Dating: What’s your story?
Do you ever get tired of mixing and mingling? You still want to be someone really great but the thought of answering the same questions over and over again makes you twitchy. I just want to walk up to Mr. Wonderful and hand him my “book” so he can get a condensed version of who I am, what my flaws are, and what I bring to the table.
I know, this is the ultra lazy approach to dating. It’s supposed to be fun and exciting. You are supposed to be filled with anticipation and blah blah blah. Some days you just don’t feel it. That is a classic sign that you are stuck in a dating rut!
If you feel bored with dating, chances are you are boring your dates to tears too. It’s not always their issue, though. Sometimes, it’s you. If you don’t consider yourself a fun and interesting person to get to know, your date will agree wholeheartedly.
If you feel yourself slipping into the Most Uninteresting Man/Woman in the World, take a break from dating and focus on other things. Trust me, it’s good to get a refresher course on how awesome you are. Then you can attract people who find you and your story interesting.
Have you ever been with someone who had a fascinating story? Did they intrigue you with their life adventures or fascinating personality? Has anyone ever told you that you had a really interesting life?
When you meet someone you click with, what do you usually tell them about who you are?
P.S. Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Matt
September 27th, 2011
8:00 am
Me personally I try to avoid talking about any woman I have dated/married when trying to pick up a girl. Tips: I got none, lower your standards and stay at the bar until closing, wish I could say that advice was mine, but it was the advice I saw on CNN.
Bill Clinton
September 27th, 2011
8:19 am
Make all dates only the first date.
Mike P
September 27th, 2011
8:43 am
Good Morning All,
WD asked- “P.S. Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?”
My answer: stop being so picky… the more you are accepting of others, the more you become acceptable.
Matt
September 27th, 2011
8:43 am
Gotta find a woman worth dating first. Not willing to lower my standards and be unhappy later in life.
LeeH1
September 27th, 2011
8:44 am
Those who cannot entertain themselves cannot entertain others. Learn how to be an independent and sucessful person on your own right, and you will be interesting to other interesting people. People who are not interesting in themselves, cannot be interesting to others.
Matt
September 27th, 2011
8:54 am
Ok Matt, you gotta use a different name, I am Matt here
Button
September 27th, 2011
9:09 am
Wise only tip I can offer is to take up a hobby or do some volunteer work. That’s what I do when I’m bummed out of dating. It’s just not fun anymore, the excitment, challenge, enthusiasm they’re all gone. I’m so tired of meeting the same ol run of the mill guys. I’m not saying it’s them, maybe it’s me, but what/whoever it is, it’s not what I’m ascribing to right now. I think I’m just going to buy a cat and call it a day…
MsMarriedUp
September 27th, 2011
9:13 am
Good Morning Fabulous Fun People!
My advice: Based on experience, I would go out and find me someone who is primarily interested in an exclusive relationship, and scoffs at being friends first. (I mean really! This one used to really irk me. He gets all tight-eyed when asked to be my friend because he wants to be ensured ‘this thing’ is exclusive!!!) Well, I’d exclusively date this person until that promised day comes when we are exclusively sick of one another, but trying to hang in there we go find those friends he/she didn’t want to be in the first place, and talk out our misery with them, that friend. And oh, make sure it’s an opposite sex friend, or whichever sex your mating preference flows.
Trust MsMarriedUp on this. It has happened many, many, many times… that friend who you confide in, the one who’s been there with you through thick and thin, seen you at your absolute downgraded worst, will lift you right out of that dating rut and into an exclusive relationship.
Make friends people. Friends first! And try to cut back on the hateorade. And yes too, friends can have sex, just make sure you’re emotionally able to handle a relationship like. Things can get oooh…bumpy!
Reio
September 27th, 2011
9:16 am
I never did much dating. Not that I did’nt want to, It’s just that for much of my younger years, I was content to pursue my education and make a future for myself. Also, whenever I did go on dates, I was always too forward and direct. My 3 older sisters told me, years ago, that I needed to “learn the meaning of tact”. And when, and how, to say what’s on my mind. I tended to end relationships rather quickly. If I was’nt into them, “Hit the road, Jill”. To my credit, I was always a one woman man, and the woman that I dated the longest, I married. I still have one problem though, as far as she is concernrd, I always tell the truth. She’s used to it now, but when we were dating, it was a big adjustment for her. I tell the truth, damn the consequences.
Button
September 27th, 2011
9:19 am
@ MsMarried, I never ever cross the line with friends. Why ruin a good friendship the bumpy?
Reio
September 27th, 2011
9:26 am
Never had any “opposite sex friends”. Sure, a few acquaintances, coworkers, but no friends. Back then, my belief was, you can’t be friends with a woman, unless we were humping. Sorry, just the way I was. Lots of guy friends, but no gal friends.
Ricardo Cabeza
September 27th, 2011
9:27 am
Somewhere between the first and fourth date find something you have in common and embrace it. It may be sports, kids, music, movies, or something similar EXCEPT work! Whenever you hang a relationship on common work it is doomed from the start so don’t go there. Don’t get so uptight about how soon to have sex. If you just lay back, gently guide and let the relationship develop, and don’t act like a mule deer in heat you’ll be doin’ the hibity-dibity before you know it!
Audra
September 27th, 2011
9:29 am
You just have to put yourself out there, as scary as it might be. Go out with people you wouldn’t normally consider (be accepting!), do the online dating thing, join a volunteer group, or take up a hobby. You’ll get to meet all kinds of interesting people, and become more well-rounded. And that is key to finding someone – you have to BE the person you want to find. Don’t be a nickel lookin’ for a dime.
(No, I didn’t make that up, it’s a song lyric!)…
Audra
September 27th, 2011
9:33 am
Oh, and as for lowering standards: Partially true. You gotta consider which standards are safe to lower. For instance, don’t ever lower the standards “I won’t date a gold digger,” or “I don’t date married men.” These are just wise choices that can save you a lot of heartache down the road. On the other hand, if your standard is “he has to drive a BMW,” then you might want to re-evaluate your priorities!
