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Would you relocate for love?

Listen, I’m a hopeless romantic as much as the next girl, but I don’t know how far I would go for love. For instance, could I move cross country? I just read one woman’s leap of faith that landed her across the country, without a job, or a place to live!

While it is easy to say that is something that could never happen to me, I actually admire the courage someone has to relocate. Taking a chance on love is already risky business! Would you be willing to rearrange your life and move to another city?

Things may not have worked out for the young lady, but at least she can say that she tried. That’s more than some of us ever do, really. What are you willing to risk for love?

Have you ever moved to another country or city to be with someone? Would you consider it at all?
Would you ask someone you were seeing to move with you? How serious would your relationship need to be, do you think?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

275 comments Add your comment

SexyCool

August 30th, 2011
4:05 pm

Naw…most people I know don’t go into the military for the sole purpose of protecting America. They go because they need a job and an opportunity to advance.

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:05 pm

Weekly Reader – You’re comparing apples to oranges.

Blacks folks couldn’t a dang thing. Nothing…voting, taking the front entrace, riding the front of the bus, yassuh and nawsuh, couldn’t vote, could disagree with whites..and more..without ramifications. What laws were broken to walk in the front door of an establishment. Seriously. Blacks held and regarded as subserviant, women used, beat for the attempt of freedom, sold and bought like animals.

Now you want to compare gays rights???? What rights?? Not the same. You can go where you want, eat what you want, buy what you want, vote how you want, say what you want, live where you want, so forth and so on.

For my personal preference to be whether or not to see man on man go at is also within my rights. I can opt to see or not. To push a certain behavior down someone’s throat that shouldn’t have to swallow (no pun intended) is not the same.

I’m not going to be politically correct. Put it together. Intimacy is face to face from start to finish, fits naturally like a puzzle. From kissing to orgasims. Hard leggs is to soft leggs as p@nis is to puddy. Naturally fit, natural actions and reactions.

Every hole on or in the body serve it’s purpose. The mouth for eating (no pun intended), the nose for breathing, the ears for hearing, the v@gina having babies, the butthole for excretions.

If you opt to use any body openings it for something other than it’s intended purpose, well should clearly indicative that the ying ain’t getting placed to the yang. Man and woman both have one sex organ. Two penis skews the equation of 1 + 1 = 2. Woman with a strap-on is out of sync. What you need to find pleasure is there already. A man using his hole for excretions don’t add up. Both are out of sync with nature and the intended purpose. A man can NEVER have a baby so how natural is it for him to receive sperm or seman.

If God’s creation alone ain’t example enough for understanding it ain’t about rights but about seeing the unnatural then deductive reasoning and examples should get you there…in understanding how someone could be resistant to accepting something or a way of life that’s out of sync with nature and the natural.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:08 pm

Hey Weekly, I am not black and I am not white either. And you can have your opinion as I have mine. I am thankful for his service but his military service even if and when the accept gays…they will never be fully accepted in the rank and file just like in society now…they will never fully be accepted. People can live how they want to live but they should know what they are up against when they make a choice. I’ve heard some racist admit to rather having a minority president rather than a gay/lesb one.

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:09 pm

Never said “sole purpose.” But some do go to protect America. No doubt many are there because it’s better than going to jail, family booted them out, or they need money for college. There’s a whole slew of reasons for entering the military…all of which I could never do so I salute them.

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:10 pm

Good post Jake

Weekly Reader is probably UGAman

Weekly Reader

August 30th, 2011
4:10 pm

P. Reign… Really??? See this is the kind of mindset that we should all be fighting against…. its that type of hatred and ignorance that allows bigotry to still thrive in our society today…. Purple…I gotta ask.. Why so angry??? Did a gay dude make you question yourself????

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 30th, 2011
4:10 pm

Afternoon All!

Jake – I had an entire post typed out and it damn near mirrored your 4:02. So I’ll just co-sign….

On the main topic: as someone said earlier ( I was speed reading so forgive me), i would relocate for marriage, my husband. Not for a boyfriend.

