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Do women audition to be a wife?

A lot of my male friends want to “see” that a woman can come home, cook, and be all domesticated. To them, this is the sign of a mature woman ready to be a wife (I’m not kidding, I have heard this repeatedly.)

I always ask my guy friends to cut their dates some slack when it comes to this. Just because a single woman is out on the town, traveling around, and enjoying her carefree life, doesn’t mean she can’t make room for him.

I hear a lot of men say that girlfriends audition to become wives. Is that really necessary, though? I’d argue that it is not important to show and prove domestic abilities, but perhaps I’m missing something.

If women audition to be a wife, are men put through the same scrutiny to be a husband?

Do men expect wifely duties from girlfriends and significant others?

Do women look to their boyfriends to do husband things?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

220 comments Add your comment

disco

November 8th, 2011
3:14 pm

randy – you got jokes but I agree that such a skill is in great demand. heck, it might even be a community service. some women can’t get down right difficult during a drought.

Celisea

November 8th, 2011
3:14 pm

Really I want to know what Woman has had a Man grab the back of their head and physically push it down to the crotch area and not fight back?

Ding ding ding….all this dang “victim” mess is sickening. That chick let it go on. She went along with it.

Leggs – Yep, seems like the place for kiddies…lol Last time I was there meeting a friend I was like ut uh, not again. He was cool but it just seemed like nothing but the (early) twenty something crowd.

kimmie

November 8th, 2011
3:15 pm

I could not care less about HC & his women.

I haven’t been to Atlantic Station in a long time, but I loved Rosa Mexicano. They have some killer guacamole they make at the table and the first time I’ve ever had a frozen rita that basically got me drunk. I mean only one and the glass was kind of small. Twelve has some great pom martinis too. Got a nice piece of art at one of the Saturday artist markets.

Not a bad spot to me.

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:18 pm

So…BF – is the only reason your friend didn’t go was because he HAD to go home because he’s married? Or…he had no interest in going because he’s married?

Your telling of the story makes it seem as if it is more of the former over the latter.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:18 pm

LOL…..@RandyT and disco

That’s good RandyT G spot finder that’ll work for me……

disco what was more interesting is he told her he was married, she shrugged that off like so what else is new…….LOL

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:19 pm

@ disco…yup, it’s a tough and sometimes thankless job, but someone has to step up ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:23 pm

SexyC:

Right it was more he had to go home, why we all laughed so hard at him cause he wanted to do it. Not on my watch I know his wife so pulled him to the side and said you’re more drunk than serious dude sit down.

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:23 pm

Not her, Ex, her attorney is Republican.

@Randyt ~ I hope you realize I was talking about me typing “missin”….my “g” was missing…you guys are a riot!

kimmie

November 8th, 2011
3:25 pm

I saw the guy that hosts Chopped down at Atlantic Station once.

disco

November 8th, 2011
3:26 pm

well to heck with veteran’s day (no offense vets). let’s have a hats off to all the fellows that do the thankless job of making toes curl and eyes roll back. as randy said – it’s a tough job but somebody’s gotta do it. what shall we call the new holiday?

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:26 pm

Randyt!

that was so nice of u to Leggs..3:13! :lol:

Yea..u Sexxy are hiding under a race blinker…(I googled ur MIA record)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:28 pm

Hey I couldn’t do anything about them exchanging phone numbers, I won’t step in between that. That’s on him from that point.

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:28 pm

Her attorney is Dems Leggs

She the heifer is Repubs

I listened to them live on Piers last nite

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:30 pm

BF – You’re a good friend.

As to the Atl Stn of it all, I like it. We were just down there at the movies last night. I can’t really say that I go down there to hang out. We go to see movies and eat. And BGR runs from there at least every other week or so, and lately, every Tuesday. I will be down there tonight.

I also shop at the Publix and the Target because they are less than 10 minutes from my house. In fact, since I’m usually focused on where I’m going and what I’m doing, I give little thought to other folks outside of cursory glances and being aware of my surroundings type concerns.

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:31 pm

Oh, my bad, Ex. I thought I heard Allgood say she was a Repub. Thanks for the clarification.

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:36 pm

Then on to your other point, it should be easy to find out when she became a Repub. She wants him to do the right thing NOW…what happened with him doing the right thing 2 years ago, 4 years ago???

@Randyt ~ You’re absolutely correct. There are more ways to pay someone than with greenbacks. Don’t know why they get on tv saying “we did not pay for this interview.” Yep, I paid for my own plane ticket, my own room an board simply because I had to get this off my chest! Alrighty then….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:37 pm

disco theres V-day and theres G-day. Don’t mind getting my hands dirty, its a job well done when the body contorts and make unusual sounds/moans.

kimmie

November 8th, 2011
3:37 pm

SCool – My dad really loved music. After he had his stroke he could not get around as much as usual, but we would get him out of the house as much as we could. Atlantic Station used to have live jazz in the little park area in the summer and one of my brothers would take him down there. He would just close his eyes and listen to the music.

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:38 pm

“Yea..u Sexxy are hiding under a race blinker…(I googled ur MIA record)”

Meelow – was that for me? If so, I don’t understand what it is that you are saying. I’m going to need you to be clearer in what you mean.

If not, disregard.

disco

November 8th, 2011
3:39 pm

g-day? I guess it’ll do. I was looking for something more creative but it’s probably just because I’m really bored and seeking stimulation. okay – sorry for the bad pun.

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:41 pm

Ofcourse Gloria is got to get her cut after the book is sold

everybody is driven by self interest

For Gloria also…her love for the big O in the white house

She is a Pelosi closet in Cali

Heifer :arrow: Money

Gloria :arrow: Dems,a lil money ,Profile

Cain :down:

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:43 pm

Oh…just realized something about Atl Stn – I usually only go during the week or during the daytime. I’m rarely ever there on the weekends, during hangout/cruise time.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:44 pm

@Leggs, what can I say, I’m just a sensitive guy and I was concerned when you forgot your g. My eyes mist up at the thought of so many women who can’t find or have forgotten their “g”s, ( I also tear up at wrestling and roller derby too).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:46 pm

Thank you SexyC.

Although I have friends that will go that route sometimes I try to bump them over in the right lane not that I’m trying to be Saint Peter’s nephew. I have a large closet as well, if I’m not succesful I get the hell out of the way……LOL

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:46 pm

Oh…and speaking of the movies…We saw Tower Heist. I considered it an “okay” movie.

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:47 pm

@ Leggs, I meant “missing your g”. A lot of people miss the g. I’ve heard from a number of women over the years whose SO has never found their “g”…and they wondered if it was missing. LOL

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:50 pm

But BF – your friend – exchanging the numbers – not a good look. But you know that. (lol)

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:51 pm

Disco..

what’s the fun there on the sticks

come this way A if u want (fanga) stimulation :lol:

(where the playas play)

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:52 pm

in the sticks

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:52 pm

:lol: :lol: @Randyt! Mine isn’t missing. It’s hibernating waiting for right person to defrost it (ROFLMAO)…

Willie Dynamite

November 8th, 2011
3:52 pm

As one of the resident Married dudes I’d like to come to the defense of Blacks buddy but I can’t. Just sloppy.

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:53 pm

@WillieD ~ BF made a great “wingman” that night! Kudos, BF!!!

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:53 pm

Randyt?

what type torch/lamb do u use to look up there for the g?

kimmie

November 8th, 2011
3:53 pm

SCool – I’ve never liked going shopping the day after Thanksgiving. A good friend was in town a few years back and wanted to go shopping and see the Christmas lights at Atl Station. That’s when I discovered a little secret – the crowds and parking issues the malls have on that day were not a problem at Atl Station. There was plenty of parking and the crowds were not overbearing. We also found some excellent sales and a great festive atmosphere.

Celisea

November 8th, 2011
3:53 pm

Since I’m near Atlantic Station if I need to do a Target run (say leaving early) or something for work…that’s the best most convenient spot. I think the difference is weekday early day versus weekend night time. I was being entertained on the weekend around 10ish…NOTHING BUT YOUNGINS…LOL

SexyCool

November 8th, 2011
3:53 pm

Dynamite – I’m a fan for life! (lol)

Exiled!

November 8th, 2011
3:55 pm

BF

u wrong for even saying that on here

Revoke man card!

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:55 pm

But you said you were missing your g? specifically that your ‘G” was “missin” (or was it “missin” was “missin” the “g”?) Nahhhh, I like mine better.

Celisea

November 8th, 2011
3:55 pm

Let me go back and read what Blackfoote did that’s so commendable :)

disco

November 8th, 2011
3:55 pm

exiled – at one point in time I was in Atlanta almost every weekend and then I guess I got tired of it or something. I haven’t been down that way in more than a year now.

leggs – not that yours is hibernating and awaiting a defrost. whatever g-finder the team sends out is going to have to work extra hard. wonder if he’ll get time and a half.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

November 8th, 2011
3:55 pm

Tally Ho Folks have a great evening.

Leggs if you can’t find that G spot, I got ya.

Willie Dynamite

November 8th, 2011
3:56 pm

Leggs – almost but Married dudes don’t need a Wingman. Plus if the sponsor chick had a friend then Black mightv’e been in business.

Celisea

November 8th, 2011
3:56 pm

I do really like the Target though at Atlanta Station

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:57 pm

@ disco…90 days same as cash ;-)

Randyt (aka...Been There, Done That, Have a Closet Full of T-Shirts)

November 8th, 2011
3:58 pm

G finer has been known to do some “pro bono” work in cases of dire need.

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
3:59 pm

OMG, I am cracking up. Yes, darling, the word “missin” was missing the “g.”

My eyes mist up at the thought of so many women who can’t find or have forgotten their “g”s,

@BF ~ hush! If that’s how you “got me,” stay under those stairs my dear man (lolol)…

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
4:00 pm

Oops, I see BF dishes something then skips…(LOL).

Leggs

November 8th, 2011
4:01 pm

@WillieD ~ not saying he started out as a wingman. He turned into before his friend made an a$$ of himself and emotional anquish on himself and his wife…that’s one of the duties of a wingman. Doesn’t only entail looking for tail. Keeping tail off our tail is in fine print….

disco

November 8th, 2011
4:02 pm

that makes two of us cracking up. keep the jokes coming. and not financing with easy credit terms. that’s too much. I’d hate to mess up my credit trying to find g’s. maybe a layaway plan?

Willie Dynamite

November 8th, 2011
4:02 pm

SC – shhhh, You gotta read the fine print. i’m still a work in progress.