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It’s date night (You need a plan)

When you have a date scheduled, it’s always great to have a plan. It’s cool to be all laid back but if you expect to have a good time, even spontaneity has its limitations.

For the record guys, women love men with a plan. It shows that he thinks of her as someone special! When you show little effort in getting a date plan together, you could come across as uninterested.

What is a good plan to have? Location, activities, and time to actually talk. First dates should involve ample time to check out if you have chemistry.

When you want to impress your date, what kind of plans do you make?

Would you stop seeing someone if their date plan leave something to be desired?

303 comments Add your comment

Lady~

September 9th, 2011
8:24 am

Cute Topic WD!!!!

Simple Man....

September 9th, 2011
8:26 am

First Up today huh???? Better put the coffee on :)

I the A there are so many cool things to do if one wants to impress a date…For Years I maintained a membership at Fernbank…. Martinis and Imax is great for a first date.. Great vibe, Cool for people watching but not so loud that you have to strain to hear and be heard….

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
8:31 am

Morning, all!

Would I stop seeing someone if their date plan left something to be desired? If it was a pattern, and if he had not taken steps to remedy it (”Hey, babe. I wanna do better on planning our dates; what kinds of things would you enjoy?”) then probably. Like Diva said, it translates as lack of interest and violates ITL’s Life Lesson #436: Don’t treat someone as a priority who treats you like an option.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
8:39 am

Good morning!

Would you stop seeing someone if their date plan leave something to be desired? I’m presently faced with this. This one guy calls saying he wants to take me out and for me to call him back when I decide where I want to go. Huh? This has happened twice. I haven’t called back. Dang, if you call me to take me out on a date, then take me out on a date. He’s the type that would call back saying “well, I tried to take you out last week, but you never responded.” Ok, cool….NEXT.

iknownothing

September 9th, 2011
8:41 am

Harry and Sons for dinner and then Blind Willies. For some reason, most of the people I met had never been to Blind Willies, and it was always a favorite.

One the west side of town, Antico Pizza followed by the Northside Tavern.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
8:45 am

iknownothing, you are a-okay in my book! LOVE the Northside Tavern…total dive, but great music and always a good time.

Biceps and Armpits

September 9th, 2011
8:48 am

Fellas. Take em to the batting cages. They get all hot n sweaty and love it. Trust me. I’m a man.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
8:54 am

LOL@Leggs and “OK. Cool. NEXT.”

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:00 am

@ITL ~ at least show me you thought about actually taking me somewhere. If I’m not down with your suggestion, I’ll let you know and hopefully a compromise can be had.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
9:03 am

I know, right? I’ve had first dates that ranged from a nice dinner and a movie to putt putt and pizza. Both were fun!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:05 am

Heck, beer and chicken wings are good to…say something to lead me to feel you actually thought about it!

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
9:15 am

Mmmmm……beer (in my best Homer Simpson voice). :)

Amia

September 9th, 2011
9:19 am

A man with a plan is sooooo attractive. It doesn’t have to be expensive or elaborate, but thoughtful goes a long way. I think for a first date, lunch is great. If the chemistry is there, you can extend it easily. But as time goes along, dinner at unique spots, comedy shows, walks in parks, park concerts, etc… is great. I like to do and explore new experiences so that’s what a great date is to me.

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
9:24 am

I’m craving crab legs…there’s something fun about getting your hands all dirty, wearing an oversized bib and slinging crab meat on each other that breeds great energy on a date lol

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
9:28 am

@Slim: and don’t forget smelling like Old Bay, no matter how many times you wash your hands! LOL

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:31 am

I’m craving some dollar bills….

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
9:34 am

ITL – You’re definitely right about that smell. I try to wash my hands a few times in lemon juice.

Leggs – For whatever reason, your comment immediately made me think of Playas Club lol

Fion

September 9th, 2011
9:38 am

Hey!!!! Simple Man. You got any of that Chicory brewing over there. I had no business dranking
Ta-kil-ya (Tequila) shots lastnight.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:39 am

Yeah, someone needs to make it rain.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:40 am

Did you chase those shots w/anything? And, I’m not talking about women chasing (lol).

Fion

September 9th, 2011
9:42 am

I think I’m sobberin’ up!!!!! Did I hear some one say shoe Modeling ?????

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:46 am

NOT! You may need to “bite the tail of the dog that bit you!”

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
9:50 am

Andretti’s was a cool first date spot when I was dating. Go Cart racing, shooting pool, a nice burger “dive” is located in there as well and if you go upstairs there is a “bar” area!

Fion

September 9th, 2011
9:52 am

Chased it with beer. Right now I’m sittin’ with sunglasses on soooooo dark I can hardly see the keyboard. I never noticed how bright these lights are in here.

Simple Man....

September 9th, 2011
9:53 am

Fion…Got a special brew that should hook you right up!!!

Leggs…FYI…You gotta get low if you want it to rain…..

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
9:56 am

Fion – What were you trying to prove last night? lol

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
9:56 am

No problem there, SimpleM! None whatsoever.

Fion

September 9th, 2011
9:59 am

@Leggs
Ok. Then why do I hear “Bottoms Up” playing in the backgourd???

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
9:59 am

Poor Fion…. those days are the worst. Seems like it hurts to even brush your hair. :(

TenderRoni

September 9th, 2011
10:00 am

A man with a plan will get my attention.
A man who is vague, and haphazard, will get the same.

oneofeach4me

September 9th, 2011
10:01 am

I can imagine that first dates may be a little difficult to plan because the guy doesn’t know you that well. In that case, strike conversation on the phone with me before the date, and work like a detective to figure out something neutral to do (something I won’t hate, but you aren’t sure if I would love it either). Let me know you are at least thinking with your head, and I am speaking of the one on your shoulders!!! Spontaneity is for the other one!!

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
10:03 am

LOL@bite the tail of the dog. Never heard it phrased that way….Seems like it might get you bitten right back. Plus you’d have nasty dog tail hair in your mouth. Ptooey…

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
10:04 am

Good morning!!

‘Women luv men with a plan’

I don’t know WDiva.. Coz some women don’t appreciate the plans.

Ared’s guy planned to cook dinner at her home and he had a back-up plan in the event things get hawwwt,but she still didn’t appreciate the lil darn thing falling off the pockets accidentally.

Sometimes men never win!

Fellas,just be u,no pressure.

These ladies sometimes hummpf :lol:

Fion

September 9th, 2011
10:05 am

@Slim
Damned if me and you know.
That’s right up there with the Sphinx and the Pyramids at Giza. Two of the great mysteries known to Man!

M. (pronouced M dot)

September 9th, 2011
10:09 am

Date planning is tricky for guys because you don’t want to come across as a “Trick” or a guy using money to try to impress a woman. You also have to be smart with your planning because you really should not spend a lot of money on a woman you don’t know and who you don’t even know that you will see again so here are my do’s and don’ts:

Don’t:

1. Take a woman to the movies-There is no opportunitiy to really talk and get to know her.
2. Take a woman to a club-It has diaster potential and you really cant interact.
3. Take a woman to a franchise restaurant (Applebees, Chilis, O’Charley’s etc)
4. DO NOT spend over $50 on the first date.

Do:

1. Take a woman to a place that has a diverse crowd and different theme (like a cool place in a neighborhood and non franchise)
2. Listen and ask questions and engage with her.
3. Pay attention!
4. Try something fun, check out timeout.com for cool and free activities in your city.

SexyCool

September 9th, 2011
10:35 am

I say “Plan the date, Leggs.” Maybe dude wants to be sure that he doesn’t disappoint you. Maybe once he gets to know you, he will feel comfortable planning something.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:36 am

@Fion ~ Bottoms Up ok, but I would prefer T-Pain’s Applebottom jeans….

She had them Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]

Boots with the fur [With the fur]

The whole club lookin at her

She hit the floor [She hit the floor]

Next thing you know

Shawty got low low low low low low low low

:lol: :lol: :lol: :wink: :cool:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:39 am

@SexyC ~ this dude has known me 6 years. He started showing interest in me sometime last year. Just because he’s familiar with me is no excuse for him not to plan a date since he wants to now take me out.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
10:43 am

Hmmm, I think SC brings up a good point, Leggs. Maybe he’s trying to make sure the date is special and pleasing to you and that’s why he wants you to choose the locale…..

JP

September 9th, 2011
10:43 am

@Leggs are you on facebook? :)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:46 am

This is how the convo went:

Him: Hello
Me: Hello
Him: Whatcha doing?
Me: Not much, just chillin
Him: I’m thinking about taking you out later this evening.
Me: Sounds good
Him: Call me later and tell me what you want to do
Me: Crickets, then OK
Him: If I come up with anything, I’ll call you later.
Me: Crickets…..

He never called me, and I didn’t call him.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:47 am

@JP ~ who wants to know (lol)?

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
10:48 am

HiYas!

boy i was riding high with anticipation of our weekend in NC for the Sade concert. then a call from the insurance company telling me they are going to total loss thing 1’s car AGAIN just crushed it! :mad:

anywho, don’t think i could deal with someone who fails to plan out our time together because i’m kinda anal when it comes to being organized. don’t like surprises and don’t fly very well by the seat of my pants. file a proper flight plan is what i always say!

northside tavern is a good time indeed, but i can’t hear myself think (let alone carry on a convo) at blind willie’s.

lol @ leggs. that dude had no idea what he stepped in.

JP

September 9th, 2011
10:50 am

@Leggs get at me lol

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
10:50 am

Good morning folks,

Plans are good. If no plans be spontaneous. Don’t make that a habit but every now and then no agenda is okay (for me). I’m always impressed with a fly by the seat of your pants kinda guy. :)

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
10:52 am

czBrat – I hadn’t read your post until after I hit submit. I see we’re on different ends of the spectrum with the fly by the seat of the pants thingy…LOL

For Real

September 9th, 2011
10:53 am

So the first date is ALL on the man huh? Lets see what a man has to work with:

1. He doesn’t know you

2. He doesn’t know you

3. He doesn’t know you

4. He doesn’t know you

5. If choose something that you don’t like he will lose your attention.

Come on ladies, where is your “skin in the game” when it comes to the first date? And no buying a new outfit and getting your hair “did” doesn’t count. My first dates the chicks will have to plan part of the date as well. That way we both have skin in game.

Leggs: Stop being so lazy. The dude don’t know you well enough and it’s obvious that he is looking for some help from you. If he didn’t care he would have asked you to meet him at the last Huddle House in the GA.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:54 am

Ok, JP, I’ll do just that. {hands in the air}}}

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:56 am

@czB ~ you know it (lololol).

@ForReal ~ the dude knows me very well! Not even in the slightest am I being lazy! And I wasn’t going to adjust my typo, but that 6 year should have read 16 years.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
10:57 am

@Leggs get at me lol

Alright now….It’s Friday too

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
10:57 am

Whatcha got now, ForReal (lol)?

SexyCool

September 9th, 2011
11:00 am

Then I would say that you’re not that into him.

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:03 am

i understand that dude may not know much about me, but he does know himself. and since we’ve probably spoken at least once before deciding to “date”, he should know enough to plan something cozy or something active … depending on what got us vibing in the first place. our first date should not be about you trying to impress me; it should be about you showing me more of who you are.

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:08 am

I agree with u Sexxcool!

she would have met him half way,suggesting and having a converststion about it to come to an agreed location and activities.

I thought that also in line with women’s empowerment and lib thing.

Why leave date planning solely to the man? Then when I bring along a lil bottle of spice in my pocket in case we get heavy u say I’m wrong?

Come on,give the man some heads up of what we gon do!!

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:08 am

Leggs: Why did you say okay when you knew you were not going to call him? Also, some people are shy. I mean it took him 16 YEARS to ask you out.

Brat: I like to plan but all plans are subject to change. Can you roll like that?

For Real: Hey I got tickets to Sade in Canada. Do you want to go?

Chick: Canada? Why Canada?

For Real: Do you want to go?

Chick: I mean yeah but why Canada?

For Real: Cause I want to! Now, I’m only packing draws and an outfit for the concert. You should do the same.

Chick: What are going to be doing? I can’t just travel to another country with draws and an outfit. What about my shoes?

For Real: Don’t worry about anything. I’ll get whatever we may need when we get there. Just be ready to go.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:13 am

@ForReal ~ I know the dude well, when he said “if he comes up with anything he will call me” immediately shut me down. That’s why I didn’t call. This is not a first date. I pretty much know when he’s talking to be talking.

He called 2 weeks ago. I couldn’t answer the phone. He didn’t leave a msg, but I saw he had called. I called back abt an hour later and he said “I called you earlier because I wanted to go to the movies, but you didn’t answer.” Asked why he didn’t leave a msg and he said “he didn’t feel like it.” Oh well…

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:15 am

for real, yes. i can roll like that. but you best believe i’ll have shoes and return tickets tucked somewhere amongst my belongings. i’m the chick with the backup plan to get yo azz out of a tight spot and get us both home safely.

leggs, that dude sounds incredibly half-azzed. ijs.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:17 am

Continue……

For Real: I’m on my way to pick you and go to the airport.

Chick: Okay I’m ready.

For Real: Hey are you ready?

Chick: Yes! I’m sooooo excited!

For Real: Whoa! What’s with all of the bags?

Chick: You was for real about the draws and outfit?

For Real: Yeah!! Show me your outfit you wearing to th concert.

Chick: I thought… Why you want to see it. Aren’t we going to be late for the flight?

For Real: Show me your outfit..

Chick: Here it is… What do you think?

For Real: I like it. Okay go get in the car and I put ALL of your bags in the car.

Chick: Okay….

For Real places the concert outfit and a bra & pant set into a Kroger bag and place it his bag in the trunk.

Chick: That was quick. You got everything in the trunk?

For Real: Yep!!!

Arrive at the airport….

Chick: Where are my bags?

For Real: At the house.

Chick: What? Why? I thought….

For Real: I got your concert outfit and a bra & panty set in my bag. Now, you can either get on this plane or take these keys and go back home?

abc

September 9th, 2011
11:18 am

It’s true that the man needs to have a plan. Don’t leave it up to her to decide the restaurant, chicks hate that. Ask “steaks, chinese or mexican?” and she probably won’t even want to decide that. They’d rather have you decide everything, whether it suits their preferences or not.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:19 am

Exactly, czB. Half-a$$ stepping.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:21 am

Brat: That’s good to know but I ain’t going nowhere that I can’t at least get myself back home. I might be mildly retarded but I ain’t retarded.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:23 am

Leggs: See now we have more of the story. Yeah you’re ole boy’s 3rd choice.

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:24 am

for real, i hate you. for real.

abc, i like the way you put that. there’s just a touch of pissivity in your post, but clearly you accept your role as MAN and deal with it. :)

Perve in the corner :)

September 9th, 2011
11:26 am

“Come on,give the man some heads”

Works everytime…. First date on….

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:26 am

‘whether it suits their preferences or not’

@abc,why is that?

Why would they want to give the men all the power to decide?

Is it because,u think,they want to retain the power to criticize?

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:27 am

I ain’t going nowhere that I can’t at least get myself back home <——— WTH is up with that? not only do i get only one pair of fresh dainties and NO shoes but you only concerned about getting yourself home?!? just damn.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:27 am

@ForReal ~ and I recognize game, or me being an afterthought. Like you said “I may be mildly retarded, but I ain’t stupid!” (LOLOL).

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

September 9th, 2011
11:27 am

Soooooo…drinks and then the gun range is not a good date? :lol:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:32 am

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:33 am

Brat: ” but you only concerned about getting yourself home” – Somebody has to tell the story.

For Real: Hey Mr. & Mrs. Brat, um about your daughter… well see what had happen was…but let say this first… Your baby girl is a fighter! Not much of a runner but dayum she can fight…

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
11:33 am

BMW – The gun range would be cool but i’m not that much of a pro to incorporate drinks with that…virgin daiquiri maybe.

Button

September 9th, 2011
11:35 am

I briefly dated a guy who never ever had a suggestion of where he wanted us to go, I mean this guy always left it up to me to pick the place and on top of that, he never knew what he wanted off the menu so I had to walk him thru the menu like he’s my kids asking him if he wanted this or that! lol So I took advantage of the situation and started choosing places I always wanted to go without even considering whether he’d like it or not. I felt guilty but hey that’s what you get when you let me take charge! I tell you though, after about 2 months of that, my interest went from 100 to 0 really quick.

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
11:35 am

but if you’re that great of a sharp shooter to where you can throw a few back and keep aim, then you’re a bad, bad… ;-)

Simple Man..

September 9th, 2011
11:35 am

“For Real: Hey Mr. & Mrs. Brat, um about your daughter… well see what had happen was…but let say this first… Your baby girl is a fighter! Not much of a runner but dayum she can fight…”

Ok…Now that isth was funny!!!

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:36 am

Exiled: “Is it because,u think,they want to retain the power to criticize?” – That’s exactly why.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
11:36 am

drinks and then the gun range is not a good date? </em

So long as you goto the gun range first and drink after :mrgreen:

They’d rather have you decide everything, whether it suits their preferences or not.

No not everything but definitely come with a plan…I’d like to contribute as well..

that dude sounds incredibly half-azzed

I soo cosign with cz Leggs…dude was just sorry and actually sounded like he wanted you to chase him…how moist of him.

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:37 am

me-lo stop being so cynical. it’s not about wanting to criticize. it’s about feeling guided and cared for. nevermind. you don’t have to understand it. just do your job, we’ll do ours.

slim, shots before shooting makes it that much more fun.

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
11:38 am

yeah, sassy. it was funny. but if for real ever comes to a meetup i’m gonna introduce myself with a smack upside his head.

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:40 am

@Button!

u separated after 2 months?

be4 I ask u next question lemme get this clear,do u believe in the 3 month rule?

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
11:40 am

Shots before putt-putt has always been fun to me lol Putt-putt golf…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:41 am

“…he wanted you to chase him” DING, DING, DING, you get the brass ring!

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:42 am

Czbrat!

It’s not being cynical really. U okay with me just picking the locations and u saying yes or no?

I would seriously think that ur input would enable us to bond even better because we get to discuss etc.

abc

September 9th, 2011
11:44 am

For Real and Exiled, I think that has something to do with it. Since they’d be inclined to passively insist (dig that, passively insist) that you decide, they retain the ability to be critical of you choices; and the reason they won’t decide is that they presume that you’d be similarly critical of their choices. It’s just the way chicks are, no biggie.

But, if they say “I want pizza at Johnny’s!”, best to take them to the pizza dive, and appreciate that they at least stated what they really wanted. At least Johnny’s has Newcastle Brown Ale in bottles.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:45 am

BMW: Drankin n gun shootin reminded me of Rooster Cogburn tossin cornbread in the air and shootin at em.

“but if for real ever comes to a meetup i’m gonna introduce myself with a smack upside his head.” – Note to self, duck when you see Brat.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
11:47 am

but if for real ever comes to a meetup i’m gonna introduce myself with a smack upside his head.

Yeah that would be a sight to see…speaking of a meetup…we should plan one(or at least think about planning but I understand…just a thought).

you get the brass ring!

:lol:

Button

September 9th, 2011
11:48 am

@ Exile what are you hinting at? lol
yes I know the 3 month rule and no I don’t abide/believe in it, I think it’s a waste because whether you wait 1 or 365 days a person is going to do what they are going to do. Know your on conscience and value.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
11:48 am

abc: ” It’s just the way chicks are, no biggie” – Exactly and we also know how difficult it is for them to decide which pair of black shoes the will wear. So the dude should always pick a spot with good beer and position himself to where he see a TV and make it look like he is looking at her.

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:52 am

Abc!

spot on. Chics can be cagey coz some of them never put their cards on the table like that.

That’s why I never criticized the dude who dropped the Trojans on ared.

I was only wary of his sloppiness. :lol:

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
11:53 am

“So the dude should always pick a spot with good beer and position himself to where he see a TV and make it look like he is looking at her.”

D@mmit, For Real! Ix-ne on spilling the ecret-se:lol:

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
11:54 am

@Button?

‘I don’t believe in it’

Well then,it’s ok.

At least u blessed him then gave him the walking papers.

Button

September 9th, 2011
11:56 am

nope not this time @ Exiled!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
11:56 am

That’s no secret. Just like men don’t like sitting with their backs to the door. They want to see who walks in and make sure they can make a mad dash at the back if need be…I kid, I kid, kinda sorta….

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
12:01 pm

abc clearly suggested offering up some options. why do you see that as a woman giving up all the power? and then suggesting it’s a method we use to turn things sour at some point. that’s cynical.

and if i’m saying “yes or no” then i do have input. and that input does enable us to bond. i’m fine with the process. i simply take exception to your theory that we’re just stockpiling bullets to fire at you later on.

for real
exiled
swiss
and abc. tsk tsk. i was kinda diggin you today.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:03 pm

@BMW ~ czB shot them all down.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:04 pm

O/T ~ did you guys see where someone had to audacity to attempt to rob a store in a Gumby constume. No one messes with Gumby. He got away with nothing, dumbcluck!

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
12:08 pm

They want to see who walks in and make sure they can make a mad dash at the back if need be…

either that or so they can slyly(but not always cause some openly gawk) watch every booty that passes by….

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
12:09 pm

cz went in on ‘em…(said in my Lil Weezy voice)

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
12:16 pm

whether is safety or salacious thinking, i just set him up facing the door cuz i know it’s his preference. but most of the time we opt for a booth and i’m sitting right next to him anyway. *shrugs*

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:18 pm

@czB ~ it’s automatic that we give them the seat facing the door if we aren’t sitting next to each other.

Willie Dynamite

September 9th, 2011
12:19 pm

Afternoon All,

You do need a plan for a Date. The first meetup to me is just that a meetup. I don’t place too much stock in the plan until i’ve taken the time to find out what you like don’t like. I always suggest Happy Hour or a bistro/bar somewhere to get a drink. Most importantly I just want time to be able to talk and get to know whether I wanna invest more of my time and $$$ on a Date.
Hope that keeps me off Brats list.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:26 pm

@WillieD ~ she’s a straight shooter with accurate aim (lol). Even if you zig zag across the street, she’ll still take you down!!

Simple Man..

September 9th, 2011
12:27 pm

First dates are easy…Pick a place you like,, if there is no connection then at least you are familiar with the lay of the land and can adjust accordingly…. :)

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
12:31 pm

leggs, i can recall being 8 yrs old and telling my brother (NYPD) i wanted the seat facing the door. he said “as long as you’re gonna handle any trouble that comes through that door, you can watch it.” ever since then i’ve opted to enjoy my meal in peace and let the muscle do the watching.

and as for them eyeballing other things, well i’ve always said folks are gonna do what folks are gonna do.

willie, question is do you see an ulterior motive in her letting you pick the bistro?

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

September 9th, 2011
12:32 pm

“That’s no secret. Just like men don’t like sitting with their backs to the door. They want to see who walks in and make sure they can make a mad dash at the back if need be”

Yeah me and dudes always fight for the seat where I can see. I don’t like being vunerable either. So we choose a booth and sit on the same side. Why should I get the death seat?

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:34 pm

That’s what I thought, SimpleM – first dates are the easiest. You aren’t dating, simply meeting up with another person to see if there’s any chemistry. Drinks and a little food. No need to spend a lot of money.

abc

September 9th, 2011
12:35 pm

What’s the diss? Most chicks like for the man to decide what to do, where to eat, set the calendar. If she wants something specific and says so, then do it. I don’t see the big deal.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
12:36 pm

@czB ~ I’ve always been told that men want to view the front door for any trouble that may walk in. I was poking fun with my previous post. Your brother is right.

The death seat :lol: I have thought “sure hope he can protect us if stuff pops off.”

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
12:39 pm

Aye, me so full and sweepy now arrrgghh

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
12:45 pm

“as long as you’re gonna handle any trouble that comes through that door”

Um… folks are taking dates to places where that’s a legitimate possibility?

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
12:47 pm

LOL@ the death seat. I always thought it was just me who felt that way…channeling my inner Calamity Jane outlaw girl.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
12:49 pm

PS – I see some of the blog’s most talented writers in the room….Y’all gonna do an installment of the Frisky Friday Chronicles??? hint hint….

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
12:50 pm

I wonder why so many folks are opposed to sitting on the same side as their partner or date. If I’m feeling you, then I rather be closer to you than hollering across the salt, pepper, napkins, drink menu, dessert menu, and my tall long island iced tea. Plus the closer you are, the easier it is for me to scope out your plate to see what I may want to sample from it ;-)

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
12:52 pm

“Plus the closer you are, the easier it is for me to scope out your plate to see what I may want to sample from it”

And that’s why you need to just keep yo azz on your side of the table, Slim. :lol:

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
12:55 pm

Y’all gonna do an installment of the Frisky Friday Chronicles??? hint hint….

awww sh!t…you asking for it and it’s still hell-a-early ;-) This should be interesting…I wonder if it’ll be a co-ed writing session instead of just the (wo)men doing it.

side note: you know when people always seem pi$$ed about some/anything they just need a hug and for someone to say, “It’s okay”

Willie Dynamite

September 9th, 2011
12:57 pm

Brat – umm, No ulterior motive perse’ but just a way to avoid the pitfalls that Men have. As a whole the Man takes the reigns and initiative on asking, planning the date. We know it could be many reasons (some not so obvious) to get rejected. This is something most Women don’t have to deal with or worry because you are usually doing the choosing.

Now listen to all the Women talking about sitting on the same side in a booth on the first Date. I can see if yall have been out a few times before. Just let a dude date 1 try and sit beside BMW in a booth and see what happens.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:00 pm

Plus the closer you are, the easier it is for me to scope out your plate to see what I may want to sample from it

Not me(not for food anyway)…sometimes I sit next to my date when I want to feel him up under the table….don’t judge me ;-)

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:00 pm

And that’s why you need to just keep yo azz on your side of the table, Slim

:lol: :D

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:01 pm

sometimes I sit next to my date when I want to feel him up under the table….don’t judge me</em.

Sassy – She what you do is distract him with a crotch leg rub while you steal a nice succulent shrimp off his plate. :oops:

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:01 pm

“sometimes I sit next to my date when I want to feel him up under the table…”

Sassy — You could still do that when you’re sitting across from me. ZZZZZZIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIPPPPP :lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
1:02 pm

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:05 pm

swiss – I just had to call a customer whose first name was Hung…I swear to the lawd i’m not even lying. :shock:

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
1:05 pm

swiss, when you’re trained new york’s finest that’s a legitimate possibility in every place. my brother has been retired 10 years but still carries his weapon at backyard bbqs. at his own house.

lol @ slim. i usually frown if they try to show us to a table. i mean, if there’s a booth anywhere in this establishment, i want it! i don’t usually sample from his plate, but i’ll turn mine so that whatever he likes most is closest to him. life is just easier if he doesn’t have to reach across me all the time.

Hope that keeps me off Brats list.
willie, i’m now channeling cherrelle “♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸you look good to me!♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸”
you and simple are on my sweetness list today. don’t muck it up!

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:06 pm

Serious question, though, ladies… Why can’t you all just order what you want? If you want a double chilli burger with fries, then order a double chilli burger with fries instead of ordering a garden salad and then eating my double chilli burger and fries, d@mmit! :lol:

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:07 pm

You could still do that when you’re sitting across from me

Swiss dearheart..I’m a hands on woman from many aspects and that’s one of them..playing footsie is cute n all but I want to feel the warmth of the jewels in my hand(s)…that while I whisper sweet little nothings in your ear.

ZZZZIIIIPPPPPP on that :mrgreen:

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
1:09 pm

Fail to plan, plan to fail. Everyman should have a plan and a backup plan…just in case she gets you riled up and doesn’t put out…call your backup plan. Oh yeah that applies to dates too. If I ask you out I already got everything planned out. I might even order for your non plan having ass too.

Alcohol and drinks do not mix, but the two together can be fun as long as you are not on the business end the gun. Unless she gets drunk and wants to see my love gun. I call it my “bangstick”

Okay I think I am all caught up and have responded properly!

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:10 pm

what you do is distract him with a crotch leg rub while you steal a nice succulent shrimp off his plate.

That’s a way to get ‘em for sure Slim Nu!!

I just had to call a customer whose first name was Hung…

Please tell me his last name wasn’t Lo…

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:12 pm

Sassy – it was close…Lam lol

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:13 pm

“.playing footsie is cute n all but I want to feel the warmth of the jewels in my hand(s)…”

Sassy — Who said anything about needing to use your feet? :lol:

Slim — Odds are pretty good that if a dude is named Hung, he’s not. :lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
1:14 pm

“Oh seexxxxy giiiirrrrrllllfriend” – Long Duck Dong

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
1:14 pm

I like to sit beside the woman when we are on a date instead of sitting across from her. Even first dates. Plus side of having a pickup truck with a bench seat, she can slide right beside you while you are driving. :) Oh yeah nothing wrong with keeping a weapon on you at all times. You will never find me without a gun a knife or something that can cause some permenant damage. LOL

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
1:18 pm

Swiss how would you know the odds of someone being hung if their name was Hung? LOL

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:18 pm

@swiss ~ I order what I want from the menu. Not a salad person for dinner.

@SassyMe ~ that too would be my main reason for siting next to him. You are not alone, chica! It’s nice simply to rest my hand on his thigh stroking it a bit…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:20 pm

Oh seexxxxy giiiirrrrrllllfriend” – Long Duck Dong

Oh I LOVE Sixteen Candles!! I had the hots for Jake but I thought the ending was sooo cute….with them sitting on a glass table in front of her birthday cake and he says, “Make a wish” and Molly’s character said, “It already came true”… {{{looong siiigh}}}…

another random: I’m going to see Kem at Chastain tonight and I can’t wait!!!

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:21 pm

“Swiss how would you know the odds of someone being hung if their name was Hung?”

Purple — Much to my chagrin, there’s a bunch of old Asian dudes at my gym who refuse to throw on a towel. There were a couple of times when I had to do a double-take to make sure I was in the correct locker room. :shock:

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:22 pm

It’s nice simply to rest my hand on his thigh stroking it a bit…

DING,DING,DING…now you get a brass ring(said in my Oprah voice)

Willie Dynamite

September 9th, 2011
1:24 pm

I can see at the next blog meetup blog dudes trying to push 4-5 booths together.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
1:25 pm

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:25 pm

Willie D — +1 :lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
1:26 pm

Great movie, Sassy! Miss John Hughes….

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:27 pm

swiss – So you found out you were in the right place huh? :lol: i kid

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
1:28 pm

Slim — Don’t get sassy with me. You might get stabbed with a fork when you try to steal one of my fries. :lol:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:29 pm

Freaky Friday!!!

Dinner Date

I was pleasantly surprised when I arrived home from work there was a msg on my answering machine telling me about our date this evening and how excited he is. I knew the restaurant well we were going to so I had to pick out the perfect outfit. As I showered, lotioned my body down with his favorite scented lotion, I looked in the mirror and noticed the smirk on my face. I walk to the closet to get out my slinky, buttoned down lavendar sphagetti strapped dress. Oh, I just know his eyes will pop when he sees me slinking in in this dress. I arrive at the restaurant 10 mins early to ensure I have the booth I wanted. The booth with drapers are especially private. He arrives and greets with with a nice kiss. But, since it’s his bday, I want to give him one of his gifts early. I ask him to sit down. I close the drapes and go under the table (so glad this table cloth covers me). He’s not stopping me, as a matter of fact, he’s…….

Seven

September 9th, 2011
1:30 pm

Nice topic of the day. Interestingly enough, I just gave a guy walking papers b/c he was too spontaneous. He asked me on dates on the day of and still didn’t have a plan once we met up. Lack of planning and his age dug the dating grave. LOL Three dates was all I could do. On to the next….

SlimNu

September 9th, 2011
1:33 pm

swiss – you have to be careful with that fork since my other hand is in your nether region near the family jewel. We wouldn’t want it to turn into something you can’t come back from ;-)

Ohhh, Leggs has popped of the Freaky Friday Fables

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:38 pm

He’s not stopping me, as a matter of fact, he’s…….

Gently easing his zipper down, helping me get to what I really want. I gently massage the smooth shaft his swelling manhood and gently brush my lips against the head…I do this again and feel him squirm a little and I smile wickedly as I grow bolder. While massaging his twin jewels I took him in my mouth slooooowly and methodically savoring his aroma and sweet taste. When I reach the base I let go of his jewels and went in for a good tonsil tickling deep throat…he almost knocked the table over. I thought he’d want me to stop but…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:41 pm

On Cue SassyMe ~ hoped you be the next installment given our earlier posts (lol)… EXCELLENT! It’s on and popping!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:41 pm

No shame here, had to read it twice! :wink:

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:45 pm

Leggs I felt like you wrote that for me so I felt obliged…thank you mami!! Great minds think alike :lol:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:47 pm

Yes ma’am, I wrote it for you…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:48 pm

I’m cracking up just visualizing the men quietly sitting at their desks repeatedly hitting F5…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:49 pm

so who’s neext?!…fellas what’s up?!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
1:49 pm

@ITL ~ you’re up. You asked for it, you should at least contribute (lol).

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
1:54 pm

@ITL ~ you’re up.

Cosign!!

UGA 1999

September 9th, 2011
1:54 pm

Quiet day today….

abc

September 9th, 2011
1:58 pm

“Trails in the Sand” by Hung Dong Lo.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
2:00 pm

I’m cracking up just visualizing the men quietly sitting at their desks repeatedly hitting F5

Me,too…

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:02 pm

Where, on peachtree industrial blvd is this restaurant situated where u meeting this date??

@Leggs?

(must be a nice spot for extra curricula)

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:06 pm

Dang…that’s a tough act to follow. And y’all left me with the nasty part!! :)

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:09 pm

Yea,let’s see if u ain’t All talk but no zip in Ur moves!
@ITL?

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:09 pm

@ITL ~ mail call.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
2:11 pm

…that’s a tough act to follow

If you scared then say you scared :lol:

I’ve got at least two and a half hours left in this camp….so let’s kick it. Let’s put the blog on overload :mrgreen:

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
2:13 pm

Where, on peachtree industrial blvd is this restaurant situated where u meeting this date??

why it gotta be on p’tree industrial?…errbody knows aint nuthin over there but a whole lotta…..

anything you wanna share?…I won’t look at you any differently

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:20 pm

Coz u went hard and low Sassy!

I do know,(by way of the news I read and hear, etc) at least in some spots on that street,the truckers get their thing on and popping.

So a restaurant that may offer sanctuary or a wink a nod could be a possibility.

Allegedly!

UGA 1999

September 9th, 2011
2:21 pm

Exiled. there are many of them.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
2:21 pm

ITL???

Sound scared to me

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:23 pm

Not scared, had to take a phone call. Third installment coming up shortly….

abc

September 9th, 2011
2:24 pm

You might want to check your front page with Chrome, AJC. You’ve scrod the rendering somehow.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
2:26 pm

“tonsil tickling deep throat” Sassy you are the Queen!

Now everytime I get head I am going to wonder if I am tickling her tonsils. LOL

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:27 pm

OMG, look at Celisea instigating… :lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:29 pm

I thought he’d want me to stop but…
the gentle pressure of his hand on the back of my head shows me otherwise. Holding his firmness in my hand, I lean into him again. I hear a tap on the drapes and “Ahem” when the waiter approaches. My body immediately stiffens up, the thrill of what we’re doing and the fear of being caught have the adrenaline surging through me. The waiter asks, “Does the lady wish a co*cktail?” I throw my hand over my mouth to stifle my laughter. He hems and haws but finally manages to stutter, “She’s in the restroom, I’ll ask when she returns!” The waiter leaves. I look up at him, more turned on than before, and licking my lips, I……

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
2:30 pm

Coz u went hard and low Sassy

nuthin like the element of surprise to keep ‘em guessing

I do know,(by way of the news I read and hear, etc)

By way of my smooth black… Exiled that is such bull(you’re still smiling) and you know it :lol: It’s okay if you got your info the good ole fashion way…no really it’s okay ;-)

UGA 1999

September 9th, 2011
2:30 pm

ITL….very nice!

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:32 pm

UGA!

ofcourse u wld know.

What’s up for Friday,got any Gwinnet soccer mums lined up!

UGA 1999

September 9th, 2011
2:33 pm

Exiled….it is football brother…..and yes the fun has already began!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:34 pm

Ut oh, Ex. Looks like ITL can back up her talk.

Dang, ITL, that was good! Ok, I now believe you when you say you were on the phone. I thought you might be hiding in the ladies room (lol).

Celisea you next???

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:36 pm

ITL..I didnt know virtual head can be this good..

next

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:39 pm

Now, to make this even better, one of the men should flip the scene and close out the story as they leave the restaurant. Of course, not now!!!!

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
2:40 pm

OMG, look at Celisea instigating… :) :)

Celisea you next??? – Huh??? (INSERT BLANK STARE HERE) :|

I need more practice (ahem) and reading before taking the reigns :)

Fion

September 9th, 2011
2:41 pm

“ITL..I didnt know virtual head can be this good..”

Yeah, Exiled. Can you and UGA hold down the noise back there.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
2:43 pm

I need more practice (ahem) and reading before taking the reigns

You ain’t new here and unless you’re a virgin you know what to do…let’s get it :lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:44 pm

Dang, ITL, that was good! Ok, I now believe you when you say you were on the phone. I thought you might be hiding in the ladies room (lol).

Nope. I was on the phone with someone who, um, inspires me. :) :)

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
2:44 pm

Leggs, we are liking the women taking charge on this one.

Celisea, just start typing and let your thought flow. I am sure you will be able to provide an arousing visual for us from your thoughts.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:47 pm

@Fion ~ boy, you have me cracking up. Glad you guys are enjoying in it…here’s Part 4.

I look up at him, more turned on than before, and licking my lips, I……

don’t want to stop, but I know I can’t stay under this table the entire evening. I greedily take the shaft of his manhood and lick and slurp like I’m eating a popsicle, savoring every drip drop. I swallow the present he gives me and come from under the table. I have this sheepish grin on my face. I passionately kiss him before taking a sip of water. I adjust my lipstick and my dress. I sit down beside him and let my fingers continue to tickle him. He’s still throbbing. I don’t even think he wants to stay here any longer. He smiles and says……

Exiled!

September 9th, 2011
2:48 pm

Fion!

:lol: ok bro

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:48 pm

Intermission joke for Celisea:

What do you call a bear with no teeth?

A gummy bear! (ba dum bum!)

I think it was Celisea talking about gummy bears being her favorite….

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
2:49 pm

Ok, forget what I just posted. Celisea, take over. Like SassyMe said, you ain’t no virgin!

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:51 pm

Yeah, Exiled. Can you and UGA hold down the noise back there.

LOL@Fion. Let the boys have fun. Heck, maybe you could buy them a round of to-kill-ya shots.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:53 pm

<——- virgin :oops:

For Real

September 9th, 2011
2:53 pm

“I need more practice (ahem) and reading before taking the reigns” – Giving Celisea some inspiration For Real is now standing in front of Celisea striking his Al Green pose from the cover of his greatest hits album.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/images/B000KP62H0/ref=dp_image_0?ie=UTF8&n=5174&s=music

For Real

September 9th, 2011
2:56 pm

REMIXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

I passionately TRIED TO kiss him before taking a sip of water. He evaded like a skilled fighter pilot.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
2:57 pm

Celisea: “I need more practice (ahem) and reading before taking the Purple reigns”

Me: “Go ahead and take them now, this is on the job training”

LOL

SexyCool

September 9th, 2011
2:59 pm

If his tongue is literally tickling my tonsils, he has too much of his tongue in my mouth and I will probably throw up. (lol)

But I do love a deep kiss.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
2:59 pm

For Real, you crack me up!! I’ve missed your posts.

How about a good Shelly story?

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
2:59 pm

Remixxx Continued…

“Girl you got me f’d up if you think im about to kiss you after you just swallowed my wang juice” (as I take that glass of water and pour it on her head) and say…”No I can throw you another mouth load or I can go visit that woman at the bar who asked to come over while she caught you giving me head”
LOL

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
3:00 pm

SexyCool it was not a tongue that was tickling the tonsils…..

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:01 pm

Sassy – After reading your (before the other ladies posted), I thought to myself, “Self, that Sassy know she’s got frass” LOL I don’t think I can top ya’lls post so Imma take a pass

Leggs – Green as a cucumber

PR – Stop it :evil: I have no thoughts…blank

ITL – Love the gummy bear joke

For Real – Diggin AL Green’s cover but not enough to be inspired to post sweet hot nuthings

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:03 pm

But I do love a deep kiss

Meeeee too. That will get the nether regions stirring for sure.

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
3:03 pm

If his tongue is literally tickling my tonsils

It wasn’t his tongue that was tickling the tonsils…all of this is happening under a table in a sectioned off portion of the back of a really upscale restaurant…on his birthday no doubt.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:04 pm

I think one of the guys should pick up the story baton….. I seem to recall some pretty steamy posts from the blog dudes…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:05 pm

@PR ~ you go sit in the corner.

For the record, I have kissed a man afterwards and he didn’t complain. Figured if I put that in there someone would object. As WillieD says to me, “predictable…”

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
3:06 pm

That will get the nether regions stirring for sure.

that and looong slow caresses here and there….

SexyCool

September 9th, 2011
3:06 pm

OH…eek…um…

And with that….I will exit stage left. Time to go let this dude named Chris put his hands all over me.

Y’all have a great weekend. Buh-Bye!!!

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:11 pm

Okay, so now I’m curious. Informal poll for the men of the blog:

Yes or no to kissing after a protein shake?

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
3:13 pm

Leggs, no man should taste his own juices…Double standard yes but thats the rules!

Oh and kissing a woman on the nape of her neck while caressing her hips to her breast in smooth motions while bring one hand down her abs to her golden spot will put an arch in her back.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:13 pm

@SC ~ you going to get a massage (LOLOLOL).

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
3:13 pm

“For the record, I have kissed a man afterwards and he didn’t complain.”

Leggs — See now, I don’t see what the big deal is, either. For the record, Leggs, if you want a kiss after you’ve serviced The Matterhorn, you can have one. As long as you swallow first. :lol:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:13 pm

@PR ~ I feel ya. I feel the same way with a man wanting to kiss me after he sucked on my honey pot!

For Real

September 9th, 2011
3:15 pm

ITL: I thought we agreed not to bring that up again. For Real now locking his office door just in case. Oh and ITL if the men pick it up from your post it was start like this “I couldn’t believe the skills that she possessed handling my love with such zest. Let me Zippppppp and see if she can handle the rest.” then it would end like this “OH MY DAYUM!!!! She ain’t got no tonsils!!! Imma bout to give her acid reflux disease”

Celisea: “not enough to be inspired to post sweet hot nuthings” – You ain’t doing it right! Play with my toco meat first and then pick the lent out of my naval and see what that does for you.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:15 pm

Thank you, swiss. Ummm, not thanking you for your matterhorn, just understanding. Exit, stage left….

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
3:15 pm

I ain’t touchin that one…

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:17 pm

Not me. I will kiss him ALL DAY after he’s shown me what cunning linguist he is. :)

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
3:17 pm

Play with my toco meat first and then pick the lent out of my naval and see what that does for you.

:shock:

Not the taco meat!…

:lol:

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:18 pm

Sorry, For Real….. :(

ITL, lip poking out, dragging her feet, sitting in timeout.

For Real

September 9th, 2011
3:21 pm

“For the record, I have kissed a man afterwards and he didn’t complain.” – I confess I am the dude Leggs kissed afterward and no I did not complain. Actually, that kiss cured my toco meat.

For Real now stroking his baby hair on his chest.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:22 pm

You are stoopid, ForReal! I’m shaking my head while laughing at you.

Fion

September 9th, 2011
3:24 pm

@ Celisea
Hold the phone. You are the main one hollin ’bout how BIG and BAD use is. GROWN and What not.
You need to come on with it or be relegated with title of fraud, fake, Hoodwinker and any othr title
I can think of between now and Groundhog day.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:26 pm

For Real – You ain’t doing it right! Play with my toco meat first and then pick the lent out of my naval and see what that does for you.

