First Dates: Clothes and Conversations
One of my guy friends had a first date with a young lady last weekend. He met her at a religious function so he was a bit taken aback at how she was when they went out. Apparently, she was dressed provocatively, something he thought inappropriate for someone her age (ouch?), especially on a first date.
He went on describe the way she used profanity, made several sexual remarks, and pretty much made him blush. Admittedly, my friend is super conservative and in my opinion high strung. However, the fact that he expected someone he met at a religious function to behave in a certain way, isn’t completely unreasonable. At the same time, are first date impressions reliable?
I do have to wonder, though, if we often meet people and have some preconceived ideas of how they should act or behave. Was the young lady projecting one image, yet behaved in a way that contradicted that? Perhaps, she was. However, should she get ruled out by the first date clothes and conversation?
Do you think we should judge a book by its cover and the first few pages of the book? If you were bothered the way someone behaved on the first date, do you grant a second one?
Do you ever think about the way dress on a first date? Are you careful about what you discuss or talk about?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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DreamsMaterialize
August 24th, 2011
7:58 am
So is she supposed to dress like Little House on the Prairie just because she goes to church? I don’t think she’s being misleading. Your attire changes based on the occasion. The way you dress for church is often different than how you dress for a date. I think Wise’s friend is the one with the hang-up. He’s projecting his own limited idea of “church girl” onto her. He should do her a favor and cut her loose.
joe
August 24th, 2011
8:09 am
Sounds like the real question here is if the girl is just going to church to self-cleanse her non-church lifestyle/image? I’m just sayin’…
dyslexicbunny
August 24th, 2011
8:13 am
Her age? Unless she’s a child, she’s more than welcome to dress how she wants. And church isn’t quite what it used to be anymore. Your friend is the problem. Have him send her my way. She sounds interesting.
As for your first date questions, I’m a donkey most of the time. I haven’t dated in years – not worth it trying to pretend I’m not.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
8:31 am
Good morning, all.
Maybe Wise’s friend is a little “high strung” and what he thought was provacative, the girl thought was sexy. But the real issue for me is not the clothes, it’s the conversation. I know a lot of bloggers will disagree with me, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect someone you meet at church to conduct themselves a certain way (i.e. not cursing like a sailor and finding sexual innuendo in every statement). And I’d imagine she was just as disappointed and probably went home and told her girlfriends he was stuffy and uptight.
If I were either one of them, I’d make this first date the last.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
8:43 am
Good morning.
He’s somewhat at fault to think because he met someone at a church function she’s a prude and dresses like a nun. Nothing wrong with him being turned off because of the cussing, but like ITL says, what he thought was provocative may have been sexy in her eyes. However, pretty sure she spoke with him enough before he asked her out to gauge his staunciness, his ultra conservative mindset, etc.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
9:01 am
Oh, sexual remarks should not be made on a first date. JMO
Yes, I’m concerned about how I dress on a first date. I dress for myself, the tone of the evening, and venue. Don’t want to wear spike heels to a picnic.
"and pretty much made him blush"...
August 24th, 2011
9:06 am
…things that make you go “huh”…how can you tell when a black man/woman is blushing?
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
9:09 am
We may not turn “red” in the face, but you can tell when we are blushing. The shyness comes across in the eyes, we hem and haw, you can feel the uncomfortableness. Blushing doesn’t necessarily rests on one’s face turning red!!!
Harder...please.
August 24th, 2011
9:17 am
Every time I leave my house, I want to look impeccable. Even if I’m going to the grocery store for milk. That doesn’t mean always wearing expensive clothes, either.
Also, I’ve got one word for ANYONE who uses profanity on a first date: Classless.
Casual Observer
August 24th, 2011
9:24 am
Morning folks…
Ok now, we all know that the church is chocked full of people living double lives…Plenty of first pew women doing the “Wobble” and adding their own little freak moves at Compound on Saturday night,……The fact that he is claiming to be surprised is …well…… Funny to me……
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
9:32 am
My closest friend joined a group called “Equally Yoked”…a dating service where Christian singles met and dated other Christian singles who took their religion very seriously. He started dating this lady who had more curves than that highway in California running along the coast. The first evening out she wanted to play some “dirty word” game. The second night out, she goes into the bedroom and comes out with an outfit on that would make dancer at the Gold Club proud. From the first date it was not “if” but “when” and how freaky.
His take was that no matter what the venue, crazies find their way in. Not all, but you will run into some.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
9:37 am
At the end of the day, dating is a screening process…we look, evaluate, and decide. For a man though, sometimes the difficult part is when the lady wants to right then, and you are stuck with the dilemma of, “I’m not exactly ready for this, but I don’t want her to think I’m light in the sandals”.
Casual Observer
August 24th, 2011
9:44 am
Soooooo Randy, tell us more about this “Equally Stroked” group…..
Mr_NYC
August 24th, 2011
9:53 am
Not sure what the issue is — proper attire for the occasion.
On the church note – have you seen how some of the churched up gospel singing women dress. Ok then.
IMHO, some of the most sexually open down for the get down women I’ve met online had profiles that started with how much they love the Lord etc.
Yes, they need to be as equally stroked as the next woman.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
9:59 am
@NYC ~ I can’t imagine being on an online dating service stating up front “I love the Lord,” unless I am strictly on a Christian dating site.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
10:03 am
Why is it that we’ve come to the point where some do not know how to dress on a first date. What happened to simply dressing respectful. No booty shorts, no low cleavage blouses, no heavy makeup and for the love of everything sacred NO BLUE EYE SHADOW!
czBrat
August 24th, 2011
10:05 am
HiYas!
i set my expectations on how one dresses and behaves based more on age than how or where we met. i would just find it tacky for a 40-50 something to overexpose themselves and use explicit language. those habits are best left behind in our 20s.
having said that you should most certainly expect to find some crude, freaky folk at church. as much as any club, really.
Mr_NYC
August 24th, 2011
10:05 am
@Leggs – for real on BPM and BS, 7 out of 10 start with that refrain. And then with their uptight demand that any fella even saying hello must love the Lord and be ready to escort her to the chosen place of worship and regularly attend services.
Now here’s the kicker — wait for it — moving onto the profile photos which show same said woman stretched out provocatively in various poses in the bedroom, leaning over counters, and pushing up against the walls with the come get me look.
Well the good book does say that you should render the marital due LOL
She be ready.
SlimUno
August 24th, 2011
10:06 am
Excessive profanity on date one or date 30 is a turn off to me. There’s a customer that comes every week and every 3rd word is a curse word.
Mr_NYC
August 24th, 2011
10:07 am
And for that matter, if you are on a Christian dating site, then it should go without saying that you love the Lord.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:08 am
Blue eye shadow! That made me LOL. I remember when blue mascara was all the rage….Of course, we were also using phrases like, “Like, totally!” and “Grody to the max!”
Yes (head hung low), I went through the valley girl phase…..
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
10:11 am
Unreal, NYC. I would never post pics like that on a dating profile. Don’t these women realize that when a man sees pics like that, he believes she’s saying I want you to do me ASAP. Sheesh. Now, that’s crude and rude and lessens her chances of being taken seriously.
TenderRoni
August 24th, 2011
10:14 am
I know plenty of men and women that act one way on “Sunday”, but come Monday- Saturday it’s anything goes.
I think for this situation, it just wasn’t a match. I mean did they not talk to each other before the date, they being surprised about convo I don’t get.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:15 am
Excessive profanity on date one or date 30 is a turn off to me
Worth repeating…..
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
10:15 am
Never heard “Grody to the max!” What does that mean?
@NYC ~ you would think that. Also men and women both can frequent Christian dating sites looking for that wolf in sheep cloth.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:15 am
If I am dressed like a cop you are going to think I’m a cop. If you are dressed like a whore I am going to think you are a whore. Seriously though just because a person wears certain clothes does not mean that they are what YOU think they are. You are just assuming what YOU would be if YOU wore something like that. LOL
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
10:17 am
@TenderRoni ~ I said the same about talking with each other BEFORE the first date. Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmm…..
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:19 am
If you are at Church during normal service and paying attention to the people instead of the sermon, you might want to change your focus. But some people want to interpret the whole “come as you are” to their own standard. Who am I to judge….lol If I see a nice shape or some nice tittay’s in church I just thank the Lord for his wonderful creations. LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:19 am
LOL. It means really gross, Leggs.
What can I say? I was a child of the 80’s….
Speaking of generations gone by, did y’all see the Old Navy commercial for “flares”??? They can call them flares, but some of them were bell bottoms!
Mr_NYC
August 24th, 2011
10:20 am
What’s good Purp — hey you see that on a Dave Chapelle skit.
He goes up to scantily clad chick and she says just because I’m dressed this way don’t mean I a ho. So he says if you are being robbed and I have a cop uniform on I might say to you just because I’m dressed this way don’t mean I’m a cop. So he tells chick, you may not be a ho, but you sure are wearing a ho’s uniform.
czBrat
August 24th, 2011
10:21 am
ITL, i did the blue (and hot pink) eyeshadows in my day. luved it! always reminds me of WHAM!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:21 am
LOL@Grody to the Max. I haven’t heard that in a longtime.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:21 am
Mr_NYC, LOL yes I saw it. LOL
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:23 am
I am a firm believer that if someone works out hard and maintains a good shape there is nothing wrong with showing it off. LOL
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:24 am
Like Proffessor Klump when he lost that weight…SPANDEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:24 am
Wake me up, before you go go……
czB, did you have one of those shirts that said, “Frankie say relax” in big letters????
Yeah, Purp, that was “back in the day”…..
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:26 am
Always be yourself, unless you can be a penguin. Then always be a penguin.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:27 am
Purp, that made me giggle. I don’t think I want to be a penguin, though…not a fan of cold water.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
10:32 am
Got to go get dress. Hope all of you enjoy the rest of the day. If I try to blog while curling my hair, pretty sure I’ll wind up with a burn on my forehead or my ears.
Ciao bella!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
10:35 am
ITL, there are warm water penguins.
Leggs, where are you going?
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:37 am
pretty sure I’ll wind up with a burn on my forehead or my ears.
Any of the blog ladies ever try to use the “i burned myself with the curling iron” excuse for a hickey/passion mark? I had a friend in HS that used to try that one on her mom…yeah, didn’t work.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
10:40 am
Hmmmm, if I can be a warm water penguin with a little sashay instead of that unfortunate waddle, I might consider it….
I am in such a silly mood this morning. And czB, you have Wham stuck in my head. Thanks, girl!!
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
10:40 am
I know that many on this blog have bad experiences from Internet dating sites, but one of the reasons I like them is that if one waits a bit and communicates a bit by email, BEFORE asking the “what a knockout” out, one can do a little bit of screening. The pictures give the “possible” looks, but if one is paying attention to the emails and a phone call or two, one can cut some of the nutcases out before investing an evening. Not a perfect science, some slip thru and you probably miss some good ones occasionally…but it is all in the screening.
czBrat
August 24th, 2011
10:44 am
randy, that’s the way i handled the online dating thing. as a matter of fact, i did a LOT of chat/email with dudes without ever meeting in person. s/o is the only one i agreed to meet. and that was after about 2-3 months of constant net/phone convo. he has told me some absolute horror stories about the chicks he met from online dating sites.
ITL, i had a neon green sweatshirt that said NOW! in dayglo white letters. (and matching socks of course)
you couldn’t tell me nothin!
czBrat
August 24th, 2011
10:57 am
gotta get out and tour some properties.
ya’ll be good. ciao!
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
10:58 am
Morning All!
Here are my opinions on topic:
1. It’s amazing how some otherwise intelligent people do not get that a person’s church or work style of dress and persona may be quite different than what they are when dating/hanging out! I remember early after college, I came to work at a bank dressed extremely conservative and professional and my attitude was pleasant but all business. I made a few cool friends and we hit up a few happy hours after work and clubs on the weekend. A few were taken aback when I actually ordered an alcoholic beverage at happy hour! And I came to the club dressed classy but fun & sexy! Duh!!! Same goes with church! Just because you met someone at church, don’t think their clothing and persona are going to stay at church once they leave! Yes, I would expect their general moral makeup to reflect that they are at least listening and learning at church, but beyond that – sounds like dude is probably a stick-in-the-mud!!!
2. Again, dude is probably a dud. While I don’t condone cursing every other word or dressing like a skank, I bet he exaggerated the whole thing. I’m sure he’ll be able to find an Amish woman that will fit the bill!
3. Yeah, if the first date was THAT bad to you, why do you need to plan a 2nd? That’s that tired “give him/her a chance” mess when you know coming out of the gate it’s not going to work. Why waste each other’s time? But you have to go with your gut – if you think a person was just nervous and got off to a rough start but you sense they are still a cool person worth getting to know, by all means, give it another shot!
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
11:04 am
Good morning!
She was dressed provocatively then used profanity!
What more do u need to know what type of chic she is?
Can we all say Cobwebs!!
I can’t blame it on the guy here.
Now,if it was just the dressing but her first date convo was spot on,I wld have cut her some slack!
Too bad,horny home girl was in the hands of a church dude!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:07 am
Yep that guy sounds kind of moist to even be complaining about it.
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
August 24th, 2011
11:12 am
You know people go to church looking for that “Good Church Girl or Guy”! But sadly you are misinformed about “holy folks”. In a lot of their cases, the only thing that is holy are the holes in their “I’m a good girl/boy” story! Beware of that guy quoting scripture…even satan goes to church. He goes to collect cell numbers so he can text folks, “see you soon”!
As far as dressing….no matter what you wear, dudes will have XRay vision. Or they will have the runaway imagination. I get judged from jump!
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
11:14 am
Exiled – Part of me agrees with you. But I’m taking into account that Wise said he’s “super conservative”. Which means he may have been exaggerating the whole thing. What’s provocative to him might just be cute & figure-flattering to most of us. And unless she’s dropping f-bombs, she might have let h– or da— slip out of nervousness.
I went on a blind date once my friends set up with a super-religious dude. Now I know how to dress and I don’t normally use profanity unless I’m in road-rage & by myself!
But I did order 1 glass of wine, which to him was a no-no since he didn’t drink and didn’t want a lady who did. Oh well!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
11:19 am
I like some sexiness, and a little profanity wont freak me out. It just wasn’t a match so both can move on, nothing wrong with that.
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
11:24 am
Now, if you want a real FA-REAK, get yourself a preacher’s daughter. Bat-sh!t crazy, usually, but man there is some powerful repressed freakiness there, just waiting to be unleashed behind closed doors.
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
11:25 am
BMW – I find most super-holy to be the most judgemental folks you’ll ever meet. And a lot have, as my mom used to say, done everthing they are big enough to do, and that’s all caught up with them. So they gotta make it right with God and suddenly everybody around them is a heathen!
Those that are truly spiritual and walk the walk, do so without having to advertise the fact to everyone. They just are. Their life and how they live it and treat others shows their faith. They don’t have to boast about it or put others down. They are the type one should be seeking if that’s whats important in a mate.
Church is a hospital for sinners. So don’t be surprised if that person you meet is early in their spiritual journey!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:25 am
Swiss, I think the fa-reaks are divorced women or women who cheat on their man. Even more so than preachers daughters.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
11:27 am
Morning Folks:
What’s up Purp.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:29 am
kimmie, I agree. If people were so put together they would not need to go to church. Church is where you go to get right and maintain. Just because you are in “church” does not mean that you are a model citizen or the standard of dating. LOL, soooo folks should not go to church looking for the perfect mate…but if you go to church just for a mate something is really wrong with that scenario. “Hey, what was the sermon about?” “I don’t know but I bet that girl on the front row with those heels and tight shirt has some good puddy!” LOL
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:31 am
Blackfoote, nothing much just hanging out with the blog family. I got some nice emails last week that I was missed. I’m such a sucker because they made me feel good. LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
11:31 am
“Church is a hospital for sinners”.
That make sense Kimmie. I’m Not saying all but a good many.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
11:34 am
Yeah Purple the ladies were somewhat sadden you were gone so long. You’ll need to give advance notice from now on…….LOL
abc
August 24th, 2011
11:37 am
Provocative dress is counter to a Christian ethic, check Timothy 2:9. Deuteronomy states that for a woman to wear men’s clothing or a man to wear women’s clothing is an abomination unto the Lord. Do I personally care what someone wears? Not so much, but the getups a bunch of chicks show up wearing in the corporate workplace causes me some eye rolls. On one hand, cocktail dresses; on the other hand, flip flops and ready for a picnic. Men are often dressed like slobs. It’s a bit appalling, but I’m like, what do I care really? They just make me look better, as far as being appropriately dressed goes.
Vulgar language is what it is. If you don’t like it, then avoid people who use it. If a person professes to be Christian but is vulgar and profane in a constant way, talk to them about it. Chances are, they’d rather not be inconsistent with their beliefs.
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
11:37 am
Purple – I was raised going to church regularly. We were not super-holy, but it was a part of our lives and a very positive part I might add. We did and do a lot for the surrounding community and the elderly and the children, especially those less fortunate.
I visit other churches from time to time with my friends. I was going thru a rough time in my life once and visited a buddy’s church that was very popular. It was like a meat market! Granted there were some handsome men there, but that was not where my head was at the time. I was so irritated and mad at myself because I knew that church had a rep for being like that. At the time, I was looking for spiritual inspiration, not a date!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:38 am
Blackfoote, I am scared to ask about their workout schedule. LOL I had to take a little more than a week of 18-20 hours days to reap crop. I am so sore it makes no sense.
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
11:41 am
“I think the fa-reaks are divorced women or women who cheat on their man. Even more so than preachers daughters”
Purple — If you’re interested, I can introduce you to a divorced preacher’s daughter who was a bisexual swinger.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:42 am
kimmie, yep. Go for the sermon and yourself. When I see people at church dressed a certain way, looking hungover etc. I say to myself “at least they are here” they could be in a lot worse places but at this moment in time they came to church just as they are and once they get the word in them maybe that would influence them to come sober or etc. I think more people would participate if others weren’t so quick to judge them on where they are in life when they do come.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
11:43 am
Swiss, purely for research purposes I will like to meet you friend that is a divorced preacher’s daughter who is bisexual. LOL
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
11:47 am
Kimmie!
If that chic went on date with me dressed and talking like Wise describes then we would have taken it to the house!(fast forwarding like it’s date 3 already)
Then I wld possibly go to a different church after that!
avoiding any possible potential fall out.
You don’t want a public tongue lashing at church,of all places.
Church dude chose the wrong candidate in my view. He should have screened the church ladies better.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
11:51 am
20 hour days, you’re the Man.
Swiss I went out with a preachers daughter, seemed no different than any other woman to me. They do carry a mystic about them, but away from the crongregation she was just as wild.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:02 pm
Morning,
I see this is as yet another opportunity to bash church folks. It’s equally judgemental to believe all church folks are hypocrites. It’s self justification to be happy when you see “so called” church folks doing what you do. There is no difference. If they’re doing what you do and go to church and if you’re doing what they do and don’t who’s to say who is better or better off. How about we leave the judging to God. Really though I wonder when folks will get it…..CHURCH IS FOR SINNERS. So if it’s the wh@re, the pimp, the prostitute, the freak, the liar, the robber, the killer, the woman that swears like a sailor that’s all found at church…all I can say is yaaaaah. No better place to be for getting it right. At least they aren’t all of the aforementioned and NOT going to church. It takes a lifetime to walk the walk. In doing how about we learn and understand the hills the valleys the highs the lows and ups and downs, the stumbles yet getting back up. I tell you, most judgemental folks are the ones that don’t go to church and mad at the folks that do.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:03 pm
Afternoon rather….I typed the post on the other side of noon but someone walked up and started talking.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:04 pm
And really, if you’re already “saved” and a “good person” walking in, God ain’t listening to you. The church is the hospital for the needy and those that know this. Now THAT’S the hypocrite. Already saved before God can save you.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:06 pm
On topic: Be a lady at all times.
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
August 24th, 2011
12:13 pm
“On topic: Be a lady at all times
Well…being a lady in the bedroom is lame!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
12:15 pm
If you aren’t a lady in the bedroom what are you a man? Now that would be gay! LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
12:17 pm
Celisea:
I already done messed up with my spelling for the day. I hear ya, that is easiest the way to go is to be a lady. What’s disturbing is hearing women call each other the B word or claiming I am a whore. Claiming she is a whore, I would say that person needs an intervention but I wont judge.
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
August 24th, 2011
12:19 pm
Hellooooooo….lady in the streets,….freak in the bed! Duh!
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
12:20 pm
Afternoon All,
In a nutshell whats the problem? Dude is dating and had a swing and a miss. Welcome to the club. Just because he met her at Church is she suppose to be one way or another? If anything buddy needs to realign his expectations with reality. Just because Church is involved everyone is not going to fit into his perfect box.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
12:21 pm
BMW, I’m sorry that freak thing falls under the lady umbrella to me. All lady’s are freaks you just have to bring it out of some of them moreso than others.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
12:21 pm
BMW:
What you know about that?
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:22 pm
Blackfoote – If I gotta explain what “being a lady” means then….. All I can say is it’s not some uptight chick with her shirt buttoned to her ears that don’t know how to lean back and have a nice time. You don’t have to go way left and ho it out to prove otherwise either.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
12:23 pm
Yeah Blackfoote, what’s really going on when women are claiming to be b@tches and calling other women that. That use to be an insult. It seems to be the thing to be…lol
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
12:23 pm
PR – 12:21 co-sign and church clap (pun intended)
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
12:24 pm
being a lady in the bedroom!
There u have it!
Maybe explains why some church ladies step out,too formal in bed!
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
12:25 pm
“church clap”
Willie D — Is that what Wise’s buddy caught from his date?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
12:26 pm
Celisea:
Exactly, a lady knows when she is being a lady she shows good taste.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
12:36 pm
Willie D, I think I am going to start a 501 3c, LOL
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
12:42 pm
Not trying to be difficult but if you asked 10 guys or 10 girls what is a lady and/or a gentleman you’d prolly get 6-7 different answers. I’m sure you’ll hear a few catchphrases and talking points but Nowadays it really is subjective. Does a lady go to happy hour and have a margarita? Does a gentleman send you a text from time to time? I’m sure some of us here on the blog would think not while others don’t see a problem with it. Once again i think its one of those know your lane and stick to it.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
12:45 pm
Willie D, I agree. I often wonder what happened to men being men and ladies knowing they are ladies. I am really trying not to go deep but I think men being out of place in the “home”, household business, bedroom, workplace, has just caused all sorts of damage. I am not saying this in a male dominate kind of way but I hope you understand.
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
12:53 pm
PR- understood. Then again your idea of what is a man or lady may differ from mine. Doesn’t make either right or wrong except to us. Some ladies may take exception and to them rightly so to yours and mine definition of a Lady. But i do get what you are saying and as a whole the Lady/Gentleman concept has taken a hit over the past few generations.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
1:21 pm
Sort of on the current topic, my lady friend was telling me she has a guy working for her who tries to be a player, but in doing so, is the most “metro-sexual” guy she has ever met. At the end of the day, I am sure he appeals to some, and is a complete turnoff to others My point is that “one size does not fit all”. There are guys who want the totally uptight female “ladies”, there are those who want their lady to be a piece of jewelry on their arm and look like they just walked out of Glamour Shots…and there are those like me, who like the wholesome, girl next door type. with a witty, even wicked personality, who look equally at home in a black sheath and stilettos, or wearing jeans and walking in a field.
My choice isn’t better than yours, or the uptight dude’s…just personal taste.
To each his own.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
1:21 pm
Afternoon, all.
Hey, Swiss – are you ready for some football? Shall I look for you and the Missus at the Dome on the 3rd?
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
1:43 pm
ITL — I won’t be at the dome — I’ll be at home with the game on both big screens, burgers & brats on the grill, and booze in both hands.
Man, I tell you, I’m always cautiously optimistic before every season, but this year, I really have no idea how this season will unfold. I wouldn’t be shocked to see us around .500 again but I also wouldn’t be shocked if we ran the table. Our season will go as our defense goes, though. I’m hopeful for some major improvement there, but I’ll have to see it to believe it.
Here’s hoping we spank those little pony azzes like we did the last time they came south!
GO DAWGS!
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
1:49 pm
Swiss, I’ll be there. Look for me – I’ll be the one in red and black.
I’m trying not to get my hopes up too much for this year; I’d rather be pleasantly surprised than bitterly disappointed. That said, though, I’ve heard some good things. And, while I would not be shocked at a .500 season, there are some folks predicting that we just might be the team to beat in the SEC east.
Man, that was a great game in 2005. It was hot as blue blazes, but a great game. And, I managed to pick up some beer pong pointers from the tailgaters next to us.
GO DAWGS!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
1:49 pm
The NFL is going to have to wait for the fan base to come back up to par. The lockout did them in for a lot of people, once the season gets rolling the majority will be back. They unfortunately lost some fans for good. On the Falcons I don’t know what to expect this year, they have a hard schedule and if they keep trying to do something they can’t and don’t make adjustments the season can be lost.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
1:55 pm
VIKINGS!
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
1:55 pm
BF, I think you need to invite the blog to stop by your tailgate sometime.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
1:57 pm
I think the Patriots are going to be “the team” this year. I don’t think philly will pull it together. Is Peyton really hurt? Oh yeah Seattle is going to make a run at it this season.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
1:58 pm
The Vikings have always been my fall back team, was with them last year and still with them this year. I hope they kick the green out of Green Bay both games this year.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
1:59 pm
I hate Green Bay
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:01 pm
On a totally girlie note, I think I would be super-cute in one of those Viking helmets. Might have to move them into the backup slot.
I kid, I kid….
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:04 pm
ITL:
We welcome all anyone to drink, eat, and watch the game.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
2:06 pm
Sports talk….yuck
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
2:07 pm
Talk of handsball,umm, I mean Ur football, I support the Falcons but Arthur Blank kinda seems like a cheap billionaire to me.
Am I wrong in my analysis Falcons fans?
Time for some foooooootbaaaaaaaaall!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:10 pm
The backup slot,……LOL now you’ve had plenty of ops to not go there ITL. Yeah the back up slot, and the ball will get delivered to the wide reciever or in the slot….LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:10 pm
Y’all sound like us, BF. Our motto is the more the merrier, and everyone is welcome. If you’re ever in Athens on gameday…..
Celisea, it’s not all sports. We’re talking tailgating, too, which is like party planning.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:11 pm
Blackfoote, under the stairs! You’re in timeout for unnecessary innuendo. 10 minute penalty.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:13 pm
Celisea……LOL
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
2:14 pm
Blackfoote – Where are you parking? I might come through…:) I’m kidding.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:17 pm
We have spot under the bridge, on the southside of the dome. If we don’t get there early enough that spot is gone.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:19 pm
Celisea, have you ever been tailgating? It is so much fun! Take this short quiz to determine if tailgating is for you:
1. Do you like to laugh and have a good time?
2. Do you like to eat and/or drink?
3. Do you like to be outside?
If you answered yes to 1 or more of the questions above, tailgating may be for you!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:20 pm
ITL……LOL
The back up slot is goooood position, I’ll take it every time why I have to go in time out….LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:24 pm
Walking back to my den under the stairs with my head hanging down, turned to look back at everybody having fun. Oh I have company here, welcome.
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
2:25 pm
ITL?
U forgot 2 qstions:
do u drink likka
do u sluur, speaking slaaawly when likka takes u
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
2:25 pm
Exiled I think that Blank is one of the few owners who is not afraid to spend his money on the team and listen to what his GM, Pres of Ops and Coach tell him to do.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:30 pm
LOL@ Ex! Good points on both. In my case, it’s:
1: Do you drink likka at a tailgate? Duh….it’s a tailgate
2. Do you slur and speak slowly? Noooooo, but my suthun aksent gits a hoooolllle lot thicka!
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
2:30 pm
Exiled – I think Blank got into the game as a fan at first. He’s had a few stumbles but now he understands to just CTC and let the football people run the football side of things.
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
2:31 pm
oh yeah i forgot, Go Gators….
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
2:32 pm
Whats good folks!!!
I have jsut a couple of minutes and I pop in to see the convo has become……FOOTBALL!!!!
Now in the spirit of all that is fair and Good, I pledge my unyeilding support for my new favorite team—- LETS GO BRONCOS!!!!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
2:33 pm
Simple Man, why the Broncos?
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:35 pm
Blackfoote, no company when you’re on punishment. If I didn’t let Leggs take her beer to timeout, you can’t have a secret stash of company. And go ahead, say what Leggs did: “Phooey!”
(that cracked me up!)
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:36 pm
Hey SM!
You can sport a Moreno jersey!!
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
2:37 pm
Purp…I moved to Denver…..Dead smack in the middle of my first week out here…..
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
2:38 pm
Tebow is the Greatest ever!!!
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
2:38 pm
Simple Man – You still reading? Did you move yet?
Shuddup Exiled. If I did drank likka to the point of having my speech slurred, I’ll make sure it’s around someone I can trust
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
2:38 pm
Never mind Simple Man you answered. So are you liking it yet or so far I should ask?
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
2:38 pm
So Willie/Purp?
wld u say they have a team that’s gon compete this year? For the title ofcourse!
How do u rate the current team going into the new season.
I’m a fairweather Falcon fan and I’ll be on them on tv ofcourse, when they’re winning.
The moment that defense drops ball on some silly touchdown,I’m changing channels to the Colts game!
that way I don’t feel too hurt Monday morning!
But I do like mr Blank a lot as a person.
Good brother! Lol
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
2:41 pm
Simp – To be on the safe side; Moreno will be cut within 1-2 yrs. The great Tebow will be gone within the year. get you an Elway Throwback and you good. Denver sux and will sux for the near future. Stick with your Falcons they will be alright for quite a few years.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:42 pm
I’ll let her say it to you…….LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:44 pm
Wait, BF…do you mean….she’s…..and you’re…..ooooooh!!! I’mma tell!!!!!!!
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
2:44 pm
Exiled – pick a team and ride with them. You can’t just chase a current winner, Otherwise you wouldn’t be a Liverpool fan (hahaha). Falcons have one of the best teams in the NFL. They won’t win it all but they are very good all around and will contend and possibly make it to the SB for the next few years.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:45 pm
Willie D…. first a gator lover, now hating on Knowshon. smh……
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
2:45 pm
Simple,sorry man I was thinking so harshly about u.
For about two days now I was thinking u still enjoying the leftovers and feeling the after effects of the prior week’s Bonner bros lady festivities in town. Maybe still romancing one or two that extended their Atl visit!
Wrong?
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
2:46 pm
Light/Swiss Beatz – I’m kinda like you all, cautiously optimistic about my Dawgs!
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
August 24th, 2011
2:46 pm
BLACKFOOTE…I knows a lot about that!
I am a sort of a chameleon of my surroundings. Well not really, I am not a person who blends in. If it’s a Black & White Ball, I will wear red or fushia! I love being a non-conformist!
Granted, I would not show up to a Jets game in a LBD and 5 inch stillettos! There is just common sense that has to be excercised.
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
2:47 pm
@ Celisea Not sure If i like it yet..only been here a few days…..Give me a couple weeks and I will know If its all that or if I need to sneak back to the “A” and camp out on ITL’s sofa!!!!
Willie D… gonna go with Throw back Bronco sweatshirt and call it a day…..
Exiled!
August 24th, 2011
2:48 pm
Willie? (puck a team…Liverpool fan)
Ouch,man u kick me in my nutts!
That hurt!
But u right,I’m an Atlien by association so Falcons I pledge!
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
2:49 pm
ITL – Gator lover first and last. NO-shown is a bust. To be fair Tebow is a bust at the NFL level as well.
Care to place a small wager on the Cocktail Party?
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:50 pm
SM, the couch is yours for the taking, but I have a strict rule that NOTHING orange comes into my house. Especially nothing in a blue and orange combo. ICK.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
2:50 pm
Simple Man, congrats on your move. What happened to make you move, another opportunity?
Exiled I don’t follow the Falcan’ts to much but I think the will make it to and as far as the first round of the playoffs. But give them another year or two and they will be in the Super Bowl
Willie D, I though Tim Tebow was gong to be the second coming of Jesus, I guess that boy better pray harder or just enjoy his Job experience. LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:51 pm
Naw, Willie D…I’mma let that wager go. We could be having the best year ever and get to Jax and choke. For some reason, that game gets in our heads.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
2:54 pm
I will, however, drink a toast to you and the missus if you’ll swing by Jekyll after the game.
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
2:55 pm
Purp….Same company but they came with a bag full of $$$$ and left it in my office…only thing was the combination was a mile high……
ILT…OK..but since everything I have on is Orange and Blue, I am gonna have to come in and walk around nekkid…
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
2:57 pm
“I knows a lot about that”!
See ITL, BMW wasn’t disappointed sorry Purple I know your hands are full with Celisea. I absolutely love BMW’s attitude, Leggs will be fine tomorrow she’ll tell you.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:00 pm
SM –
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
3:00 pm
“hands full with Celisea”? I have big hands, has she been eating more junkfood and not exercising?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
3:02 pm
LOL…..@Purple
Celisea I can not tell a lie.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 24th, 2011
3:03 pm
Good Day Y’all.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
3:04 pm
I guess a few of the ladies just made paper airplanes with the workout schedule
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
August 24th, 2011
3:04 pm
ITL…..Wait…did I miss something?
