Mate debate: Can we find everything we want?
I’m not a big fan of dating checklists. I think they end up becoming an excuse not to give perfectly good candidates a real chance. I think we all have our preferences, and we definitely know what grabs our attention. I have to wonder though, how does that all come in to play when we actually meet the person who is ideal for us?
Do you think the person you really want and desiwav can have everything you ever wanted in a mate? Imagine the traits, character, looks, and even the body of your “Dream” mate. Would they want to be with you? Would you be a good match for them?
Do you think the people we are looking for actually exist? Would we recognize them right away or would we miss out because they don’t look/sound/behave the way we expected?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
3:44 pm
And Slim, for that scenario, you should borrow a trench coat…..
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:45 pm
I agree with UGA, if I am not comfortable enough to lick then I am not going to even stick.
Slim, use fruit rollups!
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:45 pm
ITL…no not really. Just hanging out together for fun mostly. May become serious but not know. Especially with football starting this week.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:46 pm
A little Kyro syrup and corn starch to make a paste. Put your boob in the freezer for a quick freeeze…I kid, I kid, kinda sorta!
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
3:47 pm
If I don’t feel like I wouldn’t go down on her I typically will not ….
Ok UGA…
So u go down on her(them) and hit Raw?
(at least if not true,that confirms that the Wang is sacred and protected limb!) so u good in my book…but I’m wondering till u respond!
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:48 pm
@ITL ~ not sure anyone would loan her a trenchcoat if they knew her plans….her nekkid booty cheeks all on the coat!
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:49 pm
Exiled…you lost me. English please.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
3:49 pm
I am SO READY for football! I can’t believe we (Ga) are kicking off in the dome against the smurf turf crew….
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:50 pm
ITL….AMEN!
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:50 pm
My wife would wear one of those dresses that you have to tie closed, she would have it draped over her shoulders while driving and when I flew into Atlanta airport she would not be curbside but over there where the shuttle vans were. I would call her and ask her where she is and she would tell me. By the time I got there she would be sitting there in the drivers seat with nothing but high heels on and a fancy bra. As soon as we hit the highway north I would snap that bra off and (I won’t go into details on what i would do before we got north of the city) pull over on I85 on the side of the road and have some fun.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
3:51 pm
LOL@Leggs. Probably would have to have it dry cleaned before returning it.
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
3:53 pm
ITL – I don’t have any Karo Syrup but i do have honey so that might be a plan
Leggs – Well, I do have this silky short robe that I could wear just to cover up with. I’d hate to have one of those airport bicycle cops telling me to move only to realize i’m nekkid and end up on Channel 2 news lol
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
3:54 pm
Purp – Is that something that actually happened or just a thought?
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
3:55 pm
UGA
do u hit them Raw after licking?
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:55 pm
Honey is better than Kyro syrup…..silky robe sounds like it can handle the job at hand.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:55 pm
Exiled….explain “Raw”?
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:55 pm
@SlimNU ~ re-read the post….it actually happened.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:55 pm
Slim, happened often.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:56 pm
UGA and Ex are having the craziest convo…
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
3:56 pm
Honey should work. Plus, fruit roll-ups are kinda sticky anyway…. Still think you should consider making a matching set for the top and bottom.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:56 pm
Leggs….I know right!
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
3:58 pm
So, now that we’re finished with “costume design”….what are you doing for set decoration, Slim?
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
3:58 pm
@PR ~ I apologize for answering for you.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:58 pm
I can not stress fruit rollups enough, when you get home you can even wrap some on “him”
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:59 pm
Leggs, it’s okay
Celisea
July 25th, 2011
3:59 pm
If riding almost nekkid, make sure it’s open front. You want accessiblility yet covered in case anything happens (i.e. accident, pulled over, etc) and good shoes to grip the gas pedal. It ain’t exactly easy to drive while getting felt up…just saying Pulled that from my archives. Oh and since it’s hot head on out to skinny dip while you’re at it…(night time is much better).
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:59 pm
PR….been there done that.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:01 pm
Celisea….you should really make your way up to Lake Lanier for a good weekend.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
4:01 pm
PR is right about fruit roll ups. That’s pretty much what they make the ones they sell at novelty stores from anyway.
So, PR, from a logistical standpoint – when you say pulled over on 85..you mean like right in the emergency lane??
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
4:02 pm
No condom = Raw
UGA come on!
no condom on the mouth
no condom on the stick
Raw!
?????
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
4:02 pm
Celisea, 3:59! Have I ever told you that I loved you?
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:03 pm
Quick poll…have any of the women on this blog ever been “watched” or do you like to be watched during the act….like public displays of affection.
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
4:03 pm
not sure anyone would loan her a trenchcoat if they knew her plans….her nekkid booty cheeks all on the coat
I was thinking the same thing…but I think i’m going to at least go with a skimpy wimpy see-through g-string
ITL – Set decoration?
Purp – I will be checking out the all new and improved Fruit Roll-Ups…i haven’t eaten any of those in years so i’m sure they have advanced & improved by now. lol I’m going to have to try them out tonight to make sure they stick for when I have to get him later in the week. (i hope he isn’t reading this blog lol)
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
4:04 pm
ITL, I yes a little farther than the emergency lane into the grass, if she were driving. Sometimes she would hop onthe passenger seat at the airport and It would drive while she had her way with me.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:04 pm
Exiled…no i typically use a condom.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
4:04 pm
Set decoration = the scene you’re going to set at home (or in the car)….
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
4:06 pm
ain’t exactly easy to drive……getting felt up..
@Celisea..
I just borrowed her soiled t-shirt…now taking a wiff
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
4:07 pm
@ITL ~ part of the set decoration with the the tar and white lines of the side of the road before reaching their final destination (LOLOLOL). Love
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
4:07 pm
Celisea – It’ll be a night since he’s coming in late but I was a bit concerned about the shoes part…I make it a point NOT to drive with my stilettos on so this’ll be interesting. Can’t very well pull up all sexy-like with one shoe on and one shoe off lol
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
July 25th, 2011
4:11 pm
SLIM….please fold a bit ot TP into a square and use tape if bandaids are not available to take the high beams off!
PURPLE…I dayum near choked on my tea on the Jason/Jessica…Hoyt dream!
LEGGS…I love to do the men’s dress shirt with a cute panty/bra set and my CFM shoes. It’s one of my favorite costumes. I remember wearing that for my ex with a derby hat. And I used 2 large feather burlesque fans and danced to, “Able Mable”.
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
4:12 pm
part of the set decoration with the the tar and white lines of the side of the road before reaching their final destination
Leggs – This ain’t your first rodeo….I was thinking the same thing
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:13 pm
BLack Magic…that is very sexy.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
4:13 pm
@Celisea ~ excellent tidbit on shoes that grip. Must have that easy access so keep it slightly open…
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
4:14 pm
ITL – Maybe I should lay a blanket down on the living room floor, sprinkle lots of condoms over the blanket (sort of like make-shift rose petals) and a big bottle of warming gel nearby.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:16 pm
The new Fire/Ice gel is GREAT!
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
4:18 pm
U alright there Leggs?
BlackMagicWoman...in NYC
July 25th, 2011
4:18 pm
UGA…thanks! I’m a dancer so I love to perform. But of course I love to perform for my signifcant other privately. That way…no matter which style I choose to dance, I end up naked and so does he. That particular ex, has had a private, ballet (pointe), burlesque, pole dance, belly dance and contemporary dance that all ended with happy endings.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:19 pm
Black Magic…he is a very lucky man then.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
4:19 pm
BMW: Very 9 1/2 weeks….. “You can leave your hat on…..”
Slim:
You could keep the fruit theme going with the Yours + Mine strawberry/chocolate. You could even have real chocolate-dipped strawberries on a pretty plate next to the blanket/bed if you were so inclined.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
4:21 pm
One time I spent a weekend at a resort with a lady friend. We ordered chocolate covered strawberries and all that jazz. I love taking champagne and pouring it over her lady parts while going down on her.