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Mate debate: Can we find everything we want?

I’m not a big fan of dating checklists. I think they end up becoming an excuse not to give perfectly good candidates a real chance. I think we all have our preferences, and we definitely know what grabs our attention. I have to wonder though, how does that all come in to play when we actually meet the person who is ideal for us?

Do you think the person you really want and desiwav can have everything you ever wanted in a mate? Imagine the traits, character, looks, and even the body of your “Dream” mate. Would they want to be with you? Would you be a good match for them?

Do you think the people we are looking for actually exist? Would we recognize them right away or would we miss out because they don’t look/sound/behave the way we expected?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:03 pm

I would rather talk about grooming instead of some whack job that murdered nearly 100 people.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
3:04 pm

ITL?

I did not swear…I just said it’s not a favorite of mine.

When I do go there,I make a prayer,grit my teeth,take a deep breath and then pray it helps the Wang get red hot!

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:05 pm

The name stuck the most will be Rick Ross. He has a thick, nice beard, but with a very unflattering gut. Looks like he’s about to give birth to an elephant.

:lol: Thanks ITL, was feeling a bit foolish…not the first time.

Oh abandoned air strip = good one!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

July 25th, 2011
3:06 pm

Yep Purple, since he’s still alive he needs the good ole medieval style torture.

1999
22 years what will they think of next.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
3:07 pm

ITL?

in comparison,I’m not in the zone(in my natural element) like Simple would be.. :lol:

Lovely Brown

July 25th, 2011
3:08 pm

PR- just the mention of Rick Ross make my CT dry up :lol: His breast are bigger than some women I know. Moobs (man boobs) for real!

Supposedly, the NFL has ended it’s strike…practice on Wednesday!!

Yay!!!

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:08 pm

Okay, Ex. You might consider, too, that we (women) tend to be more giving when the favor is reciprocated….. :) If that doesn’t fire up the red-hot poker, well…..

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:08 pm

I’m already have a bad cough, but truly chocking at Ex take a deep breath to please Queen…that is hysterical.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:10 pm

Please take it upon yourself to read y 3:08 with the proper wording…tk u.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:10 pm

Have moobs? Buy a bro…. (for you Seinfeld fans in the crowd)

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
3:11 pm

Exiled – Why you gotta hold the breath, is Queen not so fresh and clean down yonder?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:12 pm

Right, Leggs?? I had this mental image of Ex standing there, sweating profusely, staring down at Queen, wiping his brow, popping his neck, doing the “psych myself up” dance, and announcing, “Okay, I’m going in…..” LMAO

BlackMagicWoman...in NYC

July 25th, 2011
3:12 pm

UGA…I used to do a landing strip! Now…I go Brazillian! ;-)

I personally like a manscaped man. I do not fancy “Pub Dental Floss”. Not to mention it can get stuck in the throat and make you sound like a cat hacking up hairballs as you try to dislodge it. :lol:

I went to my first Korean Spa this weekend, And well my friends, and my 2nd mom and her friend were all shocked when we learned we had to be in our brown suits. I mena it was my girls’ bday. But dayum, we had NO idea that we had to be in our birthday suits to partake in the steam rooms and mineral pools. :shock: Those ladies had no problem walking around butt booty nekkid! Not that I was looking, but if you are in a pool and somebody walks by and all you see are untrimmed hedges….OMG! That is all I can say! It was an eventful day!

PURPLE….I don’t think Bill will get to kill Eric. Something/somebody (Sookie) will intervene.

ITL….Giiiiirrrrrl! That Alcide can get it on his mama’s kitchen table during breakfast! Whhhhhoooo! :lol:

ITL…I started getting down with a guy once…only to find he had moobs. Needless to say, I dried up like the friggin’ Sahara when I got that visual. No lovin’ for you “Moobie”! Now go put your “Manties” back on! :lol:

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:12 pm

Ok, here’s another one. You guys talking about Rick Ross, Chris somebody, airstrips, Rastas, etc. I thought about “tumbleweeds”…one that’s growing wildy and it’s overgrown. From the sound of the masses, no one wants a tumbleweed!

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:13 pm

If you have to hold your breath, you shouldnt be down there in the first place.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
3:13 pm

ITL?

To be honest with u,this is a foreign concept to both of us…

So she wld understand if I ever expressed those thoughts..

Ofcourse this is a nugget I’ve shared with u exclusively and Queen don’t know this.

I do know tho that she likes it

So I feign like I enjoy it…Rather,I enjoy the response of her nether..coz her nana hugs my Wang like a kangaroo kid on the back of her mama

Sweet Pea

July 25th, 2011
3:13 pm

hmmmmmm Leggs/ITL… now we know the names and can create a cheat sheet if need be..Thanks Purp :-) However, I was thinking an untrimmed below the hang would be called NUTBUSH… LOL

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:15 pm

@Ex ~ you might need a tumbleweed. It’s depth may help you with the fragrance. But, it also might hinder making you retreating for more ammunition.

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
3:17 pm

Slim?

No..I’m just trying to do a mental graphic..

Like if I said ‘Slim,eat this fufu’

U wldnt willingly partake wld u?

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:17 pm

BMW – there’s one here, off 85. Jeju, I think it’s called. The “common areas” are pretty cool, but yeah, you better be comfortable in the altogether during your time in the ladies area. :)

And Alcide + table + ITL = our own wolfpack. I just told someone at lunch I would have a litter for that man AN-E-DAY! :)

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:18 pm

“So I feign like I enjoy it…”

I see nothing wrong there…you’re doing it to please your wife. Kudos!

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:19 pm

LMAO @ tumbleweed and nutbush.

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:21 pm

Leggs….i like doing it…it pleases me and my significant other.

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
3:21 pm

Since you guys are getting a little spicy….Womenfolk, do you have any ideas of how to craft together some makeshift pasties? I know, strange request but I asked a few chicks at the office and masking tape is not the look I was going for.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:22 pm

UGA, you have a signficant other??? What does she think about team-mom meetings?

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:23 pm

ITL….she was a team mom….

Sweet Pea

July 25th, 2011
3:23 pm

Slim~double sided tape..the kind that’s used for scrapbooking(they are small squares of tape) or fabric tape

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:24 pm

Slim, depending on what size you need, how about the sticky circles you can buy at office supply stores? Other than that, I would say fabric circles and eyelash glue.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:25 pm

ITL….she was a team mom….

:shock:

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:27 pm

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:27 pm

@UGA ~ I don’t know many men who doesn’t like it. With Ex, I think it’s a cultural thing. I know men who want to part those lips with their tongue with the quickness. Hope that doesn’t come out sounding bad???

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:28 pm

THANK GOD FOOTBALL IS BACK…NFL AND GFL!

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
3:28 pm

ITL – Hmmm, that might work…I was thinking some artificial rose petals but wasn’t sure how I’d get them to stick…ok…so I just may have it figured out now. Thanks ;-)

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
3:31 pm

Slim, just cut up some fruit rollups, they make nice pasties.

UGA, I agree if you have to hold your breath you should not be down there.

BMW, I am hoping someone will kill Sookie or make her a vampire already. What about her brothers sex dream…”HOYT!” LOL

Sweet Pea, you are welcome :)

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:31 pm

@SlimNU ~ are you about to put on a show later on…rose petal pasties…that would be lumping under a blouse or top.

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
3:31 pm

Leggs, I am guilty of your 3:27. I just don’t feel right if I don’t often.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:31 pm

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:35 pm

Leggs…not bad at all….I agree.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:35 pm

I like the rose petal idea. You could make a matching thong to go with. Very American Beauty. :)

LOL@ the Hoyt dream, PR. “Um, could you leave us a alone for a minute?”

Exiled!

July 25th, 2011
3:37 pm

So UGA?

u have no issue going down on the rainbow of soccer moms u have bedded in Gwinnet parks?

no hangups?

Purple Rain

July 25th, 2011
3:37 pm

ITL, then Hoyt was on top of him, LOL

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:38 pm

Just curious, UGA, if they way/manner in which you got together ever causes trust issues….

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:40 pm

That was funny!! When the dream first started, I thought it would be Crystal and we were about to see Jason as a were-panther.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:41 pm

@SlimNu ~ how about going for edible pasties. Just a thought!

SlimNu

July 25th, 2011
3:42 pm

Leggs – Not putting on a show but The beau will be back from Miami this week and I have the pleasure of picking him up from the airport. He had mentioned a while back that I should pick him up wearing nothing but a trench coat, but I don’t own one. So I was just throwing some ideas around in my head because I know he’s forgotten he’s ever said that. Just joking around I told him he should come back commando but he was like I am NOT going thru TSA without any draws on :lol: But anyway, just wanted to catch him off guard when he hops in the ride :oops:

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:42 pm

That’s thought, SlimNu! I think Purp said fruit roll-ups, which would be excellent. You could use a dab of Karo syrup to help them stick.

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:42 pm

Exiled….in most cases no….I enjoy it. There may be a case or two that I wouldnt but if I dont feel like I would go down on her I typically will not entertain the idea of hooking up with her.

UGA 1999

July 25th, 2011
3:43 pm

ITL….I never said we were monogomous.

Into the Light

July 25th, 2011
3:44 pm

UGA – my bad. You said “significant other”, so I assumed commitment.

Leggs

July 25th, 2011
3:44 pm

A bit too hot for a trenchcoat, but loving the idea. Girl, can’t wait to implement have the stuff in my head.

In lieu of a trenchcoat wear a man’s long shirt, heels…hopefully you won’t have to get out of the car. Ok, that’s risky, but that’s what makes it so much fun!