I’m a what???? 
Pardon me..I’m having a blond moment! 
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:04 pm
Look out, Celisea….Coach Reign is back!!!
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
3:05 pm
Blackfoote – You tell and you’re a dead man.
I was looking for a man with a gun emoticon on my list but I guess not so I’ll just give you the eyerole
Believe none of it Purple.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:07 pm
BMW, I didn’t say anything!! I put Blackfoote in timeout for unnecessary innuendo, but he seems to think that you’re giving him a hall pass to get out.
See, they think we don’t talk to each other! Hmph.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
3:08 pm
ITL – Where has Purple been?
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
3:11 pm
Purp – Jesus was a peaceful man. The NFL is a violent place. Plus God didn’t bless him with accuracy or the ability to red defenses.
Simp – Throwback will be just dandy. if you really wanna impress get you a 77 Mecklenburger throwback and you’ll be the man.
ITL – since you are such a cool chick I’ll ease off the puppies. Not a fan of Jekyll but i can usually be found loitering around the landing that weekend. just look for the Jean Shorts, hahaha
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
3:13 pm
ITL, yes I’m back. You SexyCool and CanalZone sent me “Where are you emails” and Celisea, don’t get mad at BlackFoote CanalZone already snitched on you last week to me via email. LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:14 pm
Celisea: According to his earlier post, working 18-20 hours a day on crops.
LOL@Willie D! I know you are rockin’ the “jorts”
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
3:17 pm
Purp – Woo hoo, glad to know you have a fan club
Let ‘em snitch if I want to get fat…let me…IT MY LIFE!!! That sounded like something a 16 year old would say ain’t it…lol
Well, you should be glad you have fans and was missed
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
3:18 pm
ITL – Yes, I saw that. I thought he worked those sort of hours normally. I guess not.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
3:18 pm
Re: Peyton Manning. He had neck surgery in May and has not practiced since, although it would be hard to not see him starting in the Colts opener, considering he has started 200+ games in a row.
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
3:19 pm
ITL – LOL thats right. This year starched with the sharp crease with some AF1’s and a 22 Emmit throwback.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
3:20 pm
As long as Ohio State takes its annual beating from the SEC, the college football season won’t all be bad…even if my own college team sux.
Simple Man....
August 24th, 2011
3:23 pm
Damn Willie…All you will need to complete the look is to make sure the AF1’s are high top, a Mullet and a Porn star Mustache…
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
3:24 pm
LOL@Celisea, you didn’t even know I was gone. That says alot, I’ve seemed to have lost my mojo. LMBO
Normally I work from 4am to 8-930am
What are jorts?
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:26 pm
Of course we did, Purp. It’s not the same in here without your biting wit.
I’ll offer to be the parliamentarian for the Coach Reign Fan Club. I’m well versed in Roberts Rules of Order…
Woohoo, Willie!! Looking sharp. Are you gonna let the mullet grow for the game, too? Business in the front, party in the back.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:28 pm
LOL@SM on the mullet comment; I was on the same page.
Jorts = jean shorts (favorite attire of Florida Gator fans)
Willie Dynamite
August 24th, 2011
3:33 pm
RandyT – We share a mutual disdain for OSu. I think this is the year for a non-bcs team to win. After Boise beats UGA then they have a clear path to the Champ. game.
SimpMan – funny but nawwww. Low Top White on white, bald head with a towel over the shoulder of course and a neat trimmed Corp style stache.
ITL – I was giving you a break but now I’ll add a Winners smile to the look.
Purp – Frown = Lost (favorite attire of a UGA fan at the end of October)
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
3:38 pm
what up good people! how your hump day?
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
3:39 pm
Good afternoon.
@PR ~ to answer your earlier question, lil leggs had a call back for a modeling contract. Had a face to face interview which she aced. She had to walk the runway. She looked good. She got it from her mama (lololol).
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:40 pm
Ouch, Willie D! You really know how to hurt a girl…..
And the trophy going to the land of Smurf Turf? I think not.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:41 pm
Way to go, Little Leggs! Woot!
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
3:42 pm
AWWW ITL, tell me not a Dawg fan, please…and I really liked you
(Go Vols)
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
3:43 pm
Leggs, yes your daughter is beautiful (saying that in a mature way) when did she start modeling?
LOL, Jean shorts. Why do people wear shorts that are as long as pants?
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
3:44 pm
I can’t see The Smurfs in the NC game until they bite the bullet and join a real conference. You just can’t play 8 or 9 high school teams and get respect…you just can’t.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:50 pm
Oh, Randy (hanging my head)….I really liked you, too – but a Vol? However, I will acquiesce that your lot is slightly more tolerable now that a Dooley is at the helm.
co-signing on Randy’s 3:44.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
3:52 pm
Why do people wear shorts that are as long as pants?
Good question. Sometimes it’s a case of sags gone wild.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
3:56 pm
@ITL ~ i think that is one horrible look on man. Shorts as long as pants….UUUGGGGHHHH!
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
3:56 pm
I guess it is the country in me, but I think cut off jean shorts are incredibly sexy (if the gal wearing them looks like Daisy Duke or Jessica Simpson). Put Daisy Duke’s on 3/4ths of the gals at the University of Kentucky (or just Ashley Judd) and I would probably spontaneously ignite
.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:00 pm
A few years back, I didn’t wear nothing (just about) but cutoff jean shorts. I think cutoff jean shorts (slight daisy duked…not too much) are sexy too.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:01 pm
“slightly” daisy duked is where I was going. Thinking about it, I don’t think I own a pair now.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:01 pm
@PR ~ she hasn’t started yet. She has to be trained in a few areas before she can be seen by the agency’s clients. She’s stoked.
@WilleD ~ what are you wearing and where are you going?
Mo (aka Moeisha)
August 24th, 2011
4:04 pm
Afternoon All!
Had to pop in for a minute! Been a busy day for ya girl today.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
4:04 pm
We’re talking about men in jorts, not women rocking the Daisy Duke look.
kimmie
August 24th, 2011
4:05 pm
Leggs – Tell lil Leggs congrats & I’m pulling for her!
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
4:05 pm
Hey Randy, I”m with u on the jean shorts on the ladies, but they must be cut correctly, they should be short enough to cover and show that booty all at once, u know, i should get just a peak at that dark meat!!
That upper back thigh/crease area…lol
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:05 pm
Now cutoff jeans on guys…not so sure…and mullets…there is a reason a mullet is a fish. personally I would not want to wear a “fish” on my head.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
4:08 pm
What up Mo, how’s my homegirl doing or should I just say , whatz up shawty?
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:08 pm
Jake – they should be short enough to cover and show that booty all at once, u know, i should get just a peak at that dark meat!!
See that’s a little bit too daisy duked. Lower the shorts just a hint where it’s alllllmost there but you can’t see the upper back thigh crease. Booty shorts but not quite.
Can’t show that cause Imma lady
Oh and not say anybody that shows the crease ain’t a lady….let me just throw that in there 
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:11 pm
When I was in a Public Speaking course in college, I had a professor who said something that has stayed with me all these years. He said that “a speech is like a mini-skirt. It should be long enough to cover the subject, but short enough to keep your interest”. I suspect that many things, including apparel, would fall in to this category.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:14 pm
@kimmie ~ I will tell her.
Slightly daisy dukes are sexy, as long as the butt cheeks are covered. No peak of the dark meat.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:16 pm
Hey Mo, how ya doing? Come out and play once in a while. Masa will be fine.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:22 pm
Thank you, PR
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
4:22 pm
Ah Celisea/Leggs-Don’t be so conservative, now they shouldn’t be above the crease, accept for when you strech out to grab something, actually they should kinda cup it, become one with the crease, no more than an inch below the the crease.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:23 pm
The bum is upstairs sleeping. She hasn’t done anything today and she’s sleeping!!
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:24 pm
Is the topic daisy dukes???
Mo (aka Moeisha)
August 24th, 2011
4:24 pm
LOL!!
Leggs – hey chica! You know they are trying to work a sistah! I pop in err now and again. I’ll try to contribute more, mostly lurking
Jake – wassup my east side homie, how do?
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:26 pm
I owned a pair of red Wrangler short shorts since 15. Was proud that I was able to get into those bad boys up until a good 4 years ago.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
4:29 pm
I’m good sweets, back from my extended vacay in Lurksville. Just coolin!!
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:33 pm
Online dating. I’m delving into that world. Interesting profiles, but will pay no attention to anyone w/o a pic. Best to exchange email addresses so you can talk with out continuing a monthly subscription fee. I think.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:35 pm
Jake – actually they should kinda cup it, become one with the crease, no more than an inch below the the crease.
Ahhh, Jake Jake Jake, while I’ve pretty much been and done tastefully, conservative…for me….moves up the chain as I get older. Notwithstanding, I can relate to fun and fun times. And butt cheeks hanging out and exposed ain’t never really been my thing and definitely not now
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:40 pm
Daisy Dukes are for firm buttocks not soft squishy ones
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:41 pm
Similar subject, and even though I have to admit I like the look for some ladies who have been nice enough to have modeled just for me, thongs look dayum uncomfortable. Not entirely sure what the point is. Now a nice pair of french cut VCs look comfortable AND sexy…but a string up your butt?
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:42 pm
VS’s not VC’s…sorry Victoria.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:45 pm
Thongs are great to eliminate panty lines. Can’t think of any other reason. Not only that, when wearing one, I find it difficult to pass gas (don’t know why). Ok, TMI.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:48 pm
@ Leggs, so the thought of pooting on your tight pants is a concern too. Hmmmm. Like I suggested,they look good with a beautiful woman prancing around in or preceding a “Cialis Moment”. but just to wear…hmmm?
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
4:49 pm
“Thongs are great to eliminate panty lines. Can’t think of any other reason. Not only that, when wearing one, I find it difficult to pass gas”
Um, Leggs… I think you just found another reason.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:49 pm
RandyT – I’m with you on the thong thing. Wore them years ago. Comfort, comfort, sexy, comfort. I like soft, lacy, soft colored panties. Black (I know I have a gazillion black panties), brown, beige, taupe, peach, pink, etc. I think I have a pair of lime green but not too fond, then they ain’t comfortable. I have white but I NEVER wear white panties. Same with bras…soft colors and no whites.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
4:50 pm
Celisea, u know I am just talkin, nothin wrong wit showing a lil thigh, but everybody better be dressed age appropriate. Every 5 years, what you consider daisy dukes should drop about a inch
20=lil bit of dark, cuff or shavings on edge
25=lil dark, but an actual cuff on them
30= drop down, no dark, definite cuff
35= tricky, depend on the lady, can possibly stay high, but mid thigh works
40= baby, I know you still got it, but don’t flaunt it
45=see 40
50= hell if still look that good rise em back up an inch
55= see 50
60= pull dayum short down, you 60, matter of fact put some coolocks(sp) on
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:50 pm
Swiss may have a point. If that is true, I guess us guys should be grateful. Breaking wind just any old time is just not ladylike
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
4:50 pm
But, I’ll grant you this, Leggs: You definitely don’t want to shart yourself when wearing a thong.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
4:50 pm
Thongs are great for eliminating VPL, if you don’t wear a shirt short enough that the thong lines show and it looks like you have on a pair of creepers.
Um, okay, Leggs… Your comment had me
and LOL at the same time.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:51 pm
Funny I was looking for a camisole in my underwear drawer and found purple, striped, loud panties and bras that sort of made their way to the bak…no man’s land….lol Ut uh, what was I thinking?
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:52 pm
I remember saying I wouldn’t wear a thong. I have on occasion, but I prefer boy shorts or comfortable pair of bikini cotton undies.
@swiss ~ yes, sir. That’s a good reason for me not wearing them.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:52 pm
LOLOL…NOT THE KULOCKS (sp)!! That’s funny. I had a few pairs as a kid. Hadn’t heard that word in years. But yeah, you’re right.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:52 pm
Well my wife always wears thongs for as long as I have known her even up until giving birth. WE have no problem with them whatsoever.
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
4:53 pm
Thank the make-believe invisible dude of your choice in the sky that Mrs. Swiss only wears thongs.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:53 pm
@Jake ~ coolotts…loved, loved coolotts growing up.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:54 pm
I remember when I was living with my sister (after a breakup) and was going through throwing “stuff” out and she was vicariously living and watching me….lol Actually we were talking and she was like “who wore that???!!!” and went on to say “mama would have a caniption” Yeah, don’t judge me.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:54 pm
Damn Celisea, thanks for reminding me of something. My new lady showed me something that she has been saving for a special moment. I won’t tell what, but had forgotten until yu just reminded me just now. Thanks
Mo (aka Moeisha)
August 24th, 2011
4:54 pm
Okay this is hilarious!
Jake – good to read ya boo. I guess we traded spots in Lurksville!
alright ya’ll have a good evening, off to the eastside I go!
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:54 pm
And for the record those thongs that my wife always wears have never stopped her from farting.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:55 pm
I wear boy shorts and hipsters
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:55 pm
Randyt, just make sure she is not using that item she has been saving for a special moment on you. LOL
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
4:55 pm
Oh, c’mon, Randy, tell! Is it animal, vegetable, or mineral? Is it bigger than a breadbox???
