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Dating the date juggler?

My friend David met a really great girl but he has already decided to move on. He found out that she is “in demand” and gets asked out quite a lot. Apparently, this is a deal breaker?

I asked him why would he give up so easily. He’s no slouch and he could easily “compete” for her affections. He said that he is no interested in doing so. Call it ego, or just knowing he has a boatload of options himself. He doesn’t date the date juggler.

I am not sure how he knows how many guys the young girl was seeing. I wonder why do we need to be the only one a person is dating? If you are single and exploring your options, should you really be penalized for that?

How many prospects should you try to take on at one time in dating?

Would it bother you if you went out with someone and you were their second date or meet up of the day?

Do you think a single person who juggles a bunch of dates is a deal breaker?

What do you do if you are seeing someone you connect with and you want them to drop their other options? Is it fair to ask that they stop seeing other people when you aren’t sure that you want to be exclusive with them?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

280 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
3:26 pm

@Randyt?

We going to schedule an audit of ur T-shirts!

funky smell coming outta the chest of drawers. :lol:

Leggs

September 13th, 2011
3:47 pm

Seems like that smell shut down the place!

For Real

September 13th, 2011
3:48 pm

Happy Bday Mo!!!! Where are we meeting for drinks after work?

For Real

September 13th, 2011
3:53 pm

Oh and Mo, I’ll pay for your drinks too. Oh and lately when I buy a drink half of the drink is missing. I’m just saying so you don’t thing I drank it.

kimmie

September 13th, 2011
3:58 pm

4 Real – Be sure to let Mo know you are dating others!LOL!!

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
3:59 pm

@Leggs?

Seem so Leggs!

coz Randyt has been sleeping with females and shims.

So apart from auditing the T-shirts,we gotta send the genuine females he been with to the mouf specialist as well coz their moufs may be carrying some UFObjects!

It’s a scary situation today on the blog.

Blah blah was referred to the’ Ur A Man Dawg ‘ specialist to get his confidence back after having been shaken when he witnessed his wife being pummeled!

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:05 pm

Afternoon, all!

Happy birthday, Mo. And don’t let For Real drink half your drink and try to top it off with water or coke. I don’t know who he thinks he’s fooling with that mess….

LOL@Leggs and your 2:09. I think you should get a billboard. Try not to look too cute, though…you don’t want to be causing any wrecks. :)

WTH is the deal with the men on this blog and Martha Stewart??? Didn’t she make one of the guy’s fantasy team the other day??? smh….I just don’t see it…

SlimNu

September 13th, 2011
4:06 pm

For Real – It’s my birthday too….in just 278 days so i’m up for some half sipped on dranks ;-)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

September 13th, 2011
4:09 pm

LOL @ For Real! Only you man, only you! :smile:

Leggs

September 13th, 2011
4:13 pm

@ITL ~ Martha Stewart has some fans in Blogsville.

kimmie

September 13th, 2011
4:16 pm

Light – That’s nothing. Exiled has a long running crush on Diane Sawyer!!LOL!!!

For Real

September 13th, 2011
4:27 pm

Kimmie: I’ll wear my “I’m Probably Lying” t-shirt

ITL: It’s not me it’s the Man that’s watering down Mo’s drink or Batman is drinking half of it. But it’s definitely not me and most certainly one of the two option I provided.

Slim: You know you are always welcome to sip on one out of four drinks that I will have. You my boy blue. Hope that wasn’t too soon.

Mo: “For Real! Only you man, only you!” – That’s what she said! Now finish this statement “Give me a bottle and a _________”

SlimNu

September 13th, 2011
4:31 pm

You my boy blue. Hope that wasn’t too soon

4Treal – now you owe me half a drank AND a fourth of a cheesestick

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:32 pm

Don’t go easy on him, Slim. Make him come up with a teaspoon of marinara to dip it in.

Martha and Dianne…Just not seeing it. But hey, they like it, I love it. :) At least they picked smart women with a sense of style.

Fion

September 13th, 2011
4:34 pm

Fantasizing about Kathy Griffin and Margret Cho and Martha Stewart is liks going to the buffet with
Filet, Lobster Tail and Caviar and walking away with Cube Steak.

Just sayin

Fion

September 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:35 pm

I always piss standing up. Oh Hello everyone

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:37 pm

Night, Fion. :)

Hey, Purp.

For Real

September 13th, 2011
4:38 pm

“now you owe me half a drank AND a fourth of a cheesestick” – Dayum!!! I was going to stick a candle in half of one of those cheesesticks for Mo’s bday. For Real now plotting to get a free drank to split with Slim. It’s a good thing For Real keeps at least two dead flies on his person.

ITL: Stop instigating! You good and well they only give you a tablespoon of marinara souce.

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:39 pm

Fion?

Kathy Griffin and Margaret Cho like rough s e x so if that’s not ur style,I understand.

Martha Stewart likes to be in charge and man handle,some men like that.

I think Dianne and myself make a good couple.

She’s shy but I bring out the biaatch in her.

Good match

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:40 pm

Hello ITL!

What is attractive about Martha Stewart?

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:42 pm

Mmm hmmmm. Next thing you know we’ll hear about For Real finding a finger in his Wendy’s chili….Oh, wait…

And For Real, I’m not instigating. I’m just nudging things along a little.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

September 13th, 2011
4:42 pm

I’ve wanted Diane Sawyer…smart, attractive, etc….but Martha Stewart, Margaret Cho, and Kathy Griffin…dayum man why waste a good fantasy on them…at least say Christie Brinkley or something…gee.

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:43 pm

I wonder if Nancy Grace is any good in bed? Most bitchy women are great in bed so that means she would probably be a winner in the sack. LOL I would not sleep with her but if anyone does give the blog a report.

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:44 pm

Wondering the same thing, Purp. Although, I would love to visit her house and cook and garden and do crafts for a day.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

September 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

Oh come on now…you show me a guy on this blog that has never slept with a crazy (aka “strange”) woman, and I’ll show you The Last American Virgin.

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

September 13th, 2011
4:45 pm

I take Dianne around the track a few times…I have always thought she was cute…Purp, you just dropped in with that annoucement huh….lol

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:46 pm

I CANNOT STAND KATHY GRIFFIN!!

That is all.

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:46 pm

Purp?

just looking at Nancy’s lips,she must give good head!

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

Oh, except Nancy Grace will be on Dancing with Stars. Be interesting to see if she has any rhythm.

For Real

September 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

For Real has found muse for his “Towels & Vanila Scented Lotion Session”

Leila Lopes

For Real is now placing the finger back in the feezer.

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:47 pm

Jake yes, I like to make an entrance. LOL

For Real

September 13th, 2011
4:49 pm

ITL: Rhythm is not required for Nancy Grace. All she need is a high pain treshold and a good gag reflex.

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

and Nancy has wide nostrils,so no danger of suffocating there when deep throating!

Good oxygen supply!

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

For Real, yes she has some DSL’s

For the record dance moves do not correlate to bedroom rhythm.

Ladies and Gentleman, name the weirdest trait a person had that you have ever dated/slept with.

I think the weirdest was a girl who just squeaked for no reason, the oddest was this beautiful lady who was fine but had a mole on her butt with two hairs sticking out of it. Right there on the crack of her ass.

Leggs

September 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

@For Real ~ she’s beautiful.

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:50 pm

and to be sans tonsils…..

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

MIght miss her mouth and slide up one of those huge nostrils, that would probably feel good though

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

Weirdest?
her body quivered and shook the moment i put it in

:lol:

luved that girl

she pass,tho

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:53 pm

Leila Lopes is beautiful!

Dang, Purp. You couldn’t have kept that to yourself? Hairy moles on are on my phobia list…along with clowns, Chinese buffets, the Six Flags old man, and the GEICO googly-money eyes… ((((SHUDDER)))))

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

September 13th, 2011
4:55 pm

@ ITL “clowns”??? What did you do, read Stephen King’s “It” at an early age?

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:56 pm

Mole on the butt near the v-jay

had a girl like that too

also top tier

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:56 pm

Exiled “She pass, tho”

You killed her?

ITL, no I was just sharing. LOL

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:56 pm

As a matter of fact, Randy, yes. I also made the mistake of watching the John Wayne Gacy story one night…..

Hold me…. :)

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

ITL?

do u make sounds when u give head?

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

Exiled!

September 13th, 2011
4:57 pm

no died in a car wreck

Into the Light

September 13th, 2011
4:58 pm

Wow….way to go, Donnie Downer!

Purple Reign

September 13th, 2011
4:59 pm

Sorry to hear that Exiled.

For Real

September 13th, 2011
5:00 pm

Purp: She had two big ass corns on her toes. I know, I know but for some reason she thought she had cute feet. But she was fine as hell tho. I just could not make it pass those corns.

STOP TOUCHING ME!!!! For Real now showering with comet.