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Are you dating a wild card?

There is something hot about meeting a person that intrigues you. Whether they are into the same things you are – or they are opening you up to a whole new world that is new to you. Spending time with them becomes a ride that feels risky, wild, and perhaps slightly insane.

Dating those wild card types can also be scary, especially when you don’t know what to expect! Have you ever dated the spontaneous type with a wild side?

Oh it’s all fun and games until your date blindfolds you and you end up on a skydiving adventure!

As I get older *cough*, I tend to become more and more cautious. I may take calculated risks but blindly trusting a new person is a challenge for me! Am I the only killjoy?

What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?

Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?

Do you ever tell your date about your personal boundaries so they won’t cross the wild side line with you?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

317 comments Add your comment

Fion

August 5th, 2011
8:05 am

Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?

Just remenber Baby the Safe word is “Frosted Flakes”.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
8:19 am

Good morning and happy Flirty Fly Friday ;-)

If someone on a date blindfolded me, I would be a bit nervous, excited, anxious all at the same time but I would appreciate the suspense he’d be creating by this approach. Typically, folks do lunch, dinner, a movie or drinks for some of the initial dates…so the ‘wild card’ approach would be a welcome change to the norm. My ex drove me around blindfolded once before we ended up at one of my fav little spots & it created a different vibe, different feel to the date. As long as I’m not going to be hurt or put in harms way in the process, I think i’d be along for the ride. Now if it turned out to be a disaster, then I’d be super hesistant to allow for that same person to take that approach again. As far as me being a wild card, I’d say i’m probably not in that category. However, I am a person open to trying new things.

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SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:07 am

Where is everybody?…

MsMarriedUp

August 5th, 2011
9:07 am

I am the WILDCARD. haha… and enjoy, or rather enjoyed dating WILDCARDS. Gosh, the thrill is, I mean was so great I’m glad I didn’t pass on all those adventures!!! So, no *killjoy* over here.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:20 am

All I’m going to say for now is if you go out with For Real you need to be prepared for ANY thing….and I mean ANY thing….

must pack

1st aid kit
rubber tube
wide-ruled notebook paper
bicycle pump
at least 2 storm drains
10 paper clips
3 packs of color 1B Yakki straight weave
2 hair nets
4 pairs of multi-colored football socks
1 gallon of Astroglide
A toe nail clipper (industrial sized)
A space heater and 2 box fans
An air horn
sleeping bag
and half a banana….oh and 1 can of sardines to feed the AA dolphin

Reio

August 5th, 2011
9:26 am

Never dated a wild one. Never wanted to. I’m the serious type. quiet. Enjoy a good laugh. Witty. HATES!! Surprises. I passed on the wild ones.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:27 am

Good morning, Good morning!!

What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Somewhat of a panic. Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride? Probably not. But, if I went along with it, I would enjoy the nervous anticipation, and I would have to rely on my other senses. If I get the vibe something is amiss I would take the blindfold off myself. If he stops talking to me, I would take the blindfold off myself. If I start smelling chlorform (is this odorless), I would try to take the blindfold off before I pass out!

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card? Yep

Are you the wild card type – I have been!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:33 am

YAY!!! I have some playmates that have now joined the party…woo hoo hooo..

Morning Leggs, Reio, & MMU ;-) The ladies can grab a lay and hula skirt off the table to the right…menfolk grab a banana hammock off the table to the left, pick the color of your choosing. If you need to edge up your side burns boys, I have fresh razors in the bathroom and don’t forget to oil them bods up. Later on today, we’ll enjoy a nice game of Drunk Limbo ;-)

MsMarriedUp

August 5th, 2011
9:34 am

…oh man…carrying all that on a wild trip? Wow, that sucks out the adventure & fun… like riding a coaster *all safely harnessed in* but got your eyes closed. lol. just killin the joy.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:35 am

Ooh la la, my belly dancing classes will come in handy!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:36 am

MsMarriedUp ~ I don’t do rollercoasters, but for some reason a few years back I decided to join some family members on The Scream Machine. Let me tell you, I went up there as Leggs, and came back down a babbling idiot!

Fion

August 5th, 2011
9:36 am

@Leggs
“Are you the wild card type – I have been!’

In my best Pepe le Pew voice.

ooh, la la. Oui Oui.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:38 am

Morning SlimNu.

MsMarriedUp

August 5th, 2011
9:40 am

morning Slim… & all. ugg… The drunk limbo?… now that’s where I draw the line…ugh… where my back went out the last time. kidding of course, though I prefer watching limbos;-)

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:40 am

Fion – I love Pepe…talking about persistance lol

Reio

August 5th, 2011
9:41 am

Never understood “wild”. Fun,Frolic, Yes. “Wild”, I don’t know. Unpredictable people scare me. Even as a younger man, I did’nt Get “wild”. Drunk, only once. So I can’t handle “wild”.

MsMarriedUp

August 5th, 2011
9:42 am

oh yeah…Leggs too funny. I actually got stuck on an elevator…went in with a super pretty perm and came out looking like DK’s baby sister.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
9:44 am

@Slim

Yeah, as a kid it was funny. You watch now as an adult and you see Pepe was a stalker.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:44 am

I like rollercoasters but yall’s stories sounds like me when I got off that ride Acrophobia at Six Flags…that’s a ride I never have to get on again in life.

I also tried parasailing once and that was pretty scary but FUN!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:46 am

Exactly, MsMarriedUp. My hair was a mess, I was crying and staggering. Even had people leave the line because of the way I looked and how shaken up I was.

@Fion ~ come give me a hug!

@Reio ~ to me, “wild” is big fun w/o the stigma of illegal activity and jail time.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
9:47 am

@SlimNu ~ I wanted to parasail when I was in South Beach, but I didn’t want to spend that kind of moolah at that moment.

Mr_NYC

August 5th, 2011
9:48 am

You smell the chloroform just before you say “WTH is that” and then “aw he–” Waking up later. LOL
I guess we’re talking literal blindfolds – definitely have to be with someone where there is some level of comfort and trust.
Surprise date activities out of the norm are fun.
Great Friday morning to everyone.

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
9:49 am

Slim — I’m already wearing my own banana hammock — is that okay? :?:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:51 am

As you get older, you tend to weigh the fun and consequences…well responsible folks anyway. I think when you’re younger, it’s all about what wild thing you can do and racking up the great stories to tell your friends about. At this point, i’d be more open to ‘Fun’ than I would be to ‘Wild’

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:54 am

Leggs – I went parasailing when I was in the Bahamas a few years back but I can’t recall how much it was. The ex and I tried it out…but he is a pretty wild, fun type of dude who is willing to try anything. One other thing i’ll never do again is that little sling shot contraption I got on while in Cancun. I was soooooooo scared on that dayum thang.

swiss – Yes, you may use your own banana hammock but i’ll need you to put this mini umbrella on the side of your coconut. ;-)

abc

August 5th, 2011
9:54 am

No, I wouldn’t go along with a blindfolded date. No skydiving, bungee jumping, roller coasters, or anything else like that — intentional terror has never been that appealing to me. I suppose that for a lot of people, that makes them feel really alive, to put themselves in positions of risk that could very well kill them. I’m feel plenty alive already, thanks very much.

How about a nice picnic, museum, play? That’s more my speed.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
9:56 am

I’m curious blogsville…what’s the last FUN thing you folks have done and what’s the last WILD thing you’ve done???

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
9:59 am

Morning all this great Friday!

It’s nice to do dates out of the norm. I would do the daring/blindfold thing with my husband only. He knows about how far I can go before I would start to panic. I am very claustrophobic and don’t like the dark. So I could have never done the daring thing with guys I dated before – the level of trust was not there.

It’s good to really let your hair down and get a little wild err now and then within reason. My definition of wild might be different that others cause I’m sort of laid back. But I love to have fun and enjoy myself and see others enjoying themselves. Don’t take life so serious all the time.

I’m trying to decide on a kind of daring(for me) thing to do now. My husband has some very tasteful tatoos on his arms. He’s a buttoned-up lawyer and his business shirts cover them completely, so nobody probably knows he has them at his firm. But a lot would not picture him as having such. I am thinking about getting a very small one somewhere I could easily cover up OR getting a 2nd hole in my ears. Can’t decide which!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:00 am

Last fun thing I’ve done ~ gone to South Beach!

Last wild thing I’ve done ~ ???? Phooey, can’t think of anything. My long term memory, isn’t what it used to be.

Mr_NYC

August 5th, 2011
10:01 am

Fun – asking two ladies in Jamaica to give me a private tour off of the beaten path to see the non-touristy stuff and hang out like the locals

Wild – parasailing in Cozumel — it looks wild and scary but when you get up there it’s silent and peaceful

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:02 am

@kimmie ~ a 2nd hold in your ear cracked me up….I have 5 holes. I’ve been talking myself into a tattoo over 30 years. I may just do it this year (lol).

abc

August 5th, 2011
10:05 am

Last fun thing: we went to the movies Monday night. Last wild thing: we don’t do wild, I haven’t done stuff like that since I was 20 or 21 — when I think back on a lot of that stuff, it’s a miracle that I survived, and none of it was roller coasters or skydiving or anything like that. When I was young I didn’t really recognize positions of risk in advance. I’d just all of a sudden be in a bad part of town with a bunch of very rough folks that I didn’t really know.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:05 am

You know what, to come think about it, I would do a blindfold date over blindfold in the bedroom. For some reason that’s scarier to me. I can’t get the picture of knives out of my mind and hot candle wax (lol).

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:07 am

Leggs – Yeah, getting that 2nd hole has been a real stretch for me!LOL!!!

Reio

August 5th, 2011
10:09 am

Last fun thing I did was build a computer for one of my neices a couple of weeks ago. Last wild thing I did was get drunk(first & last time) back in 1990, while serving in the Navy and living in the Philippines and dating my, then girlfriend, now wife.

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
10:11 am

“Yeah, getting that 2nd hole has been a real stretch for me!LOL!!!”

kimmie — It’s okay, the 2nd hole is a stretch for everybody at first. Just make sure you use plenty of lube & go slow… :lol:

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:12 am

swiss – How did I know you would GO THERE?!! :lol:

Reio

August 5th, 2011
10:12 am

i’m swiss™ – Whats’s the lube for?

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
10:13 am

Last FUN – was this past weekend going to see the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra: Cirque de la Symphonie this past Saturday

Last WILD – Um…I guess it would be when I picked the beau up from the airport…underdressed :oops:

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
10:13 am

Leggs — Aw man, I dated this chick in HS who was into that hot candle wax sh!t — or more accurately, she was into dripping that sh!t on me.

Hmm… Come to think of it, she may be the reason why I never dated white chicks again… :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:14 am

I thought what would he say with five holes, not realizing a “2nd hole” was even easier!

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:14 am

Leggs – Did you see Project Runway last night? They had to create an outfit made entirely out of stuff they bought in a pet shop. And not use obvious stuff like the material from a doggie bed cushion. That stuff they did was incredible!!! The creativity of some people absolutely astounds me sometimes!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:15 am

@Reio ~ you’re not serious asking what the lube is for are you???

OMG, I am coughing over here cuz I’m laughing so hard at your reason for no longer dating white chicks…that’s priceless and original!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:17 am

No, I didn’t. I watched the first show where they had to make garments out of their pjs. That was good. I will have to catch that episode on Saturday.

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
10:17 am

Reio — It’s for kimmie’s 2 hole.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
10:18 am

swiss – you itching for time out already and we haven’t even made it to lunch time yet lol

kimmie – I got a second hole years ago and that was so scary to me but i wanted it so bad….But now ever since I lost one of my earrings, I only use my first hole. (swiss, don’t even think about it) Now I suppose I could say my most recent tattoo may fall under ‘wild’ because it’s not so small as my other 2 tats. But i think i’m done with inking myself. I want the beau to get wild and get one on his arm since he said he’s always wanted one but never went through with it.

Reio

August 5th, 2011
10:20 am

Leggs, i’m swiss™ – No. Not serious. hehehe.

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:23 am

Slim – If I do get a tat, I think I may get a tiny dove with my mom’s name under it.

Mr_NYC

August 5th, 2011
10:24 am

@Slim how did you like Cirque de Symphonie? I saw it when they were here in Raleigh. Did they have those 2 guys in gold who did handstands on each other’s head?

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
10:25 am

“you itching for time out already”

Slim — WHEW! So that’s what that itching is… And I was about to ask for a shot of penicillin… :lol:

Fion

August 5th, 2011
10:26 am

Last Fun thing I did, couple I was taken out for a night out on the town. Dinner @ the Palm. dancing at Bella’s. It’s amazing how much better a steak taste when your girl picks up the check.

Last Wild thing was last October. I broke my slump by pulling Ol’ Girl out the club and went home with her.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:27 am

@Reio ~ wiping the sweat of my brow!

abc

August 5th, 2011
10:28 am

This is bizarre: 33% of people surveyed, mostly women, would give up sex for a week rather than give up their smartphone. 83% of iPhone users think they’re best suited romantically to other iPhone users. 22% would rather go without brushing their teeth than without their smartphone (yuck).

http://technolog.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/08/04/7250458-survey-one-third-would-rather-give-up-sex-than-phone

People have come to identify with their PHONES! Like some people identify with their cars! That’s just plain weird.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
10:29 am

meant a couple of weeks ago…….

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
10:32 am

NYC – I really enjoyed it…and yes they had those same two guys. It was the perfect evening weather wise too, being that it was at the amphitheater.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
10:34 am

abc – Sounds like smartphones have become the new nano/gigapet lol (Yall remember those right?)

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
10:37 am

We have done the Dialog in the Dark tour at Atlantic Station. That’s about as close to a *blind*-folded date as we have been so far. But hey…I’m a bit adventurous and I trust TheDude with my life. So I’d be all for it.

O/T – I miss Raqi. and where is ARed?

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:38 am

Actually, that’s not that shocking. Hubby & I are wonderfully suited for each other and we are iPhone users.

I lost my phone when I was in Vegas. You would have thought I had lost an eye, I felt so lost. And I’m not a big phone person either.

Did the survey say go without sex for a week or go without iPhone for a week? Or did it say go without sex for a week or go without phone indefinitly? That would make a difference.

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
10:39 am

SCool – I miss Raqi as well. If you are reading Raqita, WE MISS YOU! :)

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
10:40 am

Three Words Daily – Stop doubting yourself.

You already possess within you everything you need to be successful beyond your wildest dreams.

Now, it is up to you to take that truth and embrace it….{more}

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:40 am

I miss Raqi too!!!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
10:42 am

Blog Run Report – Me, TheDude, GiGi – regular route – 41 minutes.

I am all psyched for the 5K tomorrow. There are gonna be some ladies from Black Girls Run – Atlanta out in full force! Wish I had my t-shirt already….

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
10:42 am

SC – I was thinking about checking out Dialog in the Dark, so how was it? Worth it or something I can pass on?

cba

August 5th, 2011
10:45 am

Venting: How does a blog about Starbucks pulling the plug on wi fi turns into a blog about thugs, blacks and Obama? This is 2011 and I feel like the kid growing up in the sixties.

YouKiddinMe?

August 5th, 2011
10:51 am

Dang, most of you people are boooooooring….. Sky Diving, biggest charge of my life. I’d do it in a heartbeat. Bungie Jumping, another charge. Scared me witless, but afterwards I wanted to do it again. Roller Coasters, the faster and wilder, the better. Dates, sponteneity, derring-do and a sense of adventure are more my style. Picnics….yawn, Day at the Museum…ZZZZZ, coffee or tea in the evening….check please, watching the sun come up….only if we’re nekid. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. By the way, I’m 48 years old.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
10:52 am

Bad Boys get the good girls and good boys get whats left over!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
10:52 am

Slim – it’s an okay experience. Much like Bodies. We did a staycation some months back, played tourist all weekend.

It’s cool to say that we’ve done it. But it’s not something that I found to be overly exciting.

I think if they did something like that where you could be in the dark for a couple of days then that would be a length of time that would have a more lasting impact.

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
10:53 am

Wild Card chiming in!!!!!

I am a bit of an adrenaline junky. But I know not every guy will be.So I cage that side at least until the 2nd date! Then it’s balls to the wall, let’s skydive! :lol:

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
10:53 am

I have to much fun to remember the last exact thing that was fun. Last wild thing I have done was probably baiting wolves while hunting.

As far as the blindfolding goes, if she want to blindfold me she can and take me anywhere she wants to.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:54 am

Blog WALK Report – 29.58, heck 30 mins.

@cba ~ I am flabbergasted at the racism that will forever exist in America. It is so sad and really not much growth.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
10:57 am

Leggs….I am amazed at the people who still whine about racism. Racism exists within all races….it will never go away.

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
10:57 am

Good Morning and Happy Friday all! :-)

I married my wild card…..he has shown me things and places I never thought I would see. I am definitely the ‘voice of reason’ in our realtionship :lol: He helps me let go and I help him balance his wildness. Work for us :-)

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:57 am

One person’s wild side is another person’s bore. I don’t do much things that might scare me to death. Plain and simple. Bungee jumping is a man-made apparatus that can snap at any moment. Never will I take that chance. Rollercoasters can derail, get stuck, what have you. I was a fool to do it that one time.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
10:57 am

Leggs….racism exists within all races….it will not go away.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:58 am

@BMW ~ I knew from the first time I met you, your adventurous side will never be muffled (LOLOL).

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
10:59 am

@UGA, I just said that!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:00 am

Also discussing Obama’s shortcomings and terrible job performance is NOT racism.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:02 am

Everyone has shortcomings and everyone will make mistakes and missteps. However, considering the situation that Mr. Obama inherited, I think he is doing an admirable job.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:08 am

But calling him a tar baby is!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:08 am

God job on the exercising ladies. We arrived in Providence lastnight, so no running for me until the big race. It’s Dante and I hanging out today, Jules went to NYC for some shopping and to watch some play and come back in the morning.

On the President Obama thing, they set the tone when they called im “liar” early on and it was not addressed properly. Now “tar baby” and “boy” don’t seem as bad because people feel they can say anything about the guy. Whether you like him or not he is still the POTUS and should be respected as such. And because racism exists and will not go away does not mean that you have to condone it and not do anything about it. I’m sure there were some back in the day that said slavery exists and it will not go away. If the POTUS is black, white male or female give that position the respect it deserves whether you agree with what the person is doing or not. Also a good key indicator is if someone just calls him “Obama” rather than President Obama………….think on that for a minute.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:09 am

SexyCool…..please explain “admirable”. And how long throughout his presidency are you going to blame what he “inherited”?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:11 am

Elected officials represent their constituents ideals, so if its your “representative”…..

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:11 am

Purple Rain…..Yeah kind of like how the Dems never called Bush any names?? HAHA that is funny!

You can respect the office of the POTUS however you do not have to agree with or support every decision that he makes.

Right! Like everytime we discuss Bill Clinton we always call him “President Clinton” or if we discuss George Bush we ALWAYS call him “President Bush”. you know that is not the case and has nothing to do with race.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:12 am

I cosign 100% your post, PR! No matter what one feels, he’s the PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES and that title demands RESPECT. If you don’t want to acknowledge he’s the President GTFOOD (GTF out of Dodge)!

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:12 am

One of my friends on FB posted the story about the congressman refering to the President as tarbaby. One of his anglo friends said, oh the congressman was talking about the character in Brer Rabbit.
My response was do you think the 40 million+ blacks are that dam stupid.
You talking about some freaking Brer Rabbit. Don’t insult my intelligence you azzhole.
Okay, this is my quota for racism. Back to the wild things.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:13 am

@UGA, don’t bother coming at me with the “respect” issue. Heard it all before. Thank you.

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:13 am

The only thing Republicans have to do to win the Presidency in 2012 is not have Palin or Bachmann on the ticket.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:15 am

Leggs….did you ALWAYS respect President Bush? Do you feel the Democrats ALWAYS respected Bush?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:16 am

UGA so you are saying that a recent President was addressed in a deragotory manner openly to is face or via media. When? And if you read what I typed I said respect the presidency no matter who it is, to me it’s about RESPECT for the position. And yes I address whomever the President is by saying President first when talking about them or initiating a conversation. Stop looking for a racism fight here. I fight more for equality from a people stand point not a racial stand point.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:16 am

abc…..while I agree with you that Palin or Bachmann are not the most electable candidates…..right now I feel that either one of them would beat Obama.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:17 am

I respected he was the President of the United States!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:17 am

And UGA you are talking to someone who did not vote for President Obama.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:18 am

Purple Reign….I am just wondering if you fought this hard for President Bush when he was in office? Only you can answer that question honestly.

When was President Obama addressed in a deragotory manner to his face?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:18 am

And I wouldn’t throw a shoe at him because of his position….Got It!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
11:18 am

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?

I’d balance it out and encourage it as well…depends on the mood/situation.

Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?

I wouldn’t say “adjust” exactly but I do preface the men I date with my little disclaimer, “I don’t always know what I’m gonna do but I promise you I won’t break any skin, make you bleed or get either of us arrested”(seriously I do)…

I mean there are times where I feel impulsive and I KNOW part of me is an exhibitionist and I want to do some sh!t I really shouldn’t because…it’s FUN… I promise we’d be the only two to know and that’s how it goes down…

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:18 am

Purple Reign….that is great, I didn’t vote for him either. However we still have to live under his failed policies.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

PR….also remember that while President Bush was in office he was known as “W”. Do you feel that was disrespectful?

kimmie

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

This is not a political blog guys. There are plenty of those on other sites. Please go to one of those, 1999.

Why do you all fall for it every time. That’s all he wants to do on here, start the political debate!

I’m out, you guys have a great weekend!!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

What does it matter if its to his face or not?

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

Subjective, I suppose. I wouldn’t vote for either of those chicks, though. Palin’s presence cost McCain my vote last time around.

While I encounter a lot of anti-Barack rhetoric and bias, none of it is due to his ethnicity. Except that ‘long legged mack daddy’ guy, whats-his-name. That guy cracks me up. Now, I hear anti-Michelle Obama stuff all the time, and a lot of that is due to her ethnicity, I think.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

Sounds like a child in the sandbox, come say that to my face!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:21 am

UGA you don’t remember during the session when Rep Joe Williams just flat out yelled “Liar!” at him? And I defended President Bush just the same, even more so because I voted for him.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:21 am

Kimmie….I am not the only one discussing politics so why do you ask me to leave and not the others? Feel free not to respond, that is the great thing about a blog!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

Purple Reign….Well was he lying?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

Leggs….It makes a huge difference.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

I think she is going to see “Catch me if you can” on Broadway

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

kimmie is right, you always come on here spitting the same stuff.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:23 am

Makes it easier to get punched.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:25 am

Has any other President lied? The point is that you respect the position hell have a little respect for yourself. Did President Bush Lie when he said “Mission Accomplished”? Nobody especially a Representative or any of those service members standing right there yelled out “liar”

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:28 am

Yeah…no…Bush marketed/promoted HIMself as W.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

Leggs….no I dont….I just hate the ignorant always spewing the “racist” word around when someone disagrees with this president.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

So UGA answer this. How do you feel about someone calling the President a “tar baby” or referring to him as “boy”?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

PR….actually no he didnt lie. We took out the Iraqi government.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

And once again my discord is about respect of the position and not racism.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:31 am

Ok, enough of this banter with UGA. This is freaky friday, let’s get it started! UGA, your time on the floor has been used up. NEXT….

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:32 am

PR….please use the correct context. Buchanan said “your boy”. I have NO problem with that whatsoever. However “tar baby”, yes that is an extremely racist remark.

Also please tell me in this quote where he called Obama a “tar baby”?

Well, the Republicans should have done this or they should have done that,’ they will hold the president responsible. Now, I don’t even want to have to be associated with him. It’s like touching a tar baby and you get it, you’re stuck, and you’re a part of the problem now and you can’t get away.”

Nice try but it wont work.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Ya know, It’s something about a women with tongue piercing I find “Sexy”.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

I am fine with moving on….I just thought some intelligence mixed with your ignorance would make a great conversation.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Don’t respond PR….let it go!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

LOL UGA that was not the “mission” that ws stated at the beginning of it all. The mission was a victory on the war on terrorism and to end combat operations in Iraq…that was not accomplished. And the White House about six months later tried to defer and say that they did not put the sign up but the Navy did. Hmmm, I have never seen anything in the background so prominent during a Presidential speech that the White House did not approve.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Fion….agreed tongue piercings are great!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:34 am

Well, apparently you are wrong! And, no one here is ignorant!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

PR….no it was not…please support your comment. We were never in Iraq to stop terrorism. IT was to get Saddam out of power and get his hands off of the WMD. This is great!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

Leggs…..right…haha.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

@Fion ~ explain why tongue piercings are so sexy! Have you been with someone who has used one on you?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

This is about the most ignorant remark I have….PPPPPFFFFFFFTTTTT (lol).

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

UGA, tar baby is a reference from the story about the brer rabbit. Get familiar with the story and you would understand the reference.

Leggs, he is not getting me riled in the least. He is actually the image that he is projecting on others due to his own blinders.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

Leggs….in the late 90’s tongue piercings were getting really popular, asking a man if he has ever had one “used” on him is like asking him if he has ever breathed air.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:38 am

Fun was hitting a slot machine for 10 grand in Tunica, MS. Wild was playing blackjack at 500 a hand. Blind fold me I’ll play along, just don’t take me to the edge of the cliff.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:39 am

Now..we’re ignorant because we don’t agree with your political position?!? Getthefckouttahere with that bllsht.

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:39 am

@abc, I have to disagree with, none of it is due to his ethnicity. After he was elected and probably the first six months or so, I would agree.
When an 85 yr old white, rural, southern, former president said, it’s all about his ethnicity, you best believe it’s all about his ethnicity.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:40 am

UGA you are resourceful I am sure you can find how the White House back tracked on that banner gave different explanations and then finally admitted it was a mistake to have it there. Cnn, cbs, msnbc etc all have articles reference FROM White House Press Secretary Dana Perino

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
11:41 am

However we still have to live under his failed policies.

UGA – As long as you live within these Unites States, you have to live under the failed policies of EVERY president. No one president did everything right, fixed every issue successfully or was able to please everybody. It’s easy to sit back and judge someone but having that type of position is not an easy one especially when you have folks barking at you from all sides. If you feel that you could do such a better job, then why don’t YOU step up to the plate and run?

that is all for this soapbox….

Back to wild and fun

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:42 am

The tar baby story is about how the more you fight a problem the more tangled up in it you can become. ‘Tar Baby’ became a pejorative way after the fact. As a possible racist label, it’s really a pretty stupid one.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:42 am

PR….making a mistake doesnt make someone a liar.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:43 am

Shrapnel is flying everywhere, what got this started?

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:44 am

SC, give me some dap on 11:39. You don’t beat around the bushes….I like that :-)

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

@UGA ~ I’ve lived a sheltered life when it comes to tongue piercings. Really didn’t pay attention to its popularity in the 90’s, but I’m seeing a resurgence now. It just looks too painful.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

tar baby/brer rabbit is reference to a “trickster/ deciever” not the actual tar.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

@Leggs
“explain why tongue piercings are so sexy!”

I have yet to met a women that has a tounge piercing that isn’t Freaky as all get out.
For the record I’ve met and dated two.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:46 am

UGA, if you lied about that mistake or if you only admit to that mistake after months of pressure. That’s pretty my a liar/deciever to me.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:47 am

SlimNu….Did I say that I thought I could do a better job??? However all I hear is what Obama “inherited”. Who forced him to run for president when he did?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:47 am

I’m done, I see that others have or are trying to move on…rightfully so.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:48 am

PR….Did you just call “W” a liar? What happened to respecting the office of OUR President of the United States?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:48 am

Leggs…I am sure it is painful. I couldnt do it. But I sure like the way it feels.

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:49 am

cba, I don’t really consider Jimmy Carter an authority on anything at this point. Most of the content of the books he continues to write is refuted. Regarding racism and President Obama, what would you expect a guy from Plains, GA to have to say about that?

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
11:52 am

UGA – My post never claims that you said you could do a better job…i stated IF you feel…but again, i’m ready to move on.

I used to want a tongue ring but not enough to ever really want to go through with it. I’m glad I never did it because it was so overdone…most folks that i knew got them, ended up taking it out and letting the hole close up.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

1999:
W lied about the WMD’s in Iraq. He wanted finish off Hussein so he could save family pride.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

Figured as much, Fion!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

Slim….most women that get them also talk funny.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:54 am

At the cost of thousands of American soldiers lives. You know this don’t you?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

Nope I gave an example of when a former President lied, and I am not a public or elected official. I just represent my household…not the masses.

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

An 85 yr old rural, farmer, white, southern male and what does he know about racism…….hmmmm What does Michael Jordan knows about basketball?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

They talk like they have a lisp almost.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:57 am

In the beginning when Susie (BB Wives) would talk, I tried to see if I could see a tongue piercing.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:58 am

P-Lito – I had to drag my ass out of bed this morning and MAKE myself get out on the sidewalk.

I asked TheDude if he was going with me and he says, “Naw, I don’t think I’ma go this morning.” I responded, “Yeah, I know what you mean. I wasn’t going either but I just decided just before I asked you the question that I needed to go ahead and get it in.”

Four minutes later, he came down the stairs dressed to go.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:59 am

Blackfoote…so why does Obama not pull them ALL out now??? Great post hahaa.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:00 pm

Sexy Cool, it’s awesome to have someone motivate you or you are the motivator. I would not run nearly is much if my wife did not run with me. It’s a bond kind of gives us the sense that we can accomplish anything together.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

cba…isnt your comment in itself racist? GOD the racist word is so over used….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

Remember after the towers fell, and he’s in the middle of the street claiming “were going to get who knocked down these buildings”. Al-Queda wasn’t in Iraq. Big Blunder at 10 billion a month, and look at the U.S. now about to fold.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

We’ve been having meetings with TheDude’s (now our) financial planner this week. And it’s even more official now, I hate insurance. (lol) But, I’m glad to see that we are in a good place with our financial planning and if we are able to stay on this course, we will be more than fine.

And speaking of investments, TheDude is sick about what the Dow Jones is doing to our stock portfolio right now….sheesh…..

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

go away already…geesh

Fion

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

Time for lunch.
I think I’ll hit Goldberg’s Deli today. I’m feeling like a Ruben. Love that Russian dressin’

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

That’s a good man, SC!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

P-Lito – the best part of having someone really awesome in your life!

#Winning….

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:04 pm

Oh no, not the Reuben…I’m…getting…weak…

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:04 pm

Sexy Cool, yep!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
12:05 pm

Blackfoote….Did you criticize Bill Clinton this much when he went to war with Iraq TWICE!?!?!?!?

Why are you not going after Obama for not getting all of our troops out NOW?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:06 pm

1999:
They are having a staggered draw down, but you can’t prop up a now American Colony and withdraw all your forces. That would detrimental to the forces left behind.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:06 pm

Leggs – I have a hard time looking at Suzie when she talks…she almost has an inverter underbite, if that even makes sense lol

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:07 pm

I wouldn’t mind a pastrami sammich right about now on a nice hoagie roll…mmmm

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:07 pm

Is anyone else reading what I am reading? Play close attention. I know you caught it Sassy, did anyone else?

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:09 pm

Boy, that Suzie can’t keep NOTHING to herself. That is funny to me.

We watched like six minutes of the show last night. This morning, after our walk and after not talking about anything at all related to the Wives, TheDude says, “I was just thinking, when Kenny was married to o’girl, she probably gave him HELL.” Oddly enough, I knew exactly what he was talking about without any additional prompts. (LMAO!)

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:10 pm

Hey anyone watch Necessary Roughness. I like that TV show, I think it was filmed down there.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:10 pm

@PR ~ Besides being a glutton, yep.

cba

August 5th, 2011
12:11 pm

Hell, how can I be a racist…..my maternal grandfather looked like Jimmy Carter, but my father looked like Marcus Garvey ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:11 pm

Clinton missed a chance at Bin-Laden, which cost lives in Africa of all places. He don’t get a pass, he kind of added to it.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:12 pm

S/N – I am 60 ounces into my 100 ounces for the day.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:13 pm

I’ve seen one episode of it, PR.

Susie is absolutely ridic*ulous! SC, Tami is a handful, but I like that chick! And, she’s pretty. She will forever be a diamond in the ruff.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
12:14 pm

One thing one the market be fore I go. There’s an Old saying in the market.

‘Never catch a falling knife”. That’s where the market is rignt now. A falling knife.
If you’ve got profits, next week sell into any upward moves. If not, let the market fall to you and
Dollar Cost Average back in. Sell on Hysteria, Buy on Fear.

Where’s that Ruben!!!!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:18 pm

…she almost has an inverter underbite, if that even makes sense lol

that’s what happens when you suck your thumb well into puberty and your parents don’t get you any braces

that Suzie can’t keep NOTHING to herself

She sure can’t…that’s why Evelyn wanted to smack her up but what she did to Meeka was wrong. Meeka should’ve known better than to trust Suzie cause she is KNOWN for being a blabber mouth. But the way Tammy straight smacked the horse sh!t outta Meeka was straight hood…Meeka knew she had something coming when Tammy moved closer to her..

when Kenny was married to o’girl, she probably gave him HELL.

On a constant/consistent basis…hell she was beatin on dudes since her “Real World” days..

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:18 pm

Fion, on established trends and stocks I live by the what goes down must come back up. But that’s only on the established. I loved it when Delta Stock dropped a few years ago.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:20 pm

“Tammy straight smacked the horse sh!t outta Meeka was straight hood”
We KEPT rewinding that part. (lol)

“she was beatin on dudes since her “Real World” days..”
I had to make him remember her being on that show. When her and that other chick got little buddy kicked off the show for tickling or wrestling or something.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:24 pm

Purple I remember when Delta stock, dropped down to .05 a share. Bank of America was at 7.00, they can’t do anything but climb back up. Just hold tight they’ll come back.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:26 pm

Blackfoote, yes! It’s not quick money but legacy money.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:27 pm

The way Tammi & Kenny got into it on the first season let’s me know they were probably fighting with their dukes up plenty of nights…Tammi is just hood, no ifs, ands or buts about it. It trips me out every time she starts talking about folks ‘putting their hands up’…for whatever reason, that translates to fight with her. I guess it’s like an abused dog…whenever you raise your hand around it, it automatically shuns back anticipating a hit. Guess it’s the same way with her when she sees a hand go up, whether you’re fixing your hair or giving her the ‘talk to the hand’ sign. lol

I didn’t like the way Meeka came into the whole scenario anyway. When you come into something, it’s best to observe and listen before you get to running your mouth all willy nilly. Get to know people 1st

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:28 pm

Meeka is rather unattractive, actually….

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:30 pm

When her and that other chick got little buddy kicked off the show for tickling or wrestling or something.

Yeah it started off as innocent play that got blown outta proportion(by Tammy mostly)…then lil dude got booted from the show.

We KEPT rewinding that part.

Me,too :oops: But the first time saw it I was like :shock: daaaaaaayum…I wonder if Meeka had a touch of whip lash from that.

Has anyone been watching “Single Ladies” on VH-1?

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:32 pm

When you come into something, it’s best to observe and listen before you get to running your mouth all willy nilly. Get to know people 1st

Exactly….had she done that she would’ve known about Suzie..

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:34 pm

Slim, I don;t know what yall are talking about but if someone has their hands up to me or in my personal space that is a pure sign of agression. Who goes around talking putting hands up?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:42 pm

Don’t know of to many men that talk with their hands though. LOL

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
12:49 pm

FION…I talk too much to have a tongue ring. It would get in my way and I probably sound like friggin’ Daffy Duck! :lol:

Now I did date a guy that had one…and it vibrated. needless to say…while we dated..I never invited B.O.B to come out and play ;-) :lol:

PR..I love that show! The girl who played the stalker was my acting partner at the Acting Studio. I’m proud of her. Go Nore!

As for Basketball Baby Mamas and Wanna-Be but Never Will be Wives….Meeka is messy as hell. Tammi hit her so hard I think I felt it! WHAM…trick goes down! :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:50 pm

Exactly, SlimNu. I couldn’t believe she started running her mouth from the get go. She should have sat her non-factor mfing behind down and observed to see who’s who. She jumped in with both feet and one eye closed! Foolish on her part.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

“WHAM…trick goes down!”
You stoooooopid!!! LMAO!!!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

BMW, what did you think of Last Sunday’s True Blood. I think Eric is up to something. LOL@The Shape Shifter’s lil brother firing Sookie and banging the other lady. Also I just don’t like Sookie anymore.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

Meeka looks like a Pug

Let’s not leave out how they tried to pull each other’s weave out…both of their heads looked a hott mess after they got pulled apart

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
12:55 pm

GOT D@MN, BMW! A vibrating tongue ring? That’s like taking a bazooka to a rabbit hunt… :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:57 pm

She jumped in with both feet and one eye closed! Foolish on her part.

Leggs – Well she had both eyes opened but one is soooo far on the other side of her head that you probably couldn’t see it :lol: Ok, i’m going to timeout…that was not nice :oops:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:58 pm

Well, it was a rabbit hunt!!!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:58 pm

Single Ladies – we watch a little bit of two episodes last night. First time seeing any of it since the first few episodes. Yeah…no…we had no idea what was going on.

But we both think the gay guy has the best lines.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:59 pm

Here I am picturing cyclops!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:59 pm

BMW, I think Alcide is getting set up by his girl also.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:00 pm

I like Single Ladies, but does it seem to you guys that Stacey Dash is overacting at times?

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:02 pm

“does it seem to you guys that Stacey Dash is overacting at times?”

She acts? Guess I’m always too busy picturing her on The Matterhorn to notice…. :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:03 pm

Speaking of non-mfing factor, has those t-shirts come out yet? lol

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:04 pm

@swiss ~ now you are not going to tell me you watch single ladies by yourself. You over there picturing her on your horn while cuddled up with wifey…..tsk, tsk, tsk! Bet you’re not the first!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:05 pm

I think her acting doesn’t always come off as genuine or real, feels fake…Sometimes it feels like i’m watching a 3rd graders play performance.

I really miss the days of my drama & dance class in high school

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:07 pm

I would definitely buy that t-shirt.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:07 pm

swiss – Didn’t I send you her photos from when she posed in Playboy?

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
1:09 pm

PR….Oh yeah….Eric is up to no good. As you can see, be is bangin’ Sookie now. Alcide should know better than to have gotten back with that skanky addict.

SWISS & LEGGS…. you guys are too friggin’ funny. I guess I was Bugs Bunny and he was Elmer Fudd! He was hunting Wabbits! :lol:

SC…Omar is the funniest! Especially when he got drunk at the dinner party and kept calling his at the time boo!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:12 pm

Let’s not leave out how they tried to pull each other’s weave out

Nooo what got me is when you could hear Jen(all husky soundin) in the background, ooh and Tammi got her weave..

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:13 pm

Actually, Leggs, I’ve never even heard of the show — but I do think Ms. Dash is hot. Of course, the visual I’d really like to see is Ms. Dash & Mrs. Swiss lovingly sharing The Matterhorn & each other… :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:14 pm

I can’t wait to see Eric get into it with Jennifer on the next show. All I know is ends up throwing a drink in her face…I was like whoaaaaa.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:15 pm

Just finished having a salad…didn’t even put a dent in my tooth!!!

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:15 pm

Slim — Wait, you mean those pictures weren’t of you? :shock: I’ve been bamboozled!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:16 pm

Oh boy, I walked right into that one! Got it, swiss!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:17 pm

Omar is the funniest! Especially when he got drunk at the dinner party and kept calling his at the time boo!

Man I laughed til I cried at that fool….I laughed even harder when he came to work the next day looking all “tore down” and crazy.

To be 45 years old Stacy Dash is the sh!t…no she can’t act all that good(Lisa Raye either) but I like the show. I want to look like that when I’m forty-five…

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:18 pm

And how immature is that for him to throw a drink in her face! He’s a punk too!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:23 pm

She does look good…didn’t know her age!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

I can’t wait to see Eric get into it with Jennifer on the next show. All I know is ends up throwing a drink in her face…

I thought that was rather moist of him to do that…he’s always treated her like warm isht but he sunk to a new low with that. I know deep down inside he’s angry at/with her but that’s no way to handle it…he acted like a little boy..

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

Wow, I didn’t know she was that old, either. D@mn, that hot and in her sexual peak. Have mercy…. :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

Leggs – Whatcha think about this movie thing he keeps trying to peddle to the other ladies? Seem legit or canniving to you?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:26 pm

Moist, little boy, punk, jabber jaws is going down……

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:26 pm

Me either Leggs, I was like :shock: when I found out.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:28 pm

Gratuitous Wedding Planning Mention of the Day….

Dammit…how are we supposed to save for a wedding when we have so many other things we wanna do?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:29 pm

I’m definitely looking at him sideways re that movie he’s peddling. To jump from Susie to Royce is crazy. His business plan is weak, the premise of the movie is weak. He appears to be a horrible businessman. It’s coming across as conniving. And, when he first pitched it to Susie with his business partner to his side, they both looked liked wolves in sheep clothing!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:29 pm

Sassy – That was moist of him but what does he have to be angry with her about? Wasn’t he the one who was constantly unfaithful or did I miss an episode or something that explained the reason for their divorce?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:30 pm

Unless you’re LLCoolJ, no need for you to constantly licking your lips…a complete turnoff! JabberJaws need to stop doing that.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:31 pm

Jen has been rather snippy toward him. She probably showed that she really doesn’t give a rat’s tail about him and he snapped!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:33 pm

Anybody else think Eric looks like Louis Gossett Jr from that movie Enemy Mine?

http://www.cinefex.com/backissues/covers/Cinefex25.jpg :lol:

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:39 pm

Wasn’t he the one who was constantly unfaithful or did I miss an episode or something that explained the reason for their divorce?

Yeah but a sliver of him still cares about Jen…wha had happened was once she started hanging with Evelyn and the rest of the clique, she stopped being all sappy,sorry woe is me and started going out and having a life…that DIDN’T include HIM. She stopped being/feeling sorry for herself and said she wasn’t “in love” with him and you could see that he was hurt by that, so everything he’s done since then as reflected that… He got what he asked for.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:40 pm

Yes Slim Nu he does..but where’d that knot on his head come from and why won’t it ever go down?..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:43 pm

“…where’d that knot on his head come from and why won’t it ever go down?..I’m crying….

He’s hurt she’s no longer in love with him, but he’s insensitve to the hurt he caused her with all his cheating. A woman can take but so much. He’s no longer the “man” in her eyes and that’s eating him to his core!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:43 pm

Yeah…SassyBlack…them mphckas hate it when you stop checking for *they* asses. (lol)

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:47 pm

Sassy – Well, that makes sense..I think I did see an episode where he was basically making snide remarks about her hanging out with Ev and them and not paying him any attention. It amazes me how he would think she’s just supposed to sit at home hurting from his indiscretions and remain unhappy w/o a life of her own. People may feel down but no one I know ever wants to STAY down.

Regarding that knot, I wish I knew. Every time I see him, i check to see if it’s gone down any. I get a strong urge to run and put an ice pack on his forehead :lol:

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:52 pm

From theurbandaily.com

Eric Williams now known as Jennifer Williams husband joined Power 105.1 ‘The Breakfast Club” where he clarified the great mystery of season 1 and 2 of Basketball Wives–The Lump! What is it? Where did it come from? Why isn’t it gone? Who did it? Eric says he was stabbed in the forehead and a keloid formed around the nerves. He says he never had it removed because it is a “constant reminder.” He had to get 30+ stitches. Eric goes on to say that he treated Jennifer wrong and is still in love with her.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:55 pm

That article was dated 03.15.11

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:56 pm

…them mphckas hate it when you stop checking for *they* asses.

OKAY?! Even if it’s they’re fault…and Eric hates the fact that she dissed his a$$ on national tv and his behavior shows it. He’s acting like a little boy who got his feelings hurt in front of his friends so he’s gonna do whatever he can to hurt her in return…but she’s still shaking him off and he can’t stand it..

Regarding that knot, I wish I knew. Every time I see him, i check to see if it’s gone down any. I get a strong urge to run and put an ice pack on his forehead

Okay now I’m crying…too funny Lol @ stong urge :lol:

Leggs/Slim Nu/Sexy I’m with y’all…

Fion

August 5th, 2011
1:59 pm

Speaking of Williams. I think Wendy Williams is a Man. How many of you think so???

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:01 pm

Eric goes on to say that he treated Jennifer wrong and is still in love with her.

Did we call it right or did we call it right?..his actions dictate as much but HOW can he possibly have the nerve to be mad at HER? Had she stayed and dealt with his isht ana longer, he still would’ve thought less of her so what’s a woman to do? He wouldn’t have stayed if she cheated on him but like I’ve said, “Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. :lol:

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
2:02 pm

I was feeling bad for Eric’s hell boy lookin azz before he threw that drink on Jen because he seemed like he still had love for her….he acted like a str-8 bytch and then tried to defend himself on twitter. He said he just threw hoe-ly water on the hoe :shock: Jen should’ve made him matching set of knots on his head with his ugly self.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:04 pm

Eric is a fool, and his behavior is childish and his friends are telling him to man up. He decides to throw water in her face. When he’s back with his friends all he get from them is :shock: .

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:05 pm

Speaking of Williams. I think Wendy Williams is a Man

She is what the ol school peeps call a handsome woman…ain’t cute but not really ugly either..kinda sorta. She does look a bit tranny-ish. And everytime she does her how you doin I’m sure folks are laughing AT her and with her,too..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:06 pm

@Sassy ~ we called it right because we are women!

“Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun.” Not only that, he NOW realizes she’s not that weak, simpleminded wench he married!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
2:08 pm

Sass…just happened to pass by her on the tube the other morning and the show must have been taped during her DWTS run….she had everybody saying, “How you dancin’?” Hilarious…but I don’t really watch her either.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:08 pm

I was feeling bad for Eric’s hell boy lookin azz

need air…must get air… :lol:

Okay so what about his teeth…and why’re they soo big. They look like Chiclet candies..

Fion

August 5th, 2011
2:11 pm

If she really is a she. She is the most unflattering Woman I’ve ever seen. As they say in the country “she’s strong in the face”.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:12 pm

show must have been taped during her DWTS run….she had everybody saying, “How you dancin’?”

Sexy did you see the pic of her feet she tweeted before she got eliminated?…there are some things you should keep to yourself..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:12 pm

You guys have me rolling with the varying descriptions of Eric….Chiclet Candies takes the cake! Hell boy looking azz was a doosey!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:15 pm

As they say in the country “she’s strong in the face”.

True that….she has a muscle face like that rapper Chamillionaire..

folks peeping in my office checkin on me..wondering what’s so funny..

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm

Missed that. Sounds like I should be thankful that I did. I’m sure I’m not following you on Twitter. Email me your handle if you don’t want to post it.
sjeasmith@yahoo.com

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm

Hell boy looking azz was a doosey!

I’m still tryna recover from that myself…

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm

D@mn… who is this Eric dude you ladies are so relentlessly clowning on? :lol:

Off topic: I’m not sure if this paints the most flattering picture of the fan bases of ‘Bama and Auburn… :lol:

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:18 pm

Sexy I’m not on Twitter but those pics Wendy posted of her dawgs were all over the place..

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:22 pm

<em.He said he just threw hoe-ly water on the hoe Daaaaayuuuuum that’s kinda funny :lol:

She is what the ol school peeps call a handsome woman Ok, keep it up and imma have to send you to my old corner for a timeout—>cracking up.

Regarding the teef looking like Chiclets…i think they look more like Dentyne ice gum pieces…MUCH MUCH bigger than a chiclet lol

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:25 pm

How long were they married? I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:29 pm

The ladies are chatting, this is nice. A blog version of The View/The Talk.

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
2:30 pm

@ Slim- I can’t lie, I did chuckle a little bit when I read it too :lol:

@ Sassy- Eric has got Puffy Disease( he will always be Puffy to me) he can’t close his mouth around those teef :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:34 pm

Naw, Blackfoote, we ain’t chatting…we straight clowning!

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
2:34 pm

How long were they married? I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.

I think Jen said they were married three or four years. She said she comes from money, so she must’ve have really been in love with him…I mean, looks aren’t everything. But Dayummmm Jen :lol:

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:35 pm

…i think they look more like Dentyne ice gum pieces…MUCH MUCH bigger than a chiclet

I guess we’re gonna be in the same corner then :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:37 pm

Yall are keeping me from acking like i’m working… :lol:

Lovely – That’s the same thing my cousin and I were saying…every time I see him i’m shaking my head like, you let that thang inside you..no wonder they never had any kids together. His features maybe too strong to take that chance

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:38 pm

Who pushed me, I’m getting out of the way it must be lady’s day. Let me go to my spot.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
2:38 pm

What happened to the dicussion about tongue jewelry?

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:39 pm

I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.

Me either..

she must’ve have really been in love with him…I mean, looks aren’t everything. But Dayummmm Jen

She HAD to be cause he ain’t cute worth a damn…and HE had the nerve to cheat?! Where they do that at? She loved him cause she stayed with him when ERRBODY knew he was cheatin..it’s like common knowledge amongst them all…

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:40 pm

Blackfoote – Don’t be scerred…jump on in while the waters hot. lol

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:40 pm

I’m not saying this for what you said SlimNu, but I have wondered how cortorted his face would get during their lovemaking. Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:41 pm

contorted….

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:41 pm

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:42 pm

no wonder they never had any kids together. His features maybe too strong to take that chance

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…..

please resuscitate

need air…must get air….

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
2:45 pm

His features maybe too strong to take that chance

Nice way to say he is fugly to all be damned :lol:

wondered how cortorted his face would get during their lovemaking. Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.

*screaming*

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:45 pm

Yep, you can call him Jabberjaws or Knotthead!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:46 pm

She said she came from money…anyone know what her folks do? She seems a bit on the nose in the air/snotty side

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
2:47 pm

Lovely – I cannot stand to see folks walking around with their lips all slack, mouth hanging open, bottom lip drooping. I always want to go up to them and thump on the lips and say, “Close yo’ damn mouth.” (lol)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:47 pm

Slim1:
Since you put it that way, and water is still hot hey why not. Watch it ladies I’m making a big splash.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:51 pm

“Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.”
What’s this Leggs, I like to see the grimace on her face.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm

No belly flopping allowed.

@SC ~ an associate showed me her new grandson. His bottom lip drags just like hers. Can’t you train those lips early on so they’ll act right in adulthood???

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm

Yall are keeping me from acking like i’m working…

Chile you…I stopped with that charade a loooong time ago…

Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.

What just came to mind is that scene from “Boomerang” when Maaaarcus was about to knock Lady Elouise’s boots…when she did her “clap clap” and the room went black and he said, “Can you make it a liiiitle darker?”

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm

@BF ~ no doubt, but wouldn’t want to see the grimance on his face.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm

Leggs – For whatever reason or however the wiring in my brain works, Jabberjaws sounds innocent enough. However, KNOTHEAD is simply making me cry *hollers* :lol: :lol: :lol:

Sexycool – He is the only person who’s parents didn’t put the plastic on the couch…they saved it and used it to cover his pillows. Or better yet, he probably has to sleep with that dentist suction thingamajig stuck in his mouth at night…. :lol: Ok, i’m on my final timeout!!

Blackfoote – Hmmm, big splash…I just hope there isn’t a big belly causing that big splash

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:54 pm

“Can you make it a liiiitle darker?” – my side is hurting, please STOP!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:56 pm

an associate showed me her new grandson. His bottom lip drags just like hers.

Awww then….the baby. Okay I know I’m wrong for this but what about little (1-2 yrs. old) that look hard like grown folks already and/or ones that wear glasses.. I know I shouldn’t but when I see a really little one with glasses I snicker inside a little..I try not to,really I do

Don’t judge me…. :mrgreen:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:56 pm

No Slim not the belly…….LOL

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
2:57 pm

Can you make it a liiiitle darker?—-> OMG!!!!!! I think I need an IV drip. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:58 pm

Damn I should have let Swiss have that one…..LOL

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:58 pm

Exactly SlimNu. That was Funny!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
2:59 pm

Sex Face is funny……LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
3:01 pm

Come on Sassy see you need a spanking for that.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm

Dare I say what the big splash was?

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm

I commend you Blackfoote for trying to get Freaky Friday jump started

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm

Blackfoote quickly came from under those stairs seeing only ladies are in the room!!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
3:05 pm

Hope that big splash weren’t you skeeing super sperm all over the place. Sorry folk! First thing I thought of with his innuendo…

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
3:09 pm

“Damn I should have let Swiss have that one…..”

BlackFoote — I would have, but since it was you talking about making the splash, there was no way I could reply without sounding moist. Now, had that comment been directed at me, my reply would have been something to the effect of, “when I do a cannonball, I really do a cannonBALL”… But you know how I do… :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
3:11 pm

Leggs:
Wow I see why the invite now I’m the toy boy, go ahead attack me like zombies…..LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
3:13 pm

LOL…..@Swiss
Slim1 left that door/legs was wiiiiiiiide open….LOL

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
3:14 pm

What just came to mind is that scene from “Boomerang” when Maaaarcus was about to knock Lady Elouise’s boots…when she did her “clap clap” and the room went black and he said, “Can you make it a liiiitle darker

:lol:

Maaarcus :lol:

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
3:17 pm

Maaarcus

wasn’t that funny?!….Maaaaarcus daaaaaarling..

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
3:25 pm

Seems like I’ve read that at least one other time today.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
3:26 pm

Wow ladies this was great!!

I laughed really hard today and the time went right ooon by. Have a great weekend and read y’all Monday!

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
3:34 pm

Is it me…or does Eric not look like Skeletor from He-Man? Hey…I’m just sayin’!!! :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
3:41 pm

@BMW ~ apparently, he looks like something different to all of us! Welcome to the club.

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
3:52 pm

he looks like something different to all of us

yeah, like something you have neva seen before in your entire life :lol:

Lovely is Audi 5000…. Everyone have a good and safe weekend. Dueces! :-)

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
4:03 pm

Give him some dreds and I would go with Predator.

cba

August 5th, 2011
4:14 pm

My wife doesn’t watch much tv, but our daughter has gotten her hooked on BW. Therefore, I have been able to understand you ladies conversation. I have been asking about that “knot” on Eric’s head…..now I know. You learn something everyday.
Leggs you aint right about your 2:40 :lol:
Earlier today, I just wanted to say, Everyln to UGA99 :-)
Oh, did you ladies comment on Ocho? The brother is smooth but I think he got caught dipping in another…..

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
4:17 pm

Yeah..no…I just don’t *get* Nicki Minaj. And I’m okay with that.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:31 pm

@cba ~ I speaks the truth (lol).

@SC ~ Nicki Minaj is our black Lady GaGa w/o the wardrobe budget (lol).

@cba ~ don’t let them suck you into watching Bad Girl Clubs. Those girls have to put their parents to shame!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:32 pm

I’m suppose to do something this evening when I get off work, but I can’t remember what it is. Therefore, I’m going to stop off at the mexican restaurant and have a big fat frozen margarita in the hopes it will come to me!

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
4:33 pm

I love GaGa….despise Trikki Minaj! She annoys me! :roll:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:34 pm

I thought you liked her BMW. Yeah, I got that from your Halloween costume cuz you pulled the look off!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:35 pm

You’re the one educated me on who the heck she was. Never heard of her until you told me!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:50 pm

And now, she’s every where, with that nails to the blackboard annoying singing and gyrations!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:53 pm

From ITL:

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. ~ Harriet Tubman

PEACE!

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
4:55 pm

LEGGS….I was going for Lady Gaga but….everybody called me Nikki because I have an @$$. Actually, my @$$ is real! :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
4:58 pm

That is even funnier, BMW.

precious rambo

August 7th, 2011
8:13 am

If a blind date tried to blindfold me, I’d rip out his glass eyes and stuff them up his…

precious rambo

August 7th, 2011
8:17 am

I’m sorry, that was insensitive of me. I’d rip out his plasticine eyes, mold them into a facsimile of his mother, let him touch her rendered face, and then stomp it flat!