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Are you high maintenance?

Men beware: High maintenance is a turn off. It’s becoming more and more common for a guy to be into his appearance, image, or his own personal needs. While these guys can be great to look at – and probably smell amazing – dating them can be a lot of work.

I’m not opposed to hard work but I think that at some point, the high maintenance type gets tiring. You grow tired of their egos, attitudes, and their growing list of demands.

What happens when two high maintenance people meet and date? I’ll tell you, their egos have a battle and somebody loses.

Have you ever dated someone who is high maintenance? What do you consider high maintenance?

Are you guilty of exhibiting a little high maintenance behavior? How do you keep it in check?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

351 comments Add your comment

Jeff

September 21st, 2011
5:28 am

Seriously? Complaining that men are becoming more high maintenance?

Let’s see, commercials, tv shows, movies, etc promoting the metrosexual male as attractive. Women continuing to push farther and farther with the “I won’t settle” fallacy. Within relationships, women pushing men to do more woman-oriented things like go to baby showers, dress like so and so on the tv show.

I’m not sure why men in general have become more like women. Can’t figure it out.

All jokes aside, I can say that high maintenance and arrogance is ugly no matter who is wearing it. Admitting you have a problem is the first step to correcting it.

Mr. Unknown

September 21st, 2011
8:33 am

Good morning!! “It’s becoming more and more common for a guy to be into his appearance, image, or his own personal needs.” Is that wrong? Now I can see dealing with the egomaniac type person as being a hand full, but not that.

There are more High maintenance women in this world then there are men. Also the reason why there are more single women then there are men. We get tired of dealing with that type of selfish behavior. I mean there are some women there ego is so big that they needed to create an Alter Ego. I taking aim at the Sasha Fierces of the world, the Black Kary Bradshaw, The barbies.. These are grown ups in there 30’s and 40’s, talk about a turn off.

Anyway, the best way to deal with a high maintenance man, is the same way we deal with the High maintenance woman. Don’t take them serious until they prove their worth. Start chipping away at their ego, let them know your into the person not their look. Don’t give them so many compliments about how they look, the car they drive, the money they make, but instead tell them how sexy it is for a someone to be into God, how sexy it is to give before receiving. There is a 50/50 chance they are going to go and find someone to stroke their ego or maybe they stick around. It sucks but that is the reality that most men have to deal with while dating.

Now time to find something to eat, Hasta luego!!

Dave

September 21st, 2011
8:41 am

I can’t believe that you are even suggesting that men are even CLOSE to being as high maintenance as women. Are there men like that? Sure. But women are LIGHT YEARS ahead of this curve. The idea that you would even approach it from this angle is hilarious. The better looking the woman, the more she believes she is entitled to be lavished with trinkets, fine dining, out up on a pedestal and for us to simply be in awe of her. I’m even laughing and shaking my head as I type….ROFLMAO

LeeH1

September 21st, 2011
8:42 am

Women have always been high maintenance. They won’t allow the windows in the car to go down because the wind fluffs their hair. They never want to get thier hands dirty. Nothing in the house can actually be used because then it is out of place or the protective cover is derangged. The kitchen is spotless because it is never used.

Give me a break. Women complaining about men being high maintence is a bit much.

Dave

September 21st, 2011
8:47 am

But Mr. Unknown has the right way of dealing with it. Chip away at the ego. Let them know in a round about way that, while you think they are nice, they ain’t all that. When they bring up possessions that they have, places they have been or accomplishments, just respond with a shoulder shrug or act like they haven’t said anything to note. And then if they walk or get upset that you aren’t in awe of them, let them know that there are plenty of fish in the sea and you have no time for arrogance or desire to be with someone who’s constant need is to have their ego stroked.

ATL's Own

September 21st, 2011
8:55 am

Seriously, Atlanta is in the top five cities for high maint. women that have absolutely nothing to offer but looks!

Top 10 Signs She’s High Maintenance

Number 10

She’s unfair

She asks you to drive her somewhere, and you get yelled at for being stuck in traffic. You go for a walk, and she gets peeved because it starts to rain. You stop by to surprise her with pizza, but she blasts you for not getting burgers.

Number 9

She’s daddy’s girl

She has never earned anything in her life; she was born with a silver spoon in her mouth and requires the help of servants to remove it. Her idea of protection is the insurance clauses on her daddy’s platinum card.

Number 8

Going out is like the countdown to eternity
Going out for a night on the town should be more fun than this, but you must give her a 48-hour heads up when you want to go out, since getting ready entails calling in the jaws of life, especially considering that she applies a pound of goo on her face.

Number 7

She has irrational demands
She is used to drinking watered down cocktails when she’s drinking on her tab, but when Daddy Warbucks comes knocking, it’s Dom Perignon time.

Number 6

Bills, bills, bills

Her answering machine greets you with the Destiny’s Child tune. You have never seen her wallet, she has never paid for a thing, and the only bills she’s accustomed to are the credit card kind.

Number 5

She’s not comfortable with herself

We like attractive women who take care of themselves, but we also want women who can be themselves — track pants, ponytails and all. If she needs a wall of gunk on her face to look you in the eyes, then she just might have an issue.

Number 4

She doesn’t know the definition of sacrifice
Relationships are meant to be about compromise, but she is more about selfishness. You bend and adapt to her needs, yet all she gives you are ultimatums.

Number 3

She’s difficult to please

No matter what you do or say, she will want something else. No matter how much you try to please her, you will always fall short. She has never cracked a smile and has a tendency to rain on your parade.

Number 2

She’s socially inept

She only hangs out with people who can offer her something and she is a social burden the rest of the time, eating into your good times and peace of mind.

Number 1

She needs to be in control

Most women admit that being high maintenance comes down to being in charge and running the show. They need to feel that it is their call; their way or the highway. It’s up to you to show them otherwise.

Dave

September 21st, 2011
8:56 am

^5 for Jeff’s 5:28 post. PREACH ON, BRUTHA!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
9:10 am

Good morning, Good morning.

Real simple. I’m not high maintenace therefore won’t date a man that’s high maintenance. The mere thought makes me frown. Now, nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and being neat, tidy, clean and smelling wonderful. But all the “extra” is a turnoff.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
9:18 am

high maintenance? Just open the back door. Let her out. Open the front door. Let her sister/cousin/best friend….in.

czBrat

September 21st, 2011
9:20 am

are you high maintenance? YES. brb

Matt

September 21st, 2011
9:23 am

High maintenace is a real problem, people that are high maintenace are usually the same type of people that are always looking for the next best thing in the short term, never the long term, huge turn off. Be happy with what you got and enjoy life a little.

abc

September 21st, 2011
9:26 am

I never thought of things like hygiene and attention to one’s personal appearance as being ‘high maintenance’. I’ve always thought of it in terms of a person having a lot of personal demands and requirements (dates must be just so, frequency of whatever just so, impossible to actually meet their wants and needs because they’re constantly changing, etc.).

But, going with the flow, I typically am not impressed by women with lots of makeup — I’d rather see you the way you really look. I hate cologne and perfume, I have to hold my breath in elevators. When it’s due to a man’s cologne, I figure he’s gay or something — like dude, you smell so pretty! Thppt. My own scent is of mild soap, and that’s about it. I stay clean and in shape, and wear decent clothes, and that’s about it as far as personal maintenance goes. Works for me.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
9:27 am

During my dating years, I gave the boot to seversl women for this reason. Two of my three older sisters told me to be more patient because “some of those women were nice”, but I ignored their advice and continued to open the back door. Life is too short. I knew that even as a younger man.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
9:30 am

Am I high maintenance? No

Would I date a man who was? Not again

Tyler McWebb

September 21st, 2011
9:31 am

Why would a woman date a guy that is prettier than they are? It never ceases to amaze me the poor choices women make in dating. Judgement has eluded the female gender.

Matt

September 21st, 2011
9:33 am

Amen Tyler!!!

Reio

September 21st, 2011
9:37 am

Amen Tyler!!! Good post.
You deal with these people by sending them packing. Don’t try to understand them, figure them out…Just “Hit the road Jill”

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
9:38 am

“If she needs a wall of gunk on her face to look you in the eyes, then she just might have an issue.”

@ATL ~ does it make me high maintenance that I like to have my eye browns drawn on when looking into the eyes of a man. :wink: Jokey joke….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
9:42 am

3S’s, decent clothes, and a clean car is all the high maintenance I require. Women need more so it’s acceptable to me for her to have a little maintenance.

Good Morning:

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
9:42 am

Good morning!

There is someone for everyone. And to be honest, in my little circle, none of the high maintenance women are single. One of the most high maintenance friends I know is also the hardest working. She gives as much to her relationship as she gets. Nobody is sitting around eating bon-bons all day. So, for all those high maintenance types there is someone whose is willing to deal with it or finance it. If that’s not the type of person you want, then don’t get with that type of person. A lot of the men that are in here whining about it probably got rejected by one of them!LOL!! Sorry you didn’t have what it took to get her, but those are the breaks!

I would say I’m medium maintenance. I like to keep my hair nice and get pedicures and I like nice quality, reasonably priced clothes and shoes. I love living in a clean, tastefully decorated home, nothing over the top. I like beautiful surroundings – nice clean well-maintained yard. Don’t need more than those basics, but won’t accept less. My husband is probably what I would call medium at this as well. He’s a normal, mature adult that practices great personal hygiene and good grooming. Nothing girly or over the top, but not like he just walked up off the street either.

Shrugs

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
9:43 am

Good morning,

I’m leaning with abc’s first paragraph. I was about to ask can we define “maintenance?” I consider smelling good, looking good (by each own’s standard) and regular upkeep as normal. Whether it’s expensive perfume or the simple clean smelling stuff…either way whatever you like or prefer, it’s hygienic.

When I think of high maintenance I think more so in terms an unreasonable attitude…in all faucets. I think too high maintenance is not high maintenance unless you get someone else’s buy-in and sponsorship. IMO that means bossy, always controlling, unyielding, never compromising, feeling entitled, no regard for the other person’s (pocketbook or wallet) laid to someone else. That’s daddy (biological), big daddy, your man, your husband, your boo…whatevs.

Now if you want to spend and spend and be spent for one’s own self because you can afford it and feel entitled, do you.

On Point

September 21st, 2011
9:47 am

When I think of HM I think of emotional high maintenance more so. If she has “unresolved issues” she hasn’t dealt with and it causes emotional or physical problems then I have to walk away. That is just very unattractive. On the other hand if her life style is to go to the Spa twice a month, get her hair done weekly, etc then so be it. That is her preference. (As long as she is paying for it)

czBrat

September 21st, 2011
9:50 am

i stand corrected. according to ATL’sOwn, i am nothing on that list. i’ve always thought of myself as high maintenance because i’m not willing to compromise on certain things. i have expectations of honesty and respect that i just won’t back down on. but that has nothing to do with personal appearance, pampering or googobs of money being spent on dates.

no. not high maintenance at all. very low maintenance as a matter of fact. happy in a pony tail, shorts and a tee, watching the clouds roll by. if the sky opens up (like it did at the candler park festival :) ), that’s cool too. i don’t have hair issues to worry about. that’s a great date in my book.

Manly Man

September 21st, 2011
9:50 am

So it appears that not a single woman on this blog thinks they’re high maintenance and every single man declares he won’t put up with it no matter how good she looks. Here’s an old saying that bears reference to this predicament:

“Imagine yourself as others see you, but also be prepared for an unpleasant surprise.”

abc

September 21st, 2011
9:55 am

Not really… as far as things like how much I spend on sweetie, I’d spend every dollar I have and it ain’t no biggie to me. I buy her trips to the spa, go with her for the mani/pedi if there aren’t any of her girlfriends around to go, bring home flowers and candy just because, indulge anything she wants any time she wants. She’s worth it, not only because she’s beautiful, but because she is an excellent wife.

I don’t consider her to be high maintenance, especially because I like being her sugar daddy.

fitzgerald

September 21st, 2011
9:58 am

I am 66 years of age. I said of age………..not old. Am I high maintenance? Damn straight I am and worth every penny of it.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
10:02 am

fitzgerald – You’re 66 years old. Why not tell it like it is?

czBrat

September 21st, 2011
10:03 am

times like this (9:55 a.m. to be exact), abc sounds soooo much like s/o.
add to that …. “i do it because you don’t require nor expect it.”

and take away the “wife” part.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
10:05 am

abc – your 9:55 – beautiful

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:05 am

@czB ~ I was like HUH!!! You are not high maintenance.

Buffalo Guy

September 21st, 2011
10:05 am

Give me a nice girl who can say things like, ” yes, dear , whatever you say dear, you’re absolutely right dear “. When we are out and someone asks her opinion she turns to me and says , ” what do I think about that, honey “? Now that is a perfect girl.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:06 am

@fitzgerald ~ are you dating. Even if married, are you dating?

Brother Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
10:11 am

Atl’s own!

Good post buddy!

and I’m going to smack a man in the face if he’s putting up all that to a woman with a boatload of kids! :lol:

What’s wrong with some if these men settling for some other man’s sloppy seconds,thirds and fourths!?

Good morning Anyway! Hmmpff

Safensound

September 21st, 2011
10:14 am

I’m really surprised at some these posts, but in reality I guess I shouldn’t be. To assume there are more HM single women instead of HM single men is preposterous. Have you dated them all? Or have you been rejected by them all, lol?

Either way, I believe it’s a state of mind and personality. If you have to live your life like keeping up the Kardashians or exhibit the expensive shopping habits of certain celebrities in order to feel good about who you are with, then to me that would suggest insecurities and perhaps shallowness. But if that is who you are and you know that, then NO ONE should judge you or call you high maintenance like it’s a disease. You like what you like and no you should not settle for less.

In my case, my ex accused me of being high maintenance, but if you can call a mother of four who worked in order to help provide for her family, pay the bills and shopped for appropriate office attire, all while wheeling a mini-van to work every day HM, then so be it…that’s why he’s the ex. Meanwhile, I’m still doing me and my children. :)

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
10:14 am

XTrain report – I finished the Lucky13 in 35minutes. 394KCals.

O/T – I haven’t dated anyone who was too high maintenance, but…I did go out on a few dates with someone who was too low maintenance.

Foxy

September 21st, 2011
10:16 am

Foxy thinks as long as you can afford the up keep – have at it! The grass is always greener in the persons yard who takes care of it.
GM Kids! :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
10:18 am

Safeansound – I like your post

abc – You’re reading nicely this morning.

I’m going to say it again, IMO it’s an attitude. Being able to afford some luxuries for yourself I see no problem with that. Having someone “do some highendly nice”, I see no problem with that. Being a brat and all consuming….we got a problem. No what, if you can’t afford luxuries and can do the bare necessities, nothing wrong with that either. :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
10:19 am

know what, not no what

September 21st, 2011
10:21 am

I’m extremely high maintenance during football season. It starts on Thursday with college football, which swithes to pro mid season. There’s high school football on Fridays (I only go to the major matchups). College football all day and night on Saturdays. NFL Sunday all day and night. Monday Night football. So, I only have Tuesdays and Wednesdays free during football season. LOL!

So, time is something I need a lot of…………..for football. Did I mention bowl season?

Tom

September 21st, 2011
10:22 am

I can tell you this: It’s never taken an expensive dinner or jewelry to get me to satisfy my woman to the point of curled toes, eyes rolled up in head and screams that would wake the neighbors two houses away..

whatever

September 21st, 2011
10:25 am

You have really got to be kidding me. I can’t believe that a Woman wrote this article – a article on high maintenance men? Come-on, women have played this high maintenance role since the creation. And know you want to complain because a guy may care about what he looks like and his appearance??
If a guy was a slob and didn’t care about how he looked and what he wore – you ladies wouldn’t even touch him.

Brother Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
10:28 am

@Safensound?

I’m reading ‘Other Issues’ and not HM in your post as the reason for him taking to the road.

Four kids??,that are not mine?

I would have issues as well,never mind the puddy was good!

Purp

September 21st, 2011
10:31 am

I was called HM once and I asked her how so? I don’t ask you for anything I just follow and adhere to my own standard without anyone’s help.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
10:32 am

It’s so moist in here today, I need an umbrella.

Nobody wants a slob, male or female. This is about folks that take it to the extreme and have the extreme attitude to go with it. Don’t get your drawers or panties or whatever you wear or don’t wear in a bunch. You know what this topic is talking about.

And yeah, a dude that primps and stays in the mirror all day is MOIST! There, I said it!

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
10:32 am

Anything that I can budget to afford is not high maintenance.

That being said, if there is anyone who want to make a donation to my #RunningNerd Fund. Please let me know. I will send you a PayPal invoice. Momma needs one more pair of running shoes and it’s time to restock my winter running gear. :)

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:33 am

@Purp ~ you’re high maintance because your high in the sky (tall) and it takes a lot of maintenance on that ladder to climb you.

Ok, ok, I’ll go back and sit down. I’m in some kinda way this morning (lol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
10:35 am

LOL……@Kimmie

Purp

September 21st, 2011
10:36 am

LOL, Leggs I am so far from high maintenance. I like the simple life. I get dirtier than most daily but when I get clean I get clean. One side would never expect the other side. My wife is weird she says it turns her on when I am all sweaty dirty or oily. LOL

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
10:38 am

Blackfoote – I just don’t get all the “disdain” from some of these dudes!!LOL!!!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:39 am

@PR ~ I realize you’re not. And, I think most men are aware of this, but a woman does love to see a hot, sweaty, dirty man from working walk by them to the bathroom to clean up (lol)…seriously, a lot of women do find that to be an aphrodisiac.

Mike P

September 21st, 2011
10:40 am

Good Morning all,

WD – “Men beware: High maintenance is a turn off. It’s becoming more and more common for a guy to be into his appearance, image, or his own personal needs. While these guys can be great to look at – and probably smell amazing – dating them can be a lot of work.”

Hey WD, that’s not high maintenance… Men can for the most part take care of ourselves… High maintenance is when people have that “things just have to go your way or the day’s ruin” attitude. These people make it so difficult to enjoy there company because a great deal of time is wasted accommodating their “all important needs” to make the day go smoothly. Putting up with these people can become a major drag… Its women (NOT ALL, but SOME) are usually the ones who exhibit these characteristics towards their male pursuers. I can’t imagine how a man would be high maintenance unless he’s being pursued by women he’s not interested in or unless he’s gay. jmo

Purp

September 21st, 2011
10:44 am

I think we need to define High Maintenance, I always thought of it as basically using people for your own advancment or so that you meet a lifestyle that you would not normaly live. I never considered it a way a guy dressed or smells. If a guy is to into himself he is probably just conceited and not high maintenance. If a woman wears a lot of make up and shops for herself all of the time. She is not high maintenance she just likes to cake on make up and spend money.

Standing on the sidelines shaking my head.....

September 21st, 2011
10:52 am

This is really sad…Who the hell are any of you to call anyone HM???? I am a guy that get my hair cut weekly, makes sure my nails trimmed and buffed… Insist on having my gear pressed and take my shoes to get shined twice a month…When I go out, It takes me maybe 90 minutes to get ready….Thats how I roll….Where is the issue with that???

Purp

September 21st, 2011
10:52 am

It was probably said persons “high maintenance” activities that attracted you to them in th first place before you knew they were indeed “high maintenance”…unless you are into judging books by thier cover and deeming that a person is high maintenace based on your own assumptions before getting to know them. People just have different standards and levels. As long as it’s not pushed off on being your responsibility who cares?

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:52 am

High maintenance has nothing do with the amount of makeup someone wears.

It’s being snotty, borish, demanding, looking down on folk and acting like your isht don’t stink. On top of all that, truly believing you are to be catered to and pampered simply because you exist.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
10:56 am

Leggs, the second part of your second paragraph I agree with is High Maintenance. The first part I don’t consider to be high maintenance, condescending, lame, tard, snobby yes..but high maintenance no.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
10:57 am

Valid, PR, but the few HM women I know possess those qualities…that’s why I included them.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
10:59 am

90 minutes for a GUY to get ready to go out?

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs – Your definition of HM covers quite a few, male & female! LOL!!

Reio

September 21st, 2011
11:01 am

Standing on the sidelines shaking my head….. – Sounds like you ain’t sheet.

Mike P

September 21st, 2011
11:01 am

@Leggs: YOU ARE CORRECT!! There it is right there! what you said exactly. :)
HM is all about the persons attitudes, behaviors, and other characteristics that makes a person difficult to work with, enjoy time with, or even to simply relate to. Being HM has NOTHING to do with personal hygiene nor grooming.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:02 am

Hasnt this been reoccurring theme on this blog? High maintenance?

Safensound

September 21st, 2011
11:02 am

@ Brother Exiled! I’m not sure what “other issues” you’re reading regarding my post, I know my kids are not yours, thank gawd…but my point is that there are different opinions or ideas as to how one may see a person as HM whether dating or not. Know who you are and in the end, be happy with yourself and who you are with…peace out! :) )

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
11:04 am

Snotty,demanding But the other party don’t tolerate it nor acquiesce to it,then bingo,HM

but some,men or female may tolerate it,then no HM there, like Kimmie said.

So it depends.

For the most part tho,unless u have physical attributes that make men want to ‘rent’ u for a minute,most men won’t find snotty,demanding,’out and about on the town everytime’, dinner/lunch on my tab, habits to be acceptable! HM

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:08 am

Just when I think I am having a bad day….I reconsider and think about the day Troy Davis is having.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
11:10 am

Standing, exactly where is he taking you once those 90minutes are up?

abc

September 21st, 2011
11:11 am

Dude… you take your shoes to get shined? Man, the only place someone else shines my shoes is in the airport or something… I guess I should presume you were never in the military. Nails trimmed and buffed? French manicure, maybe?

Just kiddin. Whatever gets you over. 90 minutes is a pretty long time to get ready, though, in my opinion — it takes me maybe 30 minutes from start to shave/shower/dental hygiene/etc. to dressed and out the door, unless I have to press up a shirt or something. You’d have the laundry do your shirts for you, I guess. I have a mental image of a chick sitting down in your living room waiting for you to get ready to go, impatiently checking her watch and all.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
11:13 am

I have no desire to discuss Troy Davis. He already has plenty of folks stanning and bandwagonning for him as it is.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
11:13 am

1999:
You mean you have feelings about Troy Davis plight today. I’m all for the death penalty, but when the state of GA is about to put a man down with so much doubt swirling that’s a scary scenario for the rest of us. After 7pm tonight it will be too late to say we made a mistake.

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
11:14 am

Safesound?

‘I know my kids are not yours’

that’s exactly my point!

U doing good for ur kids,which is normal and acceptable but having those kids brings ‘Other Issues’ for a guy coming in trying to date U!
It’s not easy for him coz he has to content with U and ur ‘trailer’,so to speak. It makes it a High Maintenance relationship for Him.

The best way,proly,in my view,is to get a dude who also happens to be a patent of one or more.

He has a better understanding.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
11:14 am

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
11:15 am

Parent of one or more

Purp

September 21st, 2011
11:15 am

From feet hitting the floor to walking out of the door it may take me 30-35 minutes max. Shine my own shoes, Do not get work done on my nails except for nail clippers or my teeth in a pinch. I am very neat and organized, I place what I am going to be wearing the next day out the night prior. All of my other stuff is pressed. Maybe I am high maintenance. LOL

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:17 am

SexyCool…Oh I agree. I think the man is getting what should have been done many years ago.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:17 am

Cold cut artist = The Ojays (404) 741-1075

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:18 am

Same here SC.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
11:18 am

I signed the petition for Troy Davis, if I had a platform to speak I would in additions to all of those who are already. I hate that I have to sit back on this and not have a real outlet. I support the death penalty but when you have no weapon(but the bullet matched one from where he shot someone at a pool party earlier), 7 of 9 witnesses recanted their story, GBI can’t back their findings but yet you still want to fry him. Hell give him life and work the system. I am glad I no longer live in a “red” state.

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
11:19 am

My wife has been inviting me to go along with her to the pedicure.

I finally relented and went along.

Bleach!

nothing there that’s fun nor really desirable so I waited in the car.

BUT some of y’all females have such ugly feet! My Jesus!
:lol:

no wonder those females switch it up,Englush then.. Korokito henejgd Kirk kito keyete hheee haasaaa

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
11:19 am

Talking about u!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:19 am

I am very neat. I place what I am going to be wearing the next day out the night prior.

I do the same thing…

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:21 am

I think men have uglier feet then women….

Purp

September 21st, 2011
11:21 am

Leggs men should have uglier feet than women.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
11:23 am

Purp – You are high maintenance!! But seriously, I’m a woman and it doesn’t take me 90 minutes, especially if I already know what I’m going to wear. If you do upkeep all along, it shouldn’t take that much time. Like doing the laundry regularly and pressing what you want to wear beforehand. My hair is in an easy to maintain style so all I have to do is run a comb through it in the morning, I don’t wear a ton of makeup and nails should not be an every day issue with anyone. Shower, brush teeth, don’t see why an hour and a half is necessary, but do you.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:23 am

Purp….I wonder what would happen if the state attempted to charge those who have recanted their story with perjury? I know there is a statute of limitations with perjury but still……

There was plenty of evidence…RIP

Manly Man

September 21st, 2011
11:23 am

It takes you NINETY MINUTES to get ready??? I bet you squat to pee, too. I’m sorry, but that ain’t normal for a guy….I don’t care how much you primp. I can go from being sweaty on the tennis court to shower, to shave, to drying hair to my suit in around 15 minutes. 20 minutes if I’m feeling lazy.

I’m sorry, there’s just something wrong with 90 minutes for a guy (ish) to get ready.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:24 am

After 7pm tonight it will be too late to say we made a mistake.

Agree 100%, BF.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
11:25 am

30 to 40 minutes maximum and that’s slow poking around.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
11:27 am

UGA, they should and they should also prosecute judges who signs death warrants for those who are found not guilty after that judge sentenced them to death. I don’t know if the guy is innocent or guilty but I do know that he is not guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. You know something your forefathers instituted…reasonable doubt worked for Casey Anthony but not Troy Davis. LOL

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:27 am

90 minutes? Unh-uh. I value my sleep too much to take that long to get ready.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:29 am

Purp….you do know what resonable doubt is dont you? Troy Davis killed a cop and 7 people saw him do it. They also proved that same weapon from Davis was used to shoot someone else earlier that night. He was convicted of that shooting as well. He does not deserve to live.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:30 am

UGAman – You just wanted to go there. You’re an instigator. Say something on the dang topic for once without always looking for an opening.

I’m not high maintenance. I’ve been treated to spa treatments (love those) but thruthfully, that sort of stuff has never been my thing. I don’t wear make-up, I don’t like folks shaving, buffering or cutting on me. I much prefer to do myself. Outside of my “personal” maintenance, I only have a stylist that’s about it for me. Now, do I like “nice” clothes and more so shoes….yeees yeeees yeees. I’d much rather take pamper money and buy something I can show for it. I won’t turn down being treated but I can pamper my ownself at home. I can soak in a hot bath if that’s what I need, I have a Dr. Scholls foot spa so I can do my own pedicures. Just never been one that went with the spa craze. Too, I don’t like going behind a bunch of other folks, no matter how much sanitizing they say goes on. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not knocking folks that do it, it’s just not high on my list of priorities. But I love to look nice. Not over the top, spending the mortgage payment kind of nice, but quality nice.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:31 am

@Purp ~ I agree. I’m not talking about the shape or anything, but all the crud between the nails and the dead skin buildup on the bottom of their feet. More men should go in for more peddys…

One hour top and I’m ready (if not before the hour is up).

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:32 am

shaving as in bikini wax

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:32 am

Oh, good grief. UGA, do you always, always, always have to come in and try to get ish stirred up?? Can’t you just come in and be pleasant and go with the flow and not try to incite arguments? Surely you must have more interesting things to do….

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:33 am

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:33 am

@Celisea ~ don’t even understand why anyone responded. It was that dangling carrot waiting from someone to bite….

When he has bad days he thinks of the day Troy Davis is having…what a setup that I hoped everyone would see through.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:34 am

bikini….I don’t need correcting…I said what I said. Unless you have one of these too??? BIKINI!!!

One hour for me to get ready…sometime a few minutes over but mostly an hour.

5Jay

September 21st, 2011
11:34 am

A High Maintenance Dude is someone who thinks he is entitled to a 10 when he is only worth a 5. He has emotional issues and scars so deep that you have to walk on egg shells to be around him.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:35 am

No ITL because he’s a racist and rather than say over here what he blantanly says over there, he find other ways to get it done. He’s an idiot. Yep, I said it…name calling I did.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
11:35 am

UGA where is the weapon, now the GBI can’t back it’s findings and 7 of those 9 witness recanted their testimony. I’m not falling for your obvious bait today to make it a certain type of issue. Hope you enjoy the rest of your day and maybe you should have a little party at 7pm tonight.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:36 am

And UGAman, if he didn’t do it, sorry for those killing an innocent person and if he did, good thing God is God and not you. No matter how heinous, if he repents and finds contrition he just might beat you into heaven.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
11:37 am

Exactly, Cel.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:37 am

Carol Blackmon says she’s gonna ban me (LOL). Told her I’m already banned until 12/1/11. :lol: :lol: I just play to make sure I’m right and keep my quick dailing finger in shape (lol).

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:37 am

@Celisea: It’s not name-calling if it’s the truth.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:37 am

Celisea….Racist because I think I cop killer deserves the death penalty….really? “Racist” what a worn out over used word!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:38 am

Just leave him be…so freaking predictable. Silence him by not responding to ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!! NADA, ZILCH!!!!!!!

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Purp….they dont need the evidence now. They had it at trial. Also they had 9 witnesses….if they lied that is perjury.

I will be sure do toast a glass of wine in his memory at 7pm.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Silence = I win…..so easy.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
11:40 am

1999 hooked me Leggs why didn’t you warn me, I’m sorry.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:42 am

1999, the only thing you win is the Most Pathetic title. You, and others like you, are part of the reason that we don’t make more forward progress in this country. You take situations like Troy Davis to push your thinly veiled racist politics. You’re pathetic.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
11:43 am

Sorry, Leggs, I know silence is the best option, but dang….I get tired of that mess.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
11:49 am

5Jay:
I agree with you, there’s something deep going on with that type of person. He’ll have to hear me walking over egg shells, cause I wont tip toe around.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:49 am

@1999 ~ my last post to you. You are a pretender, a hypocrite, a sham. Say what you want about me in return because it won’t matter. You have a right to your opinion, but the way you go about expressing feigned concern is what bothers most of us.

And, Silence does not mean you win. It simply means your comments will no longer irk us into responding. Why do you even insist on coming on this blog? Never mind, I don’t care why.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:53 am

@BF ~ believe me, I started to warn you, but thought you remembered.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
11:53 am

The first post seemed to be sympathetic. After that, it was all attack. smdh…

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:56 am

That’s the point, SexyC…the first post WASN’T sympathetic. It was veiled to make you think it was. A leopard doesn’t change its spots. No way when he has a bad day he thinks about day Troy Davis is having…NO WAY!!!!

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
11:56 am

Yep an attack it was…that first post was a dang front.

I say we hit mute unless this person decides to play nice. No nice, no sound.

UGAman – You are muted effective today….unless you play nice in the sandbox. WD won’t mind.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
11:56 am

“The first post seemed to be sympathetic”.

Leggs, SexyC:
That’s why I bit so hard.

UF1998

September 21st, 2011
11:57 am

Hey turd boy99…We are gonna kick your AZZ again this year.. toast to that!!!!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:57 am

He was waiting for that opening, and he got it….

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
11:57 am

Exactly. And that is why we collectively take issue with the method of introducing the discussion.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:58 am

@BF ~ I was so hoping you saw through it.

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
11:59 am

tsk,tsk,tsk…..

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
11:59 am

This was my response to 1999 after his post:

“Yeah right, you don’t give a rat’s arse about Troy Davis and what his day is like.” I erased it. Sure wished I had posted it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:00 pm

I want to clear this up with 1999 and I’m done. If this was a white male on death row and there are it still is too much doubt to execute ANYBODY.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:03 pm

Leggs you know I can be drawn in easily, just another shallow instinct…….LOL

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
12:06 pm

Next time, BF, I will be plucking you on your forehead (lol). Not really, I’ll tap you on your shoulder (lol).

Purp

September 21st, 2011
12:06 pm

I hope that guy in mississippi who got charged with capital murder and a hate crime gets the chair. They caught his crime on video so there is no doubt.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
12:06 pm

You’re right, SassyMe….tsk, tsk, tsk.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
12:10 pm

@Purp ~ that crime immediately made me think of the Emmitt Till case. They got off. Sure, we are in a different time, but apparently the mindset for some hasn’t changed one iota! And that’s the stinging part! Now we get people like … trying to make its own bonfire!!!!

atlgal

September 21st, 2011
12:12 pm

If your High Maintenance, chances are you are BROKE!!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
12:21 pm

@5Jay: Your post reminds me of something my mama says about high maintenance people. “He’s one of those people that you’d like to buy for what he’s worth, and sell for what he THINKS he’s worth.” :)

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
12:24 pm

SCool: Read any good books lately? I’m looking for something to read while I wait on the Game of Thrones 4-book set to arrive from Amazon. :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
12:27 pm

Today’s snack: Pear and plum…I haven’t even had lunch yet

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
12:34 pm

I have a coupon for 10% off of an ASICS purchase at Big Peach if anyone wants it.

abc

September 21st, 2011
12:34 pm

The Troy Davis case is difficult, perplexing, a strain on everyone’s objectivity.

The crime was committed, if not by him, then by one of the 2 men he was with. The cop that was killed was trying to intervene with Davis and his 2 friends beating and robbery attempts upon a homeless man in a Burger King parking lot at 1AM — they wanted his beer. All the supposed eyewitnesses were the sort of people you’d expect to see in a BK at 1AM — and that represents my own strained objectivity: bunch of scumbags in a BK at 1AM, right? Maybe, maybe not.

Mr. Davis’ trial and subsequent appeals have maintained his conviction, and that includes an appeal all the way to the Supreme Court. After forcing Georgia to have an evidenciary hearing or two, and intervening directly with a stay of execution, the Supreme Court refused Mr. Davis’ request for appeal, without comment. This thing has been through the system.

I won’t say that he deserves what he gets. God’s judgement is the only one that counts.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:41 pm

ITL:
I like that saying it goes way back.
Men that stay in the mirror concerned about his looks instead of his ways is conceited. Some get facials and mani-pedicures they like being pampered is it manly in my day hell no in these days and times it’s still suspect. In the past it wouldn’t be hard to say he is dainty.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
12:41 pm

ITL – you know I’m into the short, free/cheapo CTNs (cheap trashy novels) that I can buy from Amazon right now. I’m not really buying too much of anything else. All of my extra pennies are going into my #RunningNerd Fund and to the wedding pot.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:46 pm

Leggs you can tap me on the forehead, shoulder, anywhere anytime……LOL

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
12:47 pm

LOL@SC. I understand; I like a good bodice-ripper myself. :) I read so many books, I generally go to the library. Saves me a lot of money and storage space. I started a book swap here at work, too, and it’s worked out well. We keep a couple of cabinets set aside for book donations. People can come and browse and borrow at their leisure. It’s on the honor system, so no admin time necessary.

BF, I like your comment, “Men that stay in the mirror concerned about his looks instead of his ways is conceited” I would add that his focus is not where it needs to be, but that’s just my thoughts….

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
12:48 pm

Blackfoote – Imma have to agree with your 12:41…I know my brothers would like sideways at a dude get pampered…lol When I was with the stockbroker that was the first time I experienced a dude getting done up about as much as me and he was ALLLLLL MAAAAAAN…yessiree…lol But I ain’t gon like, from my school or rearing that would have been considered moist. I didn’t ham on him too much but I did do the puppy head tilted to the side when he first mentioned. On top of that he didn’t like my nails, would say either cut them or have them manicured. Um, not specifically to THAT but you can about figure why we split. :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
12:49 pm

what’s up with me typing “like” look and lie not like

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
12:50 pm

And I’m first on the list for a crisp clean cut dude but IMO that’s almost who he is without all that extra stuff. Imma be honest, I ain’t feeling a dude that’s doing too many girl things.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
12:51 pm

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
12:52 pm

I’m actually finding a LOT of those quirky stories/novels similar to what Sophie Kinsella writes. She keeps me laughing.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:53 pm

LOL…..@Celisea
Celsiea I haven’t had any typos in a while, it seem like everytime you do I start…….LOL
Kimmie put it out there this morning, got me still chuckling…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 21st, 2011
12:55 pm

It just started, and it started with spelling your name. That’s what happens when you start bragging……LOL

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
12:57 pm

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
1:04 pm

Blackfoote – Sooooo you’re going to lay that to me? Mistakes? LOL…it didn’t happen for me until you started blogging.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
1:04 pm

ITL….do you think Davis was racist when he killed the cop?

What about the other man acused of dragging a man behind his truck that is scheduled to die today. Why is no one fighting for his life?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
1:06 pm

Albert

September 21st, 2011
1:12 pm

Some women get annoyed if you take them to the same restaurant more than once.

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
1:26 pm

Albert – Then don’t take them to that restaurant anymore. Be creative.

hazel

September 21st, 2011
1:35 pm

Its okay to be high maintenance, as long as you yourself support and fund the maintenance. Otherwise, you are a gold digger.
Its okay to have good taste as long as you spoil yourself. So one cannot expect to go to classy restaurants if your personally cannot afford to go themselves. Its nice to be classy and all, just not on someone elses dime. I spoil myself, but do not expect my fiancee to do the same.
one more thing: A man should want to spoil you because you deserve it..and for the right reasons. Money comes and goes, class cannot be bought

hazel

September 21st, 2011
1:39 pm

It is annoying to see so many good looking women in Atlanta that are only after one thing and are totally faking the high maintenance thing.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
1:41 pm

Money comes and goes, class cannot be bought

CO-SIGN. ALL CAPS.

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
1:41 pm

now y’all grasping at straws to make it interesting…don’t force it

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
1:44 pm

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
1:46 pm

hazel – How do you know what these women are after and why do you care?

Sassy – Yeah, grasping hard!

kimmie

September 21st, 2011
1:49 pm

I mean it’s enough to have these tired men come in here and tear us down, but we women don’t have to tear each other down! Notice the men don’t put each other down. Dang, show some solidarity!

hazel

September 21st, 2011
1:50 pm

Sassy- ??
just being honest, thats all

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
1:50 pm

ITL that wasn’t meant for you dearheart…

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
1:51 pm

okay duly noted, that’s all…

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
1:51 pm

now y’all grasping at straws to make it interesting…don’t force it

LOL…so right so so right. Don’t tear your fellow sisters down. If you can afford I’m all for it.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
1:51 pm

Countess Slim walking in farting & digging in her booty with a hunned dolla bill pinned to her shirt, singing “Money Can’t buy You Class”

Purp

September 21st, 2011
1:52 pm

I really don’t understand it or am I just not paying attention where are all of these gold diggers? Maybe I never see them because I keep all of my gold hidden?

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
1:52 pm

I was just agreeing with the “class cannot be bought” portion of the statement. I see it all the time, men and women, trying to “put on airs” as my mama would say and try to wear this designer or drive this car or live in this zip code, thinking that it makes them look classy.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
1:53 pm

I smell…I smell…Slim that’s you…either it’s you or a pregnant hippopotamus just took a dump in the front room.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
1:55 pm

Hey Purp, I meant to ask you yesterday…y’all ever go “muddin” up there?

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
1:55 pm

I posted something about Cuffing Season…but it is in moderation.

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
1:56 pm

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
1:56 pm

Time for a joke:

Why isn’t there a lot of honeys in Boston?

hazel

September 21st, 2011
1:56 pm

kimmie – cause i c it a lot. A they all r single. But I do not care. Just notice it often.. But hey..its their life..u r rite.. and I am so glad

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
1:56 pm

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
1:57 pm

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
1:57 pm

men and women, trying to “put on airs” as my mama would say and try to wear this designer or drive this car or live in this zip code,

Sadly those are the most obvious ones…what’s sadder is that somewhere along the lines they learned to equate fance trappings with class and that’s the biggest mistake one can make. If you have it(i.e. class,sex appeal/sexiness-ness,etc) you’ll exude because it comes from within and it isn’t fake/forced or manufactered…it just is.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
1:59 pm

ITL, I did more “muddin” when I lived there we do a lot of trails with some boggin holes and rock climbing. Since I got a hummer I have made my F250 into an off road beast! Now we are talking ITL! I went from a conservative 3 inch lift to a fuul out 8.5 inch lift!

hazel

September 21st, 2011
2:01 pm

Celisea – I totally agree. I was just talking about individuals who fake the high maintanance part. We all like nice things..heck I do too. And again, I agree with you.

hazel

September 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

Sassy – you’ll exude because it comes from within and it isn’t fake/forced or manufactered…it just is.

well said. I agree

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

Did anyone besides Leggs here about the police knocking on the door for a complaint about my dog chasing someone?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:02 pm

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:03 pm

Purp – Sorry but I haven’t ‘RELEASED THE Kraken’ just yet but when I do, it’s going to be a doooooooosie!!! :oops: :lol:

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:05 pm

Sassy: So co-signing your 1:57.

Purp, I LOVE to go mud boggin’. Have spent many a weekend doing that!! 8.5 lift??? Dang….hope you keep a step ladder in the back for those that aren’t 6′6″. I bet that’s a good time, though….man I miss doing that.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:05 pm

Welcome to the blog hazel.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:07 pm

Leggs, don’t leave us hanging….how come there’s no honey in Boston?

hazel

September 21st, 2011
2:10 pm

thanks.. i used to be one of the originals..back in 2006. :) Gud to b back

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
2:11 pm

Speaking of a complaint about a dog…

I had to call Animal Control this morning about my neighbor’s dog Foxy. Foxy has been getting out for the past month or so. For the most part, it’s not a problem. She is a friendly dog. Everybody in the neighborhood knows her. She is obedient to everybody. Hell, Foxy is damn near the neighborhood dog.

For the past few weeks, she has been dragging trash over on the side of my house and chewing it to pieces. On the way back from my morning runs, I usually have the pleasure of picking up after Foxy.

Well…last night, I couldn’t sleep. So, I got up and went downstairs to turn the tv on and do a little work until I got sleepy again. Just as I was about to fall asleep, I hear this noise, like a grinding. I think that maybe TheDude got up and was doing something upstairs. I go back upstairs to find him sound asleep. I get in the bed and as I am drifting off to sleep, I hear the sound again. I wake TheDude up and start whispering, “Listen.”

Just as he hears about three seconds of the grinding/knawing, it stops. He gets up, looks all over the house, goes in the basement, even looks in the attic…because it really did sound like a big rat…and found nothing.

This morning, he goes outside to find where Foxy has been scratching and knawing on our porch.

Soon as my rear hit the chair at my desk this morning, I was on the phone, talking to Micky in the Animal Control office.

hazel

September 21st, 2011
2:12 pm

I even made some great friends because of this blog. We all have lost touch, as we moved around.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:15 pm

Because there’s only one B in Boston. Get it, get it (LOLOLOLOL)…

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:17 pm

SC – Foxy wouldn’t happen to be a light brown chihuahua would it?

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:17 pm

Bwah ha! Good one, Leggs! :lol:

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:19 pm

Tks, ITL. I thought it funny.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
2:21 pm

Leggs – Here’s one for you. 3 men,3 beds, but only 2 blankets. How did they keep warm?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:22 pm

ITL, I put electric 2 step nerf bars on there. The on deploy when you open the door and retract when they are closed.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:24 pm

The police knocked on my door sasying that my dog chased someone on a bike. I slammed the door in their face after telling them “My dog does not have a damn bike!”

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
2:25 pm

LOL – no. She is mixed with pit and something and her coat is brindle.

And oddly enough, I really like Foxy. She has a great temperament.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:25 pm

Let me think a little…

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:27 pm

SexyCool, how old is Foxy?

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:27 pm

And a great taste for your porch!

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:27 pm

Either she is in heat or teething.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:29 pm

or she is just a rebel!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:30 pm

Throw out one bed, put the other two together using the two blankets. I’m clueless…

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:32 pm

Or, throw out a bed, 2 men sleep on top of each other, then you can use 2 blankets….again, I’m clueless….

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
2:33 pm

She recently was with puppy. But apparently escaped to give birth and no one has seen them. This happened right around the time she started getting out all the time.

Methinks that at this point, she is just a rebel. Now, I didn’t mind the trash. It was a mild annoyance at best. But she can’t be over at my house tearing up sht that will have a cost to replace. Cause I know my EBT benefit selling neighbor don’t have the money to pay me.

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:33 pm

The other couple created their own warmth,blanketless!

Reio

September 21st, 2011
2:34 pm

Leggs – No. How about, one of them gets up and turns the heat on.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:36 pm

Sexy Cool get some ammonia and pour it on the corners of your house/porch and around your garbage and I promise she will stay away from those area’s

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:36 pm

What up UGA!

cba

September 21st, 2011
2:37 pm

I was thinking along the line of Ex :lol:

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:37 pm

Purp, you need to send me a picture of this truck! :)

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:37 pm

Alrighty then. I didn’t even chuckle…2 have blankets and now they will have to suffer because the heat is on. What if they can’t sleep w/o a blanket of some sort (lol)….

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:38 pm

Purp?

do u know if there is some snake(All snakes) repellant out there one can spray around the house?

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:38 pm

Reio, are you an engineer?

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:38 pm

SC – I asked because I used to have a chihuahua named Foxy and she had an oral fixation chewing on any and everything. I ended up selling her to a co-worker who ended up gifting her to a neighbor, so I was just curious when you said the name and behavior problem lol

Reio

September 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

Leggs – That’s a little deep for me.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

Purp – Your joke on page 4 is recycled….new ones please :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:40 pm

ba doomp doomp

cba

September 21st, 2011
2:41 pm

Exiled, I have bought snake repellant at Home Depot

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:41 pm

Engineer? Let’s see we can categorize that term with many many things. Remember Florence from the Jeffersons said Household Technician?

Reio

September 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

Into the Light – Computer systems analyst.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

I drive a car, I’m an engineer. I drive a bus, I’m an engineer. I can build a brige with my great nephew using legos, I’m an engineer :)

SexyCool

September 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

Purp – will do…fortunately, we have Herby Curbys. So, she’s not bringing trash from garbage cans. What she is bringing into the yard, ironically enough, are plastic flowerpots. Some other neighbor has to be extremely ticked off as well.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:42 pm

I’m just making light :)

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

Cba?

that’s right,if there is no blanket but u 2 hump,4/5 days a week,like Czbrat, just use that energy for one night to keep warm then buy a blanket the next day.

and don’t hump for a minute,taking a rest for the next cpple of days.

Confirmed Bachelor

September 21st, 2011
2:43 pm

What like women are not High Maintenance Wise diva? Or is it ok for Women to be (you know the double standard BS) inquiring minds would like to know.

I would not consider myself high Maintenance just accept me for who I am, don’t try to change, control, or try to convert me to your religion. And yes High Maintenance women from this guys perspective is major turn off too, I mean just because I can does not mean I should.

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
2:45 pm

Exiled….hello.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:46 pm

I’m not high maintenance

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:47 pm

Leggs?

if it were me,I wld kick the other guy outa the house then I sleep with two women,me in the middle!

:lol:

Purp

September 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

Celisea, I asked if anyone knew about my dog. LOL

Exiled, preventing snakes is really eliminating their hiding places. Get rid of rocks, cool places or shrubs. They are attracted to bugs and rodents. You can go to Home Depot and buy some snake away products and that should work. Don’t use lime that is a myth.

ITL, you will only get people of walmart pictures from me.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

@Reio ~ you are funny….

@Celisea ~ yeah he told that joke on Monday or Friday (lol).

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:48 pm

LOL@Celisea. Sanitation engineers aka garbage men….

Reio: I was asking because your joke reminds me of that “Some people look at the glass as half empty. Some look at the glass as half full. An engineer looks at it as a poorly designed glass.”

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:50 pm

LOL@Purp. Okay….I deserved that one. :lol:

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:50 pm

OXYMORONS

1. Is it good if a vacuum really sucks?

2. Why is the third hand on the watch called the second hand?

3. If a word was misspelled in the dictionary, how would we ever know?

4. If Webster wrote the first dictionary, where did he find the words?

5. Why does “slow down” and “slow up” mean the same thing?

Exiled!

September 21st, 2011
2:55 pm

Purp?

I’m raising chicken at my plot in Covington and I figure I cld take preventive measures coz snakes like eggs and chicken.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
2:55 pm

6. Why do we sing “Take me out to the ball game” when we are already there?

7. Why are they called ” stands” when they are made for sitting?

8. Doesn’t “expecting the unexpected” make the unexpected expected?

9. Why are a “wise man” and a “wise guy” opposites?

10. Why is “phonics” not spelled the way it sounds?

UGA 1999

September 21st, 2011
2:55 pm

Slim….why do we drive on a “parkway and park on a “driveway”?

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:56 pm

Yep he did Leggs.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:57 pm

I JUST HIT MUTE

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
2:58 pm

ITL – Sanitation engineers aka garbage men….

And the list of “something AKA engineers” grows…LOL

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
2:58 pm

Two factory workers were talking. “I know how to get some time off from work.” said the man.

“How do you think you will do that?” said the other one. He proceeded to show her…by climbing up to the rafters, and hanging upside down.

The boss walked in, saw the worker hanging from the ceiling, and asked him what on earth he was doing? “I’m a light bulb” answered the guy.

“I think you need some time off,” said the boss. So, the man jumped down and walked out of the factory. The second worker began walking out too. The boss asked her where did she think she was going?

“Home. I can’t work in the dark.”

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:00 pm

Good one ITL…I had to LOL on that one

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
3:02 pm

If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

If you are cross-eyed and have dyslexia, can you read all right?

Why is bra singular and panties plural?

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:03 pm

Here’s one(not really a joke, just something to think about). A can of string beans is “something”. My left index finger is “something”. A parking meter is “something” But, is “nothing”, “something”? What is “nothing”? How do you know when you have “nothing”? What does “nothing” look like? Does “nothing” come from somewhere? If so, where? How does one define “nothing”? Does “nothing” just show up once “something” is removed? What color is “nothing”?… Just Wondering.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:04 pm

Nothing is nothing and nothing from nothing leaves nothing :)

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:05 pm

Correction: Nothing ain’t anothing because nothing is nothing. When you’ve got nothing you don’t have a thing because nothing is nothing and if you add someting to nothing, nothing becomes something. If you add nothing to nothing you remain at nothing.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:05 pm

Great jokes here. Hehehe.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:07 pm

Why is bra singular and panties plural? – Good one cuz there are two butt cheeks like there are to boobs.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
3:08 pm

Why do they call it a TV set when you only have one?

How come abbreviated is such a long word?

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:09 pm

Celisea – But how do you know when there is “nothing”? Surely you can describe what “nothing looks like. Can’t you?

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:09 pm

But one backside…so back to why panties rather than panty

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:10 pm

Nothing is nothing and you can see right through it. Open your fridge door and see right to the back…you have nothing.

Many ways to see nothing (lol)…

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:12 pm

Celisea – So, in answer to my original question, “nothing” IS :something” Right?

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:12 pm

Why is “pants” pronounced “pant?”

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:13 pm

Nothing is something to me…

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:13 pm

This is hysterical…

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:15 pm

Dang! Y’all have my head spinning. Type slowly, so the blond can understand. :)

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:17 pm

Nevamind….

Purp

September 21st, 2011
3:19 pm

A man and his girlfriend are having a sexual encounter.
He asks her to ”go downtown” so, with a sigh, she gets on her knees in front of him and starts peering at his genitals, looking and tipping her head this way and that, studying the whole business. After about five minutes of this, he asked her in a sort of peeved voice ”Well, just what are you doing?” She said ”I’m doing what I always do when I’m downtown with no money!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:22 pm

I am laughing so hard it isn’t funny…that was good, PR.

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:24 pm

Purp – Fuuuny!

For Real

September 21st, 2011
3:31 pm

Nothing ain’t net-in but a thang!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:34 pm

LOL. Good one, Purp!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:35 pm

Oooh, For Real’s here….

Dark and stormy night….thunder cracks….members of the blog are seated in the living room of the haunted mansion

For Real: So, the reason I’ve called you all here this evening is….

(take it away, For Real)….

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:36 pm

Reio – If you can describe it then it’s something. I was going to say if you can’t see it then how would you describe it, therefore being nothing yet we can’t air or the wind but we know they they’re something it’s something…right?

abc123

September 21st, 2011
3:37 pm

enter comments here

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:39 pm

Maybe nothing is the absence of something, like darkness is the absence of light and evil is the absence of good. (shrugs)

For Real

September 21st, 2011
3:39 pm

For Real: So, the reason I’ve called you all here this evening is…. ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!

and all the blog chicks and some of the B.A.B’s cheer!!!!!!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:41 pm

Lame, For Real. Lame.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:44 pm

Annnnnnnnnnnnd, we are reaching :)

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:44 pm

Celisea – It has been said that, the absence of “something” is “nothing”. That is, if you can’t see,hear.feel, or taste it, you have nothing. Well, the question then becomes, why have a term for it? since you can’t see,hear,feel, or taste it. So, “nothing” would have to be “something” Because, when you do not have “something”, “nothing” exists, making it “something”. Eventhough they can’t co-exist.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
3:45 pm

What are B.A.B’s again?

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:46 pm

Reio – Short of a headache (LOL), I agree :)

i'm swiss™

September 21st, 2011
3:46 pm

Aw man… REM has called it quits. And I thought they were really back on track with their last couple of albums…

Sad day for the Athens, GA scene.

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
3:50 pm

Barry Azz Barry….thanks Simple Man :)

Reio

September 21st, 2011
3:51 pm

Celisea – Ok. See ya. Gotta run.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
3:56 pm

@ITL ~ hope you were expecting that infamous line of his. You walked right into that one. Too funny.

I couldn’t remember, thought it meant Bytch Azz Barry…

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
3:58 pm

I know, right, Leggs? Obviously I was not thinking…. Sheesh.

i'm swiss™

September 21st, 2011
3:59 pm

Could also mean “Battery Assisted Boyfriend.” Like RoboC0ck. Or Dick Cheney.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:01 pm

Naw, it can’t swiss…we have BOB for that.

Mike P

September 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

@Slim: Here’s one for you; Why do we drive in a parkway and park in a driveway?

i'm swiss™

September 21st, 2011
4:02 pm

Au contrare, Leggs. That’s “Battery Operated Boyfriend.” This is only assisted. Like a cyborg. Get it straight. ;-) :lol:

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:04 pm

Glad I was not at For Real’s Mystery Theater.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm

No kidding. Get your eye shot out in there.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm

Heeeeey Eva-body!! Whats going on in Blogsville!

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm

Naw it’s Barry Azzed Barry…he was simpin that day so he was coming off as a “Barry”…lol I think either Purp, For Real or Willie gave him that name.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:06 pm

Au contrare, swiss, if there’s going to be assistance other than that from BOB, it will be with the real thing!

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:07 pm

I remember the day all that went down with Barry. Just couldn’t remember in what compacity, was he whining, simping or bytching. Gotcha, he was simping….

i'm swiss™

September 21st, 2011
4:11 pm

“if there’s going to be assistance other than that from BOB, it will be with the real thing!”

Leggs — Tell that to Mrs. Cheney. :lol:

By the way, afternoon, peeps. :-D

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:12 pm

No, I have no idea with compacity is…I am typing through droopy eyes and lax fingers….

meant to say capacity….

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
4:15 pm

Oh yeaaaaah Leggs, there was some dude blogging under “Barry” and whined throughout his post so any male that posted under the same premise took on the name.

Thanks Leggs. I’m slipping :)

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

Hey, Swiss!

:( re: REM….

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:16 pm

The pill, is the second best thing a girl can put in her mouth to avoid pregnancy………

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:17 pm

Yay, long-term memory in tact, short-term not so much…

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:18 pm

I’m as mad as a midget with a yo-yo

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:19 pm

I don’t care how old I am, whenever I see a bubble, I will hunt it down and kill it

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:19 pm

Petition for the invention of adult-size Capri Suns, who’s with me?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:20 pm

I wonder if Barry ws Short and Proud?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:28 pm

Well I thought they were funny entries

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

@Purp ~ but with the pill you’re sure not to get canker sores, can’t say that about the other method!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
4:32 pm

They have the Adult-size Capri Suns, Purp. Baileys or Bacardi or somebody makes them, But yeah, they’re mixed drinks already in the single serve bag, ready to be frozen and enjoyed. :)

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:35 pm

Do they have the straws to stick in the pouch too! It’s not easy getting those straws in w/o puncturing the other side. Yes, I’ll speak for myself…..

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
4:35 pm

Wait, what? Canker sores??? How the heck did we get to canker sores?

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
4:38 pm

LOL@Leggs. I know what you mean about the straws….I’ve been sprayed by Capri Sun more than once. :) Now that you mention it, though, I don’t know if they come with a straw. But they do open easily at the top, so getting the straw in is no problem. The mojito was not great, but the daiquiri was good.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:39 pm

I’m halfway sleeping over here, ITL. Perhaps I misunderstood.

PR said the pill is the second best thing to put in your mouth to avoid pregnancy. My mind immediately went to oral and that’s how canker popped up in the post….

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:40 pm

Leggs, you’ve gotten canker sores from doing oral?

ITL, Leggs Capri Sun straws are the only thing that can spray you….but you might get canker sores. LOL

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:41 pm

Of course not Purp, I don’t do oral.

Isn’t a fever blister the same as a a canker sore, a form of herpes?

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:43 pm

A dirty dipstick can get you there…can’t it? Hell I’m so far removed I may be making up stuff.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:44 pm

I need a pillow…zzzzzz

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
4:46 pm

Isn’t a fever blister the same as a a canker sore, a form of herpes?

Yes…and no. A fever blister is a type of canker sore but usually a canker sore are those little white sores people get sometimes that can be nothing or a real pain to deal with…

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:48 pm

Yes, that’s what I was referring to SassyMe.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
4:50 pm

A chick at my job just last week had summin summin going on her lips. Thank goodness I have not had the displeasure of experiencing that.

SlimUno

September 21st, 2011
4:50 pm

If someone does oral on your when they have one of those cold sores on their lip, will it cause some sort of nastiness down below?

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:55 pm

Leggs you don’t do oral? Or you are not currently involved in a relationship where oral is an option.

Slim, if you seen any bumps anywhere do let him touch you.

I have had that experience once, went down on a woman saw a bump on the lips and used better judgement and left the scene. Never to call her again, it could have been a hair bump or something none lethal but it was not worth the risk. What has been seen can not be unseen.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:56 pm

I think so. Especially if it opens even a little and the germs are in the hair follicles, I can only imagine some irritation. I really don’t know. I’ve been blessed to have never experienced it.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
4:56 pm

You got it Purp (lol)…was wondering if you would catch that.

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
4:57 pm

If someone does oral on your when they have one of those cold sores on their lip, will it cause some sort of nastiness down below?

YES!! Typically HSV-1 is usually oral herpes and HSV-2 is genital, but if someone with type 1 gives you oral then yes you will have oral herpes on your genitally whacker..

i'm swiss™

September 21st, 2011
4:58 pm

What is a canker? And why is yours sore, Leggs? :lol:

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:58 pm

Speaking of hair follicles it’s time for some manscaping.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
4:59 pm

Sassy how does one get oral herpes? By sucking on herpes some where?

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:00 pm

TMI, Purp. TMI.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
5:01 pm

If you can see the sore, it is active and can do harm below and to your mouth. Anyway, who wants anyone kissing them with a sore on the corner of their mouth. Get some ear wax and help it to heal. Yep, ear wax.

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
5:03 pm

how does one get oral herpes?

google it n tell me what you find…tomorrow

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
5:06 pm

If you can see the sore, it is active and can do harm below and to your mouth.

That’s only partially true…a person may not have any visible sores but could still be shedding the virus, which means they’re still around and can be passed on.

Sassy Me...Take me as I am or have nothing at all ;-)

September 21st, 2011
5:07 pm

On that note…be safe y’all.

I’m outta here ’til tomorrow…

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:07 pm

Ear wax??? What???

I don’t know why I just thought of this, but I knew a girl once who said that her mother used to put warm urine in her ear for an earache. I’m sure you can imagine the names that poor girl got called. But urine? In your ear? Peery ears….he!! no!

Celisea

September 21st, 2011
5:08 pm

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
5:09 pm

I never would have told that ITL. I can only imagine the name calling that girl received.

Leggs

September 21st, 2011
5:10 pm

Let’s just say Good Night Blogsville!

PEACE!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:11 pm

I know, right?? And we were like 9 or 10 at the time…. Mmm, poor little Dinky (that was her nickname).

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:11 pm

Purp

September 21st, 2011
5:12 pm

Sassy, well the only way I can catch herpes now is if I get it from my wife or riding a tractor so I’m safe, no need to google.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:26 pm

Purp, I think you should send a pic of the tractor AND the truck. Maybe you could get the people of walmart to come out and pose with them…

Purp

September 21st, 2011
5:30 pm

lol those are personal I love them and just don’t share them with anyone to often

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:31 pm

Wellll, can I just get a little peek??? :oops:

Purp

September 21st, 2011
5:37 pm

nooooooooooooo!

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
5:44 pm

Hmph! Meanie.

Purp

September 21st, 2011
5:45 pm

Purp

September 21st, 2011
5:46 pm

Look At Me

September 21st, 2011
5:49 pm

There is a huge difference between being high maintenance and being hygenic. I’m a gay dude and I can tell you I don’t primp in the mirror, I don’t wear cologne, I don’t get my nails or eyebrows done. I drive a truck, I work hard, I don’t mind getting dirty…but follow it up with a good shower. I can’t stand to run into another dude who you can smell a mile away before you get to him…and that goes for being dirty or wearing a bunch of cologne. Just because I’m gay doesn’t mean I can’t be a man, I look like one and I smell like one. All these straight dudes walking around with pretty hair and pretty clothes and pretty smells just flat out disgust me. My gay friends aren’t that big of sissy’s. What the hell do you women see in that type? I work with this one straight dude who spends 10 minutes in the mirror everytime he goes to the bathroom…WTF…and the women just LOVE him. I figure he doesn’t have time for dating…he’s too much in love with himself….YUCK…YUCK…YUCK.

Into the Light

September 21st, 2011
7:25 pm

Shani

September 21st, 2011
10:47 pm

Sorry guys but you can be just as high maintenance as women. Just broke up with a guy who took longer to get ready than I did. Demanded every single bit of my time and would be angry if I even spent time with my mother of all people! He made many demands as to what he would like to see me wear, how I wore my hair, when to say I love you…It became exhausting….I am a little high maintenance but this took it to another level…I had to go before my sanity left.

Shani

September 21st, 2011
11:01 pm

Sorry guys but you can be just as high maintenance as women. I just broke up with a guy who demanded all of my time, would get angry if I spent time with my family. He made many demands on what clothes he would like to see me wear…how he would like for me to wear my hair…when to say I love you….start crying when he wouldn’t get his way….It was exhausting…I am a little high maintenance but this was taking it to another level…I had to leave before my sanity left first.

Audra

September 21st, 2011
11:19 pm

For all the men who are mad at this very topic, there ARE HM dudes. I dated one this spring – what a mirror kisser and a momma’s boy. Blech! That being said, HM women are just as irritating and, yes, probably more common. But I find it disturbing that there are so many posts on here about getting someone else’s “sloppy seconds,”"someone else’s kids,” etc. When did the caveman thing come back into style? You don’t want a HM woman but you don’t want one with a real life and a history either. Come on, guys, you can’t have it both ways! I mean, if we could have it both ways we’d have you rich AND hot, but how often do you see that? ;)

Shani

September 21st, 2011
11:21 pm

You better say it Audra!!!!!

Alan G

September 22nd, 2011
6:34 am

I have a friend who dated a high maintenance girl once…

Each time they asked me to drive them somewhere (movie, mall, etc) she had to stop twice for a drink and twice for a bathroom. And that was just the tip of her ‘control’ iceberg,

Finally, one day they asked me to take them to a club. Once we started moving I handed her a 6 pack of coke and a mason jar.

She never liked me after that.

C from Marietta

September 22nd, 2011
11:35 am

Guys stay away from Shani and Audra. Talk about full of themselves.

Roberta

September 22nd, 2011
11:37 am

@ATL Finest -Your Damned if you do, damned if you Dont. As a woman you takes care of herself, it is very hard for a man to understand that taking care of yourself doesnt mean you are high maintenance or even a gold digger. It just means that you take care of yourself. However, I do have a problem with a man, who thinks that he looks better than me!!!

Carlton

September 22nd, 2011
12:17 pm

I love he fact that this article was written about men being high maintenance yet the author of this article’s tag name is “Wise Diva”. Isn’t the very definition of being a “Diva” being high maintenance??

HST

September 22nd, 2011
1:24 pm

Seriously ladies, you’re calling men high maintenance. I have my own money and life just like independent women will say. I have never had a woman complain about my shopping, care I take in my appearance, cars I drive or the restaurants I frequent. I think the only woman who would complain about my “metrosexualism” is a woman who wants a guy like me. I meet more women shopping than I do anywhere else.

Guys who are relaxed in their relationships, you should step up your game. I’m tired of turning away your significant other.

Al

September 22nd, 2011
1:25 pm

I hate to say it but women wanting to be equal to men…this is what you get, so either quit complaining or go back to the way things were. I don’t care either way.

Audra

September 22nd, 2011
2:37 pm

Just givin’ it back to you, C from Marietta. ;) You can take a a little ribbing, now, can’t you? Or are you too HM for that?

Smarty

September 22nd, 2011
5:10 pm

Sounds like ‘Wise Diva’ is probably a ‘chubster’ and never had a decent looking man. Seriously. Men High Maintenance?? They do exist for sure…but you making more of Men than women is amazing. As for the High Maintenance (Said like, By MENNEN) 95% are women. Our group of guys actually when out and about say that the the HM ladies…Turn off ‘Jersey Shore’ put the ‘Homewrecker’ back in the nightstand and find someone nice and stay off ‘Match’ You are
mos def trying to ‘out punt your coverage’ . You are the one that really needs the help AND for god’s sake put your picture up on the blog and have some guts.