Do you ever get tired of mixing and mingling? You still want to be someone really great but the thought of answering the same questions over and over again makes you twitchy. I just want to walk up to Mr. Wonderful and hand him my “book” so he can get a condensed version of who I am, what my flaws are, and what I bring to the table.
I know, this is the ultra lazy approach to dating. It’s supposed to be fun and exciting. You are supposed to be filled with anticipation and blah blah blah. Some days you just don’t feel it. That is a classic sign that you are stuck in a dating rut!
If you feel bored with dating, chances are you are boring your dates to tears too. It’s not always their issue, though. Sometimes, it’s you. If you don’t consider yourself a fun and interesting person to get to know, your date will agree wholeheartedly.
If you feel yourself slipping into the Most Uninteresting Man/Woman in the World, take a break from dating and focus on other things. Trust me, it’s good to get a refresher course on how awesome you are. Then you can attract people who find you and your story interesting.
Have you ever been with someone who had a fascinating story? Did they intrigue you with their life adventures or fascinating personality? Has anyone ever told you that you had a really interesting life?
When you meet someone you click with, what do you usually tell them about who you are?
P.S. Any tips on how to get out of a dating rut?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog