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Caught in a love triangle?

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a love triangle? No, not the sexy one..the annoying kind. I’m talking about a love triangle that is completely unplanned, unwelcome, and unbearably annoying.

You meet someone great and things seem to be going really well. One day, they happen to mention an ex that is still in the picture. Oh, they aren’t “involved” anymore, they just decided to stay in each others’ lives. Then they tell you the person is married and was also married when they were involved.

What would you do in this situation? If you get the sense that the person you are dating still has feelings – and possibly sexual intimacy with someone else, shouldn’t you run for the hills? Would you try to talk it out and give it more time?

How do people manage to get themselves caught in a love triangle, anyway? If you are hung up on somebody else, shouldn’t you take a break from dating? This is worse than being the rebound girl/guy!

If you feel a strong connection with someone, would you be willing to “stick it out” until the love triangle situation goes away or is that a emotional suicide mission?

Is it truly possible to be torn between two people? Isn’t one of them getting the short end of the stick?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

226 comments Add your comment

Browncoat

August 17th, 2011
6:18 am

I want to hear more about the sexy kind…..

Mr. Unknown

August 17th, 2011
6:34 am

Uhhh basically the person is telling you they were somebodies jump off. Run!! That’s not an EX, that was just sex. 9 times out of 10 you would be wasting your time, because they are still hung up on this person.. Either they are still having sex, that person likes the attention they getting from said person. Its an “emotional suicide” if that person tells you all of there red flags and you still hang around hoping the ex/jump off goes away, your setting yourself up.

I just went through that dumb ish not a fun ride. I found out her friend was actually her ex F buddy. I set myself up because when I met buddy I had a feeling it was more to it then friends.

JT

August 17th, 2011
7:15 am

I agree with Unknown. More than likely, they are still doing each other. Run while you can. There is no good outcome for this sutiation…

jake's mom

August 17th, 2011
8:00 am

“…torn between two people and one of them’s married”??? Ummmmm..no brainer. RUNNNNNNN!!!!!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
8:23 am

Morning, all!

If it were just an “ex” that (s)he has maintained a friendship with, then that’s probably okay. I have an ex that’s been a friend since childhood and will always be part of my life. But that’s not the case in the scenario described. That is a man being involved with a married woman. Unless she is planning to leave her husband, there is no hope for a future between the two of them, so I would ask myself why he keeps her in the picture. More importantly, though, I would ask myself if I wanted to be involved with a man who would put himself in the middle of a couple’s marriage and be “the other man”. That speaks volumes about his character, and for me, is not someone I would want to be involved with.

michael

August 17th, 2011
8:27 am

actually, i believe if one mentions another to the “other”, the one is testing the “other” to see what the “other” feels which is a sign of insecurity.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
8:28 am

I can’t speak for others, but this scenario, even without the sexual involvement with the ex, has ended several relationships for me. Even if they aren’t involved, often there is almost a sense of competing that is just too problematic. Ex lovers have a remarkable ability to have a renewed interest when someone new is getting what they used to have. I can’t remember any even remotely serious relationship where exes did not cause issues for me. Maybe I’m just too sensitive…and maybe my trust has been betrayed a few times.

Just tell the truth

August 17th, 2011
8:37 am

Off topic and relating to an incident last night…Had my very first “date” from an internet dating site. Emailed back and forth, spoke on the phone, profile said body type was “Average”. Profile pic had only her face, which was pretty. When I finally saw her for the first time, I must’ve missed some small type on the body description because it had to include “Average….for a well fed Blue Whale.” Just dayum, people…do you think that lying on your own description is going to go over well when they see you for real? It was horrible….just bloody horrible……

Dave

August 17th, 2011
8:38 am

Won’t go over good here. When I’m dating, I don’t play seconds, I don’t ride the pine until the starter is unavailable and I don’t share well. I’ll compete with others for your affection for a small time, but it better not take very long.

Lady Strange

August 17th, 2011
8:39 am

I’m still friends with some of the guys I dated when I was younger. I’m not friends with my ex-husband though, we get along OK now that we’re divorced but I don’t consider him a friend. Regardless, if they were just platonic friends now that would be OK but this situation sounds like he’s still hung up on this person.

My advice, get out of this now! RUN far & fast! People shouldn’t date when they are still hung up on their ex, IMO.

Simple Man...

August 17th, 2011
8:45 am

Morning peeps!!! The situation described above is toxic and as laid out is a no wion for everyone involved….That being said, I have found myself in a triangle (I won’t say it was love, but thats another story) before and I have to say that while its not ideal, it was not the worst thing in the world…This woman I was dating was upfront enough to tell me that she was also seeing another guy…said She wanted to get to know both of us a bit better before making a choice but did not want to be misleading while doing so…I respected her candor and allowed things to play themselves out…Like I said it was not the worst thing in the world…..

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
8:50 am

@ just tell the truth

I have done extensive internet dating and can’t understand lying either. One thing I have learned is if there are only “head shots” there is probably a reason.

One of the funny ones for me is running into my ex wife’s first college roomate. Amazing how she must have been only 11 when she was a freshman in college, lol, if her age on Match was any indicator.

The funniest one was the “transvestite”…but that’s another story.

Breezy

August 17th, 2011
8:51 am

RUN – RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! DON’T LOOK BACK!!! It’s just a heartbreak waiting to happen.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
8:53 am

Good morning.

I can honestly say I have never been in a love triangle.

@Just ~ kudos for staying on the date. Don’t understand the logic behind someone lying on their profile. Isn’t the point of putting your profile up is to catch someone’s eye enough to actually want to meet you in person. Why start out the gate deceiving? You should sue her for emotional harassment. J/K

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
8:54 am

@ Simple Man…I commend you for being able to handle that. I guess I am a hot-headed Scorpio because my response is always, “call me when you are truly free”. I might do that in the first date or two, but no further. As “Crash” Davis said in “Bull Durham”, “I’ve played in the league for 13 years…I don’t ‘try out’ anymore”.

Simple Man...

August 17th, 2011
9:08 am

Randy, Like I said, there was not love of any real emotional investment at the time, so the risk on my part was small, add that to the fact that she was cultured and really smart and worldly….And Yeah, She was, Cindy Crarford, Selma Hayek fine!!!!! She was so hot I wanna improve my posture just thinking about her!!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
9:18 am

You’re single and hung up on somebody that’s married, you need a break from dating. There are too many single people available to be tied up with one that’s married. If I sense you can’t take yourself away from the situation, I have a choice to and mine will leave you with the drama. It happens all the time, people playing mind games.

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
9:20 am

Morning,

No triangle, 3 nothing here…lol I’m not cut from that kind of cloth. If someone “mentions” another, I’m soooo out of there.

On Simple Man’s comment: She wanted to get to know both of us a bit better before making a choice

My kid was telling this past weekend about one of her girlfriends (borderline gossip…but I listened…I’m her mom) and how this guy at church still likes her but has a girlfriend and can’t seem to make up his mind…blah blah blah. Then she states (all hard like), “that couldn’t be me, I’d tell him to make a choice”….umm I had to quickly move in and correct her even how that should get done. I told her don’t “ever” knowingly be someone’s choice. When you see a guy, man, boy, dude with open “in front of your eyes” options, take yourself out of the equation. To NEVER position yourself as if you “waiting.”

Yes, I understand there are ALWAYS options and folks will behave whichever way they want. I told her you can’t controll anybody else’s actions but you can definitely control what you do, how you act and what you allow.

Got to make sure she steps off on the good foot :)

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
9:21 am

Good morning, BF! Glad to see you ventured out from under the stairs. What’s for breakfast this morning?

And I noticed you weren’t here on Friday. Get an early start under the bridge by the Dome? :)

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
9:41 am

{{Clap, Clap, Clapping, hell standing up too}}. Right on point, Celisea!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
9:55 am

Good Morning ITL, Leggs, and Celisea:
This morning on the burners we have eggs fried or scrambled with grits and oatmeal and in the oven NY strip steaks.

Yeah at the game Friday was a blast. Watched in amazement the rookie Julio Jones that’s all I can say about him, he’s the real deal now.

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
9:55 am

Leggs – The more things change, the more they remain the same. The world keeps spinning, times seemingly worse, money tight, economy shot but game will ALWAYS remain the same.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
9:55 am

Dang, these pesky crickets showed up mighty early this morning…

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
9:56 am

Morning Blackfoote

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
9:58 am

You got that right, Celisea! A 17 yr old boy gave my daughter a diamond heart necklace as an early bday gift. He’s going off to college on Friday. I’m going to let her keep this one. It’s a nice necklace. When he left, she’ beaming from ear to ear asked me if it was real. I had to laugh and immediately said “of course not!” Told her the best tip she can carry with her forever. Turn whatever trinket you get over. If there aren’t any holes behind the diamond, it’s not real….diamonds need to breathe!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
9:58 am

Oops, where’s my manners….morning BF!

Simple Man...

August 17th, 2011
10:00 am

Blackfoote, I know its early, and the ladies might jump us for this, But what was so special about 2 catches from Jones in teh first Pre-season game???? Its not like they were long passes or great catches…Just a couple of 10-12 yard crossing plays…..

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
10:07 am

@ Simple Man…mention Selma Hayak and all questions are answered ;-)

oneofeach4me

August 17th, 2011
10:09 am

I am with Dave 100% on this one…..I don’t have time for games; and frankly neither should the other party involved. If they are talking about the “ex” this soon into the courtship, then they are DEFINITELY still hung up or “bedding” up.

I do have a question for the guys though…if this was you, and you found out that homegirl had been a mistress, how would that settle with you and what would that resonate to you about her character?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
10:12 am

Simple Man:
I know don’t want the ladies to hit us up talking sports this early, but it’s the combination of his size 6′3″ 220 lbs. with 4.6 speed he’s gonna be a handful and some for a lot of defensive backs. Those small db’s will not have a chance with this guy trying to defend catches or tackling him. He has a way to go, but he’ll get there faster than other rookies.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
10:14 am

@oneof…Probably end it instantly for me. One asset I want in any SO is to be smart. Getting involved with a married man is just dumb, and also says something about the character of the person she is looking for…and I don’t fit that mold.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
10:17 am

It’s not just his quickness – it’s his ability to catch and transition quickly to the run up the field. Did you see that first catch and run he made? It was a beautiful thing. :)

abc

August 17th, 2011
10:18 am

I have no use for cops, lawyers, teachers, and exes. If there’s an ex that’s in the picture, I am out of the picture, period, the end.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
10:19 am

@oneof and Randyt: See my first post this morning. Being willingly involved with a person who is married speaks volumes about your character and integrity (or lack thereof).

oneofeach4me

August 17th, 2011
10:19 am

@Randy I agree. My sister tends to get involved with guys who are either living with someone or have a serious GF. I told her that if she wants to meet the right guy, then she needs to stop sleeping with guys who are already “taken”. I mean come on….. why would you want to share? I dunno…she thinks she can win the guys over and take them from the other girl through being, ummmm, intimate.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
10:20 am

Morning All!

On topic – Why would you even need to think twice on a situation like this? Give IT more time? There is no IT! The only IT is drama. Why would you play yourself or allow yourself to be played like that? smh

Leggs – I thought I knew it all about fine jewelry, but I learned something new today. Looked inside my rings just to make sure -whew!!

oneofeach4me

August 17th, 2011
10:20 am

@Into ~ definitely lack thereof.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
10:24 am

Some folk seem attracted to those that are “unavailable”.

I never could play sloppy seconds. And even if you manage to “take” them from the one they are already with, well, karma is a beyotch!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
10:24 am

I’m cracking up, kimmie!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
10:27 am

oneof:
My experience I’ve known many women who have been or is involved with married men. Most go through a phase in life, then they get their act together and move on. A small few are caught up in the hype and belief that they are being told and it’s too emotional for them to walk away. I would date those who have moved on, but the emotional one’s I don’t think anybody can snap them out of the spell they’re under.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
10:27 am

Hunh! It’s my birthstone and I didn’t know that either. Good to know, Leggs, thanks for sharing!

James

August 17th, 2011
10:27 am

I have a very dear lady friend in an almost similar position. She developed feeling towards a long time male friend who is now in a relationship. Tore her to pieces but she decided to let him know anyway.
Her reasoning being she did not want to hold it in and have regrets in the future (say if he was to marry his current gf). She had to make her feelings be known. Now the fellow SAYS he’s confused and she should have brought it up sooner. She asked for my advice on wether she should limit their interactions because she now feels even worse for putting him in that position. I really don’t know what to tell her.

oneofeach4me

August 17th, 2011
10:29 am

@kimmie ~ what I have noticed about my sister is that it seems to be the conquest thing. She actually likes to be in competition with the other woman and strives to win. There are single guys interested, but it’s like she doesn’t want them cause she knows she can have him. But then, if she does end up with the guy she “won”, she seems lost when he cheats or moves on or uses her or whatever. Like really?? You REALLY didn’t see that one coming??

I pay a lot of attention to her and what she does so I know what to look out for!!!

UGA 1999

August 17th, 2011
10:29 am

Interesting question….

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
10:33 am

Tell her what Celisea told her daughter.

oneofeach4me

August 17th, 2011
10:33 am

@BF ~ Even if she had moved on… doesn’t it make you wonder WTH was she thinking in the first place? We all go through things in life, but I am not going to shoot up heroin because I don’t want to become a junkie. If you don’t want drama and emotional turmoil… why get involved at all? What makes a woman even go there?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
10:34 am

ITL:
I was skeptical when the Falcons made the move to get him,(that’s why I’m not the G.M.) but he is gonna be a bright spot to this team.

UGA 1999

August 17th, 2011
10:37 am

Blackfoote….are you talking about Julio?

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
10:42 am

James – Tell her she knew better…and knows better

Leggs – Thanks for that tidbit…didn’t know that.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
10:44 am

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
10:45 am

Oneof – yeah, some do thrive on the unattainable! It may be something she just has to grow out of. At some point she’s going to get tired. Hope she hasn’t scared off too many nice guys before she wakes up though.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
10:45 am

Morning Run Report – Power Walk – Regular Route – 2.25miles – 36minutes – focused on posture, long strides and tight abs. Me, TheDude, the dog.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
10:49 am

oneof:
You know if I had the answers to just a thimble full of questions, I’d be happily married with a big house on the hill. One thing I do know is women and their emotions can’t be parted and you have to be able to deal with both aspects. Your sister and her I can get him if I want mentality likely is an issue she had when she was a child and denied something close to her heart.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
10:55 am

lol@BF. You mean Arthur didn’t offer you the job first? :) Seriously, I saw him play live while he was still at Bama, and he is something serious. Same thing goes for Moreno… watching Denver play on Sunday, I was transported back to those hot afternoons in Sanford, watching him in awe. Football on TV is okay, but live…..man!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
10:55 am

@SC ~ I got on that treadmill yesterday and inadvertently did my running on an incline. I heard the maching clanking along but had no idea the darn thing moved. Next thing I knew, I’m holding on wondering why does it feel like I’m running up a hill. It took me a moment, but I figured it out. Declined it (whatever the term is) and walked the rest. Did 2 miles (33 mins.)

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
10:55 am

I came to value myself enough to remove myself from love triangle situations at the first sign of them. It’s a lesson that I could have stood to learn sooner. But hey, such is life.

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
11:04 am

Morning All,

Good Topic – on the surface its a no brainer. Why subject yourself to something so toxic? As you think about it its something that most of us went through knowingly or not. A womans emotions seems to trump good old common sense. The problem is that when you find out and continue along with the status quo then thats just insane.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
11:05 am

ITL:
LOL….Arthur haven’t called me yet. I’m wondering what is he is waiting on….LOL

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:10 am

@WillieD ~ it’s easy for us on the outside looking in to say it’s insane. Watching friends and hearing other stories, breaking away once you’re knee deep in with your emotions is a very difficult thing to do. You know it’s wrong, but you’re so caught up in some weird fantasy the person forges on. Eventually, eyes are opened and the colored coded lenses have broke. Viola, back to reality. I have a friend slowly coming back around. I try not to say too much, but her pain is great (even though it’s self-inflicted..tsk tsk)!

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
11:10 am

Ladies – The makeup line Urban Decay is having a big sale. Go on urbandecay.com and click on Sale.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
11:11 am

I dunno, BF. When he called me for a reference, I gave you a glowing recommendation….. :lol:

And speaking of the workout report, where’s Coach PR?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
11:12 am

Next thing I knew, I’m holding on wondering why does it feel like I’m running up a hill.

The visual is too cute..glad you had a good workout. I did three miles on the treadmill(equal amount of running/walking in ~46 minutes. I’m going back today…I sleep so much better after a good workout and wake up feeling fresh aiiiiir. :mrgreen:

Side note: This Jill Scott concert is gonna be the siht this weekend!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
11:13 am

should’ve been *like fresh aiiiiir*…mia culpa

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
11:13 am

Thanks, Kimmie. That’s my favorite designer –> Sale. And his sister? “Take Another 25% Off”..I love her, too!! :lol:

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
11:14 am

Light – Clearance is pretty cool too! :lol:

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
11:14 am

Leggs – True dat. Also to be fair and balanced, Some Men sign up for the same thing. Whether we call it emotions or simping, It is rampant. Once the facts are out on the table and you still engage then I have no sympathy or empathy. You are no longer a victim and at that point become a willing accomplice.

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
11:15 am

I’m hitting the treadmill today….for real. Meant to yesterday but got snowed.

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
11:17 am

Sassy – I have a huge crush on Jill Scott. I bought her last CD for the Wifey and she said you must have a thang for her. I admitted it. Seems like her best work is when she’s heartbroken or rebounding.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
11:19 am

I’ve seen Jill 2 times – she puts on a great show!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:20 am

Cold Cut Artist of the day = Anthony Hamilton

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:22 am

It’s ringing, it’s ringing….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
11:25 am

Wasn’t it Phyllis Hyman who was caught up in a triangle, and her emotions got the best of her and she ended it all. My heart was broken cause I thought I had a chance with her. (Of course it was in my dreams)

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:26 am

still freaking ringing…

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
11:27 am

I don’t know the backdrop to Phyllis Hyman’s troubled soul but yes, she ended it.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:27 am

How dare the phone now goes to busy mode….HOW RUDE!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
11:28 am

Kimmie I say Jill when she was at Philips Arena with Maxwell. She does put on a great show..I like how she interacts/relates with the audience. She opened for him but with the way she put it down and Maxwell did not, he should’ve opened for her instead. Her vocal range is awesome.

Willie I like Jill’s work..but I don’t think all of her best stuff comes from heartache/rebounding…I’m sure some of it came from that place but not all. Now that I’m thinking about it her very first cd was all up beat n stuff cause she was in love at the time. My name is J-I-L-L S-C-O-T-Teeeeeeeeee….

Her dad is/was Gil Scott…remember him? The revolution will NOT be televised

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
11:29 am

geeze I can’t type today…*I saw her* not *say her* :???:

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:30 am

Ha ha, called right back and it’s ringing…I have quick fingers. Hopefully, they’re pick up this time.

Phyllis was caught up with Norman Conners. I think he was married. She was bi and so distraught over being so unhappy she ended her misery. What a beautiful woman and a beautiful voice. She was so photogentic.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:31 am

I won…checking to see if I qualify

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:32 am

Phooey, I’ve disqualified myself. I have 13 more days to my probation. Once you win, you can’t play for another 90 days!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
11:45 am

What do you win, Leggs?

Lovely Brown

August 17th, 2011
11:47 am

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:32 am
Phooey, I’ve disqualified myself. I have 13 more days to my probation. Once you win, you can’t play for another 90 days!

I don’t know why…but this made me crack up laughing :lol: probably because you said phooey :lol:

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:48 am

Tickets to see EnVogue, Peabo Bryson, and some other artists, along with $25 to Panara Bread. I gave you guys the answer.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:48 am

Oh, Jeffrey Osborne!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:50 am

Drats!!!! Double Drats!!!!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:50 am

What cartoon use to say that? Any of you know???? I can’t think of it.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
11:50 am

You are always winning stuff! Didn’t you win a gift card not too long ago? Maybe you should be on that new TLC show, “Super Sweepers”

Da_Man!

August 17th, 2011
11:52 am

I see many agree that this is a “no-brainer” but your brain is always over-shadowed by emotions when love/intimacy is involved. A love triangle could be a messy situation for some but ideal for others. I guess it all depends on how much emotion you put into it.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
11:55 am

Yes…haven’t used the gift card yet!

Like SC says, I win cuz I’m always playing. Heck I have a desk, there’s the phone, there’s the radio, I have the answer…no brainer!

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
11:55 am

Sassy – maybe you are right. It’s just the songs/albums that stick out to me are the rebound/heartbreak albums. i like her because it seems her albums are a soundtrack to her life. You can hear and feel the happiness/hurt in her songs. Its refreshing and different from the cookie cutter approach of artists nowadays.

Leggs – as much as you win you need a team of a few ladies and their information. When you win use a diff name and info and continue to reap the benefits.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
12:08 pm

Dagnabit, if you guys didn’t already know my real name (well most of you anyway)…Sheesh!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
12:08 pm

Moving too fast (as usual)….

cba

August 17th, 2011
12:11 pm

Leggs, you just made me switch over to 107.5

cba

August 17th, 2011
12:14 pm

Shay, you’ll always be Leggs :-)

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
12:14 pm

@cba ~ better than V-103. I like Tom Joyner but can pick him up at my desk. Plus Tommy’s prank calls in the morning (around 9:30) are gut busting funny.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
12:15 pm

:lol: :lol: Thanks, cba!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
12:16 pm

Speaking of 107.5, did y’all hear the phone prank that nephew Tommy did this morning? Some girl had him call her brother, who has a suttering problem, and pretend to be a delivery man with a stuttering impediment, too. I know it’s wrong, but I LOL! He said, “If I ggggget dddddown there and yyyyyou don’t rrrrreally have a spspspspeech impediment, I’m gon’ wwwwwwwwwhoop yo @ss.”

Don’t judge me. :oops:

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
12:18 pm

@ITL, that prank call was a repeat. The first time I heard it I thought he went too far, and hearing it again, I felt the same way. That was cold what he did.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
12:22 pm

Leggs don’t worry I wont squeeze the Sharmyn too hard, but then I wouldn’t be using my full potential…..LOL

cba

August 17th, 2011
12:24 pm

I stopped listening to V-103 around the time Carol and Mike left. I think their maximum audience target is 21. I guess everybody fit somewhere along the dial.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
12:28 pm

I know what you mean, Leggs. As you can tell from my post, I felt guilty laughing. But in the end, he seemed to be a good sport about it, and his sister set him up so I thought maybe it was kind of a running family joke. I hope so, anyway. :)

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
12:29 pm

i like her because it seems her albums are a soundtrack to her life. You can hear and feel the happiness/hurt in her songs.

Speak on it Willie! I agree because her music usually does reflect what she’s going through. Man when I saw her at Philips…she sang this one song that she prefaced by asking the crowd, “How do you say I’m sorry…I messed up and I know I’m wrong”, and she sang this really moving ballad . She was so emotional that by the end of the song she was singing and crying on stage…I was misty my damned self…

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
12:29 pm

I’m hungry. What’s good for lunch?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
12:33 pm

ITL:
Asking open end question sometimes get a closed end answer….LOL

Simple Man...

August 17th, 2011
12:35 pm

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
12:36 pm

When will I ever learn???? :oops:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
12:41 pm

Should you ever need a teacher you know where I’ll be parked…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 17th, 2011
12:48 pm

Oh it’s the witching hour I know where I can go, sayonara.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:01 pm

My lunch – chicken veggie stir fry with brown rice.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:20 pm

Have any of you heard of the 100 workout? I’m thinking of adding it to one of my strength/toning days.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
1:28 pm

SCool – that sounds good. I might make that tonight; I’ve got some fresh stir fry veggies all ready to go that need to be used today or tomorrow.

What’s the 100 workout?

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:29 pm

Here’s how you do it:

•100 jumping jacks
•90 crunches
•80 squats
•70 leg lifts
•60 jumping jacks
•50 crunches
•40 squats
•30 leg lifts
•20 jumping jacks
•10 minutes of running

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
1:34 pm

Afternoon All! I got a chance to drop in so I had to speed-read

SCool – I may have to try that 100 workout. Sounds like a beast, yet effective Im sure.

SassyMe/Willie D – I, too will be checking out J Scott this weekend! That entire lineup is hott!

For lunch – Spaghetti and a 1hr workout at the gym

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
1:38 pm

Daaaaaannnng, Gina! That workout is serious. I wonder if I could divide by 10 to start. You know: 10 jumping jacks, 9 crunnches, etc…. :lol:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
1:39 pm

True that Mo…that whole line up is awesome and I know it’s gonna be great. I just got my Kem tickets this morning so I’m excited about that,too :-)

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:39 pm

LOL – gotta start somewhere. In fact, that’s not a bad idea at all.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
1:39 pm

LOL @ Into The Light! I am so cosigning though….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
1:40 pm

Sassy – you know when I heard Mint Condition was gonna be there too I was DONE! :smile:

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:52 pm

I also do a countdown workout.

15 squats
15 lunges
15 push ups
15 curls
15 crunches

Then
14 squats
14 lunges
14 push ups
14 curls
14 crunches

Then 13 of each
Then 12….

And so on.

I also will mix and match different exercises to put in the countdown.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
1:52 pm

I was like :shock: when I heard the line-up Mo…any one of those acts alone are great but to have all of them together is a helluva good idea.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:53 pm

I wanted to see that concert, but at those prices and with the wedding savings campaign in full effect. Well……….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
1:54 pm

Well damn SexyCool aka WonderWoman! I hear you chica!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
1:56 pm

SexyCool – yeah this may be my last concert this year unless someone else I abso-smurfly LOVE comes to town. This wasprobably the most I’ve spent.

And Im so happy for you and TheDude! Yaaaaay!

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
1:58 pm

MissMo – I’ve got to get to my ideal body image so that I can go find a dress. I refuse to dress shop until I hit that mark. (lol)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
2:09 pm

SCool – Thats WASSUP!! :smile: Like I said, I am happy for you both!

Oh and fall baseball is coming for Lil Mo, I’ll keep you posted if you want to come out.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
2:09 pm

Like the workout, but no way can I do 90 crunches. No way!

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
2:12 pm

I can’t do that many either yet. I haven’t done this workout yet. I’m actually trying to find someone that has and see what how they get through it.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
2:13 pm

My problem would be the squats….. :shock: But that is a helluva workout

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
2:13 pm

How about I go to the Publix down the street from my job & purchase a jar of peanut butter to make a sandwich and keep at my desk. I get here all tuned up to make my sandwich, open the jar and it’s been tampered with!! The sealing is peeled off and it’s been dug into and eaten out of real good! Now I have to take it back, and that’s a major pain. I’m am SO MAD!!!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:14 pm

absosmurfly…that had me lol. Love, love, love The Smurfs. Gonna have to grab one of the godkids and check out the movie.

Oooooh, SC. Go to Bridals by Lori, so we can see you on Say Yes to the Dress. I was watching that the other day, and this girl described her sister’s (the bride’s) sense of style as Pentecostal Chic! I ROTF!

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
2:15 pm

Eek!!!! Blech!!! Gggrrr!!!

cba

August 17th, 2011
2:17 pm

Did anyone see the young lady feathered into today’s ajc lifestyle weight loss? She has lost 70lbs, from 345. She said at 345, her ankles would just roll over as she walked. Now she has ran in the last two PT races. She’s looking really good……I like reading those good news stories.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:17 pm

Ewwwww. :( Feel sorry for whoever was that hungry, though.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
2:19 pm

Yeah SCool, see if you can get on tv!! :)

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
2:19 pm

cba – she is a part of my Black Girls Run running group. Babygirl gets it IN!!!

cba

August 17th, 2011
2:20 pm

Sorry young sista, that was 245, not 345.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:20 pm

I just read the article. Way to go, Ms Kizzy! She looks great.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
2:21 pm

cba – Yeah, I read that yesterday, I like those stories too! She was actually 245 pounds and 5′2″! :shock: That’s heavy, but especially for someone that short!

cba

August 17th, 2011
2:23 pm

The article said she’s 5′-2″ but 175 looks good on her. That ’s what excerise can do.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
2:23 pm

The squat, lunges, curls and jumping jacks would be a breeze for me.

Just remember about the D.O.M.S after those squats and lunges if you haven’t been doing any.

Delayed.Onset.Muscle.Soreness – will feel 24 to 48 hours LATER!!!! You will be walking like you have a stick up your butt!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
2:24 pm

@cba ~ I read her story…she looks fabulous.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:26 pm

And speaking of Bridals by Lori, I was flipping through the channels the other night and Madeas Family Reunion was on and at the scene where Vanessa is leaving work and getting on Frankie’s bus. And I realized that the building where “Vanessa” works is Bridals by Lori. Hunh. Who knew.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:30 pm

You will be walking like you have a stick up your butt! :shock:

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
2:30 pm

@kimmie ~ people are always going into peoples lunches here. I got fed up one day after someone tampered with my short ribs, cabbage rice n gravy (a few years ago). I put a sign on the fridge’s door saying how they should be ashamed of themselves and that I want to be compensated for my lunch. They could leave $10.00 at my desk no questions asked. A few days later, there was a $10.00 bill on my keyboard. Another time, when I was really into drinking my Fanta Orange, went to get my can of soda and someone had opened it, drank half, and put it back. Really, do you really expect me to guzzle down the rest. These lunch thieves are off the chain. No shame!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
2:33 pm

Because each step hurts, ITL!

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
2:33 pm

SCool – When you are ready to shop, check out this little shop over on Windy Hill called Tie The Knot. Two sisters own it and they have some beautiful things. Not only bridal gowns, but gorgeous jewelry and accessories, dresses for others in your wedding party and other cocktail and special occasion dresses. I got a really nice cocktail dress on sale that I took to Vegas, a nice cocktail ring and a flower for my hair for the wedding. They have stuff you don’t see everywhere and they are some nice sisters. I’ll tell you how to get there if you want to check them out.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:34 pm

I read about Kizzy,too. Yep when your ankles get to rollin over own they’re own something’s gotta be done. When I read her height/weight and then saw her I was shocked but I’m glad she stuck with it.

so we can see you on Say Yes to the Dress.

I like watching that show sometimes and was looking at an episode the other day…a young lady(plus size with some issues it seemed), brought her fiance’s ex-girlfriend with her to pick out dresses and the ex was such a biotch. She had the bride to be so self conscious it was awful…I was trying to figure out why in hell she was there in the first place…

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
2:36 pm

Leggs – They do it here too. That’s just nasty, especially something someone brought from home! I got a thermal lunch bag that I put an ice pack in and keep my lunch at my desk now.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:38 pm

Sassy, I SAW that one. She was so mean!!! He’ll never go for that…he’s not gonna spend that….he wouldn’t like that….
In the end it turned out okay, but I was shocked that she would even bring someone like that to the shop.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
2:39 pm

Talk about a love triangle….sheesh…

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:42 pm

ITL I hope that chick sees that episode(or someone tells her they say her hatin on tv) and I hopeshe feels like warm sh!t on a hot day in July. She was super crass and just mean as all get out…I wouldn’t even torture myself and help another woman pick out a dress to marry my ex in..I ‘on care how down n cool we are…

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:43 pm

there I go again..*saw* not say

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
2:47 pm

I hope so, too. I can’t even begin to imagine who thought that was a good idea. If I were her, and I saw that episode, I would be ashamed of myself.

Almost as bad was that girl whose friend wanted her to be a bridesmaid, but she would only agree if the dress was a color she liked, and it mader her look beautiful, and and and…. she was trying to make the day all about her and using whether or not she would be in a wedding as a weapon against her friend the bride. I wanted to smack her with a stiff net crinoline.

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
2:50 pm

sooooo how bout those Falcons (smile)

cba

August 17th, 2011
2:51 pm

Sassy, I hope y’all are on top of this brain-eating amoeba. Just to think of that………damn

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:52 pm

I saw that episode,too ITL and that bride should cut her off completely. How do you try to upstage the BRIDE at her wedding?! How selfish is that?!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:55 pm

Well cba since 1995 ~ 112 people have died from this particular kind of amoeba..since it’s so rare a treatment hasn’t been found. Also, it’s theorized that many more people are exposed than develope this disease..why hasn’t been determined as of yet.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
2:55 pm

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:07 pm

ITL – was this bridesmaid (and bride) kinda chunky?

cba

August 17th, 2011
3:07 pm

Sassy, I ‘preciate your service :-)
Sometimes, when I can take it, I watch the program on Discovery channel about all the different parasites and bacteria we encounter. I think the shop is called the Monster inside Us.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:09 pm

I know, right??? I just wanted to smack her with the ring-bearer pillow and say, “Look here, chicky…it’s not YOUR day…if you want to be the center of attention, find somebody who’ll put up with your selfish behind.”

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:11 pm

SC – no, she was thin. Very thin, really, and flat chested. It’s funny, but what I remember most were her braces, her mile-long fingernails, and these awful orange socks she was wearing. Kinda funny, isn’t it, how when someone makes a bad impression you look for more things “wrong” with them?

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:12 pm

cba, I’ve watched that. I like the little quizzes they have at every commercial break.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:13 pm

But the bride was more on the healthy honey side, and looked like she had a lot of Indian (as in Asian, not Native American) in her, if I’m remembering correctly.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
3:14 pm

It’s always somebody other than the bride trying to make the day about them! I dealt with that too.

Best thing you can do is have as few people as possible involved in YOUR day and only let people know about things on a need-to-know basis!

If that doesn’t work, ELOPE!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:20 pm

After seeing this show, I think that’s good advice, Kimmie. These brides that come in there with 12 people to give 12 different opinions just frustrates me.

The show has sweet moments, too, though. Like the girl who wanted a pink dress to honor her mother being a breast cancer survivor. She came out in the dress and the mom started sobbing and I did, too! So sweet.

cba

August 17th, 2011
3:22 pm

ITL, watching that show has made me to wash my hands in scalding water whenever I have been working in the yard :-) Don’t want to go out like that.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:24 pm

@cba ~ main reason I don’t swim in lakes.

Did any of you see Say Yes to the Dress when this african american woman from England was on vacation in NY w/her fiance and they tried on the perfect wedding dress. It was different in every aspect and she wore it with perfection. A bit much than they bargained for since they only had their vacation money and wasn’t expecting to find a dress so quickly. They walked out w/o buying the dress. Her body was made for that dress!! She was stunning.

Jake a.ka. SPJ The Womb Beater

August 17th, 2011
3:26 pm

Who had stole somebody lunch…Hey ladies, head nod bruhs…whats the off topic topic today?

Jake a.ka. SPJ The Womb Beater

August 17th, 2011
3:28 pm

WillieD, them Falcons look good, but they need to sure up that Secondary, kinda concerned about Owens or Franks being the Nickel

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:31 pm

Gotcha – I saw an episode where this god-awful maidzilla was just being a bitch. I just didn’t get it. When my sister was planning her wedding, I went along with whatever. The only thing that I had a problem with was the fact that she made her bestie a co-maid of honor at the last minute. I was like, “Whatdahell?!?”

But in the end, it ended up being no big deal. Especially since she made that decision after we’d ordered the dresses and the bestie’s dress ended up being just like the rest of the bridesmaids. I was the only bridesmaid with a dress that was strapless like the bride’s. So…I *looked* like I was the only MOH. (lol)

Why did it matter? Quite honestly, it was kind of an ego thing.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:32 pm

But…I never said anything to my sister about it. I just complained to my friends and TheDude.

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
3:33 pm

Leggs – I saw that episode! I was sorry they couldn’t get it!

Simple Man...

August 17th, 2011
3:34 pm

Jake, I hate to be the one to say it, But the Falcons miss the playoffs this year….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
3:38 pm

Whaddup Jake, how do?

Okay so I have never watched an episode of SYTD….Im so reality TV challenged!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:38 pm

@kimmie ~ it looked so good on her!

@SC ~ wish more would own up to it…it’s an ego thing. Nothing wrong with it, it is what it is.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:39 pm

Was she an African-American living in England? Or…was she a Black woman from England?

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:42 pm

Oh…and something that I’ve determined about my wedding planning is that a LOT of all these traditions that folks follow just to be following for weddings are so out the window. We are doing this OUR way. Anyone that doesn’t like it is more than welcome not to come. (lol)

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
3:44 pm

Jake – I just was throwing a jab at the ladies for talking Wedding dresses. When we talk sports some of them throw a flag.
But, to comment on your post. Honestly, I am a Cowboy fan. Could really care less bout the Falcons. I think the falcons are still 1-2 yrs away. Yall have a very good team and its hard to break through to being a great team. The secondary issues are compounded by the pass rush issues. Can’t pay everybody.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:48 pm

I believe African living in England. I think?

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
3:50 pm

Speaking of co-maids, did y’all see that episode where the girl had “bridesmaids” and “honorary bridesmaids” She had two of each and wanted them to wear different dresses. The distinction was that the bridesmaids were family and the honoraries were friends, but all she ended up doing was making the honoraries feel like second class citizens. It was cool in the end, though, bc the honoraries got the prettier dress.

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
3:51 pm

SC – Thats the best stance to take at the end of the day. It is your Wedding, take ownership from the start and everything will be alright. When I was getting Married the Wife would ask what i thought about everything. Not that i didn’t want to be involved I just knew better. I just said “fugg what everybody else says or thinks. Its your wedding day and do whatever makes you happy. As long as you say i do i don’t give a dayum bout all that other isht”.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 17th, 2011
3:52 pm

SexyCool – ^5 on that chica…..

kimmie

August 17th, 2011
3:52 pm

We are doing this OUR way. Anyone that doesn’t like it is more than welcome not to come. (lol)

SCool – That was our attitude and that’s what I like about the things you’ve been telling me concerning your wedding. That actually was the problem I had with other people more than anything. Some couldn’t take it when I decided to do something OTHER than the way it’s ALWAYS been done! If I was 21 and mama was doing everything for me, maybe they’d have had an influence on me. But I’m a grown A– woman, with my own mind and tastes and desires about how I(along with hubby) wanted things done. Plus, if we payin, we sayin!

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:54 pm

What was even funnier about that episode, ITL, the honoray bridemaids picked out a dress that they hoped the bride wouldn’t like and she actually liked it…that backfired.

SexyCool

August 17th, 2011
3:56 pm

Plus, if we payin, we sayin!

LOVES this!!!!

Exiled!

August 17th, 2011
3:56 pm

Willie/Jake?

Why dontchu guys join me on the English football blogs? Looking forward to my Liverpool this year. So much promise!

Quit that ‘fat-men-handball’ thing’ u guys obsess with.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 17th, 2011
3:57 pm

I believe African living in England.

Yes they were and SHE WORE THAT DRESS!!! That was her dress and they walked away from it. That dress was so different and she carried it flawlessly…I’m wondering if anyone else tried it on and it worked out that fabulously..

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:57 pm

Plus, if we payin, we sayin!

EXCELLENT MOTTO…Someone needs to embroider this on a pillow. Is that a word????

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
3:59 pm

Yes indeed…SHE WORE THAT DRESS!!!

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
4:02 pm

Exiled – I’m trying to get to a point where I understand the details in futbol. I think its a beautiful sport but don’t know enough about it to comment on it just yet.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:05 pm

I’m glad my ex-wife found a cheap second hand wedding dress. My ex-father in law and ex mother in law divorced the month before we were married leaving us holding the bag for the entire wedding. Took 2 1/2 years to pay that sucker off. I even had to pay for my brother in laws tux. Glad that dress didn’t add a few thousand more.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
4:08 pm

My wedding dress was $100 and it was GORGEOUS.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
4:08 pm

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:08 pm

@ Exiled…watched the ladies team in their World Cup and they played the ball at their feet better than the USA men’s team did. I’m hopefully now that Klinnsman is coaching the US team. That combination of he and Matheus on the old West German team was beautiful. Klinnsman was one of the most intense stikers I ever watched.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:10 pm

@ Exiled…I think I have the spelling wrong on the German names. By the way, I’ve been to Manchester United’s stadium but not Liverpool’s.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
4:10 pm

Hey, Ex. Long time, no see.

Exiled!

August 17th, 2011
4:12 pm

Willie!

Just watch Major League and listen to the commentaries. That will clue u in on rules of the game,as they play. That’s how I learnt about ur football.

I don’t really pay attn to all the football(us) rules either. Too many.

Touch Down! is good enough same as score in soccer!

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:16 pm

I used to referee soccer. There aren’t but about nine or ten fouls. The problem is in the interpretation of “intent”. Not a complicated game at all.

Exiled!

August 17th, 2011
4:17 pm

Hey hey Randyt(shhhhhh!)

Us Women soccer team play waaaaay better than London Donovan and his buddies,no question!

Klinsman will be a breath of fresh air to Anerican soccer!

ITL hey…it’s new soccer season in England. I’m
Caught up there on the blogs,that’s why. And the girls are beer guzzling and sluttier! Lol

Shaunie

August 17th, 2011
4:18 pm

You + Me + She = I’m Out
You + Me + He = Yo Azz is Dead

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
4:18 pm

Exile/RandyT – I’m getting there. Its getting more exciting now that I understand whats going on.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:27 pm

@ Willie…what to look for when a team is on the attack is when they have “numbers” (more attackers than defenders opposing them). that is when things happen. Usually happens after aplayer fakes a defender out of his shorts and makes a run. You can see the play developing three or four passes out.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
4:27 pm

And the girls are beer guzzling and sluttier! :lol:

Can’t compete with that! :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:30 pm

ITL…what Exile isn’t telling you is that Liverpool is a very “working class” city and more than a little rough around the edges. so what he said about the women is fundemenatally true ;-)

Willie Dynamite

August 17th, 2011
4:38 pm

RandyT – I didnt get that until i understood the Offsides rules. Now I anticiapate and see the strategy. My only problem is now the stoppage time and flopping. I think the refs have too much power. Stoppage time, yellow/Red cards etc.
I have a few SA’s I’m cool with and they school me on the game before they get too drunk. Then it’s just hollering whistling and throwing cans.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:40 pm

In the World Cup six years ago, the referees allowed them to almost mug each other and got criticized. The last Cup and the Women’s Cup the referees tightened up too much. Hard to get right. Contrary to popular American belief, it is a contact sport.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:43 pm

What is cool is when a Western European team, i.e Germany, England, etc. who play a very deliberate game, play against a Latin style, i.e a Brazil or Argentina, which is very “free form” with all attacking and all defending. Hard to get a fix on what is happening.

Exiled!

August 17th, 2011
4:44 pm

ITL!

In Shona culture,they say ‘beer is tastier when there are women around’

I don’t drink beer but I think my beer drinking African American brothers and Swisses will concur with that statement. :lol:

Confirmed Bachelor

August 17th, 2011
4:44 pm

“Is it truly possible to be torn between two people?”

I’ll never understand people who do this.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
4:48 pm

Interesting saying, Ex. I like it.

In America they say women are prettier when beer is around. :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:50 pm

and they also say that he who leaves the dance last, leaves with the ugliest woman ;-)

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
4:52 pm

And all those sayings make sense!

Exiled!

August 17th, 2011
4:52 pm

Ugliest woman??

And that won’t reveal itself until the sober morning! :lol:

GET OUT Precious! :lol:

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
4:53 pm

Or, as we like to see ’round these parts….coyote ugly.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:55 pm

of course in these days of economic insecurity, they also suggest “going ugly early” to save money. ;-)

Confirmed Bachelor

August 17th, 2011
4:56 pm

“In America they say women are prettier when beer is around.”

I’ll drink to that!!!

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:57 pm

Last time I wandered into a “Coyote Uglt” bar, there were 16 women dancing on the bar at one time.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
4:57 pm

“Ugly” sorry.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
5:02 pm

There are five things that you cannot recover in life:

(1) The Stone………..after it’s thrown
(2) The Word…………after it’s said,
(3) The Occasion……..after it’s missed, and
(4) The Time…………after it’s gone
(5) A person…………after they die.

Nite!

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
5:03 pm

Yeah, I meant the other coyote ugly, Randyt. The kind where you wake up next to someone so ugly you gnaw your own arm off to keep from waking them. :)

“Go ugly early”….I nearly sprayed water all over my monitor….that is hilarious!

Celisea

August 17th, 2011
5:04 pm

And that won’t reveal itself until the sober morning!
GET OUT Precious!

LOLOL….I know I shouldn’t just because I shouldn’t but that was funny.

Nice Leggs

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 17th, 2011
5:07 pm

@ ITL …I know the term. That is what the bar was named after. Just made me think about it. Not sure if any are still open.

Nite all.

Into the Light

August 17th, 2011
5:09 pm

Wasn’t it a movie, too?? Seem to recall something similar.

Nite! Have a good one.

Leggs

August 17th, 2011
5:12 pm

Yep. One movie I never saw.

SlimNu

August 18th, 2011
8:11 am

Good morning,

I know i’m a bit early but is this going to be another bootleg blogging day?