As tricky as dating can be, you would think the easy part would be knowing whether or not you are in fact..dating. This is actually not always easy to figure out!
While some people devote significant time and effort to seeing one person, if that person doesn’t consider that dating, problems could arise. This can become especially frustration if you are seeing a person a couple of nights a week or talking to them all the time, and they think you are just “hanging out” or my personal favorite “kicking it”.
So here’s the thing, being friends is great and all but if we are spending time with one another with intentions of exploring a relationship, we are dating.
If you aren’t really interested or are not sure if you’re interested, it’s good to let the person know that. Especially during that period of time before things are serious. There is nothing more frustrating then devoting time to someone, only to find out you two are just hanging out.
What do you when you aren’t clear