Are you dating a wild card?
There is something hot about meeting a person that intrigues you. Whether they are into the same things you are – or they are opening you up to a whole new world that is new to you. Spending time with them becomes a ride that feels risky, wild, and perhaps slightly insane.
Dating those wild card types can also be scary, especially when you don’t know what to expect! Have you ever dated the spontaneous type with a wild side?
Oh it’s all fun and games until your date blindfolds you and you end up on a skydiving adventure!
As I get older *cough*, I tend to become more and more cautious. I may take calculated risks but blindly trusting a new person is a challenge for me! Am I the only killjoy?
What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?
Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?
Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?
Do you ever tell your date about your personal boundaries so they won’t cross the wild side line with you?
Happy Friday!
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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317 comments Add your comment
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:15 pm
As they say in the country “she’s strong in the face”.
True that….she has a muscle face like that rapper Chamillionaire..
folks peeping in my office checkin on me..wondering what’s so funny..
SexyCool
August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm
Missed that. Sounds like I should be thankful that I did. I’m sure I’m not following you on Twitter. Email me your handle if you don’t want to post it.
sjeasmith@yahoo.com
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm
Hell boy looking azz was a doosey!
I’m still tryna recover from that myself…
i'm swiss™
August 5th, 2011
2:17 pm
D@mn… who is this Eric dude you ladies are so relentlessly clowning on?
Off topic: I’m not sure if this paints the most flattering picture of the fan bases of ‘Bama and Auburn…
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:18 pm
Sexy I’m not on Twitter but those pics Wendy posted of her dawgs were all over the place..
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:22 pm
<em.He said he just threw hoe-ly water on the hoe Daaaaayuuuuum that’s kinda funny
She is what the ol school peeps call a handsome woman Ok, keep it up and imma have to send you to my old corner for a timeout—>cracking up.
Regarding the teef looking like Chiclets…i think they look more like Dentyne ice gum pieces…MUCH MUCH bigger than a chiclet lol
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:25 pm
How long were they married? I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:29 pm
The ladies are chatting, this is nice. A blog version of The View/The Talk.
Lovely Brown
August 5th, 2011
2:30 pm
@ Slim- I can’t lie, I did chuckle a little bit when I read it too
@ Sassy- Eric has got Puffy Disease( he will always be Puffy to me) he can’t close his mouth around those teef
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:34 pm
Naw, Blackfoote, we ain’t chatting…we straight clowning!
Lovely Brown
August 5th, 2011
2:34 pm
How long were they married? I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.
I think Jen said they were married three or four years. She said she comes from money, so she must’ve have really been in love with him…I mean, looks aren’t everything. But Dayummmm Jen
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:35 pm
…i think they look more like Dentyne ice gum pieces…MUCH MUCH bigger than a chiclet
I guess we’re gonna be in the same corner then
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:37 pm
Yall are keeping me from acking like i’m working…
Lovely – That’s the same thing my cousin and I were saying…every time I see him i’m shaking my head like, you let that thang inside you..no wonder they never had any kids together. His features maybe too strong to take that chance
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:38 pm
Who pushed me, I’m getting out of the way it must be lady’s day. Let me go to my spot.
UGA 1999
August 5th, 2011
2:38 pm
What happened to the dicussion about tongue jewelry?
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:39 pm
I never heard of either one of them until I saw BBWives.
Me either..
she must’ve have really been in love with him…I mean, looks aren’t everything. But Dayummmm Jen
She HAD to be cause he ain’t cute worth a damn…and HE had the nerve to cheat?! Where they do that at? She loved him cause she stayed with him when ERRBODY knew he was cheatin..it’s like common knowledge amongst them all…
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:40 pm
Blackfoote – Don’t be scerred…jump on in while the waters hot. lol
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:40 pm
I’m not saying this for what you said SlimNu, but I have wondered how cortorted his face would get during their lovemaking. Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:41 pm
contorted….
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:41 pm
swiss – this is the dude
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_q8fPW7CWGEc/TQlOJU2ywzI/AAAAAAAAAJc/KZfvOBU050E/s1600/williams.jpg
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:42 pm
no wonder they never had any kids together. His features maybe too strong to take that chance
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…..
please resuscitate
need air…must get air….
Lovely Brown
August 5th, 2011
2:45 pm
His features maybe too strong to take that chance
Nice way to say he is fugly to all be damned
wondered how cortorted his face would get during their lovemaking. Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.
*screaming*
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:45 pm
Yep, you can call him Jabberjaws or Knotthead!
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:46 pm
She said she came from money…anyone know what her folks do? She seems a bit on the nose in the air/snotty side
SexyCool
August 5th, 2011
2:47 pm
Lovely – I cannot stand to see folks walking around with their lips all slack, mouth hanging open, bottom lip drooping. I always want to go up to them and thump on the lips and say, “Close yo’ damn mouth.” (lol)
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:47 pm
Slim1:
Since you put it that way, and water is still hot hey why not. Watch it ladies I’m making a big splash.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:51 pm
“Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.”
What’s this Leggs, I like to see the grimace on her face.
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm
No belly flopping allowed.
@SC ~ an associate showed me her new grandson. His bottom lip drags just like hers. Can’t you train those lips early on so they’ll act right in adulthood???
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm
Yall are keeping me from acking like i’m working…
Chile you…I stopped with that charade a loooong time ago…
Sex face isn’t a pretty sight.
What just came to mind is that scene from “Boomerang” when Maaaarcus was about to knock Lady Elouise’s boots…when she did her “clap clap” and the room went black and he said, “Can you make it a liiiitle darker?”
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm
@BF ~ no doubt, but wouldn’t want to see the grimance on his face.
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:52 pm
Leggs – For whatever reason or however the wiring in my brain works, Jabberjaws sounds innocent enough. However, KNOTHEAD is simply making me cry *hollers*
Sexycool – He is the only person who’s parents didn’t put the plastic on the couch…they saved it and used it to cover his pillows. Or better yet, he probably has to sleep with that dentist suction thingamajig stuck in his mouth at night….
Ok, i’m on my final timeout!!
Blackfoote – Hmmm, big splash…I just hope there isn’t a big belly causing that big splash
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:54 pm
“Can you make it a liiiitle darker?” – my side is hurting, please STOP!
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
2:56 pm
an associate showed me her new grandson. His bottom lip drags just like hers.
Awww then….the baby. Okay I know I’m wrong for this but what about little (1-2 yrs. old) that look hard like grown folks already and/or ones that wear glasses.. I know I shouldn’t but when I see a really little one with glasses I snicker inside a little..I try not to,really I do
Don’t judge me….
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:56 pm
No Slim not the belly…….LOL
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
2:57 pm
Can you make it a liiiitle darker?—-> OMG!!!!!! I think I need an IV drip.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:58 pm
Damn I should have let Swiss have that one…..LOL
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
2:58 pm
Exactly SlimNu. That was Funny!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
2:59 pm
Sex Face is funny……LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
3:01 pm
Come on Sassy see you need a spanking for that.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm
Dare I say what the big splash was?
SlimNu
August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm
I commend you Blackfoote for trying to get Freaky Friday jump started
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
3:03 pm
Blackfoote quickly came from under those stairs seeing only ladies are in the room!!!
Leggs
August 5th, 2011
3:05 pm
Hope that big splash weren’t you skeeing super sperm all over the place. Sorry folk! First thing I thought of with his innuendo…
i'm swiss™
August 5th, 2011
3:09 pm
“Damn I should have let Swiss have that one…..”
BlackFoote — I would have, but since it was you talking about making the splash, there was no way I could reply without sounding moist. Now, had that comment been directed at me, my reply would have been something to the effect of, “when I do a cannonball, I really do a cannonBALL”… But you know how I do…
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
3:11 pm
Leggs:
Wow I see why the invite now I’m the toy boy, go ahead attack me like zombies…..LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 5th, 2011
3:13 pm
LOL…..@Swiss
Slim1 left that door/legs was wiiiiiiiide open….LOL
Lovely Brown
August 5th, 2011
3:14 pm
What just came to mind is that scene from “Boomerang” when Maaaarcus was about to knock Lady Elouise’s boots…when she did her “clap clap” and the room went black and he said, “Can you make it a liiiitle darker
Maaarcus
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
3:17 pm
Maaarcus
wasn’t that funny?!….Maaaaarcus daaaaaarling..
SexyCool
August 5th, 2011
3:25 pm
Seems like I’ve read that at least one other time today.
Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)
August 5th, 2011
3:26 pm
Wow ladies this was great!!
I laughed really hard today and the time went right ooon by. Have a great weekend and read y’all Monday!