’all are crazy funny.

SexyCool

November 18th, 2011
1:02 pm

Pleasant look, nice smile, nice hands, friendly, down-to-earth demeanor, sense of humor.

Into the Light

November 18th, 2011
1:03 pm

Happy Birthday, Swiss! I’ll raise a glass at the tailgate in honor of your special day!!

GO DAWGS! Whoop the Wildcats!

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:04 pm

I often get this after the behind survey……”Oh you have beautiful eyes too” Completely dead in my book after I catch you looking back there fixated that is…lol its hilarity

SexyCool

November 18th, 2011
1:08 pm

And that it is the mature perspective talking.

But really, a good looking man with a nice smile, cleanly dressed (not necessarily “well”), smelling good with some height on him….and oh-lawd-geezus, my pulse will do a little something. But that moment passes nearly immediately. As there is no reason to look further than what I’ve already got at home for anything other than something to briefly catch my attention and know “that there is a Gawd who can deliver Gilligan from the Island.” (gratuitous Coming to America reference.)

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
1:09 pm

Thanks, Lady & ITL.

Lady — I think I’m going to start a home-p0rn series featuring that SC State t-shirt. The things that t-shirt has seen, let me tell ya… :D :lol:

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
1:12 pm

Oh, and thanks to you, too, Leggs… didn’t see you earlier ;-)

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:13 pm

*covers face* glad y’all are getting it in!!!! lol my bulldog t-shirts have fun in there drawers….lol its been a quiet college football season for me other than celebrating my 10 reunion…….

Kym

November 18th, 2011
1:16 pm

Whew..ok..I will not get the itis..I will not get the itis..

Well I am more inclined to have menfolks not address my face but rather look at my boobs..this is not flattering this is annoying.

Kym

November 18th, 2011
1:17 pm

Happy Birthday Swiss Cheese!!!

For Real

November 18th, 2011
1:19 pm

Huh, what did you say Kym? The sun was in my eye.

For Real is now overcome with the urge to scream mamma and make the sucking sound.

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
1:21 pm

Thank you very much boobs — er, I mean Kym! ;-) :lol:

Leggs

November 18th, 2011
1:21 pm

@SlimNu ~ I love catching men transfixed on a woman. It’s a good laugh that we both will have (if he has any sense of humor).

Kym

November 18th, 2011
1:22 pm

@For Real….LOL..just smh!!

Into the Light

November 18th, 2011
1:23 pm

I agree, Leggs. It’s funny to see them get that sheepish “uh oh, you saw that, huh?” look on their faces.

i'm swiss™

November 18th, 2011
1:23 pm

I mean, honestly, ladies, if you don’t want us ogling you, then stop having such succulent bootays and ta-ta’s… Just sayin’…. :lol:

Into the Light

November 18th, 2011
1:24 pm

For Real – can’t your friend from the mall help you with that? :lol: Sorry, couldn’t resist.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 18th, 2011
1:26 pm

The hardest booties to NOT stare at have a bad habit of being the one’s most dangerous to stare at.

The former HR director here at this company had a face and a body to die for (5′ 11″ and all legs)…but staring at the person who can have your azzz on the street is NOT GOOD. The day I was being hired I think I was trying to repeat the words to the poem “The Jabborwacky” in my mind to try not to stare.

Into the Light

November 18th, 2011
1:29 pm

Beware the Jabberwock, my son!
The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!
Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun
The frumious Bandersnatch!”

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:30 pm

I have to agree Randy lol you have a point……..

hmmmm never trust a big butt and smile is classic so they say……smh lol

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 18th, 2011
1:32 pm

LOL at ITL Right!!! I had to memorize it as a freshman in high school, and always used it to calm down those inevitable and embarrassing “woody”s a freshman would get when having to recite in front of the class because he was daydreaming about that cutey beside him and his name got called.

Kym

November 18th, 2011
1:33 pm

Funny story of ogling..and my own cluelessness..

Went to Mickie D’s with my Daddy and the boy(son)..I am focused on talking to the young lady behind the counter and placing the order. As I go to get my drink and pass the boy his cup. He looks at me and says “oh you think you cute for a old lady”(yes my son calls me old lady anyone over 25 is old). I look up and my daddy says “Son, your mom is still a woman..and then tells me some dudes at the end were looking at me.” My son in his loudest voice “No she is not..she is my mama.”
Apparently I am not allowed to be cute since I am his mama.

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:36 pm

Kids say some things that blow us away….lol

Willie Dynamite

November 18th, 2011
1:37 pm

Afternoon All,

A pretty white teeth easygoing natural smile Gets me every time. A knowleadgeable witty conversation keeps me.

Willie Dynamite

November 18th, 2011
1:38 pm

Its official Kym is a MILF.

Leggs

November 18th, 2011
1:39 pm

@Lady ~ do you remember that commercial about “mom jeans?” My child says she’s so glad I don’t wear “mom” jeans and that I’m still somewhat cool…..ummmm, ok!

For Real

November 18th, 2011
1:39 pm

Happy Bday Swiss! Let me be the first to say as I raise my glass:

“Enough is enough, I have had it with dees mudda fuggin snakes on dis mudda fuggin plane!”

Who Dat there say who Dat?

November 18th, 2011
1:41 pm

Leggs – On our sale days, there is this guy that sits across the walkway from me and he is notorious for gawking at women when they pass by. So one day, I made up a few smiley face signs. One had a big smile with the tongue hanging out salivating to represent – Damn Gurl you FIONE! The next was a simple smiley face to represent – She Aight! The third one had a sad face and of course the last one was of a face about to puke. So when I’d catch him checking a chick out, I’d hold up one of the signs across the way and he’d give me a thumbs up if I guessed right and a thumbs down if I was wrong. I had him cracking up.

Willie Dynamite

November 18th, 2011
1:42 pm

Swis – Happy Birthday, Here’s to you having your cake and eating it too. (Softball setup toss)

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:43 pm

lol I do leggs……..I can’t even type what my child asked me last night….lol too funny she is witty…..

For Real

November 18th, 2011
1:43 pm

ITL: That’s not funny. I went home and showered.

For Real

November 18th, 2011
1:46 pm

MILF I mean Kym MILF boys are like that with their MILF’s. He will never grow out of it because you will always be a MILF.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 18th, 2011
1:48 pm

@ Who is Dat…I’ve seen guys at the beach (three or four at a time) hold up rating numbers each time a gal would walk by…a scream, but some gals got really p!zzzed. ;-)

Lady~

November 18th, 2011
1:49 pm

That is Funny Who Dat!!!! people watching is hilarious!

Who Dat there say who Dat?

November 18th, 2011
1:50 pm

Randy – Well, it isn’t the most ethical thing to do? lol

Kym

November 18th, 2011
1:52 pm

I am really not sure how I feel about the MILF title..I swear I always think about those flicks with the old lady seducing the young boys..ughhh!!!

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 18th, 2011
1:54 pm

Now Kym, those “old ladies” might be providing an invaluable and lasting education for those young boys!!