Relationships with expiration dates
I’m just at a loss of what to say to women who still believe that great sex is enough to keep a man. I think it is one of those situations that people have to experience before they get it.
The reality is it’s easy to entertain, like, and be enamored with one another when your clothes are off. That’s actually the easier part in a lot of ways!
What happens when your clothes are back on and you start to realize that outside the bedroom, you actually don’t connect in other ways?
Let me give you a hint: Tick. Tock. That’s the timer ticking to down to the demise of the relationship.
It’s not just because orgasms aren’t enough to keep two people interested. It takes more. A lot more. Especially if you want more.
Sure the amazing bedroom trysts will be a shiny new toy you can’t stop playing with – but the novelty wears off. What do you think it takes to sustain a relationship without expiration dates?
Don’t you think it rather… interesting.. that sex alone can’t sustain a relationship but a relationship without sex won’t last either?
Why do you think that is? Or do you disagree?
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Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
4:59 pm
That is very flattering, to hide behind an alias and post something about my wife. Do you feel good does it make you feel empowered you really made a point didn’t you? LOL
Demi
July 26th, 2011
4:59 pm
And as all MLBs know, let a hoe be a hoe and don’t retire her to wife status
that’s funny…women do put up some very good fronts.
She may be your wife, but she riding-a-Demi’s wang well you’re at work…dudes are funny….these rules are foolish.
Demi
July 26th, 2011
4:59 pm
>>>while
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:00 pm
Willie: You right it’s thrown around too much but I agree with that last part.
Purp: You ain’t never lied…
Leggs
July 26th, 2011
5:01 pm
@Dynamic ~ from one sis to another, don’t pay them any mind. If you know you’re not a ho, K.I.M. I know I’m not frigid, but many do…hell, like we all have aholes, we all have opinions. Only thing that’s important is you know yourself and laugh at those who think they know you!
Demi
July 26th, 2011
5:02 pm
Dynamic…each men are different…look at b-ball wives…now them are some ‘oe…they must be doing something right, lol
Fion
July 26th, 2011
5:02 pm
Hold up Purp, you the dude eyeing the chick at the gas station right?
Leggs
July 26th, 2011
5:02 pm
Where did someone say something derogatory about Ms. Julia???
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:03 pm
I mean that’s my definition. If I am wrong someone please enlighten me. If not then what is one?
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:03 pm
Leggs: When/who said D-mic is a hoe? The response was to her question.
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:04 pm
Fion, yep and I could have went further with her because she threw all of the signs, but I declined every single last one of them and now she no longer speaks to me.
Demi
July 26th, 2011
5:04 pm
It’s good to read you Jake!!!
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:05 pm
How do you have a show called BBall wives none of them are married, they are on the ball players dime and they look down at people who are not like them?
Leggs
July 26th, 2011
5:05 pm
Not saying anyone said it, she said if asking questions tags her as one.
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:07 pm
Boy I tell you….men
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:07 pm
Leggs, she said she wanted to not be bothered with all of that “getting to know each other b.s.” and get to the sexing. I see that as if dude would have tried after a few text or calls she was open for business or did I read that wrong?
Into the Light
July 26th, 2011
5:08 pm
Wow…..I stepped away for a “quick” meeting and I missed a hot debate.
And who’s Jake?
Fion
July 26th, 2011
5:08 pm
That’s my point Purp. I never said anything about pitching every woman you meet.
My point is if you know you got that swag, it an’t nothing new to you. Women will offer it up.
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:10 pm
Fion, maybe I read what you typed wrong then. My mistake and apologies.
Leggs
July 26th, 2011
5:12 pm
My mistake, is that I didn’t read any of it. So, I will go back to minding my own bees wax!
I’ve been up on the floor at the meeting since 7:45. I know that doesn’t sound right, but that’s what it’s called “up on the floor.” I is going home…
PEACE!
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:14 pm
Ok I will strike the word hoe and replace it with the word “easy”
Demi
July 26th, 2011
5:15 pm
Ok I will strike the word hoe and replace it with the word “easy”
Purp, too funny…
Purple Rain
July 26th, 2011
5:17 pm
LOL, Demi
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:18 pm
No need for anyone to insinuate wh@redoms. Some folks kill me with that. SMdangH
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:20 pm
Purp: “Real” at the beginning of easy and I think you have it.
Willie Dynamite
July 26th, 2011
5:20 pm
who said it was anything wrong with being a hoe. Hoes have roles models and fairy tales too. Julia Roberts was a hoe and that movie made millions. maybe one of these everyday regular azz hoes can find them there very own MCH/B.A.B. Shiiiiiiiid dreams do come true.
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:24 pm
Alex: SMdangH
Celisea: Alex, What is Small Midget dang Hands?
Alex: Wrong.
Celisea: What is Smell My dang Hand?
Alex: I’m sorry…
Celisea: Oh, oh I got it! What is a Simple Minded dang Hoe?
Alvin
July 26th, 2011
5:26 pm
another thought:
Friend Zone for men…a woman who have sex after the first 2 or 3 meeting
Friend Zone for women…men she is not sexually attracted to, lol
There lies the problem with men and women right there….
Willie Dynamite
July 26th, 2011
5:27 pm
plus, IJS. Hoes have more significance than society wants to admit. Think about it, one quick example. For the Dudes that went to college. Getting that Degree was alot easier and enjoyable when you had hoes around. Once you got that degree you were able to get a better job improving the tax base and whatnot. So I’m saying being a Hoe has it very own social ramifications that one must consider before being judgemental.
Into the Light
July 26th, 2011
5:30 pm
There lies the problem with men and women right there….
I’ll co-sign this, and we see it all the time.
Woman to her girls: Yeah, he and I are taking it slow and getting to know each other
Man to his boys: Dude, I like her but she is frigid!
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:30 pm
The 4th day of next week some unaware chick will hope on here bragging about her PSH skills and ALL YA’LL gon award her the the prize of the week. By day 8 she’s a ho. I toss a side eye to dudes that depending upoin the day of the week will award women for their wh@redoms and in the same turn call her a ho. Ya’ll talking out of both sides of ya necks. Just today some say girl get you screw on while others called her a ho. Glad I’m informed, have standards, live by standards. Ya’ll intentional on tripping women up.
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:31 pm
Ok everyone say it with me:
HOES ARE GOOD!!!!
TWO HOES IS BETTER!!!
THREE HOES IS A LIFETIME MOVIE!!!!
Into the Light
July 26th, 2011
5:31 pm
Yep. What Celisea said.
Willie Dynamite
July 26th, 2011
5:35 pm
ITL – don’t believe all that June Cleaver isht Celisea talking about. She knows a Hoe when she sees/reads one. And you do too. hahaha
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:37 pm
Celisea: Can you explain this “I toss a side eye to dudes that depending upoin the day of the week will award women for their wh@redoms and in the same turn call her a ho.” Unless you saying a chick cannot perform wh@redom without being a hoe?
Alvin
July 26th, 2011
5:37 pm
Ya’ll intentional on tripping women up.
Women trip themselves, Celisea. It all about how she carries herself…I know a stripper who is now married to a pastor…and she is not full of herself.
Exiled!
July 26th, 2011
5:38 pm
Celisea/ ITL?
Font fret the label hoe
In MLB it says and I quote,’ each man shall be responsible for categorizing their women based on how they behave to him and his expectations’
end of qoute!
I hope that helps!
For Real
July 26th, 2011
5:38 pm
Willie: True dat….
Exiled!
July 26th, 2011
5:39 pm
Don’t fret the hoe label
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:49 pm
Well WillieD, here’s what i think of your opinion of me. Typically you tap dance and make insinuations, thats moist in and of itself. You NEVER addree what you’re feeling durectly. So come today you got the balls (and your sidekick For Real) to finally man up and dry the moistness to get it said. Not that it’s any of your business what I am, my “who I’ve been with” man count aint reached my finger (one hand please) count…can your wife say the same. Just because I know what I’m doing and didn’t require a gazillion d@ck marks to reach the level “skilled” dont label me a ho. Now you sir will be the main one congratulating a passed around chick for her many many lovers this time next. So frankly you changing on a whim ain’t impressive. Now from now on, you got something to say point my way. otherwise move on past me
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:52 pm
Excuse my typos and get my point….I’m on my phone
Alvin
July 26th, 2011
5:53 pm
** In MLB it says and I quote,’ each man shall be responsible for categorizing their women based on how they behave to him and his expectations’ **
Sad but true.
Look, there is nothing wrong with getting your freak on ladies, just keep your ish under wrap and not broadcasting for all can see…that’s we dudes are staying.
We men can do that…y’all can’t..that’s just the way it is…Blame Eve!!
Into the Light
July 26th, 2011
5:58 pm
You know what, Alvin? You put it out there, straightforward and honest. I will say, though, that even though a man might be seen as being cool for having a multitude of women/past lovers, I personally do not want to hear anyone bragging about their sexual conquests, male or female. Private matters need to stay private matters.
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
5:59 pm
N@gga you ain’t slick you been tryna get that said and I’ve been waiting on it. There you go assuming a pair of panties depletes intelligence.
NY2GA
July 26th, 2011
6:06 pm
Looks like I got here just in time, Celisea is once again dropping knowledge and putting cat’s to sleep …
9 pages people, all because of three little letters s e x …
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
6:13 pm
And what kills me NY2GA neither of those jokers participate. They sit back and freaking lurk and soon as both of those hypocrites get an opening, THEN they jump in…and only to criticize and find fault. Heck I say what I gotta good bad or indifferent. And in case eith of ya’ll still reading you can pick up your balls on your way out.
Into the Light
July 26th, 2011
6:16 pm
Have a good night, Celisea, I’ll read you tomorrow.
Alvin
July 26th, 2011
6:16 pm
Into the Light…LOL…my days whor’in daysare done…I now understand the value of what I am bless with.
these days, the best thing about me…is my company outside the bedroom scene
Sex is the easy part…building true friendships and relationships are not…
Celisea
July 26th, 2011
6:18 pm
Good night ITL
Alvin
July 26th, 2011
6:19 pm
Celisea, LOL…the blog is just a place to have fun.
for the most part, these are some standup dudes, second to none.