Men beware: High maintenance is a turn off. It’s becoming more and more common for a guy to be into his appearance, image, or his own personal needs. While these guys can be great to look at – and probably smell amazing – dating them can be a lot of work.
I’m not opposed to hard work but I think that at some point, the high maintenance type gets tiring. You grow tired of their egos, attitudes, and their growing list of demands.
What happens when two high maintenance people meet and date? I’ll tell you, their egos have a battle and somebody loses.
Have you ever dated someone who is high maintenance? What do you consider high maintenance?
Are you guilty of exhibiting a little high maintenance behavior? How do you keep it in check?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Reio
September 21st, 2011
3:12 pm
Celisea – So, in answer to my original question, “nothing” IS :something” Right?
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:12 pm
Why is “pants” pronounced “pant?”
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:13 pm
Nothing is something to me…
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:13 pm
This is hysterical…
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:15 pm
Dang! Y’all have my head spinning. Type slowly, so the blond can understand.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:17 pm
Nevamind….
Purp
September 21st, 2011
3:19 pm
A man and his girlfriend are having a sexual encounter.
He asks her to ”go downtown” so, with a sigh, she gets on her knees in front of him and starts peering at his genitals, looking and tipping her head this way and that, studying the whole business. After about five minutes of this, he asked her in a sort of peeved voice ”Well, just what are you doing?” She said ”I’m doing what I always do when I’m downtown with no money!
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:22 pm
I am laughing so hard it isn’t funny…that was good, PR.
Reio
September 21st, 2011
3:24 pm
Purp – Fuuuny!
For Real
September 21st, 2011
3:31 pm
Nothing ain’t net-in but a thang!
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:34 pm
LOL. Good one, Purp!
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:35 pm
Oooh, For Real’s here….
Dark and stormy night….thunder cracks….members of the blog are seated in the living room of the haunted mansion
For Real: So, the reason I’ve called you all here this evening is….
(take it away, For Real)….
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
3:36 pm
Reio – If you can describe it then it’s something. I was going to say if you can’t see it then how would you describe it, therefore being nothing yet we can’t air or the wind but we know they they’re something it’s something…right?
abc123
September 21st, 2011
3:37 pm
enter comments here
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:39 pm
Maybe nothing is the absence of something, like darkness is the absence of light and evil is the absence of good. (shrugs)
For Real
September 21st, 2011
3:39 pm
For Real: So, the reason I’ve called you all here this evening is…. ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!
and all the blog chicks and some of the B.A.B’s cheer!!!!!!
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:41 pm
Lame, For Real. Lame.
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
3:44 pm
Annnnnnnnnnnnd, we are reaching
Reio
September 21st, 2011
3:44 pm
Celisea – It has been said that, the absence of “something” is “nothing”. That is, if you can’t see,hear.feel, or taste it, you have nothing. Well, the question then becomes, why have a term for it? since you can’t see,hear,feel, or taste it. So, “nothing” would have to be “something” Because, when you do not have “something”, “nothing” exists, making it “something”. Eventhough they can’t co-exist.
SlimUno
September 21st, 2011
3:45 pm
What are B.A.B’s again?
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
3:46 pm
Reio – Short of a headache (LOL), I agree
i'm swiss™
September 21st, 2011
3:46 pm
Aw man… REM has called it quits. And I thought they were really back on track with their last couple of albums…
Sad day for the Athens, GA scene.
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
3:50 pm
Barry Azz Barry….thanks Simple Man
Reio
September 21st, 2011
3:51 pm
Celisea – Ok. See ya. Gotta run.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
3:56 pm
@ITL ~ hope you were expecting that infamous line of his. You walked right into that one. Too funny.
I couldn’t remember, thought it meant Bytch Azz Barry…
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
3:58 pm
I know, right, Leggs? Obviously I was not thinking…. Sheesh.
i'm swiss™
September 21st, 2011
3:59 pm
Could also mean “Battery Assisted Boyfriend.” Like RoboC0ck. Or Dick Cheney.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:01 pm
Naw, it can’t swiss…we have BOB for that.
Mike P
September 21st, 2011
4:02 pm
@Slim: Here’s one for you; Why do we drive in a parkway and park in a driveway?
i'm swiss™
September 21st, 2011
4:02 pm
Au contrare, Leggs. That’s “Battery Operated Boyfriend.” This is only assisted. Like a cyborg. Get it straight.
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:04 pm
Glad I was not at For Real’s Mystery Theater.
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm
No kidding. Get your eye shot out in there.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm
Heeeeey Eva-body!! Whats going on in Blogsville!
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
4:05 pm
Naw it’s Barry Azzed Barry…he was simpin that day so he was coming off as a “Barry”…lol I think either Purp, For Real or Willie gave him that name.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:06 pm
Au contrare, swiss, if there’s going to be assistance other than that from BOB, it will be with the real thing!
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:07 pm
I remember the day all that went down with Barry. Just couldn’t remember in what compacity, was he whining, simping or bytching. Gotcha, he was simping….
i'm swiss™
September 21st, 2011
4:11 pm
“if there’s going to be assistance other than that from BOB, it will be with the real thing!”
Leggs — Tell that to Mrs. Cheney.
By the way, afternoon, peeps.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:12 pm
No, I have no idea with compacity is…I am typing through droopy eyes and lax fingers….
meant to say capacity….
Celisea
September 21st, 2011
4:15 pm
Oh yeaaaaah Leggs, there was some dude blogging under “Barry” and whined throughout his post so any male that posted under the same premise took on the name.
Thanks Leggs. I’m slipping
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
4:16 pm
Hey, Swiss!
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:16 pm
The pill, is the second best thing a girl can put in her mouth to avoid pregnancy………
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:17 pm
Yay, long-term memory in tact, short-term not so much…
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:18 pm
I’m as mad as a midget with a yo-yo
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:19 pm
I don’t care how old I am, whenever I see a bubble, I will hunt it down and kill it
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:19 pm
Petition for the invention of adult-size Capri Suns, who’s with me?
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:20 pm
I wonder if Barry ws Short and Proud?
Purp
September 21st, 2011
4:28 pm
Well I thought they were funny entries
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:32 pm
@Purp ~ but with the pill you’re sure not to get canker sores, can’t say that about the other method!
Into the Light
September 21st, 2011
4:32 pm
They have the Adult-size Capri Suns, Purp. Baileys or Bacardi or somebody makes them, But yeah, they’re mixed drinks already in the single serve bag, ready to be frozen and enjoyed.
Leggs
September 21st, 2011
4:35 pm
Do they have the straws to stick in the pouch too! It’s not easy getting those straws in w/o puncturing the other side. Yes, I’ll speak for myself…..