If I were to list one of my all-time worst first dates, I would have to put my date with Mr. Octopus at the top. It’s bad enough when someone is not picking up on the lack of chemistry, but when you add inappropriate body groping? You are reaching creepy status, thereby reducing your chances of another date.
My guy friends teased me about this because they think if I thought the guy was hot, I wouldn’t mind being groped! Apparently, women only object because they aren’t really attracted in the first place.
I can’t say with certainty if that is true or not. I just know that if someone is giving you the “Why are you caressing my thigh?” face and you continue – in an attempt to be seductive, it’s a turnoff. Also, don’t be surprised when you meet my taser gun.
Everyone has different comfort levels, though. When do you feel comfortable “touching” your date? When does it become too much?
How do you signal that you are open – or not open- to the public displays of affection, or other physical contact?
Guys, if a woman complained or asked you to watch your hands, would you think she was an ice queen?
Shouldn’t you be able to tell or read the signs when someone is not feeling you..feeling them?
Have you ever been on a date and they could not keep their hands off you -in a bad way? How did you handle it?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog