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Are you dating a wild card?

There is something hot about meeting a person that intrigues you. Whether they are into the same things you are – or they are opening you up to a whole new world that is new to you. Spending time with them becomes a ride that feels risky, wild, and perhaps slightly insane.

Dating those wild card types can also be scary, especially when you don’t know what to expect! Have you ever dated the spontaneous type with a wild side?

Oh it’s all fun and games until your date blindfolds you and you end up on a skydiving adventure!

As I get older *cough*, I tend to become more and more cautious. I may take calculated risks but blindly trusting a new person is a challenge for me! Am I the only killjoy?

What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?

Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?

Do you ever tell your date about your personal boundaries so they won’t cross the wild side line with you?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

317 comments Add your comment

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:58 pm

Single Ladies – we watch a little bit of two episodes last night. First time seeing any of it since the first few episodes. Yeah…no…we had no idea what was going on.

But we both think the gay guy has the best lines.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:59 pm

Here I am picturing cyclops!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:59 pm

BMW, I think Alcide is getting set up by his girl also.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:00 pm

I like Single Ladies, but does it seem to you guys that Stacey Dash is overacting at times?

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:02 pm

“does it seem to you guys that Stacey Dash is overacting at times?”

She acts? Guess I’m always too busy picturing her on The Matterhorn to notice…. :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:03 pm

Speaking of non-mfing factor, has those t-shirts come out yet? lol

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:04 pm

@swiss ~ now you are not going to tell me you watch single ladies by yourself. You over there picturing her on your horn while cuddled up with wifey…..tsk, tsk, tsk! Bet you’re not the first!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:05 pm

I think her acting doesn’t always come off as genuine or real, feels fake…Sometimes it feels like i’m watching a 3rd graders play performance.

I really miss the days of my drama & dance class in high school

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:07 pm

I would definitely buy that t-shirt.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:07 pm

swiss – Didn’t I send you her photos from when she posed in Playboy?

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
1:09 pm

PR….Oh yeah….Eric is up to no good. As you can see, be is bangin’ Sookie now. Alcide should know better than to have gotten back with that skanky addict.

SWISS & LEGGS…. you guys are too friggin’ funny. I guess I was Bugs Bunny and he was Elmer Fudd! He was hunting Wabbits! :lol:

SC…Omar is the funniest! Especially when he got drunk at the dinner party and kept calling his at the time boo!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:12 pm

Let’s not leave out how they tried to pull each other’s weave out

Nooo what got me is when you could hear Jen(all husky soundin) in the background, ooh and Tammi got her weave..

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:13 pm

Actually, Leggs, I’ve never even heard of the show — but I do think Ms. Dash is hot. Of course, the visual I’d really like to see is Ms. Dash & Mrs. Swiss lovingly sharing The Matterhorn & each other… :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:14 pm

I can’t wait to see Eric get into it with Jennifer on the next show. All I know is ends up throwing a drink in her face…I was like whoaaaaa.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:15 pm

Just finished having a salad…didn’t even put a dent in my tooth!!!

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:15 pm

Slim — Wait, you mean those pictures weren’t of you? :shock: I’ve been bamboozled!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:16 pm

Oh boy, I walked right into that one! Got it, swiss!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:17 pm

Omar is the funniest! Especially when he got drunk at the dinner party and kept calling his at the time boo!

Man I laughed til I cried at that fool….I laughed even harder when he came to work the next day looking all “tore down” and crazy.

To be 45 years old Stacy Dash is the sh!t…no she can’t act all that good(Lisa Raye either) but I like the show. I want to look like that when I’m forty-five…

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:18 pm

And how immature is that for him to throw a drink in her face! He’s a punk too!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:23 pm

She does look good…didn’t know her age!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

I can’t wait to see Eric get into it with Jennifer on the next show. All I know is ends up throwing a drink in her face…

I thought that was rather moist of him to do that…he’s always treated her like warm isht but he sunk to a new low with that. I know deep down inside he’s angry at/with her but that’s no way to handle it…he acted like a little boy..

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

Wow, I didn’t know she was that old, either. D@mn, that hot and in her sexual peak. Have mercy…. :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:24 pm

Leggs – Whatcha think about this movie thing he keeps trying to peddle to the other ladies? Seem legit or canniving to you?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:26 pm

Moist, little boy, punk, jabber jaws is going down……

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:26 pm

Me either Leggs, I was like :shock: when I found out.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:28 pm

Gratuitous Wedding Planning Mention of the Day….

Dammit…how are we supposed to save for a wedding when we have so many other things we wanna do?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:29 pm

I’m definitely looking at him sideways re that movie he’s peddling. To jump from Susie to Royce is crazy. His business plan is weak, the premise of the movie is weak. He appears to be a horrible businessman. It’s coming across as conniving. And, when he first pitched it to Susie with his business partner to his side, they both looked liked wolves in sheep clothing!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:29 pm

Sassy – That was moist of him but what does he have to be angry with her about? Wasn’t he the one who was constantly unfaithful or did I miss an episode or something that explained the reason for their divorce?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:30 pm

Unless you’re LLCoolJ, no need for you to constantly licking your lips…a complete turnoff! JabberJaws need to stop doing that.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:31 pm

Jen has been rather snippy toward him. She probably showed that she really doesn’t give a rat’s tail about him and he snapped!

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:33 pm

Anybody else think Eric looks like Louis Gossett Jr from that movie Enemy Mine?

http://www.cinefex.com/backissues/covers/Cinefex25.jpg :lol:

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:39 pm

Wasn’t he the one who was constantly unfaithful or did I miss an episode or something that explained the reason for their divorce?

Yeah but a sliver of him still cares about Jen…wha had happened was once she started hanging with Evelyn and the rest of the clique, she stopped being all sappy,sorry woe is me and started going out and having a life…that DIDN’T include HIM. She stopped being/feeling sorry for herself and said she wasn’t “in love” with him and you could see that he was hurt by that, so everything he’s done since then as reflected that… He got what he asked for.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:40 pm

Yes Slim Nu he does..but where’d that knot on his head come from and why won’t it ever go down?..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
1:43 pm

“…where’d that knot on his head come from and why won’t it ever go down?..I’m crying….

He’s hurt she’s no longer in love with him, but he’s insensitve to the hurt he caused her with all his cheating. A woman can take but so much. He’s no longer the “man” in her eyes and that’s eating him to his core!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:43 pm

Yeah…SassyBlack…them mphckas hate it when you stop checking for *they* asses. (lol)

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
1:47 pm

Sassy – Well, that makes sense..I think I did see an episode where he was basically making snide remarks about her hanging out with Ev and them and not paying him any attention. It amazes me how he would think she’s just supposed to sit at home hurting from his indiscretions and remain unhappy w/o a life of her own. People may feel down but no one I know ever wants to STAY down.

Regarding that knot, I wish I knew. Every time I see him, i check to see if it’s gone down any. I get a strong urge to run and put an ice pack on his forehead :lol:

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:52 pm

From theurbandaily.com

Eric Williams now known as Jennifer Williams husband joined Power 105.1 ‘The Breakfast Club” where he clarified the great mystery of season 1 and 2 of Basketball Wives–The Lump! What is it? Where did it come from? Why isn’t it gone? Who did it? Eric says he was stabbed in the forehead and a keloid formed around the nerves. He says he never had it removed because it is a “constant reminder.” He had to get 30+ stitches. Eric goes on to say that he treated Jennifer wrong and is still in love with her.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
1:55 pm

That article was dated 03.15.11

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
1:56 pm

…them mphckas hate it when you stop checking for *they* asses.

OKAY?! Even if it’s they’re fault…and Eric hates the fact that she dissed his a$$ on national tv and his behavior shows it. He’s acting like a little boy who got his feelings hurt in front of his friends so he’s gonna do whatever he can to hurt her in return…but she’s still shaking him off and he can’t stand it..

Regarding that knot, I wish I knew. Every time I see him, i check to see if it’s gone down any. I get a strong urge to run and put an ice pack on his forehead

Okay now I’m crying…too funny Lol @ stong urge :lol:

Leggs/Slim Nu/Sexy I’m with y’all…

Fion

August 5th, 2011
1:59 pm

Speaking of Williams. I think Wendy Williams is a Man. How many of you think so???

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:01 pm

Eric goes on to say that he treated Jennifer wrong and is still in love with her.

Did we call it right or did we call it right?..his actions dictate as much but HOW can he possibly have the nerve to be mad at HER? Had she stayed and dealt with his isht ana longer, he still would’ve thought less of her so what’s a woman to do? He wouldn’t have stayed if she cheated on him but like I’ve said, “Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. :lol:

Lovely Brown

August 5th, 2011
2:02 pm

I was feeling bad for Eric’s hell boy lookin azz before he threw that drink on Jen because he seemed like he still had love for her….he acted like a str-8 bytch and then tried to defend himself on twitter. He said he just threw hoe-ly water on the hoe :shock: Jen should’ve made him matching set of knots on his head with his ugly self.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:04 pm

Eric is a fool, and his behavior is childish and his friends are telling him to man up. He decides to throw water in her face. When he’s back with his friends all he get from them is :shock: .

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:05 pm

Speaking of Williams. I think Wendy Williams is a Man

She is what the ol school peeps call a handsome woman…ain’t cute but not really ugly either..kinda sorta. She does look a bit tranny-ish. And everytime she does her how you doin I’m sure folks are laughing AT her and with her,too..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:06 pm

@Sassy ~ we called it right because we are women!

“Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun.” Not only that, he NOW realizes she’s not that weak, simpleminded wench he married!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
2:08 pm

Sass…just happened to pass by her on the tube the other morning and the show must have been taped during her DWTS run….she had everybody saying, “How you dancin’?” Hilarious…but I don’t really watch her either.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:08 pm

I was feeling bad for Eric’s hell boy lookin azz

need air…must get air… :lol:

Okay so what about his teeth…and why’re they soo big. They look like Chiclet candies..

Fion

August 5th, 2011
2:11 pm

If she really is a she. She is the most unflattering Woman I’ve ever seen. As they say in the country “she’s strong in the face”.

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
2:12 pm

show must have been taped during her DWTS run….she had everybody saying, “How you dancin’?”

Sexy did you see the pic of her feet she tweeted before she got eliminated?…there are some things you should keep to yourself..

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
2:12 pm

You guys have me rolling with the varying descriptions of Eric….Chiclet Candies takes the cake! Hell boy looking azz was a doosey!