It’s not the kind of thing you really want to talk about on the very first date. Your sexual activity..or lack thereof, shouldn’t be a focal point when you are just getting to know somebody. At least, that has always been my opinion.
My guy friend disagrees. He thinks before one date is planned, a guy deserves to know if he is interested in someone who is abstinent. Apparently, this would “change the game” and a lot of men should be able to make an informed decision.
I would argue, though, how much information should be shared that quickly? I mean, unless that is the only thing you are really interested in anyway?
Should you clue your date in about your celibacy? Is it anyone’s business if you are not in a relationship with them?
How do you tell someone you are abstaining? What do you say and when?
Should you be able to inquire about their sexual habits, i.e. the number of partners, etc.?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog