I read somewhere that some men actually enjoy “the chase” part of dating. When they find someone that intrigues them, they have the stamina to go the distance and do a little work to make things happen. I don’t know if that is true of most men in Atlanta. A lot of single women here will tell you that the guys they meet want it to be easy. Should the chase be easy?
Perhaps all it takes is the right people, under the right circumstances to make the chase enjoyable for both. It seems as if there would have to be a good balance of showing enough interest and being available, as opposed to playing hard to get all the time.
The trick is figuring out if you are both on the same page. I have to be honest, here. I don’t think a lot women really know when they meet a guy if he is the type that likes to put in a little work.
What do you think? If men are into the chase, how far are they willing to go? What is a reasonable amount of work and what is not?
Do men really want women who are “easy” to get or can they appreciate the woman who has made it clear she is not the easy to get type?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog