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Are you dating a wild card?

There is something hot about meeting a person that intrigues you. Whether they are into the same things you are – or they are opening you up to a whole new world that is new to you. Spending time with them becomes a ride that feels risky, wild, and perhaps slightly insane.

Dating those wild card types can also be scary, especially when you don’t know what to expect! Have you ever dated the spontaneous type with a wild side?

Oh it’s all fun and games until your date blindfolds you and you end up on a skydiving adventure!

As I get older *cough*, I tend to become more and more cautious. I may take calculated risks but blindly trusting a new person is a challenge for me! Am I the only killjoy?

What would you do if someone you were dating blindfolded you (not the kinky blindfold) and wanted to take you somewhere? Would you be able to relax and enjoy the ride?

Do you think you could balance out things if you dated a wild card?

Are you the wild card type that people you date have to adjust to? Do you find it difficult getting your dates to walk on the wild side with you?

Do you ever tell your date about your personal boundaries so they won’t cross the wild side line with you?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

317 comments Add your comment

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

Subjective, I suppose. I wouldn’t vote for either of those chicks, though. Palin’s presence cost McCain my vote last time around.

While I encounter a lot of anti-Barack rhetoric and bias, none of it is due to his ethnicity. Except that ‘long legged mack daddy’ guy, whats-his-name. That guy cracks me up. Now, I hear anti-Michelle Obama stuff all the time, and a lot of that is due to her ethnicity, I think.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:20 am

Sounds like a child in the sandbox, come say that to my face!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:21 am

UGA you don’t remember during the session when Rep Joe Williams just flat out yelled “Liar!” at him? And I defended President Bush just the same, even more so because I voted for him.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:21 am

Kimmie….I am not the only one discussing politics so why do you ask me to leave and not the others? Feel free not to respond, that is the great thing about a blog!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

Purple Reign….Well was he lying?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

Leggs….It makes a huge difference.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

I think she is going to see “Catch me if you can” on Broadway

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:22 am

kimmie is right, you always come on here spitting the same stuff.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:23 am

Makes it easier to get punched.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:25 am

Has any other President lied? The point is that you respect the position hell have a little respect for yourself. Did President Bush Lie when he said “Mission Accomplished”? Nobody especially a Representative or any of those service members standing right there yelled out “liar”

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:28 am

Yeah…no…Bush marketed/promoted HIMself as W.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

Leggs….no I dont….I just hate the ignorant always spewing the “racist” word around when someone disagrees with this president.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

So UGA answer this. How do you feel about someone calling the President a “tar baby” or referring to him as “boy”?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

PR….actually no he didnt lie. We took out the Iraqi government.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:29 am

And once again my discord is about respect of the position and not racism.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:31 am

Ok, enough of this banter with UGA. This is freaky friday, let’s get it started! UGA, your time on the floor has been used up. NEXT….

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:32 am

PR….please use the correct context. Buchanan said “your boy”. I have NO problem with that whatsoever. However “tar baby”, yes that is an extremely racist remark.

Also please tell me in this quote where he called Obama a “tar baby”?

Well, the Republicans should have done this or they should have done that,’ they will hold the president responsible. Now, I don’t even want to have to be associated with him. It’s like touching a tar baby and you get it, you’re stuck, and you’re a part of the problem now and you can’t get away.”

Nice try but it wont work.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Ya know, It’s something about a women with tongue piercing I find “Sexy”.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

I am fine with moving on….I just thought some intelligence mixed with your ignorance would make a great conversation.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Don’t respond PR….let it go!

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

LOL UGA that was not the “mission” that ws stated at the beginning of it all. The mission was a victory on the war on terrorism and to end combat operations in Iraq…that was not accomplished. And the White House about six months later tried to defer and say that they did not put the sign up but the Navy did. Hmmm, I have never seen anything in the background so prominent during a Presidential speech that the White House did not approve.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:33 am

Fion….agreed tongue piercings are great!!

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:34 am

Well, apparently you are wrong! And, no one here is ignorant!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

PR….no it was not…please support your comment. We were never in Iraq to stop terrorism. IT was to get Saddam out of power and get his hands off of the WMD. This is great!

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

Leggs…..right…haha.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:35 am

@Fion ~ explain why tongue piercings are so sexy! Have you been with someone who has used one on you?

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

This is about the most ignorant remark I have….PPPPPFFFFFFFTTTTT (lol).

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

UGA, tar baby is a reference from the story about the brer rabbit. Get familiar with the story and you would understand the reference.

Leggs, he is not getting me riled in the least. He is actually the image that he is projecting on others due to his own blinders.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:36 am

Leggs….in the late 90’s tongue piercings were getting really popular, asking a man if he has ever had one “used” on him is like asking him if he has ever breathed air.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:38 am

Fun was hitting a slot machine for 10 grand in Tunica, MS. Wild was playing blackjack at 500 a hand. Blind fold me I’ll play along, just don’t take me to the edge of the cliff.

SexyCool

August 5th, 2011
11:39 am

Now..we’re ignorant because we don’t agree with your political position?!? Getthefckouttahere with that bllsht.

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:39 am

@abc, I have to disagree with, none of it is due to his ethnicity. After he was elected and probably the first six months or so, I would agree.
When an 85 yr old white, rural, southern, former president said, it’s all about his ethnicity, you best believe it’s all about his ethnicity.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:40 am

UGA you are resourceful I am sure you can find how the White House back tracked on that banner gave different explanations and then finally admitted it was a mistake to have it there. Cnn, cbs, msnbc etc all have articles reference FROM White House Press Secretary Dana Perino

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
11:41 am

However we still have to live under his failed policies.

UGA – As long as you live within these Unites States, you have to live under the failed policies of EVERY president. No one president did everything right, fixed every issue successfully or was able to please everybody. It’s easy to sit back and judge someone but having that type of position is not an easy one especially when you have folks barking at you from all sides. If you feel that you could do such a better job, then why don’t YOU step up to the plate and run?

that is all for this soapbox….

Back to wild and fun

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:42 am

The tar baby story is about how the more you fight a problem the more tangled up in it you can become. ‘Tar Baby’ became a pejorative way after the fact. As a possible racist label, it’s really a pretty stupid one.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:42 am

PR….making a mistake doesnt make someone a liar.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:43 am

Shrapnel is flying everywhere, what got this started?

cba

August 5th, 2011
11:44 am

SC, give me some dap on 11:39. You don’t beat around the bushes….I like that :-)

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

@UGA ~ I’ve lived a sheltered life when it comes to tongue piercings. Really didn’t pay attention to its popularity in the 90’s, but I’m seeing a resurgence now. It just looks too painful.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

tar baby/brer rabbit is reference to a “trickster/ deciever” not the actual tar.

Fion

August 5th, 2011
11:45 am

@Leggs
“explain why tongue piercings are so sexy!”

I have yet to met a women that has a tounge piercing that isn’t Freaky as all get out.
For the record I’ve met and dated two.

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:46 am

UGA, if you lied about that mistake or if you only admit to that mistake after months of pressure. That’s pretty my a liar/deciever to me.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:47 am

SlimNu….Did I say that I thought I could do a better job??? However all I hear is what Obama “inherited”. Who forced him to run for president when he did?

Purple Reign

August 5th, 2011
11:47 am

I’m done, I see that others have or are trying to move on…rightfully so.

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:48 am

PR….Did you just call “W” a liar? What happened to respecting the office of OUR President of the United States?

UGA 1999

August 5th, 2011
11:48 am

Leggs…I am sure it is painful. I couldnt do it. But I sure like the way it feels.

abc

August 5th, 2011
11:49 am

cba, I don’t really consider Jimmy Carter an authority on anything at this point. Most of the content of the books he continues to write is refuted. Regarding racism and President Obama, what would you expect a guy from Plains, GA to have to say about that?

SlimNu

August 5th, 2011
11:52 am

UGA – My post never claims that you said you could do a better job…i stated IF you feel…but again, i’m ready to move on.

I used to want a tongue ring but not enough to ever really want to go through with it. I’m glad I never did it because it was so overdone…most folks that i knew got them, ended up taking it out and letting the hole close up.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

1999:
W lied about the WMD’s in Iraq. He wanted finish off Hussein so he could save family pride.

Leggs

August 5th, 2011
11:53 am

Figured as much, Fion!