Ummm, I’m sooo not touching this.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:26 pm

For Real

September 9th, 2011
3:27 pm

“ITL, lip poking out, dragging her feet, sitting in timeout.” – See ladies that’s what the after-glow is like after having 17 seconds of mind blowing sex with For Real. ITL the feeling in your big toe will return don’t be scared.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:27 pm

Fion – You sound riled up my man. I can shake it down with the best of them. Don’t get fooled or get it twisted. :)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:27 pm

Man, we have gotten off the wonderful story. Thanks to PR.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:28 pm

Fion – You are the main one hollin ’bout how BIG and BAD use is. GROWN and What not. You need to come on with it

And as much as you hate to admit it, sounds like I have your buy-in :)

Fion

September 9th, 2011
3:30 pm

i really think you are just a lot of hot air.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:30 pm

Whew… for real, For Real! You are the man….. I can almost catch my breath….

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:33 pm

Fion – Okie dokie then. Outside of reading, I shole can’t prove it to you. You either have to take my word (like you been doing) and come to the conclusion tha I’m full of it.

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:34 pm

or come to the conclusion

Fion

September 9th, 2011
3:35 pm

Hey, hey. Put the razor blades down. This is only a Blog after all.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:36 pm

(humming a tune from West Side Story…..)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:37 pm

Which one, ITL…Jets and Sharks, or Office Crumbie, or Like a Rock in my Pocket (something like that), cuz it sho ain’t “I Feel Pretty.” :lol:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:38 pm

Officer Crumbie…

Fion

September 9th, 2011
3:39 pm

@Leggs

Say it ain’t so. You just had your “Get it Girl” shirtdress on yesterday.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:40 pm

Jets and Sharks, Leggs.

Here come the Jets
Like a bat out of hell.
Someone gets in our way,
Someone don’t feel so well!

..in honor of Celisea and Fion squaring off….

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
3:41 pm

Leggs, I just added to For Real’s story to take it more off topic.

And why won’t a lady taste her own juices? I like to watch her lick her juices off of me.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:41 pm

@Fion ~ HUH? Say what ain’t so???

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:42 pm

ITL – No fair (bottom lip out and arms folded), Fion came out of lurking and hit me from the side with a ton of bricks. Hey what can I say, I don’t wanna do Fun Friday (shrugs). I have nothing but blog love today :) Just reading and working :)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:43 pm

Ummmm, speaking of that PR, what makes a man think after he uses his finger she wants him to put it in her mouth. I recoiled the first time that was presented to me….ok, ok, TMI

Fion

September 9th, 2011
3:44 pm

@ Leggs

Nah, Nah. my bad I miss read ITL post. Hit send to quick.

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:45 pm

Awww…. Fion, can’t you and Celisea kiss and make up??? :)

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
3:46 pm

Nope. I was attacked…lol

Ya’ll gone and resume Freaky Friday. I’m sure I ain’t the only one lurking :)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:47 pm

Ok, I feel better now (lol).

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:47 pm

Not TMI, Leggs. Just your personal preference. Personally, I like it…..but that ain’t for every girl.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:48 pm

Anyone ready for part 5? Sassy Me, you want to do double duty since you seem to have the skills of a “Zane in training…”

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:49 pm

@ITL ~ I did say the “first time” it was presented. I believe many, many women tastes their own juices!

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
3:54 pm

HA! You said duty (doody). :lol:

Sorry, late in the day and punchy… need a drink. Sassy, pour us some lemon drops!! :)

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
3:56 pm

Legss, because they like it…or she and i both can lick my fingers after they have been in her :)

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
3:57 pm

@PR, they like it because it turns HIM ON….

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:00 pm

He smiles and says……

My mind is racing with what I’m going to do to you once we leave this restaurant. You had my eyes rolling to the back of my head, next go around I will…..

Fellas, you guys take it over.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:04 pm

TwinGems

September 9th, 2011
4:08 pm

he smiles and says…

get up….

I stand and he turns me around and slips his hand up my dress to feel my excitement. He slides the dress up slightly and bends me over the table. He enters me and I moan. He takes slow strokes and I get more excited with every thrust. He begins to moan and we are in rhythm with each other. We try not to make much noise behind the curtain, but …he goes faster and I push back into him to go deeper and ….

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
4:09 pm

C’mon FEEON!!! (Fion)…let’s see what you got!!! I’m waiting on this.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:11 pm

Dang TwinGems, you are in a restaurant. That’s mighty risky and HOT! Way to go…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
4:12 pm

My man was sooo turned on he didn’t want to eat dinner…I wanna eat you instead he huskily whispered in my ear. He threw a few dollars on the table and snatched me outta there like lightening. I’d reserved a special suite at the W so we headed there…on the way there I popped in an Isley Brothers cd and ever so gently slid my hands up his thigh and right to the pulsating prize I was going to win for a second time tonight. Almost ferociously, I unziiiped his trousers and devoured him…once again letting him “tickle my tonsils” and I felt the car swirve a little. Before I could go any further…there we were at the W damn near running to our suite.

We acted like animals on the elevator and barely made it to our room…AS SOON AS we entered the room he pulled my skirt up and pulled my thongs off so fast n hard he kinda tore it, “Don’t worry I’ll buy you plenty more tomorrow” and licked n slurped on my sticky sweetness until I wanted to cry but he said, “Uh huh, I ain’t done with that a$$ yet, come here”….

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:15 pm

@ ITL
yeah, I know deeeeep down inside she thinks about ‘Fion” mandigo. .

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
4:15 pm

“I’d reserved a special suite at the W so we headed there”

Um… if ya’ll are at the W, you might want to make a point not to f#ck up against the window. Just sayin’… :lol:

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
4:16 pm

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:18 pm

@SassyMe ~ pulled my skirt up and pulled my thongs off….first, she’s wearing a dress and secondly, how many thongs do you wear at one time (lol)…couldn’t resist.

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:18 pm

Swiss, you sick man. Now, that was funny.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:20 pm

true, swiss, true!

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
4:26 pm

you might want to make a point not to f#ck up against the window.

That heightens the experience…hell they can’t get in so umm…

My bad Leggs, when you asked if I wanted to do a double I went in(hard n low)…sorry

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:26 pm

Ok, folks thanks for the laughs it’s been real.

“Oscar de la Renta”

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
4:27 pm

come here….

he kisses me passionately as we stumble toward the bed…both so lost in the moment we are disoriented. I feel the hard surface of the desk underneath me, and know that will have to do… Perching on the edge, one leg wrapped around his waist, the other in on the arm of the chair I pull him to me… he slips inside like it was made for him…long and slow strokes that deepen and quicken as he pulls my hair back to bare my neck….devouring my neck, my shoulder, as he hammers his love into me….I’m so close, I can’t hold on…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:27 pm

Can someone provide an ending so I can re-post as a continuous storyline?

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
4:27 pm

Soo….one of the guys gonna finish it off?!?!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:28 pm

Ut oh, ITL is getting her groove on…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
4:28 pm

Niiice ITL..

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
4:29 pm

I almost finished it…. :oops:

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:29 pm

“I went in(hard n low)…”

No sweat (lol).

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:30 pm

Come on fellas, end the story for us.

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:33 pm

Her body shook as she reached orgasm after orgasm from the penetration of his thrusts. She could feel the firmness and width of his shaft as he drove deeper and deeper inside her vaginal walls

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
4:36 pm

just…dayum… need a glass of cold water.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:36 pm

Leggs hush! Sassy is speaking! Continue please Sassy I am almost there…….

Into the Light

September 9th, 2011
4:38 pm

LOL@PR.

Y’all have a good weekend!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:38 pm

That’s good, Fion. Just a little more to really end it. It’s open-ended right now.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:38 pm

I came all over her back and then I whispered in her ear “Bring me a washcloth and make me a sandwich with extra mustard and mayo”

END OF STORY!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:39 pm

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:39 pm

Wasn’t laughing at your End of Story. Was laughing at you telling me to hush so you can hear SassyMe!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:40 pm

Dinner Date

I was pleasantly surprised when I arrived home from work there was a msg on my answering machine telling me about our date this evening and how excited he is. I knew the restaurant well we were going to so I had to pick out the perfect outfit. After I showered, I lotioned my body down with his favorite scented lotion, I looked in the mirror and noticed the smirk on my face. I walk to the closet to get out my slinky, buttoned down lavender spaghetti strapped dress. Oh, I just know his eyes will pop when he sees me slinking in in this dress. I arrive at the restaurant 10 mins early to ensure I have the booth I wanted. The booth with drapers are especially private. He arrives and greets with with a nice kiss. But, since it’s his bday, I want to give him one of his gifts early. I ask him to sit down. I close the drapes and go under the table (so glad this table cloth covers me). He’s not stopping me, as a matter of fact, he’s…….

Gently easing his zipper down, helping me get to what I really want. I gently massage the smooth shaft his swelling manhood and gently brush my lips against the head…I do this again and feel him squirm a little and I smile wickedly as I grow bolder. While massaging his twin jewels I took him in my mouth slooooowly and methodically savoring his aroma and sweet taste. When I reach the base I let go of his jewels and went in for a good tonsil tickling deep throat…he almost knocked the table over. I thought he’d want me to stop but…

the gentle pressure of his hand on the back of my head shows me otherwise. Holding his firmness in my hand, I lean into him again. I hear a tap on the drapes and “Ahem” when the waiter approaches. My body immediately stiffens up, the thrill of what we’re doing and the fear of being caught have the adrenaline surging through me. The waiter asks, “Does the lady wish a co*cktail?” I throw my hand over my mouth to stifle my laughter. He hems and haws but finally manages to stutter, “She’s in the restroom, I’ll ask when she returns!” The waiter leaves. I look up at him, more turned on than before, and licking my lips, I……

don’t want to stop, but I know I can’t stay under this table the entire evening. I greedily take the shaft of his manhood and lick and slurp like I’m eating a popsicle, savoring every drip drop. I swallow the present he gives me and come from under the table. I have this sheepish grin on my face. I passionately kiss him before taking a sip of water. I adjust my lipstick and my dress. I sit down beside him and let my fingers continue to tickle him. He’s still throbbing. I don’t even think he wants to stay here any longer. He smiles and says……

get up….

I stand and he turns me around and slips his hand up my dress to feel my excitement. He slides the dress up slightly and bends me over the table. He enters me and I moan. He takes slow strokes and I get more excited with every thrust. He begins to moan and we are in rhythm with each other. We try not to make much noise behind the curtain, but …he goes faster and I push back into him to go deeper and ….

My man was sooo turned on he didn’t want to eat dinner…I wanna eat you instead he huskily whispered in my ear. He threw a few dollars on the table and snatched me outta there like lightening. I’d reserved a special suite at the W so we headed there…on the way there I popped in an Isley Brothers cd and ever so gently slid my hands up his thigh and right to the pulsating prize I was going to win for a second time tonight. Almost ferociously, I unzipped his trousers and devoured him…once again letting him “tickle my tonsils” and I felt the car swerve a little. Before I could go any further…there we were at the W damn near running to our suite.

We acted like animals on the elevator and barely made it to our room…AS SOON AS we entered the room he pulled my skirt up and pulled my thongs off so fast n hard he kinda tore it, “Don’t worry I’ll buy you plenty more tomorrow” and licked n slurped on my sticky sweetness until I wanted to cry but he said, “Uh huh, I ain’t done with that a$$ yet, come here”….

he kisses me passionately as we stumble toward the bed…both so lost in the moment we are disoriented. I feel the hard surface of the desk underneath me, and know that will have to do… Perching on the edge, one leg wrapped around his waist, the other in on the arm of the chair I pull him to me… he slips inside like it was made for him…long and slow strokes that deepen and quicken as he pulls my hair back to bare my neck….devouring my neck, my shoulder, as he hammers his love into me….I’m so close, I can’t hold on…

Her body shook as she reached orgasm after orgasm from the penetration of his thrusts. She could feel the firmness and width of his shaft as he drove deeper and deeper inside her vaginal walls.

I came all over her back and then I whispered in her ear “Bring me a washcloth and make me a sandwich with extra mustard and mayo”

END OF STORY

Damn, he snatched us back to reality with the quickness!!!

czBrat

September 9th, 2011
4:41 pm

just as i’m wondering what to do with my 20 minutes of unsupervised end-of-week idle time, i pop in on a blog filthfest.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:42 pm

That’s just how I roll, there is a price for all of that pleasure I gave her….usually the price is just a sandwich and a beer

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:43 pm

Yeah CanalZone, I know this is offensive to your uptight virgin eyes. WHy don’t you tell us what gets your lava flowing?

Button

September 9th, 2011
4:43 pm

checking my browser to see if I stumbled upon harlequinromance.com
I need to find a fan to cool down….freaky frisky friday :lol:

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
4:44 pm

Mmm mmm, we need to find a sponsor and get ya’ll in the business

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:47 pm

I have copies of all our stories in a special folder. If anyone needs a copy, let me know ($5.99) each storyline!

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:47 pm

Celisea, the story is not to be told nor sold. LOL

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:49 pm

Nix the $5.99….(yikes)

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
4:50 pm

PR – Why not? I see a lot of potential :)

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:52 pm

@Purp
hold on now. Celisea, what kind of $$$$ you talkin ’bout.

Fion

September 9th, 2011
4:53 pm

You can’t buy me, but you can lease me out for a while.

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:53 pm

Celisea, quick question are you buying a copy? If not you need to add to the story if you want to share in the profits.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:54 pm

There are many parts I liked, but I especially liked the sentiment behind this one :arrow: I feel the hard surface of the desk underneath me, and know that will have to do…

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:54 pm

Fion, what’s with you pushing all up on Celisea today?

BLOG BEEF!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:55 pm

The urgency is exhilarating.

Ummm ummm, is the story over? Oops as I slink back to my corner with this cloth to soak up the sweat of by brow…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
4:56 pm

Whew….I’m exhuasted ;-)

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
4:57 pm

Sassy, let it marinate and tingle for awhile!

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
4:58 pm

I need 3 cigarettes…

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
5:00 pm

Marinate and tingle my a**…all of this right before a Kem concert is trouble…

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
5:00 pm

I’m going to turn over and go to sleep…I’m spent!!

Nite!

Have a great weekend.

Leggs

September 9th, 2011
5:01 pm

Well, Sassy, where we left off, Kem will carry the torch. I feel sorry for whoever you get with this evening! :lol: :lol:

Purple Reign

September 9th, 2011
5:02 pm

Is the island guy in town? If not keep that energy inside.

i'm swiss™

September 9th, 2011
5:02 pm

“Marinate and tingle my a**”

Sassy — Yes, let that marinate & tingle, too. :lol:

Celisea

September 9th, 2011
5:03 pm

Fion – Celisea, what kind of $$$$ you talkin ’bout.

Enough to keep you skipping.

PR – Celisea, quick question are you buying a copy? If not you need to add to the story if you want to share in the profits.

Imma own the rights, no copies :)

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
5:03 pm

Wonder if there were any blog-gasms from all of this virtual fell.a.tio :lol:

I’m out y’all. This was great as usual!!!

Sassy Me...In it to Win it ;-)

September 9th, 2011
5:04 pm

let that marinate & tingle, too

Only you Swiss…only you :lol: