I have always thought that one of the toughest things about dating is not really getting feedback when things don’t work out. A lot of us are walking around completely oblivious to the reason why we are running people off.

While all of our egos may be safely intact, we don’t get a chance to address any personal growth issues that may need to dealt with. Things like having a temper, poor communication issues, bad kisser, or worse, bad bedroom etiquette – can all be problematic.

So is it our duty and obligation to be more honest with the people we meet, date, and er dump? Would it be helpful to hear the truth about ourselves? Could you tell a person they were bad in bed?

What do you think would happen if we would “stop being polite, and start getting real” in the real world of dating?

Has anyone ever told you the cold hard truth? Did you handle it well or did it invoke a bad reaction?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog