Mate debate: Can we find everything we want?
I’m not a big fan of dating checklists. I think they end up becoming an excuse not to give perfectly good candidates a real chance. I think we all have our preferences, and we definitely know what grabs our attention. I have to wonder though, how does that all come in to play when we actually meet the person who is ideal for us?
Do you think the person you really want and desiwav can have everything you ever wanted in a mate? Imagine the traits, character, looks, and even the body of your “Dream” mate. Would they want to be with you? Would you be a good match for them?
Do you think the people we are looking for actually exist? Would we recognize them right away or would we miss out because they don’t look/sound/behave the way we expected?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:18 pm
This weekend I was at Lake Lanier (Sunset Cove). This woman and man were making out for awhile (no big deal). They she sat on the front of her boat (Facing the beach) and pulls her bathing suit to the side and shows everyone her goods. She was bald and wasted hahah.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:19 pm
Too funny because even they were “proud to show you that” bet you still take it!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:19 pm
1999:
I live with out it for hygiene purpose. Dirt clings to hair.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:20 pm
Leggs, bet you I don’t/won’t.
Lovely Brown
July 25th, 2011
2:21 pm
Ewww at any man running around looking like a 12 yr. old boy around the wang
None for me, Thanks.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:21 pm
Lovely Brown like ungroomed!! YUCK!
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:23 pm
Good grief. Must be the weekend for flashers. There was a woman at the pool this weekend who couldn’t seem to keep her top in place.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:23 pm
Lovely, not like a 12 year old just cleaned up. So you are saying that you like a manfro? You must get hairballs. LOL
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:23 pm
@UGA, how the heck can you say YUCK…you ever had one in your mouf??? Just asking
Lovely Brown
July 25th, 2011
2:23 pm
Not ungroomed….I just don’t need a man looking like a little boy down there
Not attractive to me at all
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:24 pm
Leggs….I have had an ungroomed woman before and yes I had her in my mouth and it was not very pleasant!
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:27 pm
Lovely, same reason I don’t want a completely bald woman.
Lovely Brown
July 25th, 2011
2:28 pm
Trimmed down is perfect…bald? Hell no.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:28 pm
I’m with LB on this one. Baldies and men needing a machete need not apply. LOL
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
2:28 pm
UGA?!
U compiling ur blog stats scouting report??
we got some of the best $&)&&& females on the blog!
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:29 pm
Wow, I prefer nothing down there. Just alot less messy.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:29 pm
LOL, Lovely don’t be afraid of the “Pube Mullet”
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:30 pm
Exiled???? Your point?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:31 pm
LOL….@Purple
Must be trimmed, who wants a mouth full of hair.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:32 pm
Although I guess it makes me a little hypocritical, bc what I like for/on a man is not necessarily what I like for myself.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:32 pm
Blackfoote….NO KIDDING!!!
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:33 pm
Is their pube mullet the same as our airstrip????
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:36 pm
Speaking of mullets (the above the neck variety) I saw a kid at the salon getting HER hair cut into a mullet the other day. PLEASE tell me that is not making a comeback.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:38 pm
Leggs a “Pube Mullet” is when the balls are shaved but they area above still has hair. The “Rick Ross” is when the area above is ball, but the ball sack is hairy. The “Chris Hanson” is when top and bottom are both bald.
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
2:39 pm
what point,I didn’t make any UGA
I aks(yes lol) a question.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:39 pm
Oh Snap, PR~ I wasn’t even thinking along those lines. Never once considered the balls. I need a refresher course on what it looks like down there.
Supposedly, the NFL has ended it’s strike…practice on Wednesday!!!!
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:39 pm
The “Rasta” is when it’s hairy top and bottom.
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:41 pm
Leggs, did you just ask me for a picture of my mullet? LOL
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:41 pm
Ewwwww on the Rasta.
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
2:42 pm
I can’t stand completely barren either…
feels like u licking chickin breast..a lil hair rub on my uugh is welcome.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:44 pm
@PR ~ don’t mean to show off my idiocy, but are those real names? I’ve heard of these people, but do people really get those looks. Nevermind, I’m now going under the stairs with my knees up to the chin rocking back and forth.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:46 pm
lip on lip is my thing….no hair needed.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:47 pm
@PR ~ sounds like I did, but didn’t mean to.
SlimNu
July 25th, 2011
2:48 pm
I don’t have an issue with a dude who is bald balled or balled wanged or bald360…just as long as if there IS hair, that it is at least trimmed up nice & neatly.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:49 pm
Did that Norwegian guy kill 68 people? Is that what I heard on the news?
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:50 pm
I dont mind a small landing strip on a lady as long as it is well maintained.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:51 pm
I heard somewhere around 93 or 98, mostly children.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:51 pm
Mostly students, WTH.
Exiled!
July 25th, 2011
2:51 pm
UGA u heard the report on CNN over the week end that said women are the most prolific texsexters of veejay veejay goodies?
Women are leading from the coochie!
If u don’t like my body nor my face guess what? U may like the shape of my salad!
that’s being proactive right there!
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
2:52 pm
Exiled….nice.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:52 pm
What 93 or 98, what hell was he using hand grenades?
Celisea
July 25th, 2011
2:52 pm
I saw the story on GMA while getting dressed this morning.
Leggs
July 25th, 2011
2:53 pm
If it’s not maintained, UGA, it’s not an airstrip, it’s a fuzzy, unshapely bush.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:54 pm
Exiled, what is this about licking chicken? I thought you were on a chicken-free meal plan….
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:56 pm
LOL @ Leggs’ 2:53: “it’s a fuzzy, unshapely bush.”….suitable only for emergency landings….
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
2:56 pm
Leggs it could be an abandoned air strip. LOL
Those are real names that I just made up that are forever stuck in your head now. LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
July 25th, 2011
2:59 pm
Wow how can you kill nearly 100 people and not get taken out by the cops? Now he is saying there are two more like him, he shouldn’t be allowed to play those games. My gun would mysteriously go off in his nose.
Into the Light
July 25th, 2011
2:59 pm
I’m glad you asked, Leggs. I was confused on the name thing….
Purple Rain
July 25th, 2011
3:01 pm
Hey may be more valuable alive than dead. Torture him to see if there really are two more like him. Extremist come from every religion, he says he is a christian. I don’t care what point you are trying to make, killing innocent people does not help your cause.
UGA 1999
July 25th, 2011
3:01 pm
The most he can get is 22 years in jail.