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Dating under the influence

Call it one of life’s lessons: outside influences should not impact your relationship. Some of us had to learn the hard way. Like the time you over shared something about what was happening and it backfired on you.

We all have well meaning friends and relatives who want what is best for us. Sometimes they may get a little carried away and interfere, which actually could make things a lot worse. You could end up getting bad advice from someone who really should not have been able to influence your decisions or behavior at all.

Have you ever been influenced by people to make certain dating or relationship decisions?

How much do you share and how much do you keep close to the vest?

Would you ever dump someone because they were not liked by people in your circle?

One of my friends is seeing a woman that does not get along with his best friend. It is starting to become a problem because the best friend and girlfriend clash a lot. This leaves him sort of stuck in the middle. What would you do in this situation? Play peacemaker or keep them apart?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures In Atlanta Dating Blog

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Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

…He’d put a spoon in it…

Hilarious!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

“SWISS, what’s the verdict?”

Slim — I don’t have a huge sampling to draw from, because I only ever dated 1 white chick. But, um, yeah… home girl could s#ck a d!ck. WELL. :lol: And, she was enthusiastic about it, too — I mean she s#cked on that think like a kid trying to get to the candy center. :lol:

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

Enlighten us, oh Purple One :D

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

my typing sux

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:01 pm

Simple Man......

August 10th, 2011
5:03 pm

The is a GOD!!! :) Hold on CZ….let me make sure I have my Check book AND the Amex……

SlimNu

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

Leggs :lol: @ ROB BBBBBBBASSS!

RandyT – I’ve only met one guy that stated he didn’t eat at the Y. Don’t let brothers pull the wool over your eyes. They likes to eat it before they beat it!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

Oh, and she swallowed, too… :lol:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:04 pm

LOL. How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Matterhorn??? :neutral:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:05 pm

let me make sure I have my Check book AND the Amex……

cause it ain’t gone be no “cash n carry”…lol. You betta strut CZ!!

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:06 pm

Italian girls don’t like to do it to much, white girls love to do it but they tend to get carried away. AA’s will do it if they are really liking you but not if you aren’t returning the favor often. Latina’s have the best skills imo.

lol Freddy Tiffany…internationally known is from the movie Double Take. LOL

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

They all swallow some even gargle spit it out on your chest then lick it back up. Hey don’t be mad at me I am just sharing some of what has happened to me. LOL

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

Thanks, SlimNU! :lol: :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:07 pm

@ PR “carried away” is not a bad thing IMHO LOL

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:08 pm

ITL — For her, not many. Chick had skiiiiiillzzz, I tell ya. :lol: Too bad she also had a poontang that smelled like 3-day old tuna even after she stepped out of the shower. :shock:

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:08 pm

I’ve only met one guy that stated he didn’t eat at the Y

I met one,too….from Jamaica. When he said he “didn’t give” I said well you surely won’t “receive” from me either…GTFOH

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:09 pm

Too bad she also had a poontang that smelled like 3-day old tuna even after she stepped out of the shower.

t’ain’t right…ain’t natural

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:09 pm

@ Sassy…way to straighten that dude out LOL

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:10 pm

Thanks, Randyt for standing up for the white girls!! :)

Dang, Swiss….I’m just…I…ugh…. Is this the candle wax chick?

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:10 pm

I have a strong experience tongue…just thought i’d share that ladies

Purple Reign

August 10th, 2011
5:11 pm

ITL are you white? Every white girl I know loves anal…but not to deep ..lol

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

gotta go get my run on….read y’all tomorrow!!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

I am, and now you know a white girl who DOES NOT. That runway is for departures, not arrivals.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:12 pm

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:13 pm

ITL — Yep, that’s the same girl. She was a fa-reeeeak. :lol:

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:14 pm

Well…. ????

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

All that freakiness, but she couldn’t invest in a Summer’s Eve? IJS…..

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Sassy — No, clearly her taint wasn’t right. :lol:

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Boy the blog nazi has nailed me twice today…I’m just trying to answer the questions.

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:15 pm

Well now we know and knowing is half the battle…G-I JOOOOOOEEEEEEE :-)

Sassy Me ;-)

August 10th, 2011
5:16 pm

OMG SWISS!!!

okay now i’m out….hollaaaa

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

Clearly, I have missed something or am too dense to understand the conversation…..

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

“That runway is for departures, not arrivals.” – NICE!

Randyt (aka, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, HAVE A CLOSET FULL OF T-SHIRTS)

August 10th, 2011
5:17 pm

@ PR and ITL…once in Playboy Forum they addressed this by saying “never sit on anything smaller than your azz”.

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:18 pm

What do you think you’ve missed, ITL???

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

See, a convo like this is not be disrupted by an EOD (especially if it has nothing to do with the convo…carry on).

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

LOL@Randyt. I would agree with that!

Leggs, I didn’t get the “Well” and “Well now we know and knowing is half the battle” comments from Sassy. I’ll have to scroll up…clearly I missed something.

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

ITL — Man, I don’t know what was going on down there. I think she had some kind of chemical imbalance or something, ‘cos I tried to be slick & “shower together” so I could clean that thing well, and it was still a swamp thing. Luckily for her, she was my first so I didn’t know any better. I just held my breath & dove in. :shock:

Now, the girl I dated immediately after her — this smoking hot Brasileira — was the big winner, because the first time I tasted her honey pot, I thought I’d died & gone to heaven. :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:21 pm

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:23 pm

I was about to say since it was your first time tasting perhaps you just wasn’t familiar with the aroma, but Stink is Stink!

The Reanimated Corpse of I'm Swiss (now with titanium-infused, bionic w@ng)

August 10th, 2011
5:24 pm

I was like a fish realizing for the first time he has gills: “I can breathe! I can BREATHE!” :lol:

Leggs

August 10th, 2011
5:24 pm

“I just held my breath & dove in.” – SMH!

Into the Light

August 10th, 2011
5:27 pm

EW EW EW!!!! :???:

Testing

August 11th, 2011
8:07 am

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
8:55 am

Bootleg blogging….GOOD MORNING ;-)

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:02 am

Morning, Slim!

Leggs

August 11th, 2011
9:04 am

Good morning….

Dang, climbing through this window just snagged my skirt!

SlimNu

August 11th, 2011
9:09 am

ITL – I see you found the secret entrance that we use whenever the blog doors are still locked. ;-)

I’m catching up from the late afternoon comments from yesterday…3 day old tuna :shock:

Into the Light

August 11th, 2011
9:14 am

LOL@Leggs.

Sure did, Slim. I hid in the bushes under my invisibility cloak until I saw where the crew was headed. :)

Ick. That conversation yesterday afternoon took a turn toward the yuck.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 11th, 2011
9:14 am

Morning Lady’s:
Hold on Leggs, I got some needle and thread. You can put your skirt here I’ll call the cleaners to come pick it up, and the rest of your clothes can go over there.