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Are you dating a wild card?

There is something hot about meeting a person that intrigues you. Whether they are into the same things you are – or they are opening you up to a whole new world that is new to you. Spending time with them becomes a ride that feels risky, wild, and perhaps slightly insane.

Dating those wild card types can also be scary, especially when you don’t know what to expect! Have you ever dated the spontaneous type with a wild side?

Oh it’s all fun and games until your date blindfolds you and you end up on a skydiving adventure!

As I get older *cough*, I tend to become more and more cautious. I may take calculated risks but blindly trusting a new person is a challenge for me! Am I the only killjoy?

What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?

Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?

Do you ever tell your date about your personal boundaries so they won’t cross the wild side line with you?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

317 comments Add your comment

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

Slim….most women that get them also talk funny.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:54 am

At the cost of thousands of American soldiers lives. You know this don’t you?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

Nope I gave an example of when a former President lied, and I am not a public or elected official. I just represent my household…not the masses.

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

An 85 yr old rural, farmer, white, southern male and what does he know about racism…….hmmmm What does Michael Jordan knows about basketball?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:56 am

They talk like they have a lisp almost.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:57 am

In the beginning when Susie (BB Wives) would talk, I tried to see if I could see a tongue piercing.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:58 am

P-Lito – I had to drag my ass out of bed this morning and MAKE myself get out on the sidewalk.

I asked TheDude if he was going with me and he says, “Naw, I don’t think I’ma go this morning.” I responded, “Yeah, I know what you mean. I wasn’t going either but I just decided just before I asked you the question that I needed to go ahead and get it in.”

Four minutes later, he came down the stairs dressed to go.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:59 am

Blackfoote…so why does Obama not pull them ALL out now??? Great post hahaa.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:00 pm

Sexy Cool, it’s awesome to have someone motivate you or you are the motivator. I would not run nearly is much if my wife did not run with me. It’s a bond kind of gives us the sense that we can accomplish anything together.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

cba…isnt your comment in itself racist? GOD the racist word is so over used….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

Remember after the towers fell, and he’s in the middle of the street claiming “were going to get who knocked down these buildings”. Al-Queda wasn’t in Iraq. Big Blunder at 10 billion a month, and look at the U.S. now about to fold.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:01 pm

We’ve been having meetings with TheDude’s (now our) financial planner this week. And it’s even more official now, I hate insurance. (lol) But, I’m glad to see that we are in a good place with our financial planning and if we are able to stay on this course, we will be more than fine.

And speaking of investments, TheDude is sick about what the Dow Jones is doing to our stock portfolio right now….sheesh…..

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

go away already…geesh

Fion

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

Time for lunch.
I think I’ll hit Goldberg’s Deli today. I’m feeling like a Ruben. Love that Russian dressin’

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

That’s a good man, SC!

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:02 pm

P-Lito – the best part of having someone really awesome in your life!

#Winning….

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:04 pm

Oh no, not the Reuben…I’m…getting…weak…

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:04 pm

Sexy Cool, yep!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
12:05 pm

Blackfoote….Did you criticize Bill Clinton this much when he went to war with Iraq TWICE!?!?!?!?

Why are you not going after Obama for not getting all of our troops out NOW?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:06 pm

1999:
They are having a staggered draw down, but you can’t prop up a now American Colony and withdraw all your forces. That would detrimental to the forces left behind.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:06 pm

Leggs – I have a hard time looking at Suzie when she talks…she almost has an inverter underbite, if that even makes sense lol

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:07 pm

I wouldn’t mind a pastrami sammich right about now on a nice hoagie roll…mmmm

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:07 pm

Is anyone else reading what I am reading? Play close attention. I know you caught it Sassy, did anyone else?

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:09 pm

Boy, that Suzie can’t keep NOTHING to herself. That is funny to me.

We watched like six minutes of the show last night. This morning, after our walk and after not talking about anything at all related to the Wives, TheDude says, “I was just thinking, when Kenny was married to o’girl, she probably gave him HELL.” Oddly enough, I knew exactly what he was talking about without any additional prompts. (LMAO!)

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:10 pm

Hey anyone watch Necessary Roughness. I like that TV show, I think it was filmed down there.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:10 pm

@PR ~ Besides being a glutton, yep.

cba

August 5th, 2011
12:11 pm

Hell, how can I be a racist…..my maternal grandfather looked like Jimmy Carter, but my father looked like Marcus Garvey ;-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:11 pm

Clinton missed a chance at Bin-Laden, which cost lives in Africa of all places. He don’t get a pass, he kind of added to it.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:12 pm

S/N – I am 60 ounces into my 100 ounces for the day.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:13 pm

I’ve seen one episode of it, PR.

Susie is absolutely ridic*ulous! SC, Tami is a handful, but I like that chick! And, she’s pretty. She will forever be a diamond in the ruff.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
12:14 pm

One thing one the market be fore I go. There’s an Old saying in the market.

‘Never catch a falling knife”. That’s where the market is rignt now. A falling knife.
If you’ve got profits, next week sell into any upward moves. If not, let the market fall to you and
Dollar Cost Average back in. Sell on Hysteria, Buy on Fear.

Where’s that Ruben!!!!

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:18 pm

…she almost has an inverter underbite, if that even makes sense lol

that’s what happens when you suck your thumb well into puberty and your parents don’t get you any braces

that Suzie can’t keep NOTHING to herself

She sure can’t…that’s why Evelyn wanted to smack her up but what she did to Meeka was wrong. Meeka should’ve known better than to trust Suzie cause she is KNOWN for being a blabber mouth. But the way Tammy straight smacked the horse sh!t outta Meeka was straight hood…Meeka knew she had something coming when Tammy moved closer to her..

when Kenny was married to o’girl, she probably gave him HELL.

On a constant/consistent basis…hell she was beatin on dudes since her “Real World” days..

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:18 pm

Fion, on established trends and stocks I live by the what goes down must come back up. But that’s only on the established. I loved it when Delta Stock dropped a few years ago.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:20 pm

“Tammy straight smacked the horse sh!t outta Meeka was straight hood”
We KEPT rewinding that part. (lol)

“she was beatin on dudes since her “Real World” days..”
I had to make him remember her being on that show. When her and that other chick got little buddy kicked off the show for tickling or wrestling or something.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
12:24 pm

Purple I remember when Delta stock, dropped down to .05 a share. Bank of America was at 7.00, they can’t do anything but climb back up. Just hold tight they’ll come back.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:26 pm

Blackfoote, yes! It’s not quick money but legacy money.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:27 pm

The way Tammi & Kenny got into it on the first season let’s me know they were probably fighting with their dukes up plenty of nights…Tammi is just hood, no ifs, ands or buts about it. It trips me out every time she starts talking about folks ‘putting their hands up’…for whatever reason, that translates to fight with her. I guess it’s like an abused dog…whenever you raise your hand around it, it automatically shuns back anticipating a hit. Guess it’s the same way with her when she sees a hand go up, whether you’re fixing your hair or giving her the ‘talk to the hand’ sign. lol

I didn’t like the way Meeka came into the whole scenario anyway. When you come into something, it’s best to observe and listen before you get to running your mouth all willy nilly. Get to know people 1st

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:28 pm

Meeka is rather unattractive, actually….

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:30 pm

When her and that other chick got little buddy kicked off the show for tickling or wrestling or something.

Yeah it started off as innocent play that got blown outta proportion(by Tammy mostly)…then lil dude got booted from the show.

We KEPT rewinding that part.

Me,too :oops: But the first time saw it I was like :shock: daaaaaaayum…I wonder if Meeka had a touch of whip lash from that.

Has anyone been watching “Single Ladies” on VH-1?

Sassy Black..Wanna Play ?! ;-)

August 5th, 2011
12:32 pm

When you come into something, it’s best to observe and listen before you get to running your mouth all willy nilly. Get to know people 1st

Exactly….had she done that she would’ve known about Suzie..

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:34 pm

Slim, I don;t know what yall are talking about but if someone has their hands up to me or in my personal space that is a pure sign of agression. Who goes around talking putting hands up?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:42 pm

Don’t know of to many men that talk with their hands though. LOL

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

August 5th, 2011
12:49 pm

FION…I talk too much to have a tongue ring. It would get in my way and I probably sound like friggin’ Daffy Duck! :lol:

Now I did date a guy that had one…and it vibrated. needless to say…while we dated..I never invited B.O.B to come out and play ;-) :lol:

PR..I love that show! The girl who played the stalker was my acting partner at the Acting Studio. I’m proud of her. Go Nore!

As for Basketball Baby Mamas and Wanna-Be but Never Will be Wives….Meeka is messy as hell. Tammi hit her so hard I think I felt it! WHAM…trick goes down! :lol:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:50 pm

Exactly, SlimNu. I couldn’t believe she started running her mouth from the get go. She should have sat her non-factor mfing behind down and observed to see who’s who. She jumped in with both feet and one eye closed! Foolish on her part.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

“WHAM…trick goes down!”
You stoooooopid!!! LMAO!!!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

BMW, what did you think of Last Sunday’s True Blood. I think Eric is up to something. LOL@The Shape Shifter’s lil brother firing Sookie and banging the other lady. Also I just don’t like Sookie anymore.

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:54 pm

Meeka looks like a Pug

Let’s not leave out how they tried to pull each other’s weave out…both of their heads looked a hott mess after they got pulled apart

i'm swiss™

August 5th, 2011
12:55 pm

GOT D@MN, BMW! A vibrating tongue ring? That’s like taking a bazooka to a rabbit hunt… :lol:

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
12:57 pm

She jumped in with both feet and one eye closed! Foolish on her part.

Leggs – Well she had both eyes opened but one is soooo far on the other side of her head that you probably couldn’t see it :lol: Ok, i’m going to timeout…that was not nice :oops:

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
12:58 pm

Well, it was a rabbit hunt!!!