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:56 pm
RandyT – Now you know you can’t leave us hanging like that. Do tell.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
4:57 pm
No PR, that was another item and we have already had THAT discussion, and I never sit on anything smaller than my azzz.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:57 pm
Don’t say a thing Randyt, save face and your relationship. Does it take C or D batteries..is it a plug in or gas powered?
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
4:58 pm
Interesting, what is the correct spelling for coolotts. Loved them and my shirt dresses growing up.
@ITL ~ I know, I know. A lot of women may have problems with thongs, that’s a problem I’ve noticed.
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
4:58 pm
LOL that’s a good motto Randyt!
SlimNu
August 24th, 2011
4:59 pm
Sorry i’m late, been working away from the desk. Slim had her 1st audible fart in front of The beau day before yesterday while I was eating a sammich and he was laying on the couch. He rises up and looks at me like, “Mmm huh, thought that was going to be a silent one didn’t ya…and how the hell you fartin AND eating”
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
4:59 pm
And Imma say it…thongs ain’t cute if they’re “hidden” by flesh. If you find you have some “extra” and only part of the thong peeks out…ummm, you need to move on to panties with more material…lol
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
4:59 pm
I see girls chiming in with what style of panties they like, and I see the men chiming in with their wife’s/partner’s faves, but I don’t see the men chiming in on what they like.
So, boys…. boxers or briefs or boxer briefs?
Inquiring minds wanna know…..
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:00 pm
Boxer briefs….ALL DAY LONG
cba
August 24th, 2011
5:01 pm
Leggs, I’m just scanning through the posts and your 4:45 , passing gas
As my wife say, it does stank……yeah right
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:01 pm
Have mercy….tell me I did not just hear someone in the hall rip one!! smh…
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
5:02 pm
Boxers…briefs…and did you mention ‘Commando’?…..
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:02 pm
Imma have to pass on the passing gas convo….night folks.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
5:03 pm
@Slim…you got him, that was acceptance and sarcasm…he made the joke for your sake, he actually been waiting on it, and he not gonna tell you, but he tried to smell it…lol
Purple Reign
August 24th, 2011
5:04 pm
I disagree Celisea, if you see the whole backside of the thong and it does not dissappear a little between the ass cheeks before making an appearance covering the puddy. You have both style in the pic below and both are very nice! full thong showing and some thong disappearing:
http://www.giornale.it/celeb/spiaggia/images/thong22.jpg
ITL I prefer to wear boxer briefs
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:04 pm
Oh, forgot that one.
So, tell us gents: boxers, briefs, boxer briefs, commando, or “other”
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
5:05 pm
I have some of each depending on my mood…and sometimes the Commando works well in my pool!!!! night y’all
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
5:06 pm
ITL — Boxers or commando. I’ve gotta free-ball it.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
5:06 pm
Boxers…the boys got to hang, why put them in a muscle shirt, or Commando
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:06 pm
@cba ~
Was just commenting on a negative affect I encounter wearing them.
Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)
August 24th, 2011
5:07 pm
I’m mostly with Swiss on that one.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:07 pm
PR – We can agree to disagree. I can’t click on the link because I’m at work and don’t chance nothing…lol
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:08 pm
I will be forwarding this information to product development at Calvin Klein, Fruit of the Loom, and Hanes. Thanks for your input, guys!
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:10 pm
Haa haa haa, free-balling is better than free-basing.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:11 pm
The kitty suffocates in thongs. Thongs grab and hold the kitty….alll dang day. Just sometimes you don’t want something “hanging” on the kitty. Men do that enough…lol Don’t need panties doing it too.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:12 pm
Suffocate is an exaggeration but ya’ll get what I’m saying.
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:13 pm
Ummm, the butthole suffocates more than the kitty. The front of the thong covers much like a pair of panties. It’s the butthole that needs to form a union.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:14 pm
Leggs – All of that…everything in that region. I spoke to kitty because I’m sure the men can comprehend the point I was making.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:14 pm
But that’s my experience with thongs. Those bad boys keep a sister on “ready” all the time. Wet all day can’t be healthy for the kitty. Just saying.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:15 pm
Never had the suffocation issue, but I’ve had the “I pulled everything up too fast, and shorted myself on the front to back ratio” mistake, which is not terrible….until you sit down.
Celisea
August 24th, 2011
5:16 pm
ITL…that too Fine. Take suffocation out and apply all of what I said you said and Leggs said. Thongs are NOT comfortable.
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
5:18 pm
“It’s the butthole that needs to form a union.”
okay I’m gone, Leggs, thanks baby, that line will get me to the house, that was funny…night ya’ll
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:18 pm
I’m on the same page with you, Celisea,
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
5:22 pm
On the subject of boxers & jorts, that reminds me of a story from college. So, I bought a few pairs of ratty jeans from a 2nd hand store (well, the hipsters call it “vintage” — but it’s f#cking 2nd hand) downtown with holes all in them. One of the pairs had a rather large hole in the crotch-al region, but since I work baggy boxers, too, it didn’t really reveal anything. Except that I also had one pair of boxers with a giant hole in the ol’ crotch-al region. I just had to make sure I didn’t wear both those jeans and those boxers at the same time.
So, one day, I’m waiting on the but & it was running especially late this particular day, so I sat down on the sidewalk & waited. After about 5 minutes I looked down & noticed that I had forgotten & worn both the holey jeans & holey boxers, and my junk was in plain view.
I looked up & there were about 5 chicks standing around me who all turned their heads away quickly as I looked around. 
Jake: Sweet Peeda Jeeda, TWB
August 24th, 2011
5:24 pm
Before I Go, let me say this to you ladies, WE really appreciate seeing you wonderfully blessed ladies in those uncomfortable unmentionables, if its not to much to ask, keep a few pair for the man in your life, Mr. Right or Right Now, he thanks you.
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:24 pm
Swiss is a flasher, Swiss is a flasher…..
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:25 pm
How embarrassing, swiss!
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:31 pm
Were you embarrassed, Swiss, or were you like, “how you doing?” in your best Joey Tribiani voice…
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:32 pm
Jake, I have a Mrs. Santa thong bra outfit that is out of this world. You talking about Sexy. It’s still in its wrapper. Perhaps I’ll get a chance to wear it this Christmas (LOLOLOLOL).
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
5:32 pm
“How embarrassing, swiss!”
Well, maybe for some… but I ended up pulling a number from one of the chicks later on the bus ride…
Into the Light
August 24th, 2011
5:33 pm
Atta boy!
i'm swiss™
August 24th, 2011
5:33 pm
I was just glad I was freshly man-scaped…
Leggs
August 24th, 2011
5:38 pm
That is hysterical, swiss, you turned that around. Too funny. You found a woman who wanted to play ball at the bus stop.