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Dating Mr. Serious: Dude, chill

My new guy/beau is a little on the high strung side. I think he likes the fact that I encourage – ok force- him to relax and enjoy the time we spend together.

I have a really silly, playful side at times and I love to laugh and have fun when I’m on a date. During our first few outings, I admit I was ready to deuce him out! He is making an effort to chill out but I get the sense that he has never really let himself unwind and have fun that much before.

It is kind of fun and interesting to watch him explore the simple
things that relaxes him! What do you do to unwind? Have you found that the serious/intense people you date often are the most fun to be around once they kick back?

What is the most relaxing and laid back date you have had?

On a semi-related sidebar: Why does it seem as if some men don’t want to outwardly express happiness or feelings of content. It’s actually difficult to determine when you are happy in our presence sometimes! What gives?

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Leggs

July 27th, 2011
1:00 pm

Dang, been gone 3 hrs and only 2 pages.

@kimmie ~ re your post on hosting. I think people must forget the $$ that goes into hosting something. You turn around and wonder WTF the people are who said YES! It can definitely be draining.

@Reio ~ any and everyone who knows me know if you ask me a question please expect the truth. If you don’t want to know, then don’t waste your breath on me. However, unlike you, I now have learned a little “tact.” :wink:

“Brown will make you clown” and gin will make you sin! I call that “horny juice!” Men are absolute asses when they drink (and their breath smells like baby isht).

@ITL ~ haven’t used the gift card yet but can’t just give it away (lol).

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
1:07 pm

@NY2GA ~ I have to agree with you. I too would love to see Tami and NeNe go at it. I absolutely love Tami. She’s a spitfire and like spitfires (lol)! NeNe isn’t a spitfire, she just plain mean and HOOD!

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
1:09 pm

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Exiled!

July 27th, 2011
1:09 pm

BMW!

There isn’t enough money for u to do raw chicken?

U still in ur young 30s,that’s why u run ur mouf like that, wait till ur butt is hanging to ur back knee and ur tatas reach to the ground each time u bend forward,after the young dudes are done frolicking with u…then all of a sudden,an old will seem do sexxy then.

As long as u not locking on a dude now,u are going to change mind..

The unfortunate thing is I won’t be there to prove it coz u go undercover with it!

Exiled!

July 27th, 2011
1:11 pm

Seem so sexxy

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
1:23 pm

Exiled, you are funny. LOL @butt hanging to back of your kneww and tatas reach the ground LOL

Exiled!

July 27th, 2011
1:38 pm

PR?!

These chics see and sing a different tune the moment their clicks reaches a certain age,mostly late late 30..38.40 ish!

by then the make up time is longer in the bathroom coz so many creeping wrinkles,the tatas need bra with better lift,it ain’t as sexxy to put on shorts coz the skin lost some luster and liqor has taken it’s toll on the jaws,eyes and cheeks.

That’s when they start saying,’ I want somebody to accept me as I am’

As I am means,’Gone!’

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
1:43 pm

@Ex ~ you have no idea what you’re talking about. Well, let me rephrase. There are some women that may be like that, but you can’t put all women in that category!

kimmie

July 27th, 2011
1:43 pm

Leggs – I think Tami is attractive. I really can’t stand Ne Ne!

LOL!! Yall dudes kill me defending Hef. Errbody know all them blonds hanging on his arm is a front. I knew jack wasn’t happening in the bedroom. But hey Hef, more power to him. Whatever he does or doesn’t do, he’s got big money and not a penny belongs to me. I actually have always given him credit for putting out a rather tasteful product.

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
1:49 pm

I think Tami is very pretty. Jennifer is pretty too, just a bit shall we say “sheltered.”

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
1:49 pm

LOL…..@Exile

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
1:50 pm

I think Jennifer is the prettiest of them all.

kimmie

July 27th, 2011
1:54 pm

Susie is a complete airhead and an instigator! Royce is cute but a little ghetto. Evelyn is a so-so beyotch. Shaunie is an undercover instigator too, I think. I was not feeling Meeka at all, I’m glad she left Italy. She doesn’t fit in with the chemistry of the other women to me.

Exiled!

July 27th, 2011
1:57 pm

Kimmie?

Ofcourse he(Hef) don’t hump those chics like a young one wld but he gets pleasured,at 85 and by chics half his age.

And I bet u most of the action is O favors..

Imagine Hef doing a Rick Ross-like grant(hrrrrrrr) repeatedly as he enjoys hisself! :lol:

Now what 85 year old don’t want that surely?

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
1:59 pm

Kimmie you pegged. Shaunie tries to appear to rise above but she’s in it too. Evenlyn is a straight heffa, Susie should have gotten smashed for kick up mess yet again….she cause that last bout. That chick would have slammed me in the face it would have been sooo on. I heard she’s suing and rightfully so. You can’t just up and pop people and feel justified in doing so. I would have taken a flight back home after that first night. No way I’m staying with some chicks that’s cast me on the outside. Heck no. Oooor, Idda made it my vacay.

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:00 pm

Heard Meeka is suing

kimmie

July 27th, 2011
2:01 pm

Exiled – I don’t sit around caring about what a dried-up 85 year old can or can’t do. In fact, the thought of his chicken behind naked makes me gag. But hey, like I said, more power to him. Hope the chics he rocks with are getting paid handsomely.

Only 85 year old’s performance I will ever care about is my husbands, if the Lord blesses us to live that long! :wink:

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:02 pm

Shoes

Radio

Paper

Kleenex

Pictures

Phone

Cellphone

Cup

Mug

Glasses

Stapler

Tape

These are things in eye sight. Just trying to see if Exiled will take these words and make them sexual. Just wanna see if he can do it.

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
2:08 pm

I thought Hef had a daughter??

Susie is a problem child! She just doesn’t get it. Has she even mentioned the football player she was dating last season.

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
2:10 pm

Are you guys talking about Monday’s episode. I didn’t get a chance to see it yet?

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
2:10 pm

Was it good?

Exiled!

July 27th, 2011
2:11 pm

I don’t sit around…

Me neither Kimmie!

but I thought I need to respect and defend a senior who’s just chilling on his rocking chair,getting his
rocks tantalized by some phine youngUns :lol:

NY2GA

July 27th, 2011
2:12 pm

LorDemi – Ditto your 12:52 … I like my women in all shades but the liq, nope, its’ gotta be light …

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:13 pm

Celisea, don’t complain or run away the next timew the guys start talking about sports!

UGA 1999

July 27th, 2011
2:15 pm

I have dated “Ms. Serious” and it did not work at all.

NY2GA

July 27th, 2011
2:15 pm

BBall wives … I just wish Tami (and I like her) would stop embarrassing her daughters so much. No grown woman with two older daughters should be out fighting like that all the time. She has fought with everyone, that tells you something.

Poor Jennifer, she looked like a lost little puppy when Eve screamed on her … She needs to toughen up with her fine self (although that lip was hanging when she was crying) …

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:16 pm

It was typical. Cat fighting. The brawl wasn’t as fired up as the preview led tv land to believe. The Tami had the audacity to say if Meeka puts her hands on her she’s having her locked up. Ummm, I believe she threw the first punch.

PR – It will be mums the word. I can’t say I’ll have something to say because it’s not my forte but no complaints will come from me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:17 pm

Purple:
Mcnab going to the twin cities, I think he’ll bring the Vikes back.

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:17 pm

I like the reservation Jennifer displays. She’s got more class IMO than all of them. Especially Eric treating her like he did.

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:18 pm

I actually like Tami too but c’mon off and hitting folks ain’t cool.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:20 pm

I don’t know anything about those house wives shows. I’m not complaining if that’s what the subject is about.

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:20 pm

Yes McNabb is coming to the Vikings, Game on Bitcheeeesss!

UGA 1999

July 27th, 2011
2:20 pm

PR….you are excited about McNabb???

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:21 pm

I’ll sit my tail back under the stairwell.

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:22 pm

I’m excited about the Vikings period! And yes McNabb will have a great positive impact.

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:23 pm

Blackfoote, I know why you like being under those stairs, especially when the ladies wear skirts.

Celisea

July 27th, 2011
2:23 pm

Blackfoote I would venture to say it ain’t safe living under the stairwell. You been under there too long now.

UGA 1999

July 27th, 2011
2:24 pm

PR….you are right….I mean he did SO much for the Redskins…

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:27 pm

Ponder is to green, Jackson is gone, McNabb had a bad year in D.C. on the field but the Redskins had their own issues. Wait and see what happens.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:27 pm

They’re passing game is gonna be much better than Green Bay. Then there’s Peterson enough said. They teed me off last year but this trade will put them back in the hunt.

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
2:28 pm

@Blackfoote ~ you too dang tall to be crunched up under dem stairs. You going to become arthritic.

Purple Rain

July 27th, 2011
2:28 pm

Yep and even with Philly you know how McNabb plays when he feels “jilted” lol

Leggs

July 27th, 2011
2:29 pm

I’m meeting with 3 ladies very soon and they’re going to educate me about football (lol)!

UGA 1999

July 27th, 2011
2:30 pm

McNabbs days are long gone. Good QB in his day but they are gone.

UGA 1999

July 27th, 2011
2:31 pm

Leggs….why do you need educating? And why are you seeking the help of 3 women?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:31 pm

LOL….@Purple
Very good views of the surroundings under there.

Celisea:
What I’m gonna do when y’all start on the house wives.

NY2GA

July 27th, 2011
2:32 pm

Blackfoote, yea, come on out, back on topic in a moment.

Celisea – I think Jen is the classy one as well, but she was looking a little sorry when Eve went in on her.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:34 pm

Leggs:
Same question to you what am I gonna do. I know nothing of house wives or reality tv.

Purple Reign

July 27th, 2011
2:35 pm

UGA so what are your predictions for the Vikings? and who is your team the Falcons? Mcnabb will have a line in Minnesota.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 27th, 2011
2:36 pm

1999:
Mcnabb got at least two more years in him. Shee I thought I spelled his name wrong…..LOL