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Unhealthy relationships..literally

It’s so funny how you start dating someone and take on some of their habits, quirks, and lifestyle. You begin to share the same behaviors, some good, some not so good. Sometimes you even become influenced by them. It’s like sexy peer pressure.

What happens when you start dating someone and pick up their bad habits? For instance, my friend Brad hated cigarettes. He meets Gina and suddenly he is not only fine with cigarettes, she has him smoking cigars! The things we do when we are blinded by love, right?

Have you ever noticed a bad habit you picked up after dating someone? Why does it seem as if we become so impressionable when the person we are seeing starts to influence our lives?

How do you know if your relationship is unhealthy and how do you handle it if it is?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

273 comments Add your comment

SexyCool

October 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

LV – always so condescending and negative when you come to MIA. Does that carry over into the rest of your life?

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
2:57 pm

Of course he’s condescending…look at his moniker.

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
3:01 pm

Like he’s riding high on some camel….

abc

October 21st, 2011
3:04 pm

The topic thing actually happened to me — sweetie actually wanted me to gain some weight, what, never eat pizza, no burgers, no ice cream?! 18 months and 50 lbs later, I gained an ailment with my foot and was freakin fat. I’m 40 lbs down from that now, I’ll drop another 5 — and, maybe just 1 slice of pizza, no burger joints period, and no ice cream. The more of that junk you eat, the more of it you crave.

Kym

October 21st, 2011
3:04 pm

LOL..I peeked back in and bust out laughing..riding high on a camel!

Kirk

October 21st, 2011
3:10 pm

Before I saw this (because the page hadn’t turned over)—>always so condescending and negative when you come to MIA. Does that carry over into the rest of your life?

I thought or wondered I should say why oh why would you log in just to do Schleprock? I mean yes some days we I can be snippy but sometimes, just sometimes you’re able to say something bright, or funny or profound. And to think the likes of his kind think they’re adding something in the mix.

SexyCool

October 21st, 2011
3:10 pm

Yeah…well, if he is one of those “same way all the time” folks, he is exactly the type of individual I choose to avoid at all costs.

SexyCool

October 21st, 2011
3:11 pm

Krik – >>here<<

SexyCool

October 21st, 2011
3:23 pm

Well, my good people, you all have a GREAT weekend.
It’s past time for mine to get started.

Miracles and Blessings…

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
3:49 pm

DreamsMaterialize

October 21st, 2011
3:56 pm

Hey everyone. How’s it going? What’s the haps for the weekend?

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
3:59 pm

Dreams nobody is speaking

DreamsMaterialize

October 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

yeah I guess it is Friday. Maybe I’m the only one still trapped at work. lol

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

I’ve been in meetings so naturally I couldn’t speak :) I’m speaking now.

Helloooooo ellooooooo elloooooo ooooo oooooo

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:03 pm

Dreams you did NOT say haps did you? LOL I’m READY for the weekend

i'm swiss™

October 21st, 2011
4:04 pm

Those high camel toes are not to be trifled with…

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:04 pm

Hellooooooooooo

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

Anybody out there ere ere ere ere?

I feel like being silly this last hour.

Purp – Did you catch anything hunting?

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:13 pm

Celisea no I didn’t see anything I just went out on some trails in the Hummer and did some climbing

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:23 pm

I thought every one left town.

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:24 pm

Dernit that must be the life :) Blogging all day, hunting, taking the trails in the hummer and climbing…

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:24 pm

And I’m not being funny

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:24 pm

I have tons of time now it’s winter up here!

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:25 pm

Say you caught something…say a deer. Vittles?

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:26 pm

I dont think to many people would enjoy doing my work though. 3am to about 8 am hard manual labor. LOL

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:26 pm

So it’s winter? You do absolutely nothing until the season change? Dernit that is the life

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:26 pm

I wasn’t looking for deer, I was looking for wolves.

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

I do odds and ends and feed etc but not that much busy work.

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

Yeah but you’re built for it, it’s only 5 hours and you have the other 19 hours to kick back, rest, catch up….whatever….AAAAAAND the day is over at 8 a.m.

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:27 pm

A wolf. What you plan on doing if you saw one, kill him and then mount on your wall??? Wolf meat doesn’t sound too good, but what do I know.

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:28 pm

Gotcha…

It’s your family’s farm right?

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:28 pm

Why wolves? You grew up in Minnesota?

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:29 pm

Are the wolves bothering your crops?

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:30 pm

Minnesota is a mighty long way from Atlanta. How did you get here?

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:30 pm

Purp – You still here?

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:30 pm

Leggs sell the pelts. Good money in that.

Celisea, it’s a family farm But I own our part that we work. Far form a mom and pop shop.

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:31 pm

@Celisea ~ he got here on horse…

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:31 pm

Oh snap, forgot about the pelts. Ok.

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

Wolves don’t bother crop but they will come after livestock or pets

Celisea, work brought me to Atlanta from out west

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

Okay….cool! Yeah, I don’t know if I could swing my legs over the side of the bed at 3 am. I guess though being a way of life, one could easily adjust.

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:33 pm

Purp – work brought me to Atlanta from out west

Really?? You never told me that. So how you get out west…from Minnesota? Not trying to be nosey or anything. Work?

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:33 pm

I go to bed by 8pm during the week

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:34 pm

Work took me out west

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:34 pm

I still think it’s a cool thing to do. Farming, getting up early, chilling all day. Can you hear retirement in my voice? I know wishful thinking.

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:35 pm

Purp – Work took me out west

You said that already. I was asking more. I’m cool with you say nevermind if it’s something you can’t disclose :)

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:36 pm

Smartazz…lol

Purple Reign

October 21st, 2011
4:37 pm

Geometric dimensioning and tolerancing is my learned field Celisea.

Leggs

October 21st, 2011
4:39 pm

Heck, I thought wolves bothered anything and everything.

i'm swiss™

October 21st, 2011
4:40 pm

Oh hey, I almost forgot. Today is the rapture. Again.

So….. since those of us still here are going to hell anyway, you blog ladies might as well give me an earmuffectomy… :lol:

Celisea

October 21st, 2011
4:41 pm