Matt
September 27th, 2011
9:37 am
As for the lowering your standard, that is for getting yourself out of the rut. Getting out of a rut is not as easy as it sounds for most people.
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
9:43 am
Some interesting suggestions here, however, one important issue that I have not seen touched on yet; Honesty!
It was 18 months before I started dating again after my ex and I split, and rather than do the whole bar/dance club/single thing again, I decided to try online dating. However, one thing that my ex had said did stay with me…”You can be anyone you want…online!”
My first couple of dates were okay, but then came the ‘frauds’. Those are the individuals who write very flowery and interesting things about themselves, and make themselves out to be truly great catches in one or more aspects…until you actually meet.
One women spend the entire evening complaining about living with her mother who wouldn’t give her her freedom, even though she was 49 with one child. Online, she had said she ‘owned her own home, and was very independent’.
With another woman, who was very sweet, we met for dinner at a local Mexican restaurant. Her profile had said that she had ‘a few extra pounds’. Great…no big deal, as many women gain a pound or two as they get older, and especially after having children. However, when she arrived at the restaurant and got out of her van, she was approximately 350 to 400 pounds! I might not have cared, had she been honest with me in the first place, but this was a deception which, obviously, couldn’t be hidden.
And yet another, who said she owned her own business, and live in Northeast Georgia. Tall, attractive, slender and graceful, a great personality, and very sexy. We had a few dates, and everything seemed to be going wonderfully…until she started disappearing for several days at a time. I would email her, but no response. Then two to three days later, she would call and apologize, saying she had been working on a new account. Well, okay…she does have her own business, after all. Then one day, I was at my local Dollar General picking up a few things. I turned around, and there she is…about 70 miles from where she said she lived! Why would she come down here to shop? There had to be a DG in her area. I said ‘Hi’, and when she say me, she began to look around like a deer looking to secape from an armed hunter! I walked up to her, and asked how she was. She still had the panicked look on her face as she said “Okay. How are you?”. She was still looking all about her, and seemed as though she wanted to get out of there as quick as she could. That’s when the man walked over to us. “Is everything okay, sweetheart?” He asked her.
“Michael, this is my HUSBAND, Jeff.” She said. I was shocked, but managed to shake the mans hand, and explained that I knew his wife as a potential client. What else could I do? And here’s the kicker…two days later she called and asked if she could see me again, apologizing for deceiving me!
When I met the woman who is now my wife, she described herself as short, with a few extra pounds, blonde and attractive, and into nature and metaphysics…she was as is all of that and more!
Metaphysics? Well, actually, she is a witch! My opinion today is, if you truly want to put some magic into your life, marry a Witch! She is kind and generous to a fault, loves me unconditionally and completely, would rather spend time with me that be given a billion dollars tax free, and would rather spend a a couple of hours making love than an entire evening out on the town! Her desciption of herself was perfectly accurate…I met her that way, and married her that way.
Dating? Never again. Too stressful in most cases. Be honest, and everything else will work itself out!
Reio
September 27th, 2011
9:43 am
I was young and foolish, so I did’nt allow time for growth in a relationship. I can only remember one woman that actually dumped me. She said “You do’nt call me like I thought you would, and you treat me like I’m on a job interview”. These women were, mostly, nice people, that were more mature than I was at the time. I treated them with respect and dignity, but I displayed very little patience. So, even boredom did’nt get a chance to set in. It was over too quickly.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
9:45 am
Good morning.
It’s feast or famine baby, feast or famine. I wouldn’t necessarily say I was in a rut, but I did finally realize that I have to put myself out there a little than what I was doing to meet quality people. I’ve made a conscious decision not to lower my standards/expectations for the sake of meeting someone. So, it’s taking a little longer than I anticipated because the concept of dating one woman at one time is foreign to some men. Right now, things are looking good.
Audra
September 27th, 2011
9:46 am
Wow, Michael P! That is quite a story about the married lady. Yikes!! Glad you found your match.
Button
September 27th, 2011
9:47 am
Bewitch! @ MichaelP
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
9:47 am
P.S. Sorry for the typos!
Reio
September 27th, 2011
9:52 am
Leggs – That’s the way I was. I did’nt start another one, until the current one was fully dumped, or I was fully dumped. One woman man. Always was.
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
9:52 am
Yes Button…very much so! According to the laws of metaphysics, a ‘desire’ is, in effect, a spell, and it goes out into the universe. If it is within the realm of possibilities, and does not go against someones free-will or attempts to force them into something that they would not do normally, it will be granted!
Matt
September 27th, 2011
9:56 am
Does anyone else here absolutely detest the people that look and find a replacement for their current significant other while they are in a relationship, they know they want out but they don’t want to be alone for the time when they are looking, I hate scumbags like that with a passion!!!
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
9:59 am
Hey Matt, that very well may have been the situation I was in with the one women I dated, though to be frank, her husband seemed like a nice guy, but you can never tell of you don’t live with someone..
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
10:01 am
Enter your comments here
Reio
September 27th, 2011
10:01 am
Matt – I don’t necessarily detest people like that. I could never do it myself. This one gets the boot, or she boots me, then I start looking again. I was always like that.
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
10:02 am
Then again, some chickens just want to see how many other roosters are in the barnyard.
Robert
September 27th, 2011
10:02 am
“Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?” –
Some men would rather love a thousand different women. I prefer to love one woman a thousand times. The joy is creating an atmosphere full of passion and desire. That is the difference between mature men and boys. No passion, no desire = no relationship.
Matt
September 27th, 2011
10:07 am
Me personally I have issue with stuff like that, there is nothing like a cheater or someone who already replaced you while you were already in a committed relationship to put someone into a rut.
