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Your dating duty: Tell the truth

I have always thought that one of the toughest things about dating is not really getting feedback when things don’t work out. A lot of us are walking around completely oblivious to the reason why we are running people off.

While all of our egos may be safely intact, we don’t get a chance to address any personal growth issues that may need to dealt with. Things like having a temper, poor communication issues, bad kisser, or worse, bad bedroom etiquette – can all be problematic.

So is it our duty and obligation to be more honest with the people we meet, date, and er dump? Would it be helpful to hear the truth about ourselves? Could you tell a person they were bad in bed?

What do you think would happen if we would “stop being polite, and start getting real” in the real world of dating?

Has anyone ever told you the cold hard truth? Did you handle it well or did it invoke a bad reaction?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

155 comments Add your comment

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
2:14 pm

@Fion ~ yes, he’s smiles more. It’s not so much the smile, it’s the fact that he’s attempting boring chit chat. This man is a genius and although my humor can be dry as time, there’s nothing funny about the jokes he tells. He’s more along the type of the guys who wear those pencil pocket protectors on the shirts.

I have since chinched my blouse in the back with a paperclip to avoid anymore slippage until I get out of the bldg. I have my sweater on to coverup the paperclip. I’m resourceful. There will be no other wardrobe malfunction from me. Sorry boys, you can go back to your seats.

@Blackfoote ~ not really, too many scared little puppies! Most bark but no bite!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
2:27 pm

LOL….@Leggs
A slam dunk! Leggs that aint fair, it’s not even basketball season.

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
2:30 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
2:40 pm

What kennell have you been hanging out at. You know you can’t ask a puppy to do a Big Dogs job…..LOL

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
2:41 pm

It seems to be that Blackfoote and Leggs just need to revisit some thangs. Am I right or am I right?

Fion

July 29th, 2011
2:45 pm

I think Leggs has a spot on the roster and the Professor (boss) is trying out for the team.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
2:49 pm

LOL….@Celisea

Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)

July 29th, 2011
2:51 pm

Am I right or am I right?

I concur cause it sure sounds so…

SexyCool

July 29th, 2011
2:59 pm

And my blog is sjeaspeaks.blogspot.com

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:00 pm

Awwww, don’t flip the script. I only hang with the big dogs!

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:00 pm

I’m calling you muskrats puppies (LOLOLOLOL)!

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
3:03 pm

Cat call if I ever heard one…much howling, barking and cat calling going on today. Make it happen folks.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
3:05 pm

OUCH! No stepping on paws please.

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:06 pm

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
3:07 pm

Celsiea instigating, I’m calling Purple to come get you now instead of waiting for 2038.

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:08 pm

He’ll be more than happy to do that, but she’s not ready. Why you think she picked the date 2038?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
3:09 pm

Allright I got to go dyslexic is back sorry again Celisea, your name can’t get it right today….LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 29th, 2011
3:09 pm

I’ve run out of time, can’t say I wasn’t here trying to hold up the dog nation. Good for you Leggs you stared down a Big Dog. To be continued. Y’all have a great weekend.

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
3:11 pm

Leggs – He’ll be more than happy to do that, but she’s he’s not ready. Why you think she picked the date 2038?

One technicality…no can do

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:16 pm

I hear ya, Celisea! It’s been duly noted.

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
3:18 pm

Leggs – :)

Hey Purple :)

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
3:19 pm

Blackfoote – Allright I got to go dyslexic is back sorry again Celisea, your name can’t get it right today….LOL

Don’t sweat it…I understand :)

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:31 pm

There’s only a handful of us here. Seems like the others took the shortbus on a field trip and left us behind. :lol: :lol:

i'm swiss™

July 29th, 2011
3:39 pm

I’m still here, Leggs… I’ve just been sitting here, quietly enjoying the mental image of your t!tties…. :lol:

Simple Man.....

July 29th, 2011
3:44 pm

Leggs, Just do that I can make sure we are square, was it the nip with the hoop in it or the one with the bar bell??? :) :D :)

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:44 pm

Well, stop doing that!

TwinGems

July 29th, 2011
3:45 pm

Hey all!!!

@Leggs, we just got back from our trip…imma take my helmet off now and eat my fruits snacks and sip my juice box :)

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
3:53 pm

Good one, TwinGems. Good one!

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:15 pm

Has a gag order been sent to Blogsville???

i'm swiss™

July 29th, 2011
4:20 pm

T!TT!ES!!!!!!!!

i'm swiss™

July 29th, 2011
4:21 pm

Oh, my bad. I didn’t think anybody else was here… :oops: :lol:

Dogg Pound

July 29th, 2011
4:21 pm

SexyCool

July 29th, 2011
4:25 pm

Swiss will never cease to be excited about mammary glands.

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
4:26 pm

See Leggs, we’re all still here…probably most of us anyway :)

Simple Man.....

July 29th, 2011
4:27 pm

SCool……Tig ole Bittties are the best thing EVERY :)

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:29 pm

Tig ole Bitties are the best ting EVER…even over punnanii…say it ain’t so (lol).

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:30 pm

It always cracks me up correcting someone’s post only to have a typo in mine.

i'm swiss™

July 29th, 2011
4:30 pm

“Swiss will never cease to be excited about mammary glands.”

SexyC — That’s not true. As soon as Leggs show me that bare booty, I’ll forget all about the t!tties… :lol:

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:35 pm

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:36 pm

That was suppose to be butt cheeks, but it doesn’t look like it once posted.

Simple Man.....

July 29th, 2011
4:36 pm

Leggs, the last time I checked Bitties always come attached to a puddy….Like when you open a happy meal…There are goodies at the top, but the prize is in the bottom!!! LOL

i'm swiss™

July 29th, 2011
4:38 pm

Well HOT D@MN, Leggs! You even spread ‘em so I could see both holes there! :shock: :lol:

Simple Man.....

July 29th, 2011
4:41 pm

“You even spread ‘em so I could see both holes there! ”
( In tears now)

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:42 pm

Excellent point, SimpleM!

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
4:45 pm

Ut oh, I knew Freaky Friday was somewhere up in here…just a matter of hitting the buzzard.

Back to working and lurking

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:46 pm

Hitting the buzzard…who you calling a buzzard!

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
4:48 pm

Leggs – who you calling a buzzard!

That’s funny. Not that I think you don’t get it but I surely thought somebody’s gonna grab that statement…that’s funny

Leggs

July 29th, 2011
4:49 pm

I get it, but had to say that too.

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
4:50 pm

ba doomp doomp

Celisea

July 29th, 2011
4:50 pm

Today has been a bad hair day for me…