Your dating duty: Tell the truth
I have always thought that one of the toughest things about dating is not really getting feedback when things don’t work out. A lot of us are walking around completely oblivious to the reason why we are running people off.
While all of our egos may be safely intact, we don’t get a chance to address any personal growth issues that may need to dealt with. Things like having a temper, poor communication issues, bad kisser, or worse, bad bedroom etiquette – can all be problematic.
So is it our duty and obligation to be more honest with the people we meet, date, and er dump? Would it be helpful to hear the truth about ourselves? Could you tell a person they were bad in bed?
What do you think would happen if we would “stop being polite, and start getting real” in the real world of dating?
Has anyone ever told you the cold hard truth? Did you handle it well or did it invoke a bad reaction?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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iRun
July 29th, 2011
8:35 am
“or worse, bad bedroom ettiquette”?
Really? In an actual relationship, that’s the most important killer?
Not poor communication?
After 14 years of marriage I can say communication is vital. You got that down and bedroom issues are a non sequitur.
Oh my God!
July 29th, 2011
8:45 am
Oh the drama!!! By the time we reach adulthood most of us should be pretty much aware of what our negative attributes are, so there’s probably not too much value in an “exit interview”. Besides, the older one gets, the harder behavior modification becomes. If it was easy, eventually we’d all be perfect saints.
If a couple gets to the point of breakup and the scorned partner still doesn’t know why, communication was definitely an issue in the relationship.
Lady Strange
July 29th, 2011
8:51 am
I agree that communication is the most important. If you can communicate well then these other problems can be discussed and worked through.
I personally can have a bad temper. I’ve asked my BF to help me by letting me know when I get out of hand. Controlling my temper is something I’ve been working to control and any help I can get is a good thing. I just need a gentle reminder to calm down sometimes if I am getting too upset. But at least I warn ‘em in advance! LOL
Communication is key to making a relationship work, IMO. And good hygiene is important too!
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
9:09 am
Morning!
I’m bummed. Someone stole my phone off the counter at Q-Trip last night. I was rushing when I went in to pay for my gas and take a quick look at the Cash 3 numbers. I was shocked when the number I THOUGHT about playing but didn’t play hit! Why I placed my phone on the counter and not in my purse is the million dollar question. Why couldn’t someone just turn to me and say “miss, here’s your phone.” I know, I know, that’s too much like right. Sheesh, people will steal your fingernails if they could!
So is it our duty and obligation to be more honest with the people we meet – YES, date,- YES and er dump – only if they want to know why you’re dumping them. Not everyone wants closure. Some just want to jump ship ASAP! Would it be helpful to hear the truth about ourselves? Sure, even if it stings my ego. Could you tell a person they were bad in bed? Ummmm, I wouldn’t necessarily say they were “bad,” but many lean toward another way of expressing my sexual angst with him.
Michael P.
July 29th, 2011
9:23 am
My wife and I have been together for several years now…we met online through one of the many dating services.
However, prior to our meeting, I did date several other women who this and other dating sites. Some of these women were quite nice and attractive, and some weren’t.
One of the women I met was living in Alabama when I went for our face-to-face meeting, and I stayed at her home there for the weekend. It was a pleasant two days, and we got along well – or so I thought. And, no, we did not sleep together. The day after my arrival back home to Snellville, she contacted me and said, politely, that I was not what she was looking for, but we could be friends. She did not elaborate beyond this, so I have no idea what went wrong, even though her family and children seemed to think I was a great guy.
Another women that I went out with was from the area where I lived, and we met at the local O’ Charlies for dinner. She was, to put it plainly, every bit of an Italian woman from New York (that should say alot)! Once we were sat down and she got comfortable with me, she got fairly loud and boisterous – and rude. At one point, our waitress came by and asked if we needed anything or were ready to order? My date turned to her and abruptly said, “No…go away now!” Now, in her defense, perhaps she was only trying to insure we had some private time together, however, this is not the way you go about it.
Now even though I had been taken aback by her attitude, when she invited me to her home after dinner, I did go, however, when we arrived and walked through her front door, she basically threw herself at her with sexual intent. Now don’t get me wrong; it’s not that I didn’t find her attractive, but I was just not prepared for the onslaught. I made my excuses and left.
Now, I did tell her the following day why I left, and why I was unwilling to see her again, albiet politely but in deffinitive terms. Did she learn anything from this? Apparently not, as she emailed me a couple of weeks later and told me she had been terminated from her paralegal position with a local attorney for being rude to his clients.
As far as bedroom ettiquette is concerned, I agree with iRun; if there’s communication, things can be worked out, provided of course that the one your communicating with listens to what you’re explaining to them and cares enough to take corrective action.
But here we should remember the saying, “Who convinced against their will, is of the same opinion still”.
Jeff
July 29th, 2011
9:32 am
Why give the woman an opportunity go off on you, even become violent? No thanks. You’re already going to be the bad guy no matter what, so why put any effort into improving her form someone else. Odds are, she wasn’t listening when you were together, why expect her to start now.
just me
July 29th, 2011
9:32 am
I think this is silly. Most times before the breakup there has been arguments about what that other person feels is your problem. The only time you may need feedback is when someone stops dating you after two or three dates, and I would not call that a breakup.
When breaking up, chances are that person has cussed you out well enough for you to know why they don’t like you no’ mo’
JASon
July 29th, 2011
9:33 am
“Things like having a temper, poor communication issues, bad kisser, or worse, bad bedroom etiquette”
All things which I would be willing to put up with if she was hot.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
9:36 am
Be honest, everybody knows the truth hurts. Hard to think honesty would hurt anyone but it does. Have character be tactful lies stretches distort, and compounds the pain, there’s no good reason to put anyone through that. Communicating is so important.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
9:39 am
Sorry to hear about your phone Leggs. Go back this afternooon it may turn up.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
9:42 am
I just saw you did say someone stole it, well don’t worry about going back. I know it makes you feel kinda naked without it.
Red
July 29th, 2011
9:42 am
Somebody once gave me the “truth” about why we were on the outs, and did so in a brutally honest way. The delivery of the message was really pretty hateful, but once I got past the way the news was delivered, I realized that there was truth to the message. So, while I was not happy at the time, it did sink in and the next relationship is the beneficiary.
abc
July 29th, 2011
9:43 am
Just exactly what is good bedroom etiquette? Just sayin.
Red
July 29th, 2011
9:45 am
A man once asked me this question:
Am I the biggest and the best you’ve ever had?
Silly me, I thought an honest answer would be appreciated. What was I thinking??
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
9:53 am
Red:
Aint it crazy to think telling the truth, you would recieve the worst feelings from a person and most times they asked for it.
Fion
July 29th, 2011
9:56 am
Aye man, just fade to Black and let it go. If that ain’t enough, I hear Dr. Phil. Is taking new patients.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
9:57 am
Thanks Blackfoote. Perhaps I need to be committed. I reactivated the phone this morning so I could call it and the receptionist downstairs answered. I was so relieved. I remember getting tangled up in my bracelets, purse straps and sweater. I put everything down on the floor before leaving the bldg. Apparently, I picked everything back up but my phone. I apologize for calling one of Q-trips customers a thief. I is back in business.
@abc ~ I was wondering that too.
@Red ~ that is one of the dumbest questions a man can ask. I don’t understand why they ask that.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:01 am
Morning,
Only one in every so many numbers don’t get what happened or what went wrong. Truthfully and bluntly speaking you have to be in oblivia to not know or not be clued in with the slightest inkling. If a relationship ends, typically there’s been signs, or acts of dishonesty or simply not being on one accord. Stating the obvious is not that hard nor should be too hard to receive when you’ve watched it play out. Sometimes having the hard truth told is more of a blessing in disguise. And sometimes kid gloves, spoon fed and sugar coating does more damage than good.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:03 am
Leggs:
LOL…..at being committed, good you got your phone back.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:08 am
It’s absolutely sad how dependent we are on our phones!
Fion
July 29th, 2011
10:09 am
Ya know Leggs, I need to back up my phone. I don’t know anyone’s #.
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
10:10 am
Leggs — Sorry to hear about your phone… But, uh… You didn’t still have that photo of The Matterhorn that I sexted you on there, did you?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:11 am
Celsiea:
Hello, I can get with all that you said.
Leggs/abc:
I always figured etiquette stopped at the bedroom door. I thought shyness and everything else left the bedroom when there are two consenting adults doing their thing.
single in the city
July 29th, 2011
10:12 am
I have been in situation where I was completely blindsided and got kicked to the curb. I got the ‘ideally things just aren’t going to work out’ as the reason for the break up – but nothing else. We had amazing chemistry, got along great, communicated effectively, insane/incredible bedroom activities, so I was shocked when I was let go. As time passed, he eventually reached out to me and explained that it was because he was pursuing his PhD and that he couldn’t focus on his studies if he was spending all of his time with me.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:14 am
LOL….@Swiss
Getting it on early priceless.
Lovely Brown
July 29th, 2011
10:15 am
Good Morning and Happy Friday to all!
Celisea- so on point! I have nothing to add, you said it all.
Fion
July 29th, 2011
10:15 am
@Single
when he called back, had you moved on or were you still open to the relationship???
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:16 am
Celisea:
Excuse me for spelling your name wrong, looks like dyxlesia is getting closer and closer on my horizon….LOL
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
10:17 am
Morning Folks!!!!!! On topic…..Do I want her to tell me why we broke up???? Hell naw, cause I would be willing to bet that she will not say it was because her feet smell when she wears pantent leather shoes or cause she nags the isth out of me…..Folks are never gonna acknowledge their own short commings in a relationship and until they can be honest with themselves, they can’t pull the lets be honest card with me…..
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:17 am
Thanks Blackfoote and Ms. Lovely
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:18 am
Blackfoote – No problem. I sometimes dabble in “dyslexia” myself…lol
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:19 am
@Fion ~ I didn’t have insurance on my phone, nor did I back it up. Two things I will take care of today!
@swiss ~ I was so concerned about all my pictures, esp. yours. Definitely didn’t want that to fall in the wrong hands and cause someone one to have a heart attack as they pulled out their magnifying glass! Haa haa haa. Sorry, couldn’t resist!
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:22 am
I’m agreeing with ya’ll on the phone thing. I have insurance but I don’t know anybody’s number. I just program under the person’s name and when I need them, I type the name to bring up the number. This convenient stuff is going to be the death of us
I ashamed to admit…I don’t even know my mama’s home number. My sister had it changed so I just plugged into my phone. I just commited myself to learning numbers here of late. I’m making myself dial from my desk so after so many times I can at least recall if I’m in a jam and don’t have my phone. I just learned my sister’s number at work. I quit dialing from my cell. That’s a dang shame…..I know.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:27 am
@Celisea ~ as much as I dislike math, I have a way with numbers. I know just about everyone’s number, all my bank account numbers, routing numbers of my checking account, savings #, etc. I can’t remember isht, but I can remember numbers. Go figure. Equally as important is I’ve remembered the number to The Hero Unit! Now, that is an important number to memorize (lol).
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
10:28 am
See now, Leggs… Keep acting up like that & you’re asking for a spanking. No, seriously, keep acting up & ask for a spanking. Please…
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:32 am
LOL:
I have to reach hard in my memory to find my own phone number let alone somebody else.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:33 am
Leggs – That’s good. I use to be able to glance at pretty much anything relating to numbers and quick references and could recall (photographic memory you could say) just remember what I saw. I tell though if you don’t use it you will lose it. I don’t think I’ve even exercised because I have other convenient ways now.
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
10:34 am
Three Words Daily – Expect a miracle.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:35 am
I am laughing too hard at you swiss!!! Thanks.
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
10:35 am
I have been known to utter the words, “Um…hmphf….that didn’t quite go as well as expected.”
(lol)
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:37 am
I wouldn’t say photographic memory, but close to it. I play games with glancing at numbers and seeing how much of it I can recall. Let me your phone number once, I pretty much will remember it.
And in case you guys don’t have these 2 important numbers, here they are:
Hero Unit-Serious (404) 624-2600 (Not sure what constitutes “Serious”)
Hero Unit-Gas/Flats (404) 635-8000
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
10:38 am
Reed – if someone asks that question – they already know that they were neither and are just seeking validation.
If you confident about yo’ sht, be confident about yo’ sht. (lol)
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
10:38 am
Sorry, Red…that is.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:40 am
Dagnabit, I just looked down and my blouse has slid down almost revealing my nipple. YES, that’s how much of my tit was showing. So glad no one is here right now. SHEESH! HUSH SWISS!!!
Time to put my sweater on.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:41 am
Exactly SexyC! Exactly!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:43 am
LOL….@SexyC
Really when you know you got it, nothing needs to be said.
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
10:44 am
Wardrobe Malfunction.
Oh..and Blog Run Report – Me and GiGi – 2.25miles – 31minutes. Yeah…it’s official – I ROCK! (kinda)
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
10:48 am
Ut oh. I’m feeling pudgy today. Gotta get on this regime we’ve all signed up for.
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
10:49 am
Leggs, Please don’t tell us its cold in the office as well……
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:49 am
Leggs:
I’m trying to stay civil, but if you’re gonna come out that way I’ll have no choice but to morph into the forrest wolf. Giving ample warning, a small woof this time you don’t to hear a full moon howl……LOL
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
10:53 am
I know guys. I am truly blessed no one is on this side of the bldg yet and my boss hasn’t shown up for work yet. I may never wear this blouse again. First time wearing, but I don’t need to be walking around with slippage problems.
Ok, I won’t SimpleM!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
10:54 am
you don’t “want” to hear
Dyslexia, can’t stop a train……LOL
single in the city
July 29th, 2011
10:54 am
@Fion – Even to this day, I don’t think I’ve ever truly moved on. He was a great guy – someone I could have seen myself with long-term. That doesn’t stop me from dating others, but I do find myself comparing my new potentials to him…which isn’t quite fair.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:00 am
@single ~ I was in a position much like yours. Everything was right with us. Chemistry, sex, convo, values, character, etc. It was damn near perfect. He backed off one evening when we were suppose to go to dinner. He never showed up, stop answering my phone calls. I was a mess and cried a lot. All I could do was work and go home back to bed and weep. Months later he called asking to meet with me. Of course, I met with him. He noticed the weight loss and commented. I told him how much I was affected by what he did. He told he still loved me, but he was scared because he could see himself marrying me so he booked. Because my emotions were healed by the time of our meeting, it was easy for me to walk away.
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
11:03 am
Leggs – sounded like bs to me…but then I can be like *that*…lol…
Fion
July 29th, 2011
11:04 am
@ Single
I asked, because you may have missed an opening. If you wanted it of course.
Sounds like he wanted to fit in the relationship if the time requirement still allowed
him to be responsible towards his goal of the PhD.
From a Male perspective I thinks he’s open to you. Take a run at it again.
Just sayin’
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 29th, 2011
11:06 am
Gotta get on this regime we’ve all signed up for.
True that! I’ve got a wedding to go to that’s not until October so I’ve got time. I’ve hit a plateau and have got to switch up my workout…this will be good.
Fion
July 29th, 2011
11:07 am
@Leggs
“YES, that’s how much of my tit was showing”
oooh la, la…….so Leggs you got plans for lunch?????
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:09 am
@SX ~ of course it was BS! I felt simply wanted to see how much I would tolerate of his foolishness. If I got back with him he would know I was pushover. That I ain’t! Well, I try not to be one.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:09 am
OMG, my tit got a lunch invitation.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:10 am
Ok, I think Blackfoote is rubbing of on me. That post was for you, SC! Now I’m making up monikers.
Fion
July 29th, 2011
11:12 am
“OMG, my tit got a lunch invitation.”
Well after all, I was breast fed until I was 8yrs old. Don’t judge me.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:15 am
{{snickering}}
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 29th, 2011
11:16 am
Well after all, I was breast fed until I was 8yrs old
side note: white pants with super tight undies and camel toe is NOT appropriate in the work place…I’m jus’ sayin’
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
11:18 am
“white pants with super tight undies and camel toe is NOT appropriate in the work place”
Says who?????
Fion
July 29th, 2011
11:22 am
Now that it’s confirmed that we will have Football season, I have a story for ya
Couple of seasons age I’m at a falcons Tailgate party. Festive nice scene. Good mix, male, female and couples. This one chick in particular was Fine as Hell. Scale of 1-10, solid 8.5. She had on a bangin’ thigh- high mini.
Let me put this in perspective for you, she was so fine she made the other women nervous.
Dudes there with wives or S/O were damn near scared to look.
Anyway, she goes over to her car to get something out of the back seat. Puts one knee on the back seat and there it is right there in my face. A clean shot at the title.
She didn’t have on any ‘Draws”. Fellas, I was stunned for a second, I was thinking, “is that the Punanni, Daaaaymun”. I was at that chick the rest of the party and into the game.
A few months back the Topic was Single woman Married man. Well, this is the chick that’s the friend of my female friend.
I met her that day. Fine as hell and won’t give me no kind of play and all hung up on this married dude.
Now you know the rest of the story.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
11:25 am
Lovely Brown
July 29th, 2011
11:32 am
@ Leggs and Sassy- I can deal with reading about nip slips and camel toes better than I can reading about shenises and strap ons
I left from here yesterday like this
I was traumatized!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
11:39 am
LOL….@Leggs
Leggs did you Feel the Majic in my hands, when I Hold and “RUB” you the Right way?
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
11:41 am
D@MN! LOOK AT THEM T!TT!ES!
Er, uh, I mean, ’sup Leggs. How you doin’?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
11:42 am
“HANDS” should be capital too.
Am I gone be dyslexic with every post….LOL
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:44 am
Good point, LovelyB. Glad you are no longer traumatized!
@Blackfoote ~
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
11:46 am
I’m sitting here with my sweater buttoned up to my dang chin! My boss has decided to show up for work.
Fion
July 29th, 2011
11:49 am
…..ah shoot Leggs, let the Girls breeve. Oh, I think I dropped my pencil on your desk.
Shaunie
July 29th, 2011
11:53 am
My ex-boyfriend asked me to go to counseling with him so that we could heal and it was all i could muster to tell him that my healing took place the day we broke-up! I mean why point fingers…look at ya damn self!
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
12:17 pm
@Fion ~ now that they’ve grown, I do believe my boss comes out of his office way too often for idle chit chat (depending on what I’m wearing).
@Shaunie ~ that’s a crock of BS to go to a counseling session with an EX to rehash past wrongs/hurts. Do I look stupid to you. My life no longer has any bearing on your life so WTH would I do that!
Purple Reign
July 29th, 2011
12:39 pm
I am noweather man, but the forecast is calling for several inches tonight!
Good Morning Blog!
UGA 1999
July 29th, 2011
12:39 pm
The duty is to tame that booty!
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
12:40 pm
@UGA ~ yeah right…sounds like someone wanted to do exactly that with you, Tame Your Booty!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
12:46 pm
Leggs why you hitting 1999 so hard like that……LOL
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
12:47 pm
Because it was right there for the taking….LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
12:52 pm
Whats up Purple:
Leggs having wardrobe issues today, and Sassy Black see tight panties at work. Both can be rectified at my seamstress shop at home…….LOL
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
12:55 pm
My goodness, Leggs is extra feisty today! All clowning on folks & flashing her t!tt!es ‘n sh!t…. Next thing you know she’ll hit us with the “Brittney Spears / Paris Hilton ‘Taint Got No Draws On Cooter Shot.” But I know your cooter is waaaaaaay nicer than either of those hoes, Leggs…
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
1:11 pm
OMG, swiss! You are a riot.
@UGA ~ you know I’m playing withcha…
Fion
July 29th, 2011
1:36 pm
Aye Swiss, Now that is funny as hell. I’m still laughing.
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
1:47 pm
Is this thing on????????
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
1:48 pm
NOPE!
Purple Reign
July 29th, 2011
1:50 pm
Hello, Leggs are you being naughty?
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
1:52 pm
I wasn’t trying to be, but YEP.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
1:53 pm
Puprple she past naughty light years ago, we’ll have to make up a new word for her.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
1:55 pm
Sorry for the name spelling Purple I’ve been experiencing an dyslexic attack today….LOL
Fion
July 29th, 2011
1:57 pm
@ Leggs
does your boss smile alot when come out to chit-chat?
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
1:58 pm
Ohhhhh..thats it…Nobody is sayinganything cause they are all sitting in the corner waiting to see If Leggs is gonna show us the other nipple (Its nice to see nipples in STEREO)
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
2:02 pm
I can promise you that I am not waiting on Leggs’ other nip.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:04 pm
Leggs:
Have you noticed you’re the only lady here right now. Are you not of afraid of getting mauled?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:05 pm
Well SexyC just entered the room, the dogs all pause….LOL
Fion
July 29th, 2011
2:05 pm
BlackFoote, she has a gun!
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
2:12 pm
If anybody is interested, I’m on Twitter – @SexyCool13 – I’m liable to say damn near anything on Twitter.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:12 pm
LOL….@Fion
Purple Reign
July 29th, 2011
2:14 pm
Wait a minute, Leggs was showing nips at work? I will admit I did not read the topic posted by Wise or any of the members blog entries.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
2:14 pm
@Fion ~ yes, he’s smiles more. It’s not so much the smile, it’s the fact that he’s attempting boring chit chat. This man is a genius and although my humor can be dry as time, there’s nothing funny about the jokes he tells. He’s more along the type of the guys who wear those pencil pocket protectors on the shirts.
I have since chinched my blouse in the back with a paperclip to avoid anymore slippage until I get out of the bldg. I have my sweater on to coverup the paperclip. I’m resourceful. There will be no other wardrobe malfunction from me. Sorry boys, you can go back to your seats.
@Blackfoote ~ not really, too many scared little puppies! Most bark but no bite!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:27 pm
LOL….@Leggs
A slam dunk! Leggs that aint fair, it’s not even basketball season.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
2:30 pm
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:40 pm
What kennell have you been hanging out at. You know you can’t ask a puppy to do a Big Dogs job…..LOL
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
2:41 pm
It seems to be that Blackfoote and Leggs just need to revisit some thangs. Am I right or am I right?
Fion
July 29th, 2011
2:45 pm
I think Leggs has a spot on the roster and the Professor (boss) is trying out for the team.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
2:49 pm
LOL….@Celisea
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 29th, 2011
2:51 pm
Am I right or am I right?
I concur cause it sure sounds so…
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
2:59 pm
And my blog is sjeaspeaks.blogspot.com
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:00 pm
Awwww, don’t flip the script. I only hang with the big dogs!
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:00 pm
I’m calling you muskrats puppies (LOLOLOLOL)!
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
3:03 pm
Cat call if I ever heard one…much howling, barking and cat calling going on today. Make it happen folks.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
3:05 pm
OUCH! No stepping on paws please.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:06 pm
Good one!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
3:07 pm
Celsiea instigating, I’m calling Purple to come get you now instead of waiting for 2038.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:08 pm
He’ll be more than happy to do that, but she’s not ready. Why you think she picked the date 2038?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
3:09 pm
Allright I got to go dyslexic is back sorry again Celisea, your name can’t get it right today….LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 29th, 2011
3:09 pm
I’ve run out of time, can’t say I wasn’t here trying to hold up the dog nation. Good for you Leggs you stared down a Big Dog. To be continued. Y’all have a great weekend.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
3:11 pm
Leggs – He’ll be more than happy to do that, but
she’she’s not ready. Why you think she picked the date 2038?One technicality…no can do
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:16 pm
I hear ya, Celisea! It’s been duly noted.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
3:18 pm
Leggs –
Hey Purple
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
3:19 pm
Blackfoote – Allright I got to go dyslexic is back sorry again Celisea, your name can’t get it right today….LOL
Don’t sweat it…I understand
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:31 pm
There’s only a handful of us here. Seems like the others took the shortbus on a field trip and left us behind.
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
3:39 pm
I’m still here, Leggs… I’ve just been sitting here, quietly enjoying the mental image of your t!tties….
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
3:44 pm
Leggs, Just do that I can make sure we are square, was it the nip with the hoop in it or the one with the bar bell???
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:44 pm
Well, stop doing that!
TwinGems
July 29th, 2011
3:45 pm
Hey all!!!
@Leggs, we just got back from our trip…imma take my helmet off now and eat my fruits snacks and sip my juice box
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
3:53 pm
Good one, TwinGems. Good one!
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:15 pm
Has a gag order been sent to Blogsville???
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
4:20 pm
T!TT!ES!!!!!!!!
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
4:21 pm
Oh, my bad. I didn’t think anybody else was here…
Dogg Pound
July 29th, 2011
4:21 pm
Woof!
SexyCool
July 29th, 2011
4:25 pm
Swiss will never cease to be excited about mammary glands.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
4:26 pm
See Leggs, we’re all still here…probably most of us anyway
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
4:27 pm
SCool……Tig ole Bittties are the best thing EVERY
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:29 pm
Tig ole Bitties are the best ting EVER…even over punnanii…say it ain’t so (lol).
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:30 pm
It always cracks me up correcting someone’s post only to have a typo in mine.
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
4:30 pm
“Swiss will never cease to be excited about mammary glands.”
SexyC — That’s not true. As soon as Leggs show me that bare booty, I’ll forget all about the t!tties…
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:35 pm
(:)
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:36 pm
That was suppose to be butt cheeks, but it doesn’t look like it once posted.
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
4:36 pm
Leggs, the last time I checked Bitties always come attached to a puddy….Like when you open a happy meal…There are goodies at the top, but the prize is in the bottom!!! LOL
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
4:38 pm
Well HOT D@MN, Leggs! You even spread ‘em so I could see both holes there!
Simple Man.....
July 29th, 2011
4:41 pm
“You even spread ‘em so I could see both holes there! ”
( In tears now)
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:42 pm
Excellent point, SimpleM!
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
4:45 pm
Ut oh, I knew Freaky Friday was somewhere up in here…just a matter of hitting the buzzard.
Back to working and lurking
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:46 pm
Hitting the buzzard…who you calling a buzzard!
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
4:48 pm
Leggs – who you calling a buzzard!
That’s funny. Not that I think you don’t get it but I surely thought somebody’s gonna grab that statement…that’s funny
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:49 pm
I get it, but had to say that too.
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
4:50 pm
ba doomp doomp
Celisea
July 29th, 2011
4:50 pm
Today has been a bad hair day for me…
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:52 pm
There will be no EOD today due to some people have helmet hair from their field trip, others are still sleeping, and some are under the stairwell refusing to come out. So everyone simply carry on as is….
i'm swiss™
July 29th, 2011
4:55 pm
Oh, the beer gong just went off here at the office. Gotta run. Thanks for the peep show today, Leggs.
Leggs
July 29th, 2011
4:57 pm
PEACE~
Truth
July 29th, 2011
5:55 pm
Truth is -he can be disconnected,self absorbed and surley. but when he kisses me all over and handles his biz, all that goes away.
Bill Clinton
July 31st, 2011
8:41 am
You can’t handle the truth.