Reio
September 27th, 2011
10:11 am
Robert – I never learned how to “create an atmoshere full of passion and desire”. She took me as I was, or got the hell on. Did’nt bother me a bit. I looked at it this way, If I have to chase, that means you’re running. And if you’re running, you must do’nt want to pursue a relationship with me. I still believe to this day, that if my father chased my mother, he was a fool. If my mother chased my father, she was a fool. I wanted someone that did’nt need to be chased. Take me as I am or not at all.nI would express interest in her, but she had better reciprocate, or I’m gone. That simple.
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
10:15 am
I agree, Robert. I would rather devote myself to one woman, and do all I can to make her every wish come true. If you want alot from a woman, you have to be willing to give alot.
However, I don’t believe being a ‘Man’ has anything to do with age or maturity…it has to do with attitude and action. Some males have or find it, and others never do. I knew a guy in California who was 48 years old and wouldn’t date a girl over 25. He listened to punk-rock music and was incredibly immature, yet he couldn’t understand why he couldn’t find anyone who wanted to stay with him over the long-term. He said he didn’t like dating women his own age because they were too set in their ways, and could be properly trained! He probably would have been better off with a dog, but I think even the dog would have walked after a while!
Mike P
September 27th, 2011
10:22 am
I only date one woman at a time, so I require the same from her.
Unfortunately, a lot of women these days, don’t appreciate this simple standard.
Michael P.
September 27th, 2011
10:25 am
Hey, I don’t remember writing that last comment!!
dyslexicbunny
September 27th, 2011
10:26 am
I pretty much just do whatever I want. I lost interest in dating when I couldn’t be myself. Maybe that makes me undateable but I’d rather find someone that lets me be me instead of having to pretend to be someone I’m not.
Robert
September 27th, 2011
10:29 am
Reio – I will send you a copy of my new book “Men in Love -2000″ which will be released next year (1/12). I wrote this book to help men learn how to create passion and desire in their relationships ultimately leading to marrage. Yes, ladies I said the (m) word because I believe a successful relationship should have a happy ending. I talked to a lot of men who may have been raised in dysfunctional homes or had parents who were poor roll models, especially minorities. I talked to hundreds of women for their thoughts on dating and my findings revealed a very disturbing trend that crosses all racial backgrounds. Most men between the ages of (20-35) do not understand how to create passion and desire in their relationships. Women on the other hand are in touch with their feelings and emotions and would prefer to date a man who is sensitive to all their needs (emotional, sexual, financial, etc.). I hope my book helps someone who may need tips on – “how to get out of a dating rut?”
Reio
September 27th, 2011
10:30 am
dyslexicbunny – There you go, bro. I decided that I would find the love of my life that accepted me as I was, or I would die a lifelong bachelor. Nuff said.
Mike P
September 27th, 2011
10:37 am
Hey, I don’t remember second-guessing myself either!!
Reio
September 27th, 2011
10:37 am
Robert – I’m not in a dating rut, I’m married. But even if I were single and dating, I would’nt need to learn to put passion and romance in my relationships. Cause if just being me ain’t enough, “Hit the road, Jill”. Don’t Look back. By the way, What’s your sister’s cell number?, she ain’t bad looking”. Thats the way I lived back in the day, and was not ashamed of it. I figured that I was a well rounded person, educated, polite, respectful, funny, witty… If that’s not enough, she can go to hell. Just sayin.
Matt
September 27th, 2011
10:38 am
I only date one girl at a time, I don’t make things exclusive til later, but I devote my attention to each one, dividing time between 2 or more I can’t do.
Reio
September 27th, 2011
10:40 am
Robert What’s the “2000″ for in the title of your book, if it comes out in January 2012 ?
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
10:55 am
@dyslexi ~ I really like who I am and although there may be things about my personality someone may not like, I will be me. If you don’t like it, then obviously we are not a right fit. I am who I am, I can be polished up, but I won’t let anyone tarnish me.
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
Out there on the ocean
I know my ship is coming in
Just past the horizon
And right where the sky ends
Cause out there on the ocean
Know my ship is coming in
So don’t leave me hanging
I’ve been waiting to long
For this moment
My ship has finally come
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
TenderRoni
September 27th, 2011
10:57 am
@Leggs, who sings that..i always forget his name?
Button
September 27th, 2011
11:06 am
Leggs, I remeber seeing a posting from you about a job last week – can you please repost it? pretty please
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
September 27th, 2011
11:08 am
Tenderoni his name is K Jon and the song is On the Ocean…nice song and I love the video, it made me wanna learn that Chi-town step.
Robert
September 27th, 2011
11:12 am
Reio – The “2000″ means this century. People have more outlets (internet, etc.) to meet which require different skills. For example, before the internet women relied on men to make the first move by asking their name and phone number. Today, women have the power to reach out and touch men who they want to meet without the man coming forward first. This is a major breakthrough for women and gives them the power to control who they want for a relationship.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
11:16 am
Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?
Date to your needs, not your preferences.
TenderRoni
September 27th, 2011
11:17 am
thanks
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
September 27th, 2011
11:22 am
You’re welcome.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:24 am
@TenderRoni ~ K.Jon
@Button ~ let me see if I can find the listing. I usually delete those after I send out. Hold on….
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
11:26 am
Robert – Women have always had the power to control who they want for a relationship. They have always had a choice. Just because a man might make the first move, she is not obligated to chose him. And the internet has nothing to do with a woman making the first move if she wants.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:28 am
oops, see the question was already answered. I haven’t seen the video, but I love the song!
I’ve been building my ship (polishing up self), so my beacon of light can be seen by that ship meant to set it’s anchor for me to hop on deck.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:32 am
Ummmm, reading back that doesn’t necessarily read write. I see the subliminal so hopefully certain fellas will give me a break.
Robert
September 27th, 2011
11:37 am
Kimmie – You are right, women always had the power of choice. While writing my book I found out that women can choose to date worldwide via the internet which increases the possibilities for success or failure. Whether you choose to meet men at work, church, bars, internet, etc., the choice is yours if you have what it takes to compete on a level playing field. Are you a winner or loser? The competition is fierce.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:44 am
didn’t read RIGHT….ahh forge about it.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:50 am
@Button ~ I’ve deleted the job posting, but did call HR for a copy. They have closed the interviewing process. So sorry….
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
11:51 am
What is up with my typing….meant to say “ahh FORGET about it. I’m really going to go sit down and have a talk with my fingers!
dyslexicbunny
September 27th, 2011
11:55 am
@Leggs @1055 – Exactly. Be yourself. Someone out there somewhere has to like that. If not, I’ll die a bachelor. It is what it is.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
12:08 pm
Sheesh, we were flowing yesterday, now we’re still on page 2.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
12:21 pm
Call it an attitude but not a whole lot for me in this day and at my age is that deep. God first family next. Not compromising, downgrading…none of that. Any interuptions badly intent will have to go.
Not sure how that fits in today but I’m just popping and after skimming, felt like saying that.
Tee hee hee, never had much tolerance for too much of anything anyway
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
12:21 pm
Any interruptions badly intended…is what I was going for
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
September 27th, 2011
12:34 pm
God first family next. Not compromising, downgrading…none of that.
I feel that statement and agree but I will add that depending on what it is I’m willing to compromise…depending on what it is..
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
12:35 pm
“Then you can attract people who find you and your story interesting.”
I think everyone has interesting stories and/or something interesting or unique about their lives. Just everyone is not gifted with the ability to tell it in an interesting way.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
12:36 pm
If you feel bored with dating, chances are you are picking the wrong people to date. As Patty Stanger would say, “Your picker is broken.”
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
12:37 pm
Do you ever get tired of mixing and mingling?
I never get tired of meeting new and interesting people. However, if I were dating, I’m sure I would get tired of feeling like I was constantly on the hunt.
abc
September 27th, 2011
12:47 pm
Good. Lord.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
1:01 pm
Absolutely Sassy, there are always qualified exceptions
abc – You are one funny man
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
1:06 pm
Robert – I’m definitely a winner, because I found a great husband. But you are right, the competition is fierce. Always has been, I think. For that reason, I chose to take myself out of the “competition” many years ago, well before I met my husband. I always say there are about 5 men in ATL that everyone is fighting for. There were 7, but one finally got married and the other came on out of the closet!LOL!! I got tired of trying to get with those 5 guys. I just decided to be myself and concentrate on enjoying my life and my hobbies and family and friends. If I didn’t meet anyone I wanted to share my life with in the course of living, so be it. I just got tired of hanging around thristy folks in clubs. I’ve been blessed in so many ways and I appreciate those blessing. I try to take advantage of every opportunity that comes my way so I have no regrets.
SlimNu
September 27th, 2011
1:10 pm
PSA: Please, please, please stop heating up seafood, especially fish, in the work breakroom. Save that stuff for when you get home because that ish STANK!!!
Now back to your regularly scheduled program
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
1:22 pm
I don’t understand people who don’t know that relationships require work. After you have finally made a good match, it still requires effort everyday. Why don’t people get that?
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
1:26 pm
Tips on getting outta a dating rut?
Try same sex dating!
No body is born gay. They all become gay coz of ‘issues’
Admit it and try same sex dating.
U may be pleasantly surprised.
For starters u are going to find the body parts of ur partner so so familiar!
No rut here. Getting along just fine.
Willie Dynamite
September 27th, 2011
1:29 pm
Afternoon All,
Time tested conundrum. Dating IS a process. Sure it gets old and you definitely can get in a rut or two/three. The thing is I always said to myself is when I’m ready i’ll be ready. What i see is most people don’t work on themselves. You may have a jaded idea of how you are portraying yourself. You may even fall into the category of its everyone else even though you are the one constant. I am sure that most folks in a happy relationship will tell you the person they are with now is/was not their ideal choice. Sure some folks struck gold and found the proverbial happily ever after. Most folks would look back in hindsight and say they found someone that made them happy but didn’t think they would be at first. I don’t condone settling but i do condone being happy and allowing someone the opportunity to enhance your happiness. Stop pressing and live your life. Happiness begets happiness.
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
1:31 pm
SCool – I don’t understand it either. But it’s another example of the world we live in now. Some people want all the perks and benefits, without putting in the work.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
1:31 pm
MMEELLOO – Admit it and try same sex dating. U may be pleasantly surprised.
Why MMEELLOO? Because you are?
Willie Dynamite
September 27th, 2011
1:39 pm
SC/Kimmie – I agree totally. Most folks don’t look at the WORK involved in maintaining the relationship. Some folks shoot all their bullets at getting into the relationship. Heyal to me thats the easy part.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
1:39 pm
” I just decided to be myself and concentrate on enjoying my life and my hobbies and family and friends. If I didn’t meet anyone I wanted to share my life with in the course of living, so be it.”
That’s my take as well. However, I am finding that the “traditional” ways of meeting people and dating aren’t working for me. In my everyday walk through life I am meeting a lot of knuckleheads, toothless men at the liquor store who wants to compliment a lady, a wink at the grocery store, flirty mailmen at Q-Trip, etc. Truckers on 285 honking for your attention. Even had one hold up cardboard with his number on it in bold numbers. Yeah, my pickings were all a girl hoped for (lol)….
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
1:42 pm
@WillieD ~ it’s like buying a house. A house is easy to get, but maintaining/keeping one is a lot of work.
Button
September 27th, 2011
1:42 pm
Thanks Leggs
@Exiled, no matter how much a rut I’m in, I will neva eva eva try same schex anything!
You sound very familiar with it too
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
1:44 pm
Happily ever doesn’t just happen and it’s not always that damn happy.
Disclaimer – this is not in any way a reflection of anything that is going on with me and TheDude. Just expressing some insights I’m learning about relationship and life in general. Mostly from watching some other folks go through some things.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
1:45 pm
“Even had one hold up cardboard with his number on it in bold numbers.”
_____flatlined_____
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
1:45 pm
No,never been.
Just a suggestion guys
Anne Hersche(sp) went in and out. So have others
Just a kind thought
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
1:46 pm
Leggs – The traditional ways were not working for me either. But I have noticed since I started traveling in different circles, I am seeing different types of men out there. Men that, if I were still on the market, I would go for. Mainly single dads – at school functions and coaching soccer. I have met some great guys doing my martial arts and seen some good-looking guys at HD and Lowes. In fact, I said to myself “so here are where all the nice men are”.
Sometimes it’s a matter of changing up your surroundings.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
1:46 pm
@SexyC ~ and knowing that makes getting to “happily ever after” easier….
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
1:49 pm
Leggs – About the cardboard sign – saw a lot of that when we were in Vegas! One guy in a car next to us had a sign that asked “Is she your sister?” Then he held up another with lewd drawings on it. We were cracking up!
hazel
September 27th, 2011
1:50 pm
Kimmie – your 11:26 am comment is on point! We have the power to choose for sure. My fiancee always says that. And I met him online. I knew what I wanted and looked for those qualities.
But dating is such a task and even though I enjoyed getting ready and going out, I look back and find it to be so crazy.
Especially in Atlanta, there is so much competition and like you said, everyone going after the same thing. So I changed the races I was looking into. Which I often see that people do not do. We are all humans and with same issues regardless of race. So why not look outside of the box?
cba
September 27th, 2011
1:51 pm
Leggs, I wonder how many hits the trucker have gotten? You’ll probably be surprised. I guess you do what you have to do.
hazel
September 27th, 2011
1:53 pm
@ Robert – I am a winner for sure, i found a diamond that other didn’t see the value of.
cba
September 27th, 2011
2:25 pm
Just heard on the radio that Deion Sanders is divorcing his wife because she is involved in too many activities. C’omon Man
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
2:27 pm
@cba ~ yep. And what I have to do is smile at the trucker and keep on trucking…
You are right, kimmie. I too have changed up some things. Things are looking promising.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
2:28 pm
cba…listening to the Stews huh…I believe Prime got caught up a couple weeks back, they had him plastered on Mediatakout on some sidechick ish,
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
2:29 pm
Damn, we were telling Christopher that his reason doesn’t justify divorce.
Now, being involved in too many activites is high on the list for reasons to divorced…..This is a crock, laughable and sad at the same time.
cba
September 27th, 2011
2:33 pm
Yeah Jake, during his years in Dallas, Deion said he didn’t drink or smoke but he was addicted to women.
i'm swiss™
September 27th, 2011
2:34 pm
Well, if those “activities” involve some other dude’s w@ng, then he’s got a point…
cba
September 27th, 2011
2:36 pm
Both of Deion’s wives have been beautiful but I guess if you have Tiger disease it doesn’t matter
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
2:37 pm
I thought that too, swiss. Activities is code word to get out of the house and into the arms of anoher….
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
2:38 pm
cba – Where did you here that, because I read on essence.com that Deion said that was not true.
cba
September 27th, 2011
2:41 pm
Kimmie, I just heard it on the Stews show.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
2:46 pm
The more things change the more they remain the same.
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
2:46 pm
UPDATE: Though multiple sources were reporting that Deion Sanders had filed divorce papers with his wife of 11 years, Sanders has taken to Twitter to deny those claims.
Ladies and gentlemen I never address IGNORANCE but I must at this point. I’ve never filed 4 divorce and hadn’t made a statement to ANY media
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
2:48 pm
http://hellobeautiful.com/gossip-news/sweet-sweetback/deion-sanders-serves-pilar-divorce-papers/
Not certain how true…….
kimmie
September 27th, 2011
2:52 pm
Leggs – Glad things are looking up! That’s what I’m talking about.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
3:03 pm
@kimmie ~ thanks. It’s quite refreshing, long overdue, and I’m paying close attention.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
3:07 pm
http://player.vimeo.com/video/28363167?title=0&%3Bbyline=0&%3Bportrait=0&%3Bautoplay=1
If you feel like laughing…..
Dreams Materialize
September 27th, 2011
3:10 pm
I have always enjoyed dating. I like meeting new people and experiencing new things. I think there’s something interesting about everyone, just a matter of getting them to reveal it. Alot of dating is about what YOU are projecting. The people you attract will often be mirroring your projections. Get out there, live a good life, treat others well, have a positive disposition, do things that are interesting (to you), and similar people will enter your life.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
3:12 pm
Recently had some random dude that I was passing by in the airport tell me to smile. He said that I didn’t look happy.
What I wanted to say, “Mphka, I’m grown. I don’t need anybody tell me whendaphk to smile.”
What I actually said, “Oh, I can assure you that I am very happy. My life is great. I don’t have a single complaint. However, I would look like a complete idiot if I walked around grinning all the time. You have a great day, sir.” And kept it moving.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
3:37 pm
I was just conducting an interview.
The applicant’s phone rang. He answered it and said, “I’m going to need to call you back.”
I ask, “Did you just answer your phone during my interview?”
His response, “No. I…..”
Needless to say, that was the conclusion of his interview.
cba
September 27th, 2011
3:42 pm
And we wonder why robots will be taking over in the near future.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
3:43 pm
SCool..
It wasn’t me, but I have said that to ladies before, regarding smiling…never told anybody they don’t look happy though. I think women don’t necessarily know how much a woman’s smile can do for a dude on a given day. Women are naturally beautiful, when you are bright, and feeling good, it makes everyone feel that much better. He prolly had seen you from a distance and was hoping that when you made eye contact, that uwould smile and open the door for a compliment, but it went how it did.
Ladies, show them teeth!!…lol
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
3:46 pm
Yeah…Jake, it was the extra commentary that nearly got him an invitation to Lucifer’s crib.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
3:49 pm
@Jake ~ some women don’t smile to hide their missing teeth.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
3:52 pm
Leggs…sometimes 2 less teeth may be a good thing, hell, go ahead and pulll them dentures out and get loose…lol (ewww, that’s nasty)
Fion
September 27th, 2011
3:54 pm
“P.S. Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?”
In the words of the Isley Bros.
“If you can’t be with the one you Love, honey Love the one you’re with.”
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
3:54 pm
Why folks gotta walk around grinning for the sake of? A pleasant look IMO will accomplish the same. A ngga tombout “smile” is looking for an opening….or at least secretly hoping
Fion
September 27th, 2011
3:56 pm
Ya know, that’s yo problem. Everybody that says “hey’ don’t want you!
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
3:58 pm
LOL…Hey there Fion….that’s my problem. Well here’s what I was REALLY thinking when I read her post
What I wanted to say, “Mphka, I’m grown. I don’t need anybody tell me whendaphk to smile.”
and
LOL…on a bright day this might be my response for some lamo. Sometimes nggas overstep their boundaries and incorrectly assume when really the sun is shining and it ain’t even that kind of day until he crosses over into my lane of course.
Okay, I’ve grown up a bit I won’t say it but I cast a look that will get it said for me
That’s funny though cause if folks only knew what we’re thinking HALF the time… I’m sure it’s the same for men but really us women can go deep in thought.
Now….THAT should help support your assumption
Okay I’m just making convo….I’m serious but just making convo
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
3:58 pm
“looking for an opening….or at least secretly hoping”
And almost certainly sure to get shut down…cause that is lame.
In the same breath and with the same volume that you say “Smile” to a passing stranger, you can say, “Hello/Good morning/Good afternoon/Good evening.” And if I am going to pay you any attention, I will without you issuing an unecessary order.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
3:58 pm
I don’t trust people who smile all the time…something’s not right. Smiling faces, sometimes tells lies……
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:00 pm
“Smile” to a passing stranger, you can say, “Hello/Good morning/Good afternoon/Good evening.” And if I am going to pay you any attention, I will without you issuing an unecessary order.
applaud applaud applaud….for dang sure…IGG ZACKLY. That’s gospel right there. You’re right. Just dang speak and K.I.M., that way (Fion), I can’t assume they want me…lol That way, there just they’re just being courteous.
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:01 pm
Well, damn, If I want to step to you, what should I say then, “hand over purse, you’re being robbed???
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:01 pm
Enter your comments here
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:03 pm
LOLOL…mayne you are funneee. If you wanted to step to me, do it. Don’t look for an opening, TAKE ONE!!
Stop being so sensitive…
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:03 pm
Fion – let me quote myself….
…you can say, “Hello/Good morning/Good afternoon/Good evening.”
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:04 pm
LOL…there you have it. Trying too hard ain’t a good show.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:06 pm
Heeey Meh lady
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:06 pm
“Yeen gotta look so mean”
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:06 pm
“Dang gul”
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:07 pm
Not “miss” lady but meh lady…LOL I’m cracking myself up…whew
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:08 pm
Oh and “yeen all dat” all because you shut down any hopes of an opening..LOL
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:08 pm
“whassup meh lady”
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:09 pm
What kind of grown man says of being a groomsman, “Don’t put me with her if she ain’t cute.” when talking about who he gets paired with as a bridesmaid?
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:10 pm
Cel – “Hey shawty.”
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:10 pm
@Celisea ~ I have a teller at the credit union I go to that always says “meh lady.” It irritates the heck out of me, but I smile because I know that’s her way. Who am I to stomp on her phrase. I have my own quirkly ones (lol).
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:10 pm
On the real, a lot of ya’ll (Women) walk around looking like that got a corn cob rammed all the way up the butt. Just look made at the world.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:10 pm
Now…..
How are you?
Is that sandwich any good?
Good morning
Good afternoon
Nice talking to you
See, all said with eqtiquette and teeth in tack…LOL
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:11 pm
@SexyC ~ a grown man who’s looking to score in the closet before the ceremony starts…
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:11 pm
I hope the ones who don’t smile are not seriously looking,otherwise that wld be a conundrum:
Dressed nice but face looks
or :I
Nobody steps to U!
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:11 pm
SexyC – “Don’t put me with her if she ain’t cute.” when talking about who he gets paired with as a bridesmaid?
LOLOL….I’m still laughing…aaaah
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:11 pm
Fion…I wonder if they would treat good ole Denzel like that if he said, “smile”…they love them TV/Movie dudes, but a regular Joe can go to hellz I guess. Now don’t get twisted, I feel u on the Hello/Good Morning, but that would have got him no better treatment cause yo azz would have said Hello as you were walkin past and may not have even looked….Now say I’m lying?
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:13 pm
Jake – but a regular Joe can go to hellz I guess. feel u on the Hello/Good Morning, but that would have got him no better treatment cause yo azz would have said Hello as you were walkin past and may not have even looked….Now say I’m lying?
LOL, boy stop
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:13 pm
@Leggs
“a grown man who’s looking to score in the closet before the ceremony starts”
Leggs, a single man at any wedding doesn’t have to do much. The runway is already full of foam.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:15 pm
Fion – Just look made at the world.
We’re in deep thought that’s all. We only get mad if you interrupt…lol
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:15 pm
Fion – I am rarely mad at the world. The day that he stopped me, I was preocupied. I was on the way in to work, thinking about the gah-derned interviews that I did not want to be doing this week. I didn’t look mad. Hell, I was focused. And if he don’t know my “focused” look, is that my fault?
(looking focused now…)
Jake – and if I had responded without stopping, he should have gotten the hint that I was not interested. Most women don’t walk around wishing and hoping and praying and wanting to be stopped by random dudes.
GiGi
September 27th, 2011
4:16 pm
“Alot of dating is about what YOU are projecting.”- I disagree with this to a certain extent. Because people will lie straight to your face. And you have to sift through the layers of lies, that they themselves are trying to project to get others to believe them.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:16 pm
What I don’t get is when I hear a guy say women look so mean when he sees them on the highway. How many single person car riders will be grinning from ear to ear driving along the highway???? Concentration usually doesn’t accompany a big grin.
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:16 pm
ok, ok. In meant mad, But you got it.
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:17 pm
Fion – a single man at any wedding doesn’t have to do much
Hoping to get laid within the bridal party should not be a person’s only reason for being a part of….
Cupid Shuffle, Electric Slide and getting laid….all of part of a black wedding party
Into the Light
September 27th, 2011
4:20 pm
Cupid Shuffle, Electric Slide and getting laid….all of part of a black wedding party
….add The Chicken Dance and you’ve got a white wedding.
Afternoon, all.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:20 pm
Celisea….its true, alot of women don’t like the simple hello’s…they are so jaded with the Love Experience that it doesn’t matter what u say to them bitties..
Fion-Those weddings are a fool, put your suit on, shine your shoes, and cast your net, the fish bite extra hard at weddings…The fantasy is already in the background
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:20 pm
Leggs – You’re right. IMO it’s almost like an entitlement. A dude see a woman approaching and right off the rip is looking square in her face “TO SEE” if she’s going to smile at him or not. Why? Why can’t he chaulk it up to, hey we’re passing, she’s in deep thought, got something on her mind…whatever. Why does it have to be “yeen gotta look so mean?” Just like women shouldn’t assume every man being polite wants them, men should be dang “expecting” to get some sort of something when in passing.
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:20 pm
Why are they looking all up in my vehicle while I’m driving anyway?
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:23 pm
Jake – they are so jaded with the Love Experience that it doesn’t matter what u say to them bitties..
You better stop it right now…lol Not speaking has nothing to do with being jaded. We’re telling you the truth. Most times I’m like ngga please move on past me…nothing to do with my experience. Just hoping he’ll not we’re not about to create another one
Those weddings are a fool, put your suit on, shine your shoes, and cast your net, the fish bite extra hard at weddings…The fantasy is already in the background
Told ya!!!! See, shuffle, the slide and getting laid. Men attending (married or not)
knowsbelieves it’s happening later on!! Told ya!!!!!!!!!Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:23 pm
@Jake
….and you know this maaaaaannnn!!!!!
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:23 pm
And I’m certain that if I don’t respond to a greeting, he can just accost the next attractive chick that he knows absolutely nothing about when she walks by.
Because I promise, if he stands there long enough, another one is coming.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:25 pm
Dang, now it’s “foam”…… Whew!
Remember, carbonated drinks/thirsty women “foam” over anyone and thing with a dangling pole!!!!
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:27 pm
I thought getting sex from strangers at weddings was a movie thing. Whey day do dat at?
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:29 pm
Whey day do dat at?
Jake? Answer the question…you recommending to Fion to make sure he attends the next wedding where he’s invited.
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:31 pm
Fion : Come on baby, let’s go back to the ‘tellie, I got a little thug passion up there.
Let’s create a memory.
Wedding ckick: I don’t know all that well.
Fion: It will be fine
Wedding chick : ok boo.
Short and Proud
September 27th, 2011
4:33 pm
Funny y’all should be having this talk today… I have to be in a wedding this weekend and I asked my boy ( the grrom) to make sure that I got paired up with a certain member of the Bridal party….Might not happen though cause she is a bit taller than me and I don’t want to look like she is walking ME down the isle….At any rate, its all good cause I asked around and found out what she drinks and you can best believe I am going to make sure she has PLENTY of it at the reception….
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:36 pm
Yep…you are a SAP and lame as hell.
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:36 pm
@ Yo Short
Make it work soldier. You know the drill.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:36 pm
@short ~ remembering your other posts of not leading with $$, that you’re a good person, just the quality of women around you now has changed because you’re the same person makes this post sound even worse.
You are going to ply a woman with alcohol to get some play (lololol)….
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:36 pm
Hush, Fion!
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:37 pm
@SexyC ~ we are on the same page!
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:37 pm
Celisea…okay, you are right, every chick aint bad news, neither is every man, but more times than not, ladies are not open to conversing with some stranger…the point is to no longer be a stranger at the end; but if one won’t give those 2minutes, one will never know.
And we are telling the absolute truth about the weddings, u all have seen the Heineken commercial when dude dances with Grandma, and the chick gets puppy-eyed…the advertising team didn’t think it up by themselves…I promise you that it is the easiest place to meet someone for these reasons….
1. You are connected to someone at the wedding, and she is too, she can research u immediately
2. The mutual connection eases the awkwardness of meeting someone new (built in topic, so who are you here for?)
3. There is dancing (booze), simulated sex acts,(gettin the garter, a real dude gonna turn it nasty)
4. As previously stated….She is already in Fantasyland, emotionally vulnerable, and ready for some love her gotdayum self.
THIS ALL EQUALS AN EASY SCORE
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:40 pm
Yeah, Leggs, I would think that he wouldn’t want to deal with the type of woman that would get drunk enough for her judgement to be impaired and cause her to do something she wouldn’t normally do.
And he wonders why certain chicks only give him attention after they see his car…the same chicks that would get drunk and give up the nanny…
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:41 pm
And its the idiot woman that engages in this becuase she will never make it to the front of the aisle behaving like that. Always a bridesmaid never a bride……
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:42 pm
That Easy Score may or may not happen that weekend, but you are definitely in…happens all the time ladies, it prolly could have been you too, but you were actin stuck up that day….lol
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:42 pm
@Jake
ya giving away the store.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:42 pm
YEP!!!!!
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:43 pm
I have to be in a wedding this weekend and I asked my boy ( the grrom) to make sure that I got paired up with a certain member of the Bridal party….Might not happen though cause she is a bit taller than me and I don’t want to look like she is walking ME down the isle….At any rate, its all good cause I asked around and found out what she drinks and you can best believe I am going to make sure she has PLENTY of it at the reception….
OMGosh dude…let folks keep talking and the truth will surface. First it was height, then (telling folks…aka leading with wallet) the pockets were right. Now….getting her lushed up is a sure fire way of getting ass. I tell ya…NGGAS
Dreams Materialize
September 27th, 2011
4:43 pm
Ya’ll are making it seem like either you’re mean mugging or you got the kool aid grin. A woman can NOT smile and still look very approachable. By the same token a woman can NOT smile and look very unapproachable. It’s all in the demeanor and body language. It’s neither here nor there to me though. A man never got anything worth having by sitting back in the cut talking himself out of approaching like “naw, she looks like she’s in deep thought, so she probably doesn’t want me to approach.” If I want a shot, I take a shot. Only two things can happen…she can be receptive, or she can shoot me down. Not striking out because you never went up to bat doesn’t make you a good player.
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:43 pm
” it prolly could have been you too, but you were actin stuck up that day….lol”
That “stuck up” is really called “self-respect.” You will only score with those who don’t have any!!!
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:43 pm
Leggs,so u were paying attn to Short?
Short ain’t lame,I disagree!
he’s a attending a Wedding
That means PARTEEY!!!
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:44 pm
Will the REAL Short and Proud please stand up.
Oh, wait…he’s already standing…I kid I kid
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:44 pm
And flies….
i'm swiss™
September 27th, 2011
4:45 pm
“What kind of grown man says of being a groomsman, “Don’t put me with her if she ain’t cute.””
The kind hoping to f#ck a bridesmaid?
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:46 pm
And thank you SexyC and Celisea for jumpstarting this mug
A little humor (and less uptight) goes a looooooooong way 
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:46 pm
@Ex ~ if I can pay attention to you, I can pay attention to Short!
Exactly what I said swiss!!!!!
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:47 pm
The kind hoping to f#ck a bridesmaid?
And once again, I burst out laughing. I tell ya, your honest man. You should share that with the little people. Honestly will get you so much further then getting it by
lushing a chickdefault.Celisea
September 27th, 2011
4:47 pm
you’re and honesty
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:48 pm
My Bad Fion, but its okay, (leans over and whisper to Fion-they don’t believe us anyway)
Leggs-the hell with self-respect, when Juve comes on, “Back that Azz Up”
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:49 pm
and why is a woman an idiot coz she gave it up at the wedding,one niter?
She’s only a biaatch if it’s a habit.
Uall talk like u never had one niters in ur entire lives!
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:51 pm
Ok, Jake, you be one of the 3 brothers on Maury wondering if they da daddy…..
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:52 pm
@Exiled
I take exception withyour last comment. I’ve met and gotten to know some nice Whoe’s
Short and Proud
September 27th, 2011
4:55 pm
Ok ladies you can call it what you will…. we are going to a wedding….There is a cute lady that I would like to “rabbit dance” with….She happens to like Patron…..There is an open bar, so If she happens to want another drink between doing “The Wobble” and ” The Macarena” then who am I to deny her??? And if she happens to feel all festive and game to cut loose while we are there, I would be forced to return my man card if I did not beat that thing like a rented mule…..
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:55 pm
@Short!
just put ur best foot forward,dress in a nice suit and shoes
Never know,u may get polished at the wedding!
Good luck!
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:55 pm
lol Leggs…no ma’am…the moniker says Sweet Peeda Jeeda, me always knows what my Dickey is doing, I have not had an unintentional skeet in my life, I keep my juice bagged and tagged baby…no accidents
SexyCool
September 27th, 2011
4:56 pm
So…the only thing you want from her is to rabbit dance?
i'm swiss™
September 27th, 2011
4:57 pm
Weddings are okay, but if you’re really looking for crazy sex, funerals are where it’s at.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ID8B1Vn3YWg
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
4:57 pm
Exiled!
September 27th, 2011
4:57 pm
@Fion
That’s what’s up!
Luda says I got who7;48ers!
in the area code
Fion
September 27th, 2011
4:57 pm
“So…the only thing you want from her is to rabbit dance?”
…….and a ride back to the hotel.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
4:58 pm
@Short, it doesn’t have to happen there as you already know, but go ahead and set it up…Happy Hunting
Fion
September 27th, 2011
5:00 pm
@Short
Remember password for this weekend. “Catch and Release.”
Celisea
September 27th, 2011
5:02 pm
I’ve met and gotten to know some nice Whoe’s
Dang Shame….NGGAS I tell ya. Now rewind it a few pages and you wonder why a chick puts you back in your lane???? Old Gs at that. I won’t even go there on that…that’s for another day.
Night folks!
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
September 27th, 2011
5:04 pm
Aught peeps…Holla atcha
Short and Proud
September 27th, 2011
5:04 pm
SexyCool….She might turn out to be the woman of my dreams….But until Then all I am dreaming about is looking deep into her eyes…feeling her breast rise and fall in response to our movement…………………and wondering how much closer to her ears can I push those ankles……
Leggs
September 27th, 2011
5:05 pm
Good night.
Grief is Nature’s most powerful aphrodisiac ~ swiss’ clip (lol)
PEACE!
Albert
September 27th, 2011
8:17 pm
I have not dated in many years, mostly because I am at the age where practically all the women I know are either married or living with someone. I am also disabled. I don’t know if this is a general rule, but it’s been my experience that about 95% of the women that I have dated want to be either my best friend, or want a sisterly relationship. So I usually never get beyond a second date with them. I don’t know if this has anything to do with my disability or not (I would hope that it doesn’t, but I a afraid that many people still believe the old stereotype that disabled people can’t have sex, which, BTW is not necessarily true).
Albert
September 27th, 2011
9:51 pm
BTW, I am shorter than usual, because of my disability, so I suppose all you people who responded to the ‘height’ blog and preferred tall people probably wouldn’t be interested in dating a person my height. I am not a midget, but I am shorter than usual.