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Dating under the influence

Call it one of life’s lessons: outside influences should not impact your relationship. Some of us had to learn the hard way. Like the time you over shared something about what was happening and it backfired on you.

We all have well meaning friends and relatives who want what is best for us. Sometimes they may get a little carried away and interfere, which actually could make things a lot worse. You could end up getting bad advice from someone who really should not have been able to influence your decisions or behavior at all.

Have you ever been influenced by people to make certain dating or relationship decisions?

How much do you share and how much do you keep close to the vest?

Would you ever dump someone because they were not liked by people in your circle?

One of my friends is seeing a woman that does not get along with his best friend. It is starting to become a problem because the best friend and girlfriend clash a lot. This leaves him sort of stuck in the middle. What would you do in this situation? Play peacemaker or keep them apart?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures In Atlanta Dating Blog

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Foxy

August 10th, 2011
6:48 am

GM Kids!
Foxy thinks you should watch your boy,there might be some sexual tension. Foxy keeps counsel with Foxy on matters of the heart.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
7:18 am

HiYas!

that’s a big ol “yes” to staying mum about relationship issues. it’s never been my style to seek or rely on the advice/approval of others when it comes to selecting or staying with a guy.

Would you ever dump someone because they were not liked by people in your circle?
not likely. folks in my circle tend to be more of the “i’ll give my opinion if you ask it, but no matter what you do, i’m with you.” types.

here’s the thing … we all have a gut feeling about whether or not two people make a good match, but no one knows for sure. my fam never really cared for my ex, but we stayed together 18 years and had two great kids. my sister, on the other hand, chose dudes we all were crazy about from day one; her marriages lasted less than 5 years each. her current dude is a complete :shock: we ALL question why she got with this guy. but guess what? they’ll probably stay together forever. oh well.

gotta get my hump day rollin. ugh.

DreamsMaterialize

August 10th, 2011
7:26 am

This is different than what I was initially thinking. I thought we were going to be talking about people who met their SO whilst either or both of them were under the influence. My bad. In that case, I’ve been DUI before and have been with someone who was. Either way, it never turns out well.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
7:59 am

Good morning,

Dreams – that sounds like a interesting topic idea…maybe after lunch we can explore that one as well. ;-)

Re: today’s topic, I am selective about what and who I tell anything about my relationships. And anyone who knows me, knows that no matter what they say, I am ultimately going to do what Slim wants to do. Currently, I’m not going to say someone close to me doesn’t necessarily like the beau, but I’m pretty sure she isn’t totally loving him either. I don’t know if it’s because things are little different as far as how my time is spent or for other reasons. They are one of those type of folks that likes to do things in groups, hang out etc…the beau isn’t so much of that type where he needs an audience or entourage to have fun. But oh well…

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
8:29 am

As some bosses of mine in the past have conveyed to me…”if I want your opinion I”ll give it to you”…and the old standby, “free advice is worth about what it costs”.

Very few people who offer advice are totally objective. All have agendas or lenses from their past that color their advice. At the end of the day, follow your own head and heart…they will mislead you often, but at least you will have no one to blame but yourself.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
8:32 am

Good morning, all!

I had to laugh @ Dreams’ post, because when I saw the topic I, too, thought we were going to discuss dating DUI. Or, as we used to refer to it in college, “beer goggles”.

On topic: I’m always going to have confide in and vent to my bestie, because I know that she is a sympathetic ear but is not judgmental. She listens, but does not say “you should” nor has she ever allowed anything I’ve vented about an SO to alter her treatment or opinion of him. Other than her, I pretty much keep mum on relationship issues; I’m not a big fan of airing dirty laundry for all to see.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
8:33 am

I’ve had several relationships that had major damage done by the lady listening to her siblings or mothers or close friends. The less told to people who might have influence, the better.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
8:54 am

Good morning!

“How much do you share and how much do you keep close to the vest?” When it comes to my relationships, I keep most of it to my vest. It’s not cool sharing your love life with your friends. Not only that, if you continue to give juicy details about your mate, you only pique their curiousity and you might come home one day to find them in bed together. I learned early in life, keep your relationship between you and your mate. Although friends may have your best interest at heart, they can be quite messy.

@DreamsM ~ I thought the same thing, meeting people while drunk (lol).

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
9:08 am

I never rely on people giving me advise about another person. Make decisions based on your own interaction. I want peace and will have it, if somebody want to be an influence they need to be that with children.

Single in the City

August 10th, 2011
9:13 am

I normally don’t share my business with others or listen when they provide unsolicited input…but I must say that when my friends told me that my child’s father was no good…I probably should have listened in the beginning and spared myself the five years of my life I wasted on him. :(

Button

August 10th, 2011
9:19 am

Some people over analyze things and that could cause problems especially if you are easily influenced by others opinion. If I know I have family/friends who over analyze everything and keep drama going then I would proceed with caution and take their opionion with a grain of salt, because I know that’s just them being them, but if I have family/friends who are grounded then and only then I would think about their concerns. But at the end of the day, I have to do what’s right for me.

CoolShadow

August 10th, 2011
9:22 am

How much do you share and how much do you keep close to the vest?

That depends on my level of trust in you. If you’re a confidante, I’ll share details but not all. If you’re just a regular acquaintance, the amount of information about my relationships that I share with you is little to nothing at best and varies inversely to the rate at which you run your mouth and gossip.

Would you ever dump someone because they were not liked by people in your circle?

Nope, but at times it seems as if this runs along gender lines. There are exceptions but generally speaking, some women have no problem being opinionated and critical of their friends’ love interests at any point while men tend to be silent during the relationship but might offer opinions in retrospect when things or going south or have ended.

Interesting topic, at one point I thought of suggesting something similar to Wise Diva for discussion. Some people have a knack for getting in the way and killing the momentum on other people’s relationships. Even worse are the people who let relationship saboteurs conduct their machinations.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
9:27 am

Good Morning Ladies and Gents:
Sorry I was up too late.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
9:31 am

Doing something fun, I hope, BF. :)

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
9:33 am

button, very good point! also, in my case being the baby of the bunch, i learned early on that no one will ever be good enough (in the eyes of my fam). even my nieces are ridikulously protective of me. guys just don’t stand much chance of getting that A++ rating across the board.

as was said already, everything is subjective. proceed accordingly.

Button

August 10th, 2011
9:36 am

Wise, that’s a tough situation your guy friend is in, with the woman he’s seeing and his friend at odds. You didn’t give much information as to how long he’s been seeing the woman and how long he’s been friends with the guy. At any rate, the date should know that he has his friends and she should respect that and know that she’s not required to be friends with the guy.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
9:39 am

It’s hard for me to believe a sound minded person don’t know when somebody means them no good. Seem to me you don’t need outside influences to tell you this, that person most likely will show and treat you like shi.

Button

August 10th, 2011
9:41 am

I have a gf who is always looking the the other shoe to drop.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
9:49 am

ITL:
Yep it’s a bet all the working parts were humming like a well oiled machine…..LOL

MsMarriedUp

August 10th, 2011
9:50 am

Randyt; on the “…but at least you will have no one to blame but yourself.” The funniest was someone once telling me they wanted advice so that they could do just the opposite… and have someone to blame.

Geat topic… cause it’s also funny that one of the biggest societal issues is this necessity to follow the herd. Gets on my nerves sometimes, but you know how it is… go to a new job and this one has to tell you how everyone is! I keep quiet, cause I like figuring out on my own who everyone is… just like in relationships.

The truth is most people openly seek out and rely on what others say… and that’s in every faucet of their lives… dating and mating included. That’s how we can for opinions about people we don’t even know… such as politicians and entertainers caught up in the news. Just listen around, every body knows what happened and not a one of us was there. What Madonna say… “It’s human nature.”

Hope I explained myself better this time… and didn’t go off topic;-) …and thanks Wise Diva… love the morning Java!

Button

August 10th, 2011
9:51 am

CzBrat, thank you! :wink:
I’m the baby of the bunch too.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
9:52 am

@Blackfoote ~ ever hear of the phrase “a wolf in sheep clothing?” Some are really, really good at masquerading their ill intent. Eventually, it all comes to a head, but by that time, damage has been done!

Also, have you watched the show SNAPPED? People change!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
9:53 am

Button:
Dear are you typing too fast? Don’t fret it happens to me all the time…..LOL

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
9:55 am

Good Morning All! :-)

I learned early on in my marriage to keep certain issues between me and hubby to myself. Your family and friends that you tell every bad thing about what your mate did will not take it too kindly once y’all make up and are playing kissy face.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
9:55 am

I’ve seen that show, Leggs. That one and “Who the BLEEP Did I Marry?” are scary!! :shock:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
9:57 am

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
9:58 am

here’s what i don’t get though. how long does it take to recognize the “wolves”? in your closest circle of friends and fam, should you not have eliminated the ones with ulterior motives by now? or at the very least eliminate them as sources of sound advice?

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
9:58 am

BF, you are naughty! Assume your position under the stairs (after you send me an e-mail with the juicy details….I kid! I kid!) :)

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
10:02 am

Answer to question #1 No
Answer to question #2 No
Answer to question #3 Yes

And your friends girlfriend and his best friend just probably have some sexual tension between them..lol. Seriously the best friend just needs to give his friend’s new relationship some space and let them be.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
10:03 am

Morning, folks.

On topic: What happens between you & me, stays between you & me. I’ve never been a fan of outside relationship advice — unless maybe it’s a professional, unbiased counselor or something — simply because friends and family 1) are never totally objective and 2) generally only hear one side of the story. If we have problems, we should be talking to each other. And if we can’t talk to each other, then we have bigger problems that whatever the thing is that we’re not talking about.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
10:04 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:04 am

Leggs:
You know I know a wolf very well, and a lot folks walk around in sheep skin. They put me in mind of the song Smiling Faces. As for snapped I’ve seen some of it and it’s crazy I know some of those folks wish they had another minute to think before their final act.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
10:05 am

You do’nt need to tell anybody anything beyond a general description, maybe how you met. If she is crazy and not worth a damn, you’ll know it soon enough. If she/he proves to be unworthy, open the back door. Plain and simple.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
10:07 am

“If she/he proves to be unworthy, open the back door.”

Or keep the back door dead-bolted shut, depending on the context. :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:07 am

@czB ~ you would think one would be able to discern bad intent from good intent. But, when the heart is front and center, stupidity reigns. No matter what a friend “hips” the friend to in terms of the character of their new love interest, they won’t see it until its too late. Love is blind. And, it’s like with our children, the more we talk against someone they like the more they’re drawn to that person. Same with adult friends!

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
10:08 am

Blackfoote, I agree with your 9:39, there are always signs. Sometimes our blinders just get in the way.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:08 am

Interesting you bring up Smiling Faces. I tell my child about that all the time!!

Button

August 10th, 2011
10:10 am

Blackfoote – Oops! :lol:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
10:12 am

Makes me think about the O’Jays.: What they do? They smile in your face….All the time they want to take your place….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 10th, 2011
10:15 am

Morning All!! Hope everyone is going well!

Have you ever been influenced by people to make certain dating or relationship decisions? Umm nope…

How much do you share and how much do you keep close to the vest? depends on who Im sharing with. My BFF is a guy so he tends to give fair advice, whether I like it or not

Would you ever dump someone because they were not liked by people in your circle? Nope!! Hell I have some friends that dont like each other, doesnt mean I cutting my friends off.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
10:16 am

If you’re paying attention, one can determine if a potential mate is worth a damn, just via initial conversations alone. Before a date occurs. I tend to listen to fam/friends, cause I tend to let only the ones I deem to be sharpest get close enough to me to feel comfortable enough to offer advice.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:16 am

ITL:
I should be home, LOL…(under stairwell) trying to be a good boss for my employees. I’ll make it up this evening for sure, isn’t that right Leggs.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:19 am

@ITL ~ I was thinking of this Smiling faces

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

Smiling faces sometimes pretend to be your friend
Smiling faces show no traces of the evil that lurks within
Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes
They don’t tell the truth uh
Smiling faces, smiling faces
Tell lies and I got proof

The truth is in the eyes
Cause the eyes don’t lie, amen

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
10:19 am

I would dump someone if they did not get along with my close circle.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
10:20 am

@ Blackfoot – How can you be a good boss for your employees, at home? Just wondering.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:20 am

How the heck do I know, BF…stop all that insinuating. You a trip (lol)!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:22 am

Hey Purple:
Those blinders are a mf, I’ve had my share of them. It also is a learning experience and if one don’t learn they will keep traveling on the same road.

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
10:22 am

“Who the BLEEP Did I Marry- ITL, I love this show!

I have to think though, some folk must really have their heads in the clouds or there are some actors and actresses that have missed their calling in life :lol:

There are always signs, always!

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:23 am

Well one thing I know you will make up is your sleep. If you’re talking about that, yep you’ll make it up!

Reio

August 10th, 2011
10:24 am

@ Lovely Brown – I agree. Ca’nt hide crazy for long.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
10:26 am

I know I have had blinders on before…nobody to blame but myself.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:29 am

Reio:
I wish I was at home now, but I fought the sleepiness and came on in. Of course my employees don’t know this. You know your name reminds me of Rio all suite hotel casino in Vegas it boast the best seafood buffett in Vegas and it is.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:34 am

Leggs:
Sleep deprived yep.

ITL:
Those back stabbers.

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
10:36 am

Morning Gang!

I’ve always tried to keep my business to myself. I learned early on not to tell close friends and family anything, especially family. There was this guy that was “planning” on doing me dirty in high school. I got wind of it and dumped him. Running my mouth and told my older sister, who worked at a local college. Lo and behold, he was a senior and had applied there. My sister talked about him to some of her coworkers who worked in admissions. Bingo, his acceptance and scholarship they were going to offer him vanished. Dang, he was a dog but I didn’t mean for it to go that far! He ended up going somewhere bigger & better anyway so it worked out all good. But that’s when I realized my family played it kinda gansta!LOL!! Anyway, any guy I dealt with had to be somebody I could be proud to bring around family.

As for friends, I’ve always kept them out, but a few tried to come to their own conclusions looking from the outside. All up in the koolaid and didn’t know the flavor. I love em, but they still got the hand.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:37 am

Purple you know that is a key component, if she fit in the circle of influence there’s no need for anybody to comment negatively.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
10:37 am

♥ ♥ ♥ Ooooh, I think I missed a blog romance. Leggs, BF…is there something you’d like to share with the rest of the class??? ♥ ♥ ♥

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:43 am

Yep, class dismissed.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
10:45 am

Blackfoote, exactly. I don’t put anyone in my business or entertain someone speaking on my relationships. I am very family oriented, there is not a day that goes by that I do not see a family member so that person has to fit in the circle and become part of it.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
10:46 am

Rut ro. I’m putting myself in timeout for speaking out in class without raising my hand. :(

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:46 am

LOL…..@Leggs and ITL

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:50 am

Rut ro?>> Is that Scobby Doo?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:52 am

ITL:
LOL…..Leggs done dis-missed me like Sargent Carter. Us big dogs hang out under the stairs, you leave time out alone and join me…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
10:56 am

That’s good Leggs you picked up on that, I must say y’all some sharp women.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
10:58 am

Woohoo! I’m freeeee! :)

Slide over, BF. I brought us some binoculars to get a better view of the action in the blog room.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
10:58 am

Hmmmmm…not sharp cuz I picked up on Scooby Doo. Just let’s me know my long-term memory is still working (LOL).

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
10:59 am

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
11:01 am

It is Scooby Doo. And speaking of, what do y’all think was REALLY going on in the Mystery Machine?? I mean, we all know Shaggy was 420 all the time and that’s why he had the munchies. But Fred, Daphne, and Velma…. hmmmmm…..

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
11:01 am

Actually, I told a story. It’s not Scooby Doo. It’s Astro from the Jetsons.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:01 am

Three Words Daily – Speak *your* prophecy.

The words that you speak today will be your prophecy for your tomorrow.

That being said, you better be damned certain that you are speaking positive things into your life and the lives of those around you. {More…}

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:02 am

Run Report – No run for me this morning. I *had* to go to the grocery store. I was out of fresh fruit and vegetables. Fitness starts from the inside out.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
11:08 am

Sexy Cool, LOL yeah okay

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:09 am

To the topic:

This is again one of those things where as I learned better and did better.

As I aged, matured, grew into my own person, starting caring less about others’ opinions – not saying that some opinions don’t have value, stopped trying to analyze my partner’s every move, started communicating with my partner about our issues, ish in relationships got a heckuva lot easier.

Now, I share *some* of the good. Very, very, very little of the not so good. Other folks have longer memories about the bad in your relationship and have little stake in forgiving, repairing and moving past injuries or slights, real or imagined.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
11:09 am

SC, I took a quick scan through the three words daily blog. Really good stuff – I’m going to check out the archives when I have more time. Thanks for sharing.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:13 am

Purp – Seriously though, I drove to work yesterday with the full intention of going on the way home. However, when I pulled in to the Kroger parking lot, there were way too many doggone cars in the parking lot. I didn’t want to wear out the last nerve that I had left this morning and since I am on pace to meet my minutes/miles for the week, I do not feel at all bad about not running this morning.

Especially since it would have profited me little to get out and run this morning and head to the vending machine this afternoon because I didn’t have my apple and banana for the day.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
11:14 am

Sexy Cool, you need off days anyway. I start back tomorrow doing recovery runs.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:14 am

I didn’t want to wear out the last nerve that I had left….yesterday, that is…

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
11:14 am

13 Days and Counting……..
On topic…..Simple Man’s rules for dating…..

#1 Keep all of your business to yourself
# 2 Limit the number or don’t in all relationships….
# 3 KEEP ALL OF YOUR BUSINESS TO YOURSELF!!!!!

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
11:16 am

Astro from the Jetsons. I don’t remember that. Hell, there goes my theory on my long-term memory!

Cold cut artist of the day = Guy! Just called and correctly guessed, but I’m not eligible to win for another month!

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:16 am

Thanks, ITL. I try…

Purp – you are absolutely right. Today is my first day not running in ten days.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
11:18 am

404 741 1075 for those interested.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
11:22 am

Sexy Cool, wow why every day?

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
11:23 am

My report is somewhat dismal. I did 2 walking miles yesterday in 29.38. Didn’t walk this past weekend. Well, I walked around two malls looking for back to school clothes for my big rugrat.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:24 am

Well, I’m only running two very slow miles, first of all. Secondly, I have a goal that I am working to get to before I start shopping for a dress.

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
11:27 am

My report is okay. I’m walking, not running the plan. But I’ve been doing it and feeling very good.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
11:28 am

Wow, so that’s YOUR blog, SC? Excellent.

Good morning, Simp. ;)

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:30 am

(lol) – yep…that’s me.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
11:30 am

As long as you ladies are in motion is all that matters for now :) Sexy Cool don’t plateau and get stuck short of your weight goal..running every day can do that to you

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
11:31 am

Morning ITL…..Hope you are doing well today :)

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:32 am

I have a couple of others as well. Mostly about nothing. I don’t like to do *too* much self-promotion on Wise’s spot. :)

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:33 am

Purp – I’ve recently added a few days a week of strength training.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
11:36 am

when I pulled in to the Kroger parking lot, there were way too many doggone cars in the parking lot

SC, you give me the courage to share this of which i am most ashamed. on more than one occasion i have driven into and immediately out of the publix parking lot simply because i couldn’t find a “desirable” space.

judge me if you will.

:blush:

LOL

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
11:39 am

LOL – czB. Girl, I was in the West End. I just didn’t want to deal with all them folk INSIDE the store. I just decided to come back when I knew I could beat the EBT card carrying and baby-hollering crowd.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
11:39 am

LOL@CanalZone tsk tsk tsk

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
11:39 am

Brat – Done the same thing.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
11:42 am

A “desirable” parking space…that is funny. Never thought about it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
11:50 am

“EBT card carrying and baby-hollering crowd”.
That is funny, what does EBT stand for.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
11:57 am

Electronic Benefits Transfer…

Mr_NYC

August 10th, 2011
12:01 pm

EBT is Eats Beer & Tobacco

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:01 pm

Well I’ll be I would have never guessed, I liked the old term “Food Stamps”…..LOL

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
12:03 pm

You can get so much more than food with an EBT…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:04 pm

LOL….@Mr_NYC

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:07 pm

Mr_NYC

August 10th, 2011
12:10 pm

Wait till the middle of the month when those EBT card holders start selling the leftover value at 50% to get the cash — best sale on the block right there

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:15 pm

Mr_NYC:
I would be first in line…..LOL
I want to know what Leggs saying you can get other than food, WTH.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:23 pm

Somebody call the exterminator for these crickets, I can stomp only so many of them. Well I know where they aren’t…..LOL

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
12:24 pm

EBT card holders start selling the leftover value at 50% to get the cash — best sale on the block right there

When I was in college looking for a Ramen noodle alternative, I did the food stamp deals a few times but then started feeling guilty cause I felt like I was contributing to neglect of a child(ren) because the parent…so I stopped doing it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
12:30 pm

Sassy Me:
The Fed’s need to corale that thing in, it’s way out of what it was intended to serve for.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
12:34 pm

Sass – integrity and a sense of personal responsibility can be something else sometimes. Trust, I know.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
12:41 pm

<emThe Fed’s need to corale that thing in

Yes they do Blackfoote…I was listening to the radio and heard that some parts of Florida want to mandate it such that people receiving any type of aid(food stamps/unemployment insurance) be routinely drug tested. The whole system needs to be overhauled but that’s another can of worms..

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
12:43 pm

Indeed it can Sexy…I felt like I’d gotten a ral good “come up” with the food stamp deal but my conscience couldn’t/wouldn’t let me do it.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
12:44 pm

should’ve been *real*..

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
12:47 pm

And forget waiting til mid-month, I have a neighbor that willing to do business the day she got hers.

Ashamedly, right after we moved, I took the deal a couple of times, but then, ended up telling TheDude that I just didn’t feel right about it and wouldn’t be doing it anymore.

Since I have stopped showing interest in doing *that* kind of business with her, I don’t see her, her girlfriend or either one of their kids EVER and they live right across the street.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
12:48 pm

Instead of welfare move those people out to a farm and let them grow what they need or let them earn their “keep”. I support drug testing recipients and I think if you get pregnant while on it your benefits need to stop because that is just irresponsible.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
12:51 pm

conscience and good moral fiber are all fine and good, but sometimes those hunger pangs just don’t let you think clearly.

random —-> coworker just told me she wears size 2 kids shoes. she is tiny but dang! that just don’t sound right. at all.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
1:01 pm

Purple:
Let them earn their keep. Understandably some people need the help no problem there. Others are just raping the system. Same goes for SSI.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
1:02 pm

i sooooo want this $799 AI deal to panama on travelzoo!!! grrrrr. :mad:

must be feeding time on the blog. lemme get to the trough before it’s all gone.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:04 pm

The issue that I have with that is – how do you balance the system?

It is human nature that folks try to best position themselves to take advantage of any situation. And a lot of times that happens to the detriment of others.

How long is it before making them work for it amounts to little more than indentured service?

(And please don’t take this to mean that I don’ think that the system does not need an overhaul.)

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:07 pm

Indentured service or share-cropping, that is?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
1:07 pm

I know this guy who gets SSI, why because he has a blood disorder. How the hell having a blood disorder can prevent one from working every day?

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
1:07 pm

Canal Zone, I have used this site often

http://www.offandaway.com/

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
1:09 pm

Sexy Cool, I just consider it earning their keep. They get paid like a w-2 employee and what they do with their money is on them. But no help outside of them getting paid for the work that they do. If they want better do better.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
1:10 pm

I know a lady on a list for kidney transplants, having to do dialysis every other day sick all the time but yet is working a full time job. I just don’t get it.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
1:13 pm

I think waking up and doing some work beats just waking up and having no plan except to eat some food smoke, some weed and have sex living off of tax payers. If you are on welfare and not handicapped they should go till land or work in library a recycling center or volunteer at the United Way or something as long as they are on it. I am just really opposed to people getting stuff for free.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
1:19 pm

thanx reign. travelzoo is a good deal, but you have to use it by 12/14. we are not planning to go until next year. i’ll add offandaway to my faves.

SC, i tellya the time i spent working at a tax credit apartment community was a serious eye opener as to just how crafty folks can be. there are more people out there claiming benefits while getting their side hustle on and just all-around living better than honest working families. smdh.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:20 pm

What I am opposed to is folks abusing the system.

Again, I agree that something needs to be done. The question is – what is that something?

With this particular thought pattern, it would make almost every welfare recipient a civil servant.

And we haven’t even touched unemployment benefit recipients, who typically end up as welfare recipients, especially the 99ers.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:21 pm

I just don’t get it.

That’s the thing…you have some people who are worthy,yet get denied benefits(or don’t even try to get them) and then you have some who qualify through a loop hole and ride it til the wheels fall off.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
1:22 pm

IMP, nothing wrong with them being a civil servant, better than being a leach to society.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
1:23 pm

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:25 pm

there are more people out there claiming benefits while getting their side hustle on and just all-around living better than honest working families.

I know a FAMILY like that…the mom is on some type of assisstance as are her two daughters but all three work a job where they get paid “under the table”… Most times when I see them they’re fresh to death and they joke about how poor they look when they go to see their case worker at “the welfare house”(that’s what they call it but idk why)..

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:27 pm

And as one who grew up in an under the income limit household that qualified for benefits, I can promise you that we were not living “high on the hog.” The assistance that came in as WIC and government food subsidies (gubment cheese) and food stamps was used to stretch what money my grandmother had.

I didn’t own a pair of name brand ANYthing that didn’t come from a garage sale or the white lady across town or a pair of shoes that did not come from TG&Y or Payless until I had a job and bought them myself.

In the summertime, I wasn’t playing and sleeping in and watching cartoons. My grandmother had us in the fields, picking peas and butter beans and canning in the afternoons and riding up and down dirt roads, picking up aluminum cans.

So, the thought process that EVERY welfare recipient is lazy and good for nothing and doesn’t deserve it doesn’t necessarily fly with me.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
1:31 pm

i have a niece who treats these programs like a second income. she thinks nothing of walking off a job or just not showing up for work simply because she can reactivate whatever benefits she’s grown accustomed to with little or no prob whatsoever.

where’s the incentive to deal with the conditions your employer is PAYING you to deal with in order to handle your bills and feed yourself and your son out of your own checking account!?!
that is one chick who simply missed the lesson on pride and work ethic.

Willie Dynamite

August 10th, 2011
1:34 pm

Afternoon All,

On Topic – By nature I’m a vey private person. I don’t have alot of friends (3) that I even talk to a a regular basis. We’ve been friends for over 20 years and they dont offer advice but will tell me when I’m fugging up. Two of those cats are what i consider mentors and have always given me life advice straight no chaser. They dont comment on specific relationship advice or you should do this type of stuff.
I do have 1 time I broke all of my rules in college. The one that got away. i had a buddy that was going back and telling my chick everything (i mean everything). He ended up getting her. I dont blame him cause I was foul but I learned that Wolves do indeed travel in packs. Since then I been my own 1 man wolfpack. Of course I still have people I bounce things off of but My Life is just that. My Life.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:44 pm

So, the thought process that EVERY welfare recipient is lazy and good for nothing and doesn’t deserve it doesn’t necessarily fly with me.

That’s true…there are some people that NEED the system and others who don’t but still reap the benefits b/c they can….what to do?

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
1:45 pm

@BF ~ I can’t think of anything right now. I just remember being surprised at certain things one can get with EBT. As soon as I come up with something, I’ll let you know.

Mr_NYC

August 10th, 2011
1:45 pm

The system needs to be taken off of life support and a new design started. Help needs to be provided — temporarily — to those who’ve fallen on hard times. Help needs to be provided though in a way that allows folks to maintain their dignity and not create an entire socioeconomic generation of dependency on largesse.
Interesting to look at how many of these programs strated out as political tools and vote-getters and thus have morphed into the resource sucking monsters they have become today.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:46 pm

Since then I been my own 1 man wolfpack. Of course I still have people I bounce things off of but My Life is just that. My Life.

well said…

Fion

August 10th, 2011
1:48 pm

I don’t get into the political conversations often on this Blog, but I’ll add this.
There are far more people needing the assistance than quote un quote “Ripping off the system”.
If no one saw it, last week it was reported that 1/3, 33% of the population of the state of Alabama was on Food Stamps.
There are legitimate people in need. Don’t abuse of any system cloud your vision.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:49 pm

I just remember being surprised at certain things one can get with EBT.

I’m surprised regularly as well…I’ve noticed(especially in the hood) the number of hand written signs that read “Now accepting EBT cards” in the front of several stores(beauty supply,likka,gas stations,etc.)

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:52 pm

Fion – I actually consider this conversation to be more social conversation than a political discussion.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
1:53 pm

Ok, I made it back…so we’re discussing goverment assistance, trifling abusers, ebt cards…Hmmmm Just the other day I saw a delivery truck for some type of store that had “Now accepting ebt cards with no delivery charge”

Fion

August 10th, 2011
1:53 pm

I meant don’t let abuse of…………

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:55 pm

However, I’m sure *some*one will come in and make it so.

Fion

August 10th, 2011
1:56 pm

Just as a footnote, we spend $1billion a month in Afghanistan. There would have be a whoooooole
lot of Shenanigans going on to equal that tab.

Willie Dynamite

August 10th, 2011
1:57 pm

Let me first say I agree that the system needs overhauling. Most importantly I think as a society we tend to place emphasis on the smal things that are in our arena daily. We may notice pookie and Boomquisha getting $300 worth of food stamps and cry outrage. Do we notice or get outraged at Halliburton getting billions. Do we notice or get outraged at our representatives cozying up to Big oil while they report earnings in the billions and you are deciding on whether to put 1/2 tank or fuill it up. How about any other high level high dollar scheme (for lack of a better word) that is perpetrated ongoing.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
1:59 pm

WillieD/Fion – you guys just took the words right off of my fingertips.

There is corruption at all levels. Whether it be a $100 a month illgotten in the hood or a $100 million a year illgotten on a corporate level.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
1:59 pm

Willie we are cognizant of those issues as well,however, EBT cards was the subject. We’re aware….

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
2:01 pm

Exactly, SassyMe. It’s the signs around town I’ve noticed that accepts EBT. You look at the store and wonder WTH are they going to buy from there with an EBT!

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:01 pm

@ WIllie D

that’s all I’m saying. Are we all angry, you damn straight, but I for one will not miss place my anger.
I’m not gonna hit the ‘Bus Boy”. Let me slap the onwer for selling 10day old meat!!!

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
2:03 pm

I don’t have an EBT card but do they allow folks to put actual money on the card to purchase the non-grocery items or something? That’s the only way I can see being able to buy 5 packs of Yakki straigh weave number 1b with an ebt card? Anyone know?

Button

August 10th, 2011
2:03 pm

Yeah what Willie Dynamite said…..

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
2:03 pm

My mother received FS as I was growing up. I’ve always noticed the shame people had pulling them out and ripping out the dollar amount. My brothers and sisters were ashamed to go to the store for Mama. I wasn’t. Hell, I was glad to be eating by any means necessary. I understood what FS stood for, but I wasn’t ashamed because my mother needed the assistance then. Went in with my head held high and came out with groceries and head still held high.

Willie Dynamite

August 10th, 2011
2:06 pm

Sassy – understood.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
2:06 pm

I’m not gonna hit the ‘Bus Boy”. Let me slap the onwer for selling 10day old meat!!!

corruption starts at the top and trickles down in an evil domino effect…ultimately hurting those with no power to change the policy(ies)…and benefitting the ones who started it all in the first place, which is their end all be all…

Button

August 10th, 2011
2:07 pm

no longer called food stamp, it’s called SNAP – supplemental nutrition assistance program

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
2:08 pm

Went in with my head held high and came out with groceries and head still held high.

that’s cause you had that good souse meat in the bag :lol:

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
2:09 pm

*some*one
what’s going on ^ here? you made more blog enemies? LOL

That’s the only way I can see being able to buy 5 packs of Yakki straigh weave number 1b with an ebt card
just oh my!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
2:10 pm

There are people that truly need help long term or temp. When I’m standing in line at a store and over hear teenage girls saying they can’t wait to get pregnant so they can get a check and food stamps. Something at their house isn’t working right.

Mr_NYC

August 10th, 2011
2:11 pm

And since the corruption and abuse is at all levels that’s why it keeps going. As long as you don’t take away my slice I’ll let you keep on eating your crumbs.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
2:15 pm

Something at their house isn’t working right.

Cause that’s where they’re learning it..most times, at home. You have some families that have several generations(in the same house sometimes) on/in “the system”…

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:17 pm

@NYC

it’s the Matrix man. Don’t unplug me. I don’t wanna see, I don’t wanna know the truth.

Willie Dynamite

August 10th, 2011
2:17 pm

I can say I’ve been on both ends of the problem. I’ve bought $100 worth of food staps for $20 worth of crumbs. I’ve also bought $1000 worth of Oil futures @$84 barrel and sold for $118/barrel.

I am the part of the problem and the solution.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
2:18 pm

Dang Blackfoote. I’ve been in many grocery stores different times of the day and I have never overhead that. Oh my!

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
2:18 pm

Cause that’s where they’re learning it..most times, at home.

getting over is as much a learned behavior (often within the home from early childhood) as is doing whatever it takes to earn one’s keep. it takes a strong minded/willed individual to choose a different route.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
2:22 pm

Okay, you knew I couldn’t resist chiming in here all day, didn’t you? :lol:

First off, let me just acknowledge that fraud and abuse absolutely exists and absolutely is a problem with social safety net (I hate the “entitlement” label) programs. Of course, among those programs, the biggest issue with fraud is with Medicare, and it’s with fake providers stealing SSNs & filing fraudulent claims for products & services they don’t actually provide, not individual recipients fleecing the system.

But what has always confounded me, is how quick many people are to point to fraud and abuse in these programs and immediately use that as “proof” that the entire system is a failure & should be scrapped. Meanwhile, when Wall St & Corporate America f#ck over the average, working tax payer, many of those same folks don’t want a single bit of oversight or regulation on those crooks, who, by the way, when they f#ck you, they f#ck you HARD, with a super-sized mandigo shlong. :lol:

Every system can & will be abused. We definitely can & should find ways to limit that abuse, but that doesn’t mean those systems are intrinsically bad.

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:22 pm

yeah!!! what she said.

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:24 pm

….and what he said too!!!!!

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:26 pm

In the game of life a lot of Folk really don’t want to win. They’ll settle for looking
good while they lose.

~Ciao~

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
2:26 pm

Earlier this year, I was in a position to take advantage of a government assistance program when purchasing our home.

However, due to bad information on the part of my bank, I walked away from $16K because waiting on the money would have most likely meant that we lost the entire deal.

Now, had I been desparate for the money, I could have waited on it. And although I didn’t *need* it, I was well within my legal right to take advantage of it. In the end, though, the deal on the house was already so good that I didn’t want to chance losing it because of greed.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
2:26 pm

Yes it take strong willed mind to get above the fray. There are success stories of women having good business sense and pulling themselves up.

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
2:30 pm

o/t – The sister in the Daugherty gang favors Bristol Palin.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
2:31 pm

The system is not intrinsically bad. There are people hurting and are in need. Saw a report that said that about 77% of all welfare recipients are on it for just over a year and are gone, never to return.
What we need to do is remove these children from those who keep having them, without the means to feed them. One congressman(do’nt remember who), said, years ago, that the best way to stop this is to automatically give custoduy of the child to the fathers. See what happens then.

Fion

August 10th, 2011
2:33 pm

@ Sexy
Danm, you mean it ain’t Bristol. I’ve got to smokin’ that Sunk in the middle of the day!

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
2:33 pm

I don’t have an EBT card but do they allow folks to put actual money on the card to purchase the non-grocery items or something? That’s the only way I can see being able to buy 5 packs of Yakki straigh weave number 1b with an ebt card? Anyone know?

Slim- Just like they no longer issue paper food stamps, they no longer issue paper checks for AFDC or TANF as it is now called. All the benefits go on the card. Don’t even have to get up and go to the mail box or check cashing place anymore…..

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
2:34 pm

I was waiting for that, Fion (lol).

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
2:35 pm

To your point ,Swiss, I think the reason people are so quick to point out the abuse of programs like food stamps, is nearly every one of us has had a first hand oberservation of an abuser, real or perceived. It’s a lot easier for me to point the finger at the family dressed head-to-toe in brand name finery paying with food stamps and going out to the Escalade and moving the golf clubs out of the back to load groceries than it is to point the finger at corporate America. Why? Because it was experienced FIRST HAND, and in the world we live in, perception is reality.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
2:35 pm

One congressman(do’nt remember who), said, years ago, that the best way to stop this is to automatically give custoduy of the child to the fathers.

Please,please explain how that’s going to curb the problem….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
2:36 pm

Reio:
LOL…..mandatory custody to the dad, that’s not a bad idea. It may stop them from getting these young lady’s pregnant and leaving it up to tax payers to cover the cost.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
2:36 pm

I was hoping the Gang didn’t die in a shootout with the police. Glad them numbskulls were captured.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
2:37 pm

All the benefits go on the card

So, it’s one lump sum of money and can be spent on whatever?

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
2:38 pm

it’s good you got a sweet deal on the house, SC. and btw … it’s lovely! :) but i wouldn’t call it “greed” to benefit from a program that you rightfully qualified for. now some kinda finagling to get at goods that you technically should not have use of AND don’t need … that’s greedy.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
2:39 pm

Give the kid to the dad and after that he will think to cover his pecker after having to raise a child first hand himself instead of feeling women up with his seed like it’s the thing to do.

Growing up I have seen people on welfare who were lazy and I’ve seen people who got government assitance for lost crops and productions and they claimed it was destroyed but they never even put in an effort to grow anything. My point is that if you don’t work, you should not eat. Unless you are handicapped or have an illness.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
2:39 pm

@ Sassy Me ;-) – Simple. He wears protection, cause he sure as hell ain’t gonna take care of no baby. She makes sure she does’nt get pregnant unless she can feed the baby. Problem pretty much solved.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
2:40 pm

swiss – well, we all know that the crimes doesn’t seem as bad than as when common folk commit them. For whatever reason, the stigma is if your aren’t a low wage worker, doing a little nickle and dime type stuff, not wearing a suit & tie etc, then it’s not that bad. When we all really know that’s where the bigger monetary type crimes are commited…UP top.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
2:40 pm

Sassy Me:
I’m sure if one these young men have to raise an infant, his mind set may change slightly no gaurantees but worth a shot.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
2:42 pm

BF and Reio: Will it be worth it to the child?

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
2:44 pm

ITL & Slim — True and true. Just kinda sad, though.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
2:46 pm

Very sad, Swiss. But you know how it goes…it’s easier to pick the low-hanging fruit issues than to tackle the ones high up in the tree….

Reio

August 10th, 2011
2:47 pm

@ Into the Light – If the father is responsible enough to work and feed the baby and mom is not, yes, it’s worth it to the child. Remember, the child is given to dad to raise, only if mom can’t or won’t take care of them. Now, dad may or may not pay child support, but he tends to skate by, do nothing, and impregnates another. This way he gets called onto the carpet, big time.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
2:48 pm

And speaking of using the system to your advantage, I swear I just overheard a converstation with a guy that says he gets over $800 in food stamps because they have no way to trace his income. This fool isn’t starving by any means and he is always dressed to the nines in name brands. I find it hard to believe a dude could be getting that much in food assistance, but i’ve never had them so I’m not quite cure how it works unless you have a baseball team of kids.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
2:51 pm

ITL:
The default is the father will have to muster up will power and desire to raise the child. There are some that are willingly doing so and that’s a positive thing to see.

Mr_NYC

August 10th, 2011
2:51 pm

IT’s all the ultimate bait and switch. Get folks hair all raised up and squabbling with each other over penny ante stuff while the give us the business behind our backs. The real criminals are pulling the ultimate okey doke and we give them the carte blanche to do it.
Where else can you get somebody to give you a job/position and they know, in fact, expect that 95% of the promises made are lies and it’s accepted as normal. Now that’s a straight gangster move right there for real

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
2:52 pm

So, it’s one lump sum of money and can be spent on whatever?

It’s whatever amount you get in FS and whatever amount you would get for other benefits. Part FS, Part cash. I received AFDC back in the day….. $196.00 a month was not enough for me to live off of. I found a job with the quickness. Plus, my mother always worked and I felt lazy when I didn’t. That’s just how I am. I know some benefits abusers and I know some folk that truly need all the assistance they get. It is what it is……

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
2:52 pm

He wears protection, cause he sure as hell ain’t gonna take care of no baby

If only it were that simple…yes there are men who would heed that advice but there are just as may who will lay up and get a woman/girl pregnant and still bounce…or better yet stay around and have more kids and still be a deadbeat.

I’m sure if one these young men have to raise an infant, his mind set may change slightly no gaurantees but worth a shot.

There are lots of single fathers out there….lots. My point is if you make that mistake ONCE then why/how would you get caught up and do it two,three more times. We’ve all seen cases like that that begs the question,”Didn’t you learn after the first one?”…but this goes either way though.

DreamsMaterialize

August 10th, 2011
2:52 pm

It isn’t only the systems that need overhauling, it’s people. We need to set expectations high and stop, directly or indirectly, rewarding detrimental behavior. We can point to everyone else all we want, but all change starts from within. Change yourself and your situation, extend that change to your household, your family, your community. Those changes alone will alleviate many of the burdens that we experience. The other problems require a more organized and sustained collective effort, which can’t even get off the ground without individuals handling their own business first.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
2:54 pm

Reio, I understand the basis of your logic but I think the flaw is in how many of those men (the ones who would otherwise be deadbeat dads) could be counted on to provide a good home? Or would they abandon their children to a relative or to the system?

AGAIN, I am not saying ALL MEN. I know there are a lot of great dads out there, and here on the blog.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
2:55 pm

@ BF – Yes that’s true. But that father, after getting custody of that first one, won’t be bringing another one in the world until he is ready for it.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
2:56 pm

When I got laid off I got $330/wk for unemployment. I applied for fs but I got denied because they said I made too much money. WTF! :roll:

Reio

August 10th, 2011
2:57 pm

@ Into the Light. There are laws against child abandonment. Even if they dump them onto a relative.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:00 pm

There are laws against not paying child support, too.

I understand your point, Reio, and if the men given the responsibility would step up and be good dads, I’d say it’s an excellent solution. I worry, though, that the one who would suffer most is the child.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 10th, 2011
3:02 pm

We should all cry at the same time tonight. Get it out of our systems and start from scratch. Lets change the world, the poor babies starving to death in Somalia and dead beats over here bragging about how much food benefits they get it’s an awful shame.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
3:04 pm

@ Into the Light – I worry about the child too, but something has to give, eventually. This has not been tried. Maybe it will work better than the current system. I do believe that the one to change the most will be the mothers, cause they won’t be too happy knowing that the baby they are carrying will be removed from them shortly after giving birth.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
3:04 pm

@Reio ~ I agree with you. Too quick for the woman to take care of the baby and the father walks away with only guilt in his heart (and sometimes not even that). If a man was made to be solely responsible for the welfare of that child he may think twice about dropping another woman’s panties and going all in unprotected. I bet most would think twice about that quickie with some random.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
3:07 pm

Wish I had a magic wand for Somalia. They were starving there 600 years ago. They still are. So sad.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:08 pm

This is one of those days that I wish I had a magic wand and could wave it and solve all the world’s problems…. :(

I also wish I had not eaten lunch at The Flying Biscuit because I am sleepy….zzzzzz

Reio

August 10th, 2011
3:08 pm

@ Leggs – Yes indeed. Makes sense to me.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:09 pm

Dang, Reio…you and I with the magic wand wish at the same time. Jinx – buy me a coke! :)

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:10 pm

If a man was made to be solely responsible for the welfare of that child he may think twice about dropping another woman’s panties and going all in unprotected.

I get what you and Blackfoote are saying and that sounds good. I’m sure that would deter some of them from doing it again and appreciating what some women go through..

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:11 pm

Let’s solve our own countries problems before we go trying to save the world. Starving kids here, education, crime general well being.

Reio

August 10th, 2011
3:12 pm

@ Into the Light – I drink diet sodas. Could use one right about now too. And tissue to cry in, for the Somalies

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:14 pm

Reio, that’s what I said…a coke. Then you specify what kind. :) You know native Georgians like me call all those kind of drinks a coke. Even though I like Diet Dr. Pepper myself.

One coke and one tissue, coming right up….

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:15 pm

Speaking of Somalia or Africa in general, I had a strange day being that 4 different Africans tried to talk to me today. One of them was talking about he was looking for a wife or whatever. He came back and brought me a bottled water but I was scared to take it because he might have taken that as affirmation of his proposal. :shock: I must be looking like an Ethipian or Somalian today

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:17 pm

He came back and brought me a bottled water but I was scared to take it because he might have taken that as affirmation of his proposal.

Yep y’all probably would’ve been married and you didn’t even know it :lol:

Reio

August 10th, 2011
3:19 pm

Into the Light – Diet Dr. Pepper is great. Scott tissue will do as well. Thanks. hehehe.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:22 pm

Sassy – I’m going to check with my dad in a few days to see if he got any type of livestock delivered to his house…IF so, then Houston we have a problem. I hope that wasn’t Exiled :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
3:23 pm

“He came back and brought me a bottled water but I was scared to take it because he might have taken that as affirmation of his proposal.” – Reminds me of an episode on Raven-Symone show when she accepted a feather not knowing that accepting it she agreed to marriage.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:23 pm

Slim so you are hanging out with Exiled now? You are about to be one of his concubines. LOL

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
3:28 pm

Slim, you did the right thing. Plus, “Ebay” may practice polygamy back in his homeland. Make sure you are the first wife, she gets all the rights!LOL!!!

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
3:29 pm

slim, i’m surprised you even understood that they were hitting on you. was it the gestures that got the message across? LOL

i get migranes sometimes trying to catch what the heck our african-origin tenants are saying. no offense.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:29 pm

Dang Purp, I don’t make it to 2nd or 3rd wife status, I gotta be reduced to a concubine? :cry:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:29 pm

I’m going to check with my dad in a few days to see if he got any type of livestock delivered to his house

And don’t forget to look for some beads,cloth and a few animal skins on the front porch…

damn that was wrong…don’g judge me…

SexyCool

August 10th, 2011
3:29 pm

What?!? Meelow finally signed up someone on his team? (lol)

I really want to type a whole lot more about the discussion on our social ills, but I am now on my BB – not good for blogging easily.

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:30 pm

Slim, you know Exiled he already has his main lady, he may buy you a #3 Super Sized and that would be even worse than being a concubine

kimmie, LOL@ Ebay

Creeper

August 10th, 2011
3:30 pm

Good Afternoon Everyone

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:31 pm

Sassy! You are in time out…okay you are out of time out now. LOL

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:33 pm

kimmie – The one guy told me he was married but she was back in Nigeria. Apparently, she messed around with his best friend and he said he almost killed him. The fact that he’s only been in the states a few months had me wondering if he’s on the run. But that’s not even the funny part. He gives me his card which shows him as a clinical psychiatrist. I was like, so you’ve only been here a few months, you’re a car dealer AND a clinical doctor? :lol:

czBrat – I could tell very much so he was trying to hit on me by the things he was saying. Plus later on when this other African was trying to get me to go out with him after numerous times of telling him I was involved with someone already, the first guy seemed to be burning a hole in the 2nd guys head. lol No offense but they are very aggressive and territorial. Nooooo thanks

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:35 pm

Whew Purp that was quick…thanks

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
3:35 pm

Purple – LOL!!! You know where that came from, don’t you? An episode of Good Times. Thelma was set to marry this African named Ebay, until she asked him if she would be his “only” wife! I don’t know how he really spelled his name, but that’s how it was pronounced.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:35 pm

And don’t forget to look for some beads,cloth and a few animal skins on the front porch OMG…okay, you can hangout in my timeout corner while I :lol: :lol: I can hear the guy now…”I’m strong like bull!”

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:36 pm

I remember that episode, Kimmie! And didn’t he give the family cloth and beads??? :)

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:37 pm

Sassy, LOL

kimmie, no I didn’t watch that show. But I did see an Episode of Martin when Gina ended up married to the skinny guy from “What’s Happening” lol

Slim, why are you attracting them today? daaaaaaaaaaaaaaay O Daa a aaaaaay O………

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
3:40 pm

very aggressive and territorial.

Slim – Yes they are, extremely!!! Girl, if I gave the ones that tried to get with me the time of day, I would probably be “set”! But I am scared to death of them! One from Sierre Leone said I was “brilliant”! Had to give it to him, he was very handsome and rich. But no could do!

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:40 pm

PR – OMG, I remember that episode too of Martin :lol: I have no idea what the deal is today. It’s not like I have on a mini-skirt or something crazy. I have on some slacks and a white top, no biggie. I have had folks ask me in the past if I was from Ethiopia, Somalia or India…maybe i’m looking ethnic today, who knows :???:

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
3:40 pm

Light – Yeah, everybody got a dashiki!!LOL!!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:41 pm

No offense but they are very aggressive and territorial. Nooooo thanks

Me being who I am..the way I am, that wouldn’t be a good look for me either. That reminds me of a house warming I went to some time ago. After the house warming, most of the men were outside and the ladies in the kitchen or elsewhere in the house…there were maybe 1 or 2 outside. I decided to go out there,too, and grab a Heineken while I was at it…I got the beer and walked to one of the African men and asked him to open it for me and he looked at me like :shock: but he still opened it. I laughed a little behind his back and I know they were talking about me…I know it.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:43 pm

kimmie – One thing I will say, they do take care of home but I don’t want to be living in an In-home prison. The police come to the door and I’m trying to blink ‘help me’ in morse code. :lol:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:44 pm

I can hear the guy now…”I’m strong like bull!”

:lol:

And you talking about ME?!…Slim we’re gonna have to put a turn stile on that corner cause we’ll be taking turns rotating in and out..

kimmie

August 10th, 2011
3:45 pm

Slim – Okay??!!! LOL!!!

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
3:46 pm

The police come to the door and I’m trying to blink ‘help me’ in morse code – hilarious!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:47 pm

Blinking in morse code….LOL :)

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
3:48 pm

The police come to the door and I’m trying to blink ‘help me’ in morse code
*brat is on the floor* :lol: :lol: :lol;

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:48 pm

I don’t get the :shock: for asking him to open your beer. My guy friends always do that for me, usually without being asked. Is it an African custom that women open their own drinks?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:50 pm

The police come to the door and I’m trying to blink ‘help me’ in morse code.

Nooo gurl…then you would’ve been in trouble for making direct eye contact with another male who isn’t family…

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
3:52 pm

LOL blink blink blink- ——blink blink——– blink blink blink

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
3:54 pm

Sassy Me – I would’ve fixed him a cold drink, then write ‘help me’ on the side of the glass where the condensation was lol
And maybe he gave you the side-eye since the beer wasn’t for him lol

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:55 pm

I don’t know ITL…all I know is that day the men folk were outside and the women folk were inside…the only 1 or 2 women outside were with their husbands. What I noticed that day was that the men were just hangin and the women were fixin food/chasing children/etc. The atmosphere seemed divided along male/femal role kind of lines. So when I asked the guy to do something that he probably would’ve had his wife do he looked at me like “damned Westernized woman how dare you ask that of me”..but he still did it he just looked shocked as heyal that I asked him.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
3:55 pm

@ITL ~ I think she’s saying some Africans do not believe in doing anything but take care of the bills. It is up to the woman to do everything else, including opening her own beer. Heck, he may even take offense that she’s drinking a beer (out of the bottle at that).

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:55 pm

should’ve read *female* not femal..

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:56 pm

Yeah, and you know you’d get that dumb officer from Sanford and Son – “Excuse me, Mrs. Ebay…is there something in your eye????”

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
3:57 pm

And maybe he gave you the side-eye since the beer wasn’t for him

Maybe so…I hope he didn’t take it out on his wife(if he had one).

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
3:57 pm

Oh, no. That is not for this girl….give me a man whose actions show that chivalry is alive and well.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
3:59 pm

Oh no, ITL. That immediately made me think of the movie Undercover, where the code was “I think you have something in your eye, let me get it out for you!” I think of it every time I hear someone talking about something in the eye. It’s an immediate flashback.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:00 pm

“still did it he just looked shocked as heyal that I asked him.”

We need to get Exile’s take on that…maybe he can shed some light for us.

ITL – Yeah, you’re right..then hubby would probably buss me in the eye so I couldn’t blink again.

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:03 pm

And then your hero would ride in to save the day…..after of course, his ex is finished blowing him. Bwah ha…. :lol: :lol:

Lovely Brown

August 10th, 2011
4:07 pm

That immediately made me think of the movie Undercover, where the code was “I think you have something in your eye, let me get it out for you!” I think of it every time I hear someone talking about something in the eye. It’s an immediate flashback.

Leggs- I do the same thing! That movie was a hot mess……Leon :shock:

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
4:08 pm

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:11 pm

Yes it was, LovelyB! Absolutely ridikulous! (Thanks for the spelling, czB).

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:13 pm

I see i’m not going to ever live that one down lol…The one good thing about it though is if she is blowing him is that’s one less thing I’ll have on my to-do list. ;-)

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
4:15 pm

http://cdn.mediatakeout.com/50336/nooooo_stacey_dash_got_fired_from_the_show_single_ladies____find_out_why_inside_lisaraye_did_her_real_dirty.html

one of my fb friends posted this info. all of the comments seem to lament the firing saying stacy is the best actress on the show. maybe it’s just me but the once or twice i popped in on that show i thought her acting was absolutely horrible.

btw … there’s been much hullabaloo about how good stacy looks for her age. i just found out shaun robinson is 49 (i think). now THAT chick looks gooooood for any age!

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
4:15 pm

Slim, you should want to do it instead of anyone else. LOL

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:15 pm

@SlimNu ~ only good about that off your list is if you never liked doing it in the first place. :wink:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:17 pm

@czB ~ there was a blog on Single Ladies this morning. It seems like a lot of people love Stacey Dash and not so much LisaRaye, but recognize the show is good because of the two of them together.

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
4:18 pm

if she is blowing him is that’s one less thing I’ll have on my to-do list
slim, please ask her if she’s taking on part-time gigs? i could really use a break every now and then.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:22 pm

recognize the show is good because of the two of them together.

I thought so,too. I liked the finale but I feel like it could’ve been stretched out at least 2 more episodes…I hope there’s a season two and both ladies come back…cause that ending was too much of a cliff hanger but I guess that’s what the producers want.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:22 pm

@czB ~ I just spit out my water! Too funny!

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
4:31 pm

“if she is blowing him is that’s one less thing I’ll have on my to-do list
slim, please ask her if she’s taking on part-time gigs? i could really use a break every now and then.”

I pop back in and CZ has my damn head ALL OVER THE PLACE!!!!!

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
4:33 pm

LOL@ leggs. that’s coz you know i’m a damn liar.

here we go, simple. s/o is out of town til tomorrow. please email me your amex number. i’m wearing those michael antonio’s you like … but they need a few new friends :wink:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:34 pm

So to bring the conversation full circle, if Slim and czB pay chicky under the table, she can still get her check and her stamps and everyone lives happily ever after.

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:35 pm

‘You should want to do it instead of anyone else.”

PR/Leggs – I know and I was just kidding…that isn’t an issue for me ;-) :oops:

Sorry but I couldn’t really get into the Single Ladies show and I never thought Stacey was that great of an actress, and that goes for Lisa Raye as well. Maybe I’ll get into it next season.

Did you all know tha the Sister Sister chicks have a reality show now? (Tia & Tamara) One is preggers and one is planning a wedding. I was shocked at how disconnected they appeared to be for them being twins and all. One part of the show had Tia, or Tamara, not sure…discussing a blog about her fiance (white) and they said some mean things like She was his black wh0re.. :shock: People can be so cruel

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
4:36 pm

@ CZ…what is the old joke about why that beaming bride is smiling so much as the limo drives away from the church…because she knows she’s given her last…..

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:40 pm

please email me your amex number. i’m wearing those michael antonio’s you like … but they need a few new friends

Dannnng, check out that game. I like the way you worded that…I need to use that on the Beau, be like babe, my closet is shole missing a whole lot of friends. Can you help a sistah out?

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:41 pm

@SlimNu ~ we know you were kidding!

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:42 pm

Randyt – What an entrance :shock:

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
4:43 pm

she knows she’s given her last…..
oh no! i would never want to swear off completely. i luv the control waaaay too much.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
4:43 pm

Sorry Slim…I shouldn’t duck in like that ;-)

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:44 pm

‘we know you were kidding!’

Leggs – So now you’re saying that you all figured I liked to speak into the mic? Is that whatchutrynna say? (that must be the 25% white blood I have in me) —no offense lol

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:44 pm

czB – go back to the game. I’m taking notes…… :) :) I could learn a lot from you!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:45 pm

Wait…are you saying white girls do or don’t like to speak in the mic, Slim???

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
4:45 pm

@CZB re: “i luv the control waaaay too much” me tooo ;-)

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:48 pm

Yep, that’s what I’m saying!

RandyT ~ was waiting on a guy to agree! This is Rich!

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
4:48 pm

Come on CZ…You know that I like to see youtry them before I buy them……:) :D ;)

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:49 pm

ITL – Back in the day when it was still a bit taboo to admit one did that, in high school all the black chicks would talk about how all the white girls spoke into the mics. Just an old stereotype…i’m not sure how true that is. We can ask some of the fellas…SWISS, what’s the verdict? lol

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:51 pm

are you saying white girls do or don’t like to speak in the mic, Slim???

Shyyyyd once upon a time it seemed like they wrote the book and copywrited a move or two…

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
4:51 pm

“are you saying white girls do or don’t like to speak in the mic” the answer is like the scenes/answers in “Risky Business”………….”yes….no….maybe” ;-)

Exiled!

August 10th, 2011
4:51 pm

Late but been reading!

Here is Exiled’s take:

If u talk about ‘them’ as Africans,then ur opinions in them won’t be very informed!
I guess you group them as ‘Africans’ kinda in a derogatory sense but I wouldn’t know.

To be able to know their culture u got to know where there are from because ‘Africans’ don’t belong to the same country. If I say tribe,I may even be compacting things.

Where were they from,those Africans who were kinda shocked at being asked to open a beer?

Not Zimbabweans,South Africans,Zambians or citizens of sub Saharan Africa, I would presume.
But then it’s hard to say.
Carry on!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:52 pm

We can ask some of the fellas…SWISS, what’s the verdict?

I know he likes chocolate NOW but I do wonder what his thoughts are….

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
4:53 pm

Sassy Me – There were a whole lot more “Supaheads” before there was officially a self-proclaimed Super head :lol:

“Yep, that’s what I’m saying!”

Leggs – Bob, let’s show her what she’s won!!! :P

Exiled!

August 10th, 2011
4:53 pm

Complicating

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:53 pm

That’s right, Sassy, and I’m still cashing the royalty checks!! :) :)

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:54 pm

and this concludes our international BS I mean PSA broadcast….

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
4:54 pm

I come back and CanalZone is acting naughty and Slim states that hse has strong jaws!

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
4:56 pm

Can I break down “mic” race relations as I am well versred and internationally known moreso thant Freddy Tiffany!?

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:56 pm

That was supposed to be a joke in reference to the copyright and book writing statement…

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
4:56 pm

Who’s Freddy Tiffany???

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:57 pm

That’s right, Sassy, and I’m still cashing the royalty checks!!

Ahh yes those royalty checks….cash on, cash on mami. Get your money honeychile!!!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
4:57 pm

we got it ITL :lol:

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
4:58 pm

SlimNu….If I may…Sisters sing on the Mike Like pre-crack Whitney Houston!!! I once had a girl tell me the two biggest liars in teh world are the woman who says she won’t do it, and teh woman that says she used to but stopped…..

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:58 pm

And I’m known to rock the microphone, cuz I get stupid, I mean outrageous….. LOL

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
4:59 pm

@ SlimNu…re:…taboo. When i was in Officer’s Basic at Ft. Bragg ti was a game betwen the whites and the brothers about who would “eat at the Y”.. It was till taboo then for the AAs. and the standard answer was “if God meant for you to eat that thing, he’d put a spoon in it”. Confidentially though, one of the brother’s told me there were only two kinds of blacks that would eat (fill in the blank)…those that said they did and those that say that didn’t. ;-)

czBrat

August 10th, 2011
4:59 pm

c’mere, simple. i want you front and center while i put on a shoe show for ya.

to everyone else … ciao!

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
4:59 pm

The “internationally known” statement got me singing that tune…

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

…He’d put a spoon in it…

Hilarious!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

“SWISS, what’s the verdict?”

Slim — I don’t have a huge sampling to draw from, because I only ever dated 1 white chick. But, um, yeah… home girl could s#ck a d!ck. WELL. :lol: And, she was enthusiastic about it, too — I mean she s#cked on that think like a kid trying to get to the candy center. :lol:

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

Enlighten us, oh Purple One :D

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

my typing sux

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
5:03 pm

The is a GOD!!! :) Hold on CZ….let me make sure I have my Check book AND the Amex……

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

Leggs :lol: @ ROB BBBBBBBASSS!

RandyT – I’ve only met one guy that stated he didn’t eat at the Y. Don’t let brothers pull the wool over your eyes. They likes to eat it before they beat it!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

Oh, and she swallowed, too… :lol:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

LOL. How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Matterhorn??? :neutral:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:05 pm

let me make sure I have my Check book AND the Amex……

cause it ain’t gone be no “cash n carry”…lol. You betta strut CZ!!

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:06 pm

Italian girls don’t like to do it to much, white girls love to do it but they tend to get carried away. AA’s will do it if they are really liking you but not if you aren’t returning the favor often. Latina’s have the best skills imo.

lol Freddy Tiffany…internationally known is from the movie Double Take. LOL

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

They all swallow some even gargle spit it out on your chest then lick it back up. Hey don’t be mad at me I am just sharing some of what has happened to me. LOL

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

Thanks, SlimNU! :lol: :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

@ PR “carried away” is not a bad thing IMHO LOL

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:08 pm

ITL — For her, not many. Chick had skiiiiiillzzz, I tell ya. :lol: Too bad she also had a poontang that smelled like 3-day old tuna even after she stepped out of the shower. :shock:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:08 pm

I’ve only met one guy that stated he didn’t eat at the Y

I met one,too….from Jamaica. When he said he “didn’t give” I said well you surely won’t “receive” from me either…GTFOH

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:09 pm

Too bad she also had a poontang that smelled like 3-day old tuna even after she stepped out of the shower.

t’ain’t right…ain’t natural

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:09 pm

@ Sassy…way to straighten that dude out LOL

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:10 pm

Thanks, Randyt for standing up for the white girls!! :)

Dang, Swiss….I’m just…I…ugh…. Is this the candle wax chick?

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:10 pm

I have a strong experience tongue…just thought i’d share that ladies

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:11 pm

ITL are you white? Every white girl I know loves anal…but not to deep ..lol

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

gotta go get my run on….read y’all tomorrow!!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

I am, and now you know a white girl who DOES NOT. That runway is for departures, not arrivals.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:13 pm

ITL — Yep, that’s the same girl. She was a fa-reeeeak. :lol:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:14 pm

Well…. ????

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

All that freakiness, but she couldn’t invest in a Summer’s Eve? IJS…..

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Sassy — No, clearly her taint wasn’t right. :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Boy the blog nazi has nailed me twice today…I’m just trying to answer the questions.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Well now we know and knowing is half the battle…G-I JOOOOOOEEEEEEE :-)

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:16 pm

OMG SWISS!!!

okay now i’m out….hollaaaa

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

Clearly, I have missed something or am too dense to understand the conversation…..

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

“That runway is for departures, not arrivals.” – NICE!

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

@ PR and ITL…once in Playboy Forum they addressed this by saying “never sit on anything smaller than your azz”.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:18 pm

What do you think you’ve missed, ITL???

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

See, a convo like this is not be disrupted by an EOD (especially if it has nothing to do with the convo…carry on).

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

LOL@Randyt. I would agree with that!

Leggs, I didn’t get the “Well” and “Well now we know and knowing is half the battle” comments from Sassy. I’ll have to scroll up…clearly I missed something.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

ITL — Man, I don’t know what was going on down there. I think she had some kind of chemical imbalance or something, ‘cos I tried to be slick & “shower together” so I could clean that thing well, and it was still a swamp thing. Luckily for her, she was my first so I didn’t know any better. I just held my breath & dove in. :shock:

Now, the girl I dated immediately after her — this smoking hot Brasileira — was the big winner, because the first time I tasted her honey pot, I thought I’d died & gone to heaven. :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:23 pm

I was about to say since it was your first time tasting perhaps you just wasn’t familiar with the aroma, but Stink is Stink!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:24 pm

I was like a fish realizing for the first time he has gills: “I can breathe! I can BREATHE!” :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:24 pm

“I just held my breath & dove in.” – SMH!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:27 pm

EW EW EW!!!! :???:

Testing

August 11th, 2011
8:07 am

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
8:55 am

Bootleg blogging….GOOD MORNING ;-)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:02 am

Morning, Slim!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:04 am

Good morning….

Dang, climbing through this window just snagged my skirt!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:09 am

ITL – I see you found the secret entrance that we use whenever the blog doors are still locked. ;-)

I’m catching up from the late afternoon comments from yesterday…3 day old tuna :shock:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:14 am

LOL@Leggs.

Sure did, Slim. I hid in the bushes under my invisibility cloak until I saw where the crew was headed. :)

Ick. That conversation yesterday afternoon took a turn toward the yuck.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:14 am

Morning Lady’s:
Hold on Leggs, I got some needle and thread. You can put your skirt here I’ll call the cleaners to come pick it up, and the rest of your clothes can go over there.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:16 am

Leggs – Take these scissors and cut a slit where you snagged your skirt. That way, it’ll look like it was supposed to be there anyway to show them legs ;-)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:17 am

Oh lawd! Naked by nine….it’s gonna be that kinda day. ;)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:19 am

Leggs and I have things are under control Slim1 thanks.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:21 am

ITL – That’s the same thing I was thinking…

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:21 am

BF, am I going to have to send you under the stairs first thing this morning???

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
9:22 am

somehow i just knew i’d find yous here.

HiYas!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:22 am

Great minds think alike… :)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:23 am

Morning, czB!!

Who brought breakfast???

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:24 am

ITL:
Yep you can also join me and Leggs. Got lonely there last night.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:28 am

Blackfoote – Well, excuuuuuuse me den :roll:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:29 am

Oh…y’all are both under there? Nah, I’ll pass. Two’s company, three’s an adult film…. ;)

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
9:29 am

yeah. breakfast. that’s what i need. blackfoote, can i use and abuse you until simple man shows up? i could really use some eggs, grits and cappuccino. it’s been a long week.

please and thank you.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:31 am

<—— whipping out her "czB Academy" book and taking notes….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:32 am

I am fixing ham steaks with scrambled eggs,grits and toast. Orange juice,cofee, cappucino is upon requset. All aboard.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:34 am

@Blackfoote, thanks for the laugh!

SlimNu ~ you’re thinking like I am. I have invisible tape at my desk so I took the scissors and I am now rocking a nice slit on the side.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:34 am

Well if I can spell request right it might look right…..LOL

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:34 am

Dang! BF has that hotplate going full speed under the stairs… LOL That sounds delicious – I’m in!!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
9:34 am

Mornting all!!

I hope we don’t get in trouble for boot leg blogging this morning…

Soooo who’s making the breakfast run?..

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:35 am

BTW, ITL. You’re quick and good. Took many a minute to find out about bootleg blogging! Yousa gangsta….

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
9:36 am

ahhh. BF, i heart you so much right now. i’ll perch on your lap while i eat. that is, if you don’t mind. :wink:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:36 am

czBrat:
Used and Abused is my middle name, how did you know that….LOL

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:40 am

Awww, thanks Leggs! :)

(doing my coolest gangsta pose)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:41 am

Wait a minute is this an abberation? Did I wake up in dream land, am I dreaming I,m here alone with all you gorgeous women. This must be what heaven is like. Surrounded by Angels.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:42 am

<—- (scribbling furiously) use and abuse….perch on lap to reward breakfast…..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:46 am

ITL:
See it aint so bad hanging out under the stairs. For a dude…..LOL

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:46 am

Blackfoote – For whatever reason, I wouldn’t be surprised if you were on that show about Strange Sex disorders. Do you walk around allll day with a stiffy?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
9:47 am

i’ll perch on your lap while i eat. that is, if you don’t mind.

Awww sookie sookie nah!….that way everybody wins cz. You’ll be getting breakfast and BF will be enjoying the view with a smile :lol:

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
9:48 am

Morning Folks……Wait a minute…..My Amex has barely stopped smoking and I am still trying to figure out a way to explain these boot marks on my chest and CZ has moved on to Blackfoote already?????? If I had on something other than this damn loin cloth, I would be jumping up and down mad about this…..

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:48 am

Leggs:
I said I had the issue with your skirt under control. Why you gon put it back on for?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
9:48 am

Do you walk around allll day with a stiffy?

:shock:

I wonder if that hurts…

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:49 am

Leggs – Good job on the wardrobe correction…You got me wanting to put a slit in my skinny jeans now :lol:

So anyone want to propose a Bootleg Blog Topic for the day until someone decides to let us in?

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:49 am

I saw that show once! This guy was in love (I mean, kissing and hugging!) with his car. Yep, a car!!

BF is just healthy, red-blooded man happy to be surrounded by women. He’s the Charlie to our Angels. :)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:50 am

Uh, oh, BF. Bosley’s here. LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:51 am

LOL….@Simple Man
You need to hang out under these steps a little it aint bad at all as you can see.

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
9:51 am

sassy, when everybody wins it’s a beautiful thing!

aight. i’m good and perky now. truly enjoying present company, ladies and gent.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
9:51 am

If I had on something other than this damn loin cloth, I would be jumping up and down mad about this…..

Not the loin cloth!! :mrgreen: Dang Simple got all Harlequin on us early this morning :lol:

but if’n you get to jumping and stuff I’ll “try” not to look :oops:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:52 am

@SimpleM ~ Don’t let that stop you…JUMP, JUMP, JUMP! :lol: I am cracking up!

@BF ~ boi, hope you took your 5-hr energy drink this morning. You going to need it!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:53 am

Sassy – Well, I saw an episode of that show the other day and it was about this chick that pretty much stays aroused all day and she has to always ‘take care of it’, not for pleasure, but to relieve the pressure of her constant arousal. She didn’t want to disclose how many times in a day that she has to ‘take care of it’ but the doctors said it can be anywhere from 20 to 50+ times a day a person has to self-stimulate. I would definitely NOT want to have that issue.

Then they had this other chick who was basically a sex addict. She talked about how it got so bad she even ended up hanging out in crackhouses, not to smoke crack, but for the sex.

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
9:53 am

If I had on something other than this damn loin cloth
we good, papi. no worries.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:54 am

@SlimNU ~ re: slit in your skinny jeans. You may be too young to know this, but we had jeans and pants where the slit was thigh high. I thought those were the coolest pants back in the day!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:55 am

For whatever reason when BF mentioned the loin cloth, I automatically wondered if one of the Africans from yesterday left it on his doorstep as part of the wedding dowry :lol: Ok, imma get my timeout corner ready.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:55 am

Topic for ocnsideration:

Why those in relationships want out, and why those who want a relationship, can’t find someone to invest there life with?

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:55 am

Why am I hearing the Pointer Sisters in my head?? Jump, jump…

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
9:57 am

Hey, I found everyone!

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
10:00 am

Why those in relationships want out not ready to compromise
why those who want a relationship, can’t find someone not ready to compromise

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
10:00 am

LOL….@Slim
I would be embarrased to death, but there been occassions and a lot of guys can say it has happened in some of the most inappropiate times. One time I was in a meeting with VP’s and one them had a tight skirt on like the one Leggs wearing. My boss introduced me and asked me to get up and make a statement, I played like I had hurt my legg so I couldn’t get up, such an awkward feeling. After the meeting my boss said she didn’t notice me limping when the meeting started, gave a little fake smile and my face blushed.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
10:01 am

Um, Purp, I saw that the sole winning Powerball ticket was sold in Minnesota. Anything you want to tell us??? :)

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
10:02 am

Leggs – I might have to try to google a picture of those jeans with a thigh high slit…lol

Welcome to the honeycomb hideout Purp…

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:02 am

Yes, thank you czB…that’s exactly what I wanted to say, but couldn’t think of the word “compromise”. Invest got stuck in my head!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
10:05 am

Slim Nu I’ve seen that show also and remember the episode you’re speaking of. That particular woman with the constant arousal issue was something I hadn’t heard of before and I’m soo glad it ain’t me. That other chick that hung around the crack houses for some wood really chanced her a$$ by doing that. If that was all she wanted she should’ve gone to the mall/club/strip club/hell Walmart and gotten some…and a better variety,too..

I automatically wondered if one of the Africans from yesterday left it on his doorstep as part of the wedding dowry

Yes he left that and those beaded necklaces to wear with it…

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:06 am

ITL if I did or did not win I would not tell anyone on the blog. LOL

Hello, Slim :)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:08 am

Neither would I, PR, but if I came into a lot of money I have 2 promises I must keep (lol). I promised a friend I would pay for her nose job (LOL)…you think that’s silly?

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
10:10 am

I played like I had hurt my legg so I couldn’t get up, such an awkward feeling. After the meeting my boss said she didn’t notice me limping when the meeting started

BF – Did you tell her it was your third leg you were having issues with? lol

Sassy – She could’ve well just been an escort or surfed the web via Craigslist for random hookups.

Have yall ever read any of those personal ads on there…it’s almost comical and scarey at the same time.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
10:10 am

I don’t think it’s silly, Leggs. I have a whole list of things I’d like to do for other people if I ever win.

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
10:12 am

Ok….Now that my loin cloth has been replaced with this fly Kenneth Cole suit, I am ready to get back in the game…..Good morning ladies :) Fellas, you guys alright this morning???
(CZ, thanks for the show sweetie, You are a real doll :) :)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:14 am

Yep, I too have a list. Perhaps I get an opportunity to scratch some of those things off my list.

@SlimNu ~ WTH goes to a crack house looking for wood. Those scallywags are nasty and dirty and you know there weenie isn’t clean…UUUGGGH!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
10:14 am

Leggs – That was only 1 promise, so what’s the other one? And speaking of lotto, i’ve been playing a lot more than I ever have before. Did yall read about the lady that bought a scratch off somewhere on Cascade and won $577k?

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:14 am

their weenie….

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
10:15 am

Those scallywags are nasty and dirty and you know there weenie isn’t clean

I don’t know if it was “scallywags” or “weenie” that got me, but I am ROTF!! :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
10:16 am

Leggs:
To your topic of the day, see it’s like sewing you put the needle in and you pull the needle it out. That’s your relationship…..LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:17 am

@SlimNu ~ I read about the lady on Cascade and wanted to hunt her down.

I have many promises I’ve made to myself, the other one of the 2 is I would break this particular person a piece off! Just because.

I’ll be a fabulous conduit if I came into a really large sum of money!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
10:18 am

WTH goes to a crack house looking for wood

You’re right Leggs and I guess that’s when that chick felt she had hit her ‘rock bottom’ because of the danger she was putting herself in to feed her addiction. She even admitted that there were times she didn’t use protection. By the grace of God she does not have any deadly diseases.

As far as my Lotto to do list, I most definitely would want to get my mom, sister and niece straight. I would also obviously get myself stuff in order and go back to school and travel, travel, travel….

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:19 am

@BF ~ go back to the stairwell and face the wall. You have no view for the next 40 mins!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
10:20 am

Now that my loin cloth has been replaced with this fly Kenneth Cole suit, I am ready to get back in the game…..Good morning ladies

Heeeeey ;-)

I don’t know if it was “scallywags” or “weenie” that got me

I know right?!…weenie gets me errtime :lol:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
10:22 am

She even admitted that there were times she didn’t use protection. By the grace of God she does not have any deadly diseases.

:shock:

All for some wood?…she should’ve invested in a B.O.B. Good for her she’s disease free,though.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
10:22 am

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:22 am

You’re right, SlimNu. That’s when she realized she has truly hit “rock bottom.” I immediately thought of Halle Berry in Jungle Fever. Man, anyone wanting to hit something that looked like that is desperate.

No offense swiss, but much like him going in on that 3-day old tuna smelling chick!

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:28 am

Leggs, that is weird to me. So if you never win, is your friends nose just jacked for life?

If I did or did not win it, I don’t think I would change a thing in my life. I would save and live just the same. My splurge would be a 58foot speed boat and dock in on some island and which I bought my family a vacation home and I would get 2 million in cash and make it rain all over my wife :) even though the winnings are ours that cash would be all hers to do what she wants to do with. I’d give all of my siblings 2 million each too.

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
10:34 am

i’ve often wondered if those who might say they’d love to be involved with a sex addict fully realize it is NOT a good thing. not ALL THE TIME anyway.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:36 am

Not weird. She’s not waiting on me to get it done. If she has the means before I, she will get it done. If I have the means before her, I told her I would assist her in getting it done. That’s all.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:37 am

CanalZone, I have never seen this side of you before, LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:37 am

And, her noses isn’t jacked up…not at all. She simply doesn’t like it. I see nothing wrong with it, but she hates her nose.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:37 am

Sorry, she only has one nose!

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
10:42 am

side? what side? i know not what you speak of, sir.

leggs, when i saw “noses” i thought i fully understood why you’re trying to help chickadee.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:43 am

Leggs of course you think nothing is wrong with her nose because she is your friend. LOL

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:46 am

LOL send me a email CZ I will explain there.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:47 am

:lol: Good one, czB!

@PR ~ ummmm, a little truth there, but not 100%. If truly my friend, pretty sure we would have some nose jokes along the way. Just like 3 of my friends always laugh at my peanut head when wet. Friends can joke like that.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:51 am

Leggs, “peanut head when wet” You know I could go way overboard with that. LOL

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
10:51 am

don’t remember your addy, reign. touch me: czbrat84@yahoo.com

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
10:53 am

Well, now that you put it that way, yeah, I see that you can PR!

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
10:55 am

Leggs, it’s one of “those days”

CZ, you have been touched!

cba

August 11th, 2011
10:56 am

Speaking of smelling like old fish, you have a boyfriend but you go to Aruba on vacation with your platonic friend. Now you are missing and Mr Platonic is in jail. Annnnnnnnnd, the boyfriend knew about this? Yes, that one has a smell.

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
10:57 am

” reign. touch me”

Damn….I have been dying to hear you say that….Just not to someone else…… :(

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
10:58 am

Oh no peanut head when wet, naw Swiss got this one…..LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:01 am

@cba ~ I’m looking at that case the same way. She tells her boyfriend they’ll talk when she gets back. She meets this dude and he takes her to Aruba. She goes after knowing him a few months leaving her boyfriend behind. WTH! Now she’s probably fish food. Wonder what his motive is if he did anything to her?

Bring it, BF! Let’s see what you’re working with.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:01 am

Sorry, BF, read it wrong!

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
11:01 am

Guess errbody else hasn’t gotten the Bootleg blog email…wonder what they’re thinking.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
11:02 am

You know the song don’t you, love is slippery when it’s wet……LOL

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
11:03 am

simple, feel free to stroke my addy. no charge.
this time.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:05 am

wet………………….

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:05 am

Three Words Daily – Failure’s not final.

Consider this – oftentimes, failures are a necessary part of your journey. You cannot celebrate triumphs if you do not experience letdowns. {More…}

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:05 am

Run Report – Regular route – me, the man, the dog. 40mins.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:07 am

And when “failures” are a part of your journey they’re not really failures just steppings stones and hurdles :) Yep, sho is….

Got a recruiter on my tail. Wanna see what kind of money we’re talking here :mrgreen:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
11:07 am

Oh my…all this inuendo….slippery..wet head…stroking n stuff. What is really happening?! ;-) Gotta love it…

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:08 am

SexyCool, what did you do differently? Looks like you are gaining time.

cba

August 11th, 2011
11:09 am

@Leggs, I believe the lady is in her mid-thirties. I thought at that age, you don’t take risks like that. She didn’t hear of Natalie Halloway ? But Natalie was only 17 or 18.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:13 am

Celisea…………………….

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:14 am

@SC ~ I like those 3 words…goes hand in hand with RandyT’s EOD.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
11:14 am

cba/Leggs: When I read that article, I wondered if she was a professional escort. But, then again, they did refer to him as her “travel companion”, so maybe that’s all it was. But still….they go snorkeling and he’s the only one that comes back? And now they’re holding him? Strange…

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:14 am

We did way more walking than running. Most days, I’m way more concerned with it being a cardio workout than making time. But we walking today for two reasons, I usually only press all out when I’m coming up on a race. And…TheDude was sore from when our neighbor, Mr. B., has him outside doing yardwork for most of the day on Tuesday.

(I love me some Mr. B. He and his wife, Mrs. V are old enough to be our parents. And they basically have just adopted us. It’s a really special feeling.)

cba

August 11th, 2011
11:14 am

Celisea, it’s nice to be pursued for your skills/talent.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:15 am

Aruba seems dangerous for blond chicks.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:17 am

PR – Yes?

cba – Yep it is :)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
11:18 am

Aruba seems dangerous for blond chicks

Rut ro. Crossing Aruba off the “must visit” list….

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:18 am

cba – This company just sealed another deal too? It’s already been blessed. It’s suppose to be final March 2012.

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
11:19 am

no. crazy boyfriends seem dangerous for blonde chicks.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
11:20 am

cba:
That made me think of a time when I smelled the scent. She said she was taking garlic vitamins I said to my self she got me this time, she knows better than this. I was too far in to back out, just had to worked around it.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:20 am

To think Aruba is/was one of my dream spots. Wait, I don’t have blond hair. I’m good!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:20 am

Nor am I 17 or 18 or even in my 30’s. I’m especially safe now! :wink:

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
11:21 am

11 days and counting……Will MIA still allow me to come and play when I am looking for MID????

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:21 am

Celiseaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

blonde chicks are just crazy..lol

SexyCool, cool.

To all of you other ladies, just curious what are your distance totals since getting the plan? Total in all.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:22 am

Purp – Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:23 am

Simple Man – What’s MID, if I may?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
11:24 am

crazy boyfriends seem dangerous for blonde chicks.

No they’re bad for your health all the way around…

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
11:24 am

Awww, thanks, Purp. You say the nicest things, you silver-tongued devil……

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:25 am

ITL, thank you!

Celisea, ohhhh nothing :)

cba

August 11th, 2011
11:25 am

ITL, I was just about to ask what’s your hair color :-)
BF, maybe she was just trying to lower her chlolestrol (sp?)…….naturally

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:27 am

I started on 8/3. Total has been 12 miles.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:27 am

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
11:31 am

LOL @ Celisea
honesty is such an endearing quality.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:33 am

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
11:37 am

MID = Misadventures in Denver……

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
11:39 am

speaking of misterious disappearances, does anyone know diva’s hair color?

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:40 am

Too funny. SC probably knows.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:40 am

Since the first of August, I’ve logged approximately 23.5 miles.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
11:44 am

She’s not blond.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:45 am

LOLOL. I figured as much SC!

Good work on your mileage, SC!

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:45 am

Thanks Sexy!

Celisea, :) why are you rolling your eyes?

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
11:49 am

Not only is she rolling her eyes, she’s also kicking rocks and whistling.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
11:50 am

I’ve done 9 miles. :blush:

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:52 am

Leggs, she treats me so bad. LOL

ITL, 9 miles is better than no miles

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
11:53 am

Celisea’s logged run = ZERO :evil:

I have a friend though that’s got me committed to start with me next week :)

PR – We’re estranged right now

Leggs – All day long

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
11:56 am

Celisea, why estranged?

And why have you not logged one mile?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:02 pm

Celisea:
Don’t feel too bad we have the same amount of mileage ran…..LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:03 pm

@PR, the song playing on the radio right now is “Why You Treat Me So Bad!” WOW!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:04 pm

@PR ~ did you not get that from her eyeroll? You pulled the actual number from her, but she already told you. You just wasn’t listening (LOLOL).

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
12:06 pm

coach, i’m not on your training program but i’ll gladly share. i should be somewhere around 10-12 miles so far this month. healthy eating is still on track.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:07 pm

Has anyone checked on WD to make sure she didn’t fall and bump her head not closing the blog doors last night??? I don’t remember the last time we bootlegged blogged for this long.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
12:09 pm

Leggs, I’m innocent.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:09 pm

Not sure if “innocent” is the right word (lol).

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
12:10 pm

CZ didn’t you ask for the plan? Asking for it commits you to it.

I am really disappointed that everyone who asked for it is not doing anything at all. Get that toosh in gear ladies!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:13 pm

O/T: Anybody know if they closed all the Harry&David stores in Georgia? My mom has me on a mission to restock her supply of tomato relish, and I have to get the tailgate supplies ready. :)

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
12:14 pm

ITL how do you say O/T when there is no “T”?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:16 pm

I was going to ask her the same question Purple…..LOL

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:17 pm

What can I say? Ditzy blond…. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:18 pm

ITL:
Are you guys tailgating the dirty birds and the fish tomorrow?

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:20 pm

No, we’re doing the sports bar for that one. I’m stocking up for Dawg season in God’s country…some folks call it Athens. :)

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
12:21 pm

mira primo! don’t get bossy! cardio is just not my thing. i do it because i feel i have to, so 2-3 miles 2-3 days a week is impressive for me.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:26 pm

What about you, BF? You exiting the hidey hole under the stairs long enough to rise up with the dirty birds?

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
12:28 pm

Canal Zone, that’s all the plan is but you have to do it. LOL

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
12:33 pm

i see. well my workout week is just 2-3 days of cardio, the rest is strength/balance/flexibility training. so do i get a pass for not being well into 20+ miles?

pweeeeze :oops:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:35 pm

ITL:
Get this I/we actually do tailgate under the bridge by the dome at all home games. I’m good at being under something…..LOL

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:36 pm

Enter your comments here

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
12:37 pm

I’m good at being under something

That’s what she said…. :lol:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:37 pm

or someone (lol)…ba da bing!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:41 pm

LOL…@ITL & Leggs

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 11th, 2011
12:43 pm

I’d like to comment on today’s topic…

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
12:44 pm

Well looky here…bootlegging going on right under our noses. don’t run now. How’s it going everybody?

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
12:44 pm

Canal Zone, no mercy!

ITL, when you drink or in the past when you were out drunk with friends did you take your shoes off or leave them on?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:45 pm

I’ve given good rides every now and then. Y’all wanna be starting something? Too high to get over, too low get to get under you’re stuck in the middle.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:48 pm

RandyT and Dreams the door was left open last night, the party continues.

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 11th, 2011
12:49 pm

Oh wait, there isn’t a today’s topic. I guess my opinion about it doesn’t matter then.

On another subject, I hope Joren Van der Sloot has made many nice friends in the showers at the Peruvian jail. (wow, using Mozilla instead of IE gives me spell check…cool).

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
12:50 pm

@czB ~ PR yelled at me last week for not starting when I was supposed to. Told him I may be a free agent before all this is over, reprimanging people through a computer. He put some restrictions on my contract!

Glad you found us, DreamsM. When in doubt, just peep under the covers. You can find us all snuggled up.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:52 pm

RandyT your opinions are cool, can’t think of when mine has ever mattered on any topic….LOL

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
12:54 pm

Soooo digging this new song by Script(sp)…Imma have put this on the IPod

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
12:55 pm

LOL…….@”reprimanging”
Leggs I know I have bad grammar, but you.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
12:56 pm

“For The First Time”

She’s all laid up in bed with a broken heart,
While I’m drinking jack all alone in my local bar,
And we don’t know how,
How we got in to this mad situation,
Only doing things out of frustration

Trying to make it work but man these times are hard,

She needs me now but I can’t seem to find the time,
I’ve got a new job now on the unemployment line,
And we don’t know how,
How we got into this mess
is it god’s test,
Someone help us ’cause we’re doing our best,

Trying to make it work but man these times are hard

But we’re gonna start by
Drinking old cheap bottles of wine,
Sit talking up all night,
Saying things we haven’t for a while
A while ya
We’re smiling but we’re close tears,
Even after all these years,
We just now got the feeling that we’re meeting for the first time

Oooooo

She’s in line at the DOLE*
With her head held high (high)
While I just lost my job but
Didn’t lose my pride

But we both know how,
How we’re gonna make it work when it hurts,
When you pick yourself up,
You get kicked to the dirt,

Trying to make it work but,
Man these times are hard,

But we’re gonna start by,
Drinking old cheap bottles of wine,
Sit talking up all night,

Doing things we haven’t for a while,
A while ya,
We’re smiling but we’re close to tears,
Even after all these years,
We just now got the feeling that we’re meeting for the first time.

Ooooo

Yeah…..
Drinking old cheap bottles of wine,
Sit talking up all night,
Saying thing we haven’t for a while,
We’re smiling but we’re close to tears,
Even after all these years,
We just now got the feeling that we’re meeting, for the first time

ooooo…., yeahh for the first time
(ooooo….), oh for the first time,
Yeah for the first time,
(just now got the feeling that we’re meeting…
For the first time)

Oh these times are hard,
Yeah they’re making us crazy
Don’t give up on me baby

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
12:57 pm

When in doubt, just peep under the covers. You can find us all snuggled up.

And everybody’s hands better be where I can see ‘em ;-)

As for the running, I’ve only logged 12 miles thus far…hadn’t been able to get to the gym these last two weeks cause I had isht goin on in the afternoons and I fo sho ain’t running outside…

I hope Joren Van der Sloot has made many nice friends in the showers at the Peruvian jail.

I hope he ends up being somebody’s beoytch….he’s a pretty big dude so I guess he’ll be an even bigger b…..

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
12:58 pm

hola dreams. como estas?

leggs, i’m afraid when coach reign’s instructions conflict with my personal (um. VERY personal) trainer’s plan i’m gonna have to lick my bread on the buttered side. soooo, there you have it.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
1:06 pm

Speaking of hands under the covers, do any of yall recall the first time you touched the opposite sex’s private part? or recall the first time yours was touched, willingly??

cba

August 11th, 2011
1:07 pm

Leggs, group snuggling is fine, just don’t invite the 3-day old fish smelling lady :lol:

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
1:13 pm

first time yours was touched, willingly??
i think we have ourselves a topic :shock:

cba

August 11th, 2011
1:14 pm

Slim, when I tried Ms Daniel ( second grade teacher) whooped my azz with a leather strap. She told me I was too young to be doing that :-) it took me about eight years to recover ;-)

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
1:16 pm

I remember the first time I caught kissing a boy I was in either kindergarten or 1st grade. We put a jacket over our heads and pecked lol

Re 3 day old tuna fish…I can see that the pH gets off balance every once in a blue moon, could be from change in detergent, soap, diet etc…but for the most part, that area should not smell like leftover salmon heated up in the work breakroom for lunch. :shock: I hate it for chicks who permanently have that imbalance down there.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:17 pm

@BF, where did I do wrong with the grammar??? Nothing unusual, just point it out to me because I can’t see it.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
1:17 pm

cba – Hold on, did you try to touch the TEACHERS private area??? Or you simply got caught by her attempting that on anther student?

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:18 pm

Never mind, BF. I got it. You see, my stomach was rumbling and was rushing to post and get to cafe. My fingers sometimes type whatever it wants to.

cba

August 11th, 2011
1:19 pm

another student, Faye

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:24 pm

@Celisea ~ loving the lyrics!

cba

August 11th, 2011
1:26 pm

Slim, if it had been Ms Daniel, yall would have never heard of cba…….beaten to death in 1964 by second grade teacher ;-(

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 11th, 2011
1:28 pm

Hey wait, you mean we can touch the other and vice versa down there? Uh oh I’ve got some major catching up to do. My mama beat my azz for so many things I didn’t know the statute of limitations had expired. (Crap, I was still just holding hands…hey wait, does that mean my kids…?).

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:28 pm

@cba ~ you got that. I’m not afraid to tell her she needs to dunk herself in a giant douche bag before she can be invited to our soirees. Yikes, is that too much???

czBrat

August 11th, 2011
1:29 pm

memory fails me as to my own explorations, but i distinctly recall the lil ugmo that sat on our couch to watch a movie and conveniently placed his jacket over his and my daughter’s lap with hands underneath. turns out they were just holding hands but damn if i didn’t nearly slap him. she still warns boyfriends before bringing them around me.

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
1:31 pm

Leggs Now you know I know about bootleg blogging. Been on here for #)%#*^ years now. Wow, I think I’m vet. lol

And everybody’s hands better be where I can see ‘em
Sassy Dang my bad. ;-)

hola dreams. como estas?
cz Que pasa. Estoy bien. Esperete! Esos son zapatos nuevos? Caliente mami!

Celisea What’s good with you? How you doing today?

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
1:31 pm

Leggs – @Celisea ~ loving the lyrics!

Pull the song and listen it. LOVE IT.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
1:32 pm

Dreams – I’m good….how you doing (said in Joey’s voice from Friends)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:34 pm

I don’t rightly remember the first time I was touched, willingly or accidentally. What I do remember is my first dry hump and realizing I liked it. I remember that.

@DreamsM ~ of course I know you know!

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
1:39 pm

Dreams – I’m good….how you doing (said in Joey’s voice from Friends)
Celisea Been busy, but good. No complaints on my end. Just in overdrive now that school has started.

Oh and hey slimmy baby. I didn’t see you in here. A girl kissed me in kindergarten…gotta watch out for those girls. Think I grabbed my first booty in elementary…wasn’t well received. :-(

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
1:40 pm

The doctor always told me not to do the douche thing unless advised so by a physician. Some cases it can make whatever is causing the imbalance to become worse by pushing it further up into the uterus..

Leggs – Man oh man, dry humping was the junk back in the day!! It used to be soooo intense especially being too young to really understand why it felt that great. Would dry hump so intensly that you would end up with an almost painful front wedgie and a sore pelvis the next day lol

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:43 pm

Just listened to it, Celisea, while reading your lyrics…NICE!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:44 pm

@SlimNu ~ douching was advised against many moons ago!

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
1:45 pm

Why thefck do people think it’s okay to arrive so frickin’ early for interviews?!?!?

GGGRRR!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:46 pm

Exactly SlimNu ~ the elective course for dry humping was known as “Thrusting 101.”

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:47 pm

How early, SC?

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
1:51 pm

dry humping was the junk back in the day!! It used to be soooo intense especially being too young to really understand why it felt that great. Would dry hump so intensly that you would end up with an almost painful front wedgie and a sore pelvis the next day

ahhh yes those were the days….

Why thefck do people think it’s okay to arrive so frickin’ early for interviews?!?!?

With this economic climate the way it is I’m sure that person is really trying to get hired by showing they’re dependable and on time….they’re just tryna get on.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
1:54 pm

15minutes.

I know that technically it is not that early, but still….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
1:54 pm

“my stomach was rumbling”
LOL….WTH

Sassy Me ;-)

August 11th, 2011
1:56 pm

douching was advised against many moons ago!

It sure was…and should only be done if advised to do so by a Dr. Doing that can interfere with the natural balance of the va jay-jay and can lead to a whole other conversation….

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
1:57 pm

Sass…trust…I *so* get that…but really, if I wanted them here at 130p, I would have said 130p.

And since I don’t have a reception area AND I’m in a secured area, them coming early is really an inconvenience for me.

My next interview, I am going to specifically request that they do not arrive more than 5 minutes early or…to at least not contact me until 5 minutes prior to the interview scheduled start time.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
1:57 pm

Back and catching up…

@PR: Um, generally I keep my shoes on…

@Celisea: I LOVE that song!

LOL@Leggs for the course catalog….

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:58 pm

15 mins. early is the appropriate time to arrive for an interview.

The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior

August 11th, 2011
1:58 pm

@Dreams

Mine didn’t go over well neither…at school, the walk home where we “talked” went better…

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
1:59 pm

SC – Yeah, Sassy does have a point…not to mention they probably gave theirself time to account for getting lost or traffic…

Leggs – I remember my sister used to hunch her pillow when she was younger…she got caught red-handed getting that thrust thang dowwwwwn :shock: I also remember the first time I reached an actual climax, and not just making noise because that’s what they did on the movies…I was AMAZED!!!!!!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
1:59 pm

And, that’s what you should state, SC because most will arrive 15 mins. early.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:00 pm

Jordan Van Der Sloot has gotten his girlfriend pregnant while in jail and he runs some sort of candy racket while he is in there also. His jail life is going pretty well for him all things considered
http://www.foxnews.com/world/2011/06/16/joran-van-der-sloot-reportedly-gets-girlfriend-pregnant-behind-bars/

The first time I was touched was at the lake by a woman who was about 13 years my senior. I knew I was supposed to do something but I just did not know what. She taught me how to “eat at the y” that day to for the first time. I guess I was molested and forced to perform oral sex on her, but me trying to be a man and do the grown up thing I was to dumb to realize that I was being taken advantage of sexually. LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:01 pm

@SlimNU ~ exactly, my first climax during a humping session left me amazed and greedy for more!

Awww, I know your sis was embarrassed being caught in mid thrust mode!

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:03 pm

15 minutes early to an interview doesn’t impress me. My last new hire arrived 15 minutes early for his interview, then turned around and was late three times the first week….which is why I’m interviewing today.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:05 pm

Sassy Me:
How you gon ask to show my hands, when they’re holding on to you.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:06 pm

ITL, you just got busted. I can tell by your answer to the shoe question and drinking. You ar not white nor blonde… :D LOL

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:08 pm

I think arriving 15 minutes early for an interview or 30 minutes early is fine. You have to leave for your destination early just in case you hit traffic an accident or have a flat. Just sit outside in the car until it’s time to go in.

Hey Swiss, do you leave your shoes on or off once you are drunk?

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:10 pm

Mayne, why in the world did a family member come tell me that they could not find their Nuva ring and wanted me to help find it :shock:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:10 pm

LOL@Purp. I’m from the sticks, but we’ve had shoes and indoor plumbing a looooonnnnggg time. :)
You are partially right, though – I have always been white, but I have not always been blond. Most often, I am a strawberry blond/auburn.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:10 pm

Purp – this >>>”Just sit outside in the car until it’s time to go in.”

This is all I’m saying.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:11 pm

The slow drag was the dance that got you started with something. The way we grinded back then we may as well had our clothes off.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:13 pm

ITL, that’s what makes it terrible. You are from the sticks and did not know, this is something you should know. LOL watch how Swiss answers the question about the shoes on or off when drunk.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:14 pm

Slim, I will help her find it. The first place we need to look is………….

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
2:14 pm

I pop back in and y’all talling about first……I remember my the first time I touched a real, under the clothes cooter….It was the summer of 1980 and We were in her parents living room….She let me play and touch for like an hr.. But was scared to go futher :( I always felt like I missed out on my chance to get in the game early,..until I saw her about 15 years ago working the register at Mrs. KFC on Brockett rd….She said she had 7 kids and was as big as all out doors!!!! I could not help but think I dodged a bullet on that one!!!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:16 pm

If they sit outside in their car for 15 mins, their hairstyle will drop, their skirt will get wrinkled and their makeup would not look fresh from all the sweating. You can bet my car will not be running for 15 mins to run the air. Heck, I’d go in the bathroom stall if I had to.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:16 pm

But I don’t wear “shoes” to just hang out…usually in flip flops.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:16 pm

@BF ~ where you from you call it the “slow drag?” We NYers call it “The Grind!”

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:16 pm

“big as all outdoors” Now that is big. I bet her driver’s license photo is an aerial shot.

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:17 pm

ITL, you still don’t get it. Shoes on means one thing shoes off mean another. LOL

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
2:17 pm

I would deem it appropriate to arrive early for an interview. I was always told for any event…church, work, etc….to always allow yourself a window for the unforseen.

Well I was in the middle of typing and scrambling to pull the screen down cause the market exec with his FINE self just walked up on me…gheesh

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:18 pm

@SimpleM ~ think about it, if you went all the way, perhaps you could have helped HER DODGE THE BULLET!!

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:19 pm

Leggs – I don’t care what they do with themselves. Just don’t bring their asses up in my office before it’s the time that I asked them to be here.

Besides, if this old ass dude’s showed up in a wrinkled skirt, with a droopy perm and runny makeup, he’s got bigger things going on than arriving at an interview too early.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
2:19 pm

Yep ITL, it’s a nice tune

cba

August 11th, 2011
2:19 pm

it’s too HOT !!! and gasoline is to HIGH to keep the engine running j/k
She who’s the boss set the rules.

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
2:21 pm

And this is why I take with a grain of salt the advice that people give about what you should/shouldn’t do to get a job. Everyone has their own ideas and preferences. Just do what you think makes the most sense and make your interview count. Some employers will love it, some will hate it, and some won’t care either way.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:21 pm

I remember the boy I had to teach how to kiss. Don’t know why, but I thought myself to be a good kisser (even though I was inexperienced)…now, that is a riot! No experience, but I’m good at it. Slapping my knee laughing.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:22 pm

No sweat off my brow, just glad I’m not interviewing with you.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:22 pm

I wonder if touching cooters and weenies is an innate thing…and why we do it…Hmmm

Purp – I told her I’d go buy her a crochet needle since it has the hook at the end of it. I was NOT going anywhere near her cooter. No saw, I sholes aints gonna do it

Did I hear someone say flip flops? Was that Dreams who has a thing about chicks in flip flops –>turn off?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:23 pm

Leggs:
LOL…..They both served the same purpose, getting you all riled up for the back seat of the car.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:24 pm

Exactly, DreamsM. This is the first time I’ve heard someone get so riled up over one arriving 15 mins early. But, I do understand, she has no reception area, etc. Rules are not universal when interviewing.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:25 pm

@Blackfoote, how many times have you gotten a girl in the backseat. Be honest.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
2:27 pm

Well we know folks ain’t happy if you’re late..that’s for sure :evil:

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:27 pm

Leggs – The worst kiss I ever had was this guy who would open his mouth so wide, he’d have you thinking he was trying to eat your whole head. He’d open it so wide every single time and open & close it haphazardly. YIKES!!! Any attraction I had to him IMMEDIATELY went out the window.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
2:28 pm

Nope, that was Infamous DK….

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:29 pm

I couldn’t stand kissing women who gave dry kisses or had little “pecky” feeling lips.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:30 pm

Slim1:
It’s an animal instinct, wild animals smell each other butts, humans grab each others crouch….LOL

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
2:32 pm

Did I hear someone say flip flops? Was that Dreams who has a thing about chicks in flip flops –>turn off?
Slim That was Infamous. I’m cool with flip flops. Just don’t wear them with socks. lol

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:32 pm

Blackfoote, what? LOL

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:35 pm

And, Celisea, when “busting slob” I don’t really want the slob. I had this one guy that kissed like he was a water fountain…never again. How does not make so much saliva during a kiss…

@DreamsM ~ I still do not understand flip flops with socks. Makes no sense to me.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:35 pm

How does one….

For Real

August 11th, 2011
2:36 pm

For Real now waiting in ScooL driveway for his 8.15.11 interview.

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
2:37 pm

Rules are not universal when interviewing.
Leggs This true. Besides, the rules don’t even count that much if you’re really good at what you do and can convince the employer that they can’t do without you. As far as the time thing, I go by what I’ve always been taught: To be early is to be on time; to be on time is to be late, and to be late is unacceptable.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:38 pm

Leggs:
In my teen years I’ve been caught twice by the ATL’s finest, got a bit more savy in my early twenties. My car was a portable bed, numbers I don’t remember but it was a lot.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:38 pm

Dreams – My bad…flip flops with socks definitely sounds funny but i’ve done it before to run outside or something real fast…not out in public though

It’s an animal instinct, wild animals smell each other butts

BF – Well technically, you guys also ’smell each other butts/crotch’ because after you fangered that chick for an hour, you smelled your hand didn’t you? :lol:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:39 pm

“To be early is to be on time; to be on time is to be late, and to be late is unacceptable.”

EXACTLY! My track coach told me this in H.S. and I never forgot it.

For Real

August 11th, 2011
2:39 pm

My first time achieving the hump in the back was from a girl that was 8yrs older than me and mildly retarded. Don’t judge me.

Dynamic

August 11th, 2011
2:39 pm

Let me share my first touch story. I was a freshman and my true love invited me to his house to skip and play around while his mom was at work. I’m like “Hell Yeah”. We are in his bed and he pulls his pants down. I had no clue what I was doing, so I just used my hands. Next thing I know my hands are sticky, he’s shaking, and I’m thinking WTH!!!

I think back with found memories and :)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:40 pm

@BF ~ I remember those two times you got caught by ATL’s finest. The second time was funnier than the first because you thought you had it down pat without any game time!

For Real

August 11th, 2011
2:40 pm

“i’ve done it before to run outside or something real fast…not out in public though” – I thought outside was public.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:41 pm

BF – Oh, and after ‘letting your fingers do the walking’ for an hour, were they all wrinkled up like you had been in the pool too long? :lol:

(Yes, if you were wondering, i’m delirious at this point)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

Purple:
I was answering Slim1, she asked why people grab each other intimately. I told her wild animals do it too……LOL

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

For Real – mean mugging you. You are NOT hired. (lol)

Really…interviewing is the part of my job that is like torture. I hate it. I can’t stand folks calling me about an opening. I deplore it when employees give folks my name and tell them to call and ask for me. I am irritated by the follow up calls. I detest having to inform folks that they were not hired. I just all around don’t like this part of my responsibilities.

Fortunately….I only have to do this a few times a year.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

For Real – I knew it was going to be at least ONE smart ass to call me out on that. Who let you in the secret entrance anyway? You probably snuck in while BF was fangering his 2nd grade teachers booty hole & smelling it :lol:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:43 pm

OMG, mildly retarded. You are one funny dude.

@Dynamic ~ I am on the floor with that visual.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:45 pm

@SC ~ it’s obvious, you hate that part of the job. This isn’t the first time you’ve griped about interviewing.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:46 pm

I have had someone arrive 45 minutes early. To me, that was presumptuous and rude. As if my set appointment time was just a suggestion and as if they were in charge of my day.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
2:47 pm

And that…is all I’m going to say about interviewing……today….(lol)

Purple Reign

August 11th, 2011
2:47 pm

For Real, never ever ever go full retard. Midly retarded is okay though, did she have to wear a helmet?

Sexy Cool, see you don’t like doing interviews…now I know why you don’t mind people staying on welfare. You don’t want them calling your or nothing. LOL j/k

Slim, I don’t know about smelling my fingers afterwards lick them or in one sly motion wipe them off on the sheets. LOL

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:48 pm

No socks with flip flops for me. I can’t even see how that would be comfortable. Besides, I keep my toes looking cute so that I can show them off! :)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:48 pm

Now, SC, arriving 45 mins ahead of schedule can be irritating and what it implies may have you lose the job before you even utter a word.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:49 pm

I just used my hands. Next thing I know my hands are sticky, he’s shaking, and I’m thinking WTH

OMG, I’m dying over here…..whew, please help me get it together :lol: :lol:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:49 pm

did she have to wear a helmet

Laughing so hard I am crying…. :lol: :lol:

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
2:52 pm

Just saying……cute toes are good for sucking……( Back to your regular scheduled blogging)

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
2:53 pm

Dynamic – Your post actually reminds of the first time I knew about Pre-sticky on guys. Seems some have it and some don’t and apparently my hs sweetheart had that a lot. The first time I noticed it, I was thrown off because i’m thinking, “aren’t I supposed to be the one wett.” :shock: (But he also wore tighty whities AND boxers at the same time too..i think that’s how boxer briefs came about)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:55 pm

Matter of fact, I’m going in for a pedi tonight….. just saying…. ;)

For Real

August 11th, 2011
2:55 pm

Shelley: Heyyyyy For Real!!!

For Real: Hey Shelley. Now gon bout yo business!

Shelley: Hey For Real. Hey For Real. Hey For Real.

For Real: Shelley I ain’t gon play with you.

Meatball: Shelley I bet you want kiss For Real.

For Real: MAN STOP Play…. GONE NOW SHELLEY!!! KISS MEATBALL!!!

Shelley: Give me some sugga. sugga, sugga.

For Real: (now running at stop speed while screaming) MEATBALL IMMA KICK YO ASS!!!! STOP PLAYIN SHELLEY!!! (while thinking to himself DAYUM she fast to def) IMMA TELL YO MAMMA SHELLEY!!!

Shelley: GOT YOUI!! (jumping onto For Real’s back)

For Real: DANG SHELLEY!!! STOP!!! I HURT MY LEG!!!

Shelley: (while sitting on top on For Real breathing hard) KISS!! KISS!!

For Real: STOP PLAYING SHELLEY!!! I AIN’T KISSING YOU!!! GET OFF ME!!!

Shelley: Imma hold your arm down and kiss you.

For Real: You ain’t….strong… STOP SHELLEY!!! NOOOOOOOO!!! (kiss on the mouth and then Shelley licked For Real lips)

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:56 pm

That was very subtle (lol)…

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
2:57 pm

…as a jackhammer

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
2:58 pm

@ForReal ~ I am literally hopping up and down at my desk cracking up!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
3:00 pm

I rather my toes not be in someone’s mouth…I’m highly ticklish, so it’s actually a safety issue. When I get to squirming, ain’t no telling how my legs will get to kicking…mess around and need stitches on your gums.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:01 pm

For Real, that was hilarious!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
3:02 pm

Slim1:
LOL….Smelling is an option, I’ve smelled some that was scented well and some that made me want to cry and my fingers never got wrinkled but they were smelly.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:02 pm

LOL@Slim. I got this visual of your man with a football helmet and mouth guard on….”okay, baby, ready or not, I’m gonna get those piggies….”

Simple Man......

August 11th, 2011
3:03 pm

Come on Slim… a little toe sucking is good for the soul!!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:04 pm

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:04 pm

ITL – I finished The Help earlier. Um……….

I thought it ended kinda unsatisfactorily. But…I guess she couldn’t write forever.

But really, that is actually confirmation of just how much I enjoyed the book. I could have kept reading these characters forever.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:05 pm

Okay, so yesterday Swiss was talking about Tina Tuna, and today BF is talking about some chickadee who made his eyes water…. WTH don’t you just LEAVE???

You can bet if Musty Marvin showed up at my house, he would be asked to leave PRONTO!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:06 pm

Perhaps it’s just me, but toe sucking is ALMOST akin to oral. The sensation is almost the same even though the act is not. Either way, the juices are flowing…

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:08 pm

Shellley: Imma pull yo pants down and rub yo ding-ding!

For Real: THAT’s IT SHELLEY I AIN’T PLAYIN NO MO!! GET OFF ME!!! STOP SHELLEY STOP!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

Shelley: Dare it is.. smooth and warm…

For Real: Shelley please stop!!!

Shelley: Yo ding-ding got a bone in it!!! And a hole at the top. Imma spit in yo ding-ding hole

For Real: Shelley please don’t spit…

Shelley: Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhcckk-PTOOO. Imma rub it all ova. For Real what wrong wit yo. For Real!! Imma get up since you crying. Sissy!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:08 pm

Sugar Hill Gang is on….I’m dancing at my desk!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:08 pm

SC – The only part that really made me kinda go “hunh” was the deal with Skeeter’s mom. To me, that was just so random. But otherwise, I just loved the book. Like I was telling a friend last night, it made me laugh, cry, ashamed, and angry….

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:10 pm

scallywags, weenie, cooter, ding-dong

….I can’t take no more….. :lol: :lol:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:11 pm

If your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend….

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:11 pm

You mean her mom and Constantine and how she treated Constantine’s daughter?

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:12 pm

This is too damn funny! For Real, pretty sure it happened just like that to some boy somewhere…

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
3:13 pm

Man, what did I walk into today, 1st time stories, toe sucks, and job interviews….what up everybody, shoutout to the old fam, what up newbies!!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:17 pm

Oh, no. I thought that part was (sadly) realistic. I meant the part about her mother’s illness.

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:18 pm

Next day…..

Shelley: Mrs. For Real is For Real in da house?

For Real Moms: Come on in baby he sure is…. For Real!!! You got company!

For Real: Okay momma here I come. (Jumping down the last flight of stairs) Who is…

Shelley: Hey For Real!

For Real: Scream at Shelley and runs back up stairs.

Moms: FOR REAL!!! NOW YOU GET YOUR RUDE SELF BACK DOWN HERE!!!

For Real: Momma I don’t want to play with Shelley!

Moms: Now you know she touched and she just want to play. Now gon out there and play.

For Real: But.

Moms: The next but will be yours

Shelley: (Smiling at For Real) Imma count to ten..

For Real takes off running….

Shelley: 1, 6, 8, 3, 10!!!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:19 pm

Don’t give too much away, some of us haven’t read the book nor seen the movie yet. Thank you.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:20 pm

SPOILER ALERT!!!!!!!

OH..yeah…that…especially since she just made up her mind that she wasn’t goint to die after all.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:21 pm

That doesn’t make any sense. Whatever!!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:21 pm

Ek-zachery. I thought that was kind of random and weird.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:21 pm

But the rest of the plot was pretty much how I expected it would be.

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:22 pm

Leggs: True story. She chased me all summer long. She was 8 yeas older than me bigger, stronger and faster than me. I had to climb trees and wait her out to escape. One day me and my mom was talking and she asked if I remember Shelley and I told her what Shelley use to do to me and she laughed so hard she cried. It’s funny now.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:23 pm

Which is precisely the reason I wasn’t going to support it with my money. However, the story is so well told that you have to respect its telling.

Also, Kelly on R&K said this morning that the movie is almost the book come to life which makes me definitely want to go and see the movie.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:25 pm

Me, too, SC. I’d still love to read more about those characters….

Have you read “Little Bee” or “Wench”?

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:26 pm

No. Those are new titles to me.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
3:26 pm

That story is a gem, ForReal. I can only imagine the laughter coming from your mother. Thanks for sharing!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:27 pm

We have tentative plans to see the movie this weekend. It’s gotten really good reviews so far. I’ll let you know on Monday.

@For Real: is ALL of it true, or did you take some artistic liberties?

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:29 pm

The way the book describes Aibilene I would picture her to be older than Viola. I would have pictured more of a serious Jennifer Lewis in this role. But…V is an amazing actress. So, I’m sure she does just fine.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:30 pm

Both of those were good, SC, as well as The Girl Who Fell From the Sky. Just like The Help, all three tackle a difficult subject in a very honest way.

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
3:33 pm

Hey Gang! Just popped in to say hey!

What’s up with this??? Guess it doesn’t matter, we’d be on another topic before lunch anyway.

SCool – I hate applying, interviewing, reviewing applications, hiring, not hiring, the whole shabang!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
3:34 pm

For Real – You are stuuuuuupid lol

I remember i had a crush on this dude named Dennis but I think he sort of like my friend. One day we were laying out on the soccer fields trying to see what shapes the clouds were making, and we some how got started wrestling. I’ll never forget all that rolling around in the grass got his nature up and I sort of hunched him on the sly. :mrgreen:

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:35 pm

Sad to say it’s all true ITL. She used to tell everyone that I was her boyfriend. And you know how well that went over with the other kids. Now that I think about it, that’s probably the reason I was so good at “jonnin”.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
3:38 pm

I got this visual of your man with a football helmet and mouth guard on….”okay, baby, ready or not, I’m gonna get those piggies

Not the helmet and mouth guards lol Have my piggies smelling like a spit factory yuck! lol

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
3:40 pm

Seems like folks with mild to severe mental issues are either highly aggressive or overly sexual. I used to know a lady that worked with special needs adults and they would often play with themselves or expose their parts to others.

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:41 pm

LOL Not if he has an Altoid first, Slim. :)

I had a guy friend who once swore by the mystique of Altoids before eating at the Y….

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:42 pm

I’ll never forget all that rolling around in the grass got his nature up and I sort of hunched him on the sly.” – For Real now laying on grass in front of his office building with his nature up.

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
3:44 pm

4 Real – Did you see Breaking Bad? Isn’t Walter’s lawyer a trip?LOL!!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:44 pm

For Real and Shelley sittin’ in a tree…..K-I-S-S-I-N-G….

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:44 pm

Slim: I agree because she would chase me like her life depended upon it. Except I didn’t do anything to her. Wait a minute…. ” I’ll never forget all that rolling around in the grass got his nature up and I sort of hunched him on the sly.” – DAYUMIT!!!! That’s why she kept chasing me!!!

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:46 pm

Kimmie: The lawyer is my favorite character. He ain’t worried about nobody but himself. Oh and I know you didn’t ask but I HATE Skyler!!! Wish Walt would shoot her in the face! Oh did you see what the old dude was starring at when he was in the Chicken Man’s office?

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
3:50 pm

For Real now laying on grass in front of his office building with his nature up

Slim notices For Reals pole is only up at half mast…Is everything ok Freal?

ITL – Oh yeah, can’t forget about the altoids…haven’t experienced that yet.

Slim calling beau

Slim: Hey babe, how’s it going?

Beau: It’s pretty hectic, since lot’s of folks are out on vacation. Wsup?

Slim: Oh, I was calling to see what you were thinking for dinner?

Beau: Um..hadn’t thought that far ahead. Did you have something in mind?

Slim: Yeah, I came across this new recipe I heard about.

Beau: Oh, sounds cool. You need me to pick up anything from the store?

Slim: I’m glad you asked because actually I do. Um…looks like the receipe calls for 20 of those containers of altoids…Oh, and babe…do you happen to know where you mouth guard is?

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
3:51 pm

4 Real – I can’t stand Skyler either. I know Breaking Bad is not a mafia show, but it is sorta. On most of those type of movies/shows I usually can’t stand the wife/girlfriend! Most don’t know how to keep their mouths SHUT and CHILL! Carmela Soprano was the only one I could deal with!

No I didn’t see what old dude was staring at, did you?

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:53 pm

LOL@Slim. :lol: :lol: Don’t forget the helmet….

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
3:55 pm

@SlimNu, I work with metally ill folks, and yes most of them are very Sexually Inappropriate, they don’t have the cognitive controls to tell them, “don’t touch right there in public”, or “don’t touch his/her private”, and they will say and show anything!!!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

they don’t have the cognitive controls to tell them, “don’t touch right there in public”

I’ve seen some normal functioning men and women who didn’t seem to have this filter either. I mean, really??? If you are that itchy, or your undergarments are that askew, go to the bathroom and take care of it…. Men who think they are subtle with the pocket pool are so not!

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

I work with mentally ill folks too. Most of them just haven’t been diagnosed yet.

For Real

August 11th, 2011
3:58 pm

Slim: Slim notices For Reals pole is only up at half mast…Is everything ok Freal?

For Real now shaking a can of altoids at Slim with a kool grin.

Kimmie: Me too and I thought the Soprano’s was the best writing I have ever seen but Breaking Bad blows everything away. I absolutely love how they start an episode.

He was starring at the box cutter that Chicken Man used to slit ole boy’s throat.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:03 pm

Jake – My coworker said she was in a restaurant bathroom once and came out the stall to wash her hands. There happened to be a special child standing there as well and she just rush to her, hugged her and picked her up spinning her around. She said it scared her and she was so shocked by how strong she was. I know i’m going to hell but I cried laughing when she told me that, just visualizing her feet dangling off the ground, not know what to do.

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
4:06 pm

He was starring at the box cutter that Chicken Man used to slit ole boy’s throat

4 Real – Chills!!!!!! Yeah, that show blows em all away!!!

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
4:12 pm

I just read a story where a 24 year old woman attacked a 12-year old girl for “looking” at her 30-year old boyfriend, up in Conn.

The suspect’s boyfriend was in the kitchen cleaning up a spill when Kiley allegedly claimed the child had “been looking at him all day,” police told the website.

Kiley then grabbed the girl by her hair and hurled her to the floor, investigators allege.

:shock:

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:14 pm

Now, that’s one insecure woman! She’s intimidated by a 12-year.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
4:15 pm

Hell yeah they strong, I have had to restrain a few over the years, and lets just say, it ain’t a picnic, gottta use that grown man on them…

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
4:17 pm

kimmie – when I was 14, this chick that moved in across the street from my grandmother tried to fight me because her boyfriend gave me a ride home from school. She went to my grandmother and accused me of being “hot in the tail.” It’s the reason I ended up on the Pill at that age. Never mind that I would not even attempt anything sexual with a boy for another two years.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:19 pm

Leggs – You can’t count out a 12 year old girl these days…you see how they develop physically and if that 12yr old falls into the ‘fast ass’ category, then that adds at least 5yrs to her age lol

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
4:22 pm

SCool – “Hot in the tail”, now that’s a term I haven’t heard in years!!LOL!!!

I was about 15 when a chick got real insecure about her husband talking to me at an art exhibit. He was talking to me really like a professor about the painting we were looking at. I was with my family at a convention my dad had to attend. We were all there together. Thinking back, this woman & her hubby were around early-mid 30’s. I was an awkward, pimply-faced 15 year old. You should have seen her running up & “claiming” him!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:26 pm

@SlimNu ~ I thought about that while I posted that. These girls bodies are scary.

@SC ~ a new girl moved into our neighborhood around the time I was 14-15. She fought just about everyone in school becuase she was buxom, flirtatious and a down and out HOE! I felt sorry for her in the beginning, but I saw how she threw herself at the boys.

kimmie

August 11th, 2011
4:26 pm

Slim – I wouldn’t put it past some of these fast girls, but I sho wouldn’t be fighting her either!! So much the cops had to be called? And over a grown man? Hey, if she eyed him and he wanted her underage behind, let him have her & deal with her & her parents and the cops for messing with someone underage!!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
4:28 pm

Oh lawd….deliver me from evil. They have opened a Piece of Cake in Vinings….have mercy.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:29 pm

Most definitely, kimmie, wouldn’t have fought her over HIM.

DreamsMaterialize

August 11th, 2011
4:29 pm

Grown a$$ women acting like middle schoolers…shame. On a kind of related note, I just saw “Why Did I Get Married Too” the other day. My question is: What the he!! goes through a woman’s mind that makes her think it’s cool to blow up the spot at a guy’s job? It’s so short-sighted and…well stupid.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:29 pm

Leggs – And they even have a ‘fcking sway’ type switch in their walks, wearing them tight skinny jeans. If I was a parent, I couldnt be sure that i’d allow my child to dress in clothes that form fitting especially if they had a grown ass womans walk. I’d probably beat her until she started walking like the Virgin Mary lol

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:32 pm

I just read an article about a wrestling coach having inappropriate contact with a student. The student told another teacher about it and she failed to report it, so her ass got picked up too.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:33 pm

@SlimNu ~ interesting you talk about the way they walk. I have been watching mine. One day, I remember telling her, “switch up that walk right now, fix that walk!” She retorts “I got it from you” I retort like hell you did. Walk straight! Whew, never forgot that.

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:43 pm

Leggs – Did you have a mild panic/anxiety attack? lol

Dreams – That’s just tacky…I would not want myself to look like a fool while trying to make him look like one. Plus if it’s over something like child support, you shole as hell ain’t getting anything if you cause him to lose his job. I know a chick who was mad at her ex so she called and told his employer that he smoked herb and got him fired.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:49 pm

Somewhat, SlimNu. No doubt she will have a distinct walk, but let’s hone it in.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

@DreamsM ~ any woman who makes a scene at someone’s job or in the street, or in the car, or on the bus, or in a restaurant is not a “woman!” May be harsh, but trashy people with no moral compass make scenes!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:52 pm

Heck, not even moral. It’s all about character!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
4:53 pm

They call me duckbutt :cry:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
4:53 pm

At the pool the other day, there was a girl there who was 15 or 16, delightfully telling her friends about how “active” she was and demonstrating the moves she uses on her boyfriend. Shoulda seen her when grandmama showed up, though. Butter wouldn’t have melted in her mouth….

i'm swiss™

August 11th, 2011
4:54 pm

Oh snap! Bootleg blogging & I missed it??? D@NG!

What’s the topic now? “F#ck me” walks?

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Hey Leggs,

If I recall right, you once said u stayed around the little church on the hill, come on out and do some power walkin today….lol.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
4:55 pm

I disagree, Leggs. She’s still a “woman”, but she is not a lady. :)

Duckbutt! :) I have a cousin we call that.

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
4:56 pm

Everybody’s got a story about some chick being delusional about you and their man….lol

Nothing was going on or went on. Shoot that chick was broad in the shoulders. No way I was going to tango with that. Her boyfriend was on the football team and stuff but she was about as big if not bigger than him. She followed me around the school for a couple of months. I ran into her at the mall Saturday with my kid. Her kid and my kid attend the same school :neutral:

Celisea

August 11th, 2011
4:57 pm

At the pool the other day, there was a girl there who was 15 or 16, delightfully telling her friends about how “active” she was and demonstrating the moves she uses on her boyfriend. Shoulda seen her when grandmama showed up, though. Butter wouldn’t have melted in her mouth….

So sad…if they can just wait. It will be well worth it…SMH

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:58 pm

@Jake ~ there are so many churches around me but none are on a hill in my area.

I stand corrected, ITL. You’re absolutely correct.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
4:58 pm

@Leggs, Oh Yeah, don’t be alarmed, I just got a good memory.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
4:58 pm

I’m not alarmed. I know what I put out here.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:00 pm

I guess its not as good as I thought, I thought P.Springs was in your area.

SexyCool

August 11th, 2011
5:01 pm

Guess I should have mentioned that the chick that tried to fight me when I was 14 was almost 30.

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:04 pm

You called it right, SC…that chick!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:05 pm

A little old lady was running up and down the halls in a nursing home. As she walked, she would flip up the hem of her nightgown and say ‘Supersex…’

She walked up to an elderly man in a wheelchair. Flipping her gown at him, she said, ‘Supersex.’

He sat silently for a moment or two and finally answered, ‘I’ll take the
soup.’

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:07 pm

Michael Baisden is talking about how these young girls are dressing….

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:11 pm

@Jake ~ I was just thinking “perhaps it is on a hill.” Your memory is still good.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:12 pm

So whats up with the power walk??

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:13 pm

Where, up and down the road?

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:16 pm

Yep, you stay about 10 good feet ahead so I can enjoy…

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:16 pm

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:19 pm

See you soon, meet you at P.Springs at 5:45!!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:20 pm

You won’t meet me at 5:45.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:21 pm

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:22 pm

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

August 11th, 2011
5:24 pm

Have good evening lady, holla at ya’ll 2morrow!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
5:24 pm

You too!

Nite everyone!

PEACE!

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
5:27 pm

Night, y’all!