Dating the bad girls
Like a moth to a flame, some men are into women with a little edge. I am starting to wonder why I see so many men find themselves dealing with the fallout of the “bad girls” – the ladies that present a little danger.
I don’t think you have to have danger to make things interesting in dating, but I wonder if every woman should have a little bad in her? Does it really keep things interesting to be involved with someone that has a little edge to them?
I have one friend that is always attracted to the one woman that could turn his life upside down. The more unstable they appear, the more intrigued he seems to be.
When it comes to dating the bad girls/guys, what is your comfort level? How much “bad” are you intrigued by and how much is a turn off?
Have you ever dated that type? Did you discover something about yourself?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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262 comments Add your comment
Celisea
October 20th, 2011
4:37 pm
Leggs – Oh there are some women crooks out there. There’s a little lady that’s no more than 90 pounds that I see everywhere. I’m sure it’s by the grace of God that she’s alive and nothing has happened to her. She’s at the gas station sleeping outside some days and then 3 or 4 miles up the way she’s a street over from my house. Some days she’s up in Smyrna which is about 3 or 4 miles the other way. What I don’t like (so I don’t give to her) is a couple of times a dude will put her up to scavaging someone’s property or swindling. If you need money go for yourself. Don’t be tryna get enough for you and him…at the expense of someone else.
Meelloo – Umm, yeah okay
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
October 20th, 2011
4:42 pm
Leggs, u know thats where I am daily…the hunchback is legit, nobody can fake that, but I have seen the chick on crutches and everything else, she be out here gettin it, I don’t give either one a dime either.
Mo, what park…Champions are raised at Gresham Park!!!
Leggs
October 20th, 2011
4:47 pm
It’s hard out there for everyone. There’s this dude I used to know from the early 90’s. He’s now standing in front of a liquor store offering to wash hubcaps for people. I always remembered him, but it took him a minute or two to remember me. Now, he thinks when he sees me coming up in my suits and dresses and high heels I’m supposed to give him a piece of my daily takehome pay. Just last week he said “miss lady, I really need you help today. I’m hungry!” For some reason this did tick me off. I had to tell him, please don’t expect every time I pull up here I’m supposed to give you something. He said “no, I don’t expect that, but remember I haven’t seen you in awhile to bother you.
Leggs
October 20th, 2011
4:48 pm
@Jake ~ I know the hunchedback man is legit. I also believe he has more money than I do. The girl on the crutches is just bummy and nasty looking.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
October 20th, 2011
4:56 pm
Jake – Exchange Park. LOL @ Gresham Park! One of my friends was like “bring Lil Mo over here, he needs to be at Gresham”.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
October 20th, 2011
4:56 pm
Leggs-What about the other chick, short, teenie weenie afro, she get straight pissed when you tell her no, haven’t seen her in a minute though…they gettin bold, I was at DQ drive-thru and one walked up on the side of my Truck where they pass the food-I told him, “If you don’t get the F@%k Away from my Truck you Better”…these crackheads get on my nerves
Leggs
October 20th, 2011
4:56 pm
Good night!
Come daylight, I want to still be looking into your ebony eyes. Not leaving in the middle of night like a booty call!!!!!
PEACE~
Leggs
October 20th, 2011
4:58 pm
If you talking about the crackhead with the twisted mouth, he is straight up mean. I had to lock my doors and roll up my winder after telling him no. He stands so close to the car.
Leggs
October 20th, 2011
4:59 pm
window…window.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
October 20th, 2011
4:59 pm
He does, GP 4Life, Gresham Park is the premier park in the metro and has been forever, I still got my 1986 Allstar jersey at the crib…lol.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
October 20th, 2011
5:01 pm
Gone
Carole Lieberman, M.D.
October 21st, 2011
2:43 am
Ahhh… You will find the answers to your questions in my latest award-winning book — Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets! Check out http://www.badgirlsbook.com