SCool – phone mail chica!

cba

August 30th, 2011
4:12 pm

Celisea I hope you feel better. That was alot to get off your chest j/k I enjoyed reading it.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:14 pm

Weekly if you knew how to read you would have read that I have no problem with gay they can do what they want to do, just don’t expect the world to bend because they made a choice. You can call me what you want or think what you want but I am comfortable with my opinion and I won’t get all caught up in emotion while stating them. You might want to check and see if you were really “born straight” because you are sounding really moist right now.

Leggs, everyone who joins the military did not do so to defend our country, some of them had no other options. But like I typed earlier I am thankful for his service.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:16 pm

Side note: Celisea typed puddy and p@nis..wow Okay back to the program.

SexyCool

August 30th, 2011
4:17 pm

Purp – what you said is no different than the point that I have made on more than one occasion this afternoon.

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:17 pm

Weekly?

Your bro ever tried female pink tail?

what does he say to u about that,why is it not tasty, like it is to us, normal heterosexuals?

Weekly Reader

August 30th, 2011
4:18 pm

Celisea…I am not making reference to religion… If I did that i would have to start to talk about all of the lies that are told in the church everyday… I am talking about basic rights as an American…. You worship how and where you chose… just make sure the PREACHER is not Fugging boys or in the closet or beating the hell out of his wife or robbing the community…. I simply stated that as a gay person My brother should be afforded teh same rights that everyone else has nothing more and nothing less… Whats wrong with that????

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:18 pm

@PR ~ I’ve acknowledged that.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:18 pm

@ Weekly…I agree that your brother was treated unfairly. When I was in the Army there was fear of being “in a foxhole” with a gay (or a woman for that matter) and that has certainly changed with the changes in society. Now I suspect most don’t care as long as they know that guy next to them is covering their backs. The bias lies more with older Americans than the new recruits (as does racial bias largely for that matter). Change AND acceptance takes time. It think that if there is resistance it is caused by the speed at which the gay community has ppushed it’s agenda. My take.

To make this slightly lighter, I remember when gay rights started getting big in the 80s and gay marriage and civli unions were being discussed, thinking that if gays want marriage, then they also have to face the same lawyers and write just as big a checks in their divorces. At the end of the day, all I ask is that whatever one’s agenda, just don’t bother me with it, okay.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:18 pm

(pointing at my eyes then to Sexy Cool’s eyes) We are here! Must be because we are runners. LOL

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:19 pm

@Ex ~ hush, it’s not even tasty to you…what cha talking bout Willis?

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:21 pm

Okay Leggs your 4:19 was funny.

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:21 pm

cba – That wasn’t a vent….I was just saying. I didn’t see the need to be all eloquent as it just makes sense. Well, wait to some of us not all. I agree though. I can’t help being black and who I am and I certainly can’t change history….although we are all acutely aware. I’m sick of hearing folks talking about homophobic. Do you and K.I.M. Folks make choices all the time, just be prepared to live with what you decided. Whether it’s a bad choice in the opposite sex and the drama that comes with or same sex and the drama that comes with. I have no empathy or sympathy as it’s not something God created nor intended. If you want to like the same sex…just say it and do you but don’t blame God or nature. And don’t blame the world for not accepting. No difference, IMO of society accepting a man that brings a woman down or vice versa. Everybody will speak to it, pass opinions on it, say it couldn’t be them…..but it’s the victim that will have to leave with a poor choice or the consequences that could result. But they certainly can’t blame the world.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:22 pm

I doubt Weekly is UGA, UGA would have made some pointed comments that involved the AA commmunity and President Obama by now.

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:22 pm

I think it’s fair to say gay is unnatural?

u getting some rights but it ain’t normal

No argument there!

@Randyt,the ladies wldnt answer my anal qstions.

I’ll assume the answer fir them, then.

It’s an uncomfortable question to them I guess!

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:23 pm

Leggs, I munch on Queen.

Not a natural but I try!

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:24 pm

Weekly Reader – I simply stated that as a gay person My brother should be afforded teh same rights that everyone else has nothing more and nothing less… Whats wrong with that????

Your brother is getting the same rights. Just not acceptance of his lifestyle. Right Lifestyle….Right Lifestyle….Rights Lifestyle. Naaah those are two different things.

Hush PR

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:25 pm

I was being funny PR. Why do folks chose to come him and combat racism. We’re all in the majority and those the nonblack regulars seem to be okay here too.

Ain’t it a blog or website for venting about racism?

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:26 pm

And Weekly Reader, any pastor, preacher, minister, priest molesting any sex should be fried…no doubt.

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

August 30th, 2011
4:29 pm

Hey Mo, how are you pretty lady?

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:29 pm

Off topic. I am…oh never mind, TMI. Sometimes those things one has to leave behind while traveling are missed more than others, and I’m missing some things lol.

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:29 pm

Munching and liking to munch is not the same. You gave the impression, at least to me, it’s more obligatory than anything else. If you had your druthers, you would never do it. That’s what I got.

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:30 pm

Celisea, I know. I’m just “passin” for whatever group is in the majority on a given day. LOL

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:31 pm

Weekly?

On the flip side,if some of these men wanna hit other men,it’s their choice,that leaves us heteros with even more femail tail!

Fellas,?,that ain’t a bad thing! :lol:

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:32 pm

PR – Some folks are just a good fit…nothing to do with color

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:33 pm

Leggs,for ur info,my Wang has a taste feel.

I got taste buds on that tip!

No wonder head tastes so good! :lol:

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 30th, 2011
4:35 pm

Im good Jake, whats good with you?

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

August 30th, 2011
4:35 pm

Enter your comments here

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:35 pm

Well I think today was a civil conversation without any personal attacks…well almost.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:36 pm

Exiled, are you saying you are the ‘taster’, the ‘tastee’ or my personal favorite ‘both’?

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

August 30th, 2011
4:37 pm

I’m good just tryin to get some straightnin it this thang today…lol

Saywhat

August 30th, 2011
4:38 pm

Absolutely not…without marriage first!

Purple Reign

August 30th, 2011
4:38 pm

Anyone heard from Raqi, AmazonRed or For Real?

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:39 pm

Whatever, Ex. You can’t skirt around that one. Dress it up anyway you like, I already know the real deal.

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

August 30th, 2011
4:39 pm

Exiled..its good for the fellas unless you have turned in your player card already.

Exiled!

August 30th, 2011
4:39 pm

Randyt?

I do taste, dually!(mouth and Wang)

Both limbs can feel

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:40 pm

I think of Raqi often, but haven’t heard from her or any of the others. Well, ForReal will never contact me, but ARed will pop in every so often (lol).

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:40 pm

Now Leggs, what are you suggesting about Exiled?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 30th, 2011
4:40 pm

Jake – LOL! I see! Its a lil heavy in here this afternoon! I was ready to speed-read and get my laugh on! Gwine on and handle it then pimpin! :smile:

Leggs – LOL!

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:41 pm

Gotcha Me….low. All is good.

Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-Shirts)

August 30th, 2011
4:43 pm

Ladies, this is really personal and I truly apologize, but have you ever cut yourself while shaving…? How long did ‘it’ take to heal?

Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB

August 30th, 2011
4:44 pm

Mo…I figured it had been a while since you heard that phrase….lol

Leggs

August 30th, 2011
4:45 pm

@RandyT ~ :lol: Not suggesting anything. He told us he would prefer not to taste. He doesn’t care to munch. He only does, every so often, because he knows his wife likes it, but he doesn’t care for it.

Celisea

August 30th, 2011
4:45 pm

Randyt – Not sure what area you’re referencing but when I first started shaving under my arms I would cut myself. I can do it like a pro and in my sleep. Usually though I’d put vaseline or neosporin on the cut…healed in no time or at least the pain of the initial cut was soon gone.