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Relationships with expiration dates

I’m just at a loss of what to say to women who still believe that great sex is enough to keep a man. I think it is one of those situations that people have to experience before they get it.

The reality is it’s easy to entertain, like, and be enamored with one another when your clothes are off. That’s actually the easier part in a lot of ways!

What happens when your clothes are back on and you start to realize that outside the bedroom, you actually don’t connect in other ways?

Let me give you a hint: Tick. Tock. That’s the timer ticking to down to the demise of the relationship.

It’s not just because orgasms aren’t enough to keep two people interested. It takes more. A lot more. Especially if you want more.

Sure the amazing bedroom trysts will be a shiny new toy you can’t stop playing with – but the novelty wears off. What do you think it takes to sustain a relationship without expiration dates?

Don’t you think it rather… interesting.. that sex alone can’t sustain a relationship but a relationship without sex won’t last either?

Why do you think that is? Or do you disagree?

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Exiled!

July 26th, 2011
3:43 pm

Slim

she used the last bit of roll

Do u live with ur guy by the way Slim?

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
3:43 pm

I think Slim and Exiled are 2nd cousins. LOL

i'm swiss™

July 26th, 2011
3:43 pm

There are actually differences… In general, you’ll find less fake boobs, better curves (and more variety of shapes/sizes) & more, ahem, skilled dancing at the black clubs. Most white skrippers are like Stepford Wives of ho’s, IMO… :lol:

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
3:44 pm

Exiled if she used the last bit it would still be in the toilet with the urine, which it wasn’t

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
3:45 pm

peery…. BWAH HA!

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
3:45 pm

White Strip clubs you get a table dance, Black clubs you get a lap dance and a nipple ot two on your forehead and nose.

Leggs

July 26th, 2011
3:46 pm

“…maybe a bath with fresh petals and candles…” That sounds painful (lol).

Fion

July 26th, 2011
3:46 pm

@BlackFoote
you smokin them Purple Flowers, right? Betty Ford, Charter Peachford. Just get some help man.

SlimNu

July 26th, 2011
3:46 pm

Purp – I don’t know if I need to be driving around the airport with a beer…I mean, I’m already going to be semi-dressed. Actually, I was thinking of going with a halter top, a nice pair of g-strings and some heels.

Slim because you are supposed to eat the edible stuff off of a woman, not just the edible stuff by itself I dont kow why but this was sooo dayum funny to me. I picture me going Ohhhhhhhh! :lol:

ITL – No offense but the rose petals in a bath is too girlie…we can’t forget he is a Fed and not into that type of thing. I think Purp was going somewhere with the beer idea tho. I just have to figure out how to disquise the Heneiken with a shot of goose lol

Exiled!

July 26th, 2011
3:48 pm

PR

Tissue paper goes to the bottom so Slim may have missed it since she saw urine in passing

Wld u pour ur head over into a chamber to see what color dudu some random didn’t flash? :lol:

I trust Slim didn’t do that either! Lol

UGA 1999

July 26th, 2011
3:48 pm

PR….very nice.

>>

July 26th, 2011
3:48 pm

Oh and UGA, if you can try to hit the club during the day….That way the dope boys and the big ballers are not there to drive up the “price of participation”……..

UGA 1999

July 26th, 2011
3:49 pm

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
3:50 pm

No offense taken. :) I didn’t know he is a Fed… that’s HOT!

Funny thing about Goose….it’s clear, just like water…..hint hint. :)

UGA 1999

July 26th, 2011
3:51 pm

ITL….also has virtually no odor.

Exiled!

July 26th, 2011
3:52 pm

Slim?

Security guard is not a Fed

:lol:

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
3:53 pm

Thanks, y’all. I’m here for anther hour but ready for a cocktail. :) Might have to get some Firefly on the way home….

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
3:54 pm

Fruit roll ups, Feds, Goose and no odors. Okay I am all caught up

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
3:54 pm

Slims, man works for TSA? LOL

SlimNu

July 26th, 2011
4:00 pm

Exiled/Purp – Hardy……….har……..har My babe, isn’t a security guard or a TSA agent.

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:02 pm

Top Flight Security? Is his name Day Day?

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
4:04 pm

bwah ha….Day Day…. :)

Dynamic

July 26th, 2011
4:05 pm

So I decided to lurk a little bit before I posted. But I’m very confused on the whole to sex or not to sex question. Men want sex right? But if they get it too quick then they don’t want to be with chick or marry her? WTF? She gave you what you wanted now STFU! Go with the flow and see what happens.

I think if yall are both willing participants and the sex was good then what’s the problem. And YES I agree with all of the women that say that sex isn’t everything. But it is VERY important. And sex can be BAD with someone that you love. It’s kinda like dancing some people got it and some don’t.

SlimNu

July 26th, 2011
4:05 pm

Yup, shole iz. BAM!

Exiled!

July 26th, 2011
4:05 pm

I’m just playing Slim

Don’t go home and conjure up a wicked joke to bring on tmrw to pounce on Meelo.

I raise my hand in surrender

Demi

July 26th, 2011
4:08 pm

@Slim….I be upset with dude for peeing allover the seats and floor…and that ish be mix with blood!!!

I am whoever that co-work is, dude needs to so to the doctor

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
4:08 pm

Slim, you know I’m kidding….. :)

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:09 pm

Dynamic, so men should STFU and just get F’d then be in a relationship with her….when she has problem done the same thing with every guy that she has been with?

Into the Light

July 26th, 2011
4:11 pm

Demi, there are some things I DO NOT need to know…. ick.

Leggs

July 26th, 2011
4:13 pm

I think Blogsville needs a therapist…too many sick folk up in this camp!

SlimNu

July 26th, 2011
4:13 pm

Demi – Either buddy needs to seek medical attention OR one of those homeboys really ain’t a boy at all (on the rag?). :shock:

Exiled!

July 26th, 2011
4:14 pm

Dynamic?

Not all sex is the same!

Some sex is like that fatburger..eat it One time and u good for months. One time deal

Other sex is like mickieD fries

U come again and again and again..

I think u need to perfect ur craft!

Dynamic

July 26th, 2011
4:14 pm

@ PR you don’t know that she has done the same thing with every guy that she has been with….In addition if you are down for the cause what is the problem? It takes 2 to have sex. And I’m not saying get screwed into a relationship, but why not see where it goes? Don’t just count someone out because they wanted to get it in. How do you know that she hasn’t had sex in a year or two and was tired of waiting for MR. Right and decided to settle on Mr. Right Now?

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:14 pm

Leggs, yes I agree!

Celisea

July 26th, 2011
4:15 pm

Dynamic – Somebody leaked a MLB secret this morning. A couple of our blog gents admitted sex too early disqualifies said woman for marrying although shes’s good for the physical. What’s conflicting and jedi-ish is that some say they won’t view a woman any differently if she get down early….they claim no such thing as too early. Like I said, someone intervened as the secret slipped and shut the book and invoked probation on them. Stick with the WLB and that will ward off any misleading or misconceptions.

Demi

July 26th, 2011
4:16 pm

SlimNu…I was watching Lil Wayne’s ex’s show…old girl brought her dude some longhorn, set it up like she cooked the food (had the food ready for him, while looking sexy wit it)…from the front door to the diner table, she place rose petal…that’s the right way to do the petals for most man.

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:18 pm

Because common sense will tell you not to think that you are the first that she has done that with, you asked a mans perspective. If a guy gets it quickly he will think other guys did as well and not think she is long term serious relationship worthy. That’s just the rules.

Fion

July 26th, 2011
4:19 pm

@Purp

Purple, I see ya point if I didn’t ask for the Punanni and she just rolled her draws down. But If I asked for it, made a play for it and she responded then that is cause for more in-depth investigation after I stand up in it.

SlimNu

July 26th, 2011
4:19 pm

Demi – You sure are giving me another idea because honeydew loves some steak. Only things is, he’s getting in too late to eat that heavy.

Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater

July 26th, 2011
4:19 pm

What up folks…been lurkin a lil bit, @Dynamic- let me explain that phenomenom, I see PurpRain started in on it…No man wants to be (as in relationship) with a freak broad. Yep, we want to hit, but its not the hittin to quick that’s the turnoff, its the hitttin quick and the freakiness that comes with it. If a chick shows you too much too soon, u gotta get out b4 you catch feelins an be stuck walkin around wit a slutty buddy…Essentially, no man wants a woman who has as much or more experience than he does, thats nasty…I was kickin it wit a chick and after bout the 3rd time I knocked her down, she shows up with her trick bag, we had big fun, but….never looked at her the same, instantly fell off my long term radar.

For Real

July 26th, 2011
4:19 pm

Fruit roll ups, Feds, Goose and no odors = Slim’s man name is Influence aka Delay… aka Heaviness.

Slim I want to see you in a white mesh halter top with some white boy shorts with some white roller skates on while holding a St. Barnardus 12 in a baby bottle with a shot of Kettle One in four droppers.

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:20 pm

And if she had been waiting a year or two and wanted a Mr Right now, that also means it could have been whomever she were with at that moment. Dude just happen to be at the right place at the right time.

Dynamic

July 26th, 2011
4:20 pm

@ Cel….Oh now I get it! If I want to get married have sex with someone else on the side (b/c I want to have sex) and make Mr. Right wait till he gets blue balls or just bounces….Or I can ask Mr. Right when he thinks it will be okay for us to have sex w/o him thinking I’m a whore. We all know how well men communicate….now I get it

i'm swiss™

July 26th, 2011
4:22 pm

Purple is exactly right. Dudes don’t want to marry a chick who accepts the d!ck too quickly/easily because we assume if she’ll take my d!ck at the drop of a hat, then how can I be confident she’ll turn down the 867 d!cks she’ll get offered every day for the rest of her life? Yes, we know we are man-wh0res. But most of the time we actually have to make an effort to get puddy. Chicks have to make an effort to avoid d!ck. Big difference…. :lol:

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:22 pm

Fion, the convo would be whatever it would be as long as it ended in sex again with her. LOL But it sure would not be about a house and a picket fence.

Leggs

July 26th, 2011
4:23 pm

@Demi ~ I saw that episode..do you remember when she gave him a semi funky lap dance, she bent over and he went to kiss her butt cheek and she farted. I hollered…it was the most funniest and embarrasing thing. That was a good laugh for all 3 of us!

For Real

July 26th, 2011
4:25 pm

D-mic let me see if I can explain in skit:

Dude: Hey der mis lady.

Chick: Dayum!! Can suck-a-duck?

That equal yes to the suck a duck but no way in hell will I marry this chick.

Purple Rain

July 26th, 2011
4:26 pm

Dynamic, men like to be told no during the initial stages, it is a vetting process. But since you are making assumptions, let me make some of my own. Yall women give it up quick in the beginning then get stingy once in a relationship. You know how yall do. LOL

Celisea

July 26th, 2011
4:27 pm

Dynamic – Exactly…sort of…lol Sorry to say it but with men and their egos you CANNOT, I repeat cannot let the right hand know what the left hand is doing. I don’t believe in doing too soon or too many but even if it’s just a nice evening out, PLEASE ny all means keep it to yaslef.

Dynamic

July 26th, 2011
4:29 pm

@ For Real:
I’m not saying that quick, but dayum after how many dates, phone conversations, hanging out at someone’s home. How long do men expect a woman to be able to hold out? Is it in amout of time spent together, amount of time spent out on dates?