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Mate debate: Can we find everything we want?

I’m not a big fan of dating checklists. I think they end up becoming an excuse not to give perfectly good candidates a real chance. I think we all have our preferences, and we definitely know what grabs our attention. I have to wonder though, how does that all come in to play when we actually meet the person who is ideal for us?

Do you think the person you really want and desiwav can have everything you ever wanted in a mate? Imagine the traits, character, looks, and even the body of your “Dream” mate. Would they want to be with you? Would you be a good match for them?

Do you think the people we are looking for actually exist? Would we recognize them right away or would we miss out because they don’t look/sound/behave the way we expected?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:22 pm

@BMW ~ that’s one of my favorite looks too. The CFMPs, big shirt, props, it’s on and popping… Note to self: make sure there aren’t any mothballs in my damn shirts. I’m hollering over here!

@SlimnNu ~ hell no, this ain’t my first rodeo!!!! Ladies, yes ladies, should pull the car over to the side of the road and rape their man. Well, not rape him, but get a quickie in there and get back behind the wheel. He will love it!!!!

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
4:22 pm

Hey, what would be better…just do the fruit roll ups in the silky robe, Or do a black corsett underneath the robe and still keep the fruity pasties?? I forgot I had a black corsette Hmmm?

Celisea

July 25th, 2011
4:23 pm

PR – Celisea, 3:59! Have I ever told you that I loved you?

Yep…lol

UGA – Not a big fan of Lake Lanier

Slim – Since skinny dipping was always enroute and the premise for riding nekkid, if I was driving I always work a cute little slide or sandal with ridgiddy bottoms. Gotta grip the pedal

Ex – No comment :)

i'm swiss™

July 25th, 2011
4:24 pm

BMW — I regret to inform you that your “Brazilian” is subject to approval from the blog Ladyscaping Committee. As chairman of said committee, I’m going to need you to submit before and after photos depicting the change from “Landing Strip” to “Brazilian,” along with an explanation of why the change is desired and how the new design will complement the aesthetics of the blog community. You must also submit to an on-site inspection prior to approval. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter. ;-D

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:24 pm

@Ex ~ don’t worry about me over here….I’m fine. I have self-control. If I want to make myself tingle over all this talk and flashbacks, I could….but I have SELF FREAKING CONTROL. Now, leave me alone. :lol: :lol: lol: :lol:

Seriously, I’m good!!

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
4:24 pm

,em>champagne and pouring it over her lady parts Sounds bubbly de lic ious

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
4:25 pm

Slim….it is great.

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
4:26 pm

It’s a bird, it’s a plane, it’s SUPER SWISS the CT inspector lol

Celisea

July 25th, 2011
4:26 pm

Leggs – excellent tidbit on shoes that grip. Must have that easy access so keep it slightly open…

Keep the probability of an accident slim to none :P

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:27 pm

We were crawling like a turtle this morning, now we jumping around like freak jackrabbits outline the set/scenery for SlimNu! And the Academy goes to………..

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
4:28 pm

Ok ladies and gents I am heading out. we have football practice tonight. Have a good one.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
4:29 pm

UGA

I think u and Simp’s tongue Definately need to be insured! :lol:

U think Geicko does Tongue insurance?

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:30 pm

You too, UGA! Don’t sweat on another Team Mom! :wink:

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 25th, 2011
4:32 pm

UGA…not anymore. We are no longer together. So now I only perform regular performance gigs and of course the more sensual ones are for myself just for fun! I teach belly dance. I believe in the Fall I will be teaching Burlesque.

ITL…girl I love that song. Blues and Old School music makes for great Strip Tease ambience. I think one of my favorites songs I have done

SWISS….I am gonna kick your @$$! :lol:

EXILED…. You are getting a Time Out! :lol: Tongue Insurance!

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:33 pm

Here’s a fantasy of mine I don’t mind sharing. My body used to look like the lady’s body on the cover of Honey (Ohio Players)….that was decades ago. Before I leave this Earth, someone is gonna lick honey off me! Was that TMI???? I’m still laughing over here….

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:36 pm

Night, UGA!

Leggs, before you live out that fantasy, let me make sure you have Andreia’s number. Believe me, if it dries, honey is stronger than any wax known to man. IJS….

BMW, there’s a great documentary on HBO this month about the history of Burlesque.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:39 pm

If it dries….ok, why would I need a woman’s number? Is she suppose to help lick it up before it dries????? Ut oh, the blog turns….(lol).

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:39 pm

“Does Geico do tongue insurance?” That reminds me of the commericals….

Can you really save more on your tongue insurance by switching to Geico? Does Ex hold his breath??

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:41 pm

Girl, no! She owns “Brazilian Waxes by Andreia”. LOL

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
4:41 pm

Slim, you could pull up to the airport and since you are slim, slide into the back seat when you see him coming.(You have to park by the shuttles not the pick up curb) Make him drive, while you are in that back seat naked playing with yourself, really get into it moaning and all…..then every so often rub your fingers across his lips so that he can taste you.

????

July 25th, 2011
4:41 pm

I AM WHATEVER YOU SAY I AM?

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
4:43 pm

I Am is back?

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:43 pm

Ok, ITL. I wasn’t sure where that was going…Gotcha!

I’m going to be someone’s Sweet Sticky Thing! Note: be careful with the honey!

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:45 pm

Mercy, PR…..I’m going to have to turn the fan on in my office…..

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
4:46 pm

How bout if Slim just crouches on the passenger side,let him drive and she works on his transmission as he drives?(she’s kinda slim and portable) so it’s fitting..

I hope he don’t wreck the car tho…

And he can be playing with her dangling tatas,using the right hand..

Nite time is best. Otherwise Chanel 2 helicopter might hover u if its daytime day!

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:47 pm

Yep, PR, that’s an excellent one.

Simple Man......

July 25th, 2011
4:47 pm

Ok…..Courtyard Marriott, Albany, and I check in to find what????? Manscaping is better for the ladies the “new weiner” look….Landing strip is GREAT for Simple especially if I get to trim it….. Tongue insurance…LOL Yup, StateFarm gives me extra coverage cause I have mastered the “broad and flat” the “point and tingle” and the “Probe and Twirl” :)

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:50 pm

This has been the latest edition of Moaning Mondays….

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
4:50 pm

Leggs, ITL…just sharing some secrets. :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:51 pm

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
4:52 pm

I salute u Simple!

Damn that’s some skill 4.47 I never imagined

i'm swiss™

July 25th, 2011
4:54 pm

“.I am gonna kick your @$$! “

BMW — Thank you, mistress, may I have another? :-D

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:54 pm

I like those kind of secrets….. reminds me of a night at the Shoe Show with a former friend….

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 25th, 2011
4:54 pm

PURPLE…you are trying to cause even more car accidents in ATL. :shock: :lol:

LEGGS…”Moaning Mondays”???? Good one!

EXILOED…was that your Brown b00ty going up and down in a pulled over car on the side of 285 on Channel 2 when the Sky-copter was shooting footage of traffic? :lol:

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:54 pm

Listening to Brown Sugar (although we know he’s not singing about a woman), we can act like he is. The words are sensual…

Simple Man......

July 25th, 2011
4:55 pm

hey, ITL Looks like I missed it today….You might have to bring me up to speed :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
4:57 pm

I’ll show tell you all about it later.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:57 pm

I have nothing as an EOD…

See you guys tomorrow afternoon!

PEACE!

Simple Man......

July 25th, 2011
4:57 pm

Ex, Plus, I can and will work it like that froms the front, teh back, and both sides!!!!! And I don’t leave teeth marks!!!!

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
4:58 pm

@SlimNU ~ looks like someone else is about to get frisky in the car on their way down to Albany! We have now have two categories nominated for an Academy Award……ACTION!

Simple Man......

July 25th, 2011
4:58 pm

ITL….Fruit roll ups, HUH????

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
4:59 pm

BMW, and you thought I like 4×4’s just for hunting and off roading? LOL it’s easier up here to just drive off road somewhere hop in the back and be under the stars :)

i'm swiss™

July 25th, 2011
4:59 pm

By the way, Slim, I believe it’s about time for your bi-weekly CT inspection. You’re sticking with scorched earth motif, no? ;-) :lol:

Simple Man......

July 25th, 2011
5:00 pm

Leggs, Albany NY…..Thats an awful long drive just for me to have dinner at the “Y”

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
5:02 pm

“Honey, it’s not just for bears!”

Leggs, there is your end of the day quote or this one:

“Life is a mosaic of pleasure and pain – grief is an interval between two moments of joy. Peace is the interlude between two wars. You have no rose without a thorn; the diligent picker will avoid the pricks and gather the flower. There is no bee without the sting; cleverness consists in gathering the honey nevertheless.”

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
5:05 pm

Awww, nice quote, PR. :)

And Simp, I think I kind of resent the “just dinner” comment. I mean, there’s dinner at Mickey D’s, and then there’s dinner at Bacchanalia…..

Celisea

July 25th, 2011
5:07 pm

Ut oh, somebody put Ghiridelli chocolates in the jar….UT OH

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
5:08 pm

Celisea, do it in moderation. Do not let your sweet tooth take over.

Celisea

July 25th, 2011
5:10 pm

PR – I ate only 2. White mint chocolates. Lawd deliver me :)

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
5:11 pm

I love those little Lindt truffles….have mercy, those things are good.