Friends don’t let friends cheat
I recently read an article about a groom to be who hooked up with a stripper at his bachelor party. Apparently, it was suggested/cheered on/witnessed by his friends to have one final romp. I thought about what kind of predicament the man found himself in and almost felt bad for the guy. Almost.
I mean if he stood his ground and said no, absolutely not, what is the worst that would have happened? He would have been clowned and maybe endure a few jokes about it. In my female and totally logical mind (ha), that is a small price to pay.
I am curious as to why people encourage someone to cheat on their mates. If you decide on your own, that’s one thing. Why go out of your way and prod a friend to do the same?
It may seem like this happens among males more but I think females are guilty of it just as much.
Do you think too many of us encourage, support, and condone infidelity?
When you are dating someone, do you ask them if they have ever cheated or been unfaithful? Do you find out what their views are about infidelity? What if all or most of their friends were unfaithful to their mates?
Happy Friday!
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272 comments Add your comment
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:05 pm
Oh my Lord…I’m eating Pistachio Cake from this place we ate. First time having….to die for.
Sweet Pea
July 22nd, 2011
4:06 pm
your eyesight not an eyesight…
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:07 pm
I can’t imagine hitting my child that hard let alone in her face. I grew up slapped left and right. I vowed I would never do that if I had children and I haven’t done it.
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:07 pm
Yes Celisea they are getting so big so fast n early. One day at Walmart I saw this older guy hittin on a child..she had a body on her but she was a child and she looked at me with fear in her eyes. Before I knew it I told that guy,”Why are you hitting on this child?!…you’re wrong and nasty and need to walk away before I alert security!” He countered with,”I was trying to see who she was on the phone with”, so I said “You’re a pedophile and a liar…a BAD liar and @##$%%^^*&&$%^”. I got a little carried away cause she looked like a deer in headlights.
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:09 pm
Reminds me of the time my mother had my younger brother hold his hand over the open flame on the stove for burning down a bldg. I thought that was so cruel and stood in the middle of the kitchen crying! It didn’t teach him a lesson because he then burned our couch! Mama nearly killed that boy!
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:12 pm
Yeah we had that old school discipline,too. Now-a-days if you even threaten them with a whoopin you can go to jail.
Sweet Pea
July 22nd, 2011
4:12 pm
Leggs~that was brutal, and I agree with your post.
Celisea~Have you tried any desserts from Southern Sweets Bakery in Decatur near the Farmers Market? Vanilla Bean and Caramel are my favs there! Pistachio sounds delicious!
Sassy~Get em’….It is disgusting to see guys gawking at kids….that is why I make sure my daughters are dressed appropriately although they are some well developed kids out there…they can’t help it but these perverted men can!
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:14 pm
Sassy – ”Why are you hitting on this child?!…you’re wrong and nasty and need to walk away before I alert security!”
That’s a dang shame….ain’t no telling what else
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:16 pm
Sweet Pea – I haven’t but sometime ago, I think somebody mentioned a bakery in Decatur. This is sooo good. It’s very light, not too heavy.
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:24 pm
It is disgusting to see guys gawking at kids….
It is! It was like a relfex or something when I looked into her eyes and she looked back at me like “help me”…it is indeed a shame.
Celisea what was the name of that drink you said was kinda like the lemon drop?..at least I think it was you that mentioned it..
Sweet Pea
July 22nd, 2011
4:26 pm
This is sooo good…Girl, stop the teasing! I love Pistachio gelato so I am sure the cake is delish!
It’s been fun blogging with everyone! Have a cool and relaxed weekend Blog Fam!!
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:28 pm
Hope you enjoy your weekend as well, Sweet Pea!
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:28 pm
Byyy eeeee Sweet Pea!!
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:28 pm
Sassy – I think ITL mentioned Lemon Drop…I think it was her.
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:29 pm
A good weekend to you Sweet Pea…stop by the bakery
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:31 pm
Well I think I’m going to head on out,too. Today’s walk down memory lane was indeed fun. Now I wonder who’s gonna have fish n grits and fried bologna sandwiches this weekend…I’m sure nuff having some fish n grits in the morning and thinking about y’all as I prepare it
Have a great weekend everybody!!
Sassy Black..Who gone check me BOO? ;-)
July 22nd, 2011
4:32 pm
Oh okay Celisea, thank you.
Celisea
July 22nd, 2011
4:34 pm
I’ll be here…boo hoo I got work up to my elbows. Being gone 4 hours sure didn’t help…
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:36 pm
Yes indeed. Walking down memory lane mostly put a smile on my face.
Purple Rain
July 22nd, 2011
4:45 pm
Hello all, how’s the day?
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:45 pm
I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend. Drink plenty of liquids cuz it’s gonna be a scorcher!
“Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see.”
PEACE!
Leggs
July 22nd, 2011
4:46 pm
Daggoneit, I broke my own rule!